I disagree with you feeling a "girlfriend" has to be submissive to you, only a wife has to submit to her husband, if you are dating someone you plan to marry, there are ways to tell if she has a submissive spirit without you needing her to submit to your beck and call, such as does she honor her father. I would tell young christian ladies if a guy is already trying to act like your husband but is not at the very least engaged to you perhaps the problem is him not you - too controlling
@morgydavi If a girl doesn't submit when she's dating, why would she SUDDENLY change and submit in marriage? How you are as a girlfriend is how you are as a wife. End of.
This was excellent because I have experienced all of these, thats why I'm still single. People think I'm gay too, they be like "you 24 and you aint married yet?" you must be a fag. because there so many women out there and your still single.
But to find a really good chick is pretty hard to do, so I'm just going to continue to wait on the Lord.
I have to say that I am very doubtful about God, and I'm kinda struggling with my faither, but I found your videos to be really interesting and filled with good points, and also really funny! lol. I realized that, I am "waiting" for a guy to "complete" me...when I should be focusing on living a good life...(by good I mean, according to what I believe is right, and doing things that fulfill me).
wow funny i found this vid. i do have a high expectation and i thought maybe it was to high but then i realized God knows who to match who up with because i cant be with a man who doesnt have a car or his own crib(just being real) he has to have one of the two and i know some women can handle this but i can't so im waiting until God sends me my match im tired of scrubs lol by saints
my top10. 10. to many past boyfriend, mostly if any of her ex is any of my guy friends 9. no goal in life 8. attitude 7. no family respect 6. doesn't clean after herself 5. drink alcohol 4. smoke/drugs 3. no cooking skills 2. no self respect 1. Not seeking God
Pastor Justin is one man whose videos I can "like" even before I watch them--he's that consistently GREAT! And wise for such a young man. That's what reading and studying the Word of God regularly does for you.
i am ready for looooooooove....why are you hiding from meeeeeeeeee?...........hahahaha have GOT to delete that SONG! Wow, I really never realized that loneliness in the song at all LOL....wow....
man wtf have god 2 do with us or with a relation ship when am with my girl i wouldnt like god 2 be the third invisible thing watching me bang my what ever
One of the first things is when a woman says she is a christian and when you look at her walk it's completely contrary. ANd when you call them on it they say you're being judgemental or anal about walking right. Two, when a woman claims she's Christian and she drops F bombs or SH bombs. And they give the excuse that it's because of whatever nationality or race they are. Three, no Godly conversation like dude in the video spoke of. Four, has no desire to put away worldly stuff. I can go on.
blah blah blah....i trust NO man even so-called *cough* "Christian dudes"....God is the only one I trust & I choosse to remain single 4ever with my 5-10 dogs.....ahhhhh now that's a happy life =)
You are absolutely incredible! You are extremely in touch with Heavenly Father. You are genuine, and are a unique gem. I only wish that there were more honorable men such as yourself.
Mine is, Girls when they come up to you and to tell you what they bought and they want you to comment on them how they dress..but its has to be positive.
what was number 6 i rewinded it twice and you went from 5 to 7 i knew that 5 was a big one so you skipped 6 and only named 9 things was 5 two things in one ?
Wow, when i first clicked this i thought it was gonna be stupid stuff as in looks. but i was really surprised when i watched and seen mostly it was in religous veiws i agree with him in what he says though. But i really was shocked cuz most people will say like if she ugly or just plain stupid shit. I was shocked i really was great video :]
Pastor Justin. dis 1 is off d hook. not just 4 girls but same goes 4 guys as well. i ges generally christian lack dept in their relationship with God, either because of the lukwarm churches or shear non challance.
hahahaha i loved the part where you sang India Arie's "I am ready for love" hahaha you're hilarious! i enjoyed your video and the message behind it-girls should def find their identity in Christ and nothing'no one else.
guy turn offs: a guy who: 1) tells me he loves me to try in screw w/my mind 2) prop. w/in the first few dates/wks 3)crit.my faith/who doesn't resp my decis. 4) insincere, lack of discp, not comm to anyth. 5) all abt the phys 6) non adrongeny-minded 7) tells a grl who isn't married to him she should submit to him, get real 8) insults a grl to try in bend them into ungodly acts 9) isn't discreet or discr/dsn't set standard w/who he dates 10) assumes you have a rel. when you don't LeS
Im not a talker, and when I do it is about worldly issues, but my husband is not a Jesus follower so please pray God will show himslef to my husband so we can be united again.
because I don't like tht type of music because of what they talk about in the songs..so all secular music isn't bad...It's better to pay more attention to there actions and what's coming out of their mouth than to what they listen to.
I liked everything you said except for the witnessing part and the music part......ok what if the girl is shy, I know I don't usually witness to people unless they come to me first with a question and the music part in a way you can tell what type of person they are by the music but on the other hand the music shouldn't be a turn off to you like me for example I listen to a lot of R&B stuff like Jon B, Al B Sure, Keith Sweat but I don't listen to Lil Wanye, Drake and Trey songz
I'm not religious myself, but I agree with a few of these things (but about guys, lol) - I hate it when people can't have deep conversations and contradict themselves, and don't do anything with their lives. If people get their faith shaken easily however, isn't it just a sign that they're open minded and listen to different theories about things? And what's wrong with people listening to "sinful" music or watching "sinful" films, as long as they don't sin? Not tryna make enemies, just saying :)
3. Gossip, or talk bad behind other people's backs
4. Don't have that personal relationship with God
5. Lukewarm
6. Caught up in the secular world
7. Looking for a phys. relationship and not seeing that the purpose of the relationship is that the man and the woman come together in unity as one, to grow closer not only to one another, but more importantly to God.
Hello Pastor Justin, I just need a little clarification. I listen to a lot of hip hop, rap and all that, but am unable to see the compromise in that. Given the fact, that my life as a whole is being led by Christ, in terms of my "singlenss" in the past five years and loving it and appreciating it and am nowhere near thirsty. I just feel that regardless of what one listens to, it's not what goes in the ears, but what comes out of your mouth and the way you live your life as a whole. clarity pleas
i dont think that being turned off because a guy doesnt have a job is worldly or wrong.. if he doesnt have a job theres a good chance he's babied too much by his momma (turn off), lazy (turn off), and can't support me ( turn off). Not saying all guys that dont have jobs are like that, but some are and it sure makes it look like that
I completely agree with everything you have said! My girl recently finished with me and I know I compromised my turn offs to be in a relationship and God is showing me more now. I am going to enjoy seeking and loving God more again and not compromise and take away the woman He has planned for me! We should have Godly standards and all try to live up to them. Thanks, this post was great! Don't compromise and definately keep the faith! 100% agree with all you said, from God for sure! Amen!
AMEN they have to have substance! Many can talk a good talk though but will they hold integrity to allow this to recreate their character? dzarro7@yahoo.com
my dude!! you had that stuff down pat!!! i would make a list but half of them are what you said!!!! get at ya boy sometime it be cool to chop it up with you!
u make alot of sense n especially on the compromise....am saved born again but i would still find excuses for liking Worldly Artists cuz i like they melody and they beat....so yh i know u were talkin to the brothers but as a Christian it is shameful that i SAY i represent Christ but yet i am associating myself with these artist and songs...that really got me...cuz how can i say I love God and yet lovin these music....God Bless u brother....
@pastorJustinofP4cm Bro this is my 1st time watching your vids, and I tell you the truth, your top ten things are my top ten things!!! amazing!! But I'm contemplating being single for God in this life so as to maximize the amt of time I'll have to spend with Him and ministry. I LOVED this vid!
In case you guys didn’t get it. He is basically taking about how he is turned off by women who say they’re a Christian but in reality they are not, faith is proven not only by words but also by the walk with Yeshua Hamashiach.
A guy who is arrogant,A guy who talks way to much and does not listen,Aguy who has bad hygiene,A guy who has a crazy country accent,A guy who is living a double life meaning on the fence,A who has no vision,A guy who does not smile,A guy who is interested in me although He does not know about me,A guy who is not teachable,and guy who missionary dates
Besides being funny in your videos, I have to say your videos are very inspiring. Being in high school it's hard to know what guys like, but in a way that God would like, and just watching it, it makes me think of an old saying that goes:
"Instead of looking for your future husband, look for his wife." And what you've videod about is something that a majority of Christian males would want in a wife, so thanks for the inspiration.
WHOA!!!!!!! This is me.... HELP ME LORD! Thanks for following Christ and Busting my lifestyle. I'm in a weird place right now (the transition from religion to relationship). I love this ministry b/c it's truth. Thank you!
i LOVEEEEEEEEE number 10 it is sooooooooo true ladies lets step our walk up and get serious i love u all and we are princesses of a royal priesthood no ruby can compare to us.
I definatley agree with #4. I'm christian but dont practice it like all the time. My father's a pastor but our chuch is laid back and we dont yell in church and we dont wear dresses and what not. We're really laid back so I completley agree with the ones about super uptight girls and what not cuz its a tun off of mine from men.
My Top 11 Turn Offs for Guys: 1) Believes in God but won't worship Him. (a.k.a fakin' Christianity) 2) Lack of Discipline to pray and read his Word 3) Doesn't align speech with Word of God 4) Makes decisions based on money instead of Christ 5) Lustful 6) Lack of Pride in personal deportment 7) Easily angered 8) Lack of desire to fulfill God's plan for his life 9) Prideful (thinks he's a super-christian) 10) Critical of Other people 11) Lack of Humility
Top turn offs 4 guys 1 say he a CHRISTian then blatantly goes out of his way to diss CHRIST 2 cusses like nobody business 3 more concerned with looks than personality 4 doesn't try to understand the Bible 5 goes to Church just to pick up girls 6 make themselves look so perfect no one wanna even talk bout CHRIST with them 7 breaks their neck to get that second look at a girl 8 afraid to get buck with the angels 9 not forgiving 10 unfaithful
Thank you for this... Like, I've been working on myself and stuff. This helped me see more things that I may have missed/helped me rearrange my focus.. Thanks for letting God use you.
whew... i love this list! Shows alot about you as well!!! Mama aint raise no fool :-) honesly this is fabulous. I enjoyed it. I needed to see this because I have been feeling like there are no young, nice looking yound men that truly love the Lord and are willing to be bold and on fire for God!!! Glad i came across this video! Be Blessed
Yeah that's true what you said and buy the one thing that turns me off is christian women is there attutute think there above everybody and full of them self
Being a girl that wants a Godly man as a husband, this pointed out some areas in my own life that I need to work on to be the best possible Christian wife that I can be.
My Top 11 turn offs for guys 1. Doesn't know how to pray. 2. Lacks character,Justifys sin 3. Doesn't know his word, 4. Prideful , unsubmissive and not accountable 5. Not a servant, doesnt pay tithes 6. Speaks negative, doubtful! 7 Carnal Christian who acts like he lives totally for God. 8 Does not understand his Godly position 9 Gossips about other men/ the pastor and complains about how the church should be ran 10 Preaches the gospel with no compassion. 11. Won't grow in God
@KingsBelovedOne a guy is not supposed to be submissive especially not in marriage or before i would think. In the bible it says Wives be submissive to your husbands and husbands to love your wife as christ loved you. Ephesians 5:22-26.
HAhaha... I used to be that thirsty girl. But then GOD showed me that I need to seek Him first. Ever since I did that singleness no longer bothers me. I've been spending my time growing closer to GOD, and I'm satisfied. I never thought I'd see the day but praise God :)
Great video! Great blend of comedy and the word of God.
@kerburger Hey Sweetheart, Here are some great verses you can convert to personal prayers to God to build you up:
Prov 3; Psalm 119:9-16, 51, Romans 12:1-2, 1 Cor 13, James 1, remember 1 John 1:9
According to Ephesians 1:17-18, I pray that the God of our Lord Jesus Christ, the glorious Father, may give u the Spirit of wisdom and revelation, so u may know him better, that the eyes of ur heart may b enlightened that u may know the hope to which he has called u...
Top 10 Turn Offs 1. Who is shakey in his faith 2. Put me before God 3. Doesn't know the Word 4. Doesn't worship in church 5. Doesn't guard his eyes or ears 6. Disrepectful of others 7. Easily angered and wrathful 8. Is too prideful to humble himself to God or others 9. Cannot submit to women who are ministering, whether they are preaching or leading worship 10. Rebellious toward God and/or the Word.
@danandamy 1Corinthians 7:7 Paul says it is better to be single so that you can devote yourself to God completely because a married person has to devote time to their marriage. So, IMO, opinion only, yes it is biblical. If she's single and hasn't used that as an opportunity to build the kingdom in her life then it is a total turn off. I mean, I got a wife & 5 kids and I have time to do it why would a single person not have the time?
i feel the same thing about guys i wanna talk to guys about God but i don't know where that man is and my heart is broken because I keep given it to these dudes who keep askin for it unstead of earning it : ( once a gurl gives they heart its hard to give it back : ( I want it back until i find that guy like you
Yo Justin- brother, you have a heart of gold! God bless you!
How refreshing that the qualities you desire are of substance; and not a weird mixture like 10% godly and 80% looks/hair texture/freak-a-bility (is that a word?)/big bootie.
Your thoughts are mature, (Hmm what's dat u say Paul?:
"When I was a child I thought...but when I became a man I but away childish things".....) and encourages young women who are the opposite of what you talked about.
for me it be -Gyal, dont want a gift for her birthday, but end up cryin wen u dnt get dem 1 -Gyal who hate faith -Desprate Gyal -Gyal dat want u 4 tha money -Gyal dat tryin to look good, but jus dont -Gyal dat aint a Virgin -Gyal dat take everythang tha wrong way -Gyal dat narsty -Gyal dat angry -Gyal dat drain ur money -Gyal dat got a dutty mind and jus want Sex sex sex... only time im gonna have sex is afta marrage
I really enjoyed this, it's funny because i was that Girl really wanting to be in a relationship LOL not thirsty though. Now I really appreciate The single life..Of course I do want a husband some day..I'm not as "Thirsty" as you would say as i used to be, I really enjoy now focusing and spending my time on Building a relationship with GOD. This was Too funny Keep it up, God Bless!
You are right, there is nothing wrong with wanting to be in a relationship. One of the reason's that God taught us how to love was so we could share that love to our spouse. However, the point that Pastor Justin was trying to pass was, Not having a significant other will not kill you. The only thing you need in life is God.
I disagree with you feeling a "girlfriend" has to be submissive to you, only a wife has to submit to her husband, if you are dating someone you plan to marry, there are ways to tell if she has a submissive spirit without you needing her to submit to your beck and call, such as does she honor her father. I would tell young christian ladies if a guy is already trying to act like your husband but is not at the very least engaged to you perhaps the problem is him not you - too controlling
morgydavi 1 year ago 148
@morgydavi Excellent points!
NHisMage 1 year ago 8
@morgydavi If a girl doesn't submit when she's dating, why would she SUDDENLY change and submit in marriage? How you are as a girlfriend is how you are as a wife. End of.
KimaOnline 1 year ago 94
Dude! HA! 110% Correct! There are some other things, but u hit it on the nail! Amen!
orighbk07 1 year ago 13
This was excellent because I have experienced all of these, thats why I'm still single. People think I'm gay too, they be like "you 24 and you aint married yet?" you must be a fag. because there so many women out there and your still single.
But to find a really good chick is pretty hard to do, so I'm just going to continue to wait on the Lord.
RespectMyHate 1 year ago 44
I have to say that I am very doubtful about God, and I'm kinda struggling with my faither, but I found your videos to be really interesting and filled with good points, and also really funny! lol. I realized that, I am "waiting" for a guy to "complete" me...when I should be focusing on living a good life...(by good I mean, according to what I believe is right, and doing things that fulfill me).
InspiredByColor28 1 year ago 9
Dude, your top ten is on point, but you had me cracking up!! Good stuff, God Bless.
BornTwyce2 1 year ago 8
wow funny i found this vid. i do have a high expectation and i thought maybe it was to high but then i realized God knows who to match who up with because i cant be with a man who doesnt have a car or his own crib(just being real) he has to have one of the two and i know some women can handle this but i can't so im waiting until God sends me my match im tired of scrubs lol by saints
BeauTCravez 1 year ago
5:48 Mannn....got me again...ouch. Pray for me.
aaliyahbr3 1 year ago 10
@music1ov3r oooh yeah i'm definitely going through that right now
newley67 1 year ago
I really really really like you! Subbed:D
BeegotscaKes 1 year ago 5
amazing truth!!
nlove2k 1 year ago
chouavue2 1 year ago 6
Maxwell? Ouch!
snowblackc 1 year ago
looooolll @ the singing 1:37
amazingracepp 1 year ago 2
Pastor Justin is one man whose videos I can "like" even before I watch them--he's that consistently GREAT! And wise for such a young man. That's what reading and studying the Word of God regularly does for you.
talitha00cumi 1 year ago 2
@TheresaQ93 you need to understand the concept of not being unequally yoked.
MrFinish3d 1 year ago
Great video!
ExtremelyClassy 1 year ago
Woah there just because someone isn't religious doesn't mean that she is "sloppy"!!
talkingforever225 1 year ago 5
thanks!
Thelordismysheperd21 1 year ago
i love Number 10!!! true story....lol
TheCreamzy 1 year ago
My Top 10 ten things that turn me off from girls...... What this whole video says. Thanks Bro. Justin!
berdew1 1 year ago
bi girl that my number one
x2thezful 1 year ago
Dude...I'm loving ur vid....I feel like female version of u...but hey I do want a bf and I do rock my Alicia and India and Chrisette Michele...lol
AMEN...I LOVE GOD so much!
Appljuice 1 year ago
You are beating me up with the Word, Pastor! Thank You!
Dame25 1 year ago
i am ready for looooooooove....why are you hiding from meeeeeeeeee?...........hahahaha have GOT to delete that SONG! Wow, I really never realized that loneliness in the song at all LOL....wow....
LiselErienneAD 1 year ago 3
Its ironic but forgive them girls... they will find the lord or-and its free will lol
coldsouldragon 1 year ago
this guy is hilarious! especially when he started singing.
krushgutz 1 year ago
Wow this is Good stuff man. THANK YOU SO Much!!!
JackieWatersports 1 year ago
Oh wow.... Why you judging me?! lol!!!
lamorris 1 year ago
Soo trueee I love you brotha!
Farida888 1 year ago
well i listen to that music and i dont have a mt like love songs wat wrong ith thatan i jus
arielhamlin1992 1 year ago
man wtf have god 2 do with us or with a relation ship when am with my girl i wouldnt like god 2 be the third invisible thing watching me bang my what ever
Drag0nballGTO 1 year ago
PAUSE LOL!!!! 1:18 *slurps* MAN IM THIRSTY NOW XD
TheVshell24 1 year ago
One of the first things is when a woman says she is a christian and when you look at her walk it's completely contrary. ANd when you call them on it they say you're being judgemental or anal about walking right. Two, when a woman claims she's Christian and she drops F bombs or SH bombs. And they give the excuse that it's because of whatever nationality or race they are. Three, no Godly conversation like dude in the video spoke of. Four, has no desire to put away worldly stuff. I can go on.
KakkoiGuy1 1 year ago
LOL good points
scgirl791 1 year ago
Reason #1: True dat!! Lol, And I am a girl! It's crazy when girls can't live without being in a relationship
Godismyradiance 1 year ago
blah blah blah....i trust NO man even so-called *cough* "Christian dudes"....God is the only one I trust & I choosse to remain single 4ever with my 5-10 dogs.....ahhhhh now that's a happy life =)
Avalita07 1 year ago
Much Luv Pastor! You have truly enlightened me on this subject about these girls. God Bless You!
DaRighteousRebel 1 year ago
You are absolutely incredible! You are extremely in touch with Heavenly Father. You are genuine, and are a unique gem. I only wish that there were more honorable men such as yourself.
TsukiakariDono 1 year ago
You are an incredibly rare, genuine, and insightful gentleman. I wish there were more men such as you.
TsukiakariDono 1 year ago
its mostly apply to American women and men
sne19 1 year ago
number 4 is like yea n numba 2
tjc0611 1 year ago
lol wtf is this... too much devotion to God. Overtly pious is a turn off.
gerry135 1 year ago
i am ready 4 love y don't u come and get me out the house lol lol lol
BostonBarnikle 1 year ago
7:20 LOL!!!!!
GracexLand 1 year ago
I read proverbs 7 EVERYDAY!
and God it helps me!
ItsLittleNicky 1 year ago
Lol...made me laff...but good list doh
trinidamfreak 1 year ago
lol but dude sooo true....i WISH more guys were like this...cuz around me only the girls are like that
cpunkrock15 1 year ago
Finally a video that I like. AMEN!
taffytangle 1 year ago
ROFL, "Yo man go rotate the tires on my car!" LOLOL, yeah you'd get a side eye for that one my brotha, but good list, I enjoy these vids, keep it up!
MissYanell 1 year ago
lol u funny !!! xd 3:55 makes me think off my aunt xD not that she doesnt accept critisizm ( or how you spell it ) but she acts the same lol
Esmiliaa 1 year ago
BROTHER I FEEL YOU!
ItsLittleNicky 1 year ago
i hate guys who r to much into GOD
l0serpants 1 year ago
Mine is, Girls when they come up to you and to tell you what they bought and they want you to comment on them how they dress..but its has to be positive.
theshakter 1 year ago
LOL DIRSTAY!!
TheNaturallycool 1 year ago
Love your point about submitting
yerdua48342 1 year ago
i subscribed amazing.
BREES0l0VElY 1 year ago
what was number 6 i rewinded it twice and you went from 5 to 7 i knew that 5 was a big one so you skipped 6 and only named 9 things was 5 two things in one ?
BSlady85 1 year ago
Finally, a guy who has some sensible priorities.
StormyRobbins 1 year ago
Wow, when i first clicked this i thought it was gonna be stupid stuff as in looks. but i was really surprised when i watched and seen mostly it was in religous veiws i agree with him in what he says though. But i really was shocked cuz most people will say like if she ugly or just plain stupid shit. I was shocked i really was great video :]
Lacey7291 1 year ago
Pastor Justin. dis 1 is off d hook. not just 4 girls but same goes 4 guys as well. i ges generally christian lack dept in their relationship with God, either because of the lukwarm churches or shear non challance.
dunexie 1 year ago
hahahaha i loved the part where you sang India Arie's "I am ready for love" hahaha you're hilarious! i enjoyed your video and the message behind it-girls should def find their identity in Christ and nothing'no one else.
easygoing 1 year ago 160
I changed my mind, I don't want my other comment posted, please delete it, thanks...LeS...
Safirlady 1 year ago
Safirlady 1 year ago
Im not a talker, and when I do it is about worldly issues, but my husband is not a Jesus follower so please pray God will show himslef to my husband so we can be united again.
MamaRosenBush 1 year ago
wow...... love this !
ashleydixon92 1 year ago
You're funny, great video =)
MsJoy4ever 1 year ago
Ahh man conviction..
kingjasantos 1 year ago
I didn't hear one thing about bad breath! Haha just playin'
JozzyHBR 1 year ago
Learn something thanks Pastor Cox
DiorFat 1 year ago
because I don't like tht type of music because of what they talk about in the songs..so all secular music isn't bad...It's better to pay more attention to there actions and what's coming out of their mouth than to what they listen to.
Ecinrahs 1 year ago
I liked everything you said except for the witnessing part and the music part......ok what if the girl is shy, I know I don't usually witness to people unless they come to me first with a question and the music part in a way you can tell what type of person they are by the music but on the other hand the music shouldn't be a turn off to you like me for example I listen to a lot of R&B stuff like Jon B, Al B Sure, Keith Sweat but I don't listen to Lil Wanye, Drake and Trey songz
Ecinrahs 1 year ago
I'm not religious myself, but I agree with a few of these things (but about guys, lol) - I hate it when people can't have deep conversations and contradict themselves, and don't do anything with their lives. If people get their faith shaken easily however, isn't it just a sign that they're open minded and listen to different theories about things? And what's wrong with people listening to "sinful" music or watching "sinful" films, as long as they don't sin? Not tryna make enemies, just saying :)
rockguitar2012 1 year ago
Top 7 things girls do to turn me off:
1. Hypocritical or faking in their faith
2. Too easily weakened in their walk with God
3. Gossip, or talk bad behind other people's backs
4. Don't have that personal relationship with God
5. Lukewarm
6. Caught up in the secular world
7. Looking for a phys. relationship and not seeing that the purpose of the relationship is that the man and the woman come together in unity as one, to grow closer not only to one another, but more importantly to God.
God Bless
psufan9522 1 year ago
Hello Pastor Justin, I just need a little clarification. I listen to a lot of hip hop, rap and all that, but am unable to see the compromise in that. Given the fact, that my life as a whole is being led by Christ, in terms of my "singlenss" in the past five years and loving it and appreciating it and am nowhere near thirsty. I just feel that regardless of what one listens to, it's not what goes in the ears, but what comes out of your mouth and the way you live your life as a whole. clarity pleas
cybillsybil 1 year ago
seriously y are yu obsessed wii god ...
Vanessa61369 1 year ago
i dont think that being turned off because a guy doesnt have a job is worldly or wrong.. if he doesnt have a job theres a good chance he's babied too much by his momma (turn off), lazy (turn off), and can't support me ( turn off). Not saying all guys that dont have jobs are like that, but some are and it sure makes it look like that
Hullabaloo54321 1 year ago
lol so...im guessing a muslum girl would be a major turn off right? XD
orangeyboo 1 year ago
Maxwell is wrong...?
Lenai11 1 year ago
Yo, You right...
Renkay141 1 year ago
I love it!!!!!!!
jettavolks 1 year ago
love you pastor justin haha funny moments in the video.
SalvationEternity777 1 year ago
I completely agree with everything you have said! My girl recently finished with me and I know I compromised my turn offs to be in a relationship and God is showing me more now. I am going to enjoy seeking and loving God more again and not compromise and take away the woman He has planned for me! We should have Godly standards and all try to live up to them. Thanks, this post was great! Don't compromise and definately keep the faith! 100% agree with all you said, from God for sure! Amen!
2Samuel16seven 1 year ago
LOL!!!!!!!!!!!!!
PlatypusCarnival 1 year ago
one of the things of many things is the music they listen to. secular music is not not godly, therefore doesn't glorify God.
jehovaofall 1 year ago
This video is great!! Lord I try to keep my facebook kingdom BUT I'm about to have to go check my movie list..LOL!! Good stuff! God bless!!
carterraquel 1 year ago
AMEN they have to have substance! Many can talk a good talk though but will they hold integrity to allow this to recreate their character? dzarro7@yahoo.com
lorddareal 1 year ago
my dude!! you had that stuff down pat!!! i would make a list but half of them are what you said!!!! get at ya boy sometime it be cool to chop it up with you!
awmyredsoulja 1 year ago
ha!h! your #10 gets me with people too! super HAAAA-larious! great job!!!
blissfulbirdie 1 year ago
Thank you man. God bless you.
cashcascade 1 year ago
u guys r speakin da truth
RobertSS50 1 year ago
u make alot of sense n especially on the compromise....am saved born again but i would still find excuses for liking Worldly Artists cuz i like they melody and they beat....so yh i know u were talkin to the brothers but as a Christian it is shameful that i SAY i represent Christ but yet i am associating myself with these artist and songs...that really got me...cuz how can i say I love God and yet lovin these music....God Bless u brother....
Kiwifruit2007 1 year ago
@pastorJustinofP4cm Bro this is my 1st time watching your vids, and I tell you the truth, your top ten things are my top ten things!!! amazing!! But I'm contemplating being single for God in this life so as to maximize the amt of time I'll have to spend with Him and ministry. I LOVED this vid!
LinxDinx 1 year ago
hey don't check india arie!!! but i do agree with you... and i did laugh
MADDYPEPSI 1 year ago
In case you guys didn’t get it. He is basically taking about how he is turned off by women who say they’re a Christian but in reality they are not, faith is proven not only by words but also by the walk with Yeshua Hamashiach.
techsupportguy101 1 year ago
unfaithfullness
asd4308 1 year ago
A guy who is arrogant,A guy who talks way to much and does not listen,Aguy who has bad hygiene,A guy who has a crazy country accent,A guy who is living a double life meaning on the fence,A who has no vision,A guy who does not smile,A guy who is interested in me although He does not know about me,A guy who is not teachable,and guy who missionary dates
tifwit1 1 year ago
gud vid
CAW118 1 year ago
I always enjoy hearing what you have to say. God bless you brother.
foreverjcchild 1 year ago
Hello pastor Justin, your list got me laughing right. Plus it's well worth meditating on so it's good on both level, thanks a lot.
God be with you.
veeunbound 1 year ago
Besides being funny in your videos, I have to say your videos are very inspiring. Being in high school it's hard to know what guys like, but in a way that God would like, and just watching it, it makes me think of an old saying that goes:
"Instead of looking for your future husband, look for his wife." And what you've videod about is something that a majority of Christian males would want in a wife, so thanks for the inspiration.
ealafo 1 year ago
WHOA!!!!!!! This is me.... HELP ME LORD! Thanks for following Christ and Busting my lifestyle. I'm in a weird place right now (the transition from religion to relationship). I love this ministry b/c it's truth. Thank you!
MiracleIsMyName 1 year ago
Good
ill think about it when i meet you
:P
ElodievandamXmj 1 year ago
i LOVEEEEEEEEE number 10 it is sooooooooo true ladies lets step our walk up and get serious i love u all and we are princesses of a royal priesthood no ruby can compare to us.
09AshMck 1 year ago 3
Amen Brotha! Your an inspiration and a testament to what the church can and will be! THANK YOU!
TheMetalheadQS 1 year ago
I don't know who this guy is but i absolutely think this list would apply to guys as well as girls. I really like it. I really like his list.
free2oosing 1 year ago
Lol. This was funny.
MegaYahoogurl 1 year ago
I definatley agree with #4. I'm christian but dont practice it like all the time. My father's a pastor but our chuch is laid back and we dont yell in church and we dont wear dresses and what not. We're really laid back so I completley agree with the ones about super uptight girls and what not cuz its a tun off of mine from men.
NaturalJaLease13 1 year ago
aisatsblake 1 year ago
Vimbainesu 1 year ago
hahaha her head is too big xD
XolisykeswifeX 1 year ago
LOVE this!! :]... awesome..
MsLove65011 1 year ago
This was hilarious. I loved it. Definitely something I took away from as a female :) Keep goin hard for Christ!
venchenzareally 1 year ago
Hahahahaha!!!
Pastor u killed me with ur 1st turn off...i thnk most of us dnt knw we are thirsty...bt thanx 4pointing tht out...lol
Pastor u sed submission at no 7 waaaart!!shud have been at no. 1 lol...
No.8 has rily convicted me...thanks
N0.9 is so on point....
Thanks for the convictions...am truly convicted...
You should make a list on people who claim to be Christians and they actions scream something else...
Thanks Pastor
Dharmajohns 1 year ago
Thank you for this... Like, I've been working on myself and stuff. This helped me see more things that I may have missed/helped me rearrange my focus.. Thanks for letting God use you.
CamishaLove 1 year ago
kudos
beautifulyung1 1 year ago
how come u mentioned maxwell as bad music to listen too??
sade4c 1 year ago
I was thinking the same thing . . . .
Prime1018 1 year ago
Hey what about immodest dressed women?
onevirtuouswoman 1 year ago
"simple" & "wicked" seem highly subjective.
basically your are saying that you like a girl that agrees with you.
auzio 1 year ago
LOL!! Love this. I've also learnt alot here. Thanks
Prisscill 1 year ago
Ure a RIOT! OMJesus! lol This helps A LOT! Conviction came my way a couple of times...smh lol Thanks!
NaturalDiva624 1 year ago
I think he is turned on jesus.
ardjoar1234 1 year ago
whew... i love this list! Shows alot about you as well!!! Mama aint raise no fool :-) honesly this is fabulous. I enjoyed it. I needed to see this because I have been feeling like there are no young, nice looking yound men that truly love the Lord and are willing to be bold and on fire for God!!! Glad i came across this video! Be Blessed
BabiG90 1 year ago
Yeah that's true what you said and buy the one thing that turns me off is christian women is there attutute think there above everybody and full of them self
Randy2020 1 year ago 2
I feel you man.
jermainejackson1 1 year ago
so true zcgbd99 whats wrong with maxwell?
jagemini89 1 year ago
LOL @ 7:15
blessedva 1 year ago
I'll be honest, this was hard to hear at moments.
Being a girl that wants a Godly man as a husband, this pointed out some areas in my own life that I need to work on to be the best possible Christian wife that I can be.
Thanks for being honest :)
~Lauren Taylor (Crossfire)
crzy4candi 1 year ago 3
This is brilliant, but 1 question: what's wrong with Maxwell?!
zcgbd99 1 year ago
I know right!lol. I mean he ain't gospel but I wouldn't write someone off for liking him :)
AMMA83 1 year ago
thank you for this.. this is awesome!
UnitedPraiseSDA 1 year ago
LOL - you are not wrapped tight! HAHAHA Great video and wise counsel.
walksbyf8h 1 year ago
yes, I agree about making the second video about the top 10 things you like about women.
AVesselofGod 1 year ago
what's number 6? wow what a blessing!!
LydsyB 1 year ago
KingsBelovedOne 1 year ago 49
i'm a guy, and i think the same thing about guys too..
DavidSkinner23 1 year ago
lol.... hahah i love it
87UNC 1 year ago
@KingsBelovedOne Yes - definitely with #7 and 11.
CamishaLove 1 year ago
@KingsBelovedOne we should go out
danster3461 1 year ago
@KingsBelovedOne you hit #9 on the T that is very very true because my Father is like that
bigdeon08 1 year ago
@KingsBelovedOne so agree
TheSongstrist 1 year ago
@KingsBelovedOne a guy is not supposed to be submissive especially not in marriage or before i would think. In the bible it says Wives be submissive to your husbands and husbands to love your wife as christ loved you. Ephesians 5:22-26.
MegaStargirl22 1 year ago
@KingsBelovedOne I'm married and I think youre post is very consistent!
Juancito413 1 year ago 2
@KingsBelovedOne Whats is this, bible hour? Basicly someone whos not a bible basher ?
TheresaQ93 1 year ago
@KingsBelovedOne Wow, spiteful? spread the word of god at church, not where everyone comes to see things.
Carmine966 1 year ago
HAhaha... I used to be that thirsty girl. But then GOD showed me that I need to seek Him first. Ever since I did that singleness no longer bothers me. I've been spending my time growing closer to GOD, and I'm satisfied. I never thought I'd see the day but praise God :)
Great video! Great blend of comedy and the word of God.
dmckin4054 1 year ago 3
I am in the middle of working it all through! Got any encouraging verses for me?
kerburger 1 year ago
@kerburger Hey Sweetheart, Here are some great verses you can convert to personal prayers to God to build you up:
Prov 3; Psalm 119:9-16, 51, Romans 12:1-2, 1 Cor 13, James 1, remember 1 John 1:9
According to Ephesians 1:17-18, I pray that the God of our Lord Jesus Christ, the glorious Father, may give u the Spirit of wisdom and revelation, so u may know him better, that the eyes of ur heart may b enlightened that u may know the hope to which he has called u...
God Bless U!
KingsBelovedOne 1 year ago
this is challenging thank you
oluwatumininu1 1 year ago
I might have to share this on my facebook. Help us sisters out! Bless!
LJCampbell25 1 year ago
suscribed!!
SalvationEternity777 1 year ago
Your faces in this video are hilarious but you have a great message! Thanks for this video!
SunshineIzDivine 1 year ago
SherBearry 1 year ago 19
@SherBearry nice list!
naturalroz0909 1 year ago
is your #9 biblical ? just asking.
danandamy 1 year ago
@danandamy 1Corinthians 7:7 Paul says it is better to be single so that you can devote yourself to God completely because a married person has to devote time to their marriage. So, IMO, opinion only, yes it is biblical. If she's single and hasn't used that as an opportunity to build the kingdom in her life then it is a total turn off. I mean, I got a wife & 5 kids and I have time to do it why would a single person not have the time?
olskoolsk8r74 1 year ago
@SherBearry ok sure...
arkboy93 1 year ago
that's what's up! "girl that's done nothing with her singleness". That will preach! Thanks for putting this out!
SherBearry 1 year ago
I love THis!! haha you crack me up!! :D Thanks For The list! :D
S3Ni0r08 1 year ago
#9 is my favorite!!!! Amen.
DoMyHair305 1 year ago
AMMEEENN! As a female I totally appreciate your list!
mucholuv2u 1 year ago
AMEN DUDE! =]
GETLOWR 1 year ago
In the name of the Father, and of the Son, and of the Holy Spirit spirit. Amen.
vindicator2008 1 year ago
i feel the same thing about guys i wanna talk to guys about God but i don't know where that man is and my heart is broken because I keep given it to these dudes who keep askin for it unstead of earning it : ( once a gurl gives they heart its hard to give it back : ( I want it back until i find that guy like you
sxyteesa0890 1 year ago
2:50 that was deep! had me thinking lool!
ipswichgirl05 1 year ago
dude ur amazing!! I love your approach... I'm about to jock a bit. lol. Bless you man.
crazyactor06 1 year ago
good stuff I suppose lol
coolangelgray 1 year ago
Oh my gosh! Funny! Funny! Funny!
Yo Justin- brother, you have a heart of gold! God bless you!
How refreshing that the qualities you desire are of substance; and not a weird mixture like 10% godly and 80% looks/hair texture/freak-a-bility (is that a word?)/big bootie.
Your thoughts are mature, (Hmm what's dat u say Paul?:
"When I was a child I thought...but when I became a man I but away childish things".....) and encourages young women who are the opposite of what you talked about.
Psalmsfiftyonegirl 1 year ago 4
aaaaaaaaaaaaamen!!! this is much needed!!
springthedream 2 years ago
HAHAHAHA!
marlessangela 2 years ago
Wow, very deep and instructive. Hope you have the number 6 coming up real soon
Affranchie 2 years ago
Soldierd95 2 years ago
I really enjoyed this, it's funny because i was that Girl really wanting to be in a relationship LOL not thirsty though. Now I really appreciate The single life..Of course I do want a husband some day..I'm not as "Thirsty" as you would say as i used to be, I really enjoy now focusing and spending my time on Building a relationship with GOD. This was Too funny Keep it up, God Bless!
celesteB100 2 years ago 3
VERY good list!!! totally totally agree
Cameeshe 2 years ago
can i get a AMEN you tube ?
babundogo 2 years ago
lol thanks for check us and tell us what a christian man expects from a christian woman.
Antanique001 2 years ago
@pussycat330
You are right, there is nothing wrong with wanting to be in a relationship. One of the reason's that God taught us how to love was so we could share that love to our spouse. However, the point that Pastor Justin was trying to pass was, Not having a significant other will not kill you. The only thing you need in life is God.
KaitoShinja 2 years ago 4