I'm a BW and I don't want to get married for similar reasons. One, you don't have to be married in order to be in a monogamous committed relationship. Two, my profits and debts are mine and mine alone. I'm not giving anyone anything that I earned & I'm not taking anything they earned. I'd only marry to have kids because I don't believe in having kids outside of wedlock but since I don't want kids that solves that problem. Besides too many women get married for the wedding NOT for the marriage.
@Jarack123 Just bc it happens to men more often doesn't mean that it can't happen to women believe me it does. Rather than taking any chances, especially with the economy the way it is, I'm going to do what I have to do to protect myself and my assets.
PinkE, I'm a little surprised to hear this topic from you, but then again I've just discovered it.
More and more men are becoming anti-marriage. My father told me not to get married, BUT he never told me why, which is the same as not saying anything at all. So, I found out for myself and now I'm telling my son the same thing, except that I told him WHY.
women are manipulative control freaks. they will play you until the right time then use your $ to divorce and take your home and kids. US Law protects women as if they can't get a job. Legal marriage is male slavery. Have a gf. but buy your own house and car. Keep her name off everything and if she guilts you, ditch her fast.
I question Marriage in this Patriarchy. I am for the legal part, every culture has some type of legal structure. If she can work or not was never an issue. They legally married in Ancient Kemet and still had a marriage contract and those women had ALL power before the Cult of Amen RA came in and helped user in Patriarchy. So I am for it but I do think the laws need to be revamped.
I think MEn forcus to much on Money. If you think that your marriage will end up in divorce dont marry from jump.
@TheGoddessNetworks Actually Men don't focus on money at all. It's women who do, thusly creating the problem. Human's don't like being slaves for some odd reason.
Don't ask for money and we won't have a problem. Get a job, princess.
And in addition, pinkelephant, I'm fed up with women in the Western world that still bitch about that "I make only 75 cents to my male counterpart" slogan.
...With aliMONEY (I know how to spell, haters LOL),...anyway, with aliMONEY, CS (with rewards the mother and the child - in many cases - the accused man pays whether he's a lab sperm donor or a co-habitant or simply just not related to the childem that he is raising.
..and with the "pussy pass", women are getting over.
I used to say to foreign African women on Blackplanet last year that if you're interested in living for free, move to America: A woman is never homeless yet there are so many more homeless women....TWO, a man will hardly get a ride while hitchhiking whereas a woman would because the mangina is thinking he's going to get some pussy for his "good honorable deed".
that is true. i mean men should really consult a lawyer when in a commited relationsip so that he can be protected. because your right, even if you co-habitate with a chick she still has some legal entitlements depending of the state that you live. its funny because the women dam well fully know how the laws of marriage protect them while the man are naive about them.
I'm a BW and I don't want to get married for similar reasons. One, you don't have to be married in order to be in a monogamous committed relationship. Two, my profits and debts are mine and mine alone. I'm not giving anyone anything that I earned & I'm not taking anything they earned. I'd only marry to have kids because I don't believe in having kids outside of wedlock but since I don't want kids that solves that problem. Besides too many women get married for the wedding NOT for the marriage.
hunnieb11 1 year ago
@hunnieb11 hardly any man is going to get what you worked for since men are the ones targeted by the system
Jarack123 1 year ago
@Jarack123 Just bc it happens to men more often doesn't mean that it can't happen to women believe me it does. Rather than taking any chances, especially with the economy the way it is, I'm going to do what I have to do to protect myself and my assets.
hunnieb11 1 year ago
Amen and Amen.
PinkE, I'm a little surprised to hear this topic from you, but then again I've just discovered it.
More and more men are becoming anti-marriage. My father told me not to get married, BUT he never told me why, which is the same as not saying anything at all. So, I found out for myself and now I'm telling my son the same thing, except that I told him WHY.
Khemistry101 1 year ago
women are manipulative control freaks. they will play you until the right time then use your $ to divorce and take your home and kids. US Law protects women as if they can't get a job. Legal marriage is male slavery. Have a gf. but buy your own house and car. Keep her name off everything and if she guilts you, ditch her fast.
gjjemhunter 1 year ago
@the goddess. Naw.......
bigfreki 2 years ago
I question Marriage in this Patriarchy. I am for the legal part, every culture has some type of legal structure. If she can work or not was never an issue. They legally married in Ancient Kemet and still had a marriage contract and those women had ALL power before the Cult of Amen RA came in and helped user in Patriarchy. So I am for it but I do think the laws need to be revamped.
I think MEn forcus to much on Money. If you think that your marriage will end up in divorce dont marry from jump.
TheGoddessNetworks 2 years ago
@TheGoddessNetworks wth ?
arecode313 1 year ago
@TheGoddessNetworks Actually Men don't focus on money at all. It's women who do, thusly creating the problem. Human's don't like being slaves for some odd reason.
Don't ask for money and we won't have a problem. Get a job, princess.
cheaze69 2 months ago
absolutely.
Yourebuying 3 years ago
"Bake a loaf of bread"
lol
xxxxFootballxxxx 3 years ago
And in addition, pinkelephant, I'm fed up with women in the Western world that still bitch about that "I make only 75 cents to my male counterpart" slogan.
It's so obscure now.
SuavecitoBro2 3 years ago 2
...With aliMONEY (I know how to spell, haters LOL),...anyway, with aliMONEY, CS (with rewards the mother and the child - in many cases - the accused man pays whether he's a lab sperm donor or a co-habitant or simply just not related to the childem that he is raising.
SuavecitoBro2 3 years ago
..and with the "pussy pass", women are getting over.
I used to say to foreign African women on Blackplanet last year that if you're interested in living for free, move to America: A woman is never homeless yet there are so many more homeless women....TWO, a man will hardly get a ride while hitchhiking whereas a woman would because the mangina is thinking he's going to get some pussy for his "good honorable deed".
SuavecitoBro2 3 years ago 2
..TYPOGRAPHICAL ERROR:
"...move to America, A woman is never homeless yet there are some many more homeless MEN...."
SuavecitoBro2 3 years ago 4
Even co-habitating with them in certain U.S. states would fuck a man's shit up too.
I wouldn't just do it regardlessly. That's me I guess.
SuavecitoBro2 3 years ago
that is true. i mean men should really consult a lawyer when in a commited relationsip so that he can be protected. because your right, even if you co-habitate with a chick she still has some legal entitlements depending of the state that you live. its funny because the women dam well fully know how the laws of marriage protect them while the man are naive about them.
pinkkelephant 3 years ago
Especially the triffiling black woman!!
goodgame79 3 years ago