How To Approach Women Without Looking Needy & How To Appear Confident Every Time

[Thechester08]

when a woman looks at you she has already made up her mind before you even say a word whether she likes you or not. You will know by the positive or negative body language how she feels about you.

[nadertom]

ture man this is pua

[MrVeesworld]

Confidence get's the women of your choice for sure!!! I can tell you from experience. You do not need big money or fancy cars or high paying jobs. Just be you and, feel good about being you. Can't tell you how many times I end up with 8 and 9's since I was 18 years old and now at 45 it still works.

[paul21turbo]

@MrVeesworld.... you make a good point, i guess your dating like a boss , tho just had a thought, your 45 and still playing those old trick when you were 18, sooo your still single at 45..... who wants tips off you mate?

[MrVeesworld]

@paul21turbo First not playing "tricks." I have been married for 10 years to a Dutch pro volleyball player/ bathing suite model from 20-29. Then I had another long term (7 year) with a super stunner from Netherlands (Angelina Jolie/Catherine Zeta Jones look alike). Then of course had Ukraine girls, Canadian and now German/Polish Model who happens to be in her twenties. Go to match my video Podcast on dating foreign women documentary to see photos of her and hear the podcast mate!

[MrVeesworld]

@MrVeesworld The other thing is I am writing an ebook about confidence building for men who can't get dates with hot women for a date. 2nd thing you should know is my age (45) and very fit and healthy does not keep women from me at all. You see, it's not money or fame, or age that persuades the gorgeous girls to date you are go out with you. It is CONFIDENCE and charm. When I turned 34 I noticed that all the women who were coming my direction were all 24. Go figure?

[SundiataOfMali]

David Wygant FTW!!!

[SuckItLily]

How to APPEAR needy: Try to APPEAR confident.

Most girls can tell when you're faking it, as can most guys. The fact that you're trying to trick people means you're an inconfident tool. Instead learn to relax, learn to enjoy life. All girls are really asking for is someone they can have a good time with, become happy and then share that happiness with girls and they will thank you for it in exactly the way you want the to. It's not as complicated as the "seduction community" makes it out to be.

[whitbyjet65]

Don't bother with all this psychology bullshit. It's too complicated & time consuming. just walk up to a woman & say "Would you like to come back to my shed for a good poke?". If she says no, write out an invoice & tell her she owes you 5o quid for wasting your time. That way no matter what the outcome, you're a winner!

[richtawee2007]

you are great. Very enlightened and enlightening.

[hami345]

You sir, are a legend.

[dhide14]

David...how do I attract a woman when I have a receeding hairline (like yourself)?

[ubershredder1989]

@dhide14 dress nicely and work out. think jason statham/bruce willis.

[SuckItLily]

@dhide14 Stop defining yourself by your fucking hair. It's dead stuff that sits on your head. How important can it really be? If it's bothering you so fucking much just shave it off or very short.

Do you really think women are gonna pick a pushy, self-absorbed or otherwise emotionally crippled guy with great hair over a balding fatso who makes them HAPPY?? As long as you have a masculine energy about yourself, as long as you can take charge and make everything alright you WILL get laid. IMO

[EricSchwin22]

Woman: Hey!!! I need some money...give me your wallet :)

[Trelli28]

true. we prefer confidence and the approach.

[USA999983]

Just slip a pimp a C-note and you'll have all the women you want.

[raymondleeleggs]

This guy is secretly Bill Nye the science guy.

[emilyae]

@raymondleeleggs the hot version

[cleberinthearea]

I walked up to a girl and i said her..."Hi! Can you suck my cock"? She slapped me in the face...I don't know what i did wrong....I read in a book she was supposed to get on her knees and do her thing, i guess i wasn't confident enough.

[vStreetStruckv]

@cleberinthearea What you did wrong as ask...next time have the confidence to say..."oh you don't want to do your thing..then your loss" =P

[WhoAr3You]

forward to 0:55 to see some ass

[wildthingsr11]

Anyone can develop "prestige factors" that raise their standing in a given social environment which ultimately is the source of their confidence, referring to informal social hierarchies (with the guys at the top getting the girls). On the other hand, anyone can act in a confident manner which also influences their social standing. It is just the question of what came first: chicken or egg; confidence or prestige? Prestige being measured by individual, group and cultural values.

[wildthingsr11]

I appreciate these types of videos as they often put words and labels to behaviors you may or may not already be doing, which allows you to impliment them intentionally. Most of these videos though speak of the personality factor (psychology) rather than sociological factors or the specific situation and how the three inter-relate. I would be very interested in that.

[Commadoss]

This si the key to everythig that he's taught.

[SeXyAngelEyez17]

David got a point here.

[Jorge817S]

haha you look like ray william johnson lol

[unlished91]

David, i used to dissagree with many things you say before, but now after i have tryed everything and developed my own style which is Natural as shit, i agree with every wingle word that you say!

[souljasai]

man ur brilliant

[killersushi99]

If you say. Would you like to have breakfast on my yacht and she says no. Well then shes a lesbian. Move on.

[Agent1W]

@killersushi99 And then, observe. The rich man on the yacht is entertaining a good group of women. Guess who missed out? It is sure as shit wasn't the rich man.

[sluggo06]

What's a good way to approach a women who works retail?

[queenzah]

everything is sooooooooooooo rong all these vidz about how 2 get girls its sooo bull!!! no 1 will noo wat girls want as a perfect guy!! so stop tryin 2 get into girlz head!!! d only way u noo she will say yes is wen ur hugh jackman or taylor lautner! an datz wat every1 shood no! =)

[manladyyasser]

this guy's good.

[tujitsu]

ur so right david

[huckfinn135]

Your stuff is great, David. I think you're absolutely right. Yesterday I was coming out of the health club in a really good mood. A woman I see all the time and have never talked to smiled at me and said, "Hi." I know it's because I was feeling good about myself and giving off positive energy. We all find positive energy attractive, but too often I fall into the trap of waiting for someone to be friendly to me instead of being friendly to them. You had a great podcast on this: "love and fear."

[gdoitsh]

He is good!

[kevanlukk]

This shit just woke me up.

[haz233]

i just use my pierce brosnan expression and scare them off

[Ursonmory]

rocket science...

[d47lLd4y]

I dont believe in myself and i have no confidence fix that !

[DramaticAarony]

@d47lLd4y you're a beautiful person and you make the most beautiful poo... now you are ready

[fredocorleone]

I have a stud friend. I have a better approach than my stud friend. Years ago, my stud friend could get 3X as many girls as I could get. The best way to get and attract hot girls is to get skinny, get pecs, and have good posture. Now that my stud friend is starting to age fast this past decade (eye wrinkles), and I'm not aging much looks-wise, I can now get better girls than him...I'm passing him up on looks...and now he's frustrated. Get skinny and approach women you're attracted to.

[americair]

im in londonnnnn haha

[lenobaleno]

this guy loves his food and vegetables!

[shutupandsitdown1]

by the way the maker of this video looks fuked,,,,, if you looked better you wouldnt have to approach muchh lol

[whyeff21]

you da man

[alexbadfurday]

David, altough this is a short video, it's great.

[tayc2006]

if you're doing this thing of approaching women is because you're un ugly ass! confidence makes handsome!

[dudesguy77]

its not about using canned material to get women, these "seduction experts" just want to put a giant hole in your wallet....i read a book with great info on the natural way to get women. It changed my dating life, check out the site:

-----> theseductionsecrets(.)info

[LowLowSpinners]

he looks like that rick rolld guy.........

[SupaManCA]

i mentored a friend on this a while back, true adive here, on vh1 pick up artist is pretty true also

[southlondonpimp]

LOL! I suppose you are bald and dont get laid right? hahaha. That's just YOU im afraid. I know plenty of bald guys who have hot babes..why? Because they dont care about the fact they're bald. They are confident and thats only what matters. Sad but true huh?

[joey218cc]

LOL THAT GUY LOOOOKS LIKE FRANK FROM 360'S DEAD RISING A LIVE VERSION lol ha ha

[jilgk216]

If you are hot guy then you can screw up and you will still get hot girls. If you are unattractive then you will be left with your hand for the most of your life. I know, I know life sucks

[brucedavis76]

I agree but remember that looks fad away eventually.

[OchrismongrelO]

That isn't true. Before I developed any kind of style - and with me having very chiseled, alpha masculene features that attract women's glances anywhere i go, i've still played wingman to friends who aren't as 'up' on the 1-10 scale as me nor super stylish and THEY've went home with the babe. 60 % of it is about confidence and not giving a crap.

[thopkin12000]

Exactly!

[shutupandsitdown1]

@OchrismongrelO dont worry man, men will sleep with any girl, her looks dont matter as much for straight sex, while females are more choosy in a guys looks when it comes to straight sex!

[AndrewConfides]

@OchrismongrelO have a drink buddy

[BarcelonaSoccer19]

what if the persons dead up ugly lol also donot spam how come people in britain have that cool accent

[carlostrex]

Great video this will really help alot of guys be more confident with women.

[Destructo070792]

ive found that alot of nice girls dont even care about looks, its just confidence and personality you need, the sad thing is most of us men cant help but judge girls on their looks. if your not very confident then drink :P lol it makes you feel really confident, but i dont mean drink alot every day! keep safe haha :D

[OchrismongrelO]

just pace yourself...fast drinking makes you sloppy and can bring out bad tendencies that make you strike out - ie fumbling when there's competition who normally would get blown out by ya in a second.

[shutupandsitdown1]

@Destructo070792 women care for looks more then men when it comes to straight sex....

[Lumberjack88]

It sucks that guy's like that can pick up girls...

[Wisdombluetooth]

ummmmmmmmm do u like the food...LOL..

[masterdebator7]

wats wrong wit this guys eye?

[Minkki82]

Very well put mister.

[kickboxr72]

gadsternz - your comment (about David needing to change his approach because the secret is to actually be confident) totally confused me since that's exactly what he is instructing guys to do in this video!! All I can assume is that you read the title of the video and never watched it ... and clearly you don't know David's work well since the cornerstone of what he teaches guys is that to attract women you must learn to have true inner confidence. Watch the video ... don't just read the title

[gadsternz]

... if you still couldn't be confident then think about a time when you were. Think about this feeling. See now you are confident. (PS. Most of the time this should work.). Guys you have to have the attitude (ie the thought and belief and conviction) that you will approach women regardless of the outcome and who cares if she doesn't like you. It is all about growing up and being mature too.

[gadsternz]

David Wygant you have to change your approach. The secret is not in appearing confident but being confident! Appearing confident is fake and women could see through it. Just be yourself and if they don't like it then it is there problem or simply they don't like your type and most likely she isn't your type either. There is too many fish in the sea so there is lots of reasons to be confident.. Wana be confident, think confidently by not worrying about anything and enjoy life by the minute...

[wachman]

you're a dumbshit. change his approach??? are you being serious??? i hope that was just some tasteless joke. you're trying to teach David something about approach?? that's a laugh. you should try watching the vids sometime instead of just reading the titles.

[gadsternz]

Okay.. you win .. He is the best lol. Wachman I am not trying to teach David or whatever his name is about confidence. I was only saying about my opinion and its for the audience that will decide if they agree with me or not. Clearly you disagree :).

[viharsarok]

Wachman, stop being the bitch of David Wygant, and also don't believe everything a self-declared "guru" tells you.

[thopkin12000]

I bet John Stockton gets mad pussy

[Englishnamja]

look at my fellow london bloke.. pig nose, rat face features.. etc.. geeky feelings comming off him.. you can suggest to this kinda guy.. a nose job, and a decent haircut, and..charisma...why are you guys needing to approch women? why cant you just let women approch you as a man?

[OchrismongrelO]

Women aren't programmed generally to approach guys. Unless they're some kinda alpha female who either A. Has an instant draw to someone displaying strong alpha posture, or B. An alpha female looking to 'prey' on a weak male as a quick, fun fix, It's not gonna happen.

[shutupandsitdown1]

@OchrismongrelO in the animal world most of the females are the ones doing the choosing, selecting and approaching, the male excepts any female! sooo females are programmed to approach...

[DavidWygant]

You are so wrong.

You nit only can create attraction it happens all the time.

A woman has no idea if she likes you or not until you walk over.

With your attitude you will never understand how easy this really is.

So the first thing you need to do is work on your own confidence and not be so self defeating.

[greco0994]

@DavidWygant not true at all lmao your stupid

[oooshitman9]

@DavidWygant Mr. Wygant, I never get women. I am 26 and only had 5 women in my life, and they ALWAYS end up leaving me within 2 months! I am So BITTER! I am really pissed off at women, and now all I want is sex and for them to leave....I know...How can I stop being bitter? I always get fucked over.

[thabood]

@oooshitman9 He's a very busy man, dude, I'd be surprised if he ever responds to this. Check out his website

[oooshitman9]

@thabood his loss. 

[viharsarok]

To appear confident you have to be confident. But to be confident you already have to be successful with women, and that means you don't need this shit.

The sad truth is that attraction is not something you can create. A girl either likes you or she doesn't, no amount of useles tips can change that. The only thing that really does improve your dating is approach more women to find more girls who already like you.

[7e3625]

and i can tell that you agree on doybhoy's every single opinion. Am i right or wrong?

[yobolion]

@viharsarok You've got it in a nutshell! "The sad truth is that attraction is not something you can create"!

[PuffyPussy]

since when does approaching strangers become bitches? seriously if you people don't have anything interesting to say, go back to your nerd cave to jack off to your PUA idol and read more fucking theory that don't work.

[pualywog]

there all bitches and you guys are bitches puppets

[nathaniel309]

get a life!

[ralph6919]

The best thing to do is: Just be yourself, you are the only person like yourself ever created you are unique, square your shoulders, suck in your stomach, lift your head up and smile, make eye contact and go to the basics of you being stronga and masculine, that is what the girls want, they want to be led, they want confidence and strength in their partner, girls want to feel secure and safe, so be taht for them get sex out of your mind, girls will give themselves tou you, don't worry. be d man.

[doybhoy]

Not everyone feels that way aboutn themselves though, for whatever reason, so being yourself doesnt always cut it.. you need to be your best self, work on your weaknesses and build confidence that way.. If you happen to be a naturally confident guy then great, but it doesnt always work that way for some guys

[7e3625]

i will always agree with you on this one

[spartanshawn]

I deff like how vids like this change our mindset. Now the only problem I have is trying to make a choice :( LOl

[daveight5two]

way better than the other pickup artisists

5 stars

[djkgjkn]

Gold!

[radovest]

well , i have an idea :

Why not making video lessons on the following topic :

"Why are we scared from ovens"

i will appreciate such topic , thanks

[radovest]

well , i have an idea :

Why not making video lessons on the following topic :

"Why are we scared from ovens"

i will appreciate such topic , thanks

[mrswolls]

great speaker. Fuckin great. thank u

[StumblePUA]

its also cool how you do this thing out in the open, not like something your ashamed of or hiding.

Great stuff!

[elias225]

so true, thanks man

[tsifreak]

Very true and 90% of my problem. Thanks

[hanzyy]

good question and answer

[va4lover]

as always another great video David~

I really want to thank you for helping me get my lifestyle handled. Your advices are so golden. I used to be too needy and after all the help from you, I am doing really great man!!

I have to give it to ya man!!

[mikezotaj]

wow dude ure amazing....thanks a lot this is going to help.

[MCHammer1234]

i think more people should watch these episodes