Amen! I'm almost 6 feet tall but only 125 lbs, it runs in the family but I still get people who tease me. One person told me to eat a pound of bacon because I was "too skinny". I like my weight and I don't feel I need to gain or loose weight.
people don't realize that being called too skinny is like calling someone overweight "you're too fat." i'm 5'8 and weigh 110 pounds... i'm not anorexic, i just had surgery over the summer and lost weight and it was hard to get my apetite back. everybody says i'm "too skinny" and that i need to "eat more". it honestly hurts people like that.. i pretty much cry every night, you know? honestly, i think she looks great.
Making fun of anyone for their weight is wrong, no matter what size they are, but I'm a naturally thin person and I've noticed that it seems more socially acceptable for people to come up to your face and say something nasty about you if you're thin than if you are a larger person. I know that larger people still get more crap but it is generally seen as mean to say something to a larger person but then it seems more socially acceptable to say something mean to a thin person.
omg finally ppl that i can relate too im 17 5'4 and 107 pds i want to be like 120 does anyone have ANY ADVICe ON HOW I CAN GET BIGGER PLZ!! IVE BEEN LIL ALL MY LIFE AND IM TIREEDD OF IT:('
i wish i looked like u. im 92lbs and i need to gain but its absolutely impossible for me. i guess ill always be underweight and for now im okay with that. and its sooo true. people come up to me and say "wow ur so skinny, are u anorexic or bulimic? you need to eat more. thats why your so skinny" well should i go up to them and say wow ur so fat u need to lose weight. no. if i could gain weight i could but i cant so sorry.
I used to be anorexic and lost a lot of weight, going from a bit chubby to stick thin. I've moved past my disorder and put on a healthy amount of weight and eat enough now, but I'm still on the thin side because I lift weights and need a lot of calories. What pisses me off is that people comment on how thin I am now and tell me to eat more (even though those people don't ever watch me eat) now that I'm healthy, but never said anything when I was sick.
I am under weight.. people seam to want to justify their looks by calling me anorexic.. its just as rude to call someone skinny as I is to call someone fat.
im skinny. i get it all the time, people at work, tell me you need to eat more, or are you loseing more lbs....im sooo sick of it, and i have a friend thats like really fat, and i never see anyone tell him he needs to lose some lbs,
im 15 years young...and ive been skinny all my life and unhealthy...i eat alot then i dont eat anything at all...sometimes...i dont eat regularly and i dont eat the daily meal...mainly noodles.. soup.... everyonce in a while i get a piece of meat if im lucky...and or doughnuts and fatty foods...i stress alot too. im only about 90 95 pounds or less.i havenot weighed myself for about a year now...my highest weight was 104 and a size 3 jean...my jeans keep falling off of me and my shirts are loose?
these video and comments are what made my day, I feel normal hear as a very-skinny person ... what really kills me is that when people make jokes about me being skinny, I start to laugh as I feel like it's the only way to get out of such embarrassing and awkward moment and that thing makes them think I'm "soul-less" (both physically and emotionally) so they keep joking about me ... it's so much hurting :(
I'm naturally skinny too. I am 14, and I weigh 92 pounds. I never really thought much of it until this one girl came up to me and said "OMG YOU'RE SO SKINNY!"
It really hurt :(
And ever since then I've been really insecure about it. I eat SO MUCH but hardly gain any weight. Just because I'm skinny doesn't mean I don't have feelings. I am human, so why would someone say that? It really hurts ... :'(
@xxsashiewashiexx i'd just like you to know that i am 17years old, 5'9" tall and 102lbs. im often mocked and called anorexic, bulemic, etc...to my face. people just come up to me and they're like "oh my gosh, you need to learn to eat" or "how much do you weigh?" and "are you sick?" . . what I've learned is if you walk around all the time feeling "too skinny" and ugly, you will always see yourself this way. What YOU think is what matters. . love yourself and people who matter will love you too..
I am 23, 5" 11 and i weigh 100lbs. All my life i've been teased about being skinny. I've endured strangers stop, stare and say i shouldn't wear certain clothes (meaning pants) because i'm too thin. I've met ppl who said that "u're cute but too skinny or if you were a little fatter". My sis tells me i need to love myself the way i am but it's hard becuz i've endured so much over the years. Anyway i still struggle with my image but i'm starting to learn 2 luv myself. I enjoyed this vid.
far out i thought i was the only person who thought it was mean for people to tell me i look anorexic...theres heaps of help sites and books about helping people overcome thinking their fat but NONE for people who cant gain weight. i eat HEAPPPPS today for breakfast i had 5 timtams and 8 wheatbix...not cause i wanted to be fatter ( i do) but just cause i was hungry... im 14...i weigh 32kg. and people always say in look anorexic and it really makes me hurt...like if you agree :)
I'm a bit jealous of your small waist and thighs ._. I'm technically 2lbs underweight(not much but it's where I've stayed for the past year give or take 2lbs depending on certain things) but I would have to be 80lbs or less before I got thin legs like that without surgery and not about to do either :s
You look pretty damn fine to me! A 31yrs woman who's had two dustbin-lids and your naturally 7st. That means your like never ever going to be overweight...EVER!!! You fancy getting married! :)
I am the same way. I HATE it. I feel like I always have to wear a jacket and jeans because when I wear a normal pants and shorts, people will say "Oh my god, I feel like if I touch your arms they'll break." I mean WHATTHEFUCK? I'm 13 and I weigh 73.8 lbs. It's not fair. I don't eat ALOT but it's not like I eat NOTHING. I feel so insecure and I hate my body. I didn't mind my size till 7th grade, that's when the judging began. Now I wont step foot outside without a jacket. :(
@alyvally102 Im the SAME way, its stupid... i cant walk across the room without hearing " oh my gosh shes so skinny, she must be anorexic!" umm, no i eat alot of food! (im 15 and i weigh 81 pounds) but anyways keep your head up babygirl:) appreciate who you are, it helps.
@alyvally102 I'm trying to understand you, I was hmmm, fat as a child and I hated it as well -.-" but, maybe it won't help you, there are so many girls who would like to look anorexic or super skinny without starving :( so... look at your body from this point of view. and, you know, you're 13, everything can change. ;)
OMG I am skiny and everyone is telling me ooo youre too skiny, why are you so skiny?I have 2 ants that are complaining that they are too fat and they always bug me with too skiny thing, is just who I'm am, I am 1.76 m and 53 kg and I just can't gain weight, but i'm telling you boys like me so stop telling me what to do
EMBRACE THE HATERADE!!! of course people will talk about you being to thin because thin is THE IDEAL! people talk shit about anything and everything to feel better about themselves and thats how it will always be BE HAPPY THAT YOU CAN EAT WHATEVER YOU WANT AND STILL BE THIN ALMOST EVERYONE OUT THERE WOULD KILL TO BE THAT WAYI LIVE IN A DIET HELL TO STAY THIN AND IF PEOPLE WANT TO TALK SHIT LET THERE LAZY FAT ASSES TALK!!!
why would someone tell someone else that they are too skinny? they probably want to convince the person that they're too skinny and that they should gain weight. for what? if the person is convinced that they're too skinny, they will probably gain weight and not like it. so what's the point of trying to stop somebody if they are already happy? being skinny is not a bad thing.
i dont think people understand how horrible being really skinny is.
im 15 & im like 5'1 and like 86 pounds. i fucking hateeee it. thats just how i am. my mom was the exact same way.i eat&eat&eat hoping to gain weight but i dont. it sucks. being super skinny isnt attractive.guys dont like super skinny girls. so it hurts when people tell me everytime they just meet me "omg your so tiny! you are so skinny!" im just sick of it. they always say they "wish" they were as skinny as me. they have noclue
@patrickthestarfishy I Totally Understand,I Mean Im Shocked Guys Find Me Attractive cause i weigh the same amount as u,but im 13&im a lil taller but still,i really try to gain weightt"/
@patrickthestarfishy ugh i have the exact same issue except im 5'2 and wigh 88 and i know for sure because i went to the doctor and they weighed me... but yea bottom line is it does suck to be like this :/ ... msg and ill tell you how im gainig musle and my family says i look better so just saying maybe i can help :]
Personally I prefer naturally skinny women.They are more likely to maintain a health weight.Those curvy women only need to get pregnant once and from that moment on it's like they're pregnant forever
I feel for you!! I've been having the same issues ever since I was in elementary school (I'm 28 now)!! I've always been naturally tall and thin and even now I still get picked on! I get so tired of hearing, "Don't you ever eat?" or "You probably don't eat meat, do you?" or even, "You'd look better with a few more extra pounds." I mean, really? That stuff hurts...seriously. :( We can't help what we look like. Quit with the rude comments people and just be happy with what God gave you!
im the same way. I eat a lot but i never gain weight. Ppl 4get that some ppl are naturally thin. When they see thin ppl they think "oh they must not eat, they need a burger". Smh the hollywood image has made it even worse
women get it in their head that men are constantly disgusted with the way they look when its just not true. the thing that disgusts men is a woman who is constantly not shy about how they look
I'm very thin. Naturally. One of my friends call me "skinny mini" I know its a joke. But when people are constantally saying "you need to get some meat on those bones" its annoying. In a way I guess I like it though. Its better then being called fat at least.
man that's so annoying and rude the "more meat on ur bones" like it's not ur fault ur naturally thin. Ppl are just jealous. I hope you stay thin and don't let ppl pressure you to eating more.
I''ve caught hell my whole life over my weight and I so so understand this. The stairs, the comments, "eat a sandwich, need to put some meat on those bones, do you eat" uhhhhhhh Some people don't even think about the crap coming out of their mouths ya know. Just because your thin doesn't mean it's a free for all on shitty comments.
It annoying being naturally slim and healthy and having people make negative comments about your weight. Look at photos of people 50 years ago and you'll see a lot more slim people than today. We look thin only by comparison with the fatter "normal" today.
Maybe it's time for another T-shirt that says "Do I make you look fat?"
finally someone who speaks out :) besides if others think you're skinny then why are they so into reading all the latest "how to get skinny" articles?
I feel uncomfortable going to the gym sometimes. I feel like everyone is staring and thinking that I am obsessed with being thin... when the truth is, I hardly ever go.
I was premature at birth. I am sick of people saying im so freakin skinny. they dont need to remind me. It really hurts my feelings and it makes me want to be fat. I cant help the way i am.
I'm really skinny. I eat ok enough. I eat. thats the main thing. in the first year of high school, when getting changed for PE, someone asked me if I was anorexic. It really hurt me, as I would never dream of not eating. anyway, I'm in 4th year of high school now, and the matter seems to have dropped a bit. my wrists are still really thin, and every now and again, people stare are me, or wrap their hands round my wrists, its like, leave me alone! I want to get fatter, but not unhealthily. tips?x
well one tip i have is getting some muscle. You are right people shouldnt judge you for being the way you are but it is important to be healthy and being too thin or too fat are both unhealthy. I used to be overweight, and then i dropped alot and became underweight. I am now just right I eat healthy exersize and I am fit. Being fit is one of the best things you can be and so i would suggest eating healthy and doing some working out and you should be good.
I remember elementary school when people used to bother me about being thin. I wore 6-7 pairs of stockings each day to make them shut the fuck up. But then when it would be summer Id go home with a rash on my legs because it was soo hot and I was wearing too many stockings. Im traumatized when i walk outside. If someone looks at me for more than 20 sec i start to think they are thinking about my skinnyness. It sucks it really does. and it fuckin pisses me off how ignorant people are
I agree with her. I'm a size 10, and i'm sick of this whole body issue. I love myself the way I am, why shouldn't thin people too? Women need to quit being bitches to each other. If you love your body thin, GREAT! If you love your body thicker, GREAT! Love yourself, for fucks sake, stop judging people by who's too fat, or too thin. Mind your own damn body.
I don't care how fat or thin other people are, and I wouldn't comment on their weight unless it was to compliment them. Putting people down about their weight seems to have become a socially acceptable cruelness, but I think it's harsh. I hate how magazines have made peoples weight news. When did it become such a big deal?
it's really annoying when people say you're skinny even though you're not! i swear i'm not skinny! i'm 4 ft 9 1/2 and weigh 78 lbs! that's a healthy weight for me. i eat a lot too!
I know what you mean im nabout 5.5 stone and im 14 WOW people emmiadatly think im anorexic. This gir actually said to my face are you anorexic and i said NO I DO EAT and she just stared at me as if i was lieing. My actual true friends call me a pig (jokin) Coz i eat so much, people just jump to conclusions if your skinny! aarrrgghhh so annoying!
I can't gain any weight no matter how much I eat. People used to tell me I can't ever have kids because I was too skinny. Well, I have four boys, all naturally, and all full term and healthy. And two of them are a set of twins at full term which my doctor said it was his easiest delivery of twins in his 35 years of work.
To all my naturally skinny people out there: Don't get depressed by the negativity and put-downs! Just keep eating healthy like you always have and keep smiling.
same with me i have been trying too get fatter but i cant and school lunches are so expensive and cant eat at school so i eat at home and people al school think im annerexic personnally i think im fine i mean i cant help it if im skinny
I am not naturally skinny! But I have sturgled with an eating disorder in my teenage years. I was anorexic. And guess what (im a guy) but I am not gay. At the time all the young cute women were going for really small boys. So thats who I was trying to be. But I was underweight and yes.. I did acheive being too skinny for quite a few months and I got the same critisism from people. I looked just like you except in male form. So even though im not naturally skinny. I know exactly what your saying
I used to be thin thin thin and I never got the end of it! I force fed myself cookies and candy to gain weight and it NEVER worked. I know it sounds ridiculous that a skinny person would cry over their body, but it happens. Getting told you look like your going to die isn't good for your self esteem.
naturally skinny girls get critisied and told to eat more food and that is mean. but sometimes people are actually cocerned for your health and ask if you are ill. but being fat or chubby cant be that great either. when your fat you get told to go on a diet. i think overall being too skinny or overweight you get alot of critism to your face and behind your back.
I am sorry that you are frustrated. The world is stuck on analyzing people's bodies. Please do not get it twisted and think people do not say anything to fat people in their face. They get the same amount of remarks.
Sorry, since I"ve been fat since puberty this is hard for me to sympathize with. I would give a lot, lot, lot for someone to actually say I was too skinny. Won't ever happen.
People don't appreciate that having your appearance criticized is awful for whatever reason, but it seems more "politically correct" to pick on people who are thin. Being told you're too skinny is just as upsetting as being told you're too fat.
I just took off my jacket in college class yesterday im a guy and weigh 45 kg, I was BOMBARDED with comments like 'you're so skinny!' but luckily i replied well and said :Why do you need to say that? You're skinny and then I said shut up. And he didn't say a word after that. And the somalian guy who was sitting next to me was also skinny. And he was wearing a jacket. I kind of bullied him as revenge and told him to take off his jacket :P.He took it off and was skiinny aswell :P
(My comment continued) Owyeah the somalian guy felt really uncomfortable, but after that they stopped making comments. People are real Hypocrites sometimes and you just need to be upfront to them and HUMILIATE them. Thats what i did with the somalian guy. I know it is like bullying but they were kind of bullting me and I made him feel how I felt by pressuring him to take off his jacket.
I understand this. Although I've gained a little weight, I'm still pretty thin and used to be veryyy thin. People used to say really harsh things to me on a regular basis. I used to and still do eat anything I like. I do no exercise but probably eat around 3500 ore more calories some days.
orrrrr it must be so tough for her. At least she can eat loads to get fat but fat people have to diet and go thro bullying like me i have been thro bullying for being fat then i turned anorexic so people dont just say it to fat people behing their backs.
I understand what she is saying but she is totally ignorant of other people! She says people only say things about fat people behind their backs which is total rubbish! They get much worse, if a person is too skinny they are not totally insulted, when someone asks if she is ill or has seen as Dr it is not being rude; calling her names or shouting things at her without knowing her at all.
yes they are totally insulted. i have been for the last ten years... with just the same amount of hurtful words that are said to a person who is over weight. what is being said here is that there is no difference for an under weight person and an over weight person, if people left us alone then maybe we would be happy with the way we are regardless of our size.
i know exactly what your talking about people are always comming up to my sister and me and saying we are way to thin and that we need to go eat a hamburger...i always tell them that i just finnished eating a large pizza and that i love the way my body looks because this is the body god gave me. that usually shuts them up..i totaly agree with you that the media has way to much influence over what is the right way to look...
Cant the media realise, Nicole Richies famous "beach pics" are an example of Unhealthy Thin. This woman is an example of a Healthy Thin. A lot of people say Nicole Richie looked beautiful when she was pregnant. In my own opinion, Nicole is a beautiful girl, but her thin figure makes her look very very ill. Mainly because she isn't a naturual skinny. You can tell because before when she was in a band or something like that she was actually curvy but gorgeous at a size 10.
It is very annoying when skinny people get unwanted critism. I get this a lot because I'm naturally thin. People do this to make themselves feel better. I feel like saying to them why don't u go and look in the mirror as your not so bloody perfect yourself?
people dont really take notice of it unless they experience it...it sucks......i mean...i hear "curvy" girls call skinny girls sticks,beampoles...would you call a fat girl...whales?...or fatass? ..no ..its rude either way...because belive it or not there are somegirls out there who cant gain weight.
Actually, I was taking some pictures with a friend of mine during the fall season and some guys walked by and said "lose some weight fatty!" ahem...I would say that's pretty in your face. I would say overweight and underweight people get the same amount of criticism. The media talks about losing weight on this diet or that diet far more often then, "men like curvier girls, not bony girls" a new diet comes out every month as opposed to the twice a year comparing of thin girls to curvy girls...
@pendergast65 actually lol I'm not even "fat" my BMI is like 22 but i get called a hippo and a whale, not saying its ok to be nasty to skinny people, but it does happen.
I have several naturally skinny friends and my husband is also naturally skinny-you're right, they get abuse as much as fat people. It's the flip side of the same coin, and it's all bad. OF COURSE the media and advertising industry feed eating addictions!!
I'm naturally skinny, but i'm not naturally reallllyy skinny. I'm just thin. i'm kinda over it, and for me it's not 'soo hard' being skinny. it's just bleh. whatevr. but ppl are used to be since ive been this way since 5th grade.
i have the same problem it makes me feel like shit when people make comments about how skinny i always get remarked on at school about if i eat or whatever i eat all the time and ive actually tried to gain wait but nothing happens im 14
i am 20 years old but i look like 16. im 166 cm tall and i weihg 43 kilos, im so ashamed of my body for years now coz ive been teased my whole life! this week i went outside wearing a skirt and i felt so ashamed coz there will always be people that stare at you and whisper things, but from now on i will wair the sleeveless tops and the skirts :)
Thank you! Finally someone said it!!! It is so wrong that people like her and me get critized openly and that's socially acceptable. Yet if you do critize a fat person openly everyone thinks you're an ass! I'm 5'9" 113lbs and I am naturally thin. I am sick to death of people asking me if I have an eating disorder! It's like no, this is what normal looks like!!!
I always get teased by kids at school asking me if i ever eat anything its really harsh and makes me feel bad and boys in my class always call me ugly and stuff it really sucks thats why i dont like my school but i dont think you are too skinny i think you are very beautiful the way you are
you are beautiful i hate this victimisation of naturally slim people it makes me angry. The media is to blame with their highlighting of the so called size '0', they actually created a bigger problem of targetting healthy young girls who are naturally slim.Many models in the industry are there because they are naturally tall/slim its about time the media opened their eyes and see this..
2. You wouldn't understand unless you yourself dealt with this type of ignorance. My girlfriend is very petite and gorgeous but every now and then she comes home practically in tears because some jerk decided to walk up to her and measure her arms and ask if she shops in the children's section. Not cool.
No. She is obviously not "used" to it which I explained in my post above. The best way to explain this is to ask you to think about something that you are insecure about and how you would feel if various strangers felt that it was okay to point it out in a not very nice way. You wouldn't go up to an overweight person, measure their arms and ask if they shop in the "fat" section now would you?
To your second question I had already assumed that petite and short kind of went hand in hand...???
AHH. Exactly. exactly. I look about 14 too, and i'm almost 17. I know how you feel. us naturally skinny girls will have it better in the long run i think though.
yeh, im kind of skinny too. When i was younger(10-14) it was more importaint subject, and i really had low self esteem because of that what ppl told me for several years, until i got old enough to see that actually most of ppl told me ugly things because of envyness. Now im 16 years old ,5'8 and 111 lbs, im not so skinny anymore, but still underweight. In Estonia (and in EU) it is not so rare to be thin, but i probably would have much more problems in USA.
I have the same problem. I'm almost 22, 5ft 3 and only weigh around 6st 3lbs. I hate it, it makes me feel ugly. I get nasty comments from people all the time about my weight. People don't hold back at all. The media do make it worse, like Sarah said in her video, it's always in magazines telling us how disgusting it is to be so thin. Something should really be done about that. No-one should have to put up with constant name calling whatever their size.
i am 15, weigh 6 stone 12 and get sterotyped ALL the time that i am anorexic and stuff and im fed up with it!
i eat so much and it just doesnt go anywhere!
i am happy with my body, and theres not many woman and girls out there who is, and then these magazines go and print 'fact most men hate skinny babes' completly knocks my confidence!
i m skinny too and i hate it-- people call me anorexic and all of that... its hard for me to gain weight too because of my high metabolism ! i m 13 i m 5 '1 and weigh 87:/
i'm natural skinny too, but it depends what you eat. I've started to gain weight by eating low fat/high protein food and a 3 times/week exercises. it works for me try it
This is the way I look as well, I dont diet etc but people make such a massive deal about my weight and size that now I'm obsessed with how thin I am. If I were to ever gain weight you can bet that I'd probably turn anorexic because thats just me the skinny girl - thats how I'm defined. I used to hate being skiny and different to all my other friends now I love it. sigh....
I love you. I'm 13 and natural very skinny. I totally understand what your saying! Please dont give up on this. We need people like you to defend people like us that are just naturaly skinny and get teased for that.
It's like revenge of the skinny, revenge of the curvy, revenge of the over-weight, it goes around in circles, ALL women are victims, not one body type seems to be left be. We need to STOP buying and reading the mind meddling magazines and get on with our lives without this obsession of generalizing what men like. I bet half the magazine are done by people insecure with their image. To put it simple all men like different things and vanity is destroying us all.
I totally agree with you. I'm a middle aged man and weigh 11 stone, so whats my problem. Non now. But when I was at school and as a teenager and as a young man I couldn't get above 9st even if I tried. I even tried as a teenage a suppliment called Super Weight On. I could be ridiculed by both sexes but mostly by males.
I was sitting in the doctors the other day and all the magazines were woman's magazines. While waiting to see the Doc I browsed through a a few. After reading them I began to realise why many women have (the ones I know)have little confidence in themselves.
There's nothing wrong with fashion but these magazines ask woman to do the impossible. It is sad that these magazines stereotype what type of women men like. I for one don't go around carrying a measuring tape nor do most males I have known over the years. Yet these magazines certainly give this impression
I think if we are all honest with ourselves we all suffer from vanity, as a male I find I can laugh it off but for women it takes over their entire lives trying to achieve what they perceive to be perfection.
According to the women's magazines if males only attracted to one particular female shape then why are there so many adult websites specialising in so many different bodily shapes. Some males like large women, some like skinny women, some like large breasts some like small breasts, the list is endless. To me variety is the spice of life.
And BTW you look terrific but so did my ex girl partner and she was 15 stone. Broke my heart when she left me. Ahh but that was a few years ago, time to move on. I said to a girlfriend of mine they have banned smoking isn't it time they banned these woman's magazines. Ok I only mean it tongue in cheek as I'm against censorship, however it would be up to woman to stop buying this garbage.
Remember even for men the whole is worth more than the sum of it's parts. I.e. men do not find women attractive purely on their physical appearance and vice versa. In short what attracts us to each other is much more complicated then these woman's magazines would have us believe.
Doc, how did you increase your mass? I can eat and eat but nothing happens. I've highly busy and have a lot of pressure on my mind and highly active. But there's got to be something.
Amen! I'm almost 6 feet tall but only 125 lbs, it runs in the family but I still get people who tease me. One person told me to eat a pound of bacon because I was "too skinny". I like my weight and I don't feel I need to gain or loose weight.
LilDisgruntledTurtle 1 month ago
people don't realize that being called too skinny is like calling someone overweight "you're too fat." i'm 5'8 and weigh 110 pounds... i'm not anorexic, i just had surgery over the summer and lost weight and it was hard to get my apetite back. everybody says i'm "too skinny" and that i need to "eat more". it honestly hurts people like that.. i pretty much cry every night, you know? honestly, i think she looks great.
Strawberry1139 2 months ago
she may be right but we all honestly wish we looked like her
OhhCathy 2 months ago
You know how a lot of girl will cry when they get called fat? I feel like crying when I get called skinny.
Ziffelzoovop 3 months ago
@Ziffelzoovop same here... :/
Strawberry1139 2 months ago
this is great! way to stand up for yourself and others like you!
loloj7 4 months ago
@loloj7 i totally agree!!
lostlittlegurlygurl 4 months ago
Making fun of anyone for their weight is wrong, no matter what size they are, but I'm a naturally thin person and I've noticed that it seems more socially acceptable for people to come up to your face and say something nasty about you if you're thin than if you are a larger person. I know that larger people still get more crap but it is generally seen as mean to say something to a larger person but then it seems more socially acceptable to say something mean to a thin person.
Kyasurin 4 months ago
people saying your are to thin or skinny, just because they are jeaoulos that they can't look like the skinny ones
avnergeifman 7 months ago
omg finally ppl that i can relate too im 17 5'4 and 107 pds i want to be like 120 does anyone have ANY ADVICe ON HOW I CAN GET BIGGER PLZ!! IVE BEEN LIL ALL MY LIFE AND IM TIREEDD OF IT:('
334pretty 7 months ago
i wish i looked like u. im 92lbs and i need to gain but its absolutely impossible for me. i guess ill always be underweight and for now im okay with that. and its sooo true. people come up to me and say "wow ur so skinny, are u anorexic or bulimic? you need to eat more. thats why your so skinny" well should i go up to them and say wow ur so fat u need to lose weight. no. if i could gain weight i could but i cant so sorry.
hopingforfame101 8 months ago
I used to be anorexic and lost a lot of weight, going from a bit chubby to stick thin. I've moved past my disorder and put on a healthy amount of weight and eat enough now, but I'm still on the thin side because I lift weights and need a lot of calories. What pisses me off is that people comment on how thin I am now and tell me to eat more (even though those people don't ever watch me eat) now that I'm healthy, but never said anything when I was sick.
xroflknifex 8 months ago
I am under weight.. people seam to want to justify their looks by calling me anorexic.. its just as rude to call someone skinny as I is to call someone fat.
VictoriaRosification 9 months ago
@VictoriaRosification yup,very true
lostlittlegurlygurl 4 months ago
im skinny. i get it all the time, people at work, tell me you need to eat more, or are you loseing more lbs....im sooo sick of it, and i have a friend thats like really fat, and i never see anyone tell him he needs to lose some lbs,
splintercell186 10 months ago
im 15 years young...and ive been skinny all my life and unhealthy...i eat alot then i dont eat anything at all...sometimes...i dont eat regularly and i dont eat the daily meal...mainly noodles.. soup.... everyonce in a while i get a piece of meat if im lucky...and or doughnuts and fatty foods...i stress alot too. im only about 90 95 pounds or less.i havenot weighed myself for about a year now...my highest weight was 104 and a size 3 jean...my jeans keep falling off of me and my shirts are loose?
BrookeDropDead 1 year ago
these video and comments are what made my day, I feel normal hear as a very-skinny person ... what really kills me is that when people make jokes about me being skinny, I start to laugh as I feel like it's the only way to get out of such embarrassing and awkward moment and that thing makes them think I'm "soul-less" (both physically and emotionally) so they keep joking about me ... it's so much hurting :(
5964ibra 1 year ago
my hero!
kiki1983ification 1 year ago
I'm naturally skinny too. I am 14, and I weigh 92 pounds. I never really thought much of it until this one girl came up to me and said "OMG YOU'RE SO SKINNY!"
It really hurt :(
And ever since then I've been really insecure about it. I eat SO MUCH but hardly gain any weight. Just because I'm skinny doesn't mean I don't have feelings. I am human, so why would someone say that? It really hurts ... :'(
xxsashiewashiexx 1 year ago 6
@xxsashiewashiexx i'd just like you to know that i am 17years old, 5'9" tall and 102lbs. im often mocked and called anorexic, bulemic, etc...to my face. people just come up to me and they're like "oh my gosh, you need to learn to eat" or "how much do you weigh?" and "are you sick?" . . what I've learned is if you walk around all the time feeling "too skinny" and ugly, you will always see yourself this way. What YOU think is what matters. . love yourself and people who matter will love you too..
Leesha6709 11 months ago
@Leesha6709 cause baby you were born this way =D
illloveyouforever101 10 months ago
I am 23, 5" 11 and i weigh 100lbs. All my life i've been teased about being skinny. I've endured strangers stop, stare and say i shouldn't wear certain clothes (meaning pants) because i'm too thin. I've met ppl who said that "u're cute but too skinny or if you were a little fatter". My sis tells me i need to love myself the way i am but it's hard becuz i've endured so much over the years. Anyway i still struggle with my image but i'm starting to learn 2 luv myself. I enjoyed this vid.
MissSubstance 1 year ago 6
@MissSubstance love yourself today cause baby you were born this way =]
illloveyouforever101 10 months ago
@illloveyouforever101 Thank u 4 the reply. That's exactly what i'm doing :-)
MissSubstance 10 months ago
@MissSubstance no problem love =] just love yourself and forgot all the haters
illloveyouforever101 10 months ago
far out i thought i was the only person who thought it was mean for people to tell me i look anorexic...theres heaps of help sites and books about helping people overcome thinking their fat but NONE for people who cant gain weight. i eat HEAPPPPS today for breakfast i had 5 timtams and 8 wheatbix...not cause i wanted to be fatter ( i do) but just cause i was hungry... im 14...i weigh 32kg. and people always say in look anorexic and it really makes me hurt...like if you agree :)
claire101101101 1 year ago 5
u look good healthy and lean and u had 2 kids to boot
damn i would love a girl like u
amh007dude 1 year ago
I'm a bit jealous of your small waist and thighs ._. I'm technically 2lbs underweight(not much but it's where I've stayed for the past year give or take 2lbs depending on certain things) but I would have to be 80lbs or less before I got thin legs like that without surgery and not about to do either :s
cicada300 1 year ago
You look pretty damn fine to me! A 31yrs woman who's had two dustbin-lids and your naturally 7st. That means your like never ever going to be overweight...EVER!!! You fancy getting married! :)
MrGutterbunny 1 year ago
you know I never knew this was an actual problem, I didn't know skinny people hurt just as much as overweight people. It's really sad!
Pearlygirl0 1 year ago 5
I am the same way. I HATE it. I feel like I always have to wear a jacket and jeans because when I wear a normal pants and shorts, people will say "Oh my god, I feel like if I touch your arms they'll break." I mean WHATTHEFUCK? I'm 13 and I weigh 73.8 lbs. It's not fair. I don't eat ALOT but it's not like I eat NOTHING. I feel so insecure and I hate my body. I didn't mind my size till 7th grade, that's when the judging began. Now I wont step foot outside without a jacket. :(
alyvally102 1 year ago 8
@alyvally102 Im the SAME way, its stupid... i cant walk across the room without hearing " oh my gosh shes so skinny, she must be anorexic!" umm, no i eat alot of food! (im 15 and i weigh 81 pounds) but anyways keep your head up babygirl:) appreciate who you are, it helps.
TheVanityDollx 1 year ago
@alyvally102 I'm trying to understand you, I was hmmm, fat as a child and I hated it as well -.-" but, maybe it won't help you, there are so many girls who would like to look anorexic or super skinny without starving :( so... look at your body from this point of view. and, you know, you're 13, everything can change. ;)
xXxSweetTormentxXx 1 year ago
OMG I am skiny and everyone is telling me ooo youre too skiny, why are you so skiny?I have 2 ants that are complaining that they are too fat and they always bug me with too skiny thing, is just who I'm am, I am 1.76 m and 53 kg and I just can't gain weight, but i'm telling you boys like me so stop telling me what to do
1ceb0xcfbl 1 year ago
EMBRACE THE HATERADE!!! of course people will talk about you being to thin because thin is THE IDEAL! people talk shit about anything and everything to feel better about themselves and thats how it will always be BE HAPPY THAT YOU CAN EAT WHATEVER YOU WANT AND STILL BE THIN ALMOST EVERYONE OUT THERE WOULD KILL TO BE THAT WAYI LIVE IN A DIET HELL TO STAY THIN AND IF PEOPLE WANT TO TALK SHIT LET THERE LAZY FAT ASSES TALK!!!
shesingsofherpassion 1 year ago 3
why would someone tell someone else that they are too skinny? they probably want to convince the person that they're too skinny and that they should gain weight. for what? if the person is convinced that they're too skinny, they will probably gain weight and not like it. so what's the point of trying to stop somebody if they are already happy? being skinny is not a bad thing.
amandairam1 1 year ago
true true true true I have the same problem
skinnybeatuy 1 year ago
i dont think people understand how horrible being really skinny is.
im 15 & im like 5'1 and like 86 pounds. i fucking hateeee it. thats just how i am. my mom was the exact same way.i eat&eat&eat hoping to gain weight but i dont. it sucks. being super skinny isnt attractive.guys dont like super skinny girls. so it hurts when people tell me everytime they just meet me "omg your so tiny! you are so skinny!" im just sick of it. they always say they "wish" they were as skinny as me. they have noclue
patrickthestarfishy 1 year ago 5
@patrickthestarfishy I Totally Understand,I Mean Im Shocked Guys Find Me Attractive cause i weigh the same amount as u,but im 13&im a lil taller but still,i really try to gain weightt"/
pinkykaykay 1 year ago
@patrickthestarfishy ugh i have the exact same issue except im 5'2 and wigh 88 and i know for sure because i went to the doctor and they weighed me... but yea bottom line is it does suck to be like this :/ ... msg and ill tell you how im gainig musle and my family says i look better so just saying maybe i can help :]
missCRAZINESS01 1 year ago
@missCRAZINESS01 Eeek that is low. It is alright for some I guess [': lol x
xXShockSetsInXx 1 year ago
Personally I prefer naturally skinny women.They are more likely to maintain a health weight.Those curvy women only need to get pregnant once and from that moment on it's like they're pregnant forever
Groudie101 1 year ago
I feel for you!! I've been having the same issues ever since I was in elementary school (I'm 28 now)!! I've always been naturally tall and thin and even now I still get picked on! I get so tired of hearing, "Don't you ever eat?" or "You probably don't eat meat, do you?" or even, "You'd look better with a few more extra pounds." I mean, really? That stuff hurts...seriously. :( We can't help what we look like. Quit with the rude comments people and just be happy with what God gave you!
Angelfeather26 1 year ago 4
im the same way. I eat a lot but i never gain weight. Ppl 4get that some ppl are naturally thin. When they see thin ppl they think "oh they must not eat, they need a burger". Smh the hollywood image has made it even worse
SouthernxPrep 1 year ago 6
Thanks. bigbitchification I was thinking about trying to gain weight. But now I won't. :) thank you.
chloweful 1 year ago
women get it in their head that men are constantly disgusted with the way they look when its just not true. the thing that disgusts men is a woman who is constantly not shy about how they look
ficklefackle 1 year ago
DUDE ur not even that skinny ur pretty average... its seems more like ur bein stuck up
saucypopcorn12 2 years ago
@saucypopcorn12 Are you blind or just brainwashed?
lottyabel 1 year ago
the media picked a very skinny person to make the people see them and feel very bad about it. :(
learning2fall88 2 years ago
I'm very thin. Naturally. One of my friends call me "skinny mini" I know its a joke. But when people are constantally saying "you need to get some meat on those bones" its annoying. In a way I guess I like it though. Its better then being called fat at least.
chloweful 2 years ago 16
man that's so annoying and rude the "more meat on ur bones" like it's not ur fault ur naturally thin. Ppl are just jealous. I hope you stay thin and don't let ppl pressure you to eating more.
bigbitchification 1 year ago
I''ve caught hell my whole life over my weight and I so so understand this. The stairs, the comments, "eat a sandwich, need to put some meat on those bones, do you eat" uhhhhhhh Some people don't even think about the crap coming out of their mouths ya know. Just because your thin doesn't mean it's a free for all on shitty comments.
berwinch 2 years ago 2
It annoying being naturally slim and healthy and having people make negative comments about your weight. Look at photos of people 50 years ago and you'll see a lot more slim people than today. We look thin only by comparison with the fatter "normal" today.
Maybe it's time for another T-shirt that says "Do I make you look fat?"
FlexiStretch 2 years ago 4
thanks for putting that out there :)
i hve a really fast metabolism and never gain weight
its not my fault thats just the way i am but it hurts my feelings how almost every day at school someone has to mention my weight
ellieduh22 2 years ago
finally someone who speaks out :) besides if others think you're skinny then why are they so into reading all the latest "how to get skinny" articles?
glo85ria 2 years ago 3
I feel uncomfortable going to the gym sometimes. I feel like everyone is staring and thinking that I am obsessed with being thin... when the truth is, I hardly ever go.
beckalee87 2 years ago 4
I was premature at birth. I am sick of people saying im so freakin skinny. they dont need to remind me. It really hurts my feelings and it makes me want to be fat. I cant help the way i am.
Dogs1396 2 years ago 4
I'm really skinny. I eat ok enough. I eat. thats the main thing. in the first year of high school, when getting changed for PE, someone asked me if I was anorexic. It really hurt me, as I would never dream of not eating. anyway, I'm in 4th year of high school now, and the matter seems to have dropped a bit. my wrists are still really thin, and every now and again, people stare are me, or wrap their hands round my wrists, its like, leave me alone! I want to get fatter, but not unhealthily. tips?x
lykomgitsalice 2 years ago
well one tip i have is getting some muscle. You are right people shouldnt judge you for being the way you are but it is important to be healthy and being too thin or too fat are both unhealthy. I used to be overweight, and then i dropped alot and became underweight. I am now just right I eat healthy exersize and I am fit. Being fit is one of the best things you can be and so i would suggest eating healthy and doing some working out and you should be good.
GiveMeMyWelfareCheck 2 years ago
I remember elementary school when people used to bother me about being thin. I wore 6-7 pairs of stockings each day to make them shut the fuck up. But then when it would be summer Id go home with a rash on my legs because it was soo hot and I was wearing too many stockings. Im traumatized when i walk outside. If someone looks at me for more than 20 sec i start to think they are thinking about my skinnyness. It sucks it really does. and it fuckin pisses me off how ignorant people are
ImJustCommenting 2 years ago 4
I feel just like this lady. I can't even enjoy wearing clothes anymore.
ImJustCommenting 2 years ago 3
I agree with her. I'm a size 10, and i'm sick of this whole body issue. I love myself the way I am, why shouldn't thin people too? Women need to quit being bitches to each other. If you love your body thin, GREAT! If you love your body thicker, GREAT! Love yourself, for fucks sake, stop judging people by who's too fat, or too thin. Mind your own damn body.
joneskrystalm 2 years ago 6
i agree with her 100% even though im not skinny like her
tatulover2120 2 years ago
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i WISH i was as skinny as you!! :(im 5'1.5 and im 12 years old...i weigh 96 pounds...im sooo fat!
demilovatorox910 2 years ago
er what nonsense are u talking? ur still a child for goodness sake!
serenitylopez 2 years ago
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Youre embarassing.
UmaFan95 2 years ago
its so true about the clothes...i can never wear short sleeves or shorts/skirts or else i will get looks from ppl when i go out :(
lmeirelesxo 2 years ago 5
I don't care how fat or thin other people are, and I wouldn't comment on their weight unless it was to compliment them. Putting people down about their weight seems to have become a socially acceptable cruelness, but I think it's harsh. I hate how magazines have made peoples weight news. When did it become such a big deal?
Sharlieoo 2 years ago 3
I think you are perfectly fine the way you are. As long as you are healthy :) And you're very pretty!
ohmyrachell 2 years ago
Im a man and I think you are HOTT
floydturbo2 2 years ago
true. and you put it excellently. thank you.
it's just got so out of hand. Why are they trying to stoke up a civil war between women?
nadie85 2 years ago
it's really annoying when people say you're skinny even though you're not! i swear i'm not skinny! i'm 4 ft 9 1/2 and weigh 78 lbs! that's a healthy weight for me. i eat a lot too!
Gizzew 2 years ago 2
yea i know how u feel
xizAiNaBx 2 years ago 2
im a guy. im 5'11 140 lbs. is that really skinny? being honest to myself in some angles i think i look good. oh yah and im 16
rofler15 2 years ago
! yes finally someone naturally thin like me!, dosent it hurt you inside when people make comments?
couturexolivia 2 years ago 3
I know what you mean im nabout 5.5 stone and im 14 WOW people emmiadatly think im anorexic. This gir actually said to my face are you anorexic and i said NO I DO EAT and she just stared at me as if i was lieing. My actual true friends call me a pig (jokin) Coz i eat so much, people just jump to conclusions if your skinny! aarrrgghhh so annoying!
lottieprincess 2 years ago 2
I can't gain any weight no matter how much I eat. People used to tell me I can't ever have kids because I was too skinny. Well, I have four boys, all naturally, and all full term and healthy. And two of them are a set of twins at full term which my doctor said it was his easiest delivery of twins in his 35 years of work.
To all my naturally skinny people out there: Don't get depressed by the negativity and put-downs! Just keep eating healthy like you always have and keep smiling.
m0nkeybizness 2 years ago
well weight gain is hard. You need to eat over the point of satisfaction when you aren't hungry.
oishitomoro 2 years ago 3
she doesnt seem that skinny to me ive seen worse cases
SamIam992 2 years ago 3
same with me i have been trying too get fatter but i cant and school lunches are so expensive and cant eat at school so i eat at home and people al school think im annerexic personnally i think im fine i mean i cant help it if im skinny
kafferreira 2 years ago 5
I am not naturally skinny! But I have sturgled with an eating disorder in my teenage years. I was anorexic. And guess what (im a guy) but I am not gay. At the time all the young cute women were going for really small boys. So thats who I was trying to be. But I was underweight and yes.. I did acheive being too skinny for quite a few months and I got the same critisism from people. I looked just like you except in male form. So even though im not naturally skinny. I know exactly what your saying
Arachnimite 3 years ago
I used to be thin thin thin and I never got the end of it! I force fed myself cookies and candy to gain weight and it NEVER worked. I know it sounds ridiculous that a skinny person would cry over their body, but it happens. Getting told you look like your going to die isn't good for your self esteem.
LoveForAAR 3 years ago 8
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oh shutup and be happy you're skinny and healthy
07hesky07 3 years ago
naturally skinny girls get critisied and told to eat more food and that is mean. but sometimes people are actually cocerned for your health and ask if you are ill. but being fat or chubby cant be that great either. when your fat you get told to go on a diet. i think overall being too skinny or overweight you get alot of critism to your face and behind your back.
lazy2thextreme 3 years ago
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you're skinny!
ProudBeATukker 3 years ago
I am sorry that you are frustrated. The world is stuck on analyzing people's bodies. Please do not get it twisted and think people do not say anything to fat people in their face. They get the same amount of remarks.
oOkpd625Oo 3 years ago 2
Sorry, since I"ve been fat since puberty this is hard for me to sympathize with. I would give a lot, lot, lot for someone to actually say I was too skinny. Won't ever happen.
PBottomPoochies 3 years ago
People don't appreciate that having your appearance criticized is awful for whatever reason, but it seems more "politically correct" to pick on people who are thin. Being told you're too skinny is just as upsetting as being told you're too fat.
save7the7whales 3 years ago 52
I just took off my jacket in college class yesterday im a guy and weigh 45 kg, I was BOMBARDED with comments like 'you're so skinny!' but luckily i replied well and said :Why do you need to say that? You're skinny and then I said shut up. And he didn't say a word after that. And the somalian guy who was sitting next to me was also skinny. And he was wearing a jacket. I kind of bullied him as revenge and told him to take off his jacket :P.He took it off and was skiinny aswell :P
nilesolma 1 year ago
(My comment continued) Owyeah the somalian guy felt really uncomfortable, but after that they stopped making comments. People are real Hypocrites sometimes and you just need to be upfront to them and HUMILIATE them. Thats what i did with the somalian guy. I know it is like bullying but they were kind of bullting me and I made him feel how I felt by pressuring him to take off his jacket.
nilesolma 1 year ago
yea, i know how that goes. been there, done that, got the t-shirt.
it sucks
swanstarlet 3 years ago
I understand this. Although I've gained a little weight, I'm still pretty thin and used to be veryyy thin. People used to say really harsh things to me on a regular basis. I used to and still do eat anything I like. I do no exercise but probably eat around 3500 ore more calories some days.
NeveyUK20 3 years ago
orrrrr it must be so tough for her. At least she can eat loads to get fat but fat people have to diet and go thro bullying like me i have been thro bullying for being fat then i turned anorexic so people dont just say it to fat people behing their backs.
sexybeth193 3 years ago
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RabiaGhias 3 years ago
very true
anamazs4p 3 years ago
I understand what she is saying but she is totally ignorant of other people! She says people only say things about fat people behind their backs which is total rubbish! They get much worse, if a person is too skinny they are not totally insulted, when someone asks if she is ill or has seen as Dr it is not being rude; calling her names or shouting things at her without knowing her at all.
bitterworkout 3 years ago
yes they are totally insulted. i have been for the last ten years... with just the same amount of hurtful words that are said to a person who is over weight. what is being said here is that there is no difference for an under weight person and an over weight person, if people left us alone then maybe we would be happy with the way we are regardless of our size.
sarahkent1 3 years ago 4
i know exactly what your talking about people are always comming up to my sister and me and saying we are way to thin and that we need to go eat a hamburger...i always tell them that i just finnished eating a large pizza and that i love the way my body looks because this is the body god gave me. that usually shuts them up..i totaly agree with you that the media has way to much influence over what is the right way to look...
zakksgirl1 3 years ago
Cant the media realise, Nicole Richies famous "beach pics" are an example of Unhealthy Thin. This woman is an example of a Healthy Thin. A lot of people say Nicole Richie looked beautiful when she was pregnant. In my own opinion, Nicole is a beautiful girl, but her thin figure makes her look very very ill. Mainly because she isn't a naturual skinny. You can tell because before when she was in a band or something like that she was actually curvy but gorgeous at a size 10.
oxRachael 3 years ago
whats 7 stones?
XxSceneQueenxX16 3 years ago
98 pounds
oishitomoro 3 years ago 2
It is very annoying when skinny people get unwanted critism. I get this a lot because I'm naturally thin. People do this to make themselves feel better. I feel like saying to them why don't u go and look in the mirror as your not so bloody perfect yourself?
ahruno 3 years ago 7
people dont really take notice of it unless they experience it...it sucks......i mean...i hear "curvy" girls call skinny girls sticks,beampoles...would you call a fat girl...whales?...or fatass? ..no ..its rude either way...because belive it or not there are somegirls out there who cant gain weight.
pendergast65 3 years ago 38
Actually, I was taking some pictures with a friend of mine during the fall season and some guys walked by and said "lose some weight fatty!" ahem...I would say that's pretty in your face. I would say overweight and underweight people get the same amount of criticism. The media talks about losing weight on this diet or that diet far more often then, "men like curvier girls, not bony girls" a new diet comes out every month as opposed to the twice a year comparing of thin girls to curvy girls...
blondehoney1818 3 years ago
@pendergast65 actually lol I'm not even "fat" my BMI is like 22 but i get called a hippo and a whale, not saying its ok to be nasty to skinny people, but it does happen.
Pandalady366 1 year ago
I have several naturally skinny friends and my husband is also naturally skinny-you're right, they get abuse as much as fat people. It's the flip side of the same coin, and it's all bad. OF COURSE the media and advertising industry feed eating addictions!!
juliact 3 years ago 4
i totally agree !!! your beautifull though
beckywoods789 3 years ago 4
I'm naturally skinny, but i'm not naturally reallllyy skinny. I'm just thin. i'm kinda over it, and for me it's not 'soo hard' being skinny. it's just bleh. whatevr. but ppl are used to be since ive been this way since 5th grade.
HelloDearLola 3 years ago
I am skinny too. People are highly critical of skinny people in today's society. Skinny people are truly oppressed.
leslielounge 3 years ago 3
you said it exactly like it is
Grakmere 3 years ago
I have the same problem as u don't let it botter u these haters are just mad they can't eat whatever they want and still look fly as hell holla
tigamlove 3 years ago 2
Holla! lol ;)
mabilicious 3 years ago
your gorgeous
xothankyouxo 3 years ago
im a freaking fat cow
your lucky you can eat anything
ilovedyl5801 3 years ago
im skinny lik her!!!!! and im tired of being mad fun of becuz of my skinnyness!!!!
MileyCyrus1387Fan 3 years ago 4
be happy ur thin!!u can eat all u want unlike me
tatulover2120 3 years ago
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try being fat bitch.
Link4Owns 3 years ago
try exercising.
adirgeforher 3 years ago
i have the same problem it makes me feel like shit when people make comments about how skinny i always get remarked on at school about if i eat or whatever i eat all the time and ive actually tried to gain wait but nothing happens im 14
sharpieluvpeace14 3 years ago 6
me 2 its awfull and to me its embarressing but were just naturally rrlly rlly skinny
MileyCyrus1387Fan 3 years ago
You're hot, don't worry. Fuck the haters, they are just jealous of your body, you look fabulous!
lovemesomekatemoss 3 years ago 7
yeah...i have the total opposite problem as her.I'm a gymnast & i have a problem of being 2fat.I have a video on it.
tatulover2120 3 years ago
i am 20 years old but i look like 16. im 166 cm tall and i weihg 43 kilos, im so ashamed of my body for years now coz ive been teased my whole life! this week i went outside wearing a skirt and i felt so ashamed coz there will always be people that stare at you and whisper things, but from now on i will wair the sleeveless tops and the skirts :)
mercedes1988 3 years ago
Thank you! Finally someone said it!!! It is so wrong that people like her and me get critized openly and that's socially acceptable. Yet if you do critize a fat person openly everyone thinks you're an ass! I'm 5'9" 113lbs and I am naturally thin. I am sick to death of people asking me if I have an eating disorder! It's like no, this is what normal looks like!!!
AHHHHH23905863843759 3 years ago
haha she said trousers
laxmann6969 3 years ago
I always get teased by kids at school asking me if i ever eat anything its really harsh and makes me feel bad and boys in my class always call me ugly and stuff it really sucks thats why i dont like my school but i dont think you are too skinny i think you are very beautiful the way you are
xxoxxDestinyxxoxx 3 years ago
your just like me!!!!!! its sosooo hard to be really skinny
MileyCyrus1387Fan 3 years ago 6
you are beautiful i hate this victimisation of naturally slim people it makes me angry. The media is to blame with their highlighting of the so called size '0', they actually created a bigger problem of targetting healthy young girls who are naturally slim.Many models in the industry are there because they are naturally tall/slim its about time the media opened their eyes and see this..
boycesfriend 3 years ago 7
Calm down its better skinny then fat. Also for your age your well hot.
ironfan114 3 years ago 5
1. She was already being calm
2. You wouldn't understand unless you yourself dealt with this type of ignorance. My girlfriend is very petite and gorgeous but every now and then she comes home practically in tears because some jerk decided to walk up to her and measure her arms and ask if she shops in the children's section. Not cool.
phatwombler 3 years ago
Exactly. I experience the same thing as your girlfriend on a daily basis
hello1932443 3 years ago
wouldnt she be used to it if she's been naturally skinny for a majority of ehr life??
but then again, is she petite as in short also?
HelloDearLola 3 years ago
No. She is obviously not "used" to it which I explained in my post above. The best way to explain this is to ask you to think about something that you are insecure about and how you would feel if various strangers felt that it was okay to point it out in a not very nice way. You wouldn't go up to an overweight person, measure their arms and ask if they shop in the "fat" section now would you?
To your second question I had already assumed that petite and short kind of went hand in hand...???
phatwombler 3 years ago 2
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YA FAT CUNT.. lose sum weight! makes ya feel sick.. seein somthin like that.
lov4carl 3 years ago
AHH. Exactly. exactly. I look about 14 too, and i'm almost 17. I know how you feel. us naturally skinny girls will have it better in the long run i think though.
corruptedbystickers 3 years ago 3
She looks curvy to me!
I'm a guy and I'm really skinny as well. I'm 5'9 '' and I'm 120 lbs.
cardon15kenny 4 years ago
people call me fat.I'm 16 5'1 and 125lbs but also ppl call me muscular because i'm a gymnast...what do u think of me?PLZ message me!
tatulover2120 4 years ago
yeh, im kind of skinny too. When i was younger(10-14) it was more importaint subject, and i really had low self esteem because of that what ppl told me for several years, until i got old enough to see that actually most of ppl told me ugly things because of envyness. Now im 16 years old ,5'8 and 111 lbs, im not so skinny anymore, but still underweight. In Estonia (and in EU) it is not so rare to be thin, but i probably would have much more problems in USA.
Merlikas 4 years ago 2
I have the same problem. I'm almost 22, 5ft 3 and only weigh around 6st 3lbs. I hate it, it makes me feel ugly. I get nasty comments from people all the time about my weight. People don't hold back at all. The media do make it worse, like Sarah said in her video, it's always in magazines telling us how disgusting it is to be so thin. Something should really be done about that. No-one should have to put up with constant name calling whatever their size.
xxSceneDreamxx 4 years ago
you speak true words!
i am 15, weigh 6 stone 12 and get sterotyped ALL the time that i am anorexic and stuff and im fed up with it!
i eat so much and it just doesnt go anywhere!
i am happy with my body, and theres not many woman and girls out there who is, and then these magazines go and print 'fact most men hate skinny babes' completly knocks my confidence!
thank you for standing up and speaking out!
hallydork 4 years ago
"if your healthy it's all that matters"
You go girl, we need more people like you
fiddlinmatt 4 years ago 2
Life is not a contest..
You are beautiful..
End of story..
Jjinn1 4 years ago
SARAH! Just watched ur much talked about video! It's brill!
I know Sarah personally, and I can vouch for her looking totally healthy dispite her size.
Then there's me, mother of 3, 5ft3 weighing just over 11 stone,,,,now i ask,,,,who will get the most critisism??????
loobee77 4 years ago
i m skinny too and i hate it-- people call me anorexic and all of that... its hard for me to gain weight too because of my high metabolism ! i m 13 i m 5 '1 and weigh 87:/
sally22694 4 years ago 3
I'm the same, People call me anorexic or atleast ask If I am. I hate it! and I'm a healthy girl!
brennac48 4 years ago
I know exactly how she feels. I'm 5'7 and weight 114 pounds. I don't gain weight! I can eat eat and eat and not gain a single pound.
lilmisscassie23 4 years ago
i'm natural skinny too, but it depends what you eat. I've started to gain weight by eating low fat/high protein food and a 3 times/week exercises. it works for me try it
danmarcu21 4 years ago
This is the way I look as well, I dont diet etc but people make such a massive deal about my weight and size that now I'm obsessed with how thin I am. If I were to ever gain weight you can bet that I'd probably turn anorexic because thats just me the skinny girl - thats how I'm defined. I used to hate being skiny and different to all my other friends now I love it. sigh....
MalonsMilk 4 years ago
WOW you are skinny im 11 and im 55 pounds!
dgroovygirl96 4 years ago
I love you. I'm 13 and natural very skinny. I totally understand what your saying! Please dont give up on this. We need people like you to defend people like us that are just naturaly skinny and get teased for that.
lovelyy167 4 years ago
look fine to me!!
philschic 4 years ago
The solution is to have a healthy weight. According to your height. lol
sayomsskiver 4 years ago
yeah its true it has to do with your height people think it has to do with the age..
BlackDiivaa 4 years ago
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Your still skinny and anerixa looking sorry!!!
franki3Ru550 4 years ago
great report
squiddygamer 4 years ago
beautifully put together!
Joeyismness 4 years ago
It's like revenge of the skinny, revenge of the curvy, revenge of the over-weight, it goes around in circles, ALL women are victims, not one body type seems to be left be. We need to STOP buying and reading the mind meddling magazines and get on with our lives without this obsession of generalizing what men like. I bet half the magazine are done by people insecure with their image. To put it simple all men like different things and vanity is destroying us all.
PaintedSilence 4 years ago 3
I totally agree with you. I'm a middle aged man and weigh 11 stone, so whats my problem. Non now. But when I was at school and as a teenager and as a young man I couldn't get above 9st even if I tried. I even tried as a teenage a suppliment called Super Weight On. I could be ridiculed by both sexes but mostly by males.
DrMontague 4 years ago
I was sitting in the doctors the other day and all the magazines were woman's magazines. While waiting to see the Doc I browsed through a a few. After reading them I began to realise why many women have (the ones I know)have little confidence in themselves.
DrMontague 4 years ago
There's nothing wrong with fashion but these magazines ask woman to do the impossible. It is sad that these magazines stereotype what type of women men like. I for one don't go around carrying a measuring tape nor do most males I have known over the years. Yet these magazines certainly give this impression
DrMontague 4 years ago
I think if we are all honest with ourselves we all suffer from vanity, as a male I find I can laugh it off but for women it takes over their entire lives trying to achieve what they perceive to be perfection.
DrMontague 4 years ago
According to the women's magazines if males only attracted to one particular female shape then why are there so many adult websites specialising in so many different bodily shapes. Some males like large women, some like skinny women, some like large breasts some like small breasts, the list is endless. To me variety is the spice of life.
DrMontague 4 years ago
And BTW you look terrific but so did my ex girl partner and she was 15 stone. Broke my heart when she left me. Ahh but that was a few years ago, time to move on. I said to a girlfriend of mine they have banned smoking isn't it time they banned these woman's magazines. Ok I only mean it tongue in cheek as I'm against censorship, however it would be up to woman to stop buying this garbage.
DrMontague 4 years ago
Remember even for men the whole is worth more than the sum of it's parts. I.e. men do not find women attractive purely on their physical appearance and vice versa. In short what attracts us to each other is much more complicated then these woman's magazines would have us believe.
DrMontague 4 years ago
Doc, how did you increase your mass? I can eat and eat but nothing happens. I've highly busy and have a lot of pressure on my mind and highly active. But there's got to be something.
Kalakaar 4 years ago