TILA MESSAGE: DON'T GIVE UP, IT GETS BETTER!

[sexyeuro]

and I hope you read that Tila :) because it's very related to your story. love you!!

[sexyeuro]

Honestly this is very true. I was bullied alot in highschool by ugly girls and they would say ewww to me everytime i'de walk by and call me names for no reason.. However NOW when I see them 8 years later, they dont say SHIT to me.. AND now I'm a model. I went through alot and had been in physical fights after school and at school dances and had my hair pulled.. It's insane what I've been through with those horrible people, and now I am way happier and have achieved waaay more than they ever will

[maltezz]

you are really pretty in this vid.

[Agauchermagic]

Wow after watching this vid, the only thing i wanted to do was give you a big hug, your a strong women and that is awesome, keep it up.

[soufwesthoustontx]

You're from Houston? Maybe it's just certain people looking to hate on you because they were jealous or the time because I didn't see people bullied because of their sexual orientation when I was in school. I graduated in 2010. Maybe things were different when you were in school or it was the specific people/school. I'm sure some people have been bullied due to those reasons though. Kids bully people for anything nowadays. Especially in high school. It's disgusting.

[AzureDragon1984]

Yeah. You are completely right.

[VexxxMaster69]

It's really fucked up how MTV's producers fucked up your reputation with that Shot For Shit show. You're really cool :)

[KisaraChronius]

D: Miss Tila I understand everything girl!!

[KisaraChronius]

@KisaraChronius And you sure just like the older sister I respect :) I wish you were my sister too!!

[seekperfection]

Pro Life :)

[ilysandoval]

Beautiful Looks , Beautiful Mind & An Amazing Heart <3 (:

[Knighthawk542]

Brought a smile to my face

[LuvCatz905]

Tila ur really pretty!

[itsumobaby]

thank you for making my day so much better after hearing u out

[sexynessma19]

i feel u to love u

[katq4444]

you had girlfriends? don't let them gets you? what's with the "s" and sexual gender are male and female, not straight, gay or bi, those are sexual orientations... still - i like you tila :P you've made my day many times

[Fabulousladies1]

That video made me look at you in such a different way. And it's a good thing :)

[mickeimouse99]

Aweh! Thats so sad.. Im not joking around. And ive been bulliedd before one bastard broke my ribs

[Alinkey14]

You are the best Tila. <3 You too :)

[DrawingRulez]

Y'know Tila. I've had some rough times and this really helped me understand that you can't let them get to you. And i know you been through so much and it makes me so happy to see that you care for all of us -- your fans. I respect you Tila and just wanted to say i'm proud :)

[samboleh]

crazy t and?

[SuperAZNthug]

I just watched her porn very hot.

[demonflayme6]

@SuperAZNthug It was so unwatchable I guarantee it will turn any butch-dyke lesbian straight. I don't discriminate but Tila Tequila ruins it for everyone.

[SaFiUk20]

She could talk and talk to me about whatever and I would listen. But seriously, I agree with her.

[16tinka16]

Tila....everytime im depressed, i play this video. It helps me, everytime :) Cause very often i feel very ugly....ppl laught at me....but u are right...they are loosers!!! Love you Tila <3

[MizzMistyBabe]

I have to agree with you on this one, I have known that I am bi-sexual since I was 12 yrs old, and I came out to my mom right away, and to my dad, my mother was understanding my dad however called it a faze he still to this day has a hard time accepting it and often makes jokes about it. But I know his jokes arent intended to hurt me, they are only his way of being able to handle the insecurity and confusement that the concept brings to him I am now married 5 kids and a girlfriend :) life is gd

[TheChachis13]

I LOVEE TILAAA :D

[MissMaggieLicious]

How beautiful inside you Tila! thats why i love u so much! keep going! support u!

Haters keep hating and you keep enjoying ur life! <3 u

[nerdybrianca101]

Ur hott

[theKirusVirus]

A couple of years ago (when I was 10-12) I used to be a bullie. Not physically, but still. I feel very bad about the people that me and my friends used to pick on and I'm very, very ashamed of the person I used to be.

I will never forgive myself for what I did, even if one of the girls we hated is one of my best friends now.I wasn't insecure, and I didn't feel good about what I did. I just did it.

I'm a different person now, but I will always remember what a hideous idiot I used to be. Peace.

[chiquiz1585]

Whooo hooo houston tx :) ok but I was raised in dallas! Lol love u tila ur awesome!!

[salinakamps]

I have deep deep respect for you ! you're strong, and you're doing the right thing.

[shakethatbooooty]

Oh gosh this made me emotional, I feel terrible for thinking that your a little bit a hoe, There is actually another person in you with a big heart who wants to help other people, Really love you for saying these sings

#TeamTila love you!

[kao24k]

go tila! we luv u babe!

[vampiregeek995]

Thank you for sharing this. Being different in adolecence is really tough :( especially heartbreaks!

[randomxgirlox]

i love tila!

[randomnessgurl46]

i love you <3

[danigirl19966]

gosh your eyes are amazing!!!! so jealous!!!!!!!!

[DrRisk01]

Aw, hunny! you're so fucking pretty.

[LiLmiXXbrWNeyezXIV]

i luv yu tila stay uhp.

[tiengchuong69]

Thanks!!! Love you very much.

[WhisperingHalo]

i know how you feel.. i had a girlfriend and people knew but it was like being different is like being a leper. it sucks.

[Berlipopsx]

I really

Had a bad day today since im asian :)

But ure words are,

Just thanks

Wish i ever met yu

[PrivateSnowballTFC]

Tila was bisexual? I love you.

[TheBiancajeannette]

I love you!! Seriously watching this really did help me at the moment. Bullies are everywhere and we all do go through hardships and heart breaks and might feel like life isn't worth the pain and suffering but after all that pain there is a light and you will thank god for waking up that morning and being able to smile and just be happy for being alive. It does get better guys, it just takes time. :)

[revital1235]

wow . your amazing

[Paigeheartsu]

i kno how it is to get tlkd about cuzz bein bi...i have gotten bullied by tht so much tht i have started cutting its hard...thank girl love ya

[TilaTequilaArmy]

you're my role model too, Tila :P

lololol

vvv

[awesomepros]

wow. you're my role model.

[crazygalgotit]

People make fun of me to because I am bisexual. I lost most of my friends because of that. I have a girlfriend,and we don't care if people judge us. She said she would promise not to break my heart no matter what. Thank you for this video Tila. I love you Tila! You are amazing.

[fabusic24]

I LOVE YOU! Tila

[KatlynnWeir]

your so inspirational <3

I wish I was like you. You are soooo beautiful and you have an AMAZING voice. I wish I was as beautiful and as talented as you.

I was actually thinking myself about making a comming out video. But Im nervous because not all of my family knows.

[deathskull1100]

(cont) but were were still friends for a while after it happened .. Then one day she was at my house and she went home... I haven't talked to her since that day ... I miss her so much!! She helped me thru everything and when I needed her the most it was like she was no where to be found!! Tila this video is like my life story! I have wanted to end it so many times but I didn't! Also your song paralyzed helped me! Tila u r my idol and I love u!!! Tila army 4 life!!!!

[deathskull1100]

*cries* OMFG TILA!!!!!!!!! I have almost the exact thing happening to me right now!! My best friend and I had a crush on each other and she is a year younger then me ( I'm 13 and a lesbian) we didn't want to tell people that we had a thing and I was out but she's not...people started talking and spreading rumors about us and then one day shes was just like oh I'm straight I can't do this anymore and stuff I tried to talk to her but she's like no I'm straight..(cont)

[Rulli411]

This is really helpful :) thanks Tila

[darkangelx23]

You are the bomb dot com.

[Paperbag121]

you held the camera for so long o_O didn't your arm get tired? xD

[PhantomZoner75]

Bullies are so fucked. I only really had one guy in my life that would make fun of me in high school on ocasion and it was so strange because I saw him in grade 9 because he was in one of my classes but after that I saw him less and less. But he would still prank call me on ocassion and make fun of me in the hall but it was weird because he barley even knew me by the end of high school. At one point I hadn't seen him for a year and he prank called me and I was like ok he really needs a life.

[fuzzypeach3695]

You are really really really pretty!

[adamquil]

haha since myspace get isnt the same anymore she has to move to youtube lol

[CoonEyed]

Tila looks beautiful here...less make up, no fake blond hair...

[lilylovesjack]

don't you eversay bad things about other people... haven't you ever bullied someone... i'm curious...

[Jodog09]

We like you your fans who cares about a couple of haterz you've got us the ones youbthink about most

[Johhny2202]

mhm... Yeah where I grew up I got jump everyday by wannabe thugs because I am Asian... I got jumped by like a group of blacks a spanish people everyday >.> But I am straight

[lovelygolucky]

Well i live in Texas and 1 out of every 3 people i talk to claims to be bi. Some may be saying it because they think its cool but yeah.

[Booboobearsx]

omg i love you! im straight & i kinda have a crush on you ahah

[dudesik642]

This video was recommended to me by a friend. I will be honest, I don't like your music but your message in this video is amazing. And anyone who still trolls on this video is pretty much who you are talking about.

[Meeya097]

I Love You ! xx

[NiWiPe36]

Right, it gets better and its important for people to know that. But please don't talk about "God made you this way" and other shit like that because its just so offensive to certain people, like, anyone who has disabilities.

[15011vane]

"flip em the bird" hahaha TILA TEQULA you are AWESOME!

[Rnbgirlify]

wow I have much more respect for you after this video, great words...:)

[Beeevaaa]

Does... she know what pro-life means?.....

[misskitty12888]

im so sry baby. it does get better boo

[katrinlazania]

lmaooooo "sexual.. gender.. you know gay straight lesbian, black white asian, whatever" ahahhahaha :)

[Redrider752]

@katrinlazania This is supposed to be a sincere and touching video... but yeah that is kinda funny. xD

[Sapphire645]

@Laaatiiina LOL

[hezqone]

you're amazing for making such a statement and for standing up for what you believe in.

[anthonyyungkans]

Tila, is the song "Summer Nightfalls" about her? Your old girlfriend? I just watched this video and was downloading the song and i just sorta put the two to two together.

[bvhalen]

hey a question who won dani or bobby with a shot at love like i watched the whole seasons but just the last episode i was moving so idk what happend...

Btw why did you painted your hair :(

[hotbambi2010]

thank you tila your video really made me listen feel better and relise you are totally right love you girl xxxx

[eitak2us2005]

this has really helped me..i have thought about killing mysellf to and listening to this makes me feel a whole lot better thanks alot :)..ur amazing!



[Magdwaostboll]

Thank you Tila, This was really inspirational!

I actually had a ruff night,feeling depressed and insecure so I started crying a bit just hearing those grate words and reading those positive comments below, now I'm feeling better.

You are such a beautiful and wonderful person.

I got bullied about between the ages 10-15 and now I'm 20years old, but the insecurity that they made me feel still hunts me to this day, but now I can look back and see that they were only big piles of shit.

Love 2 u all

[babygirllovesu101]

Thank you Tila I needed that I'm going threw this right now I'm bi and my gf dumped me because everyone found out.... Thank you :)

By the way mad sexy ;)

[Lapdol]

@LoveeLikeeeWoee maybe you should lose some wait then and eat a little healthyer

[lilravage23]

Thank u for those good words :)

[Wild1Banana]

Really Insightful clip. High School memories are unforgeable and shape are character for many decades. Your positive thoughts on life hardships are true. Believe in yourself and cherish the present moment every breath is a symphony of creation and deserves ones best efforts to cherish and respect ones creation. Admire all life before you and appreciate the magnificent beauty that shares this earth with you. Thanks Tila for your message good luck in your new movie endeavorer.

[PurpleRaaiin]

Damned, this video is so inspirational! like seriously.. everyone who hates on tila, should watch this. TILA YOU ARE SO SO SO ADORABLE. Never change, i love you, just the way you are. You are my idol. And i'll never stop believing in you, and in tila army. thehe. (: i love you. xoxo

[Kien8486]

Go Tila!

[gladitsnotme]

This is real talk. I was all depressed and angsty when I was a teenager. I would give a million dollars to go back in time and relive those years. You're only young once, live it up! Time flies, don't do anything drastic like suicide, the years fly by, your skin gets thicker, and all you're left with is regret that you weren't out being happy and living it up too like everybody else XD

[m0nk3y2010]

Thank you Tila I really needed this :) I choose LIFE thanks <33

[Ottcan70]

Awesome girl ... Great video :o)

[GhettoRaven]

Despite what anyone thinks of you, you can't deny this video is inspirational x GO TILA!

[jaruthless01]

She has strong arm to put up that camera for almost 8mins or more I dunno. But I like her

[RockaGeorgia007]

thank u for your hopeful and strenght words 

[RockaGeorgia007]

tila ur soooooo sweet and i wanted to tell u that i had almost the same problem, well i still have it.... but thank u for uploading and sharing this deep story with us :-*:-*

[livvyloulouu]

Tila you are such an inspiration to me and so many people out there I love you babe you are so beautiful inside and out xxx ily

[Brennboi69]

I am so thankful for her putting up a video like this! It has really hit me hard and just helped me out so much! Thank u Tila, u most likely just saved my life right now!

[MickeyFreakinMouse01]

My whole life I knew I was Bisexual. i was so scared to come out and express it. And be who i was. My mother taught me to not give a fuck about what ANYONE Thought. That there is nothing wrong with me. Nothing at all. That to love myself. U just proved why I do so. Because they`re thoughts about me on who I am. Or who I love. Or what Im attracted too. DOESNT MATTER. ;D This is why I love u, Tila. <3.

[zedacia]

Hi Tila could you do me a huge favor plz? I was hoping that you could dress up like Thelma from scobie do and have your dog around, because Onix reminds me of Scooby do and If you said ginkies some time too. That would be too cool. But if you think that this is stupid and might infringe on a copy right or some thing I understand. I wuv u Tila

[dre13045]

hey tila this video has really inspired me. thank you so much for posting this video.

[blondi10198]

@MarBar1937 it's spelled "Bisexual"

[Shansoa0314]

You're so amazing & sweet Miss Tila! I ♥ you! You're so real. That's why you're such an inspiration d: F--k the haters. Sticks and stones hunny !!

[SassyGirl415]

texas people are retarded if they dont appreciate lesbians why do they have hella porn stars being all lesbian and shit and like to watch it

[TheQoolKid]

im fine with bi women but i hate gay men

[MrWelcometogoodlife]

@TheQoolKid why do u hate gay men ???

[MarBar1937]

Who cares if ur biesexual ur the awesomest woman alive and don't u ever change that!And that really meant something 2 me! xoxoxo

P.S. I don't think I spelled biesexual right!lol

[lilhomieg6]

I love u tila thank u for making this video

[azncrew9099]

your amazing! Watching this video just makes me stronger!!!!

[vivienneMK]

Aww... I remember when I had my first love nd he broke up with me becuhs of a bunch of rumors & rude comments. Totally heartbroken but it's whatever. People are a-holes.

[iRad1ate]

i fliped those boys off and told them miss tila is gonna whop your ass but then i got my own ass whopped...

[radioclash84]

lol she was gay before being gay was cool. she is such a genius.

[killsarawr]

Houston, Texas woooo! ;D

[Tink73094]

you look so much better

[nylachic]

By the way...Tila looks very beautiful...Almost like a doll.

[nylachic]

I used to think she Tila might have been arrogant and fake...but for real, I didn't know her. Judging from how Tila speaks in this video--she seems like a sweet, genuine gal...And thanks for that message...cuz I often do feel alone a lot of the time...Sometimes it seems like ya can't live--and ya can't kill yourself...so what can you do? Life is HARD..

[Riannaellen]

Who the hell gives a shit if she has fake lashes hair etc? she may have some real slutty stuff, but who cares! she having fun, living her life!

People fuck judging, she has something decent to say!

Look tila, I love your music, its trashy and hilarious, and im sure tila tequila is a fun alter ego, just like we all have one. You seem genuine and down to earth and I have alot of respect, your not a dumbass and your a great person.

Thanks tila, you made me feel better about dickhead bullies! xx

[Redrider752]

@hdzsound One, it's L-I-F-E not live... and two, who cares. I don't understand why you have to reply to that comment, god people like you are pointless... =_=

[chinamap]

@Riannaellen i totally agree with you! its not like she's hurting anyone. people need to calm down and let her be!

[THlollo]

Tila, you are perfect :o!

[xPinkxIsxPunkx]

THIS is the reason why I love her in the first place. Yeah, in her other videos shes all excentric and airheadish. But things like this? When she actually shares her life and gets serious? It shows she can have fun, but shes actually a smart woman. :)

[Sp34k3rboxXx]

bla bla bla shut the fuck up bitch -.-

[lizzybear313]

YOURE AS FAKE AS THEY COME!

Fake eyes, fake hair, fake tits fake everythinggggggg

[XxKatelProductionsxX]

Very inspiring story Tila =)

Love you, and you're eyes are absolutely beautiful in this video <3

[rfbjr]

I D FUCK YOU

[AshLynnC1994]

İ love you tila you are so inspiring !!!

[maladnil]

Good message Tila

[braziliangirl231]

Aww, I love you Tila. You're the sweetest thing ever! I respect you SO much more after watching this video.

[articwulfee]

Admittedly, i do love your videos and seeing what you're up to. Even if people will have their opinions on you, you're still human. I am glad that you pulled yourself up.

You''re human.

you get horny.

lonely.

happy.

you like to flaunt or peacock what you have because your proud, whatever.

be well.

only thing that does bother me about your vids is at times you do talk in circles. and will say the same thing..a couple of times.

anyhow--blog on lady! :)

[takidoki]

you have gained my respect this made me fell so much beter <3

[Miss8DD]

.. can you please say "Buddha, Allah, God or whatever religion you love.." insted off just God.

[DorixDoll]

@Miss8DD i don't belive in the chritian god but for me alla and whatever is out there (and buda is not a god, it was a person) is god :)

[Miss8DD]

@DorixDoll I know, but it is just .. like its only for christian persons ..

[GoRaiGo]

hmm..just a thought.. Who do you thnk is preetier? Tila or Kristan kreuk? vote for the better asian. lol :)

[meguyuki]

Tila you're awesome!!! You give the power all the time:). And Tila please do your makeup tutorial videos cause I really love your eye makeup in every videos!!

[MrSananeleyn]

Tila for President xD

[MrSananeleyn]

Tila for President xD

[fenosutoru]

I love you Tila♡I don't give up.I believe it gets better!

[DorixDoll]

21 people are bullies-i mean losers :D!

[PhantomZoner75]

this is why i love her so much cus she is a good person and truly cares about helping people, and YES she is a sexual being-get over it she's not exactly fucking every person she meats like friggin merlyn munroe was yet people just look at her as this perfect girl

[LilGothiicGurll]

thebomb.com <3

[hillary135]

I love this, people can call her a slut, whore, whatever u want but look at her she's this beautiful women inside and out! love u tila!<3

[ghoststd]

Your an amazing person love ya

[hawaiian80895]

tnks girl!!!!

[thetilatequila1]

thx tila, i will remember this when i feel depressed about myself or wanting to kill myself! luv u!!

[thetilatequila1]

thx tila, i will remember this video when im depressed! luv u!!

[killersushi99]

I thought this video was about her singing. Ohhh well. We can only hope it gets better.

[aniger818]

shut up little whore

[danigirl19966]

@aniger818 go die she's not a whore you are dumb bitch

[aniger818]

@danigirl19966 yes she is, just like you

[danigirl19966]

@aniger818 no she's nto actually she seems super nice and i'm nothing like a whore

[aniger818]

@danigirl19966 well you can be nice and still be a little whore. do you have a crush on tila or something?

[danigirl19966]

@aniger818 do you even now what a whore is i act nothing like one and no i don't have a crush on her but i thinks he's really pretty

[aniger818]

@danigirl19966 yes i do know what a whore is, do you? just admit it, you wish you had a shot at love with tila tequila. and no she is not pretty, she's ugly.

[danigirl19966]

@aniger818 yes i do know what it is and i don't wish i had a shot at love with tila bc i was about 12 at teh time i didn't watch it i watched about 2 episodes i didn't know what wa going on i'm done talking to you bitch

[aniger818]

@danigirl19966 you're young! no wonder you're so naive! yeah that's right be quiet!

[danigirl19966]

@aniger818 actually i'm almost 15 in 2 months so that was along time ago and i'm far from being naive and i don't need to be quiet you little fucker

[aniger818]

@danigirl19966 you're almost 15? well that's still very young. and yes you are naive, sweetie! and yes you need to be quiet, so stfu!

[danigirl19966]

@aniger818 you just got finished talking to my bitchy 17 year old sister who happens to use my youtube account sorry for all of this she's stupid don't hate me hate her