Girl Talk

[rujjur4]

OMG that's really my type. I don't know but I have many crushes for that type ;)

[Jimmyjoeandthegang]

hey what the fudge. "Beaverbunch- Girl talk" i was mislead.

[ImABabyBeav]

OhMiiGawssh!!!

who wrote this i pretty much love you just from what i know through the beaverbunch!!!! :O:O:O <3 <3

[MissTotos]

Loved the "SO" lol

Also ur nickname.. DORK PRIDE! *waves the flag*

Also I dig your hat. Good advice.

[The18Smo]

Loris has such an incredible positive attitude to life...wow

[newtonmeters]

I don't mean to alarm anyone but I think she's a lesbian...

[BeccaSir]

LORI!!

I have been spending sometime attempting to leave you a video comment. If you go to my page it's there.  It wouldn't let me send the link either. If you have some time to watch it that would be great.

Have a great day!

[jazzie0707]

I would date someone who wore vintage dresses and thick rimmed glasses!

That actually sounds like EXACTLY my type of girl. XD

[ariiscool3]

HAHA positive lesbian experience.=, im so gonna use that someday. Lori you rock;D

[jessimilagres]

Btw, girl with the vintage dresses, thick-rimmed glasses, and pride on your messenger bag: you're just my kind of girl. Keep your chin up; you'll find someone who will love you for who you are.

[ostersan]

one time I nabbed a girls' number by casually and super-cool-like mouthing "Hey" as I swaggered by her. Her account of the event is slightly altered ... apparently I screamed "HEY!!!!!!" into her ear as I stumbled by in a bar. Whatever works.

[twinklewonderkid91]

You got your g/f by telling her she needed a postive lesbian experience? lol

I got my g/f by casually leaning against a sink. Apparently I looked really hot hahaha.

[soaks77]

Yep, I came out to my Mom on Christmas, over the phone no less. Sheesh, what is wrong with me :)

[CurtainRod]

gosh, Lori, you always know just what to say to make me smile. =)

[wordsforthewind]

Thanks Lori! Best pep talk EVER! :)

[Jerac1337]

be weary of the van but a VW bus is a-ok

[culbycheese11]

I came out to my parents on Thanksgiving, too! Perfect time. Hah.

[LGBTeens]

wow, :]

[Juliebean52]

well hey she sounds cute to me hehe :)

[marisolvelazquez218]

that was great that you told this girl that she can be cute & hot with whatever she has and she can work it.

great advice Lori!

<3

[jammin88]

omg this is a good.. this is exactly what i needed to hear.. awesome advice!

[NewYorkHunter]

Lori this is AWESOME advice! Thank you so much! This helps out not only with romantic interactions but with overall confidence. Thank you!

[meribuu]

Lori, if you're half as good a nurse as you are a youtubeR, you must be a KICK-ASS nurse!!

[KaelybChase]

I'd love a girl like that. I don't think it's "dorky"

[requiemofspirits]

Thanks! I felt like this girl! ;)

[PaintedRavensong]

Very nice, upbeat video...great!

[SummerofCycling]

Amazing!!! It really made me think about things differently!!! :)

It's totally what I think about all the time!

[0frankie0and0julius0]

I could give you a huge hug right now!!  :D

I am totes going to try and use this advice ^^

Thanks a ton!

[sappho01]

What about when people get cold feet? I met this girl who is really cute and I think she was attracted to me too. But we both would get very nervous with each other, but I was hanging in. waiting for things to calm down a little before approaching her. She, however, is completely ignoring me. I am so over trying to make her comfortable about it

[Rachatbeaconhurst]

hey this video is so gd!!!

i am 16 and had a bad experience with a friend, she kissed me and i am the gay one then she claimed i kissed her because a guy walked in. the guy was fine about me cause my friendsa all know but she has completely ignored me!! any advice?? cause she is now being a total bitch towards me!!

xx

[halfbro]

I'm definitely gonna try and take this advice!

[misscm]

I came out to my parents on Thanksgiving last year! I thought I was the only one who didn't plan my timing too well.

[ambiesweetie]

i wish all girls were as sweet and genuine as you lori

[MBelvedere42]

it's true! the line TOTALLY worked on me! Lori told me i needed 'a positive lesbian experience'! what she DIDN'T tell you is that it was another 4 or 5 years until we started dating ;-)

i only recommend using this line if you know the person pretty well! hope to see all you baby beavs in a video in a few weeks ~marybeth

[tetsubo57]

You rock that hat Dear.

And only the good strangers have vans...

[goldentipz]

Great video, you should be a motivational / life coach - your a natural :-) Have a great day.

[123MikeyGo]

Jeepers Lori, this video is absolutely inspiring. This video has given me the confidence to go out there and get the guy of my dreams! I used to be a shy little baby beaverbut after watching your video I feel more confident and comfortable being myself. I havent been taking enough chances, but now Im going take more chances and hopefully Ill met somebody special. Lori Im sending you warm smile and this video is two thumbs up!

[Charles55661]

you're amazing love your advice to her...

[raiChan86]

Thanks for this video, i really needed to hear this. =) if you or the other Beavers want to come over to my channel, that would be awesome. I really apreciate all the advice and fun things you all put on the channel. Hurrah for positive GLBTQ people. =)

[boogerfaceXD]

omg you took the words right out of my mouth! As soon as you were done the discription, i was like, "Soooo.... she's positively adorable? And Probably smart?"

haha lori, you are no doubt my favorite beaver :)

[TheUrbanhippy]

So what you're saying is don't play games.  haha, you're awesome Lori.

PS- Would the vintage dress girl happen to be in Arizona? hmmm, interested...

Peace,

T...

[pixiesashes]

I totally agree but sheesshh some girls can be really mean!! but on the same token, if they are mean thats a bad sign or rather a good sign that you really dont want 'em anyway hehehe...

[singlechick27]

I love this video!!! this is just what i needed. THANK YOU

[WeirdAl68]

your laugh right before the intro says it all...hah!

[EBakesify]

"It's not like their gonna get you in their van... I hope." Laughed out loud!

[KazziKolorZz]

Confidence is key!!!! I'm a bull dyke with no since of style, but I'm confident as hell, and because of that there are both girls and guys trying to get a hold of me. Too bad for them, I've got the best girl on the planet earth.  ^_^

[skaterdarkis]

and lori, Great JoB! That was outstanding advice.

[skaterdarkis]

somebody tell that girl, that dorky dresses , a rainbow pin, and thicked rimmed glasses is just HOT!

seriously, i am the kind of girl that finds that kind of style seductive and sensual.

girl, I learned something... girls dnt bite, they re curious... they will like you for liking them... I have been let down by a lot of girls that I've had approached. But I don't regret being the one that steps up. it gives you a sense of strenght. try it ;)

[irissiri907]

i asked this girl out today.

I had never asked anyone out in my life... I was so nervous... then like i couldn't even ask.

She said no :/. haha

[FM897]

You gave it a shot and that's awesome!! You're so brave!!! It will get a little bit easier as times goes by.

[irissiri907]

she ended up saying yes :] i'm happy

[FM897]

That's so cool!! :)

[bornadisaster911]

aw lori, first of all, happy coming out anniversary!

and second, this video was adorable.

it made me think of the same person throughout this whole video.

i related to everything you said. it was like this person writing in was telling my story haha

[babyteethxo]

this almost made me cry lol,

i'm 18 and just coming to terms with my sexuality and am still in the....freaking out stage? if that is a stage....

anyways, thank you so much for making these videos.

and i love reading all the comments, they make me feel more normal <3

[Mamlog]

Pretty much in the exact same boat as you.

18, still learning to fully embrace it.

[babyteethxo]

i wish you the best :D

i still can't work up the nerve to tell anyone except for online

[Mamlog]

Aw thanks, you too!

Most of my closest friends know. You'd be surprised at how accepting people can be. It's a non-issue for them. But there's still a lot of people who don't know and it's oh so daunting. And I've never been a leap of faith kinda girl. Lol

And dear lord, your videos are a wee bit high-larious and I wish to steal your glasses in the dead of night.

[babyteethxo]

hahahah my my glasses B)

i think i'm going to try to come out to my gay guy friend today. he of all people should take it well, right?

thankyou for the words of wisdom <3

[guitarchick2233]

Yeah! Gay guys are the best! Very good people to come out to.

[babyteethxo]

haha i now know this is true! i told him and he was basically like "duh?"

i wish they were all going to be that easy, but i'm glad it was my first experiance.

[guitarchick2233]

Yeah, My best gay buddie was my first too, and its a good start. And i also wish they were all that easy

[Mamlog]

I was about to reply hoping it goes well but it seems all is fine! Ahaha

Yay for super come outey-times.

[babyteethxo]

hahah thank you!

yay indeed :D

[scotty4488]

you are so cute Lori. you make me smile when I watch your videos. Thanks for being a beaver!!

[cillyria]

Oh, Lori. You're such a motivator. :D

[tdubois17]

ok...I might have to slightly disagree about there being *no leagues*. There are totally girls that are out of my league...for example...gogo dancer goddess at the dinah shore this past year....yea like I have a chance...hahahaha (ps you all know which one)

[adri92239]

Is Jess okay? Is she still sick>

[Tobilover]

She's in CT....she had trouble uploading her video.

[adri92239]

OHHHH! I forgot about that! She's staying with Mary's family for post-Thanksgiving stuff right? Yeah, I saw that video... oops ^_^ I forgot.

[sidian3]

When I first saw my wife, I got so nervous I sent my friend over to ask her about restaurants in the area. And then she walked over with my friend. 9 and a half years later we are still like honeymooners, still giddy when we see each other. I had given up on relationships when I met her, I had stopped looking. And wow, a treasure that found me.

Great video Lori!! As usual!!

[chiller461]

i came out to my family the day sfter thanksgiving

[atoceansmercy]

@chiller461 How did that go? =\

[watuknogud]

yea? howd they take it?

[chiller461]

well my dad all ready knew but my mom took it a bit hard at first but know were ok.

[kitschywriter]

I think this girl sounds really cute. I would totally hit on her

[jessiono]

"Girls are nice" LOL we are not, don't lie

*evil smirk*

[alexje90]

Lori...were you a motivational speaker in a past life? Orrrr a counselor or something? Because you would be good at anything like that

[carsonmaier14]

My girlfriend and I have been together now for 2 weeks. i really like her and she says she likes me. but she's not out yet, so it's awkward at school and in public because we can't hang out without people assuming we're together because im out. so, yeah. i really don't know where to go from here ha.

[atoceansmercy]

@carsonmaier14 just take it slow, enjoy each other's company as friends, and if you're ready to come out to the world, go for it... Sometime's it's FINE to be in the closet, as long as you two are happy, that's all that matters. Just be careful around the parents if you're not out. Just be happy and enjoy life. If someone asks and they're offensive or something, just say we're really good friends.

[carsonmaier14]

im 100% out. she's not. she's still confused... and trying to figure things out. im her first girlfriend. she's my first girlfriend, also. but not the first girl i've had feelings for. she just.. isn't ready to come out and i respect that. i just don't know where to take this to.. because she doesn't even feel comfortable enough hugging me in public.. and we never get a chance to hang out after school.

[megsvideos123]

i asked my gf out over msn

and we've been together for 3 years on the 12th :)

[KayceKace]

I came out to my family on Easter...right after mass...lol surprise!

[wakyyule143]

i actually just came out to my mom...over facebook....

[meribuu]

wow... that made me picture a co-worker of mine joining some "Girls <3 girls" group and her mother and her friends commenting on it on the go!

How did it go, by the way?

rgrds

[brookho6]

To the girl who wrote in:

I would love to date a dorky, crummy old vintage dress wearing, thick-rimmed glasses rocking, little-rainbow-pride-pin-on-my­-messenger bag girl any day. Don't sell yourself short. I'm sure you're amazing. <3

[sonjunkie]

the way she described herself is amazingly hot to me :)

[nalarocksurscks]

Ditto!

[MadCoolHippy22]

Oh this is totally off topic but I just had to tell the bunch. I just came out to my first person ever! :). I told one of my best friends and they were totally supportive. I just wanted to thank you beavs in a comment because you guys helped me so much. Thank you so much.

[superbobfulspiffy]

congrats!

[MadCoolHippy22]

Nice vid :)