I really needed to hear this Greg. The past year has been very difficult for me, so hearing you say those things, helps me realize a lot. Thank you L:
Being a virgin is physical, not mental. So it you're raped, you're no longer a virgin, but who cares really? It's not that big of a deal to not have that title of being a virgin if you were raped, you're still a person who can be loved.
From someone who was molested as a child I can say I have never felt like I was a true virgin. I remember talking about sex with my friends in middle school and I had to lie and it was really awkward for me.
For me virginity is innocence and once you've been molested there is nothing you can do it's gone. People that molest children do so much more damage then taking virginity. That honestly destroy a small part of the soul.
Greg, I'm having a mental breakdown right now with constant crying spells... i hope that you'll talk to me.. i really need someone right now.... It won't let me contact you on your site. Please, please e-mail me when you have time. I would appreciate it so much. My email is derangedlucidity@gmail.com
Oh Greg i really hope you will read this. I have a friend who was raped 1 yr ago. Yesterday we played a truth telling game with some friends, and all of us had to tell if we are virgins or not. Everyone knows about Jennys raping, and when she said she's a virgin everyone was like "eeh nooo you're not!?" "Weren't u raped, or did you lie about that??" So basically everyone at school today called her a liar and stuff... she tries to tell them that she sees herself as a virgin but no one listens...
@eeelineify what kind of fucked up school do you go to where they make fun of raped people? they sound like shit friends to play truth or dare with haha
Virginity is a gift. Someone can take that gift, theirs or not, rip it open, and claim it as their own. You can claim to take it back, and maybe even try to wrap it back up. It's not the same. You know that it was stolen, and tampered with, and you had to go through that pain. If you can see it as not taken, then power to you. Most people can't, sadly. And physically, it's impossible to gain back your virginity.
Also, I don't think molestation is taking your virginity. Still is wrong though.
No I don't believe that to be molested is to loose your virginity. To lose your virginity is to willingly have full and complete intercourse with whom you love and want to "give yourself" to :)
Well... as it seems to be logical that Physically it's given the first time you have sex, i do think almost the same as you. I gave it to my actual Gf and it meant it in both sides. Physically and Emotionally i've lost it. The thing is, to me the best way it's when you give it to someone you do really love, in both ways, physically and Emotionally, and it's mutual.
i was...well something happened to me on vacation once when i was a kid, let's just say it was the most traumatic thing that can happen to a kid...and i still considered myself a virgin until i gave it to my ex bf
if youre raped, then physically, youre not a virgin anymore. thats how it is. but since you didnt do anything yourself and still have no experience what so ever you still are one. i guess.
I think giving your virginity is more than just the act of sex, it's the choice to have it-a specific mental inclination and decision which is not present when molested. Even though a hymen may have broke (they usually break from other things like sports or tamps anyway) virginity is still something so personal that it can't be taken away without your consent.
hm, i still think rapists have stolen virginities. because the person has still experienced sex, despite it not being pleasurable at all. but then, having proper meaningful, loving, or at least lusting sexx is a whole different experience. maybe thats what it could be. hm, i dont know.
if you unwillingly gave your said "gift" To said person then physicaly no you are not a virgin But mentally you are because your gift was stolen not given so mentally yes your a virgin physicaly no your not
this kinda has something to do with this amazing vid but here what I has happened to me I've use to hurt my self because I found out my whole familys thing that they do. if I harm my self did I lose my inoscence?
this speaks to me so much ! i was raped as a child and i went 8 year blaming it on myself say i was a whore and i wasnt a virgin <333 greg you are amazing
You actually brought tears to my eyes, Greg. For the past four years I've been regretting losing my virginity to someone who didn't care about me. But I think that my physical virginity was the only thing lost. My emotional virginity I feel I gave to my boyfriend of two years after our two years of dating. We waited two years and it was beautiful. He's my official first. :)
love it <3 alot of people try to go by the hymen, but that can be torn in very many ways. a woman can tear it while doing stetches or using a tampon and would never know because it's just like period blood. nothing defines your virginity except for you giving it away in your first time, because if you go by when the hymen is ripped, you must also say that the first time a guy ejaculates he has lost his, which doesn't make sense...
I`ve been avoiding your videos for a while . . . your opinions sometimes hit a nerve. But watching this . . . I remembered why I subscribed in the first place. Sometimes, your wise opinions are a blessing =)
with all do respect, you can only give your sentemental virginity to someone, with that i totally agree... but in physical terms, obviously the same logic doesnt apply... and part of the emotional changes that rape or molestation can give someone is the idea that the sentemental value of their virginity has been tainted or stripped completely. you have to agree that specifically in women, the first time they have intercourse, consentual or not, their virginity has removed.
Well, whenever anyone posts a video response or a comment replying back one of your videos THEIR opinion is almost always wrong in your eyes. Get over yourself. Your not always right. I'd hate to be the person who thinks they've got a better vantage point than EVERYONE ELSE when it comes to widely discussed topics. By the way, virginity is a gift. You dropped and sacrificed everything to give it to a 17 yr old who fucked you over. Good job, Greg.
My friend was raped by her step-father, and I will never stop telling her that she is a virgin. She enver wanted anything to happen. I believe you are a virgin until you make the choice to have sex, but after you make that choice, you can never take it back and want to "start over", because it's gone.
@TheCrazyCatLady81 If you willingly had sex, which is what he's saying, you are not virgin. If you are raped, you are not physically a virgin, yet mentally you are because you did not willingly give it away. Make sense?
@onisionspeaks So i recently found out that my friend has lied for 2 years about being raped, Im not sure if i should give her a chance to explain why should would lie about something so serious or if i should rid her from my life? Any advice?
@JORDIEandEVA It's possible that she's just looking for attention, but it's also possible that she is sexually disturbed and a previous event in her life scarred her mentally, or certain circumstances brought her to lie how she did. All in all, lying is never good - but you should ask her why she lied, not Onision. That's just my take on it.
I think there's the physical virginity and the mental virginity. No matter what you do, you can not take away a person's "mental virginity", it has to be a choice.
Molested?? Or raped?? If molested no, if raped physically yes your not, emotionally you can still loose your virginity with someone you cared about!!!
@Naruto40883 Oh no, the poor little Christian has his feelings hurt? Is your god being made fun of? Awww poor little theist who willingly allows people everywhere to burn in hell for all eternity according to your belief system so why should we care about your feelings?
With the idea that virginity does not only rest in physical manner and such a perfect analogy of the "gift" you have provoked debate between the viewers and once agaim shown the contrast in individual views. The thought of a mental acceptance taking part in the loss of virginity is correct from my perspective and if one is a rape victim and feels they've lost their virginity they can still take action with individuals they love to break the mental grasp of the subject willingly.
Greg...go look up definition of virginity...its unfourtenate that if somone gets raped its loss of virginity it really is...BUT ITS TRUE....sorry gergles ;)
Oh go piss on someone else's door. It's my fu!king opinion why am I being hated on? I love how ive become a sexist, idiot with no brain who thinks the world is flat and may possibly be a cave woman I could rip apart your opinions but I don't I'm nice and respect others opinions. Hell even stating I'm a survivor of molestation not a victim as I don't think of myself as a victim it makes me sad to think that it's been hard for me to survive so much pain but i have i am a survivor yet you hate
Saying that willingly giving someone virginity is the only way to lose your virginity is like saying if someone steals something from a store, it's not really stolen. It's fine. It's still there.
@louiseparc so you can have your opinion but not me? I also was answering a comment below about the hymen and tampons ect. If you read my post I stated it being a emotional thing as well I do believe the first time entered is losing it physically millions also think that and have for thousands of years and the lesbian thing I don't get what's your problem nit picker? So by your logic making out could be losing it? I said penetration not penis!
@TheCrazyCatLady81 People also enslaved people for years and thought the world was flat? When you know better, you do better. Since virginity is a physical/emotional experience intertwined. Medically, she would be a rape victim.
@TheCrazyCatLady81 To all you people who are stuck on the physical side... not to be crude but say a virgin has a dildo...the "physical evidence" (which isn't reliable) is now gone. What is she then? lol Further evidence both the emotional/physical component need to be involved in order to give your virginity.
So if a girl gets pregnant from having sex willingly, but just "chose" to keep her virginity in the process, does that mean she is experiencing immaculate conception? Dude, you just turned me christian with your astounding logic! THANKS GREG ILY LESS THAN THREEEEEE
@TimZmuda No, it does matter. In the fact that, there is something called willing virginity and medical virginity. Not to mention for someone that had their medical virginity taken from them, means they can still hold on to their willing side. It also has to do with the therapy after being raped, they can still say that, yes, their a virgin. Like Greg said, it's a gift.
Personally I belive if someone is raped, then they aren't physically a virgin anymore, but I think that theres a physical and an emotional/mental part to everything. So even though they wont technically be a virgin by medical standards, emotionally they can still give it away. You can still give the love, and the devotion that comes with loosing your virginity to the person whom they choose to.
Losing your virginity is when any penetration occurs we have a membrane it starts with a H being molested if penetrated is gone I lost mine to a very sick man when I was 5 to 9. If you've not been penetrated you do not use tampons or get pap by the doc as it would " pop your cherry" while you lost it against your will virginity is in your heart Born again. We are survivors not victims
@TheCrazyCatLady81 Not every girl is born with a hymen, and not every girl's hymen is broken their first time. So, are they still virgins? Oh, and masturbation can also break it... did they lost their virginity to themselves, then? I don't think so. Virginity is much more than a hymen, sex is much more than penetration. "Foreplay" is pretty much sexual acts. Also, it's phallocentric, at least if you meant being penetrated by a penis only... what about the lesbians?
I think people feel that virginity = the first time you have sex, by consent or force. And so people feel like it's been taken away if they are raped etc... but I agree. Even if the first time was not by your will, you can find someone and make sex a special experience to recover from the incident.
this is so utterly triggering. like, you have no idea.
first off, you have the definition of molestation correct. i've been there, i should know.
second, you've used the gift anology. well, what about this: if it's a gift intended for one person and someone else steals it, then its gone. that person that it was meant for never gets it. the same with virginity, if you think virginity is only broken by sex. i've been molested but i am very much a virgin. i just think it's all about how you see it.
K i dont care what any of you have to say.. and yea this might be too much imformation lmao.. but, its a piece of skin!(atleast i think it is....O_O) But anyway. i only think virginity can be taken from someones after they have had intercourse. So.....Is wearing tampons breaking your virginity personally? idk its confusing... O_O
I do not mind having mine gone, however i do also do not mind who i gave it to, me and him may not be together, but he is still one of my best friends.
Onision YOU are a sexual predator, you are OBSESSED with sex, sex related videos, rape etc and all the while knowing the majority of your viewers are 12 years old... you are a freak you need to be locked up.
@brindabellaoffroad Okay, that means you think a hymen determines whether someone is a virgin, when in fact, there are females born without a hymen. Born without virginity? Yeah, it's possible, according to you, despite no previous sexual acts. His speaks channel focuses on mature material so most of these videos would naturally be watched by a more mature audience... such as those who doesn't make trollish accusations of predatorism. You aren't funny, mate.
you talk about molestation and rape meaning you think about it alot more. you probobly get off on the thought of someone actually being abused like that, not like kinky roleplay but the actual crime. and you can have virginity taken away. you are a fucking idiot.
what if the girl gave her virginity after being 3 years in a relationship with her boyfriend and after some time they broke up, she doesn't love him anymore and now she might say to her new boyfriend that she will give him her virginity because she never cared or loved her ex-bf
she might have an excuse that she was wrong about him all this time.
this gives her infinite virginity lives. so she's hacking...
@BoyDaMiller No because it's a gift that can only be given once.
If you are raped, you are still a virgin. But if you consentual sex and then decide that you don't love that person, you are no longer a virgin because you have already choosen to give away your virginity.
A girl on the onision forums said it well: "To me, virginity isn't an unbroken hymen, it's an idea. An idea that cannot be stolen, only given."
Virginity is an idea, not a body part, or a physical act. For women, if a hymen's broken, that doesn't mean your virginity's been taken, because you can break a hymen during yoga. Most girls break them early on anyway, way before intercourse. When you decide to begin to build a sex life, then your virginity is given, not when your harmed by another sexually, or forced into sex that you don't consent to.
its a sweet, poetic thought that ones virginity cant be stolen. Having said that, i disagree with you. I believe virginity to be entirely physical, just like a birthday gift. If somebody steals it (whether its intended for them or not), its gone. But like you said, its only an opinion.
I'm already seeing idiots posting "Stop talking about God..." or "Dumb topic dude". Good job, you wasted about 3mins of your time. If you don't like his opinion about God, stop watching his channel, go watch some god-fearing imbecile say that everyone who doesn't believe in god are going to hell. And the dumb topic guy, go get molested in prison and say it is a dumb topic.
Wow. Such a touching sentiment and I'm sure its something a lot of people need to hear. This was really beautiful, keep being amazing Greg, more people need to hear your serious videos.
@SammDogg tell them all to go to hell because none of them are useful in the slightest... Btw. Im agnostic, but seriously @Naruto40883 i dont sit there and pray to my 'god' I believe in karma, and pushing shit on people have never got anyone anywhere. Onision has the right idea, your 'religion' is seriously contradiciting, selfish and fucked up...like the rest of them. Get a hobby.
I go by the medical definition of virginity, but the reasoning and behind your definition of it is very moving and respectful of people who have been victimized or taken advantage of.
For me, as far as virginity being a gift, I think sex in all forms and all levels should be considered a gift.
Onision, while I've only been watching your Speaks videos for a little less then a year, they've really benefitted me in the way of bringing in new concepts and ideas- making me really think about stuff. Your videos are really helpful. Thank you for existing. :)
I really needed to hear this Greg. The past year has been very difficult for me, so hearing you say those things, helps me realize a lot. Thank you L:
SMILEYfacexxx25 1 week ago in playlist Sexuality
am i the only person waiting for the nbc "the more you know" thing to apear at the end?
Magician12345 3 weeks ago
@Magician12345 lmao xD
ItsShayTime 3 weeks ago in playlist More videos from OnisionSpeaks
Being a virgin is physical, not mental. So it you're raped, you're no longer a virgin, but who cares really? It's not that big of a deal to not have that title of being a virgin if you were raped, you're still a person who can be loved.
iPezzei 3 weeks ago
From someone who was molested as a child I can say I have never felt like I was a true virgin. I remember talking about sex with my friends in middle school and I had to lie and it was really awkward for me.
For me virginity is innocence and once you've been molested there is nothing you can do it's gone. People that molest children do so much more damage then taking virginity. That honestly destroy a small part of the soul.
IstinaNicole 3 weeks ago in playlist Sexuality
virginity is gone at the first instance of a penis entering a vagina... bottom line
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If you got raped and you were a virgin, you'd still be a virgin at heart.
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Greg, I'm having a mental breakdown right now with constant crying spells... i hope that you'll talk to me.. i really need someone right now.... It won't let me contact you on your site. Please, please e-mail me when you have time. I would appreciate it so much. My email is derangedlucidity@gmail.com
LucidPerception 1 month ago
If you got raped and you were a virgin, you'd still be a virgin at heart.
kawaiiheatherable 1 month ago
@kawaiiheatherable
Perfect statement ! Thats actually really true :o
Jigpikchu 1 week ago
Virginity is, like you said, a gift. A gift you only give to someone you love.
Kasyisawesome123 1 month ago
Wise words Onision.
Makes me feel kind of warm inside <3
rachaelBism 1 month ago
nicely put, you are very kind :)
CaselleJeanne 1 month ago
u give your virginity for ppl you luv (:
xxCookieLovesYouxx 1 month ago
Oh Greg i really hope you will read this. I have a friend who was raped 1 yr ago. Yesterday we played a truth telling game with some friends, and all of us had to tell if we are virgins or not. Everyone knows about Jennys raping, and when she said she's a virgin everyone was like "eeh nooo you're not!?" "Weren't u raped, or did you lie about that??" So basically everyone at school today called her a liar and stuff... she tries to tell them that she sees herself as a virgin but no one listens...
eeelineify 1 month ago
@eeelineify what kind of fucked up school do you go to where they make fun of raped people? they sound like shit friends to play truth or dare with haha
thethreeamazingmen 1 month ago
Greg-you answered this brilliantly and beautifully. Thank you for that.
Ikimification 1 month ago
Virginity is a gift. Someone can take that gift, theirs or not, rip it open, and claim it as their own. You can claim to take it back, and maybe even try to wrap it back up. It's not the same. You know that it was stolen, and tampered with, and you had to go through that pain. If you can see it as not taken, then power to you. Most people can't, sadly. And physically, it's impossible to gain back your virginity.
Also, I don't think molestation is taking your virginity. Still is wrong though.
wolfforce58205 1 month ago
Clueless
sheri226 1 month ago in playlist More videos from OnisionSpeaks
No I don't believe that to be molested is to loose your virginity. To lose your virginity is to willingly have full and complete intercourse with whom you love and want to "give yourself" to :)
Kaylalaperson 1 month ago
I favorited ♥ How can I not, I mean, this video is amazing, and your eyes are beatiful ♥
xoLivBoo 1 month ago in playlist Sexuality
Well... as it seems to be logical that Physically it's given the first time you have sex, i do think almost the same as you. I gave it to my actual Gf and it meant it in both sides. Physically and Emotionally i've lost it. The thing is, to me the best way it's when you give it to someone you do really love, in both ways, physically and Emotionally, and it's mutual.
danielnx 1 month ago in playlist Sexuality
i was...well something happened to me on vacation once when i was a kid, let's just say it was the most traumatic thing that can happen to a kid...and i still considered myself a virgin until i gave it to my ex bf
completely agreed onision :)
TheSadandalone 1 month ago
yes true,emotionally and physically are two different things,I think Jesus's mom would agree
TheTEKMOJO 1 month ago
if youre raped, then physically, youre not a virgin anymore. thats how it is. but since you didnt do anything yourself and still have no experience what so ever you still are one. i guess.
ShirouNiichan 1 month ago
You're right Greg. <3
FinalFantasyXPro 1 month ago
I think giving your virginity is more than just the act of sex, it's the choice to have it-a specific mental inclination and decision which is not present when molested. Even though a hymen may have broke (they usually break from other things like sports or tamps anyway) virginity is still something so personal that it can't be taken away without your consent.
Izlandzadi14 1 month ago
hm, i still think rapists have stolen virginities. because the person has still experienced sex, despite it not being pleasurable at all. but then, having proper meaningful, loving, or at least lusting sexx is a whole different experience. maybe thats what it could be. hm, i dont know.
DevilBesideYouu 1 month ago
I think they are still virgins. I think those victims don't feel the same way...because it was stolen from them.
bonnieyode 1 month ago
@bonnieyode Yeah.... I agree
RJZehnnyNMV 1 month ago in playlist More videos from OnisionSpeaks
Virginity is God's greatest gift:)
summerdawncarter 1 month ago in playlist Rape
I totally agree :)
DxMxAxR 1 month ago
so true
MaddISTATION 1 month ago in playlist Rape
I gave it to the wrong person. I should have known better, but I'm young, and it was a lesson well learned from...
tutuChan17 1 month ago
@tutuChan17 People say you can always say no to sex even if you've said yes before... Hey at least you cn admit it :)
DxMxAxR 1 month ago
I love your analogy(:
kites9 1 month ago
I agree.
TeddyBearFreaks 1 month ago
so agree in what your saying .
cassandragirl1 1 month ago in playlist Rape
this shit is deep yo.
no pun intended..
Kebzlie 1 month ago in playlist Rape
if you unwillingly gave your said "gift" To said person then physicaly no you are not a virgin But mentally you are because your gift was stolen not given so mentally yes your a virgin physicaly no your not
XxHatersgunnahatexX 1 month ago in playlist More videos from OnisionSpeaks
Onision, your definition may be debated (not saying I am debating but you know) but regardless this was pretty deep. I'm left in awe
mackdee911h3 1 month ago
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XxHatersgunnahatexX 1 month ago in playlist More videos from OnisionSpeaks
this kinda has something to do with this amazing vid but here what I has happened to me I've use to hurt my self because I found out my whole familys thing that they do. if I harm my self did I lose my inoscence?
mackaylashea 1 month ago
this speaks to me so much ! i was raped as a child and i went 8 year blaming it on myself say i was a whore and i wasnt a virgin <333 greg you are amazing
TheBbygirl009 1 month ago
@Eressiz The ugly truth
SuperCanadianKid 1 month ago
You sure like to talk about girls losing their virginity a lot... Like everyday.
Wheresmybackpack 1 month ago in playlist Rape
@Wheresmybackpack -.-
AtsQuiteFoShu 1 month ago in playlist Rape
Girls, (95% of the watchers) You lost your virginity when you took a penis to the vagina.
You lost your emotional virginity whenever the hell you wanted to do it.
Guys, (remaining 5%) You lost your virginity when you took a vagina to the penis.
Girls regret the guys they slept with
Guys regret the girls they didn't sleep with.
Eressiz 1 month ago
You actually brought tears to my eyes, Greg. For the past four years I've been regretting losing my virginity to someone who didn't care about me. But I think that my physical virginity was the only thing lost. My emotional virginity I feel I gave to my boyfriend of two years after our two years of dating. We waited two years and it was beautiful. He's my official first. :)
TubaHero17 1 month ago
love it <3 alot of people try to go by the hymen, but that can be torn in very many ways. a woman can tear it while doing stetches or using a tampon and would never know because it's just like period blood. nothing defines your virginity except for you giving it away in your first time, because if you go by when the hymen is ripped, you must also say that the first time a guy ejaculates he has lost his, which doesn't make sense...
keg2014 1 month ago
<3
BlackTshirtFan 1 month ago
Well said Greg. :)
eeelineify 1 month ago
I`ve been avoiding your videos for a while . . . your opinions sometimes hit a nerve. But watching this . . . I remembered why I subscribed in the first place. Sometimes, your wise opinions are a blessing =)
Sambuddy11 1 month ago
I agree100 % with you. And I liked the analogy that you made. Fits perfectly. :D
punkymaus 1 month ago in playlist Rape
with all do respect, you can only give your sentemental virginity to someone, with that i totally agree... but in physical terms, obviously the same logic doesnt apply... and part of the emotional changes that rape or molestation can give someone is the idea that the sentemental value of their virginity has been tainted or stripped completely. you have to agree that specifically in women, the first time they have intercourse, consentual or not, their virginity has removed.
jogeba 1 month ago
virginity is technically a state of mind
2020basha 1 month ago in playlist Rape
Totally agree with you.
iiUndeadKitty 1 month ago
I completely agree with you Greg.
MultiTinkerbell56 1 month ago
i love the way you think Greg. especially on this topic.. ESPECIALLY on this topic
xXCatCrissAngelFanXx 1 month ago in playlist Rape
Onision- "I dunno, what do you guys think?"
Well, whenever anyone posts a video response or a comment replying back one of your videos THEIR opinion is almost always wrong in your eyes. Get over yourself. Your not always right. I'd hate to be the person who thinks they've got a better vantage point than EVERYONE ELSE when it comes to widely discussed topics. By the way, virginity is a gift. You dropped and sacrificed everything to give it to a 17 yr old who fucked you over. Good job, Greg.
nbartlett13 1 month ago in playlist Rape
if he had blond hair he might look a tad like kurt cobain... just saying
AmeliaDuphraine 1 month ago in playlist Rape
@AmeliaDuphraine true lol hes cheek form looks kinda like his :)
NerdetteTheNinjette 1 month ago
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AmeliaDuphraine 1 month ago in playlist Rape
My friend was raped by her step-father, and I will never stop telling her that she is a virgin. She enver wanted anything to happen. I believe you are a virgin until you make the choice to have sex, but after you make that choice, you can never take it back and want to "start over", because it's gone.
CrystalizedMurder 1 month ago
@myoka08 lets say i have a baby i can say im a virgin? if slept with 10 people im a virgin? every time i have sex im a virgin?
TheCrazyCatLady81 1 month ago
@TheCrazyCatLady81 If you willingly had sex, which is what he's saying, you are not virgin. If you are raped, you are not physically a virgin, yet mentally you are because you did not willingly give it away. Make sense?
TokioHotelrox900 1 month ago in playlist Rape
<3
MrZadeak 1 month ago
@onisionspeaks So i recently found out that my friend has lied for 2 years about being raped, Im not sure if i should give her a chance to explain why should would lie about something so serious or if i should rid her from my life? Any advice?
JORDIEandEVA 1 month ago
@JORDIEandEVA It's possible that she's just looking for attention, but it's also possible that she is sexually disturbed and a previous event in her life scarred her mentally, or certain circumstances brought her to lie how she did. All in all, lying is never good - but you should ask her why she lied, not Onision. That's just my take on it.
mewnlite 1 month ago
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JORDIEandEVA 1 month ago
<3
TeenageEntropy 1 month ago
<3
Whyamiherel0l 1 month ago
<3
Ahv0 1 month ago
I'm pretty sure you already covered this...
ChrisbeFoSerious 1 month ago
i dig your take on this.
stoked86 1 month ago
<3
cancerianbabe06 1 month ago
This video just proves your haters are pathetic ignorant morons. So many down thumbs on a video trying to defend victims of rape.
lizzietupman 1 month ago
@lizzietupman I agree, I see no reason for people to thumbs down this
HerroMissSarah 1 month ago
I think there's the physical virginity and the mental virginity. No matter what you do, you can not take away a person's "mental virginity", it has to be a choice.
CamillaWRasmussen 1 month ago
I'm a 27 year old virgin.
hurtmyfeelings 1 month ago
you unblock me it awesome means you read my message
juanmartineztvshow 1 month ago in playlist Uploaded videos
thanks i guess you got my message
juanmartineztvshow 1 month ago in playlist Uploaded videos
hiiiii
juanmartineztvshow 1 month ago in playlist Uploaded videos
But, it is definitely helpful for those who were raped.
mcrfan1324 1 month ago
Maybe first sex ever? Even if raped, they are not virgins. But they can still have first sex with someone.
mcrfan1324 1 month ago
if you've had sex, willing or not, you're no longer a virgin.
libbylust 1 month ago
@libbylust Agreed
darkerca 1 month ago
@libbylust maybe physically, but i emotionally i think you decide.
mattyrulz13 1 month ago
Molested?? Or raped?? If molested no, if raped physically yes your not, emotionally you can still loose your virginity with someone you cared about!!!
ElMagnificoRe 1 month ago
if ya got fucked, you aint a virgin nuh more ;( (da trufe)
stepmothersugarwater 1 month ago
Greg, your amazingg we all love you!! And all the haters are proberly molesters/rapists
LOLmunch 1 month ago
86 people are pro-molestation
IZZYcoble 1 month ago
@Naruto40883 Oh no, the poor little Christian has his feelings hurt? Is your god being made fun of? Awww poor little theist who willingly allows people everywhere to burn in hell for all eternity according to your belief system so why should we care about your feelings?
Vanstania 1 month ago
you're pretty amazing, you know that? x
Be1stkYourself 1 month ago
@OnisionSpeaks Me,having been raped, feels better because of this video. Thankyou very much Greg
ZOMGpiggy 1 month ago
With the idea that virginity does not only rest in physical manner and such a perfect analogy of the "gift" you have provoked debate between the viewers and once agaim shown the contrast in individual views. The thought of a mental acceptance taking part in the loss of virginity is correct from my perspective and if one is a rape victim and feels they've lost their virginity they can still take action with individuals they love to break the mental grasp of the subject willingly.
IwillDie4Ubabe 1 month ago
Greg...go look up definition of virginity...its unfourtenate that if somone gets raped its loss of virginity it really is...BUT ITS TRUE....sorry gergles ;)
Wellnow123123 1 month ago
If he cant commit, dont give him jack shit.
FluroUmbrella1000 1 month ago
the concept of virginity is outdated and ineffective
JackDLM 1 month ago
I disagree with you on many topics, but here I concur wholeheartedly.
14blackroses 1 month ago
the guy who asked the question, please do something about it
justinrocks300 1 month ago
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Oh go piss on someone else's door. It's my fu!king opinion why am I being hated on? I love how ive become a sexist, idiot with no brain who thinks the world is flat and may possibly be a cave woman I could rip apart your opinions but I don't I'm nice and respect others opinions. Hell even stating I'm a survivor of molestation not a victim as I don't think of myself as a victim it makes me sad to think that it's been hard for me to survive so much pain but i have i am a survivor yet you hate
TheCrazyCatLady81 1 month ago
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TheCrazyCatLady81 1 month ago
Saying that willingly giving someone virginity is the only way to lose your virginity is like saying if someone steals something from a store, it's not really stolen. It's fine. It's still there.
MezmerizedCA 1 month ago
I agree.
pinkfoundations 1 month ago
What he is trying to say, you loose your virginity when you willingly have sex with someone, that's it, period.
squirralicious 1 month ago
@TimZmuda I agree! Definitions to other people vary for some odd reason. Sexual intercourse is Not just penis entering vaginas
TheCrazyCatLady81 1 month ago
@louiseparc so you can have your opinion but not me? I also was answering a comment below about the hymen and tampons ect. If you read my post I stated it being a emotional thing as well I do believe the first time entered is losing it physically millions also think that and have for thousands of years and the lesbian thing I don't get what's your problem nit picker? So by your logic making out could be losing it? I said penetration not penis!
TheCrazyCatLady81 1 month ago
@TheCrazyCatLady81 People also enslaved people for years and thought the world was flat? When you know better, you do better. Since virginity is a physical/emotional experience intertwined. Medically, she would be a rape victim.
myoka08 1 month ago
@TheCrazyCatLady81 To all you people who are stuck on the physical side... not to be crude but say a virgin has a dildo...the "physical evidence" (which isn't reliable) is now gone. What is she then? lol Further evidence both the emotional/physical component need to be involved in order to give your virginity.
myoka08 1 month ago
So if a girl gets pregnant from having sex willingly, but just "chose" to keep her virginity in the process, does that mean she is experiencing immaculate conception? Dude, you just turned me christian with your astounding logic! THANKS GREG ILY LESS THAN THREEEEEE
RonaldoDeLosMuertos 1 month ago
@RonaldoDeLosMuertos
lol
GodlessManitoban 1 month ago
that was an excellent metaphor greg
seriousafro1400 1 month ago
thats well thought out I never thought of it like that
MK3TV 1 month ago
@TimZmuda No, it does matter. In the fact that, there is something called willing virginity and medical virginity. Not to mention for someone that had their medical virginity taken from them, means they can still hold on to their willing side. It also has to do with the therapy after being raped, they can still say that, yes, their a virgin. Like Greg said, it's a gift.
SuperPowerfulJT 1 month ago
Personally I belive if someone is raped, then they aren't physically a virgin anymore, but I think that theres a physical and an emotional/mental part to everything. So even though they wont technically be a virgin by medical standards, emotionally they can still give it away. You can still give the love, and the devotion that comes with loosing your virginity to the person whom they choose to.
froggerchik 1 month ago
can i rip your hair out?
TheKellymz 1 month ago
I Agree and im a virgin
Xstonerxhigh420x 1 month ago
It's called hymen the membrane sorry I couldn't remember it
TheCrazyCatLady81 1 month ago
I concur. It's nice to see this form of wisdom.
Necromancer679 1 month ago
Losing your virginity is when any penetration occurs we have a membrane it starts with a H being molested if penetrated is gone I lost mine to a very sick man when I was 5 to 9. If you've not been penetrated you do not use tampons or get pap by the doc as it would " pop your cherry" while you lost it against your will virginity is in your heart Born again. We are survivors not victims
TheCrazyCatLady81 1 month ago
@TheCrazyCatLady81 Not every girl is born with a hymen, and not every girl's hymen is broken their first time. So, are they still virgins? Oh, and masturbation can also break it... did they lost their virginity to themselves, then? I don't think so. Virginity is much more than a hymen, sex is much more than penetration. "Foreplay" is pretty much sexual acts. Also, it's phallocentric, at least if you meant being penetrated by a penis only... what about the lesbians?
louiseparc 1 month ago
didnt you already go over this
creecreemarie 1 month ago
I think people feel that virginity = the first time you have sex, by consent or force. And so people feel like it's been taken away if they are raped etc... but I agree. Even if the first time was not by your will, you can find someone and make sex a special experience to recover from the incident.
iTeets 1 month ago
this paradime shift just blew my mind
MrPieboy777 1 month ago
ggg
pastafarianunicorns 1 month ago
this is so utterly triggering. like, you have no idea.
first off, you have the definition of molestation correct. i've been there, i should know.
second, you've used the gift anology. well, what about this: if it's a gift intended for one person and someone else steals it, then its gone. that person that it was meant for never gets it. the same with virginity, if you think virginity is only broken by sex. i've been molested but i am very much a virgin. i just think it's all about how you see it.
trueromancefurimmer 1 month ago
@trueromancefurimmer Well said.
KelebekDream 1 month ago
why did i post that? lmao. who cares
ZtifazLove 1 month ago
K i dont care what any of you have to say.. and yea this might be too much imformation lmao.. but, its a piece of skin!(atleast i think it is....O_O) But anyway. i only think virginity can be taken from someones after they have had intercourse. So.....Is wearing tampons breaking your virginity personally? idk its confusing... O_O
ZtifazLove 1 month ago
@ZtifazLove No, The state of never having had sexual intercourse is what Virginity is
TheWoWJoo 1 month ago
The way I see it is if a penis has been in your vagina, you are no longer a virgin. End of story.
Aprilmcr 1 month ago
My definition of virginity is "an arbitrary concept used by obsolete cultures to determine the worth of an unmarried maiden."
Krogoth04 1 month ago
@Krogoth04 i second that statement. :)
JoolieRoolie 1 month ago
I do not mind having mine gone, however i do also do not mind who i gave it to, me and him may not be together, but he is still one of my best friends.
Nikita666137 1 month ago
I wish I could have mine BACK...Or I wish I could change who I would have given it to...
xxxchaotixxx 1 month ago
This makes so much sense to me. What a wonderful way of perceiving sex as an emotional act rather than strictly physical.
Reichan94 1 month ago
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Onision YOU are a sexual predator, you are OBSESSED with sex, sex related videos, rape etc and all the while knowing the majority of your viewers are 12 years old... you are a freak you need to be locked up.
brindabellaoffroad 1 month ago
@brindabellaoffroad Okay, that means you think a hymen determines whether someone is a virgin, when in fact, there are females born without a hymen. Born without virginity? Yeah, it's possible, according to you, despite no previous sexual acts. His speaks channel focuses on mature material so most of these videos would naturally be watched by a more mature audience... such as those who doesn't make trollish accusations of predatorism. You aren't funny, mate.
godofawkward 1 month ago
@brindabellaoffroad hey! do us all a favor and go away. *shoo*
trueromancefurimmer 1 month ago
you're a freak, your analogies are TERRIBLE. if a girl has had a penis in their vagina they are no longer a virgin, fact!
brindabellaoffroad 1 month ago
B^)
Apololover 1 month ago
testing testing 123
Apololover 1 month ago
I 100% agree with you.
AddictedToMusicxox 1 month ago
you talk about molestation and rape meaning you think about it alot more. you probobly get off on the thought of someone actually being abused like that, not like kinky roleplay but the actual crime. and you can have virginity taken away. you are a fucking idiot.
RicniLotra 1 month ago
@Onision Women's rights have ruined this country, end of discussion! :O
TheToilet21 1 month ago
so defloration is not loosing virginity?
I don't actually agree with you.
what if the girl gave her virginity after being 3 years in a relationship with her boyfriend and after some time they broke up, she doesn't love him anymore and now she might say to her new boyfriend that she will give him her virginity because she never cared or loved her ex-bf
she might have an excuse that she was wrong about him all this time.
this gives her infinite virginity lives. so she's hacking...
BoyDaMiller 1 month ago
@BoyDaMiller No because it's a gift that can only be given once.
If you are raped, you are still a virgin. But if you consentual sex and then decide that you don't love that person, you are no longer a virgin because you have already choosen to give away your virginity.
A girl on the onision forums said it well: "To me, virginity isn't an unbroken hymen, it's an idea. An idea that cannot be stolen, only given."
LucyFanBoy 1 month ago
steal ALL the gifts!!!
BoyDaMiller 1 month ago
Awwww, you are so sweet! ^_^
I love the way you think about this topic.
I agree with you 100%.
I will share this video so people can see and understand your message here. Because it is true. It can't be stolen; it can only be given.
Thank you for your thoughts Onision. Truly.
TheGracefulDemon 1 month ago
Virginity is until a penis is inserted into vagina.
tom9152a 1 month ago
Dude! Why are you so obsessed with rape? It's kind of creepy!
LynxPointMama 1 month ago
@LynxPointMama he talks about these things because people ask him to .__.
LoveFoREVer470 1 month ago
Virginity is an idea, not a body part, or a physical act. For women, if a hymen's broken, that doesn't mean your virginity's been taken, because you can break a hymen during yoga. Most girls break them early on anyway, way before intercourse. When you decide to begin to build a sex life, then your virginity is given, not when your harmed by another sexually, or forced into sex that you don't consent to.
TylerBunnylover 1 month ago
Oral is often considered Molestation, not Rape so your definition of sex comes into play.
I agree with you. Just because you were molested or raped does not mean that you're not a virgin or that you're a slut or anything like that.
brittmstar 1 month ago
im amazed people still ask you questions for knowledge.
ShaShaFuchsia 1 month ago
I wish you had more positive videos like this ~
liked.
gettheledouthomes 1 month ago
its a sweet, poetic thought that ones virginity cant be stolen. Having said that, i disagree with you. I believe virginity to be entirely physical, just like a birthday gift. If somebody steals it (whether its intended for them or not), its gone. But like you said, its only an opinion.
StevieDisopolis 1 month ago
I'm already seeing idiots posting "Stop talking about God..." or "Dumb topic dude". Good job, you wasted about 3mins of your time. If you don't like his opinion about God, stop watching his channel, go watch some god-fearing imbecile say that everyone who doesn't believe in god are going to hell. And the dumb topic guy, go get molested in prison and say it is a dumb topic.
Oathkeeper2001 1 month ago
@Oathkeeper2001 "Like"
DyingRose0144 1 month ago
Wow. Such a touching sentiment and I'm sure its something a lot of people need to hear. This was really beautiful, keep being amazing Greg, more people need to hear your serious videos.
RareOpalDragonPerson 1 month ago
Onision stop makeing fun of god. I'm very religious . And you to stop. What will you do and die. And have to answer to god ?
Naruto40883 1 month ago
@Naruto40883 What will you do when you die and have to answer to Allah?
Or Buddha?
Or Krishna?
Or any of the other thousands of Gods that "exists"?
SammDogg 1 month ago in playlist Uploaded videos
@SammDogg tell them all to go to hell because none of them are useful in the slightest... Btw. Im agnostic, but seriously @Naruto40883 i dont sit there and pray to my 'god' I believe in karma, and pushing shit on people have never got anyone anywhere. Onision has the right idea, your 'religion' is seriously contradiciting, selfish and fucked up...like the rest of them. Get a hobby.
SharnaPaige1 1 month ago
dumb topic dude.
jodopeg 1 month ago
@jodopeg Dumb comment dude.
SammDogg 1 month ago in playlist Uploaded videos
I go by the medical definition of virginity, but the reasoning and behind your definition of it is very moving and respectful of people who have been victimized or taken advantage of.
For me, as far as virginity being a gift, I think sex in all forms and all levels should be considered a gift.
MelTheLittleOne 1 month ago
yet again i love the vid. your view is exactly what everyone tells me and cant quite get through my head. still tryin :)
xXCatCrissAngelFanXx 1 month ago
Wow, you sure seem obsessed with violations of people.
HighProphetOfRegret 1 month ago in playlist Uploaded videos
Onision, while I've only been watching your Speaks videos for a little less then a year, they've really benefitted me in the way of bringing in new concepts and ideas- making me really think about stuff. Your videos are really helpful. Thank you for existing. :)
KattLove5 1 month ago
When u have sex u lose ur virginity, but it's not a big deal
lmoen21 1 month ago