Dwayne Wade, Siohvaughn Wade and Gabrielle Union

[ilovejasminevx3]

II don't know why anyone would blame gabrielle. NO one forced him to be with gabrielle . He did it knowing the consequenses if she would sue anyone it should be him. I hate when women find out that their man is cheating and the first person they want to go after is the women HE cheated with . Like how dumb can you BE smh.

[eformationqueen]

@ilovejasminevx3 I agree with what you say, and women should not waste their energy fighting or suing the other woman. The man is the one dishonoring his marriage vows. However, shouldn't a woman have enough self-respect to not to openly date a married man? Also, wouldn't a respectful woman not want to have a wife see her with their kids before divorce papers have even been filed/signed???? Why do few people realize how hurtful that must be to the wife? That I don't get...

[MsVirgo2012]

I think Gabrielle was just being lustful by messing with Dwyane. She didn't want to wait long enough for the ink to dry before she stepped in to be messing with him.

[eformationqueen]

@MsVirgo2012 Although I can't say what she thinks or experienced, it surely does look that way. I personally think if you are married, you are married, and if people can't wait, at least they should keep it low profile until the divorce is final out of respect for the soon-to-be ex spouse and the kids. To me, it feels like that is the decent thing to do. Just one woman's opinion.

[eformationqueen]

@MsVirgo2012 Although I can't say what she thinks or experienced, it surely does look that way. I personally think if you are married, you are married, and if people can't wait, at least they should keep it low profile until the divorce is final out of respect for the soon-to-be ex spouse and the kids. To me, it feels like that is the decent thing to do. Just one woman's opinion.

[mokhashin]

The court case was dismissed. We don't know what all happened in the marriage/relationship. The married man is the one guilty, one, and we still hear the blame being placed on the "other woman".

[eformationqueen]

@mokhashin You are so right -- we don't know what happened with them. However, after it happened I remembered the interview I saw years ago about how before he had any money his wife and her family were a lifeline for him. So when I heard about his dealings with Gabrielle, my wifely bias came out! Oh well, I hope they work it out for the kid's sake. Thanks for stopping by and sharing.

[Geezyone]

You make a great and amusing video...but Gabby and Alicia...a man is only human...

[eformationqueen]

@Geezyone Thank you very much, but that is just wrong. :-) So if you have a wife, you would be cool with her leaving you for someone like Shemar Moore, Will Smith, etc.? My problem is when people get married, I don't care if the finest person in the world comes along -- you are still married... That is one women's opinion.

[eformationqueen]

Now, do people say this about Wendy Williams or radio celebrities when they talk about this foolishness??? :-) Actually I spend about 30 minutes on Fridays to talk about this type of stuff with strangers because no one I know has any interest or knowledge of this. So I guess it is a guilty pleasure! Thanks for listening though! :-) Take Care!

[dfreephoto]

You have to much time on your hands and I do to for listening to this LOL!

[Mew0116]

I agree with you 100%! Women need to stay out of other women marriages, even if it is about the be over. Wait until it is over! Other women are only blocking their blessings when they interfer in a marriage. Whatever a man tells you about his wife or marriage, wait until it is over. If you decide to interfer before it is over, he may never divorce his wife and if he does, you now have a man who you know will cheat on his wife!

[eformationqueen]

I agree with you 100% It is just too easy, and I don't think it is right. Couples do definitely need to re-evaluate, especially when kids are involved because they are the ones who suffer the most. Of course I mean when divorce is not the result of abuse, bad influence or other dangerous situations. Speaking of this, I just posted a video relating to Steve Harvey and Mary Harvey... I'm going to pray for their son. :-(

[Bencamerondavisjr]

How come she didn't state the obvious factors of this Wade relationship? His wife is crazy and unstable... The truth of the matter is that these two are incredible human beings, and we can't really say too many negative things about them... No one is perfect. I am sure that they weren't trying to put their relationship on blast. They continuously told people that they were friends... but it's hard 2 keep a low profile when you r Mega Superstars. Wade keeps his kids involved in his life.

[MochaSkies]

I agree with you and you make some valid points, however I believe that divorce is so accessible to people especially, hollywood people and I don't think that is right. I think that if people are having problems in their relationship, then they give up to easily and get a divorce. I think people need to re-evaluate why God commanded man and woman to marry and become one and what it truly means.

[03liveeasy30]

Yeaa, this was not Wade's fault. I mean he shouldnt have done it like that but theres two sides to a story. His ex- was CRAZY, there are reports of this. So I can see why he would want to get away from her. I do think she lied about some things though. He was father of the year so her saying he was a horrible father isnt that believable. && some other things she said were far out. I dont think either one is right but I dont think he is any more wrong than she is.

[ReadyRedd123]

Well I have to say that their are 2 sides to every story and judging by today's climate & mentally of today's woman, more than likely than not, it's HER fault,Siohvaughn Wade's that is, for the most part. A man will hold you down if you give him a reason to. We dont know if she betrayed HIS trust 1st,like early on in their relationship,& he just stayed quiet about,till he could do something about it. Women are WAAAY too sneaking & evil these days & tend to turn a good man into a woman hater.

[eformationqueen]

Me either... When I hear Alicia's songs I think about this. I shouldn't, but I can't help it. I need to mind my own business, but being a wife, you sometimes can't help but empathize with other wives.

[rue2themax]

I agree, so agree with u and as for Alicia....I cant look t her the same way

[prettyboy1970]

I wonder if Gabrielle union would be interested in Dwayne Wade if he were single and 100% available for a full-time relationship. So many sistas are selfish when it comes to commitment and are willing to engage in a part-time relationship with a married man because there's less work and effort required on her part. This type of homewrecking us epidemic in the Black community.

[serialthriller100]

Gabrielle union is a stank ass slut.She's been around and around the block.

[chellybaby]

@serialthriller100 hater. u know this how?

[serialthriller100]

@chellybaby sweetie your kinda late with your "hater" comment. BTW...for the love of god...find a new word. Hater is done. Smoochies CHILD.....MOVE ON!

[skinnyJEANking2]

You remind me of Regine from "Living Single." Gabrielle Union is sexy as hell. Dwayne stop leading on two ladies. Being a player is cool if you're a high schooler(not really). But you're an adult, start acting like it. Either divorce your wife or break up with Gabby.

[eformationqueen]

@skinnyJEANking2 I can see that. I don't know if that is good or bad though. :-) The rest of the comment I agree with though.

[skinnyJEANking2]

@eformationqueen I don't mean it in a bad way. To me, you two have similiar features. And both of y'all are beautiful

[eformationqueen]

The kids will undoubtedly suffer. That is the really sad part. Suing Gabrielle won't help the kids, but as a wife I am sure temporarily you will feel better. I do still believe that if a husband gets a divorce first, lawsuits such as these would have no basis, and a woman might not feel as scorned/embarrassed where should would retaliate in such a way. A sad situation though.

[VODMagazine]

Those kids will be hurt whether they are "officially" divorced or not. If Siohvaughn Wade was so eager to get divorced - she would show up for court. If Dwayne has feelings for another woman, then he shouldn't have to sneak around, or wait to get a divorce, before "publicly" moving on. Does suing your kid's father make you look good to your kids?

[eformationqueen]

You are right. My opinion is a thought, as all are. Not saying my way is the "right" way, but when you get married, most would agree, you should get divorced before "publicly" moving on. Again, my opinion.

[ruebenshaw]

your opininon is a thought. However I dont know if your way on how someone breaks up is suppose to break is the the right way. If the man wants to get with another women before he get a legal divorce is his choice.

[eformationqueen]

It was my pleasure. This is a crazy story, huh? Now I heard Siohvaughn was arrested! God bless the kids in all of this.

[SilkySmoove44]

Someone who shares the same views! .....Thanks for posting your .02

[H00DCHiCK718]

everything is false his soon 2 be ex wife thank god is jealous she needs 2 get over it

[eformationqueen]

I personally have no idea if any of what the media reported on this story is true. I am just commenting on what has been reported by the media. I don't know these people's business. I am just commenting. :-)

[eformationqueen]

Regarding Gabrielle having a better personality. She could have the best personality in the world, but that does not change the fact that he is still a married man who made a commitment. So that should be handled decently before he moves on to the supposedly bigger and better, greener pastures. Again, my two cents. :-)

[eformationqueen]

You are right about your first point.  I do tend to ramble. However, everyone says it is so easy to move on, but until it happens to you, I don't know how any of us can say it is to move on. Just my two cents.

Thanks for commenting.

[moonstar7]

How do you know that any of it is true regarding the children being around? If the wife has been fighting the divorce now for 3 years should Dwayne Wade date?

[josephb7]

Maybe Gabrielle Union has a better personality and it is not just about looks as u say. Obviously only the two of them know what the relationship is based upon.

[josephb7]

u have a very annoying delivery and need to get to ur freakin point quicker. Your long re-hash of the accusation just droned on and on and Wades wife needs to get another life. I think the soon to be ex-=wife is using the kids as a pawn which is shameful! Obviously she is a woman scorned. Also, to say he gave her an STD just to smear him and then withdraw the accusation further shows she is a woman trying to get vengeance.

[osehie]

keep quite... you are a noise maker.

[2008topshelf]

I absolutely loved this piece.

I am a male. I also love Gabby and, like you, have wanted to see her in more work - and still hope to - but this has just played out horribly. And like you implicitly believe - as I could tell - Gabby would have had the game to close the dating deal after a divorce. Gabby may even be able to close the chapel deal too. But I have this lurking feeling that 5 years from now when they're either still dating or married, some young 27yo is gonna do a Gabby.

[alyssaslater16]

dat girl need ta get over it shit move on he didnt want her n e more cause the women is mentally unstable ecspecially after realizing her ass is now broke she probly signed a prenup dwade wanted some new ass any way shit they been tagetha since dey 15 now dey in dey 30s or finna b in dey 30s das a long ass tym shit id get tired of her ass too specialy if i saw gabby walk pass

[juannacional01]

Damn dwade is a pimp nigga fucking top models...but I don't respect that shit of cheating on your wife when u got kids with her...

[whstephanie]

Well said! The world has gone crazy ! what is up with all these mistresses. I used to like Gabrielle but to come between Dwayne and his wife bad move! I do not believe the mistress should get a free pass in the blame game! It's 50% the husband's fault and 50% the mistress's fault. I toldly agree with siovaughn suing gabrielle for alientation of affection, whatever happened to for better or worse!