Well from my perspective, women who do that, really want a crave relationships with a man. They just forget everyone because they now have a man. Sounds to me like your friend has a need that was filled. I feel ya though.
i guess this is why mother-in-laws have friction with their son-in-laws... they don't want to lose or even share that bond... you should see how women take turns trying to be "the one" that talks to a new guy on the block too - like they have the connection with the guy and no other girl does... women can be just as posessive emotionally as guys are physically...
spend more time with those who treat you well though... you smile and are tough but you don't diserve that hurt :(
I'VE SEEN IT HAPPEN TO ALOT OF PPL. I FEEL YOU, BUT NEVER REALLY WITH THRU IT BECUZ I AM ALL ABOUT MYSELF. LOL.. (AND THIS IS WHY). I MAKE ALOT OF ME TIME FOR I DON'T HAVE TO GO THRU SELF LIKE THAT. IT IS CRAZY THAT PPL FALL SO EASY AND GET WAY TO COMFORTABLE. ARE HOW FAST THEY LOSE THERE SELF IN SOMEONE ELSE LIFE. WILL, IF YOU NEED A FRIEND THAT WANT DO THAT I AM HERE FOR YOU LOL.. YOUTUBE FRIEND. HEHE..
my friend did that with me. we were so fuckin close and she got with her boyfriend she just completely forgot about me and i known her since 5th grade.
ok she went too far by picking up his smoking habit..but i know what you mean. it is hard to balance those relationships though, but it can be done. Sounds like she got upset when you started dating and her newnew wasn't so new anymore lol
i feel yA!! My ex bestfriend was friends with me for like 9 years and all of sudden she gon change and act like i aint even a part of your life...it aint like im jelous or none but when you act like you cant even talk to your girls no more who always have your back when your man gon do you wrong..there is obviously a problem!! i cant stand it!!! and its true..she started smokin and drinkin cuz her man pressured her to...now we aint even friends..I hate it when girls be act like that! be urself!!
im wit chu on dis 100% bt chu kno wats funny is tht most females 4gt bout dey friends & be 100% all bout dey man bt den flip da script & da dude is still kiccin it wit his boiz like aint shit changed while da female ova here luzin friends pretty much
Ive had male friends who do the same shit!! Its not healthy either cause when the relationship ends, the friend isnt going to want to be there anymore!!
you riqht i use to b like that till my homeqirl told me kus i didnt see it myself n i loved my homeqirl to death so i started cuttin back time wit him n gave her more one on one time cuz u could always live wit out a niqqa but neva witout ur best friend cuz they been there way b4 dude came alonq
Yesssssss!! Omg, ppl get so pathetic in relationships. Like, that mess not attractive at all, for ppl to pick up their bf/gf's BAD habits, or to spend so much time around them. Like you said, its your bf so yeah you wanna be around him, but there is a thin line. Usually those ppl don't even spend time with themselves as much as they do with their partner & that is where they start to lose their identity. Being yourself will make you happy &
Hey Fantasy, what's the real bummer is they "Flat Leave
you when their "Other" comes around. It's so immature to do to friend who are their when they ain't got nobody. What goes around comes around. I wouldn't be so available when they come back with their tale between their legs, whining.
AVtPro, omg, throw back middle school term "flat leave you" lmao that is a great way to explain exactly what they do!! And its sooo funny when they break up.. who they come running too!! the friend they flat left!! smh!!!!
Most females who do this haven't yet found themselves 2start/w. If another person walks into ur life & consume u on THAT level, u were never complete...& I screen people I embrace thoroughly so they aren't *generally* the types 2fall victim 2running behind an undeserving dude.
HOWEVER,
u can image that I see the types of females ur describing ALL OVER THE PLACE.
But nothing will change 4them until they've found their OWN value.
It's a big step 4the sisters who've admitted they've done this.
I agree with what you said and its not like im agreeing with you because I had a friend that did that me. I WAS THAT FRIEND WHO LOST MYSELF CONSUMING ALL MY TIME IN SOME GUY. So I saw how it destroyed my friendships with ppl.
God this is tooo true! I use to b really close to my old BFF since middle school, but when she got a dude, she made him her life N things went down from there literally. It was a mess for us both b/c I began to b like her after I got a BF, but 4 a short while b/c we hit a serious rough spot n left him alone. Never again though, never again. I totally feel u. My advice 4 younge middle school & high school girls, don't get wraped around a dudes finger, not a good look!
Girl, i totally feel you on this issue! I'm going through the same situation and have in the past. That shit is for the birds, life i too short to make one man your whole life!!
yea all girls who have friends like this LEAVE THEM ALONE THEY WILL COME AROUND SOONER OR LATER AND WHEN THEY DO TELL THEM TO KISS YOUR ASS!!!! my girl has a friend like that
OMG,this video was right on time. I WAS going through that but i cut chick off completely. She actually married this dude who whoops her ass and cheats on her. The only time she calls me is for a shoulder to cry on or when she needs some money. She sends me e-mails so called bombing me out cause i'm never there for her, I'm just not there at HER convenience, now my ass is not there period. She was claiming that she was fed up but kept going back, not to mention he hated the fact we were friends
Ras12301, I know the feeling!!! That's the same shit that was going on with my friend. She only called me when it was convenient for her! But when I needed her she was to busy. But your friend is bugging! Its so sad, cause your situation happens all the time.
You hit that shit right on the head because these chicks be getting real brand new on you behind some dick but then when the realtionship goes sour they want to be all up under you again.......I be like girl bye
Good quality friendships provide support, fellowship, and feedback. When you lose yourself into a new relationship you aren't always benefiting yourself. Often when the newness of a relationship wears off and when you want to reconnect with your old friends, you want to make sure you haven't alienated them, and that they are still there with their support, fellowship, and feedback.
@brooklynsjaguar30, you are right, it is normal to want to be with your significant other, but its not normal when you diss everyone else to be with him and only him. And she did say that to me, but thats because after 2 yrs of chasing her, even while I had a boyfriend, I just decided to leave her alone. The friendship became one sided and it wasn't fair to me.
its not really dissin she do want to hang out but shes trying to get to know this new person in the relationship more then 90 percent whether its male or female does it for example its like when females like to share shoes now when you buy a pair of expensive shoes that you really like you want to atleast wear them for awhile before shareing them, it is very common for that to happen she your friend so you should be understanding give her time she'll come threw.
@brooklynsjaguar30, you're absolutely correct, everyone wants to hang out with the new person in their life, but theres a difference when u start to ONLY want to hang out with that person and alienate everyone else.
Also, I did give her time. We were friends for 3 yrs before he came around and even when he was around we were still friends for another 2 yrs so I gave her enough time.
yeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeesssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssss ma'am... i think it's a lil low self esteem... and not knowing who u really are from the start... OR not having a strong sense of self i.d., being young immature and not knowing how to tell ya man like look... me and my g's are going to do us ttyl.. sad
@destinygodley, YESS girl sometimes girls need to leave their man for a night and have a girls night out! and vice versa! this way you can balance your friends and your love life.
Man that happens all over man! I think ppl lose their identity due to the lack of attention at home. i.e. father figures, mother figures etc. so they look for the next best thing which is their mate. 8 times outta 10 those relationships dont last and or that person will be corrupted by their mates ways. having both parents are vital in a home. thanks for posting! good topic
Well from my perspective, women who do that, really want a crave relationships with a man. They just forget everyone because they now have a man. Sounds to me like your friend has a need that was filled. I feel ya though.
Coolyfett 7 months ago
i guess this is why mother-in-laws have friction with their son-in-laws... they don't want to lose or even share that bond... you should see how women take turns trying to be "the one" that talks to a new guy on the block too - like they have the connection with the guy and no other girl does... women can be just as posessive emotionally as guys are physically...
spend more time with those who treat you well though... you smile and are tough but you don't diserve that hurt :(
nathanwilefrazier 9 months ago
I'VE SEEN IT HAPPEN TO ALOT OF PPL. I FEEL YOU, BUT NEVER REALLY WITH THRU IT BECUZ I AM ALL ABOUT MYSELF. LOL.. (AND THIS IS WHY). I MAKE ALOT OF ME TIME FOR I DON'T HAVE TO GO THRU SELF LIKE THAT. IT IS CRAZY THAT PPL FALL SO EASY AND GET WAY TO COMFORTABLE. ARE HOW FAST THEY LOSE THERE SELF IN SOMEONE ELSE LIFE. WILL, IF YOU NEED A FRIEND THAT WANT DO THAT I AM HERE FOR YOU LOL.. YOUTUBE FRIEND. HEHE..
sfjnva87 1 year ago
r u half black half asian ??
theeb191145 1 year ago
my friend did that with me. we were so fuckin close and she got with her boyfriend she just completely forgot about me and i known her since 5th grade.
HoneyLove210 2 years ago
ok she went too far by picking up his smoking habit..but i know what you mean. it is hard to balance those relationships though, but it can be done. Sounds like she got upset when you started dating and her newnew wasn't so new anymore lol
blklacquer 2 years ago
i feel yA!! My ex bestfriend was friends with me for like 9 years and all of sudden she gon change and act like i aint even a part of your life...it aint like im jelous or none but when you act like you cant even talk to your girls no more who always have your back when your man gon do you wrong..there is obviously a problem!! i cant stand it!!! and its true..she started smokin and drinkin cuz her man pressured her to...now we aint even friends..I hate it when girls be act like that! be urself!!
ShayBreh08 2 years ago
GIRL THIS WAS THE [[TRUTH!!!!!]]
i'm about to post this video on my friends page cuz thiis wat she's doing now UUUGHHH!!
Bresokoo 2 years ago
im wit chu on dis 100% bt chu kno wats funny is tht most females 4gt bout dey friends & be 100% all bout dey man bt den flip da script & da dude is still kiccin it wit his boiz like aint shit changed while da female ova here luzin friends pretty much
LadiiHustla90 2 years ago
Fucking Christ I love spanish women. Marry me bitch.
khaosifix 2 years ago
Ive had male friends who do the same shit!! Its not healthy either cause when the relationship ends, the friend isnt going to want to be there anymore!!
bmatt820 2 years ago
you are so right!
idalith21 2 years ago 4
agree with u!
idalith21 2 years ago 2
i bee ya friend lol
rossthegreatess 2 years ago
you riqht i use to b like that till my homeqirl told me kus i didnt see it myself n i loved my homeqirl to death so i started cuttin back time wit him n gave her more one on one time cuz u could always live wit out a niqqa but neva witout ur best friend cuz they been there way b4 dude came alonq
chikita0321 2 years ago
I totaly agree with You, me quilla esa vaina que desde que tiene un novio ya se pegan como lapa y jamas los ves uff
Bombondelcaribe1 2 years ago
post the rest oh poker face video!!! please
kevin03ex 2 years ago
NO......
gescoboza 2 years ago
ahhh so true... that's happening to me noww... and with more than one of my friends... BUMMERRRRRRRRRRRRRRR
laREiNAbby 2 years ago
are you black or latino
jus wondering
kevinluvshelium 2 years ago
kevinluvshelium, I'm spanish (Dominican)
OnlyOneFantasy 2 years ago
love spanish ppl
rossthegreatess 2 years ago
Yesssssss!! Omg, ppl get so pathetic in relationships. Like, that mess not attractive at all, for ppl to pick up their bf/gf's BAD habits, or to spend so much time around them. Like you said, its your bf so yeah you wanna be around him, but there is a thin line. Usually those ppl don't even spend time with themselves as much as they do with their partner & that is where they start to lose their identity. Being yourself will make you happy &
the person that really loves you.
-LaTia Joelle
theBossBarbiesCmplx 2 years ago
"Sending link of this vid to Mr R**k* M*" LOL.....
RPS13959 2 years ago
lmfao alex! word!!!!
OnlyOneFantasy 2 years ago
SOOOOOOO True :-}
bittasweetlove 2 years ago
Hey Fantasy, what's the real bummer is they "Flat Leave
you when their "Other" comes around. It's so immature to do to friend who are their when they ain't got nobody. What goes around comes around. I wouldn't be so available when they come back with their tale between their legs, whining.
Anyway, thanks for the beautiful smile :)
AVTPro 2 years ago
Hope that made some sense...Ha.
Anyway, my brother does that all the time. I told him to stop telling my about your woman. In a way they are really just dumping on ya. Great vLog.
AVTPro 2 years ago
AVtPro, omg, throw back middle school term "flat leave you" lmao that is a great way to explain exactly what they do!! And its sooo funny when they break up.. who they come running too!! the friend they flat left!! smh!!!!
OnlyOneFantasy 2 years ago
Most females who do this haven't yet found themselves 2start/w. If another person walks into ur life & consume u on THAT level, u were never complete...& I screen people I embrace thoroughly so they aren't *generally* the types 2fall victim 2running behind an undeserving dude.
HOWEVER,
u can image that I see the types of females ur describing ALL OVER THE PLACE.
But nothing will change 4them until they've found their OWN value.
It's a big step 4the sisters who've admitted they've done this.
TABULOUS1 2 years ago
I agree with what you said and its not like im agreeing with you because I had a friend that did that me. I WAS THAT FRIEND WHO LOST MYSELF CONSUMING ALL MY TIME IN SOME GUY. So I saw how it destroyed my friendships with ppl.
cflores285 2 years ago
@cflores285, girl I am so glad you can admit that. Not many women who've been in your shoes see that doing this does destroy friendships.
OnlyOneFantasy 2 years ago
This is soooo true, everyone can relate to this one way or another.
:)
Lucystarpr 2 years ago
YEAH IT ALWAYS HAPPENS
TOONSCRAZY 2 years ago
girl i hear ya on this one, just subscribed <333
msfililocalola 2 years ago
i know exactly what you mean, i have had friends only care about there boyfriend. grr it makes me mad.
Meg1923 2 years ago
God this is tooo true! I use to b really close to my old BFF since middle school, but when she got a dude, she made him her life N things went down from there literally. It was a mess for us both b/c I began to b like her after I got a BF, but 4 a short while b/c we hit a serious rough spot n left him alone. Never again though, never again. I totally feel u. My advice 4 younge middle school & high school girls, don't get wraped around a dudes finger, not a good look!
Aim05 2 years ago
Girl, i totally feel you on this issue! I'm going through the same situation and have in the past. That shit is for the birds, life i too short to make one man your whole life!!
olayinkas 2 years ago
yea all girls who have friends like this LEAVE THEM ALONE THEY WILL COME AROUND SOONER OR LATER AND WHEN THEY DO TELL THEM TO KISS YOUR ASS!!!! my girl has a friend like that
seansosa 2 years ago
OMG,this video was right on time. I WAS going through that but i cut chick off completely. She actually married this dude who whoops her ass and cheats on her. The only time she calls me is for a shoulder to cry on or when she needs some money. She sends me e-mails so called bombing me out cause i'm never there for her, I'm just not there at HER convenience, now my ass is not there period. She was claiming that she was fed up but kept going back, not to mention he hated the fact we were friends
ras12301 2 years ago
Ras12301, I know the feeling!!! That's the same shit that was going on with my friend. She only called me when it was convenient for her! But when I needed her she was to busy. But your friend is bugging! Its so sad, cause your situation happens all the time.
OnlyOneFantasy 2 years ago
You hit that shit right on the head because these chicks be getting real brand new on you behind some dick but then when the realtionship goes sour they want to be all up under you again.......I be like girl bye
Reddz25 2 years ago 3
yeaaa this shit is soooo true it happens with niggas tooo. i gotta boii who met a shortii and he got pussy whipped and i never seen him again!!
Bxdominicanpa 2 years ago
@2legit20, hahhahaa, thanks! At least you watched it.
OnlyOneFantasy 2 years ago
say it loud n say it proud!!
xoxchunaxox 2 years ago
uip, idk why girls get like that
MCSKITTLESTV 2 years ago
Nice.
RawGamePlay 2 years ago
Good quality friendships provide support, fellowship, and feedback. When you lose yourself into a new relationship you aren't always benefiting yourself. Often when the newness of a relationship wears off and when you want to reconnect with your old friends, you want to make sure you haven't alienated them, and that they are still there with their support, fellowship, and feedback.
Preach DR. O.O.Fantasy!
290aua 2 years ago
yesssssssssssssss i hate that ughh..
tammytammz 2 years ago
very good point, a relationship should be about balance or else things can get out of hand just like you said
rebirthatthefountain 2 years ago
all love!!!
bearr7 2 years ago
thats normal it happens especially when there in love like you said she had to tell you too that how come she didnt hear from you
brooklynsjaguar30 2 years ago
@brooklynsjaguar30, you are right, it is normal to want to be with your significant other, but its not normal when you diss everyone else to be with him and only him. And she did say that to me, but thats because after 2 yrs of chasing her, even while I had a boyfriend, I just decided to leave her alone. The friendship became one sided and it wasn't fair to me.
OnlyOneFantasy 2 years ago
its not really dissin she do want to hang out but shes trying to get to know this new person in the relationship more then 90 percent whether its male or female does it for example its like when females like to share shoes now when you buy a pair of expensive shoes that you really like you want to atleast wear them for awhile before shareing them, it is very common for that to happen she your friend so you should be understanding give her time she'll come threw.
brooklynsjaguar30 2 years ago
@brooklynsjaguar30, you're absolutely correct, everyone wants to hang out with the new person in their life, but theres a difference when u start to ONLY want to hang out with that person and alienate everyone else.
Also, I did give her time. We were friends for 3 yrs before he came around and even when he was around we were still friends for another 2 yrs so I gave her enough time.
OnlyOneFantasy 2 years ago
im glad to here from you again keep in touch
brooklynsjaguar30 2 years ago
yeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeesssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssss ma'am... i think it's a lil low self esteem... and not knowing who u really are from the start... OR not having a strong sense of self i.d., being young immature and not knowing how to tell ya man like look... me and my g's are going to do us ttyl.. sad
:((
destinygodley 2 years ago
@destinygodley, YESS girl sometimes girls need to leave their man for a night and have a girls night out! and vice versa! this way you can balance your friends and your love life.
OnlyOneFantasy 2 years ago
Man that happens all over man! I think ppl lose their identity due to the lack of attention at home. i.e. father figures, mother figures etc. so they look for the next best thing which is their mate. 8 times outta 10 those relationships dont last and or that person will be corrupted by their mates ways. having both parents are vital in a home. thanks for posting! good topic
ocho01 2 years ago
hmm what was the song at the bigginin? lol i know i didint talk about the subject but yea, i dont know that situation lol
matezo 2 years ago