Relationship Advice | "A Contrarian Guide" | Full Length HD

[ShadowmereNL]

Pickup guys are insecure (well I was) It is about boosting your self confidence getting a girl, not so much about personal development.

Getting a girl is easy for most normal guys, but having a healthy relation is hard work and is indeed a mirror to your level of self confidence, patience, ability to trust and let go etc. It is a commitment. And monogamy is important.

And commitment is something pickup won't teach.

[ChuckFinleytube]

I'm sorry, but too much of what he advocates involves being unemotional and rational with people. That doesn't work, especially with females.

[Artutchikas]

I was watching this on a website, in the middle of the video I just had to go to youtube to give props to this guy. This is so important, and I am lucky to see this video while im only 21. its going to be important in my life. THANKS

[Dleerium]

Video is too underrated. Probably one of the most important video's I have watched on youtube to date. Thank's to Sock and Anthony

[Seantorky3]

"tell me about your relationship with your father" if she says good, move on. thats quagmire in family guy. gigidy gigidy

[stillonparolee]

When you look into the community you see a bunch of nerds who learned pickup and now they are making up for loss time. There is no balance or stability. They still live a life that values the opinions of others more than their own, trying to be alpha to others instead of "doing you". No reflection on Soc, one of the people i admire.

[stillonparolee]

That is a hard speech to beat. A message everyone needs to heard, especially the pick up community.

[OkinBNiko]

Excellent speech, the importance of being able to make healthy life choices and at time facing the harsh reality is a lesson that everyone must learn. Being able to resolve issues between one another and learning to cool off and rationally think as well as decide is a skill that the will saturate and influence your life and relationships with mutual and healthy relationships

[ChicagoFusion]

Brilliant, high-value talk. Bravo.

[RedemptionsScar]

Very nice talk... very emotionally intelligent guy, and most of what he says is practical and correct. I absolutely wish he'd invest in a synonym for 'Aspect' since if we count up aspects of this Talk we've got a pizza for thousands of people. ^_^

[TaylorAnimator]

Great talk. I think this is an area that needs to be discussed more. I worry the community will end up making a lot of lonely old men, because the didn't learn how to handle a relationship or were made to believe relationships are a bad idea.

[Shikari21]

great talk