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  • what a song and oh what a powerful awesome voice !!!

  • watch me sing this song i made a film clip for it :)

  • love her singing took her long enougn to get the message out have no truck with CHEATERS they are losers and hurt others

  • With so many songs these days telling our kids and adults too that you have to give in to get something, I'm so happy there are still artists with positive messages, telling us to be strong and stand for ourselves.

  • this song makes me cry everytime... men hurt too!

  • I have loved sugarland for a couple of years now since I first saw the official video to this song... the emotion she shows gives me goosebumps and also the guitarist... love love love sugarland!

  • I also fell in love with Sugarland after hearing this song. I'm a big fan now; Jennifer is so talented.

  • i remember the first time i saw this performance, which was also the first time i heard this song. this is what really made me fall in love with sugarland.  love, love, love this song.

  • she is so beautiful, who wouldnt STAY with her?

  • love this song

  • all i can say is wow. amazing.

  • i want her

    

  • What a powerful version of this song.  Jennifer Nettles is an amazing singer.

  • this is about her true life.

  • She is the best! , she , they, both, understand so well what the music and writing music is! exactly what she says : "grabbing a piece of someone's heart and showing them themselves — 'Don't you feel this way? Can you feel this way? Have you felt this way? I feel this way.' " .

  • very distinct voice.....

  • @texangel65 nasal singing

  • its a pretty powerful message for a woman or a man. makes you think, even though it's a song. be accountable for your actions and think of others needs besides your own.

  • I'm just now "discovering" all these wonderful female country artists eg. Carrie, Miranda, and now this gorgeous creature! Jennifer has such a wonderful smile when she sings, it melts my heart...(where HAVE I been all these years (I'm 44), and why didn't someone tell me sooner more to the point???)...life just keeps getting better....

  • Why in the world would there be 27 dislikes on this?

  • @AwesomeWoman30 Perhaps the dislikes are because this song is from the point of view of a woman who's having an affair with a married man. Her hurt might be very real but it is slef inflicted.

  • Respond to this video...  Unbelieveable performance

  • Phenominominal voice !!!!!!

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  • Phenominal performance! Kudos to her!

  • DONT READ THIS BECAUSE IT ACTUALLY WORKS. YOU WILL GET KISSED ON THE NEAREST POSSIBLE FRIDAY BY THE LOVE OF YOUR LIFE. TOMORROW WILL BE THE BEST DAY OF YOUR LIFE. IF YOU DO NOT POST THIS COMMENT ON THREE VIDEOS YOU WILL DIE WITHIN TWO DAYS. NO, YOUVE ALREADY STARTED READING SO DONT STOP. THIS IS SCARY. PUT THIS ON FIVE VIDEOS IN THE NEXT 143 MINS. WHEN YOUR DONE PRESS F6 AND YOUR LOVERS NAME WILL APPEAR ON YOURSCREEN INBIG LETTERS. THIS IS SCARY BECAUSE IT ACTUALLY WORKS

  • sounds like a young Reba!!!!!WOW

  • Sound sends goose bumps down your spine, hairs stand up on back of your neck and then you simply just enjoy singing perfection.

  • speechless....

  • It's amazing how you don't don't have to hoop, holler, and dress provocatively and still make a hit. These women need to look and learn.

  • This song tears at your heart. So many of us have been there.  Beautiful song.

  • I had never heard a person sing a song about eing in my situation, it's always hate against the other girl but no one ever realizes the pain they endure. I felt like she crept into my heart and pulled these lyrics out. Yesterday, I pulled myself out of the relationship of being the other woman. This song helped me over months and months to build up the strength to finally realize I'm better.

  • Love Love Love this song and Jennifer's performance.

  • Lock it up and throw away the key. Nobody should ever attempt to sing this song besides her. That is how to interpret a song.

  • @currycash Amen. And I mean No One should attempt to sing this song. They would fail. This song was should only be sung by the songwriter, Jennifer Nettles.

  • I'm livin this right now. it really hits home. Beautiful song from a beautiful woman

  • The instrumentals accompanied by their wide range of vocals can perform almost any song.

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  • Awesome Awesome song...Love it!

  • This was the song that made me a country fan. I adore her voice.

  • goosebumps

  • By far the most powerful voice in country today. Saw her in concert last week, one word: Phenomenal.

  • she can tell a great story with such a beautiful voice.

  • i totally fall in love with her voice

  • cant wait one day reba  and sugerland will do song together would be one hell of a show

  • i love ur voice:))!!!

  • Well finally a singer that just stands their and knows how to sell a song.

    jeffreydeitelbaum "Say My Name" youtube

  • This song is so sad but she's so talented :)

  • <3

  • I know what it's like to lose the one you love to someone else, and he took everything I ever wanted in life. Though Karma came back around, and the one she left me for left her, and left her pregnant. It makes me fell no better, but all my hopes and dreams are now gone. Check out the videos I have posted, and it's a 4pt series. Love of my life Laura. This one is 3 of 4.

  • jennifer you are the music to my ears ,you are the beauty to my heart and soul , i love you more than you will ever know , more than myself will ever know, just keep up with your best coz your best is good enough for me, love you always! GOD BLESS YOU! JOE SIEGRIST IN INDIANAPOLIS,IND

  • jennifer you are the music to my ears ,you are the beauty to my heart and soul , i love you more than you will ever know , more than myself will ever know, just keep up with your best coz your best is good enough for me, love you always!

  • she's one good looking georgia gal for sure.. one of the best voices ever. she does this song well as with most intertainers she's lived on both sides of the point she's making.

  • she's one good looking georgia gal for sure.. one of the best voices ever.

  • Pure talent. She has such a pretty voice.

  • Quit fucking married men.. Great song, great singer tho.

  • I love it!!!

  • how could anybody dislike this? even after taking the time to actually watch it?

  • omg!! this songgives me goose bumps...i love it!

  • if she was my woman I bet i wouldn't leave

  • A lot of mistresses don't realize that they don't have to settle for a married man. Often times they and the wife truly believe that's all they can get; you know the "a piece of man is better than no man at all" syndrome. Ladies, if he's with someone else when he gets with you, 9 times out of 10 he ain't leaving her. If he does, he'll most of the time also leave you for someone else. We all deserve better than that. Love yourself first! We MUST demand more from people who claim to love us.

  • @mne202001 - I fell in love with someone who four years later I still can't get over. I left my wife, I lost my job, I tried suicide...I loved her...She sent me this song at the beginning but left 4 months into the relationship. I agree with you concerning statistics...but just be real.

  • Justwanted yall to know that.

  • When this video came out Jennifer was going through her divorceand the feelings were real.When they were making the video her tears were heartfelt...god bless her for that but that made the video so true!!!!

  • I play sax & keyboards/piano in the soft rock/pop genre .... notice I said "SOFT". The guitar lines in this song could be made to also sound great with piano. I'm working on my Masters in Music Theory & just may try that as a project. Be interesting to see how it converts over to soft piano.

  • I have been there and I can totally relate. Of course there wasn't any sex happening but he was dating me and another girl. I basically told him to kick rocks because I was tired of it. I wish this song was out when this was going on for me. It would have inspired me to act sooner.

  • Oh, and what's even crazier than my cousin looking like her.. My cousin was a wife to a man who did this.. Except, she let him do it so he wouldn't leave her for the other woman.. So, it basically like my cousin's song, from this point of view even, but with her as the wife instead of the mistress. :/

  • She looks so much like my cousin who passed away Feb last year. (2009).

    And this song makes me wish my cousin could've stayed...

    R.I.P Adrienne. we love and miss you like all hell. <3

  • I love this song. I know how she feel and it dose hurt no it kill . but that life we go on

  • this is a good song love her voice it's hard for any one when you have to share a man but the way this world is now a days it happens

  • I always cry when I hear this song....one of the few that actally make me cry....was never in this postion but I feel the words!!!

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  • Some of you may think that the (other woman) is nothing but a whore. It happens. There are some out there that don't care who they hurt. Then you have people who never meant to fall in love. They become friends and then it happens. They have walked away so many times knowing it is wrong. But they find their way back. Back to the arms that make you feel safe and loved. My love for him is like nothing I have ever had. I know he loves me. and I know I may never get my Happily Ever After

  • @qrbq18 I could not have said it better myself.  I walked away so that his marriage and family could stay intact and it has been killing me ever since. it hurts sometimes to do the right thing.

  • @qrbq18 I have been there and done this as well! and you are right you always find yourself right back there no matter how many times you try to walk away!!!!

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  • I love tthis song. Puts in words what I am going through. My soon to be ex went to my so called best friend. That is a true homewrecker.

  • incredible, the best, awesome, amazing, breathtaking.

  • she is so beautiful! i love her music....

  • this is so awesome, she's sings so well irl too <3

  • you can really hear the emotion in her voice.

  • anna j is just as good.check out her cover for this song

  • great voice but,anna c is just as good if not better.check her cover on this song

  • she kinda looks like Kirsten Dunce

  • this song is amaazing and so honest. shows how the other woman feels. they're not always the slutty homewreckers. im totally in L.O.V.E. with this song xx

  • i love this video she is pretty

  • What a voice. Best I've heard in a long time.

  • She does a fantastic job singing this song. It's upfront, natural and raw. The last time I heard someone sing a song with no back ground vocals or help of any kind is when Trisha Yearwood sang How Do I Live Without You. I think it was at the CMA awards. She sang this song and she got a standing ovation.

  • Been in this very situation. Lived every feeling of this song. I t is hard to Love a man that has obligations that is also in love with you. Weekends, vacations, years together and then they end up staying with the obligation because of guilt..... VERY hard position to be in....... Very hard situationto leave and forget and to put behind you...... I will always Love him!!!!!

  • When you wake up ... turn on the radio ... and someone 'sings' the words - matching what's going on in your head, then such a song becomes meaningful to you. Unfortunately it applies. And yes - jammageek - there is such a thing as a love affair between a (very unhappy) married man and his 'mistress'.

    "Love all the people you can. The sufferings from love are not to be copared to the sorrows of loneliness." (Susan Hale)

  • Music

  • just absolutely beautiful!

  • natural beauty,to the bone

  • Here it is in a nutshell. You dont have to like the song itself, But if you know anything about music and vocals you would know that the range she has is unheard of. I love this song her voice. Jennifer Nettles is awsome! And to top it all of she is cute too!

  • I went and seen her in concert. she's sexy...

  • At Description: She wants something different that isn't the same, but songs about loved ones, telling them they need to be with them not someone else all that, is like, the most cliche shit ever, sadly nowadays we've covered about every topic you can from raping kittens deathcore to this to hip hop to country music, everything sounds the same it just depends on if you like it, Modest Mouse is kind of in it's own genre of awesome unique-ness. Everyone cries, this song sucks.

  • I just love this women , and how she is bringing this number.

    Super!!!!

  • Did i mention I am all the way from South Africa, I heard their first LP on Cnet, downloaded that, but her excellent voice and liryxs stuck to me... Unfortunately the first and latest cd I had to pirate as there is no market for her voice in my country!!

    I hope and pray that will change as I believe she is one of the hottest new country voices and bands around!! I would gladly pay to listen to her voice!!

  • Hi guys, she is sertainly fine!!! I like her for being her!!

  • This is my story..... my testimony!!!!!

  • Amazing!!!

  • this song is amazing just because you can hear the hurt in her voice and that is what makes it so real and powerful

  • chills....almost everytime i hear it awesome song.....i do a cover of this song if anyone wants to check out my profile page

  • Im a musician myself and i can say that very few performances have given me goose bumps but this is one of them loved when i saw it the first time and i love it now great song!

  • thats one reason i like where i am,and this man,he is strong,and honest,and i am in a great place i take care of my 3 kids,and i take care of everything,i can do it,i dont need a man,i do love men,and if one day one wants to be apart of my life that way great,but this man i want him as a part of my life,and thats all i need is a friend with benifits,and thats what he wants to give,and he is a great gift.its better when you arent needy like the song suggest you have so much more power than know.

  • @cherrieburt so your telling me your with a man just for friends with benefits and both of you know that? but does he have a wife?

  • yes.

  • @cherrieburt You're nothing more than a cheating home wrecking slutty cunt bitch!!! I hope he fucks someone else too, contracts HIV and passes it on to your sorry ass!!!

  • funny i have been on both sides,i love the honesty about this song,right now i am divorced,i have a friendship with a man who i like very much,and like garth brooks sings with him i am shameless,he is a man who i really enjoy sexualy,and his friendship,i dont know how to fell about the situation,i do know i really like him,and enjoy him allot,and dont want it to end.

  • If people would actually read the side panel information--yes, this song is about the "other woman." But it deals with the same emotions as someone who has been cheated on.

    Being someone who has been both, it's essentially the same feeling. The jealousy, the possessiveness, the loneliness is the same.

    Everyone hurts when someone cheats.

  • This woman has a fantastic voice. So powerful. Ain't bad looking either. Nice guitar playing too.

  • AMAZING VOICE!!!!

  • @SuperNuela, +8 means eight thumbs up bro! -8 would be eight thumbs down! Appreciate the fact that we agree SHE IS DEFINITELY FINE!!! ;-)

  • Just amazing. Beautyful woman, beautyful song. Keep going on, don't stop!

  • !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

  • sharing a girl that you really like sucks...a lot...

  • just beautiful. i always tear up at the last stanza.

  • WOW. What a big, powerful, clear, beautiful voice. And.........she's fine!

  • @kdills dont know why you have so many thumbs down, shes fine as hell dude!

  • @kdills fine is not the right word , she is beutiful

  • jennifer and reba need to do song together

  • @DK152728 I second this!!

  • I never thought i would ever be able to explain to my girlfriend.... Well midway girlfriend ... how i completely felt about the situation we were going through wich amazingly was written and turned into a beautiful song... I love it..

  • @BenLukeMartinez;;; So you're a cheater? Why did this get so many thumbs up?

  • shes the cheater... haha i dont know about the thumbs up apparently people understood wat i meant

  • i miss you my ball..take care.12yrs,all gone.

  • i love this song so much i sing it all the time i no all the words........amazing

  • this situation sucks, i know 1st hand.

  • Same here its just the opossite cuz i had to share the lady...

  • beautiful!!!

  • I've never heard of Sugarland's music B4, WOW, What a Beautiful & Powerful Voice She has, I practically fell in love with her voice. The Story is also True in most cases, It does'nt matter if his guitar is outta tune a wee bit, Her Voice Carries the Song without focusing on the guitar. Thank you & have a Beautiful day, even if it is Cold outside ;)

  • i remember guy singing this song.who was that guy singing?

  • I know Ronan Keating did a cover of this song recently

  • Ronan keating.

  • Wow, i can relate to this song now in my present life. I was bumped from girlfriend status to the other woman, but faith allowed me to catch him with the other woman just in time. Ladies, please go with your instincts, if something in your guts is not right, believe in yourself and know that something is going on. Anyway, I'll be ok, i'm a strong girl and moving on to someone who is honest and not selfish.

  • I've been the other woman- it sucks and not everyone can admit it but she is right- 3 people are hurting in that situation. I relate to this song so well. Love it and sugarland!!

  • Its so sad omg how the truth can hurt been there and done that its something i think all women experience at one point in their life but you can get through it

  • this song makes me think of me & my ex-b/f & i cryed like a baby wow i love this song!!!!!!!!

  • love the song. Dudes guitar is just a weeeee outta tune.

  • untill you live this you cant possable understand beautifull

  • She is always so passionate when she performs

  • not trying to take anything away from this video but the actual music video is sooooo powerful.......shes is an amazing performer if this fiction because she made me boohoo cry when i saw her in the actual video

  • Listen to the last verse of this song. You realize that all you have left is your integrity and it's time to get OUTT!!!

  • ME TOO! this song makes me CRY!!

  • This song is sooo sad and deep. I could listen to this song over and over again.

  • this is absolutely amazing! i LOVE sugarland and i LOVE this song !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! ♥

  • This song is in response to the great Reba song. Just from the other point of view...interesting piece of songwriting. Wish people could divorce themselves from thinking that everytime someone writes a song it has to be EXACTLY about something from that person's life.

    GROW UP -- songwriters also write fiction.

  • I <3 her.

  • Beautiful...

  • great song

  • even better live!!!

  • This song is acctually about a man that is married to somebody else NOT her singing and he keeps cheating on his wife with her and she dosnt want it like that anymore because he keeps saying he will leave her and dosnt and she thinks she is just waiting for nothink!

  • Where have you been??????? That is not what the song is about at all.

  • Amazing..I love Sugarland the best band(country) ever.

  • love is a bitch.

    the mistress isn't always some hoe they are always portrayed as. Maybe they fell in love.

  • @jammageek true....

  • @jammageek just because the one banging someones HUSBAND is beautiful with a gorgeous voice and can squeeze out a tear when needed, DOES NOT mean she is to be pities. she is still a home wrecking hoe. Believe that!!!

  • @jammageek simply put you stay away from married men.

  • @jammageek: I love the way you put that!

  • Amazing song.

  • Oh and furthermore...the woman saying that we are gutless and pathetic human beings....its probably cuz you were the one who got cheated on...so yea ..our bad..shit happens...but ya cant blame it all on the other woman ladies....your husband has a brain too

  • Im in a situation like this, his gf lives in another country and hasnt been here for 7 months ..you cant help falling for someone ...even tho you know you shouldnt have...it happens... cant judge a person on something that they feel...sometimes it cant be helped

  • That's the most ridiculous thing I've ever heard. Yeah you can't help falling for someone, but at least have the balls to leave the one you're with before doing something stupid like cheating. Yes, I can judge a person for doing that, because there's no excuse for being unfaithful. Ever.

  • this song is very powerfull. It reminds me of someone i know

  • I can relate to this song. It is powerful.

  • i love this songgg.

  • I wanna give Miss Jennifer a big bear hug to make her feel safe & happy ;)