This greatly describes me, a growing up quick child with abuse and neglect. I was an outcast, i felt in child because nobody liked me. I am in my late 30s now and still have these issues. I cannot hold down a permanent full time job and have no family. I have chronic health issues and have inferiority complex issues. I am slow in progression in life and I am deep depression. People need to seriously think of how they bring up children. It is affects not just the child, but other around him/her.
@babybunnies Even tho you went thru this you still share your story and show you care.your reaching out I hope you find peace you may be alot stronger then you think you are.may your esteem get better because You seem like a good person. take care.
@babybunnies Wow! It sounds so much like me minus the health care issue! I'm never motivated, i'm always discouraged and lonely! No one ever pushed me, i'm always thinking about what ppl have done and said to me, i'm behind in my life and have yet to figure out what i want or what i want to do! I can't make decision! I feel stupid, the lady who gave birth to me would call me that at times, now i always believe i am...sometimes i just want to stay home and sleep!
@11940ful Sounds like you have major depression. Are you getting qualified help for it? If you aren't you should. There's no reason why anybody should suffer needlessly. Remember too, if you don't like your therapist keep looking until you find one that you do like! Don't be afraid to take meds, but research each med before you try it and always start off with a low dose until you know you're not going to have an adverse reaction. I can SO identify with staying in bed!
@MaeNotEast I used to be on meds ans used to see a psychologist! It did not work at all! I stopped my meds on my own! And the psy was always asking me questions about my mother's past that i knew nothing about, i also felt judged by her( it was free) i guess i need to socialize more which would help my problems
I feel very sorry. I had the same issues as described in this video. I was autistic, but in fact i suffered from a social anxiety. Of course never adressed by my therapists. I had to battle this problem by myself and it took me years. But since i let go the judgments of others and really do the things that move me forward i feel a lot happier.
Check out the videos of stefbot. He talks a lot about child abuse. I cant describe how his worldview has changed my thinking.
@11940ful I dont know how you feel today and where you have the most problems with. But there is no one video that will change you immediately. Its a long process of processing your past and accepting and exploring the feelings and desires that are ignored for a long time. For me the videos from stef helped me a lot with that. I would take a look at his older psychology videos. Or do a search on his channel or website about a specific topic. Good luck.
observations with out any evaluation of causality are useless
madelefant05 3 months ago
Well i guess that makes everything alright then, what a comedian. I bet you bring a lot of smiles to many faces. Good on you champ.
TheGmgirl77 3 months ago
What's up with her eyes? Or is that make up? :P
Mycenaea 4 months ago
@Mycenaea Why man? What's she done to you. Are you perfect?
AlpineViking91 4 months ago
@AlpineViking91 Nope - far from perfect. I can't ask if I think it looks weird?
Mycenaea 4 months ago
@Mycenaea I was JUST thinking that lol
backpacc 4 months ago
This greatly describes me, a growing up quick child with abuse and neglect. I was an outcast, i felt in child because nobody liked me. I am in my late 30s now and still have these issues. I cannot hold down a permanent full time job and have no family. I have chronic health issues and have inferiority complex issues. I am slow in progression in life and I am deep depression. People need to seriously think of how they bring up children. It is affects not just the child, but other around him/her.
babybunnies 5 months ago
@babybunnies pretty sure that describes most people.
The1stPoster 5 months ago
@babybunnies Even tho you went thru this you still share your story and show you care.your reaching out I hope you find peace you may be alot stronger then you think you are.may your esteem get better because You seem like a good person. take care.
somesistersRmean 5 months ago
@babybunnies Wow! It sounds so much like me minus the health care issue! I'm never motivated, i'm always discouraged and lonely! No one ever pushed me, i'm always thinking about what ppl have done and said to me, i'm behind in my life and have yet to figure out what i want or what i want to do! I can't make decision! I feel stupid, the lady who gave birth to me would call me that at times, now i always believe i am...sometimes i just want to stay home and sleep!
11940ful 4 months ago
@11940ful Many points here that I can identify with - thanks for writing so openly and honestly!
Tony07UK 4 months ago
@Tony07UK Ur welcome! tell me... how do you deal with all of it? Maybe you could suggest something to help me a bit!
11940ful 4 months ago
@11940ful Sounds like you have major depression. Are you getting qualified help for it? If you aren't you should. There's no reason why anybody should suffer needlessly. Remember too, if you don't like your therapist keep looking until you find one that you do like! Don't be afraid to take meds, but research each med before you try it and always start off with a low dose until you know you're not going to have an adverse reaction. I can SO identify with staying in bed!
MaeNotEast 3 months ago
@MaeNotEast I used to be on meds ans used to see a psychologist! It did not work at all! I stopped my meds on my own! And the psy was always asking me questions about my mother's past that i knew nothing about, i also felt judged by her( it was free) i guess i need to socialize more which would help my problems
11940ful 3 months ago
@11940ful that and honest self reflection
my4thone 1 month ago
@11940ful
I feel very sorry. I had the same issues as described in this video. I was autistic, but in fact i suffered from a social anxiety. Of course never adressed by my therapists. I had to battle this problem by myself and it took me years. But since i let go the judgments of others and really do the things that move me forward i feel a lot happier.
Check out the videos of stefbot. He talks a lot about child abuse. I cant describe how his worldview has changed my thinking.
MeneerVerspiller 3 months ago
@MeneerVerspiller Is there a video in particular that you would suggest?
11940ful 1 month ago
@11940ful I dont know how you feel today and where you have the most problems with. But there is no one video that will change you immediately. Its a long process of processing your past and accepting and exploring the feelings and desires that are ignored for a long time. For me the videos from stef helped me a lot with that. I would take a look at his older psychology videos. Or do a search on his channel or website about a specific topic. Good luck.
MeneerVerspiller 4 weeks ago
@babybunnies sounds like depression.
slevin1157 4 months ago
9k Views and 2 comments xD
6oobiies 6 months ago
this is how ziggy stardust would look today
katkal3 7 months ago