u mentioned that men like a challenge. Well I thought it was the other way around... Or it can go both ways!!! Becaz to my knowledge most black women nowadays are attracted to men who are already involved with sum1, married, or already have a bunch of women chasing him. As a result of thinking it must be sumthin he's doing right. & I've also been told by numerous women, that females want what they can't have... Not every woman in general, but a vast majority!!!
@s0lidified0g0fficial We do not know "most" of anybody so it's not accurate to say that most bw like men who are involved or that the majority of females want what they cannot have. There are women who like a challenge but going after a married man isn't a challenge...it's simply wrong
I don't mind approaching a man...in fact there are subtle ways you can accomplish this, in addition, I would rather the man "work" for me, I would rather him pursue me. If I just want to have sex, ok...that's different as it doesn't matter who approaches who, but if I want something serious, I am not going to ask a guy out on a date, I am not going to chase up after him. Now I might give subtle hints that I am interested, but that's about it.
Sorry, but I couldn't disagree with you more. Men don't necessarily like to be the hunter and like the challenges. Those challenges can turn into games...and I don't like those games. Like women, men also have their own standards and would like to be approached. Why is it ok for the man to be rejected but not the woman? The traditional approach is outdated. This is the 21st century where women are independent. If you want something or someone, then go for it. No need to be a princess about it.
@turdsandwich72 Most men like to "hunt" per say and I find those that don't like to take the time out to purse a woman, maybe they are just looking for sex and or they are playing games. Honestly, you don't have to "date" if your objective is to have sex---also, when women make themselves too available so soon, men will get relaxed and end up getting bored and cheating with someone who isn't so predictable and available.
@Famfriass I disagree. I have quite a few friends that don't care to "hunt". It's either because they are intimidated or they don't care to deal with the rejection and games. These days, too many women have their bitch guards up. Women tend to play too many games with men. If a man shows that he is too available to a woman, she knows that he is vulnerable to being played and use him. I don't trust women. If a woman is interested in me, she can approach me. Otherwise, I don't care.
@turdsandwich72 You sound bitter--and to be honest it's men that have your mentality about women (I don't trust women) that I try to avoid at all cost...I have dated one or two with that mind set and no matter how "good" I treated them, they were still on this "I don't trust women" stance, all the while taking all they could from me, but not wanting to give much in return. If men and women don't trust each other, then don't date---it's that simple, well..at least to me.
@Famfriass Of course I sound bitter because women have brought me to this point. I chose to not trust women because I have been hurt by them more than I care to count. I don't think that only men have the "I don't trust" mentality. Women do also. It works both ways. And your right...if men and women don't trust each other, then don't date. This is why I chose not to. Like I said earlier, the only way I would date again is if a woman approaches me and gains my trust. Simple as that.
@turdsandwich72 I have been hurt too, but I refuse to allow those bad exp. to stop me from opening myself to true love b/c I know that it's out there awaiting for me. And just because a woman approaches you doesn't mean she is "the one" and I find that odd that you would use that as a requirement for re-entering the dating scene again. Hey it's your choice, but you should start cleansing your sub-con mind and speaking positive affirmations on a daily basis.
@Famfriass Considering that you don't know me, I think its a bit presumptuous on your part to think that I need to cleanse my mind and speak positive affirmations. Actually, I am a very positive person with my family and friends. Everyone has their own standards and preferences. I prefer to not approach women. It doesn't make any less of a positive person. I just chose to be cautious, not negative, when it comes to women. Why is it odd that I choose to have a women approach me?
@turdsandwich72 Take the advice or leave it....stop the whining as it's not attractive. Also, stop being so defensive----your comments do come off as bitter--first you say that you will be single if a woman doesn't want to approach you, then in the same breath you say that you don't trust women. Hey, that's your right to not trust, but stop complaining about it and acting as though every other woman should have to pay for crimes of the latter. Your outlook isn't positive.
@Famfriass Did I even ask for your advice? No. I made a comment about the video and then you started judging me with your nonsensical babble. What does it matter to you if I am bitter towards women? So you think that its ok for a women to approach a man for sex, but not for dating? Really? You really need to stop giving advice. Instead of judging people you don't know, maybe you should look in the mirror and try to figure out why you are single.
@turdsandwich72 You didn't have to ask for it...nor did I say you did. You are bitter, you have a crazy way of thinking about women and relationships and honestly you are too mentally damaged to even think about dating...go get help please. As a matter of fact, don't even "date" women who approach you b/c I still don't think that will make much difference. Also, I am "single" (never told you that) because, at the young age of 19, I am more focused on other great things. Ha!
@Famfriass Most women wont approach a man. And that's fine. But if a man chooses to wait for a woman to approach him, you think that is odd? You are showing a bit of a double standard. Why should the man always have to approach the woman? The traditional approach is tired and is BS. And if I approach a woman, does that mean that she is "the one"? Not necessarily. Your comments and views are examples of why I chose to not approach women. I am more than happy being single.
@turdsandwich72 Ok then...get in the corner and have several seats and keep quiet about not trusting women and blah, blah, blah. If you are happy being single, hey, kudos to you, just don't bother us with it. Your outlook is negative, you come off as bitter and that's my opinion on the matter. Furthermore, I never ever cited that men should always be the one to approach women UNLESS the woman is only looking for sex and so is the man, then it doesn't matter who approaches who.
@Famfriass Why do you think those men didnt trust you? Maybe they had good reasons? But you don't need to evaluate yourself because you are perfect. Right? Here's a thought...maybe if women didn't have their bitch guards up all the time and actually approached men, then they wouldn't have to be waiting for their prince charming....like you are. Guys are put off by women like you who act like we have to approach you for a date. Actually, we don't have to do anything.
@turdsandwich72 Blah, blah, blah.....get over yourself ok? You are probably old enough to be my father yet you keep running up in behind me like some child. You have spoken your peace, now keep it moving partner. No need to keep responding to me--and just so you will know, I blocked your ass so you can't send me anymore silly messages via my inbox. I have been over this and here you are 18 hours later still talking about the subject. Man the hell up...geez old fool. SMH...LOL!
@Famfriass And there is no need for you to keep responding to me with your constant bullshit. Get over myself? More like get over yourself. Who in the fuck are you to judge me? Care to answer? That's right...you are nobody. Remember that. You blocked me? HA! It doesn't matter how old I am. Just because I am older, does it mean I have to take bullshit and be judged by a kid? I don't think so. You started this shit, and I just put you in your place. Mind your own business and fuck off.
@turdsandwich72 Blah, blah, blah....listen up old fool..go mind your business. Act your age please! How can a 19 year old start something with your old ass??? Was I the one who started with the name calling? In fact, you emailed me calling me a "bitch" and a "cunt" simply because, you didn't like my comment. I don't give a damn how you feel or what you think take it or leave it. If me speaking my mind is judging you then that's your damn problem grow some balls and deal with it.
@Famfriass If you dont give a damn how I feel, then why even comment on how I feel about dating to begin with? HA! Yu are such a moron! LOL You call me an old fool, when you dont even know my age. I am nowhere near being old enough to be your dad. So, no Im not old, but keep guessing, dumbass. LOL Mind my own business? I did until you posted bullshit and attacking me. Are you seriously that fucking retarded? LOL Yes, I called you those names because you attacked me. Wake up.
@turdsandwich72 Go away please.....this is getting old. How can a 19 year old attack you by citing that you comment came off as "bitter?" And not to mention others who have posted didn't agree with your comment either---having my opinion isn't "attacking." And referring to someone as sounding bitter is harmless to someone who refers to teen as a "cunt" or bitch. When I said I was "perfect" without flaws, FOOL, I was mocking your ass! But you are to bitter to notice that fact.
@Famfriass I would ask you to act your age, but people your age tend to be ignorant and stupid. You are doing a fantastic job representing your age demographic! HA! If you were mocking me about you being perfect, then who in the fuck are you to judge me? You aren't perfect, so shut your hole. An insult is an insult, it doesn't matter to what degree. You judged me and insulted me first. You are wrong for doing that. What is so difficult to understand about that? SMH
@turdsandwich72 MAN, take your old ass on somewhere.....I've been over this like two days ago yet you still coming at me like a dog in heat. Dang...no wonder why you haven't had good relationships, part of it is b/c you are annoying and childish as hell.
@Famfriass Ah, still calling me old...even though you have no idea how old I am. I haven't had any good relationships? Rigghhhhttt. Because you know so much about me. Whatever you say, Einstein. You are beyond annoying and childish. You are hopeless. LOL Thank you for proving my point that you are a complete retard. Guys will continue to shit on you because you are a clueless bitch. How are you able to function daily when your head is stuck up your ass? HA!
@turdsandwich72 Blah, blah, blah.......you are so annoying...me and my co-workers are cracking the hell up at you right now!! LOL...LOL...your ass is straight tripping and you have a problem with just "letting" go. Attention seeker....yeah, that's what you are. I am going to ignore your single, old ass.....LMAO! Have a good life.
@Famfriass Blah, blah, blah? Is that all you can come up with? I guess you can't come up with anything of substance since you know that I am right, but you are just too much of a delusional little bitch to admit it. I am so annoying? HA! Think again, dipshit and look in the mirror. I love putting you in your place. I keep your throwing your own bullshit back in your face. Deal with it. Your co-workers are laughing at me? You must have mistaken me with someone who gives a shit. LOL
@Famfriass Are your co-workers "special" like you? LOL By the way, how are you able to get access to a computer at McDonalds? LOL Keep serving fries and stop typing, kid. I'm sure if I showed my friends your comments, they would confirm what I already know about you....that you are an ignorant little shithead. Your gonna ignore me? Yeah, you said that earlier, yet your dumbass is still here. Not only are you a bitch, but a lying bitch as well. HA!
@Famfriass "Letting go"? Letting go of what? If anything, you need to let go and accept the fact that you are an obnoxious, stuck-up little bitch that suffers from diahrrea of the mouth and constipation of the brain. Your so called advice is useless, was insulting and wasnt asked for...therefore you should shove it directly into your asshole. LOL
@Famfriass I'm an "attention seeker"? LMAO! Keep the bullshit coming! This is comical! Your dumbass cant see the forest form the trees! Here's reality, I wasnt looking for attention nor do I need attention. I commented on a video, and you started your own attention buy stirring the pot. But keep thinking that you are perfect. You really need a wake up call. Talk to a family member or friend...if you have any. LOL You will get nowhere fast in life acting like a moron. You have alot to learn.
@Famfriass You threw the first stone, and I threw it back at you...and will continue throwing it back at you until you shut the fuck up. Get it? You are nobody to judge me. I live my the way I chose to. Am I bitter towards women? Yes. But am I happy with my life in general? Absolutely. You are wrong for judging me. Plain and simple. Stop being a troll and get the fuck out already.
@Famfriass Do you fill your own mind with bullshit? For attacking me for no reason, that makes you a bitch. For thinking that you are flawless, that makes you a dumb cunt. Only a dumb cunt would think that she is flawless. Deal with it. Keep thinking that your perfect and see how guys treat you. You will continue getting used and shit on by guys just like you are now. Like Ive said, Im happy with my life. Concentrate on yourself because you are a delusional bitch who has no direction.
@Famfriass FYI, I dont get in the corner when Im out and about. I always have a great time. If a woman wants to approach me...great! If not, it's their loss. I have fun either way. But you really need to take a good look in the mirror. Seriously.
@turdsandwich72 My Dad says you are a complete fool for the nasty email you sent to me----you are bitter, angry, miserable and I would hate to be the women who even approaches your ass because, there is nothing but torment that awaits her. Stop responding to me please...there is no advice you can give me that my dear mother and father can't. Oh...and my Dad agrees with me! Ha!!! And he is in his early 50's!!! Who's fault is it that you chose to fall in love with hoes??
@Famfriass Ask me if I give a shit what your Dad thinks. LOL Your horseshit comments didn't hurt me in the least. Since you are a clueless 19 year old kid...their is no way that I would take any of your comments seriously. I fell in love with hoes? HA! Wrong again, Einstein! Keep making up bullshit...you are doing a fantastic job making yourself look like a complete idiot. You have no flaws? Yeah, I'm so sure. So, you have gotten used by guys because you have NO flaws? HA! Wake up.
@Famfriass Did you tell your Dad that you initially started attacking me? Of course, you didn't. You couldn't just mind your own business, could you? I wasn't even talking to you when I commented on the video...and you had to throw in your useless 2 cents. You started judging me, when you don't even know me, and I called you out on your bullshit. You didn't like it, so you ran to Daddy. What's wrong? You can dish it out, but you can't take it? Then have Daddy change your diaper.
@turdsandwich72 My Dad thinks you're a complete idiot...lol...lol. He saw all the comments I left and he applauded me for being more mature than YOU! Ha!! At first I just thought you were a scorned bitter man, but now I realize the problem runs much deeper---you are literally a NUTCASE!
@Famfriass You Dad thinks I'm an idiot? Again, ask me if I give a shit? Better yet, ask him if he thinks I give a shit? LOL You are more mature than me? LMAO! Thank you for providing the joke of the year! LMAO! Yeah, you are sooo mature for starting shit, judging a stranger on the internet, and thinking that you are "flawless". LOL See the problem with clueless people like you is that you never think that you are wrong. You are oblivious to reality.
@turdsandwich72 It's comical how I only write ONE response to you, yet you will write three or five....SMH....you are a STALKER. Who wants to read your long ass novels that ain't about nothing. Go take your ass in a corner and have SEVERAL SEATS. I don't care about your so called accomplishments, I don't care about how happy you are (because, you aren't), I don't care, I don't care, I DON'T CARE. So fall the hell back---I ain't checking for you. PEACE!!!!
@Famfriass Now, you think I'm a stalker? LMAO! How can I be a stalker when your the bitch that started all this? Only a psycho, like yourself, who start shit and then accuse the other person of stalking. If you don't care about my accomplishments and my happiness, then why do you keep responding to me? LMAO! You told me a few times already that you would ignore me..yet your still here acting like a dumbass. What's wrong? Are you butt hurt that I keep putting you in your place? Good!
@Famfriass I have accomplished plenty of good things in life to already at my young age to last a lifetime. So, no, you are nowhere near as mature as me. But keep making empty assumptions, asswipe. Me calling you out on your bullshit and your petulant judgments of me don't make me any less mature....they just make me right. You started shit and I called you out on it. You just can't get that through your shit-filled head. LOL
@Famfriass Like I said, I'm happy with my life. But you have alot to learn about life. With your attitude and being so quick to judge people, you will never get a boyfriend. You will keep getting dumped and used. And you will lose your friends and possibly your job. Seriously. Get an attitude adjustment. Tell Daddy to help you out because you are brain-dead. LOL
@Famfriass To sum it up, I am very happy with my life. My family and friends are all I need. I could give a shit if a woman approaches me. And for you to judge me about my approach to women and to claim how flawless you are...well that makes you a conceited bitch. Don't worry about me. I'm happy and I will be fine. You should be more concerned about how guys use you. Lord help the next sucker who dates you. You are a pill. Get a clue, get a life, and mind your own business next time.
Out of curiousity, what do you, Omega, look for in a guy? I apologize in advance if you've already covered this topic before in a previous video. If you haven't covered it yet, then please reply or even better, you can make a video response. Have a great and productive day.
Whenever a man approaches me, I automatically think he's a player because he is used to doing this..which is why he is so bold. That's why I don't like being approached, but rather getting to know someone in a small setting like a class, or a casual event..
what if you see a realy great guy that you like & you keep your distance with a sour face, then some other chick that is a bit forward steps to him & invites him to persue her. then you say to yourself (what good guys say) "if only i tryed :-( "
@rikshaw223 Thank you for leaving a comment. You just gave me an idea for another topic : ) I cannot speak for every woman and that it why I use myself in so many of my videos even when I'm not desiring tips for my personal use...I just think it's interesting dialogue. It's fine for a man to want a woman to show interest and take initiative and for the women who don't mind doing the asking, more power them. I think I would give it a 2nd thought if I started dating a guy
@omega7373 and didn't put in effort to letting him know that I was feeling him and he ended up dating a woman who put forth more effort. But if we haven't started dating, then I cannot say for certain that it would really bother me. In the end, I say do what works for you and makes you happy. Don't live by everyone else's rules.
Don't come back with that men are the hunters and all that other BS. This is the real reason women don't approach men>>they fear rejection more than men, they are more insecure than men, hell hath no fury than a woman scorned!!!. the female ego is way more monstorous than the male ego. I remember I rejected a woman because she was not my type and she was accusing me of being gay all because I rejected her. Ain't that some shit????!!
Dude, I get that all the time. I almost rather not be approached by a woman because when I am uninterested in them, they either call me gay or act like they want to fight me. I can handle the fact that a woman does not want me. I will just move on to the next prospective mate, but some women do not have that same mentality. Just like women tell me "No means no". No hard feelings.
@mostsincere Right not to mention nowadays most of the women out here are attentions whores. Which is why I don't approach them. In other words they don't want you but they want your attention. Again when you don't give them any they have a problem. Women do give little signs when they are interested and want you to go up to them. That's what I watch for.
Right on, this is the 21st century and by the way nowadays that's how you can tell if a woman is really into you if she approaches you. If she don't approach you she feels basically you're not worth her time. But if she does believe me you are worth it so fellas don't mess it up. watch out for them women who wants a man to approach them because most of them play hard to get and women who play hard to get don't get got.
@GarwinEugeneW I'm sure it is flattering to have a woman approach you and show her interest. There are plenty of women who do so if a guy is on the shy side or may not feel like being the initiator all of the time, it cuts him a break. Not approaching a man is not about playing hard to get. A woman can initiate conversation and show her interest without asking a man out and leaving it up to him as to what he wants to do with her shown interest.
I love this! I recently for the first time approached a guy via facebook because I had no other way to contact him. He's on my brothers hockey team and I didn't want to disrespect my brother by talking to the man. SO, I added him, he changed his profile pic but didn't accept my request, which after 1 week of waiting I cancelled the request. I am not putting myself out there again. Men are born hunters, and don't want their prize to be laid out on a platter.
I think that you are restricting yourself to a smaller pool of men if you do not want to initiate contact. Initiating contact does not mean that you want to sleep with that guy. Some guys like myself are a bit shy and need a bit of encouragement to ask a guy out. Most important thing is that your stance takes away INITIATIVE on your side. It is like you are waiting and dreaming for something to happen to you instead of taking some initiative. This is 21st century and not the 60s like your dad
your dad gave good advice but at the sametime its a turn on when a women makes a effort to say hey would you like to get together this weekend its all about ya apporch...me personaly i dont like to feel like im in a game to win you over,i feel its 50-50 in any relationship and you should be tryna impress me as well as im tryna impress u
Women cannot approach men because most men don't like it. It is as simple as that. Men get the wrong message for some strange reason. It is an automatic turn off. Possibly a sign of desperation. Supposedly, if a man is interested, he will approach you. If you have male friends, notice how they will do anything in their power to get to know a woman. Is that man that you are attempting to talk to trying to track you down?! No. It is definitely a chase game with men. Women don't do it.
@PrettyBrownEyes718 I've had guys say they would like it if a woman approaches them, because some are why. I think it depends on her approach. I have approached both of my ex boyfriends, but I was not over the top. If it wasn't for me conversing with them first, they would never have approached me. A lot of men think it's sexy not in a disrespectful, or slutty way. Again, it depends on the woman's approach. Nothing wrong with saying hello, ir even asking him if it's ok if you guys hang out.
@PrettyBrownEyes718 Also, you can approach a guy, and still have him chase you. Sometime, men think some women are in a relationship, and hold back. I think a woman should not be afraid to interact with a man of interest, but then allow him to chase, so in short, do both. Again, this is my opinion, and what has worked for me, and I'm sue there are some men who may get the wrong idea. Like Omega says, being 'too easy too soon', he may def. take advantage of that.
Yeah but some black men don't give a fuck. All that hard to get shit gets annoying and before you know it they see another bitch with a big ass and you are not even on their mind anymore.
you have to know how much to play the "Hard to get" or "Let him chase" thing
Because really, there's a moment when a guy just goes...
Fuck it, and move on. and what made you lose him was some easy slut that fucks it up for everybody that was flirting with em or some other shit.
@PrettyBrownEyes718 No that's a shallow way of looking at it, there's a difference between showing interest and looking desperate. Most men especially the nice guys dread approaching attractive women for fear of rejection but are forced to do it at least occasionally. The ass holes are usually the most confident with women as they think they are God & approach many more & since women tend to be attracted to confidence they are more likely to date an asshole who charms the pants off them.
i feel what your sayin but on the other hand; i'm sick and tired of women, esspecially black women always complainin about them not bein able to find a good man. how can you find a good man if you only talk to the ones that talk to you? the most bold men are the jerks,playaz and abusers. trust me i know. i know guys personally that get at females all day and pull 70% of them and treat em like pornstars and atms. i need to make a video about this and really brake it down
I agree with you on this. I've never approached men because I'm all about the man pursuing me and taking charge. I LOVE a man who is respectful, humble, andassured! I was told in the past that I tend to look mean when I'm out and about, but when someone talks to me they realize that I'm actually a nice and happy person. I'm one who will be in deep thought often so my facial expressions may look mean. I'm being more conscious of the attitude I give off so that people can see who I really am.
sometimes i feel that the relationship can be more successful if the guy approaches the girl because he is "working" for what he wants. I personally have no problem going up to a guy and introducing myself to him but I dont ask them on dates. i leave that up to them so that i know if they are interested or not. But ppl tell me ALL the time that i give off the same vibe and that I look stuck up which his scaring away the guys and im not like that at all.
It's unfortunately that some people think it has to be one method or the other that's right or wrong. There's absolutely nothing wrong with either one I think. I've done both. I agree that it depends on a case by case basis though.
I wish they would be more pro-active. It's tiresome chasing and getting rejected. Im not saying hunt me down but atleast mention meeting for coffee,tea or ice cream in the future...the key word is future!
American women need to calm down with their unwritten rules in all areas of life. Especially dating.
80Cetbal08 2 weeks ago
@80Cetbal08 Why?
omega7373 2 weeks ago
u mentioned that men like a challenge. Well I thought it was the other way around... Or it can go both ways!!! Becaz to my knowledge most black women nowadays are attracted to men who are already involved with sum1, married, or already have a bunch of women chasing him. As a result of thinking it must be sumthin he's doing right. & I've also been told by numerous women, that females want what they can't have... Not every woman in general, but a vast majority!!!
s0lidified0g0fficial 1 month ago
@s0lidified0g0fficial We do not know "most" of anybody so it's not accurate to say that most bw like men who are involved or that the majority of females want what they cannot have. There are women who like a challenge but going after a married man isn't a challenge...it's simply wrong
omega7373 1 month ago
I don't mind approaching a man...in fact there are subtle ways you can accomplish this, in addition, I would rather the man "work" for me, I would rather him pursue me. If I just want to have sex, ok...that's different as it doesn't matter who approaches who, but if I want something serious, I am not going to ask a guy out on a date, I am not going to chase up after him. Now I might give subtle hints that I am interested, but that's about it.
Famfriass 1 month ago
wow i never realy thourght of it like that but it is true.
southman1987 1 month ago
Sorry, but I couldn't disagree with you more. Men don't necessarily like to be the hunter and like the challenges. Those challenges can turn into games...and I don't like those games. Like women, men also have their own standards and would like to be approached. Why is it ok for the man to be rejected but not the woman? The traditional approach is outdated. This is the 21st century where women are independent. If you want something or someone, then go for it. No need to be a princess about it.
turdsandwich72 1 month ago
@turdsandwich72 Most men like to "hunt" per say and I find those that don't like to take the time out to purse a woman, maybe they are just looking for sex and or they are playing games. Honestly, you don't have to "date" if your objective is to have sex---also, when women make themselves too available so soon, men will get relaxed and end up getting bored and cheating with someone who isn't so predictable and available.
Famfriass 1 month ago
@Famfriass I disagree. I have quite a few friends that don't care to "hunt". It's either because they are intimidated or they don't care to deal with the rejection and games. These days, too many women have their bitch guards up. Women tend to play too many games with men. If a man shows that he is too available to a woman, she knows that he is vulnerable to being played and use him. I don't trust women. If a woman is interested in me, she can approach me. Otherwise, I don't care.
turdsandwich72 1 month ago 2
@turdsandwich72 You sound bitter--and to be honest it's men that have your mentality about women (I don't trust women) that I try to avoid at all cost...I have dated one or two with that mind set and no matter how "good" I treated them, they were still on this "I don't trust women" stance, all the while taking all they could from me, but not wanting to give much in return. If men and women don't trust each other, then don't date---it's that simple, well..at least to me.
Famfriass 1 month ago
@Famfriass Of course I sound bitter because women have brought me to this point. I chose to not trust women because I have been hurt by them more than I care to count. I don't think that only men have the "I don't trust" mentality. Women do also. It works both ways. And your right...if men and women don't trust each other, then don't date. This is why I chose not to. Like I said earlier, the only way I would date again is if a woman approaches me and gains my trust. Simple as that.
turdsandwich72 1 month ago
@turdsandwich72 I have been hurt too, but I refuse to allow those bad exp. to stop me from opening myself to true love b/c I know that it's out there awaiting for me. And just because a woman approaches you doesn't mean she is "the one" and I find that odd that you would use that as a requirement for re-entering the dating scene again. Hey it's your choice, but you should start cleansing your sub-con mind and speaking positive affirmations on a daily basis.
Famfriass 1 month ago
@Famfriass Considering that you don't know me, I think its a bit presumptuous on your part to think that I need to cleanse my mind and speak positive affirmations. Actually, I am a very positive person with my family and friends. Everyone has their own standards and preferences. I prefer to not approach women. It doesn't make any less of a positive person. I just chose to be cautious, not negative, when it comes to women. Why is it odd that I choose to have a women approach me?
turdsandwich72 1 month ago
@turdsandwich72 Take the advice or leave it....stop the whining as it's not attractive. Also, stop being so defensive----your comments do come off as bitter--first you say that you will be single if a woman doesn't want to approach you, then in the same breath you say that you don't trust women. Hey, that's your right to not trust, but stop complaining about it and acting as though every other woman should have to pay for crimes of the latter. Your outlook isn't positive.
Famfriass 1 month ago
@Famfriass Did I even ask for your advice? No. I made a comment about the video and then you started judging me with your nonsensical babble. What does it matter to you if I am bitter towards women? So you think that its ok for a women to approach a man for sex, but not for dating? Really? You really need to stop giving advice. Instead of judging people you don't know, maybe you should look in the mirror and try to figure out why you are single.
turdsandwich72 1 month ago
@turdsandwich72 You didn't have to ask for it...nor did I say you did. You are bitter, you have a crazy way of thinking about women and relationships and honestly you are too mentally damaged to even think about dating...go get help please. As a matter of fact, don't even "date" women who approach you b/c I still don't think that will make much difference. Also, I am "single" (never told you that) because, at the young age of 19, I am more focused on other great things. Ha!
Famfriass 1 month ago
@turdsandwich72 The stalker returns!!! SMH.....old ass, go sit down please. Stalking is never, ever attractive so stop it.
Famfriass 1 month ago
@Famfriass Most women wont approach a man. And that's fine. But if a man chooses to wait for a woman to approach him, you think that is odd? You are showing a bit of a double standard. Why should the man always have to approach the woman? The traditional approach is tired and is BS. And if I approach a woman, does that mean that she is "the one"? Not necessarily. Your comments and views are examples of why I chose to not approach women. I am more than happy being single.
turdsandwich72 1 month ago
@turdsandwich72 Ok then...get in the corner and have several seats and keep quiet about not trusting women and blah, blah, blah. If you are happy being single, hey, kudos to you, just don't bother us with it. Your outlook is negative, you come off as bitter and that's my opinion on the matter. Furthermore, I never ever cited that men should always be the one to approach women UNLESS the woman is only looking for sex and so is the man, then it doesn't matter who approaches who.
Famfriass 1 month ago
@Famfriass Why do you think those men didnt trust you? Maybe they had good reasons? But you don't need to evaluate yourself because you are perfect. Right? Here's a thought...maybe if women didn't have their bitch guards up all the time and actually approached men, then they wouldn't have to be waiting for their prince charming....like you are. Guys are put off by women like you who act like we have to approach you for a date. Actually, we don't have to do anything.
turdsandwich72 1 month ago
@turdsandwich72 Blah, blah, blah.....get over yourself ok? You are probably old enough to be my father yet you keep running up in behind me like some child. You have spoken your peace, now keep it moving partner. No need to keep responding to me--and just so you will know, I blocked your ass so you can't send me anymore silly messages via my inbox. I have been over this and here you are 18 hours later still talking about the subject. Man the hell up...geez old fool. SMH...LOL!
Famfriass 1 month ago
@Famfriass And there is no need for you to keep responding to me with your constant bullshit. Get over myself? More like get over yourself. Who in the fuck are you to judge me? Care to answer? That's right...you are nobody. Remember that. You blocked me? HA! It doesn't matter how old I am. Just because I am older, does it mean I have to take bullshit and be judged by a kid? I don't think so. You started this shit, and I just put you in your place. Mind your own business and fuck off.
turdsandwich72 1 month ago
@turdsandwich72 Blah, blah, blah....listen up old fool..go mind your business. Act your age please! How can a 19 year old start something with your old ass??? Was I the one who started with the name calling? In fact, you emailed me calling me a "bitch" and a "cunt" simply because, you didn't like my comment. I don't give a damn how you feel or what you think take it or leave it. If me speaking my mind is judging you then that's your damn problem grow some balls and deal with it.
Famfriass 1 month ago
@Famfriass If you dont give a damn how I feel, then why even comment on how I feel about dating to begin with? HA! Yu are such a moron! LOL You call me an old fool, when you dont even know my age. I am nowhere near being old enough to be your dad. So, no Im not old, but keep guessing, dumbass. LOL Mind my own business? I did until you posted bullshit and attacking me. Are you seriously that fucking retarded? LOL Yes, I called you those names because you attacked me. Wake up.
turdsandwich72 1 month ago
@turdsandwich72 Go away please.....this is getting old. How can a 19 year old attack you by citing that you comment came off as "bitter?" And not to mention others who have posted didn't agree with your comment either---having my opinion isn't "attacking." And referring to someone as sounding bitter is harmless to someone who refers to teen as a "cunt" or bitch. When I said I was "perfect" without flaws, FOOL, I was mocking your ass! But you are to bitter to notice that fact.
Famfriass 1 month ago
@Famfriass I would ask you to act your age, but people your age tend to be ignorant and stupid. You are doing a fantastic job representing your age demographic! HA! If you were mocking me about you being perfect, then who in the fuck are you to judge me? You aren't perfect, so shut your hole. An insult is an insult, it doesn't matter to what degree. You judged me and insulted me first. You are wrong for doing that. What is so difficult to understand about that? SMH
turdsandwich72 1 month ago
@turdsandwich72 MAN, take your old ass on somewhere.....I've been over this like two days ago yet you still coming at me like a dog in heat. Dang...no wonder why you haven't had good relationships, part of it is b/c you are annoying and childish as hell.
Famfriass 1 month ago
@Famfriass Ah, still calling me old...even though you have no idea how old I am. I haven't had any good relationships? Rigghhhhttt. Because you know so much about me. Whatever you say, Einstein. You are beyond annoying and childish. You are hopeless. LOL Thank you for proving my point that you are a complete retard. Guys will continue to shit on you because you are a clueless bitch. How are you able to function daily when your head is stuck up your ass? HA!
turdsandwich72 1 month ago
@turdsandwich72 Blah, blah, blah.......you are so annoying...me and my co-workers are cracking the hell up at you right now!! LOL...LOL...your ass is straight tripping and you have a problem with just "letting" go. Attention seeker....yeah, that's what you are. I am going to ignore your single, old ass.....LMAO! Have a good life.
Famfriass 1 month ago
@Famfriass Blah, blah, blah? Is that all you can come up with? I guess you can't come up with anything of substance since you know that I am right, but you are just too much of a delusional little bitch to admit it. I am so annoying? HA! Think again, dipshit and look in the mirror. I love putting you in your place. I keep your throwing your own bullshit back in your face. Deal with it. Your co-workers are laughing at me? You must have mistaken me with someone who gives a shit. LOL
turdsandwich72 1 month ago
@Famfriass Are your co-workers "special" like you? LOL By the way, how are you able to get access to a computer at McDonalds? LOL Keep serving fries and stop typing, kid. I'm sure if I showed my friends your comments, they would confirm what I already know about you....that you are an ignorant little shithead. Your gonna ignore me? Yeah, you said that earlier, yet your dumbass is still here. Not only are you a bitch, but a lying bitch as well. HA!
turdsandwich72 1 month ago
@Famfriass "Letting go"? Letting go of what? If anything, you need to let go and accept the fact that you are an obnoxious, stuck-up little bitch that suffers from diahrrea of the mouth and constipation of the brain. Your so called advice is useless, was insulting and wasnt asked for...therefore you should shove it directly into your asshole. LOL
turdsandwich72 1 month ago
@Famfriass I'm an "attention seeker"? LMAO! Keep the bullshit coming! This is comical! Your dumbass cant see the forest form the trees! Here's reality, I wasnt looking for attention nor do I need attention. I commented on a video, and you started your own attention buy stirring the pot. But keep thinking that you are perfect. You really need a wake up call. Talk to a family member or friend...if you have any. LOL You will get nowhere fast in life acting like a moron. You have alot to learn.
turdsandwich72 1 month ago
@Famfriass You threw the first stone, and I threw it back at you...and will continue throwing it back at you until you shut the fuck up. Get it? You are nobody to judge me. I live my the way I chose to. Am I bitter towards women? Yes. But am I happy with my life in general? Absolutely. You are wrong for judging me. Plain and simple. Stop being a troll and get the fuck out already.
turdsandwich72 1 month ago
@Famfriass Do you fill your own mind with bullshit? For attacking me for no reason, that makes you a bitch. For thinking that you are flawless, that makes you a dumb cunt. Only a dumb cunt would think that she is flawless. Deal with it. Keep thinking that your perfect and see how guys treat you. You will continue getting used and shit on by guys just like you are now. Like Ive said, Im happy with my life. Concentrate on yourself because you are a delusional bitch who has no direction.
turdsandwich72 1 month ago
@Famfriass FYI, I dont get in the corner when Im out and about. I always have a great time. If a woman wants to approach me...great! If not, it's their loss. I have fun either way. But you really need to take a good look in the mirror. Seriously.
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Famfriass 1 month ago
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@turdsandwich72 My Dad says you are a complete fool for the nasty email you sent to me----you are bitter, angry, miserable and I would hate to be the women who even approaches your ass because, there is nothing but torment that awaits her. Stop responding to me please...there is no advice you can give me that my dear mother and father can't. Oh...and my Dad agrees with me! Ha!!! And he is in his early 50's!!! Who's fault is it that you chose to fall in love with hoes??
Famfriass 1 month ago
@Famfriass Ask me if I give a shit what your Dad thinks. LOL Your horseshit comments didn't hurt me in the least. Since you are a clueless 19 year old kid...their is no way that I would take any of your comments seriously. I fell in love with hoes? HA! Wrong again, Einstein! Keep making up bullshit...you are doing a fantastic job making yourself look like a complete idiot. You have no flaws? Yeah, I'm so sure. So, you have gotten used by guys because you have NO flaws? HA! Wake up.
turdsandwich72 1 month ago
@Famfriass Did you tell your Dad that you initially started attacking me? Of course, you didn't. You couldn't just mind your own business, could you? I wasn't even talking to you when I commented on the video...and you had to throw in your useless 2 cents. You started judging me, when you don't even know me, and I called you out on your bullshit. You didn't like it, so you ran to Daddy. What's wrong? You can dish it out, but you can't take it? Then have Daddy change your diaper.
turdsandwich72 1 month ago
@turdsandwich72 My Dad thinks you're a complete idiot...lol...lol. He saw all the comments I left and he applauded me for being more mature than YOU! Ha!! At first I just thought you were a scorned bitter man, but now I realize the problem runs much deeper---you are literally a NUTCASE!
Famfriass 1 month ago
@Famfriass You Dad thinks I'm an idiot? Again, ask me if I give a shit? Better yet, ask him if he thinks I give a shit? LOL You are more mature than me? LMAO! Thank you for providing the joke of the year! LMAO! Yeah, you are sooo mature for starting shit, judging a stranger on the internet, and thinking that you are "flawless". LOL See the problem with clueless people like you is that you never think that you are wrong. You are oblivious to reality.
turdsandwich72 1 month ago
@turdsandwich72 It's comical how I only write ONE response to you, yet you will write three or five....SMH....you are a STALKER. Who wants to read your long ass novels that ain't about nothing. Go take your ass in a corner and have SEVERAL SEATS. I don't care about your so called accomplishments, I don't care about how happy you are (because, you aren't), I don't care, I don't care, I DON'T CARE. So fall the hell back---I ain't checking for you. PEACE!!!!
Famfriass 1 month ago
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turdsandwich72 1 month ago
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@Famfriass Now, you think I'm a stalker? LMAO! How can I be a stalker when your the bitch that started all this? Only a psycho, like yourself, who start shit and then accuse the other person of stalking. If you don't care about my accomplishments and my happiness, then why do you keep responding to me? LMAO! You told me a few times already that you would ignore me..yet your still here acting like a dumbass. What's wrong? Are you butt hurt that I keep putting you in your place? Good!
turdsandwich72 1 month ago
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turdsandwich72 1 month ago
@Famfriass I have accomplished plenty of good things in life to already at my young age to last a lifetime. So, no, you are nowhere near as mature as me. But keep making empty assumptions, asswipe. Me calling you out on your bullshit and your petulant judgments of me don't make me any less mature....they just make me right. You started shit and I called you out on it. You just can't get that through your shit-filled head. LOL
turdsandwich72 1 month ago
@Famfriass Like I said, I'm happy with my life. But you have alot to learn about life. With your attitude and being so quick to judge people, you will never get a boyfriend. You will keep getting dumped and used. And you will lose your friends and possibly your job. Seriously. Get an attitude adjustment. Tell Daddy to help you out because you are brain-dead. LOL
turdsandwich72 1 month ago
@Famfriass To sum it up, I am very happy with my life. My family and friends are all I need. I could give a shit if a woman approaches me. And for you to judge me about my approach to women and to claim how flawless you are...well that makes you a conceited bitch. Don't worry about me. I'm happy and I will be fine. You should be more concerned about how guys use you. Lord help the next sucker who dates you. You are a pill. Get a clue, get a life, and mind your own business next time.
turdsandwich72 1 month ago
Out of curiousity, what do you, Omega, look for in a guy? I apologize in advance if you've already covered this topic before in a previous video. If you haven't covered it yet, then please reply or even better, you can make a video response. Have a great and productive day.
somedude712 2 months ago
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Whenever a man approaches me, I automatically think he's a player because he is used to doing this..which is why he is so bold. That's why I don't like being approached, but rather getting to know someone in a small setting like a class, or a casual event..
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Women don't approach men because they have no guts and could not handle the rejection that men get.
denilson200 6 months ago
what if you see a realy great guy that you like & you keep your distance with a sour face, then some other chick that is a bit forward steps to him & invites him to persue her. then you say to yourself (what good guys say) "if only i tryed :-( "
guys never, ever, ever listen to a woman. LOL!
rikshaw223 7 months ago 3
@rikshaw223 Thank you for leaving a comment. You just gave me an idea for another topic : ) I cannot speak for every woman and that it why I use myself in so many of my videos even when I'm not desiring tips for my personal use...I just think it's interesting dialogue. It's fine for a man to want a woman to show interest and take initiative and for the women who don't mind doing the asking, more power them. I think I would give it a 2nd thought if I started dating a guy
omega7373 7 months ago
@omega7373 and didn't put in effort to letting him know that I was feeling him and he ended up dating a woman who put forth more effort. But if we haven't started dating, then I cannot say for certain that it would really bother me. In the end, I say do what works for you and makes you happy. Don't live by everyone else's rules.
omega7373 7 months ago
Don't come back with that men are the hunters and all that other BS. This is the real reason women don't approach men>>they fear rejection more than men, they are more insecure than men, hell hath no fury than a woman scorned!!!. the female ego is way more monstorous than the male ego. I remember I rejected a woman because she was not my type and she was accusing me of being gay all because I rejected her. Ain't that some shit????!!
GarwinEugeneW 8 months ago 6
@GarwinEugeneW True
datingwomensex 4 months ago
@datingwomensex wow, I forgot the comment I posted. been so long.
GarwinEugeneW 4 months ago
@GarwinEugeneW
Dude, I get that all the time. I almost rather not be approached by a woman because when I am uninterested in them, they either call me gay or act like they want to fight me. I can handle the fact that a woman does not want me. I will just move on to the next prospective mate, but some women do not have that same mentality. Just like women tell me "No means no". No hard feelings.
mostsincere 2 months ago
@mostsincere Right not to mention nowadays most of the women out here are attentions whores. Which is why I don't approach them. In other words they don't want you but they want your attention. Again when you don't give them any they have a problem. Women do give little signs when they are interested and want you to go up to them. That's what I watch for.
GarwinEugeneW 2 months ago
Right on, this is the 21st century and by the way nowadays that's how you can tell if a woman is really into you if she approaches you. If she don't approach you she feels basically you're not worth her time. But if she does believe me you are worth it so fellas don't mess it up. watch out for them women who wants a man to approach them because most of them play hard to get and women who play hard to get don't get got.
GarwinEugeneW 8 months ago
@GarwinEugeneW I'm sure it is flattering to have a woman approach you and show her interest. There are plenty of women who do so if a guy is on the shy side or may not feel like being the initiator all of the time, it cuts him a break. Not approaching a man is not about playing hard to get. A woman can initiate conversation and show her interest without asking a man out and leaving it up to him as to what he wants to do with her shown interest.
omega7373 8 months ago
I love this! I recently for the first time approached a guy via facebook because I had no other way to contact him. He's on my brothers hockey team and I didn't want to disrespect my brother by talking to the man. SO, I added him, he changed his profile pic but didn't accept my request, which after 1 week of waiting I cancelled the request. I am not putting myself out there again. Men are born hunters, and don't want their prize to be laid out on a platter.
michellediamondpearl 8 months ago
I think that you are restricting yourself to a smaller pool of men if you do not want to initiate contact. Initiating contact does not mean that you want to sleep with that guy. Some guys like myself are a bit shy and need a bit of encouragement to ask a guy out. Most important thing is that your stance takes away INITIATIVE on your side. It is like you are waiting and dreaming for something to happen to you instead of taking some initiative. This is 21st century and not the 60s like your dad
kontinnuum 8 months ago 2
@kontinnuum Thanks for sharing your opinion.
omega7373 8 months ago
OH GOD THE GAMES!
MrLahboogie 1 year ago
your dad gave good advice but at the sametime its a turn on when a women makes a effort to say hey would you like to get together this weekend its all about ya apporch...me personaly i dont like to feel like im in a game to win you over,i feel its 50-50 in any relationship and you should be tryna impress me as well as im tryna impress u
KN0WLEGE562 1 year ago
Cute hair in this vid how is done!!
divasmoothful 1 year ago
@divasmoothful Thanks..it's crotchet braids in the front and a sew-in in the back.
omega7373 1 year ago
Women cannot approach men because most men don't like it. It is as simple as that. Men get the wrong message for some strange reason. It is an automatic turn off. Possibly a sign of desperation. Supposedly, if a man is interested, he will approach you. If you have male friends, notice how they will do anything in their power to get to know a woman. Is that man that you are attempting to talk to trying to track you down?! No. It is definitely a chase game with men. Women don't do it.
PrettyBrownEyes718 1 year ago
@PrettyBrownEyes718 I've had guys say they would like it if a woman approaches them, because some are why. I think it depends on her approach. I have approached both of my ex boyfriends, but I was not over the top. If it wasn't for me conversing with them first, they would never have approached me. A lot of men think it's sexy not in a disrespectful, or slutty way. Again, it depends on the woman's approach. Nothing wrong with saying hello, ir even asking him if it's ok if you guys hang out.
Missticklotus 1 year ago
@PrettyBrownEyes718 Also, you can approach a guy, and still have him chase you. Sometime, men think some women are in a relationship, and hold back. I think a woman should not be afraid to interact with a man of interest, but then allow him to chase, so in short, do both. Again, this is my opinion, and what has worked for me, and I'm sue there are some men who may get the wrong idea. Like Omega says, being 'too easy too soon', he may def. take advantage of that.
Missticklotus 1 year ago
@Missticklotus
Yeah but some black men don't give a fuck. All that hard to get shit gets annoying and before you know it they see another bitch with a big ass and you are not even on their mind anymore.
you have to know how much to play the "Hard to get" or "Let him chase" thing
Because really, there's a moment when a guy just goes...
Fuck it, and move on. and what made you lose him was some easy slut that fucks it up for everybody that was flirting with em or some other shit.
Dont be arrogant
shiryet 1 year ago
@PrettyBrownEyes718 No that's a shallow way of looking at it, there's a difference between showing interest and looking desperate. Most men especially the nice guys dread approaching attractive women for fear of rejection but are forced to do it at least occasionally. The ass holes are usually the most confident with women as they think they are God & approach many more & since women tend to be attracted to confidence they are more likely to date an asshole who charms the pants off them.
zzsharka 1 year ago
i feel what your sayin but on the other hand; i'm sick and tired of women, esspecially black women always complainin about them not bein able to find a good man. how can you find a good man if you only talk to the ones that talk to you? the most bold men are the jerks,playaz and abusers. trust me i know. i know guys personally that get at females all day and pull 70% of them and treat em like pornstars and atms. i need to make a video about this and really brake it down
scinnyc 1 year ago 7
@scinnyc The Bible says whoever FINDETH a WIFE FINDETH a good thing. This scripture implies men are suppose to pursue the woman.
Shesblessed84 10 months ago
The lady makes the choice anyhow. If she likes me she will let me know.
jeford321 1 year ago
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jeford321 1 year ago
I agree with you on this. I've never approached men because I'm all about the man pursuing me and taking charge. I LOVE a man who is respectful, humble, andassured! I was told in the past that I tend to look mean when I'm out and about, but when someone talks to me they realize that I'm actually a nice and happy person. I'm one who will be in deep thought often so my facial expressions may look mean. I'm being more conscious of the attitude I give off so that people can see who I really am.
KitaBee23 1 year ago
sometimes i feel that the relationship can be more successful if the guy approaches the girl because he is "working" for what he wants. I personally have no problem going up to a guy and introducing myself to him but I dont ask them on dates. i leave that up to them so that i know if they are interested or not. But ppl tell me ALL the time that i give off the same vibe and that I look stuck up which his scaring away the guys and im not like that at all.
candyatl06 1 year ago
If a man finds a women attractive is it okay for him to ask her out on a date?
Living1Word 1 year ago
@Living1Word It's fine as long as it is appropriate for the two to date. For example, some work places don't allow employees to date, etc.
omega7373 1 year ago
the subject sounded lnteresting....but i couldnt hear it
epd0126 1 year ago
@epd0126 I am going to contact YT about that.
omega7373 1 year ago
i think it is true in all cases. if a woman doesnt make the hunt a good one, it takes away from when he finally gets the catch.
cityonfire31811 1 year ago
It's unfortunately that some people think it has to be one method or the other that's right or wrong. There's absolutely nothing wrong with either one I think. I've done both. I agree that it depends on a case by case basis though.
IwanAcleverUtubeName 1 year ago
People say the same thing about me that I give off that vibe as well!
SCORPIODIVA01 1 year ago
@mslusciouslips818 I have tried it on two computers and it is loud and clear. I don't know what could be the cause.
omega7373 1 year ago
@omega7373 maybe it's yt because your voice is low
divatude314 1 year ago
I wish they would be more pro-active. It's tiresome chasing and getting rejected. Im not saying hunt me down but atleast mention meeting for coffee,tea or ice cream in the future...the key word is future!
kareemtiheed 1 year ago
I agree with all you said and I am glad that you are sharing the importance of standards with others...
arr1216 1 year ago
There's nothing wrong with women approaching men IF thats what they wanna do. But me personally, the flower don't chase the bee!
darknluvly702 1 year ago 10
@darknluvly702 they a flower isnt equal to the bee ..then..
lauh4rl 1 year ago
@darknluvly702 lol face it most women are chicken shits and don't know what they want.
zzsharka 1 year ago
@darknluvly702 Hey there!! I like that statement...flower don't chase the bee.
Famfriass 1 month ago