Well I am not in a relationship and so I can't really speak to this. But it sounds like you guys are doing well and holding strong and that's wonderful! Good video.
I think it takes an awful lot of strength and self-awareness to come to the realizations you have - and many, many, many women can relate. I think this is a GREAT video!
aww congrats on your engagement... im about 16 weeks post op...and my almost 5 year relationship is hard at this point...im glad you made this video...at least im not the only person thinking about relationships post op, whether it be positive changes or unfortunate negative ones.
What is up with your camera girl?? You look fantastic and you have completely overhauled your life. I'm dopey on pain meds at the moment so I'll cut my comment off hereish.
Relationships are hard. I'm learning the best relationships are the ones you fight for, fight through, and grow because of. Sounds like yours is strong - congratulations! :)
My wife and I have talked about this also. I have heard that there is something like an 80% divorce rate for couples where one of them has WLS. My wife has been with me for 10 yrs while I was packing on pounds....I plan on giving her many more that that as a healthier me.
You were more attractive inside as well as outside. Yes, glad you realized where he was coming from. Great videos, Kristen! Have a wonderful, refreshing weekend with your family!
Still garbled sound and green! lol I think we become more confident in ourselves with the weight off and it makes us more attractive to our spouses and everyone around us! So glad things are better and you are happy in your relationship!! Thanks for your honesty. There is a travelling wedding veil on youtube lol Hugz
I feel like I am going through what you did during the beg of your weight loss. I feel like I have a lot of anger???or I just act as plain Bitch...and I also do not love myself, but I am starting too, but the changed that are happening in my relationship seem to be up and down at the time...I love my husband so much and very blessed to have him I hope that my weight loss helps me so it will help us...
Thank you so much for sharing. I agree that feeling so terrible about yourself can truly affect a relationship. I'm so happy that you are better now and that your relationship has improved for the better. Congrats on the engagement. You look really great!
I'm glad you guys made it through the rough times, you have a great outlook. Congrats to you for having an amazing relationship. I am learning that it will either make or break a relationship. Unfortunately my hubby doesnt want to wait which is fine because in the long run I can have a fresh start and be the best ME for someone who appreciates it. Thats me OBSESSED with gastric now. And even though we are not going to last as a couple, we are still good friends and he is being supportive.
Well I am not in a relationship and so I can't really speak to this. But it sounds like you guys are doing well and holding strong and that's wonderful! Good video.
neecyd63 1 year ago
hey hotness your looking great!!!
isantimn 1 year ago
wonderful vid. Congratulations!
maryposa1978 1 year ago
I think it takes an awful lot of strength and self-awareness to come to the realizations you have - and many, many, many women can relate. I think this is a GREAT video!
divataunia 1 year ago
aww congrats on your engagement... im about 16 weeks post op...and my almost 5 year relationship is hard at this point...im glad you made this video...at least im not the only person thinking about relationships post op, whether it be positive changes or unfortunate negative ones.
MsMoxie22 1 year ago
Congrats! Thanks for sharing
GhrelinBgone 1 year ago
What is up with your camera girl?? You look fantastic and you have completely overhauled your life. I'm dopey on pain meds at the moment so I'll cut my comment off hereish.
slenderlovingcare 1 year ago
I can very much relate to this right now. I've pushed people away and this was a nice video to see right in this moment. Thank you!
Bamboo2you 1 year ago
Congratulations on your engagement! I relate to pushing people away. I hope this will change for me, too.
VSGis4me 1 year ago
do u ever think about getting married to him!!!
ivanan222 1 year ago
Relationships are hard. I'm learning the best relationships are the ones you fight for, fight through, and grow because of. Sounds like yours is strong - congratulations! :)
Sunnedae 1 year ago
Glad to hear things are better in your relationship. Thanks for putting it all out there.
thegerm1 1 year ago
My wife and I have talked about this also. I have heard that there is something like an 80% divorce rate for couples where one of them has WLS. My wife has been with me for 10 yrs while I was packing on pounds....I plan on giving her many more that that as a healthier me.
1courtdaddy 1 year ago
You were more attractive inside as well as outside. Yes, glad you realized where he was coming from. Great videos, Kristen! Have a wonderful, refreshing weekend with your family!
LoriA1162 1 year ago
Still garbled sound and green! lol I think we become more confident in ourselves with the weight off and it makes us more attractive to our spouses and everyone around us! So glad things are better and you are happy in your relationship!! Thanks for your honesty. There is a travelling wedding veil on youtube lol Hugz
tryshh 1 year ago
I feel like I am going through what you did during the beg of your weight loss. I feel like I have a lot of anger???or I just act as plain Bitch...and I also do not love myself, but I am starting too, but the changed that are happening in my relationship seem to be up and down at the time...I love my husband so much and very blessed to have him I hope that my weight loss helps me so it will help us...
thisisonlyatool 1 year ago
Thank you so much for sharing. I agree that feeling so terrible about yourself can truly affect a relationship. I'm so happy that you are better now and that your relationship has improved for the better. Congrats on the engagement. You look really great!
dottiemay71 1 year ago
pushing people away.. wow.. thats me now,i cant wait to change this about myself..
trenab44 1 year ago
Great Video~~I bet WLS has saved alot of relationships but unfortunately we only hear about how it ends some relationships.
I think it's all about us developing the self esteem and self love we needed so that we could in exchange love those around us more!
lapband23 1 year ago
I'm glad you guys made it through the rough times, you have a great outlook. Congrats to you for having an amazing relationship. I am learning that it will either make or break a relationship. Unfortunately my hubby doesnt want to wait which is fine because in the long run I can have a fresh start and be the best ME for someone who appreciates it. Thats me OBSESSED with gastric now. And even though we are not going to last as a couple, we are still good friends and he is being supportive.
krazyk624 1 year ago
I love your honesty! You are a catch my dear.
PatrinaStrippedBare 1 year ago