Most Succint Analysis of Male-Female Relations

[ytubefkr]

Meg Ryan has an incredible bush

[AbortedHitlerCock]

@ytubefkr I'll drink to that.

[simonthompson27]

://youtu.be/nlPNrqFcauM?t=1m34­s 

[Wallylex]

This has always been my favorite scene in the movie, and I've seen it a lot of times... a LOT of times. And, at 36, I realize that this is true: men and women can't really be friends, because a man who spends so much time trying to get your attention is obviously interested in something else. If he settles for just your friendship, that's his choice, but his interest will always be there.

[LCknosJB21]

I am a boy and my best friend is a girl. We are both completely straight and there isn't any sex involved (yet lol)

[mariyadfwjfgej]

No way out man Russian women  ** leefoxnow.info **

[beeroosterm]

This "friendship" thing is a relatively recent phenomenon. In the old days, women (rightly) expected that when men expressed interest in them, they wanted sex; it was all out on the table and everybody knew what the score was. For some reason, when feminism rolled around, feminists insisted (heterosexual) men could be platonic friends only. I do not understand who led them to believe this could be true in any way, shape, or form, but they fucked up badly. Ladies: we want to fuck you. Believe it.

[beeroosterm]

Perfection...except that no man at that age understands that concept

[TWN321]

@beeroosterm Are you kidding me? A 12 year old boy understands that concept! As soon as girls started growing breasts in middle school I understood that concept... hahahaaa

[BoricuaDelight]

lmao this whole scene is so true lol

[thatgirl1269]

@Renaissanceman4 - LOL the only way that wouldn't work is if he's gay, and even then, given the right circumstances, I'm not too sure.

@halestar88 - I'm assuming 1988 was the year you were born, so that answers the question as to why you have that opinion. Let's see if it changes given a few years' experience!

[TWN321]

@thatgirl1269 As a man, i must say you are absolutely right... my long term gf has not had a single male friiend that I approved of or allowed around unless he was gay... and even he/she was suspect! hahahaaa... I readily let her know as well that I don't have any female friends... only women I haven't screwed yet... Any one of them - if they are cute - can get it if circumstances change...

[st3nkobe]

Here is the rule cuz i got experience with this. Guys and girls CANNOT be friends. It's just that simple. At one point one of the sexes will develop feeling for the other. You see it all the time. Most people don't admit it but the occasional ass slap and titty grab is more than just friendly play between a guy and girl. They are secretly attracted to the other and in many cases in LOVE.

[Platinaapa]

3. STILL wants to have sex with his female friend, even though there is absolutely no chance in hell it will ever happen and he knows this. But hangs out with her anyway, cus it might still happen.

4. Doesn't want to have sex with her (true friend stage).

[Platinaapa]

As a man, I consider the "friend"-stages with women that we are attracted to are:

1. Wants to have sex with her and thinks he might be able to achieve it(first period) 2. Still wants to have sex with her, but have realized that chance of achieving it is very small, hope is the last thing that dies though

[RedBlueSpot]

There is a rule a friend taught me that's actually correct as far as I know.

There's only TWO (ONLY TWO) reasons why a man wouldn't want to sleep with you.

1. You're ugly!

2. He's gay

In every other cases (including he's with an other girl) he wants to sleep with you, but that doesn't mean he WILL sleep with you or even tries to sleep with you. It's just in his imagination.

[kahrpistols]

That's not true (for the most part). I'm a guy, I'm not gay, and I have a few attractive female friends of which the though of sex NEVER crosses my mind. O_o

[st3nkobe]

@kahrpistols Then you're gay

[TWN321]

@st3nkobe I concur!! Definitely a boy lover!

[TWN321]

@kahrpistols Definitely homo.

[kahrpistols]

@TWN321 No, I do not find guys attractive in the least. As a matter of fact, I am engaged to a (that's right!) girl. I do not have uncontrollable urges to "bang" someone. I am still a virgin (That may have something to do with the ability to control myself) and I'm proud to be one. I'm sure you're going to rag and make fun of me for being one ... don't waste your time. It's not worth it. I'm not changing my views on sex before marriage, and I doubt you are. So don't waste my (or yours) time.

[TWN321]

@kahrpistols I actually commend you on your virginity and engagement. Congratulations. I retract my homo remark. At that same time, the truth is a genuine friendship between a man and woman is not possible. There is always at least a sexual attraction (if not more) if the woman is good looking.  You might not ACT on it due to your moral highground, circumstance, or whatever, but men and women were designed to mate -mentally, emotionaly, and physically - not just be friends.

[halestar88]

I don't agree. Seriously, I have friends that are guys, and I HIGHLY DOUBT they would be willing to nail me. O_o

[Imrankniazi]

Just give them a chance to do so and 9 out of 10 male 'friends' would. I am a man and I know I wouldn't refuse a female friend willing to throw herself on me...

Bottomline is that we (men) suppress our sexual urges pretty well until the right time comes :)

[lampfork]

"No, you pretty much want to nail them too."

Very true. It doesn't matter if she's fat, a butterface, or both. Just give us the green light and it's on!

[dandyrandy691]

Fuck me or fuck off. That's my policy when dealing with women. It saves me a lot of disappointment and frustration.

[murfdurf22]

LOLOLOLOLOL oh gosh, thanks for the great laugh!

[rckhalillb]

1:19 - 100% true

[pumpkinheadedmf]

This is why we need gays in the world.

[VJDTropical]

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No ...

We don't need gender alienation

Men and women just need to understand one another ( :

[pumpkinheadedmf]

I agree, but there's no reason for gays to create gender alienation. Just to give the girls a guyfriend who doesn't want to nail them until they can find the respectful straight males. :-)

[VJDTropical]

There is and it's not because they want to but because they have too ( it's how it is structured ) like hello ? Two men or two women ( that's seperation of the sexes if you look closely ... ) plus like the dude in this video said " Guys sometimes nail everything ... even the unattractive ones "

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[pumpkinheadedmf]

Are you saying homosexuals don't fraternize outside of their own gender?

[VJDTropical]

I did NOT say that ...

I just said that there would be a HUGE ( and I mean TRULY tremendous ) difference between men and women together together versus men and women just socializing together in that atmosphere

Interest , love and where one's heart is changes history ... that is only what I have been trying to say

[VJDTropical]

The ways are different

A man whom loves women and socializes with them has a different view to the few whom don't ... and vice versa for women whom love men to the few whom don't ... it's just that we tend to see people in a different light

It's NOT that they don't socialize outside BUT that the " unity " or interaction between the sexes will be vastly different ( different rules ) ... it's just reality honey

[pumpkinheadedmf]

And according to Harry in this video, it'd actually be a productive difference (speaking in stereotypes, of course. Everybody has a unique way of aproaching relationships), because all straight men want to do is bang their female friends. The gay ones, being gay, will not, and can therefore "be friends" with a woman, because the sex part won't get in the way.

[VJDTropical]

No it wouldn't and no the entire society should not be " individualistic " or have " uniqueness " because that would lead to gender alienation ( men and women wouldn't be together anymore )

Plus seriously what on earth makes you think that a gay man won't sleep with a woman ? Because some gay men really love straight porn and jerk off to it if you didn't know

[VJDTropical]

On the other hand you're right because some gay men really have the "cooties" toward women..what I am trying to say overall is that we don't need gays because that would alter the relationship between the sexes greatly(it just wouldn't be the same anymore)..I mean imagine a person is dying..it's a woman..there are two rescuers..one is a straight man whom loves her and the other is a gay man whom is very brotherly toward her..whom do you stake your chances on saving her?

[pumpkinheadedmf]

I think either would save her. One out of romantic love, the other out of brotherly love. They're different kinds of love, but can be equally potent and bonding.

You speak of the relationship between the sexes as if it were one way only. Whether or not it's healthy, individuality is a reality, and each male/female relationship is different depending on the people. And for the record, I disagree with Harry's philosophy in this video clip.

[VJDTropical]

I speak of it as it were the only way ? Oh no ... you seriously misunderstood me ... what I am trying to say is that the core of the relationships between the sexes would NOT be the same and if you can't see that then you're deluded ... we don't need gays in the world ... that would seriously alter the unity between men and women

[VJDTropical]

You know nothing of the " LGBT " community ... nothing ... I mean seriously what does a gay man have in common with a lesbian woman or what do they have in common with transgenders and then bissexuals ? You think that they are " different ways " of communicating ... fine ... but in the end of the day they have different agendas to you and me ... not that they don't " fraternize " outside of their gender ... just that it doesn't mean as much to them as it means to me

[VJDTropical]

You need to see that it would NOT be the same anymore ... the CORE and the main between men and women ... I did NOT say that family feelings ( brotherly , sisterly , etc ) and friendship would be null ( that is a lie ) ... just that the unity would NOT be as strong ... if you still think that it would be strong then I challenge you to picture a 99 % gay society ... and then you can lecture me on the relationship between the sexes ... just think for a second please

[VJDTropical]

I have read some responses from gay individuals ... I remember this very clearly from a gay man ... he said something to the likes of this " Look we gay men and lesbian women , though both gay , have different issues ... I sympathize with lesbian women and all but since I a man whom doesn't feel as close to women wouldn't that make me even feel more distant from gay women in a way ? " ... of course I wasn't alarmed or anything but that seriously made me think/reflect

[VJDTropical]

-Lesbian women(women+women)

-Gay men(men+men)

-Bissexuals(men/women+women/me­n)

-Transgenders(from men/women to women/men)

They CAN socialize outside of their group but you need(no you have)to see that there is a good reason why they are a minority..maybe if society was all bissexual(?)then there could be a good relationship between the sexes but if it were all gay then hell no..whether I or you like it or not gay relationships have a different structure and that's my main point

[VJDTropical]

You need to see that there is a huge reason why the "LGBT" is a minority and if they weren't then the relationship between the sexes would be in serious check..if you don't believe in God/religion like me then just look at nature/the environment(which I also love..well most of it at least)..the unity between the sexes would not be the same..do I have to cry it out to you?Scream it?Why can't you see it?Why? Sadly more and more people today can't see it..stop analyzing it superficially and go deep

[VJDTropical]

Well I'm off for now...going to fly in 2 hours..goodbye for now..have a nice day

[pumpkinheadedmf]

I love the irony of a bisexual being lectured on LGBT relations by a straight.

I'm also a theatre person, so I spend a good 75% of my life around all manner of orientations.

Gays have no harder time connecting to any other human being, regardless of orientation, than anybody else does. If you believe anything different, you've been misinformed, probably by your religion. As a fellow Christian, I understand the vast amount of misinformation you may have recieved.

Enjoy your flight. :)

[VJDTropical]

You're not a " fellow Christian " so take that blasphemy away with you ... plus 75 % with people of different orientations ? Your life must be confusing

[pumpkinheadedmf]

My life's not all that confusing. Here's the thing: We're all human beings. It's amazing how unifying that can be, if you let it.

Differences don't have to stand in the way of love and friendship, especially something as trivial as sexual orientation. Loving despite differences is a huge part of Christ's message, even. I think Luke 6:27-42 should be of interest to you.

Have a nice day. :)

[VJDTropical]

I doubt that your even"bissexual"..most men are either "straight" or "gay"(your probably more "gay" than "straight " since most male bissexuals are like that)..there are far more female bissexuals than males and female sexuality tends to be more "flexible"than male on average

[VJDTropical]

Oh and another thing..please read this

w w w(dot)theatlantic(dot)c o m/doc/200707/religion

This is one of the reasons you are so liberal and not a true Christian at all..good riddance with the rising unbelief in America..if you want to see biblical Christianity go elsewhere...goodbye for good and have a nice day

[velmavontussle]

I have one guy friend of which i'm pretty sure they don't really want to have sexs with me.he's always madly in love with some girl or another, and we only talk about music and books and things we do when drunk etc. I'm not saying it's always possible, but i'm pretty sure that if you really like a girl but arent likely to really fall for her you can be friends (and if you drunkenly end up having sex one time, so what? It's the love part that makes it difficult)

[larissaantipova]

I agree, same happens with me.

[Altron21]

same with you...

[Altron21]

he'd fuck you given the opportunity...

[goldsamurai]

It's a very Jerry Seinfeld observation. Actually he could play this role.

[Xiroi87]

When Meg Ryan turns her head to the right (her right) she looks like a young Alicia Silverstone, like 0:05 or 1:38

[DiecovichPavlov]

Harry is great, but sally is way out of his league, he's lucky because he's a movie caracter jaaj

[mssedmebich]

I think women believe every word he said. Their is no way a married man can have a female freind and not have your wife think you are sleeping with her or at least think you want to sleep with her.

[peppermintpixie707]

of course you can be friends with peopleof the opposite gender, its calledfriends with benefits xD

[slimshaby408]

this is video is the truth, the only reason i get friendly with cetain girls is because i like them and want something more, the ones i dont want i just be nice to but dont really talk to them a lot and usually i only talk them in school. Guys just dont need friends, girls if a guy starts talking to u a lot and hanging out a lot and texting a lot and other girls dont get the same attention then he wants more.

[haggergrawp]

you men really choose their friends by how they look?? i can't believe you are that superficial...

[slimshaby408]

no we dont want to be friends with chicks period. But if we do its because we like them and the main reason we like them is because they are attractive.

[jedidavisWAMPA]

@slimshaby408 well there's always circumstances now. there are times when i do want to be just friends with my lady friends. however, the thought of sex with them does come up, "What would it be like to have sex with her." but sometimes i keep that to myself and still want to maintain a friendship.

[Xiroi87]

I don't think you should call slimshaby "a man", he says he only talks to girls in school, so immature kid seems to be more appropriate.

[twinsouls]

From 2:00-2:07 is the TRUTH.Just because a woman doesnt want to have sex with the man,she thinks "We're not having sex,so we're just friends" but thats false because as long as ONE person whats to have sex with the other then they have a false friendsship and other guys can see right through it which is why MOST men have a problem with their girl having male friends.Either girls 1)Just dont see it (but I dont believe their that stupid) 2)Have hope that its not true or 3)Do see it but dont care

[Fujikorific]

Well, I think this is true to a certain extent...but, I have friends who are straight men I've known since I was 14, before sex really came into the equation--(since everyone was awkward and unattractive) and I think we're capable of being friends by virtue of knowing each other THAT LONG.

But trying to make friends with men when you're an adult women? Yeah...that doesn't work out so well.

[jelisatyler]

guys are slime! they think every woman on earth is here to sleep with them and thats not true!i believe a real man who is mature can be friends with a woman.

[topliff12345]

every word is true.

[legendario87]

billy cristal es un cague de risa jajaja

[stancartmankyle]

Ladies, if you're of child-bearing age and there's not seriously something wrong with your appearance, at least 95% of the guys you meet want to nail you. I'm not even joking.

[ibringmayflowers]

lol this is one of the funny parts of movie. it is half true like hormons can take over and it hard to be frineds, but that doesnt mean you CANT be frineds with guys.

[ladybugg2011]

i love that part but it's so retarted and i agree with sxcfee 15 about age has something to do with it

[sxcfee15]

i think that men and women can be friends... okay let me rephrase that:

i don't think it's impossible. And yes, i think age has something to do with it.

[studentrick63]

I agree, men and women can be friends, just as long as the man is homosexual, that way there is no hidden agenda.

[shiryu22]

What if he wanted a legacy and made a female friend just so he could sleep with her for a child? He could still have a hidden agenda.

[VJDTropical]

I doubt it ... found out a very interesting article today detailing " occasions " between lesbian women and homosexual men ( group sex ) ... so no I don't agree with you ... even in that case there might be a " hidden agenda " ... you never know ( and even I didn't know about these " occasions " either ) ... putting that aside yes I believe that men and women can be friends ... just not close friends ( unless it's a relative , employee or something else )

[dphillips83]

Every ex-girlfriend I've had always wanted to be friends. I tell them no, and they say why and I tell them to watch the beginning of this movie and that'll explain it. HA! We are dogs.

[gracekeebler]

Men are soooooo stupid, they'll nail anything.

[rlp1]

Hahaha, yes, that's funny, you made a joke. Your comment is so intelligent I am blown away. It's true, all men want to nail every woman. Yes, I said it, all men want to nail every single woman they ever see, ever.

Even if they're a dumb fucking cunt like yourself. Yep. Oh wait, you're wrong, the girls men don't want to nail are the ones like you, uppity, self-righteous, man-hating cunts who hate men because no man will fuck their stupid vapid cunt selves.

Eat a dick.

[gracekeebler]

Seems like some stupid dick is not getting anything, can't get a women, and doesn't know how to tkae care of himself. Nice try prick! Lots of luck to you!

[rlp1]

Wow, you're just a class-act ice-queen bitch aren't you? I'm pretty sure you either need to take the fat cock you're slobbering over out of your mouth, or you need a good railing.

Cunt.

[gracekeebler]

Dear useless, do society and the world a favor? Pull your lower lip over your head and swallow.

[TakingBackTeatime45]

hah. wow. you've obviously never been laid.

[monarch243]

owned

[Wallij15]

I loved the contrast in that

You hate men

Go eat dick

Nice job (H)

Not phrased the way I would...but I agree, I definitely do not want to nail anything..whore

[monarch243]

girls are stupid. they would rather be with a guy who treats them like absolute shit then one who would actually be nice to them.

and do not deny it. my friend has more girls who like him BECAUSE he makes fun of them.

[CRAILstail]

well its mostly because those jerks that treat them like crap are also 1) first ones to show intrest 2) they make them laugh and feel good which makes him more attractive.

[thunderandsnow86]

what about women? can they view their relationships with male friends as purely platonic??

[olfc97]

Yes, I think it's possible. Sure!! This part of the movie is where it's evident that this movie was written by a woman. Just listen to Sally she is smart, and I wish not most men are like Harry.

[monQsurlaKomod]

HARRY's words are wisdom:I do have a girl-friend for 7 strong years now and i do have physical attraction for her, that's TRUE..

..but I have a consciousness of things and if it must not be done, it won't be done.PERIOD

I always laugh a lil' when one says he didn't want to fuck another person...

Of course!His dick walked alone and enter a place called vagina(or whatever..)

If you say that, you shouldn't consider friendship at all OR maybe you already don't consider homosexuality??

PEACE

[MissMirielle]

yep.. That's true.

Unfortunatly Women and Men can't be just friends..

[Mizzpulchritude]

100% Accurate

[BrunaGabriella]

totally true.

[aromancandle]

SO TRUE.

[Kent7776]

Lol, I really agree with this in some way, I remember when I first saw a part of this movie, this was the first scene that caught my eye, so true

[TheBatMan2000]

"No, you pretty much want to nail them too."

Haha yep.

[joset2]

hey ths ma favv line as well!!! is it really true ?????ny guys ????

[Renaissanceman4]

Don't take my word for it. Look around you. Remember Bill Clinton's affair and how shocked everyone was that he - the most powerful man in the world - would not only take the risk of cheating but do it with some cow when he could do so much better? People would say it just doesn't make sense, but it makes perfect sense. She was a convenient sperm receptacle. That's how guys look at women.

[outxfromxunder]

"call the cops, it's already out there"

"wanna spend the night in a motel? see what i did, i didn't let it lie"

ahahahahahaha i love this movie. it's in like my top five.

[AMAZINGLYPSYMON]

no, you pretty much want to nail them too.

lmao

[mekkabon]

To the guys who agree with whats said in this video....your just making your own gender look desperate :p Good job!

Also, what about guys who are married, or have steady girlfriends? Does that mean they aren't going to talk to another girl ever again?...I doubt that for some reason. Perhaps I have too much faith in men.

[PumpkinPatch]

As Harry explains later on in the movie after bumping into each other again, they can get along. However, their partners start to think that they've gone out of the relationship to meet a boy/girl who can give their partner something that they cannot, and therefore, men & women can't be just friends.

[mekkabon]

orly.

[salukipimpin]

Men and women can never be friends because sex will always get involved. Truer lines were never spoken. Ladies get it through your thick skulls. No guy ever wants to be friends.

[eagleeyes170]

i totally agree with you. thats why if a woman and man should ever be "together"..then it should be serious.

[ginger04cl]

So it is true. Men and women can't be friends. I happen to have a good man friend, and I am a very attractive woman (ive been told). He likes women just as much as I like men. Does this mean that he has thought of me in a sexual way and I've never noticed???

[Renaissanceman4]

Next time you're with him, unzip his pants and mount him. See if he tries to stop you.

[ginger04cl]

hhmmmm, good idea. :)

[BrunaGabriella]

hahahha lol

[halo0o0o3]

HAHAHAHAHA!! funny way to put the obvious truth about this whole topic... ahaha

[studentrick63]

Just because your "man friend" is good at concealing his desires it doesn't mean that It isn't there. Therefore the friendship is a sham because there is a hidden agenda on his part. There was a time when i believed that women and men could be friends but i was very rudely awakened. Trust me if your friend is hetro he wants to be more than just friends with you.

[ginger04cl]

hmmmm, even if he were involved with somebody else??? This is very interesting. Do you think that maybe age has something to do with this??

[43powerhouse1963]

Since when has that(he may be seeing someone else)stopped a man?

[ginger04cl]

hhhmmmm Good point, huny. Made me lol tough. I only thought that since women can see a man just as a friend, you could do the same with us. That's all. Kind of disappointing to know I was soooooo lost in the matter.

[babigyrl03]

My fave love movie of all time..I lovvve this movie

[timhanson]

Dead-on. "When Harry met Sally" was written by Nora Ephron.

[IVARichards]

The theory is absolutely true, there is a correlation between the increase of mixed gatherings and the rise of lewdness and immorality.

[GreaseStain]

'The theory is absolutely true, there is a correlation between the increase of mixed gatherings and the rise of lewdness and immorality.'

that statment makes you sound quiet up-tight. lol.

[IVARichards]

I'm a conservative, I might be different to others, but I don't think that makes me superior, just proactive.

[GreaseStain]

well good for you. stick to your convictions by all means, you'll probly out live me, and die peacefully. which is not a bad thing at all. it's just i couldnt help but picture as on of the old nun's i grew up with teaching in my public school. ya know, the type that trys to tell 8 year olds that sitting very still and very quiet is fun?

[IVARichards]

Less hitlers, saddams and teddy bundys are born that way.

[WestEndDream]

hmmm...he should write a self help book lol! I want to investigate his theory further lol. i need to re watch this movie i haven't seen it in ages!

[lyanie86]

One of my favourite scenes ever :D

[Mierdabreath1]

.....you pretty much want to nail them to. HA! HA! HA!

Billy Crystals analysis is pretty much right on the button. Great Movie. Thanks for the post petrudeau.