my advice is to that woman is to pray for total reconciliation and if her marriage is not restored then it's best for her to move on and know that god has something greater because he does not shut one door and not open up another wait on god my sister and be encouraged.
@sosoblessed1/Thanks for your response back also you are very beautiful inside and out have a blessed day.Bytheway I will continue to watch & support your videos awesome review & amazeing topics keep speaking truth through your videos stay wonderful peace!..
I would advise her to pray for reconciliation...As she prays and has those around her praying for her marriage to be restored, she should be striving to live out her biblical role as a Godly wife. Respecting, submitting, and loving her husband. He may be won to the Lord by observing her Godly conduct. 1 Peter 3:1-3
"God has something better for you" is conventional world.wisdom and maybe even church wisdom, but not true Biblical wisdom. god's Word says that the Lord will hold us to our vows. anyone who has been divorced commits adulty if they remarry. that we are to remain unmarried or be reconciled and to forgive seventy times seven. Your hands may be tied but God's hands are not. he can chnage a persons heart when we cannot, but it may take time. remarriage is NEVER a Biblical option. we are to r
ave you noticed in the Word where it says remain married or be ye recociled.? Or anyone who marries someone who has been divorced commits adultery? Orr even though she is married she is called an adulteress?
My Wife Left Me, Commit Adultery With Some Guy Who Was Throwing It Up In My Face Online, Lied In The Divorce Papers, Became A Witch and Now She Stalkes Me Online Now. I dont know what her deal Is But I have GREAT Sympathy For Anyone Who Has Suffered Thru A Divorce. I Found Your Video Very Enlightening. Please Keep Doing What You Do and Be Blessed.
@KyngMegz wow, you've gone through. Keep on having a great attitude of kindness. Sounds like your wife's loss of a good husband. thank you for watching and sharing. be blessed
My husband did the same thing but let me tell you we were only together so that the Lord could get me ready for the husband that I have today .My past prepared for today so do like I did tell him to give you some POUND and keep it moving!!!!. MY GOD LOOKS HIGH AND LOW.
@TheDLLk LOL, I love your perspective. sometimes some people are only for a season to prepare you for the greater blessing. I'm glad you got your greater blessing :) thanks for watching and commenting
@sosoblessed1, I just uploaded a video on reconciliation before divorce and the one thing I didnt say,which I should have is this...reconciliation is always God's first choice but, you cannot reconcile to yourself! So if the other party is not willing to be in Gods will and reconcile then your hands are tied! I was married for 13 years and it was a disaster except for my children but like, TheDLLK said it prepared me for my husband today. God always has a ram in the bush! God bless
@TheTrinity4lifetruth you are so right, reconciliation is God's first choice, he does NOT choose divorce as an option for us. I'm glad you were blessed with that ram lol. thank you for watching and sharing your wisdom and experience
this exact same thing happened to me very recently. He has been with her for years I've learned. I'm grieving like a death. This vid I've listened to a dozen times, shared it and it is really uplifting, especially since this is so incredibly hard. I wish for the perfect will of course, but there still are days when I want the permissive. I review this post and reconsider..hoping for Perfect. Thank you.
@lauraleigh76 I'm sorry to hear that you've had to go through this. I hope things are getting better for you. Please let me know. May God comfort and bless you. thank you for watching and sharing your heart
@Blacqsugga thank you for watching and commenting. Also, I love your channel name because that's what my GrandFather nicknamed my cousin, who was dark skinned and sweet, Blacksugga :) They are both now deceased, so your name brought back sweet memories, thanks :)
My husband just anounced he wants a divorce after him losing his job and he just got his job after 2 years and now he wanted out because he is unhappy. I am sad. He has no interest in my children and has bipolar disorder. He has put me through this before. I love him and am sad. very sad. but I need to move on and make a stable life for my children. I prayed 2 days to God that if this marriage was worth saving to give me a sign. yesterday my husband came home and said it is over. I
@pandabead I'm so sorry to hear about your situation. I don't know if your status is still the same, but I pray God's best for you. As best you can, stay strong and take good care of those babies, that's most important. God will do the rest. Thanks for sharing. be blessed
Thank you so so so so much for these words, i know you didnt speak them especially for me but this video has helped women all over the world try and get through some of the toughest times of their life. And your kind words have definitely helped me. Me and my husband are trying again,
@brittanyhart11 you're welcome and thank you for watching. I pray all the best to you and your husband. through your love for each other and God's love, there can be reconciliation. be blessed
I really feel for any woman who has had her husband leave...this happened to me years back but i'm here to say with each day it gets just abit easier...you will survive...Trust in God and he will carry you through!
@bornblond9gb from what I've see/heard from friends, it's a devastating loss, but through Christ, healing is possible. thank you for watching and commenting
Thank you SO much for this video! I am sending you a big 'ol cyber hug because I can't tell you how much I needed to hear these words. God bless you for delivering this message to several of us who are hurting. = )
my husband just left he call the police and tooldem that he want to leave.he didnt have to do that in front of my kids ,my 16 year old cry,and he said hes a cristian and he left he tould me all the time that he didnt love me ,and stay for 9 years and he just left ,im belive in god i love god and hes not going to leave me my and my kids hare broken, right now pray for us
I'm praying for you and your family and I'm sorry you're going through this. You will be better than ok as time passes. Just keep your faith in God and love on your children. be blessed
If a man leave you, I agree don't beg him to stay or ask him too I never done that & hopefully, I never will I do think U should ask him why he is going not bcos he might or might not tell U the truth bcos it's appropriate Some PPL R honest&will tell U the truth ya dig? I disagree with faking anything bcos holding things in will drive you crazy I think You still show strenght fight 4 it not 2 bring U down&constantly pray bcos prayer can bring U out of anything I'm not attacking U I'm being real
Good advice..I tell people this all the time..having had a man come back I know that these things are true..show him u r stronger.Some people are roots while others are braches and leaves.Thank u for sharing this video..I am sure u have helped more people than u know.
I really liked how you pointed out that there may be another blessing behind her husband leaving her. Saving her from a fate unbeknowing to her. I know that praying for clarity of a situation can often show us that we are really being protected. I hope this sister will pray for clarity first then move from that path to her heart's desire.
very well said. I'm sure it's confusing knowing what to pray for in that situation, but praying for clarity for God's will can answer all. thank you for your comment. be blessed
that's a hard one. that was my situation, but I recommend for her even though there's lots of pain, it's best to move on. it's horrible situation either road to take, but in the end, she'll be happier.
yep, often when we're in the storm we can't see the possibility of happiness, but God can heal and happiness can be found again, and often even more joy than you ever had. sorry you had to go through it as well.
oh wow, you're the first person ever told me that ref the ipod. I don't even know how that works, but i REALLY appreciate that. wow, I'm blusing...but about God's goodness that He's allowing me to reach people and Y'all are receiving me in love. thank you
Most men think the grass in greener on the other side until they find out it really is especially around the septic tank! We will be praying for your friend SoSoblessed.
May PPL also respect PPL R real and upfrontDonly guys who want a woman 2 act fake isa fake guy or immature 1 at that Also, No Real Man or Real Human Being would leave a woman bcos she is suffering from Depression or any illness@ that More then likely her depression is caused from someting in the marriage Like U said in urearlier videosUhave2communicate w/guys & tell them what U want I think couples should have greatcommunication&honesty If her man left her4another chick she should pray4God'swill
Actually, sis... it's not going to work out for us as a couple ever again. New developments have destroyed any chance of that...BUT I WILL survive this. I just have to find out how. lol God has worked miracles in my life...one is not allowing me to lose my everloving mind.
I thank you for the message contained in your video. How true your words are.
I've heard that it can make you almost lose your mind, and some have. So I know what you mean when you said He's blessed you not to lose it. When i said I know it will work out, I meant either way, I know you will be healed and will flourish. thank you for the update and you're welcome
She may feel as if her entire world is crashing around her, but sometimes these things are a blessing in disguise. If I were married and my husband left me I would help him pack and wish him good luck. The best revenge is success pray every day and take it easy it will not be a smooth road but eventually the pain will go away! That woman may have done her a big favor, now he's her problem!!
My mom always told me there are two things you can give your children/spouse...roots and wings. If you stood there before God and everyone and recited those vows and meant them with all of your heart and have stayed true to only him.. the seeds you planted build the roots.. you have no control over how that tree grows but if you planted it and nurtured it right then you have to leave it to God. Give him wings, he's apparently already tested them out. God Bless you and good luck!
Dee you are a very bright woman and this video was very kind and well spoken. Nice to see you! I agree that God has a plan and even though it is hard not to want what it is that you think you want, you must at all times let God have the wheel! HUGS xoxoxo
wow, I really appreciate those kind words. I know it is extremely hard to surrender to God's will, but it is ALWAYS the best way to go. So often the husband, job, child, etc that we want is not God's will, but ALL things work together for good to them that love the Lord. :) thank you for watching and commenting. be blessed
my advice is to that woman is to pray for total reconciliation and if her marriage is not restored then it's best for her to move on and know that god has something greater because he does not shut one door and not open up another wait on god my sister and be encouraged.
KiyaRose92 1 month ago
@KiyaRose92 very wise words. I agree whole-heartedly. Thank you for watching and offering such poignant advice. be blessed
sosoblessed1 1 month ago
@sosoblessed1/Thanks for your response back also you are very beautiful inside and out have a blessed day.Bytheway I will continue to watch & support your videos awesome review & amazeing topics keep speaking truth through your videos stay wonderful peace!..
KiyaRose92 1 month ago
@KiyaRose92 Thank you so much. I really appreciate your kindness
sosoblessed1 1 month ago
@sosoblessed1/you are very welcome blessings!.
KiyaRose92 1 month ago
I would advise her to pray for reconciliation...As she prays and has those around her praying for her marriage to be restored, she should be striving to live out her biblical role as a Godly wife. Respecting, submitting, and loving her husband. He may be won to the Lord by observing her Godly conduct. 1 Peter 3:1-3
Hectoralana3 1 month ago
@Hectoralana3 awesome advice, thank you!!!
sosoblessed1 1 month ago
"God has something better for you" is conventional world.wisdom and maybe even church wisdom, but not true Biblical wisdom. god's Word says that the Lord will hold us to our vows. anyone who has been divorced commits adulty if they remarry. that we are to remain unmarried or be reconciled and to forgive seventy times seven. Your hands may be tied but God's hands are not. he can chnage a persons heart when we cannot, but it may take time. remarriage is NEVER a Biblical option. we are to r
moped81 2 months ago
@moped81 thank you for watching and sharing your valuable insight
sosoblessed1 2 months ago
ave you noticed in the Word where it says remain married or be ye recociled.? Or anyone who marries someone who has been divorced commits adultery? Orr even though she is married she is called an adulteress?
moped81 2 months ago
Time to move on :( It's hard, but once he cheats, he will always do it.
omgitsbrooke1 2 months ago
move on!! god took him out of ur life for a reason! only god know what you need b4 you do .
metrocard09 4 months ago
@metrocard09 Amen
sosoblessed1 4 months ago
Thank you...
kelshaleanne 5 months ago
@kelshaleanne thanks for watching
sosoblessed1 4 months ago
My Wife Left Me, Commit Adultery With Some Guy Who Was Throwing It Up In My Face Online, Lied In The Divorce Papers, Became A Witch and Now She Stalkes Me Online Now. I dont know what her deal Is But I have GREAT Sympathy For Anyone Who Has Suffered Thru A Divorce. I Found Your Video Very Enlightening. Please Keep Doing What You Do and Be Blessed.
KyngMegz 5 months ago
@KyngMegz wow, you've gone through. Keep on having a great attitude of kindness. Sounds like your wife's loss of a good husband. thank you for watching and sharing. be blessed
sosoblessed1 4 months ago
My husband did the same thing but let me tell you we were only together so that the Lord could get me ready for the husband that I have today .My past prepared for today so do like I did tell him to give you some POUND and keep it moving!!!!. MY GOD LOOKS HIGH AND LOW.
TheDLLk 6 months ago
@TheDLLk LOL, I love your perspective. sometimes some people are only for a season to prepare you for the greater blessing. I'm glad you got your greater blessing :) thanks for watching and commenting
sosoblessed1 5 months ago
@sosoblessed1, I just uploaded a video on reconciliation before divorce and the one thing I didnt say,which I should have is this...reconciliation is always God's first choice but, you cannot reconcile to yourself! So if the other party is not willing to be in Gods will and reconcile then your hands are tied! I was married for 13 years and it was a disaster except for my children but like, TheDLLK said it prepared me for my husband today. God always has a ram in the bush! God bless
TheTrinity4lifetruth 5 months ago
@TheTrinity4lifetruth you are so right, reconciliation is God's first choice, he does NOT choose divorce as an option for us. I'm glad you were blessed with that ram lol. thank you for watching and sharing your wisdom and experience
sosoblessed1 4 months ago
Thank you
agreatmom3 8 months ago
you should just not pay any attention to religion. i swear, this world would be unbelievable.
beakerr100 8 months ago
@tttmiller54 thank you. I appreciate that
sosoblessed1 9 months ago
this exact same thing happened to me very recently. He has been with her for years I've learned. I'm grieving like a death. This vid I've listened to a dozen times, shared it and it is really uplifting, especially since this is so incredibly hard. I wish for the perfect will of course, but there still are days when I want the permissive. I review this post and reconsider..hoping for Perfect. Thank you.
lauraleigh76 10 months ago
@lauraleigh76 I'm sorry to hear that you've had to go through this. I hope things are getting better for you. Please let me know. May God comfort and bless you. thank you for watching and sharing your heart
sosoblessed1 9 months ago
thank you so very much. This helped me.
lauraleigh76 10 months ago
@lauraleigh76 you're welcome
sosoblessed1 9 months ago
This is not really on target, it's God's perfect will for man and woman to work out their problems and stay married.
dboydustin 1 year ago
@dboydustin thank you for watching and sharing your input
sosoblessed1 1 year ago
@sosoblessed1 Was the woman cheated on? If you are allowed to say.
dboydustin 1 year ago
@dboydustin yes, the woman was cheated on
sosoblessed1 1 year ago
@sosoblessed1 Well then...she does have every right to leave him.
dboydustin 1 year ago
I want God's Perfect Will!
alihr787 1 year ago
@alihr787 Amen!
sosoblessed1 1 year ago
I agree with all that you said . I lived this first hand and I truely had to fake it until I made it.
Blacqsugga 1 year ago
@Blacqsugga thank you for watching and commenting. Also, I love your channel name because that's what my GrandFather nicknamed my cousin, who was dark skinned and sweet, Blacksugga :) They are both now deceased, so your name brought back sweet memories, thanks :)
sosoblessed1 1 year ago
My husband just anounced he wants a divorce after him losing his job and he just got his job after 2 years and now he wanted out because he is unhappy. I am sad. He has no interest in my children and has bipolar disorder. He has put me through this before. I love him and am sad. very sad. but I need to move on and make a stable life for my children. I prayed 2 days to God that if this marriage was worth saving to give me a sign. yesterday my husband came home and said it is over. I
pandabead 1 year ago
@pandabead I'm so sorry to hear about your situation. I don't know if your status is still the same, but I pray God's best for you. As best you can, stay strong and take good care of those babies, that's most important. God will do the rest. Thanks for sharing. be blessed
sosoblessed1 1 year ago
your amazing:)
sayjessytwice 1 year ago
@sayjessytwice aww, and you're kind, thank you :)
sosoblessed1 1 year ago
THAT IS TOTALLY CORRECTED.
SHEILAANDKURLTON 1 year ago
Thank you so so so so much for these words, i know you didnt speak them especially for me but this video has helped women all over the world try and get through some of the toughest times of their life. And your kind words have definitely helped me. Me and my husband are trying again,
brittanyhart11 1 year ago
@brittanyhart11 you're welcome and thank you for watching. I pray all the best to you and your husband. through your love for each other and God's love, there can be reconciliation. be blessed
sosoblessed1 1 year ago
I really feel for any woman who has had her husband leave...this happened to me years back but i'm here to say with each day it gets just abit easier...you will survive...Trust in God and he will carry you through!
bornblond9gb 1 year ago 2
@bornblond9gb from what I've see/heard from friends, it's a devastating loss, but through Christ, healing is possible. thank you for watching and commenting
sosoblessed1 1 year ago
Agreeing with livingmybestlife. The grass is NOT greener. Nice video. Thank you.
ladrev1257 1 year ago
@ladrev1257 exactly! thanks for watching
sosoblessed1 1 year ago
wise words.
sahnie82 2 years ago
thank you
sosoblessed1 2 years ago
Thank you SO much for this video! I am sending you a big 'ol cyber hug because I can't tell you how much I needed to hear these words. God bless you for delivering this message to several of us who are hurting. = )
justlovingme 2 years ago
you're welcome and thank for watching and commenting. I pray that it will all work out for your good. :) be blessed
sosoblessed1 2 years ago
my husband just left he call the police and tooldem that he want to leave.he didnt have to do that in front of my kids ,my 16 year old cry,and he said hes a cristian and he left he tould me all the time that he didnt love me ,and stay for 9 years and he just left ,im belive in god i love god and hes not going to leave me my and my kids hare broken, right now pray for us
33and4 2 years ago
I'm praying for you and your family and I'm sorry you're going through this. You will be better than ok as time passes. Just keep your faith in God and love on your children. be blessed
sosoblessed1 2 years ago
If a man leave you, I agree don't beg him to stay or ask him too I never done that & hopefully, I never will I do think U should ask him why he is going not bcos he might or might not tell U the truth bcos it's appropriate Some PPL R honest&will tell U the truth ya dig? I disagree with faking anything bcos holding things in will drive you crazy I think You still show strenght fight 4 it not 2 bring U down&constantly pray bcos prayer can bring U out of anything I'm not attacking U I'm being real
RealQueen4L 2 years ago
thanks for watching and commenting.
sosoblessed1 2 years ago
Good advice..I tell people this all the time..having had a man come back I know that these things are true..show him u r stronger.Some people are roots while others are braches and leaves.Thank u for sharing this video..I am sure u have helped more people than u know.
artistnme4life 2 years ago
thank you. I sure hope I was able to help someone. I appreciate hearing from someone who's gone through it and had a reconciliation. be blessed
sosoblessed1 2 years ago
Great video, advice was great. God bless
silkyzone1 2 years ago
thank you
sosoblessed1 2 years ago
I really liked how you pointed out that there may be another blessing behind her husband leaving her. Saving her from a fate unbeknowing to her. I know that praying for clarity of a situation can often show us that we are really being protected. I hope this sister will pray for clarity first then move from that path to her heart's desire.
ladyvm123 2 years ago
very well said. I'm sure it's confusing knowing what to pray for in that situation, but praying for clarity for God's will can answer all. thank you for your comment. be blessed
sosoblessed1 2 years ago
that's a hard one. that was my situation, but I recommend for her even though there's lots of pain, it's best to move on. it's horrible situation either road to take, but in the end, she'll be happier.
artofbrowneyedgirl 2 years ago
yep, often when we're in the storm we can't see the possibility of happiness, but God can heal and happiness can be found again, and often even more joy than you ever had. sorry you had to go through it as well.
sosoblessed1 2 years ago
GREAT advice I really enjoy watching your videos I download them to my ipod & watch them at work...Thank You
1973nacole1983 2 years ago
oh wow, you're the first person ever told me that ref the ipod. I don't even know how that works, but i REALLY appreciate that. wow, I'm blusing...but about God's goodness that He's allowing me to reach people and Y'all are receiving me in love. thank you
sosoblessed1 2 years ago
Most men think the grass in greener on the other side until they find out it really is especially around the septic tank! We will be praying for your friend SoSoblessed.
livinmybestlife 2 years ago 5
yes, you are so right. there's definitely a reason why that grass is greener. thank you
sosoblessed1 2 years ago
May PPL also respect PPL R real and upfrontDonly guys who want a woman 2 act fake isa fake guy or immature 1 at that Also, No Real Man or Real Human Being would leave a woman bcos she is suffering from Depression or any illness@ that More then likely her depression is caused from someting in the marriage Like U said in urearlier videosUhave2communicate w/guys & tell them what U want I think couples should have greatcommunication&honesty If her man left her4another chick she should pray4God'swill
RealQueen4L 2 years ago
Yes! I agree- this could definitely be a form of favor by God. Some of the old folks use to say rejection is the Lord's protection.
It may be God's way to push her into her true destiny and purpose...perhaps where's she's going he can't go!
God doesn't destroy marriages but obviously this is the true nature of this man's heart and it was time to come to light.
Good Vid~
thevoiceofthewounded 2 years ago 5
oh you said that so awesomely. I love that old saying "rejection is the Lord's protection." I'm going to remember that one. thank you
sosoblessed1 2 years ago
I could've written that letter. Wow.
AfreeQueen 2 years ago
wow, I hope things work out for you. No, I know they will :)
sosoblessed1 2 years ago
Actually, sis... it's not going to work out for us as a couple ever again. New developments have destroyed any chance of that...BUT I WILL survive this. I just have to find out how. lol God has worked miracles in my life...one is not allowing me to lose my everloving mind.
I thank you for the message contained in your video. How true your words are.
AfreeQueen 2 years ago
I've heard that it can make you almost lose your mind, and some have. So I know what you mean when you said He's blessed you not to lose it. When i said I know it will work out, I meant either way, I know you will be healed and will flourish. thank you for the update and you're welcome
sosoblessed1 2 years ago
another great video your advice was on point and hopefully it will help the person who requested the video
TheSexyma68 2 years ago
thank you. I sure hope so
sosoblessed1 2 years ago
She may feel as if her entire world is crashing around her, but sometimes these things are a blessing in disguise. If I were married and my husband left me I would help him pack and wish him good luck. The best revenge is success pray every day and take it easy it will not be a smooth road but eventually the pain will go away! That woman may have done her a big favor, now he's her problem!!
tanyatmr 2 years ago 3
exactly what I meant by God's perfect will. thank you
sosoblessed1 2 years ago
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ashlee1969 2 years ago
Very Good advise!! can't live with them, can't live without them..LOL, men can be a mess at times... I wish the best for this youtuber...
iiiiixxxx 2 years ago
Amen :) thank you
sosoblessed1 2 years ago
My mom always told me there are two things you can give your children/spouse...roots and wings. If you stood there before God and everyone and recited those vows and meant them with all of your heart and have stayed true to only him.. the seeds you planted build the roots.. you have no control over how that tree grows but if you planted it and nurtured it right then you have to leave it to God. Give him wings, he's apparently already tested them out. God Bless you and good luck!
jaydanpaul 2 years ago
awesome advice. all we can do is plant and water, God will give the increase. You're Mom taught you something wonderful. :) good to hear from you.
be blessed
sosoblessed1 2 years ago
WHEW! that title scared me. I thought it was YOUR hubby. I would pray that he gets a STD from the new woman. AMEN!
nerdfighter4 2 years ago
lol, I was wondering who was going to think it was me. lol so I tried to clear it up from teh very beginning. "pray he gets an STD" lol bad girl
sosoblessed1 2 years ago
Dee you are a very bright woman and this video was very kind and well spoken. Nice to see you! I agree that God has a plan and even though it is hard not to want what it is that you think you want, you must at all times let God have the wheel! HUGS xoxoxo
WackaDoodleFreeZone 2 years ago
wow, I really appreciate those kind words. I know it is extremely hard to surrender to God's will, but it is ALWAYS the best way to go. So often the husband, job, child, etc that we want is not God's will, but ALL things work together for good to them that love the Lord. :) thank you for watching and commenting. be blessed
sosoblessed1 2 years ago