good to know a boy sees this. the first guy i truely loved acted liked me but trith was he liked seeing me so jazzed up about seeing him. total jerk right?? so glad we didnt go out.. 2nd boy was nice to me and asked me to dance so many times, so when he texted me my heart did this little dance. but when we started dating he was cold and cruel. hit me. not lying. HIT ME. so we didnt last. 3rd guy was so nice. for christmas he got me a little metal teddy bear with a HEART on the chest.
I am a girl, and I have been hurt my fair share of times but we as girls hurt the guys also. so maybe we should pay attention to that as well and not just bash the guys for breaking our hearts. We break hearts too ladies
what an amazing and beautiful video for an amazing song and thank you for saying it NikkiG43!! It's about abuse for sure but if you haven't gone thru it you don't know....
Ohhh..all of you gals..and guys..this song as was wonderfully shown in this particular video..... was and is about abuse... physical, mental, verbal, emotional.... reading your comments makes me smile for i know that you have not been through abuse. just heartache. which sucks.. believe me. but when there is abuse of the heart and mind and soul they are so much worse then even the physical.for physically u heal mentally emotionally you never can all the way,,,,
I know. I almost wish I had been physically abused rather than emotionally. I grew up with a father that told me I was ugly and stupid and never good enough. I grew to hate myself, convinced that he was right because he was the adult so he knew what he was talking about. It's been two years since I last stayed with him, but I still struggle with confidence each and every day. I never can regain that part of myself no matter how hard I try.
@cuppypeople323 trust me physicle does as much pain as emotional one diffrence is it makes you think you deserve to be hit and a friend of mine would probably take either of those over wat her dad did
U dont start thinkin about choices u have untill someone hurts u enough to make u lose love 4 them it will not get any better if a guy is using u he always will wanna get by with what u let him all along it is so hard to let go but remember his motives u can do better! Love urself most
my bf supporteded me loved me and it was all an act i figured out i was what he calle arm candy and i took it and still am taking it i feel like an idiot but i dont wanna loose him :`( WHAT SHOULD I DO!?!?!? i mean i feel like i should dump his sorry behind but idk HELP!!!!!
@lyra1314 thanks thts gonna be hard though cause i love him like crazy and he just doesnt love me after every promise of forever he goes and gets in bed with some clair and i just take it :(:(
cowboy this song is good. its good because it doesnt barcade on men over issues such as cheeting or lying or whatever. its like it doesnt need to degrate the man without any acusations except for the fact that the girl gave all her love, and she was hurt... badly... i love that* i love how you captured the feeling without..... ya kno, callin him out.... ya kno.... ??? well all of you kno wut i mean.
This is a touching song and a remarkable video. I agree with the comments that guys are just as vulnerable with their hearts. My heart was deeply wounded with the betrayal and ultimate divorce of my wife, my best friend. That's just part of it though. Gotta learn to pick ourselves up and start again.
DONT READ THIS CAUSE IT ACTULLY WORKS. YOU WILL BE KISSED ON THE NEAREST POSSIBLE FRIDAY BY THE LOVE OF YOUR LIFE TOMMOROW WILL BE THE BEST DAY OF YOUR LIFE. HOWEVER IF YOU DO NOT POST THIS COMMENT TO AT LEAST 3 VIDEOS YOU WILL DIE WITHIN 2 DAYS. NOW UV STARTED READING THIS SO DUNT STOP. THIS IS SO SCARY PUT THIS ON AT LEAST 5 VIDEOS IN 143 MINUTES WHEN UR DONE PRESS F6 AND UR LOVERS NAME WILL APPEAR ON THE SCREEN IN BIG LETTERS THIS IS SO SCARY CAUSE
this isn't all about a girl, it's mostly about a guy who makes the mistake of treating the girl in a way that she shouldn't have been treated. he realizes the way he treated her was bad and regrets it, showing that when situations like that DO happen, the guy probably feels remorse for what he did and wishes he wouldn't have done such a thing
I am a very stupid boy i lost the one i truley loved and still do after 7 months of pain and hard ake its kills me not being with her. i hurt her so bad and i just wish i could take it all back
You have to realize that girls hurt guys too... I just had a serious relationship break up cuz my ex chose some rocker punk over me.... :-( guys feel the same pain as well.. we just dont always show it as often in front of people...
@hunterlover1018 thank you. It hurt at first... but I realized soon enough that things happen for a reason... I met someone new and were takin things slow. which is good for both of us.. :-)
Back then, my ex friend and I were really good friends, until when the days went by, he always became very negative, disrespectful, selfish, braggy, over dramatic, infantile, and spoiled.
I hate him to molecules now. Because of all that rotten bullshit he's done and said.
As for him, he just hates me now because I hate him.
There's a great book, if you think you may be being abused. It's Called the "Spider and the Fly" by Ruth Raffaeli . "How to spot the signs and symptoms of abuse and how to stop it". You can usually find it used in paperback on Amazon. You would be surprised, some of the behaviors you see as Jealous, or Possessive ... may be signs of abuse.
beautiful video! Keith Urban sings this song amazingly and with such conviction. im a singer/songwriter from louisiana and if you would like to stop by my channel and listen to my recent cover of this song 'stupid boy' i would greatly appreciate it! thank you so much :)
Great song. But I don't understand why women who get verbally abused just cease their relationships with their assailents. I see plenty of women being demoralised by men just take it.
because we are sweet, and lovable creatures, who love them so much wen they are nice, so we look past the bad, and only c the good, and blame ourselves for what they did because we cnt stand it to think tht the ones we love are bad ppl, so blame ourselves. no ik its stupid of us but its true.
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i use to beat my gf, and call her names and get mad when that bitch would go to the kitchen without makin me a sammich when she did that i would punch her dog in the kugelsac........i could of never been so wrong i still love you jessica </3
I have hurt the girl i loved verbally and mentally and i am sorry for all the things i said to her i was the biggest dooshbag ever! I have changed and admit my wrongs. I just hope things turn out better for her!!! Sorry Caitlin!! I was wrong!
Well my boyfriend and I broke up for a stupid reason, because we kinds stopped talking for a little while. And then he tried to say it was all my fault. But yeah that makes me think everything he said was a lie, like that he wanted us to last forever and then he said he loved me so much! What a lie! :/ But im over it now.
I used to be that boy. That guy that was causing all the pain and turmoil. I never knew how much I was hurting her. Physically? no never not even once but mentally. I've never ever cheated either. Obviously, this cannot be an excuse but I never realized how badly I treated her until after we broke up. I just wish she knew how much I've changed since then. I'm sorry Rachel :(
yeah talk about dooshbag (er however you spell it). but i agree, most of us are. sometimes it embarrasses me when i see guys acting like that cuz those jerks create the stereotype. any guy who doesn't treat a woman w/ upmost respect and dignity, i HATE
yes guys like that put bad names on all of you cause once one guy does it to that one girl she will find it hard to trust another guy like myself i havn't so much got close to a guy sence that can't bring myself to trust them and i hate that i really do when guys do this to girls they don't realize how much they hurt them shure it's all laught and games but not to the one your hurting some people end up killing there self over this stuff cause it really do hurt and guys will never understand
i am a boy and even i agree with that boys do think that the are bigger and beter but i think that girls are more intelagent and they do more hard work than boys do.
GURLS guys should never hit you ever if that happens leve him if they love you they wouldnt hit you gurls stik up for yourself they make us cry but there no one in the world that sould hit you ever stand up fopr the gurls that cant stand up for there selfs
So now i can't lie about "Really, bad relationships" iv had, cuz i hav't had any. But-But-to people who have it's an awesome song. NO ONE can break a girl down, thats so NOT WHAT HAPPENS. Ya, cuz when someone get older ya cant break them down after everything the'v done to achieve life, in that matter. Ya know what im saying?
@Blentastic thats so true. some guys are so sweet, and kind, and some females take advantage of their sweetness. but there are those few males that mess it up for all the guys.
this is so true, amen. boys think they can do what ever they want to girls. and once you start runnibg dont ever turn back to them. and dont let them make you or break you. emphisis on the brake you.
95% of teens would cry if they saw the Jonas Brothers at the top of a skyscraper about to jump. Copy and paste this EVERYWHERE if you are in the 5% that would shout 'Jump'
there´s a thing called story board, is when you make a graphic sequence of a program, or a video... this could be a story board of a great video for the song... by the way, your poem is veeeery good... and the video... congrats!
this is a great video! i think that guys should watch this and realize that they need to change and stop hurting u9s girls! they don't understand how much pain we go through because of them and they need to!
@iwanamakeadifference i get that some guys are jerks and break girls hearts, but girls can break a heart too, and i think its sexist to say that all guys are heartbreakers and that all girls are too delicate to deal with emotions
freaked me out. so girls choose your boyfriends carefully. if u want revenge, go right ahead.
foreverAbatey 1 day ago
good to know a boy sees this. the first guy i truely loved acted liked me but trith was he liked seeing me so jazzed up about seeing him. total jerk right?? so glad we didnt go out.. 2nd boy was nice to me and asked me to dance so many times, so when he texted me my heart did this little dance. but when we started dating he was cold and cruel. hit me. not lying. HIT ME. so we didnt last. 3rd guy was so nice. for christmas he got me a little metal teddy bear with a HEART on the chest.
foreverAbatey 1 day ago
love is for sukkaz u losers :D
deadlyNytshayd 1 week ago
Thanks for standing up for girls, Mallory! Love the song and your video. Nk<3 ))))
heartreachnataliek 1 month ago
I am a girl, and I have been hurt my fair share of times but we as girls hurt the guys also. so maybe we should pay attention to that as well and not just bash the guys for breaking our hearts. We break hearts too ladies
TheHaleyMax 2 months ago
what an amazing and beautiful video for an amazing song and thank you for saying it NikkiG43!! It's about abuse for sure but if you haven't gone thru it you don't know....
sunshinemommy414 6 months ago
Ohhh..all of you gals..and guys..this song as was wonderfully shown in this particular video..... was and is about abuse... physical, mental, verbal, emotional.... reading your comments makes me smile for i know that you have not been through abuse. just heartache. which sucks.. believe me. but when there is abuse of the heart and mind and soul they are so much worse then even the physical.for physically u heal mentally emotionally you never can all the way,,,,
NikkiG43 6 months ago
@NikkiG43
I know. I almost wish I had been physically abused rather than emotionally. I grew up with a father that told me I was ugly and stupid and never good enough. I grew to hate myself, convinced that he was right because he was the adult so he knew what he was talking about. It's been two years since I last stayed with him, but I still struggle with confidence each and every day. I never can regain that part of myself no matter how hard I try.
cuppypeople323 2 months ago
@cuppypeople323 trust me physicle does as much pain as emotional one diffrence is it makes you think you deserve to be hit and a friend of mine would probably take either of those over wat her dad did
lyra1314 2 months ago
U dont start thinkin about choices u have untill someone hurts u enough to make u lose love 4 them it will not get any better if a guy is using u he always will wanna get by with what u let him all along it is so hard to let go but remember his motives u can do better! Love urself most
bettysueward1 7 months ago
my bf supporteded me loved me and it was all an act i figured out i was what he calle arm candy and i took it and still am taking it i feel like an idiot but i dont wanna loose him :`( WHAT SHOULD I DO!?!?!? i mean i feel like i should dump his sorry behind but idk HELP!!!!!
GLHismybuddie 8 months ago
@GLHismybuddie tell him he doesnt deserve u and to go screw cause he really doesnt deserve any girl if he acts that way
lyra1314 2 months ago
@lyra1314 thanks thts gonna be hard though cause i love him like crazy and he just doesnt love me after every promise of forever he goes and gets in bed with some clair and i just take it :(:(
GLHismybuddie 2 months ago
@GLHismybuddie well then he dont deserve you and yes it will be hard but u can do it
lyra1314 1 month ago
girls..... dont do a man bad, no matter what he does to u. get even by LEAVING.
its simple. dont stoop down..... (ive learned that)
mcolumbia420 8 months ago
cowboy this song is good. its good because it doesnt barcade on men over issues such as cheeting or lying or whatever. its like it doesnt need to degrate the man without any acusations except for the fact that the girl gave all her love, and she was hurt... badly... i love that* i love how you captured the feeling without..... ya kno, callin him out.... ya kno.... ??? well all of you kno wut i mean.
good stuff.
mcolumbia420 8 months ago
This is a touching song and a remarkable video. I agree with the comments that guys are just as vulnerable with their hearts. My heart was deeply wounded with the betrayal and ultimate divorce of my wife, my best friend. That's just part of it though. Gotta learn to pick ourselves up and start again.
cww75493 8 months ago
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syd5223 9 months ago
this isn't all about a girl, it's mostly about a guy who makes the mistake of treating the girl in a way that she shouldn't have been treated. he realizes the way he treated her was bad and regrets it, showing that when situations like that DO happen, the guy probably feels remorse for what he did and wishes he wouldn't have done such a thing
jhofff14 11 months ago
I love this song!
TheDoctorWhoFan01 1 year ago
one thing this video made me realize is i had to b hurt i had to cry to beable to b happy again
kittymlittle 1 year ago
I am a very stupid boy i lost the one i truley loved and still do after 7 months of pain and hard ake its kills me not being with her. i hurt her so bad and i just wish i could take it all back
I STILL LOVE U BABE
Dilly6bar9 1 year ago
nneds work
Laine9505 1 year ago
You have to realize that girls hurt guys too... I just had a serious relationship break up cuz my ex chose some rocker punk over me.... :-( guys feel the same pain as well.. we just dont always show it as often in front of people...
reaperstablet 1 year ago
@reaperstablet i am so srry that happend to u
hunterlover1018 1 year ago
@hunterlover1018 thank you. It hurt at first... but I realized soon enough that things happen for a reason... I met someone new and were takin things slow. which is good for both of us.. :-)
reaperstablet 1 year ago
i agree but girls can make boys cry and depressed too remember that
lvlakromose 1 year ago
@lvlakromose That's true.
Inside we're all the same.
genchandy 1 year ago
FUCK D BAGS!!!!!!!!!
icecreamloverr00 1 year ago
I'm sorry, Kaitlyn. I love you. -Ryan F.
ryanfoster55 1 year ago
really deep meaningful song, great job on the video if thats ur writing its real pretty
in a situation like this, pretty much for the girl its a happy ending in the end but as for the boy.
cant say the same i suppose, but its hard to feel sorry for the boy.
MajorHarvestMoonFan 1 year ago
these are really great shots, talented
Monint2 1 year ago
a girl in my class told me about this song ... and im a boy and I am not stupid ... (anyone know what 2x2 is)
freakozola21 1 year ago
Back then, my ex friend and I were really good friends, until when the days went by, he always became very negative, disrespectful, selfish, braggy, over dramatic, infantile, and spoiled.
I hate him to molecules now. Because of all that rotten bullshit he's done and said.
As for him, he just hates me now because I hate him.
Stupid Boy....
genchandy 1 year ago
There's a great book, if you think you may be being abused. It's Called the "Spider and the Fly" by Ruth Raffaeli . "How to spot the signs and symptoms of abuse and how to stop it". You can usually find it used in paperback on Amazon. You would be surprised, some of the behaviors you see as Jealous, or Possessive ... may be signs of abuse.
colotrumpet 2 years ago
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beautiful video! Keith Urban sings this song amazingly and with such conviction. im a singer/songwriter from louisiana and if you would like to stop by my channel and listen to my recent cover of this song 'stupid boy' i would greatly appreciate it! thank you so much :)
ctopherjam 2 years ago
Great song. But I don't understand why women who get verbally abused just cease their relationships with their assailents. I see plenty of women being demoralised by men just take it.
mediblue9 2 years ago
because we are sweet, and lovable creatures, who love them so much wen they are nice, so we look past the bad, and only c the good, and blame ourselves for what they did because we cnt stand it to think tht the ones we love are bad ppl, so blame ourselves. no ik its stupid of us but its true.
breakingbrilliance08 2 years ago
Norkorvu....you are calling her bitch?? How can you love someone and call her names? that in it self is abuse....get a clue
PrincessWildfire 2 years ago 2
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i use to beat my gf, and call her names and get mad when that bitch would go to the kitchen without makin me a sammich when she did that i would punch her dog in the kugelsac........i could of never been so wrong i still love you jessica </3
Norkorvu 2 years ago
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tigerhottie123 2 years ago
I have hurt the girl i loved verbally and mentally and i am sorry for all the things i said to her i was the biggest dooshbag ever! I have changed and admit my wrongs. I just hope things turn out better for her!!! Sorry Caitlin!! I was wrong!
tigerhottie123 2 years ago
Well my boyfriend and I broke up for a stupid reason, because we kinds stopped talking for a little while. And then he tried to say it was all my fault. But yeah that makes me think everything he said was a lie, like that he wanted us to last forever and then he said he loved me so much! What a lie! :/ But im over it now.
15countrygurl 2 years ago
@15countrygurl I had the same thing happen to me and my now x-boyfriend around a week ago but im not over it yet
macdnina258 2 years ago
I used to be that boy. That guy that was causing all the pain and turmoil. I never knew how much I was hurting her. Physically? no never not even once but mentally. I've never ever cheated either. Obviously, this cannot be an excuse but I never realized how badly I treated her until after we broke up. I just wish she knew how much I've changed since then. I'm sorry Rachel :(
zeroskater720 2 years ago
My boyfriend bumped me on My sweetsixteen And told me At My party that He cheated on Me five Times and that same night him and my cousin hooked up ..
so yeah STUPID BOY :(
some guys are jerks " But not All Of them" Most of them
TashaNicoleCarroll1 2 years ago
yeah talk about dooshbag (er however you spell it). but i agree, most of us are. sometimes it embarrasses me when i see guys acting like that cuz those jerks create the stereotype. any guy who doesn't treat a woman w/ upmost respect and dignity, i HATE
jhofff14 2 years ago
yes guys like that put bad names on all of you cause once one guy does it to that one girl she will find it hard to trust another guy like myself i havn't so much got close to a guy sence that can't bring myself to trust them and i hate that i really do when guys do this to girls they don't realize how much they hurt them shure it's all laught and games but not to the one your hurting some people end up killing there self over this stuff cause it really do hurt and guys will never understand
TashaNicoleCarroll1 2 years ago
same here.
women: there are good guys out there trust me.
jhofff14 2 years ago
are they?
portugualese 2 years ago
i am a boy and that is so true i would never make my girl friend or wife do what i want if i want somthing i will get it girls need a brake
robert32087 2 years ago
i am a boy and even i agree with that boys do think that the are bigger and beter but i think that girls are more intelagent and they do more hard work than boys do.
robert32087 2 years ago
not all guys are like that.....
jhofff14 2 years ago
Im a girl and thats shady he shouldnt have done that
TJSGIRL11 2 years ago
i am a boy and hell ya you go
robert32087 2 years ago
its rough man some messed up girls out there
Blentastic 2 years ago
GURLS guys should never hit you ever if that happens leve him if they love you they wouldnt hit you gurls stik up for yourself they make us cry but there no one in the world that sould hit you ever stand up fopr the gurls that cant stand up for there selfs
blankenshipashlyn 2 years ago
So now i can't lie about "Really, bad relationships" iv had, cuz i hav't had any. But-But-to people who have it's an awesome song. NO ONE can break a girl down, thats so NOT WHAT HAPPENS. Ya, cuz when someone get older ya cant break them down after everything the'v done to achieve life, in that matter. Ya know what im saying?
turnipkitty 2 years ago
my gf left me and cheated on me while i was in a coma we were 2 years together....were not the monsters ppl make us out to be you know
Blentastic 2 years ago 4
@Blentastic thats so true. some guys are so sweet, and kind, and some females take advantage of their sweetness. but there are those few males that mess it up for all the guys.
Daarkangel92 1 month ago
@Daarkangel92 Unfortunately this is true
Blentastic 1 month ago
i luv this song<3! but its so sad ;(
iclairebear4 2 years ago 2
i love the poem you wrote.
KaitliGrace504 2 years ago
i love the video! and the song is amazingg. <3 <3
spikedKD 2 years ago
this is so true, amen. boys think they can do what ever they want to girls. and once you start runnibg dont ever turn back to them. and dont let them make you or break you. emphisis on the brake you.
mfkay013 2 years ago 3
I mean great lol i type to fast.
diva4u100 2 years ago
graet.
diva4u100 2 years ago
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GoldenButterscoch 2 years ago
...AMEN...
wannabehick1 2 years ago
there´s a thing called story board, is when you make a graphic sequence of a program, or a video... this could be a story board of a great video for the song... by the way, your poem is veeeery good... and the video... congrats!
Lalito58 3 years ago
hey.
i like this video...musta took you a long time. but i love it. =]
cassie11270 3 years ago
this is a great video! i think that guys should watch this and realize that they need to change and stop hurting u9s girls! they don't understand how much pain we go through because of them and they need to!
iwanamakeadifference 3 years ago 10
@iwanamakeadifference i get that some guys are jerks and break girls hearts, but girls can break a heart too, and i think its sexist to say that all guys are heartbreakers and that all girls are too delicate to deal with emotions
linzRWJ 1 year ago
@iwanamakeadifference LOVE.
adr1239 1 year ago
@iwanamakeadifference That goes both ways
TheCarolinaLegend 8 months ago