difficulties? IT'S NOT HARD AT ALL MORONS! Damn I hate this planet! >.> The only difficulty is dealing with idiots. I guess that's what it refers to. XD lol
remember when i dated out of my race. my god we got so many disgusting looks and comments.it was hard. i get white guys trying to talk to me all the time but i cant go through all the hatred anymore.
I have white friends, but I wouldn't date a white guy, or marry one, I couldn't picture myself kissing one or touching me. I don't know why any black woman or non-white woman would want to be with one of them. Friends are fine, but mixing with them, no. You don't mix with whites. It's taboo still.
both my parents are mixed and i find it astounding that people still even use the term "white" or "black". my parents never mentioned colour as i was growing up and i never think about it. when someone draws it to my attention i just think of myself as "brown" or ask them why it matters.
Remember interracial marriage or dating is still Taboo in some quarters of society.
A green light for stares..insults..finger pointing..etc. Yet in other parts of society its just a every day thing? no big deal. Actually even if interracial couples didnt exist` society would still find certain people weird or unexceptable.
@globehunter2 Yeah, that is true. I remember in 6th grade, everyone made fun of a cute Irish girl because of her accent. It was strange; it would turn into an almost mob mentality. Sadly, many people never grow up or learn from their own stupidity.
@globehunter2 staring is rude. Shows the people are rude. Insults are from immature people who are negatively obsessed with what they're insulting. Finger pointing is for the cliche.
What's wrong with interracial couples anyways? "The colors don't match" sounds like the worlds from a person with the mind... of a chewed up crayon. lol
jasonmit., i feel ur pain. im a blk grl engaged 2 a white guy n when we go out n public, we get stared at, laughed at, tlked about, everything. tha onli ppl that approve of our relationship is fam n friends. but its all cuz these hates r unhappy n dnt got a life on thier own so they dnt like 2 c nobody happy at all. i wish ppl can c couples 4 thier luv, not thier skin color
I'm amazed at how people feel they have a say in other peoples relationships. Love doesn't see color. People who have a problem with others relationships because of race either cannot find someone themselves or are extremely unhappy in their relationships.
I'm VERY happy for you Jason (and Merita). You two are leaps and bounds ahead of everyone else. Kudos to you and your marriage and I'm looking forward to seeing more of your videos.
Racism is part of human nature. Moreover, there is no genetic support for the colloquial concept of race; like a lot things people fight, kill, or worry about, it's simply not real.
I think racism, however, is a kind of prejudice that humans exhibit that would not be exhibited in a well-raised child. I think your children will be good strong people like you and your wife.
You are so true, its so cool for a black man to date or marrry a white female but as soon as a black female step outside her race its a problem. Black men will not only call her name but do thing to hurt her.
I'm a black man from rural south mississippi. My wife is white from small town in the ozarks of missouri. The best thing we did was to move away for 3 years to Michigan to establish our own identity away from such polarizing influences. We have since moved back south and regard that 1st 3 years of marriage in michigan as a beneficial & necessary time...we didnt get as many looks there and we even got to serve in church together.
I think people in general don't realize that black/arab/chinese/etc can be just as racist os white people Also Jasonmit, you should read about Seretse Khama, he was a black Botswana leader who married a white english woman, the South African Apartheid governemnt tried to get Britain to have the marrige annulled
@Jaylethal777 no they dont dude, stop looking for attention im pretty sure people are used to it now its 2010 however, people dont seem to be used to white men and who were with
I was expecting something TOTALLY different, when I saw this in my recommended. I'm really happy to see I was the ONE prejudging, and that I wrong. And you are right about BLACKS hating on INTERRACIAL love, we have no problem expressing the hate. I hope you and your wife enjoy each other forever.
Thanks for the post! I had the exact same experience. A guy tried to hit on me right in front of my bf, who is white, and when I told the guy that he was being disrespectful he acted clueless. "Well how was I supposed to know you were with this white guy.." he replied. I can laugh about it now...but its nice to know I'm not alone in this experience!
also, you can still be racist and be in a interracial relationship i found out...
my uncle is a very racist against Muslims, Indians, Arabs and other middle eastern ppls. i mean to the point that if he has to take a piss while he is driving and stops at a gas station and its run by a person of one of the previous stated races then he will hold it to go to another gas station. but (hes the real kicker) HIS GF IS BLACK!
nothing wrong with that but he gets mad when some1 says something to him....
3 things. 1. wtf is up with the pink wall?, 2. are you a programmer?, 3. i have a similar relationship. my fiance has a black father and white mother and i am white as you. but me and her have never to my knowledge had anyone say anything about our relationship we live in Kansas city. but she does get treated differently like her roommate in collage she was very racist to her till she saw me. that is messed up this shit needs to stop do you agree?
@DJAlup 1. Its not a pink wall. Its the sun shining through a red curtain in the bathroom onto the wall in the hall way. LOL Never noticed that before.
2. I'm a web administrator. Since then, I purchased a cabinet to put the servers in. You can see it in my latest video. Its nice.
3. Yeah, that's pretty jacked up. It sounds like, to her roommate, your fiance appeared "less black" in your company.
One thing I learned from making this video is many people have many different experiences.
@jasonmit wow... you are up late/early... considering we are in the same time zone.... i too am a web admin but i do less impressive sites im sure... lol. and thanks for the response...
@jasonmit God doesn't judge people on the basis of their outward appearance: Don't judge by his appearance or his height, for I have rejected him. The Lord doesn't see things the way you see them. People judge by outward appearance, but the Lord looks at the heart" (1 Sam. 16:7). Let this validate you and your relationship. You can't please everyone, so please don't try.
there is alot of blacks that do that.... its crazy.. you would nt think it would be like that but it is... its ashame though.... u love who u love people black and white need to come down.... u have great vids keepm up
@RockNRococo In my experience and it may be who we are, how we conduct ourselves, and/or the environment where we live, but while in public, generally speaking, we're both treated the same and treated as any other couple. And in cases where my wife feels she was discriminated against, I take her very seriously because she's not the kind of person who feels constantly mistreated.
But why did you feel the need to marry and have children with her?
I suspect you fell in love with her personality which had the effect of dampening down the way she looked, or maybe you felt guilty at rejecting her because you were confused and thought it would make you a racist. Chimpanzees are fellow primates, but does it make us primatist if we don't want to create children wth them?
everybody needs to get over it, its been how many years now and i didn't read not one word in the bible that said whites for whites and blacks for blacks besides i rarely find what i'm looking for because no one cares about religon and politics anymore everybody only care about the simple things that really isnt a problem
@ilovejasmaine The issue of religion always comes and goes and if you feel nobody cares about politics anymore, you've got to be living under a rock.
A debacle of a health care bill has been passed not long ago and may people are still ranting about that. The debate on Illegal immigration reform is already starting. So yeah, this country is quite worked up politically.
About this specific issue, yeah, it's a simple concept. But its a simple subject people try to make difficult.
thank you for being so open and candid.Its really a shame that this is still happening in 2010.We all need to love one another.Color is only color,love is whats important.Thanks so much for sharing.
I REALLY hate how some people will assume that white people are racist. Other races can be just as cruel. Other minorities will automatically be racist to a white person because they assume that they are racist. I think People need to wake up and start opening up thier minds. Your video was amazing and I agree with your views. (: Great job! I am hispanic and I have been a victim of racist people from different backgrounds so I know its not just the white people who are like this.
Oklahoma is very tolerant of interracial relationships, and a lot of it has to do with the long-standing acceptance of White/Native American relationships. I personally married a Chinese woman and have never experienced any kind of hatred or disdain.
well all i can say is that not all white guys r the same lol. I'm black and many white guys have liked me, but i strongly doubt that it's 4 the sex. Many white guys prefer me over many other black females.
i saw ur video Slideshow of my wife, Merita she very pretty... let the haters talk they JERKS !!! i b n interracial couple i get the same but i dont let that botther me. if u love her dats all it matters...
I dated white men before & they were sweet. But after being in this racist society only a Black man can be my king. White men don't know my struggle they have no idea because they get a free pass in life because their white. I have a good black man now & I am happy, but their is nothing wrong with dating outside as long as you r not doing it to have biracial babies or because u dislike your beautiful black features so you get some one of another race because of self hate then that's not good.
Thank you for sharing. You are absolutely correct about the intra-race racism that exists with regards to those that date outside their race. My husband is black and he has been subjected to similar comments as your wife. The biggest one he hears is 'oh, you couldn't find a sista'. Just as you two have done we ignore it and go about living. Anyway - loved to hear your story :)
i used 2 be a bit offended wen i saw blk men w/ women of other races. but i learned that i needed 2 come to terms w. my own insecurities automatically assuming hes w/ her b/c he doesnt like blk women wen its really none of my business. plus i realized i was being a hypocrite b/c every man i have dated has not always been black either. this is very eye opening 4 me & at the end of the day it all boils down to love
@esiuol21 I hate that to avoid racism of a race we join them together which insults people because they then think we're racist in that we don't wanna see a "pure race" anymore and that they HAVE to be mixed. >.> People are never pleased.
fuk those hating ass jokers b you got a woman u love and she love u too so wht blk brwn yellow wht ever fuk em if they hating keep beating the wheels of tht kit kat and have a mess of beautiful mulattoes son we got ya back in NC
I think you arent a sell-out until you specifically ignore your own race as you think the grass is greener on the other side. Most of the hate boils down to jealousy
i understand what you are saying and i am going to be honest with you. i myself kind of feel jealous when i see an interacial couple in love simple because it looks too beautiful and i wish that were me. its not racisim, its jealousy and envy that makes other people bitter cause they want to experience that too. so don't worry about what people think. when you go against the norm, someone, if not the majority is definately going to disagree with you.
The biggest reason, these days anyway, for disliking interracial dating, is the fact that so many white men cannot find a white girl now because of the millions of black men with white women. It's only natural that we will now have millions of single and lonely white men with millions of single and lonely black women who are starting to date each other. I guess my point is, it's not racism, it's a numbers problem that people dislike.
Oh give me a break! Daily, I see in the news or personal life or youtube someone who is single and looking. Both male and female, black and white. People act like a life partner is just supposed to pop up on their doorstep. You have to go out and meet people and pretty soon you will find someone. Every day I hear women and men say oh I can't find someone. Why can't these people find each other? People need to stop sulking and start looking!
@jtest28 dude, i dont do it because of white women...i seem to talk to more single white women than black women dude. i do it because i simply prefer black women, white women tend to be plain looking and boring with a chip on their shoulder to me. Also, remember there is more white men dating out than white women are..so maybe white women will have no choice but to date black or asian men.
i hate when me and my girl are out and we have people just stare at us. i found it is mostly older white women so i cant realy say anything to them. now i dont realy care you cant help who you love.
wow, did you say you are from OK and you don't have much negative reaction to your IR marriage there? I am white, my husband is black. I have family in OK. My husband and I live in Cali. I have encountered the most blatant racism when in OK. I'm glad it's not been that way for you.
see again word vomit - the elasticpickle - think beyond your minute 4 cnr box & realise that its already occurred all over the world. you didn't even put a justification as to why you personally feel that way. what real facts have you to find it effects you personally and i mean facts not opinions just because you've witness or endured backlash.. its such a non issue, only becomes an issue when people like you find "unacceptable". being biracial i find you to be inept, contemplate it!
Well stated. That child, TheElasticPickle's statement left me a bit taken. I knew I wanted to reply with something, but didn't know what.
I was taken with what thought process one must have to use a phrase like "interracially active." That's just bazaar.
I married a woman, not a concept. I get pretty fucking tired of people who wants to prescribe me to an ideology. The only concept I'm aligned with is that of marriage.
bigots are some of the funniest people in the world..interracialy active.. Well if i didnt learn anything today i definitely learned a new word. interracialy active..lol!! those bigots crack me up!!
i guess that's going to happen at some point or another.. why , unsure-way of the world.. sorry that your wife has to endure backlash from her own race sometimes, its quite sad, i guess its the consequence of the acts of past, i don't know why, biracial relationships are a great manifest that people can move past issues like that.. i hope its not intentional. is more like word vomit that just occurs without people thinking..
awesome points, i empathise with u.. being biracial i personally don't feel any different as its the only life i know as i'm from 2 different countries.i must admit that i have been taught sometimes to feel insecure by societies who continue to "state the obvious". Have never endured extreme prejudice, i hope that i never have to, have sometimes felt perceptional injustices but its all good.
As a bw, I support you and your wife. There is such a high percentage of single bw. It is surely ok to be with a man outside of your race if he is treating you well and cares enough about family to have a specified plan for the family. Bw lets support one another. Every single bw w/ children = another broken family and/or a single parent home. I support the family unit. We need that. Being single and independent is not that great when our children suffur..
I like that you said people get insecure when they see interracial couples. That's what it comes down to, insecurity. I truly don't care who's doing whom. I just get concerned about the children because it can be hard for them. I actually think people should think long and hard about making mix children. I don't think you should take that lightly. I used to think it didn't matter, but I'm starting to realize it does, it does, it does.
you do are the right thing to want your children to be proud of who they are on both sides. My parents always told my brothers and I we were mixed and let us know exactly who we are. It was the best decision they ever made!
Do we worship God or man? That's the real question. I say love and obey God, and let the haters answer to His judgement in the end.
And for those who would twist the holy scripture to support their hate.....shame on you! I've found that they love to twist OT scripture...but they can never show me where Yeshua (Jesus) told us to hate or separate people of different skin colors.
Hey, your videos are really cool. I am a black woman in an interracial relationship with an Asian man so I completely understand the kind of disrespect and overall hate you and your wife receive. I think the craziest thing that happened to us was another interracial couple (white male and Indian woman) looked at us and seemed appalled like how did THAT happen? Of course I have received the "self-hating, sellout, not black enough" speech from black men. People are so dumb, don't you think?
I try not to spend much time thinking about it. Luckily, we don't have to deal with very much crap. We get much more hate in the anonymity of youtube than we do in the real world.
some say whites who date or marry black or asian women, they are afraid of white women, or they want to play dominant role ,and white women won't let them ,that's why they go after weaker women of other races to be the boss
i don't wanna be rude, but don't you think white women who date black men, are looking for something longer!!.I stop it here, if you are really happy with her,let it be so
I'm a white male who has dated many black women so I understand everything you're talking about in the video. You're my brother! But I will say you're a nicer guy than I am. I've got no tolerance for the gutter rats that think they have ANY right to comment on me and the girl I'm seeing if we're out walking around the streets of NYC or at dinner or what have you. Honestly, WM/BF couples need to stop being so nice about the racism we deal with from the ignorant and the worthless.
i think its also jealousy because if you look at the IRR wm/bw the love seems so genuine.but sometimes i do believe we tend to be just a little more submissive in IRR relationships because of the enrgy if it s good energy you have no need to be defensive and argumentative not push overs just a tad bit more submissive and thats a good thing makes a happy relationship beautiful thing it shows confidence it shows you are comfortable with yourself and you dnt care what the world thinks of you
in naming babies ,some countries have rules like " No names that could subject a child to ridicule ",wouldn't a "mixed race child" be an easy target at school to be bullied and picked on ?!...have ever they thought about the pressure and torment that poor innocent kid would be subject to at school ?!
If interracial marriage is so free and normal and balanced and shit, then tell me why so many mores shines many white girls? Last I looked, black males marry white women by a factor of 2.5 compared to white males and black women. This makes black women appear unattractive and undesirable within their own sphere, no question.
Because of adjustments of social norms in the past 20 years. In the black community it's perfectly acceptable for a black guy to date a white woman, but as soon as a black woman dates a white guy, she's labeled a sellout....among other things. Of course I'm generalizing, but there you go.
And it is just as free and normal as anything else. It's a personal choice to be repressed by one's "community" or not. Hell, I would want to move from that crap and more and more are.
Racism is motivated by self hate or insecurities. That's the way i've always felt about it and that goes for all races. People tend to forget that we are all humans and god made us different and put us here together as a test to see how we interact with each other, or at least that's how i look at it. Maybe one day the world will get over this nonsense because we are all human and that's all that matters.
@medumbcat no true dude. Black women tend to want to be single for some strange reason and white women i speak to happen to be more single than the black ones ive spoken to. But hey! maybe its just the ones i approach.dude, attractive and unattractive is based on what you call it...not what you THINK it is. if you think thats true, then so be it, but thats probably because you cant get hot women of any race because i can get hot women of ALL races so there is no such thing as UNATTRACTIVE to me
Hey Dude, more power to you. Sorry about all the closeted bigots--those who say, "I'm not racist, but. . ."--who feel the need to express their ignorance here. I guess they're against interracial marriage because it means they can't bop their sister.
Yeah, it is something I'll never understand; Why these jackasses feel the need to tell me how to live my life, like they're paying my mortgage or something. Aah well, its become extremely easy to ignore.
The thing I don't like about this video is there's people (on both sides) who believe 1. I'm some kind of advocate for interracialism and 2. I'm only attracted to black women.
its simple really, when it comes to women, sexy is sexy. lol
i am not racist at all...but majority of over 90 % won't do that,also it is about over say over 400 years those races are here together, but still clearly not mixed that much,that means majority don't want it and don't like it...are the majority of over 90 % of americans(black or white) stupid or wrong ?!!...also a black person is at least whole heartedly accepted by blacks, and a white by whites,but a mixed offspring is not whole heartedly accepted by none of the races
I'm not an advocate for interracialism. To be an advocate, I would have to put an importance in the subject of race. In reality, I don't give a flying fart what race a person chooses to marry. I'm, rather, an advocate for TRUE equality; a concept that seems to be lost on most people in this country. I wouldn't view the relationship I have my wife any differently if she was white.
Thus, of course I don't feel people who date and marry within their own race as stupid or wrong. That would make me pretty twisted and jaded. And yeah, actually, there's been some form of diversity in this country since Europeans landed on this continent. Oh gee, I wonder why there's only been such diversity in these past 20 years, considering how wonderful of relationship the different races have had in our history.
I don't want to say anything negative to you but what you did was WRONG. Period. It was a disservice to both your race and your wife's race. I hope one day you two will see the light. Marriage for anyone is hard enough. So, why would you add to the burden of marriage by marrying someone of a different race? I am not racist. I just believe in each race preserving the beauty fo their own race. Why would you want to have any kids when they won't look anything like you? Wake up buddy!
I'm very much awake. Far, far more than you could even imagine.
Oh your shortsightedness; our kids will look very much like me, just with a better tan.
Your comment illustrates the point that people these days are very uncomfortable with the very idea of TRUE equality. Like I said in the last comment I left on this video, "putting importants in such things [as race] seems shallow."
And, yes, you are racist because if you weren't, you would know the issue of race, in any context, is moot.
Oh, and let me guess. You have never been across the Atlantic. I am assuming this because if you have, you would be more than aware racial and national diversity is not threatened in any way by interracialism. This fear you have is totally based on ignorance of the world, the way things actually work in this world, various forms of insecurity, and as cedamouse would point out, possibly jealousy. Yeah, I know I'm one sexy thing. ;-)
My fiance is a white man and I am black. Our love is very natural and special to the point where it is almost forgotten that we are an IRR couple. We have not had any problems. I'm sure we get stares but I never pay attention-too wrapped up in each other. But I do know that if someone does have a problem, its most likely the obvious: a white woman or black man.
But like I said, we just stay wrapped up into each other. Don't notice much.
Just looked at your channel. You guys make a cute couple.
Yeah, as with us, we wouldn't feel any different about each other if we had the same skin color; putting importants in such things seems shallow.
You know, recently I have been noticing some black women getting huffy about interracial relationships like ours. It has an air of, "I can't do that, so what gives her that right?" A sad, apparent emotion of repression.
Integration is the only moral form of social justice.
Your right. Other black women can get huffy too. I think it's a thin line between jealousy, and what you said. Well, I guess it's kind of the same thing.
they're just jealous because they're all alone and can't stand to see someone else happy. racism of any kind sucks and it screwed up America to the max in terms of everybody genuenely getting along and being descent to eachother. those kinds of people don't know what they're missing. anyways i think you are so cute and you and your wife are a super cute couple. sorry if i sound like a teenager. i kinda am. :D
Hmm, if she's with me for money, she wouldn't have been interested in me when we first met.....we met in college and I was broke, like most college students.
I consider the relationship I have with my wife to be like any other healthy, well grounded, loving relationship.
And no, my wife isn't some black liberation nut. Like I said, we don't respond to fascism......especially from each other.
I agree islandflava10. Plus why does it matter if they are in it for the 'right' or 'wrong' reasons? Why do the reasons matter, when their relationship is personal and really has nothing to do with me or anyone else but them and God?
I had an ex like that. Black woman was paranoid because black men would hate seeing her with me. She couldn't get over the attention so it didn't last. Other people make more of a deal out of it than it needs to be. Im with a white girl for now but if it doesn't work out, who knows. I say live and let live.
I wouldn't say my wife is paranoid. Its just an element we're both aware of. When something happens, the attitude we tend to hold is its their problem, not ours.
We don't respond to fascists. That's why we vote Republican, we make more than minimum wage, and our relationship works.
not calling your wife paranoid, dude, I agree with you. Im just saying sometimes black dudes make it harder for black women than others... just saying. White women made it harder for me, they all started seducing me. Not that I fell for it.
It's not self hating to want a man who was actually brought up in a two parent home with morale. It's not self hating if you find yourself in love with a man who actually believes in family values. Again, it is not self hating to fall in love with a man who can speak the English language. Yes, I know....that was mean and will be taken out of total context by "them", but this needed to be stated. I am not a self hating African American woman. I'm a smart woman who chooses respectable men, period.
no i didn't you can tell a lot from people's facial expressions and i travel on that bus everyday and everyday it's the same thing....same questions, same disrespect and same ignorance. And I'm not even his mum she has to deal with it way more than i do.
Hey man, Its awesome to see a relationship as successful as yours. I've dated a girl for the last two years and we just got engaged and her parents blew our relationship to smithereens. All because I'm black, which I really am not, I'm mulatto, raised by white parents, I'm black purely in color. She is a beautiful fair-skinned redhead. And the racism was always directed to me from black people, I was constantly called a sellout, and a traitor.
"Your purely black in color"? I have no problems with interracial dating (i date all types), what i do have a problem with is people like yourself not knowing who or what the fuck they are when they are surrounded(raised) by white people. You sound retarded, her parents did like you because YOU ARE BLACK idiot. Get over it. Who the fuck still uses the term "mulatto"? I guess you. Black people called you those names because that is what you are. No one could ever, or has ever said that about me.
What the fuck is your issue? Seriously. I'm paying the dude and his wife a compliment then you come out and fuckin attack me. wtf
I say I'm mulatto because I am. And I am black purely in color, There is a lot more to a race then just color. Okay? And get the fuck over it and deal with it, your a fucking mulatto whether you like it or not.
DEAL. You are who you choose to be, you can't make someone or tell someone who they are.
Right.........like I said your black get over it. You can call yourself whatever you want the world views you as black, so just DEAL! I went to school with ton's of people just like you who were surrounded by whites, they were very confused even thou the mirror told them the truth. Being black is not bad, being a spineless self hating coward is. No matter how much you want to be apart of there world they will never let you, because they see you as less than.
A lot of black people tend to act like that when they date/marry outside of their race. If the person they're dating happens to be white, they feel they have reached the top. A lot black believe in white superiority whether they want to admit it or not.
difficulties? IT'S NOT HARD AT ALL MORONS! Damn I hate this planet! >.> The only difficulty is dealing with idiots. I guess that's what it refers to. XD lol
Axxidous 1 year ago
@Axxidous Aah, what I love about this planet is the randomness. Oh, the random irony. Go take a nap. I'm sure you'll feel better.
jasonmit 1 year ago
@jasonmit random I get. Irony? And you're the second person to suggest a nap today! D= I wanna do something tho! lol
Nah I'm good. It's just soooo common to see the crazy o.O
Axxidous 1 year ago
remember when i dated out of my race. my god we got so many disgusting looks and comments.it was hard. i get white guys trying to talk to me all the time but i cant go through all the hatred anymore.
wendyjeanlouis 1 year ago
@wendyjeanlouis You HAVE to! Where are you gonna go? MARS!? lol Earth joke XD
Axxidous 1 year ago
I have white friends, but I wouldn't date a white guy, or marry one, I couldn't picture myself kissing one or touching me. I don't know why any black woman or non-white woman would want to be with one of them. Friends are fine, but mixing with them, no. You don't mix with whites. It's taboo still.
Jocelyn200830 1 year ago
a difficult topic to discuss, but well done.
both my parents are mixed and i find it astounding that people still even use the term "white" or "black". my parents never mentioned colour as i was growing up and i never think about it. when someone draws it to my attention i just think of myself as "brown" or ask them why it matters.
cheers.
velvetvervet 1 year ago
Remember interracial marriage or dating is still Taboo in some quarters of society.
A green light for stares..insults..finger pointing..etc. Yet in other parts of society its just a every day thing? no big deal. Actually even if interracial couples didnt exist` society would still find certain people weird or unexceptable.
globehunter2 1 year ago
@globehunter2 Yeah, that is true. I remember in 6th grade, everyone made fun of a cute Irish girl because of her accent. It was strange; it would turn into an almost mob mentality. Sadly, many people never grow up or learn from their own stupidity.
jasonmit 1 year ago
@globehunter2 staring is rude. Shows the people are rude. Insults are from immature people who are negatively obsessed with what they're insulting. Finger pointing is for the cliche.
What's wrong with interracial couples anyways? "The colors don't match" sounds like the worlds from a person with the mind... of a chewed up crayon. lol
Axxidous 1 year ago
jasonmit., i feel ur pain. im a blk grl engaged 2 a white guy n when we go out n public, we get stared at, laughed at, tlked about, everything. tha onli ppl that approve of our relationship is fam n friends. but its all cuz these hates r unhappy n dnt got a life on thier own so they dnt like 2 c nobody happy at all. i wish ppl can c couples 4 thier luv, not thier skin color
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luvu4eva1000 1 year ago
I'm amazed at how people feel they have a say in other peoples relationships. Love doesn't see color. People who have a problem with others relationships because of race either cannot find someone themselves or are extremely unhappy in their relationships.
SkaRocksYea 1 year ago
@SkaRocksYea .... soooo tru.i agree with u all tha way
luvu4eva1000 1 year ago
I'm VERY happy for you Jason (and Merita). You two are leaps and bounds ahead of everyone else. Kudos to you and your marriage and I'm looking forward to seeing more of your videos.
BigBrotherWii 1 year ago
Racism is part of human nature. Moreover, there is no genetic support for the colloquial concept of race; like a lot things people fight, kill, or worry about, it's simply not real.
I think racism, however, is a kind of prejudice that humans exhibit that would not be exhibited in a well-raised child. I think your children will be good strong people like you and your wife.
quidproquo2004 1 year ago
You are so true, its so cool for a black man to date or marrry a white female but as soon as a black female step outside her race its a problem. Black men will not only call her name but do thing to hurt her.
daniellawyatt 1 year ago 2
I'm a black man from rural south mississippi. My wife is white from small town in the ozarks of missouri. The best thing we did was to move away for 3 years to Michigan to establish our own identity away from such polarizing influences. We have since moved back south and regard that 1st 3 years of marriage in michigan as a beneficial & necessary time...we didnt get as many looks there and we even got to serve in church together.
auburnpt 1 year ago
Thanks for sharing.
thephotographer4you 1 year ago
I think people in general don't realize that black/arab/chinese/etc can be just as racist os white people Also Jasonmit, you should read about Seretse Khama, he was a black Botswana leader who married a white english woman, the South African Apartheid governemnt tried to get Britain to have the marrige annulled
Zeruel3 1 year ago
why do black women and white dudes who are in ir relationships still hate when black men are not with somebody black
Jaylethal777 1 year ago
@Jaylethal777 What the hell are you talking about? You're talking out of your ass.
jasonmit 1 year ago 2
@Jaylethal777 no they dont dude, stop looking for attention im pretty sure people are used to it now its 2010 however, people dont seem to be used to white men and who were with
whiteduke101 1 year ago
I was expecting something TOTALLY different, when I saw this in my recommended. I'm really happy to see I was the ONE prejudging, and that I wrong. And you are right about BLACKS hating on INTERRACIAL love, we have no problem expressing the hate. I hope you and your wife enjoy each other forever.
ravenocho8 1 year ago
Thanks for the post! I had the exact same experience. A guy tried to hit on me right in front of my bf, who is white, and when I told the guy that he was being disrespectful he acted clueless. "Well how was I supposed to know you were with this white guy.." he replied. I can laugh about it now...but its nice to know I'm not alone in this experience!
CinnamonQn21 1 year ago 2
Interracial relationships are difficult in a world led by evil.
oneworldkingdom 1 year ago
also, you can still be racist and be in a interracial relationship i found out...
my uncle is a very racist against Muslims, Indians, Arabs and other middle eastern ppls. i mean to the point that if he has to take a piss while he is driving and stops at a gas station and its run by a person of one of the previous stated races then he will hold it to go to another gas station. but (hes the real kicker) HIS GF IS BLACK!
nothing wrong with that but he gets mad when some1 says something to him....
DJAlup 1 year ago
3 things. 1. wtf is up with the pink wall?, 2. are you a programmer?, 3. i have a similar relationship. my fiance has a black father and white mother and i am white as you. but me and her have never to my knowledge had anyone say anything about our relationship we live in Kansas city. but she does get treated differently like her roommate in collage she was very racist to her till she saw me. that is messed up this shit needs to stop do you agree?
DJAlup 1 year ago
@DJAlup 1. Its not a pink wall. Its the sun shining through a red curtain in the bathroom onto the wall in the hall way. LOL Never noticed that before.
2. I'm a web administrator. Since then, I purchased a cabinet to put the servers in. You can see it in my latest video. Its nice.
3. Yeah, that's pretty jacked up. It sounds like, to her roommate, your fiance appeared "less black" in your company.
One thing I learned from making this video is many people have many different experiences.
jasonmit 1 year ago
@jasonmit wow... you are up late/early... considering we are in the same time zone.... i too am a web admin but i do less impressive sites im sure... lol. and thanks for the response...
DJAlup 1 year ago
@DJAlup Yeah, it's 4:30 a.m. here. I'm heading to bed now.
jasonmit 1 year ago
@jasonmit ya, it is bed time... nice cabinet btw.. ttyl
DJAlup 1 year ago
@jasonmit God doesn't judge people on the basis of their outward appearance: Don't judge by his appearance or his height, for I have rejected him. The Lord doesn't see things the way you see them. People judge by outward appearance, but the Lord looks at the heart" (1 Sam. 16:7). Let this validate you and your relationship. You can't please everyone, so please don't try.
dpeoplesable 1 year ago
there is alot of blacks that do that.... its crazy.. you would nt think it would be like that but it is... its ashame though.... u love who u love people black and white need to come down.... u have great vids keepm up
RedTROCkurStation 1 year ago
@RockNRococo
Yes, i know.
But Hispanic is still an ethnicity.
& i'm proud of being latina. :)
shrimpy4321 1 year ago
@RockNRococo In my experience and it may be who we are, how we conduct ourselves, and/or the environment where we live, but while in public, generally speaking, we're both treated the same and treated as any other couple. And in cases where my wife feels she was discriminated against, I take her very seriously because she's not the kind of person who feels constantly mistreated.
jasonmit 1 year ago
Great Vid! Stay srong.. Forget all the Ignorant people as long as u love each other thats all that matters.
BOSSWDS 1 year ago
Such a great video because of your honesty.
But why did you feel the need to marry and have children with her?
I suspect you fell in love with her personality which had the effect of dampening down the way she looked, or maybe you felt guilty at rejecting her because you were confused and thought it would make you a racist. Chimpanzees are fellow primates, but does it make us primatist if we don't want to create children wth them?
BarriosGroupie 1 year ago
@BarriosGroupie I don't consider race as a factor. I find it moot.
jasonmit 1 year ago
I think its beautiful. How can anyone hate people who are in love? Thats low.
desertflower20 1 year ago
everybody needs to get over it, its been how many years now and i didn't read not one word in the bible that said whites for whites and blacks for blacks besides i rarely find what i'm looking for because no one cares about religon and politics anymore everybody only care about the simple things that really isnt a problem
ilovejasmaine 1 year ago
@ilovejasmaine The issue of religion always comes and goes and if you feel nobody cares about politics anymore, you've got to be living under a rock.
A debacle of a health care bill has been passed not long ago and may people are still ranting about that. The debate on Illegal immigration reform is already starting. So yeah, this country is quite worked up politically.
About this specific issue, yeah, it's a simple concept. But its a simple subject people try to make difficult.
jasonmit 1 year ago
why can't people talk about something more interresting like couples with different relgions or different political parties
ilovejasmaine 1 year ago
@ilovejasmaine My wife and I have the same religious and political beliefs and someone asked me to talk about this subject.
If you search for it, I'm sure you can find anything.
jasonmit 1 year ago
I'm a Jewish woman married to a Black man. You wouldn't believe the crap that stirs up with people.
WhiteRose226 1 year ago
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ilovejasmaine 1 year ago
@WhiteRose226 , i feel u, im a blk grl datin a white guy n i go thru so much crap that i worry bout our lifes.
luvu4eva1000 1 year ago
dont worry bout the haters, they either jealous or jus sum simple minded rasicist people
BigBallin305 1 year ago
@BigBallin305 i know
gianfran0 1 year ago
thank you for being so open and candid.Its really a shame that this is still happening in 2010.We all need to love one another.Color is only color,love is whats important.Thanks so much for sharing.
ldyluv6988 1 year ago
I REALLY hate how some people will assume that white people are racist. Other races can be just as cruel. Other minorities will automatically be racist to a white person because they assume that they are racist. I think People need to wake up and start opening up thier minds. Your video was amazing and I agree with your views. (: Great job! I am hispanic and I have been a victim of racist people from different backgrounds so I know its not just the white people who are like this.
shrimpy4321 1 year ago 4
@shrimpy4321
true that lol!!!
acts238111 1 year ago
Oklahoma is very tolerant of interracial relationships, and a lot of it has to do with the long-standing acceptance of White/Native American relationships. I personally married a Chinese woman and have never experienced any kind of hatred or disdain.
Phange 1 year ago
man oklahoma is one of the worst bro... but i suppose it's an individual experience
Lokoboy84 1 year ago
@Phange
Yah Oklahoma is really bad, you see the way that black people live in that state? Its horrible
housepate1 1 year ago
The whole concept of "not seeing color" is bull crap. The whole idea that majority of people gives a crap, I can't subscribe to that.
jasonmit 1 year ago
Oklahoma is a tolerant place? News to me. Good to know.
CosmoHunter24 1 year ago
Ur hottttttttt
crpdm1965 1 year ago
i want to date white men but iam scared that they just want me for sex....i heard that white men will only go with a black women for sex
azgurl12390 1 year ago
Sounds like you've been talking with an insecure douche bag.
That opinion can be made about men, regardless of their skin color. You know what they say, us guys can only think with one head at a time.
As I see it, anyone who considers race, no matter the issue, they're F'd up in the head. People are people, love is love, sexy is sexy.
jasonmit 1 year ago 2
not true...just find the right man for you!
Lokoboy84 1 year ago
@azgurl12390
well all i can say is that not all white guys r the same lol. I'm black and many white guys have liked me, but i strongly doubt that it's 4 the sex. Many white guys prefer me over many other black females.
acts238111 1 year ago
i saw ur video Slideshow of my wife, Merita she very pretty... let the haters talk they JERKS !!! i b n interracial couple i get the same but i dont let that botther me. if u love her dats all it matters...
missAngelofmercy666 1 year ago
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I dated white men before & they were sweet. But after being in this racist society only a Black man can be my king. White men don't know my struggle they have no idea because they get a free pass in life because their white. I have a good black man now & I am happy, but their is nothing wrong with dating outside as long as you r not doing it to have biracial babies or because u dislike your beautiful black features so you get some one of another race because of self hate then that's not good.
MrMikealy 1 year ago
You racist morons. When will you realize that LOVE knows no color. It only knows the heart. -sigh-
KobeSpawn 1 year ago 5
You just will not stop with your bullshit will you?Smdh.
chicagosfinest2k10 2 years ago
maybe it's just best I stay single lol...
rvpKellz 2 years ago
can't wait to find me a white husband !!!!!
misscherrie86 2 years ago 12
Thank you for sharing. You are absolutely correct about the intra-race racism that exists with regards to those that date outside their race. My husband is black and he has been subjected to similar comments as your wife. The biggest one he hears is 'oh, you couldn't find a sista'. Just as you two have done we ignore it and go about living. Anyway - loved to hear your story :)
sweetteach42 2 years ago
i used 2 be a bit offended wen i saw blk men w/ women of other races. but i learned that i needed 2 come to terms w. my own insecurities automatically assuming hes w/ her b/c he doesnt like blk women wen its really none of my business. plus i realized i was being a hypocrite b/c every man i have dated has not always been black either. this is very eye opening 4 me & at the end of the day it all boils down to love
Dawn0564 2 years ago
marry whoever you feel like marrying.
BlackMaleRedemption 2 years ago 2
i love that you have a black wife: interracial couples all the way
esiuol21 2 years ago 19
@esiuol21 I hate that to avoid racism of a race we join them together which insults people because they then think we're racist in that we don't wanna see a "pure race" anymore and that they HAVE to be mixed. >.> People are never pleased.
Axxidous 1 year ago
WTF check out the old computer with the DOS screen in the background holy shit.
edthewise 2 years ago
Its FreeBSD UNIX.
jasonmit 2 years ago
Idiot asshole, who says its a dos screen? and even if it was dos that is so damned cool asshole
Raybanmonster 2 years ago
@Raybanmonster lol
greenblue49 1 year ago
@edthewise lol
greenblue49 1 year ago
look at that computer!
MissVampireDiaries 2 years ago
Yeah, I'm a g33k.
jasonmit 2 years ago
fuk those hating ass jokers b you got a woman u love and she love u too so wht blk brwn yellow wht ever fuk em if they hating keep beating the wheels of tht kit kat and have a mess of beautiful mulattoes son we got ya back in NC
DaNewGroupErBodyTALK 2 years ago
I think you arent a sell-out until you specifically ignore your own race as you think the grass is greener on the other side. Most of the hate boils down to jealousy
ayyoitsmeagain 2 years ago
thanks for posting..me and my boyfriend are an interracial couple and are very very serious...we're thinking of marriage in the long run...thanks :)
linket88 2 years ago 3
I am in an relationship, with someone of a different race but i never think of it as our races - in those terms, its just love.
I hope you have a happy and love filled life :)
AmaniBanks 2 years ago
you sound like a very nice man. Good luck to you and your family
mzkimberley 2 years ago 3
yes thats tru! some black people are racist too and they don't hesitate showing it
ivy9857 2 years ago
there's no retaliation against black racist & they can say, do.....without repercussions
its a double-standard, if a white man DOES ANYTHING.............he's done, career may be killed, etc.............
MrMuellerB 2 years ago
esp. in California against the Mexicans, seriously!
CSD7038 2 years ago
i understand what you are saying and i am going to be honest with you. i myself kind of feel jealous when i see an interacial couple in love simple because it looks too beautiful and i wish that were me. its not racisim, its jealousy and envy that makes other people bitter cause they want to experience that too. so don't worry about what people think. when you go against the norm, someone, if not the majority is definately going to disagree with you.
ivy9857 2 years ago 4
The biggest reason, these days anyway, for disliking interracial dating, is the fact that so many white men cannot find a white girl now because of the millions of black men with white women. It's only natural that we will now have millions of single and lonely white men with millions of single and lonely black women who are starting to date each other. I guess my point is, it's not racism, it's a numbers problem that people dislike.
jtest28 2 years ago
Sounds like a personal problem to me. Before I met my wife, I didn't have any trouble finding white women to date.
jasonmit 2 years ago
Oh give me a break! Daily, I see in the news or personal life or youtube someone who is single and looking. Both male and female, black and white. People act like a life partner is just supposed to pop up on their doorstep. You have to go out and meet people and pretty soon you will find someone. Every day I hear women and men say oh I can't find someone. Why can't these people find each other? People need to stop sulking and start looking!
Cathy24601 2 years ago 3
thank youuuuuuuuuuuuu !! i was waiting for someone to say something...it's so annoying
linket88 2 years ago
@jtest28 dude, i dont do it because of white women...i seem to talk to more single white women than black women dude. i do it because i simply prefer black women, white women tend to be plain looking and boring with a chip on their shoulder to me. Also, remember there is more white men dating out than white women are..so maybe white women will have no choice but to date black or asian men.
whiteduke101 1 year ago
@whiteduke101 or hispanic.
Axxidous 1 year ago
i hate when me and my girl are out and we have people just stare at us. i found it is mostly older white women so i cant realy say anything to them. now i dont realy care you cant help who you love.
xfan412 2 years ago
wow, did you say you are from OK and you don't have much negative reaction to your IR marriage there? I am white, my husband is black. I have family in OK. My husband and I live in Cali. I have encountered the most blatant racism when in OK. I'm glad it's not been that way for you.
jojolina7 2 years ago
Look at all those antique computers back there, what is this 1992 haha.
trw289 2 years ago 3
They're running FreeBSD UNIX. Sure they're fairly slow, but don't need much.
jasonmit 2 years ago
see again word vomit - the elasticpickle - think beyond your minute 4 cnr box & realise that its already occurred all over the world. you didn't even put a justification as to why you personally feel that way. what real facts have you to find it effects you personally and i mean facts not opinions just because you've witness or endured backlash.. its such a non issue, only becomes an issue when people like you find "unacceptable". being biracial i find you to be inept, contemplate it!
HINELOU 2 years ago
Well stated. That child, TheElasticPickle's statement left me a bit taken. I knew I wanted to reply with something, but didn't know what.
I was taken with what thought process one must have to use a phrase like "interracially active." That's just bazaar.
I married a woman, not a concept. I get pretty fucking tired of people who wants to prescribe me to an ideology. The only concept I'm aligned with is that of marriage.
jasonmit 2 years ago
bigots are some of the funniest people in the world..interracialy active.. Well if i didnt learn anything today i definitely learned a new word. interracialy active..lol!! those bigots crack me up!!
09brownskinbeauty 2 years ago
This comment has received too many negative votes show
I personally hate it when people are interracialy active...
TheElasticPickle 2 years ago
Interracialy active? Its not a sport or anything.
But I'm curious, what about interracialism makes you uncomfortable?
jasonmit 2 years ago
Tough shit, ElasticPickle !!!!!!
BrokenTengu99 2 years ago 3
i feel your racist or being funny
FIGHTFANNERD3 2 years ago
Great video!
qhairful 2 years ago
i guess that's going to happen at some point or another.. why , unsure-way of the world.. sorry that your wife has to endure backlash from her own race sometimes, its quite sad, i guess its the consequence of the acts of past, i don't know why, biracial relationships are a great manifest that people can move past issues like that.. i hope its not intentional. is more like word vomit that just occurs without people thinking..
HINELOU 2 years ago
awesome points, i empathise with u.. being biracial i personally don't feel any different as its the only life i know as i'm from 2 different countries.i must admit that i have been taught sometimes to feel insecure by societies who continue to "state the obvious". Have never endured extreme prejudice, i hope that i never have to, have sometimes felt perceptional injustices but its all good.
HINELOU 2 years ago
you made many good points. i've recognized many of these same issues in my ir relationship
mynamesnotalice 2 years ago
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WhereYaBoss 2 years ago
that message was for WhereYaBoss
ugboy1 2 years ago
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WhereYaBoss 2 years ago
Good video. You have made some excellent points.
BlakeBarbieDoll 2 years ago
As a bw, I support you and your wife. There is such a high percentage of single bw. It is surely ok to be with a man outside of your race if he is treating you well and cares enough about family to have a specified plan for the family. Bw lets support one another. Every single bw w/ children = another broken family and/or a single parent home. I support the family unit. We need that. Being single and independent is not that great when our children suffur..
educatethemasses02 2 years ago
I like that you said people get insecure when they see interracial couples. That's what it comes down to, insecurity. I truly don't care who's doing whom. I just get concerned about the children because it can be hard for them. I actually think people should think long and hard about making mix children. I don't think you should take that lightly. I used to think it didn't matter, but I'm starting to realize it does, it does, it does.
WhereYaBoss 2 years ago
you are a typical racist!
ugboy1 2 years ago
you do are the right thing to want your children to be proud of who they are on both sides. My parents always told my brothers and I we were mixed and let us know exactly who we are. It was the best decision they ever made!
sharlylpn 2 years ago
Do we worship God or man? That's the real question. I say love and obey God, and let the haters answer to His judgement in the end.
And for those who would twist the holy scripture to support their hate.....shame on you! I've found that they love to twist OT scripture...but they can never show me where Yeshua (Jesus) told us to hate or separate people of different skin colors.
Be blessed and much love.
nocturne1980 2 years ago
Yes, exactly!
jasonmit 2 years ago
Hey, your videos are really cool. I am a black woman in an interracial relationship with an Asian man so I completely understand the kind of disrespect and overall hate you and your wife receive. I think the craziest thing that happened to us was another interracial couple (white male and Indian woman) looked at us and seemed appalled like how did THAT happen? Of course I have received the "self-hating, sellout, not black enough" speech from black men. People are so dumb, don't you think?
Zumyluvin 2 years ago
I try not to spend much time thinking about it. Luckily, we don't have to deal with very much crap. We get much more hate in the anonymity of youtube than we do in the real world.
This past week has been pretty nuts.
jasonmit 2 years ago
Nuts how?
wallywheeler 2 years ago
Its the typical ignorant comments. Mostly the ones that start out, "I'm not racist, but......"
jasonmit 2 years ago
Ah ok, well yeah. In other words, "I'm not a terribly intelligent person, but...." Yeah, my two words for that: Fuck 'Em!
wallywheeler 2 years ago
some say whites who date or marry black or asian women, they are afraid of white women, or they want to play dominant role ,and white women won't let them ,that's why they go after weaker women of other races to be the boss
fancytunes 2 years ago
Obviously, whoever says that never met my wife. There's nothing weak about her.
I've also heard a reason why black men date white women is because white women tend to allow themselves to be dominated.
Its all based in ignorance.
jasonmit 2 years ago
i don't wanna be rude, but don't you think white women who date black men, are looking for something longer!!.I stop it here, if you are really happy with her,let it be so
fancytunes 2 years ago
I'm a white male who has dated many black women so I understand everything you're talking about in the video. You're my brother! But I will say you're a nicer guy than I am. I've got no tolerance for the gutter rats that think they have ANY right to comment on me and the girl I'm seeing if we're out walking around the streets of NYC or at dinner or what have you. Honestly, WM/BF couples need to stop being so nice about the racism we deal with from the ignorant and the worthless.
wallywheeler 2 years ago
i think its also jealousy because if you look at the IRR wm/bw the love seems so genuine.but sometimes i do believe we tend to be just a little more submissive in IRR relationships because of the enrgy if it s good energy you have no need to be defensive and argumentative not push overs just a tad bit more submissive and thats a good thing makes a happy relationship beautiful thing it shows confidence it shows you are comfortable with yourself and you dnt care what the world thinks of you
cherisseshaw 2 years ago
in naming babies ,some countries have rules like " No names that could subject a child to ridicule ",wouldn't a "mixed race child" be an easy target at school to be bullied and picked on ?!...have ever they thought about the pressure and torment that poor innocent kid would be subject to at school ?!
jaydayb 2 years ago
Now that is just asinine.
jasonmit 2 years ago
If interracial marriage is so free and normal and balanced and shit, then tell me why so many mores shines many white girls? Last I looked, black males marry white women by a factor of 2.5 compared to white males and black women. This makes black women appear unattractive and undesirable within their own sphere, no question.
medumbcat 2 years ago
Because of adjustments of social norms in the past 20 years. In the black community it's perfectly acceptable for a black guy to date a white woman, but as soon as a black woman dates a white guy, she's labeled a sellout....among other things. Of course I'm generalizing, but there you go.
And it is just as free and normal as anything else. It's a personal choice to be repressed by one's "community" or not. Hell, I would want to move from that crap and more and more are.
jasonmit 2 years ago
Racism is motivated by self hate or insecurities. That's the way i've always felt about it and that goes for all races. People tend to forget that we are all humans and god made us different and put us here together as a test to see how we interact with each other, or at least that's how i look at it. Maybe one day the world will get over this nonsense because we are all human and that's all that matters.
Infamous256 2 years ago
@medumbcat no true dude. Black women tend to want to be single for some strange reason and white women i speak to happen to be more single than the black ones ive spoken to. But hey! maybe its just the ones i approach.dude, attractive and unattractive is based on what you call it...not what you THINK it is. if you think thats true, then so be it, but thats probably because you cant get hot women of any race because i can get hot women of ALL races so there is no such thing as UNATTRACTIVE to me
whiteduke101 1 year ago
Hey Dude, more power to you. Sorry about all the closeted bigots--those who say, "I'm not racist, but. . ."--who feel the need to express their ignorance here. I guess they're against interracial marriage because it means they can't bop their sister.
BOBMAN1980 2 years ago
LOL, thanks.
Yeah, it is something I'll never understand; Why these jackasses feel the need to tell me how to live my life, like they're paying my mortgage or something. Aah well, its become extremely easy to ignore.
jasonmit 2 years ago
Thanks
Yeah, that's my viewpoint exactly.
The thing I don't like about this video is there's people (on both sides) who believe 1. I'm some kind of advocate for interracialism and 2. I'm only attracted to black women.
its simple really, when it comes to women, sexy is sexy. lol
jasonmit 2 years ago
WAKE UP buddy! Seriously, WAKE UP and WAKE UP FAST too!!! Good luck!
Seeker1898 2 years ago
i am not racist at all...but majority of over 90 % won't do that,also it is about over say over 400 years those races are here together, but still clearly not mixed that much,that means majority don't want it and don't like it...are the majority of over 90 % of americans(black or white) stupid or wrong ?!!...also a black person is at least whole heartedly accepted by blacks, and a white by whites,but a mixed offspring is not whole heartedly accepted by none of the races
velvetbc 2 years ago
I'm not an advocate for interracialism. To be an advocate, I would have to put an importance in the subject of race. In reality, I don't give a flying fart what race a person chooses to marry. I'm, rather, an advocate for TRUE equality; a concept that seems to be lost on most people in this country. I wouldn't view the relationship I have my wife any differently if she was white.
jasonmit 2 years ago
Thus, of course I don't feel people who date and marry within their own race as stupid or wrong. That would make me pretty twisted and jaded. And yeah, actually, there's been some form of diversity in this country since Europeans landed on this continent. Oh gee, I wonder why there's only been such diversity in these past 20 years, considering how wonderful of relationship the different races have had in our history.
jasonmit 2 years ago
The bottom line is, if a person bases who they are by the color of that person's skin, there's something wrong with them.
jasonmit 2 years ago
I don't want to say anything negative to you but what you did was WRONG. Period. It was a disservice to both your race and your wife's race. I hope one day you two will see the light. Marriage for anyone is hard enough. So, why would you add to the burden of marriage by marrying someone of a different race? I am not racist. I just believe in each race preserving the beauty fo their own race. Why would you want to have any kids when they won't look anything like you? Wake up buddy!
Seeker1898 2 years ago
I'm very much awake. Far, far more than you could even imagine.
Oh your shortsightedness; our kids will look very much like me, just with a better tan.
Your comment illustrates the point that people these days are very uncomfortable with the very idea of TRUE equality. Like I said in the last comment I left on this video, "putting importants in such things [as race] seems shallow."
And, yes, you are racist because if you weren't, you would know the issue of race, in any context, is moot.
jasonmit 2 years ago
Oh, and let me guess. You have never been across the Atlantic. I am assuming this because if you have, you would be more than aware racial and national diversity is not threatened in any way by interracialism. This fear you have is totally based on ignorance of the world, the way things actually work in this world, various forms of insecurity, and as cedamouse would point out, possibly jealousy. Yeah, I know I'm one sexy thing. ;-)
jasonmit 2 years ago
My fiance is a white man and I am black. Our love is very natural and special to the point where it is almost forgotten that we are an IRR couple. We have not had any problems. I'm sure we get stares but I never pay attention-too wrapped up in each other. But I do know that if someone does have a problem, its most likely the obvious: a white woman or black man.
But like I said, we just stay wrapped up into each other. Don't notice much.
God bless you and your wife. :)
cedamouse 2 years ago 2
Just looked at your channel. You guys make a cute couple.
Yeah, as with us, we wouldn't feel any different about each other if we had the same skin color; putting importants in such things seems shallow.
You know, recently I have been noticing some black women getting huffy about interracial relationships like ours. It has an air of, "I can't do that, so what gives her that right?" A sad, apparent emotion of repression.
Integration is the only moral form of social justice.
jasonmit 2 years ago
Your right. Other black women can get huffy too. I think it's a thin line between jealousy, and what you said. Well, I guess it's kind of the same thing.
Your wife is beautiful by the way.
Ignore the negative. :)
cedamouse 2 years ago
they're just jealous because they're all alone and can't stand to see someone else happy. racism of any kind sucks and it screwed up America to the max in terms of everybody genuenely getting along and being descent to eachother. those kinds of people don't know what they're missing. anyways i think you are so cute and you and your wife are a super cute couple. sorry if i sound like a teenager. i kinda am. :D
chocolytesprynkles 2 years ago
Thoose same black women are jealous!!!
DG3744 2 years ago
love your video. its obvious that you love your white alot!!
islandflava10 2 years ago
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allamericanhater09 2 years ago
If I think any woman is using me for status, im dropping her and you can tell when they are. That goes for any race. They all love your money.
allamericanhater09 2 years ago
Hmm, if she's with me for money, she wouldn't have been interested in me when we first met.....we met in college and I was broke, like most college students.
I consider the relationship I have with my wife to be like any other healthy, well grounded, loving relationship.
And no, my wife isn't some black liberation nut. Like I said, we don't respond to fascism......especially from each other.
jasonmit 2 years ago
"A guy treated to beat up ur wife in front of you" ....U said????
DG3744 2 years ago
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islandflava10 2 years ago
I agree islandflava10. Plus why does it matter if they are in it for the 'right' or 'wrong' reasons? Why do the reasons matter, when their relationship is personal and really has nothing to do with me or anyone else but them and God?
nocturne1980 2 years ago
I had an ex like that. Black woman was paranoid because black men would hate seeing her with me. She couldn't get over the attention so it didn't last. Other people make more of a deal out of it than it needs to be. Im with a white girl for now but if it doesn't work out, who knows. I say live and let live.
allamericanhater09 2 years ago
I wouldn't say my wife is paranoid. Its just an element we're both aware of. When something happens, the attitude we tend to hold is its their problem, not ours.
We don't respond to fascists. That's why we vote Republican, we make more than minimum wage, and our relationship works.
jasonmit 2 years ago
not calling your wife paranoid, dude, I agree with you. Im just saying sometimes black dudes make it harder for black women than others... just saying. White women made it harder for me, they all started seducing me. Not that I fell for it.
allamericanhater09 2 years ago 2
LOL, it is amazing how women start showing up whenever a guy gets in a relationship. It can be like some kind of sick Chinese water torture.
jasonmit 2 years ago
Are u from the same town as Kristen Chenowrth!!
DG3744 2 years ago
It's not self hating to want a man who was actually brought up in a two parent home with morale. It's not self hating if you find yourself in love with a man who actually believes in family values. Again, it is not self hating to fall in love with a man who can speak the English language. Yes, I know....that was mean and will be taken out of total context by "them", but this needed to be stated. I am not a self hating African American woman. I'm a smart woman who chooses respectable men, period.
AeroHostale 2 years ago
"Most of the people were black so i guess they must have agreed with him"
You guessed wrong.
nyiskillinme 2 years ago
no i didn't you can tell a lot from people's facial expressions and i travel on that bus everyday and everyday it's the same thing....same questions, same disrespect and same ignorance. And I'm not even his mum she has to deal with it way more than i do.
yans21 2 years ago
Hey man, Its awesome to see a relationship as successful as yours. I've dated a girl for the last two years and we just got engaged and her parents blew our relationship to smithereens. All because I'm black, which I really am not, I'm mulatto, raised by white parents, I'm black purely in color. She is a beautiful fair-skinned redhead. And the racism was always directed to me from black people, I was constantly called a sellout, and a traitor.
jdhul55 2 years ago
yeah you better expect it, i remember one guy asked me why do i like white men?? so expect it...
africanqueen09love 2 years ago
"Your purely black in color"? I have no problems with interracial dating (i date all types), what i do have a problem with is people like yourself not knowing who or what the fuck they are when they are surrounded(raised) by white people. You sound retarded, her parents did like you because YOU ARE BLACK idiot. Get over it. Who the fuck still uses the term "mulatto"? I guess you. Black people called you those names because that is what you are. No one could ever, or has ever said that about me.
ladybott5 2 years ago
What the fuck is your issue? Seriously. I'm paying the dude and his wife a compliment then you come out and fuckin attack me. wtf
I say I'm mulatto because I am. And I am black purely in color, There is a lot more to a race then just color. Okay? And get the fuck over it and deal with it, your a fucking mulatto whether you like it or not.
DEAL. You are who you choose to be, you can't make someone or tell someone who they are.
jdhul55 2 years ago
Right.........like I said your black get over it. You can call yourself whatever you want the world views you as black, so just DEAL! I went to school with ton's of people just like you who were surrounded by whites, they were very confused even thou the mirror told them the truth. Being black is not bad, being a spineless self hating coward is. No matter how much you want to be apart of there world they will never let you, because they see you as less than.
ladybott5 2 years ago
I think the big problem is the black girl acting like she is moved up in the scale buy being with a white guy
lburianek 2 years ago
A lot of black people tend to act like that when they date/marry outside of their race. If the person they're dating happens to be white, they feel they have reached the top. A lot black believe in white superiority whether they want to admit it or not.
nyiskillinme 2 years ago