Whatever he gained, be it cash or a green card should be forfeited and he should be sent back to his country. There is no other reason he would marry a heterosexual other than financial and social gain. I say "back home with ya buddy".
Funny your pathetic judgement. She too married him for something it was interesting to her, or am I the stupid one around here? Do you have any idea how many so called marriages, not only Hollywood-made, but actually IRL are performed in daily basis, for any given reason people find interesting in other, other than TRUE-LOVE?! So, where should we send those citizens (lets assume they are not immigrants only) to? TO THE Moon?! Or maybe Mars? Stop being Hypocritical!
@TheOldSchoolSims2 YANNO!? Everything about this man is GAY. His features his mannerisms , his speech...I mean WTF!? *lol*....Love aint blind, she was just a desperate ass old woman in denial who was just glad to have a younger man. That HAS to be what it was, cuz nothing else makes sense...I mean woman who were married to masculine closet-gays are even in denial, but this guy!? He is so obvious! Floating ass tinketbell!
Part 3. That is his responsiblity to it. I cannot view Johnathan as blameless. Can't do it. He is a man, an adult, and to view his responsiblities like they do not exist, it is crazy. I cannot treat a grown man like a child.
Part 2.He used her for a green card and money, he tried to get over like a fat cat. And did in many respects.This is not about being anti male.I would say the same thing if the tables were turned and Johnathan was a female.When a person reach 21, he/she are not children anymore. They are responsible for their part in it.He is gay, he knew it for a while, he slept with other men, while he stayed married to her.He remained married to have rights to the money and for the green card to be valid.
HOW CAN THIS FUCKIN FOOL SAY SHE BITTER AND HE THINK HE'S WENT BEYOND IN APOLOGIZING DUMMY SHE HAS EVERY RIGHT TO BE MAD YOU PRACTICALLY USED HER YOU IDIOT
Part 2. And that is cool. But age does not defined manipulation, who gets hurt, who gets used, etc. That is so grade school. She needs to be more aware of who she wants in her life. And he needs to be aware on how he uses people and how the affects everything.
@TammyMurphy I wondered that one myself. Where is his accent. My mother is from the south, still, she has her accent, even though she has been in New York for 20+ years.
@ciel222 Faggot, you need to REPENT of yoru abominable lifestyle. God did not desire grown men to lie with other men- it is nasty!!! Many homosexuals end up wearing nappies, due to the abuse of their bodies. The anus was created to expel faeces. I pray that you find Christ and accept delieverance at the cross. Good day.
@DaughterOfYashua Nasty BIGOT ,YOU SHALL REPENT, GOD DO NOT TOLERATE PEOPLE Who have hate in their Hearts. NASTY , FILTHY BIGOT REPENT DO NOT PUT GOD IN FRONT OF YOU, AND USE THE Name of GOD TO PROMOTE YOUR Hate , HYPOCRITE, Stupid , IGNOrant , low life BIGOT ass go fuck off.
@ciel222 The truth hurts doesn't it? Well, I will keep speaking truth and there is NOTHING that you can do about it!!! You obviously have a gripe with God and His Word, which sad because the wages of sin is death...
@ciel222 how are you going to say she has hate in her heart when you are talking shit to us and calling us name wtf is up with ur twisted mind, I never say something to someone unless they talk shit first but you are talking shit for no reason and I bet you wouldn't say this shit to my afce you only talk ur shit online. And actually in the Bible it says to stone homosexual so ur lucky I don't have too many rocks and your far enough away
@ciel222 1st of all you started this shxt, second of all you stole my line, 3rd of all you always say the same shit, and last your are a 10 year old who can't decide if they like girls or boys, and what are you truly doing for homos by cussing out some random chick online?
@ciel222 "dirt my ass" hmmm is that some type of weird fag slang.... and what is up with the same wack ass comebacks and what are you going to do jump me through my computer screen...im shaking...
@ciel222 once again with the bigot slut shxt? Really? You have the worse comebacks, and fags fight like what they are fags you wouldn't do shxt ur so much talk online but you wouldn't do shxt bitch
@ciel222 I'm guessing your apart of the fag natin, but obviously I think he is ugly as shit, I'm jamaican so I appreciate Jamaican men, but he is an ugly jamaican andd sexy chocolate with juicy lips is trey songz not this ugly azz nigga and whos been puttin on you lately ur vibrator?? Stop talking shit cuz ur a waste of my time....love ya hon ;)
@fun729 You wish you could have him low life skank, $1 SLUT.
I'v seen your Profile picture and you should be one of the last people in this earth to talk about wheter someone is ugly. If Jonhatan Plummer spit on your face it would be a favor low life.
@ciel222 wow I'm gonna cry 1st of all why would I wanna fag he's ugly as shxt, Trey Songz is where it's at, and wait a sec didn't you say since I'm calling him ugly I think he's hot cuz he's out of my league? Does thiat mean you
think I'm gorgeous and are only attacking me cuz you
wish I was a dyke, ooo I understand now you want me,
well I'm sorry I like dick not clit but cheer up you might get a girl one day, and by girl ud probably have to rape them but that's ok ah I love fags, xoxo ;)
@fun729 Learn to write LOw life slut, $1 slut it seems like you didn't even finish the 6th grade because of the way you write, it seems like you spend your times being a filthy slut, and a Hater in stead off spending your times educating yourself and learning to write. LOw life slut take a HOT IRON and stick it in your filthy , nasty BIGOT PUSSY.
@ciel222 wowwww keep comong with the SAME lame ass comebacks ur a fag, ur moms a fag, ur whole family are nasty ass faggots with HIV just because I think this guy is ugly ur going to attack me, you have serious issues coming at a 14 year old like that....dumb ass
A LOT OF UGLY STRAIGHT MEN HERE, ARE VERY JEALOUS OF THIS HOT SEXY EXOTIC LOOKING CHOCOLATE GUY. ALL THESE BIGOTS , LOW LIFE MOTHERFUCKERS WHY DON"T YOU ALL GO FUCK OFF.
@ciel222. Straight men are not at all jealous of you ugly homosexual, nappy wearing, faeces-smelling behind. AIDS is a time bomb waiting to go off in the anus of all of you. Homosexuality is an abomination!!!
@DaughterOfYashua LOL LOL .Low life ,motherfucker, of course low life ugly straight motherfucker like you are jealous. You know you can never never measure up to him.
AIDS is for EVERYBODY stupid Bigot. Aids doesn't discriminate IGNORANT LOWLIFE BIGOT.
@DaughterOfYashua ignore her I think she's one of those gays who hate all straight people she attacked me too it's whatever she's just mad she's a disgusting dyke
Definetly Terry is the one to blame, Im sure she had the feelings that he likes men, but she might of thought , she could of change him and make him straight, and because he is so good looking she just didn't want to l'rt it go etc.
That's the problem a lot of straight women think they can transform those good looking sexy gay guys out there, making them "straight", and the thing is they WOULD NEVER BE ABLE TO DO THAT ONCE YOU ARE BORN GAY YOU CAN'T NEVER BE STRAIGHT.
Terry was and is old enough to know better. He could NOT have fooled me and any other woman that can discern it. A gay guy tried to date me; I suspected and then saw him with someone, so my suspicions were right. I was so glad I didn't date him and he was not effeminate at all. Women should use their innate abilities to discern and use those intuitions. By the same token, all black men are not on the dl as is becoming so common to believe : (
homophobic is an overrated word just like anti-semetic. If you do not agree with something then your anti or phobic...wow! how quick people are to call someone a name simply because they do not agree.
@vcvenus IF you are a guy and wrote that " he's a disgrace to the black community" it's because you know you can't have his good look , you are jealous and that he looks better than you, you'll never be able to compare to him.
And if you are a woman it's because you know you'll never be able to have him, and that your man, if you have one will never be able to measure to him.
So all of you HATERS , LOW LIFE MOTHERFUCKERS, GO FUCK YOURSELF.
@DaughterOfYashua he is ugly as shitt Trey Songz is where it's at straight guy that's not a fag and won't die of AIDS I'm going to add you as a friend cuz I'm pretty sure where on the same page :)
I'M SOOOOO MAD I MISSED TERRY & JONATHAN ON OPRAH LAST WEEK. TERRY IS JUST HILARIOUS W/ THE WAY SHE EXPRESSES HERSELF W/ ALL THOSE FACES SHE MAKES AND THAT VOICE. TOOOOO FUNNY!!!!!!
Where were Terry's "friends?" No one told her that this guy was gay? I cant believe she doesnt have anyone in her circle that can be candid with her. Well actually I can. She comes across as abrasive and demanding. I hate to have bad to happen to anyone but I think she set herself up for this dissappointment.
I don't know why Terry McMillan couldn't see that his nasty ass was gay it's writen all over his face. And i do believe he used her just to get over here, get her money and to become a citizen. I'm with a Jamaican right now we been together almost 2 yrs and he doesn't have his papers I love him with all my heart but it's so f**king stressful for me. DAMN!!!
wow. it's always easy to be inflammatory with remarks. i will try the opposite route. i think there were a lot of things going on in the beginning. his kindness, his cuteness, her professionalism, her money, two different countries, etc. when you are kind and charming to a woman her gaydar is diffused because she is appreciating the sincere gestures. hearing him now, he is friendly and sweet and this was an attraction to her. women be aware and men be honest.
Terry McMillan obviously doesn't have a gaydar. I could've told her he was gay before he even knew he was gay. Just look at his mouth, his smile, and above all his voice, Terry is a dumb one if she couldn't figure it out before marrying him. And he's an ass for marrying her in the first place!
Honestly he knew he was uncertain about his sexuality from the beginning. He should of told her from the first time he met her you don't just get up and say hey I'm gay or I don't know which way to go. This is something that had to be going on inside of him for a long time. He made a fool out of that women.
This baby was not poor, his family had money. He was attracted to her wit not money, and she was attracted to his desire for life. If he was not gay, they probably would still be together.
I think that he knew he was gay all along...he just saw a successful, lonely woman who was very attracted to him...he saw dollar signs, not images of p*ssy, lol! She definitely should have hidden the desperation a little deeper, so that she could have seen that her man would probably "only" want to f*ck her in the a**!
I think that he knew he was gay all along...he just saw a successful, lonely woman who was very attracted to him...he saw dollar signs, not images of p*ssy, lol! She definitely should have hidden the desperation a little deeper, so that she could have seen that her man would probably "only" want to f*ck her in the a**!
@ohmaryjane "of course he does not regret meeting terry, he got over like a fat cat. Money, and a green card." - He got over like most women do when they divorce a wealthy man.
@ohmaryjane He just used her to come to America. Most Jamacians are on the D-low. I think Terry knew he was gay, but I believe Terry thought she could change him.
@ohmaryjane He just used her to come to America. Most Jamacians are on the D-low. I think Terry knew he was gay, but I believe Terry thought she could change him.
@ohmaryjane He just used her to come to America. Most Jamacians are on the D-low. I think Terry knew he was gay, but I believe Terry thought she could change him.
@ohmaryjane Remember, He was really young, 21yrs old. Barely out of high school, so I really don't think that he was the one who manipulated a then 46 yr old woman.
@natrlgrl He was 21 years old. He was a grown man,and he was not a child. He was hanging around a hotel, a resort. What do you think he was after? He manipulated her for years. It is obvious she did not want to see the signs of his homosexuality or his manipulation. Coming out is a difficult journey, but he left her as soon as he could establish his green card. It takes two in a relationship, this is not about fault. On Oprah, it seems like they have squared off, and learned their lessons.
@ohmaryjane FYI, it does not take eight years to get a green card. He stayed with her long after he got that green card. and about him hanging around a hotel ... he has every right to go to a hotel or resort if he wants to. The same right that you and I have, and the same right that she had. She was at a hotel too. Are we going to conclude that she was there prowling for a young man to pounce upon... No! So they met at a hotel, so what? From her own account she was the one who persued him
@ohmaryjane Part 2. And if this is not about fault why are we condemning him. Like you said, it takes two in a relationship. And 21 is very young... finish High School at eighteen, and just finding out who you are in this world at 21. He might have had the body parts of a grown man (obviously he did) but mentally, he was still developing. She should have encouraged him to finish college, rather than encourage him to drop out of school and come join her in America and be her boy toy.
@natrlgrl I am not talking fault, I am talking responsiblity. He completely manipulated her, had an agenda,etc. but she did not see the signs, did not want to deal with the obvious (his homosexuality). At 21, you are a grown, and like I stated before, age does not define manipulation, who gets hurt, used, etc. What he did? Used her, manipulated her, had an agenda, etc. As an adult, he needs to be aware when u use people, it's damaging.
@ohmaryjane Just like HE had his supposed Agenda, SHE had hers. And HER agenda eventually backfired. She did not search for a man, she wanted a CHILD! She even said that he was a "good learner." She was desperate, looking for somebody she could mold at any cost. SHE paid for him to come to LA, SHE was footing the bills. Like many successful women, she tried to push her weight around in hopes she could have this young, vibrant, "beautiful" man, and it didnt work that way. In the end, she lost!
@Damadehierro89 I am not saying she did not have responsibility for her choices. I think as women and as men, responsiblities differ. In my opinion, she got him for a reason, maybe a man her age she could not control, and the fact that he was so young, in her mind she could control him. I do not know. But, he is a grown man. After 21, you are an adult, and how you use people, manipulate people, take advantage of people, not being honest with people, it is damaging.
Being gay myself. I know how difficult it is to come to terms with it. Especially in an homophobic society. But I do agree. Honesty is the best policy. But our community, we do not support gay rights and lifestyle.
we only got to see the movie and read the book none of us wasn't there in the mix. LOVE makes you do some crazy things. The MARRIAGE CHANGES THE DYNAMICS .Was both parties in agreement with open care free with sexuality.Respect and Honesty an UNDERSTANDING GO ALONG WAY.
OMG he didn't just wake up when he was 20 and say wow im gay, it is so obvious he is gay, he needs to go back to Jamaica, and be ashamed of himself for using Terry to get U.S Citiizenship!
What a liar! He ought to have a love for animals...he acted like a dog lying about his sexuality. He should have his ill-gotten American citizenship stripped, and sent back to Jamaica. What a jerk!
Terry did Jonathan a favor by helping him escape persecution in his homeland of Jamaica. He returned the favor by making her feel young and desirable. Jonathan might have felt some safety in marrying her, and saw it as a chance to escape Jamaica. Both had that need, and for the time they had a relationship they gave each other something that was necessary and desired. The worse part of their relationship was that they didn't turn and face their need until after the wedding.
I doubt he was as flaming then as he is now..he was in the closet, in denial back then, now that he is free and whanot, he could be as fruity as he wants.
@Spark916916 That's not true. And what did she use him for. She took away this boy's youth and got a couple years of good sex. If you ask me, she used him.
Just another Down Low that used a woman to get what they need. In this case, it was a "GREEN CARD". Now everyone is calling her a fool. Women gets used again and now he is all smiles. He got the green card and divorce settlement and out of the closet. Oh, life is so good!!!!
Terry McMillan is a bitter, DESPERATE, dried up old HAG that persued a 19 year old BOY, when she was every bit of 41 years of age at the time. SHE was the one who paraded him around Hollywood and made a movie about their life together. SHE was the one who insisted they get married. SHE knew damn well that FLAMIN ass boy was gay when she met him.
It's time for some of these women to get off the pitty pot and start taking RESPONSIBILITY for their own actions! He didn't force her to marry him!
You're damn straight "dear" she was over and a grown ass woman, that should have KNOWN BETTER!!
He didn't use her for anything. She flaunted her wealth and money to a YOUNG, barely legal, poverty stricken young, gay BOY in another country.
And YES age does matter, "dear." Especially when the older more experienced person KNOWS BETTER! He didn't make her do anyting she didn't already want to do.
You masculine feminist thinking women are rediculious. On one hand your equal with a man and want the same this and that, but on the other hand your a WOMAN and he shouldnt have done that to her........Give me a BREAK
Oh blah, blah, blah! Save that MESS for Oprah! Terry's old ass was DESPERATE, plain and simple. She was NOT in love. She went over there to buy a man and it back fired in her 40+ year old face.
Terry McMillan is a very smart woman. She did not get to where she is in life by being stupid, so please spare me the "Terry's a victim" crap. She does not get a pass. Life is about making decisions and she CHOSE that for herself.
I must be a what too? Just flat out say what you're talking about.
Yet another gold-digger (K-Fed) who was lucky enough to find himself a wealthy celebrity to help kick-start his shabby career. Look at the way he smiles and laughs throughout - a man with no shame and no remorse for what he has done. All that crap about difficulties coming out about his sexuality, HE KNEW what he was when he met Terri but conveniently hid it so he could screw her over (literally, financially and emotionally). What a vile, disgusting man!!
It's a shame. And people wonder why it's hard for Black women to trust. She's "bitter" because he made a mockery of their marriage. He knew he was gay from day one. You don't just "wake up" one day and be gay. And he's making it hard for gay people to be honest with themselves and others. I'm not homophobic but I think if you have mixed feelings on which side of the fence you are on, don't commit to a relationship. He's an opportunist. Point blank.
I see your point and almost agree, where he comes from they RAPE women who are gay and KILL AND RAPE men whom are gay, so dealing with it wasn't an issue... u don't not correctly... U try to survive! HOMOPHOBIA IS REAL~~~PEOPLE DIE! He's in american where he could act out and he did, which at the age he was... he was totally confused!
ok...but don't you think he should have consulted his WIFE before he decided to "act out"? I say this because my boyfriend was confused and he trusted me to tell me. That's my point. I'm not bashing. Not everyone is kind to anyone who is different. Hell, I'm black and look how long it took for white people to "accept" us. And many people use the Bible as a clutch to hurt homosexuals.
But if you trust the person you're with, shouldn't that be the place to start with coming out?
in the interview he does say he told his wife first and thats when she lashed out on him. he said he loved her enough to tell her and she used it against him til this day.
right, terry mc millan is ghetto. first off even if he was not gay, she was a selfish bitch because that young man like every young deserved a woman able to produce children for him, but that selfish hoe accepted to marry him even though she knew she was menopaused and dried-up, nothing but dust in these ovaries. Yes the boy is sweet, maybe that is best thing that happen to him but to waste his years of youth with an old cargo. Terry is selfish like many old lonely women with money.
So how do you react when a man tell you he loves men, your man tell you that he does have a thing for boys, did your man finally come to term with his homosexuality because believe me if he as much as fantasize about boys he is gay, and not matter the amount of pussy you give him to cure his evil, that boy pretty much been sold to doing his thing with boys long before he told you about his "confusion". He desires another dude , consulted you just to make you ok with it, nothing special!
This mitha fucka is the reason aids is spead throughout our community.Excuse my french, but the dude seriously needs a dick shoved up his ass..oh wait, he likes thos types of things. He has no remorse.
IGNORANCE IS THE REASON! HAS NOTHING TO WITH A DICK UP YOUR ASS AND why so graphic... If it use to be a WHITE COLLAR DIEASE BY UPPER CLASS WHITE PEOPLE, WHY IS IT NOW THE REASON AIDS IS RUNNING AROUND THE BLCK COMMUNITY ALL OVER THE WORLD, AND WHY IS AFRICAN/S WOMEN ARE DECIMATED BY THE DIEASE... IT IS NOT THE MANY GAY MEN/PEOPLE IN THE WORLD TO DO WHAT THE DIEASE WAS DESIGN TO DO.... CHECK YOUR FACTS
First of all i know my facts, i work in a clinic.And what i meant was when you sleep around, and your partner doesn't inform u, that's how stuff happens.Trust me, i know the facts i see it everyday
Point taken, It wasn't meant as a remark against you... personally, MOST MEN-DON'T TELL GAY OR STRAIGHT, that they are sleeping around, its just the aids stigma.
I'm responding to your comment. Yes, I understand where he is from, they kill gays. but there's no excuse to decieve her. You do not commit to a relationship if yoiu know that's not where your heart is. Both may have had an agenda, but like I said before, this makes it hard for confused gays who do want to be honest about their sexuality. This is no different than a man or woman in a realtionship cheating. It's still cheating.
I'm not sure why you answered the way you did... I was speaking about the subject and not some personal comments about sinners... the truth doesn't hurt, it's you who doesn't know how to put the truth so you act like your hurting someone by making statements against people who randomly have sex,that is a CHARACTER ISSUE, and STRAIGHT MEN ARE ADVERTISE TO b HOES.....! I'm not a gay man or man.... please don't email me no more with that disturbing bull!!!!!!!
The concern is your bashing and email harassment... I don't know who is "we all believe you"... I'm a female, real female who cares about the concern of human beings and gay men are not the problem it's confused straight men, such as yourself whom seem to have the experience of the rest to call someone who's gay... if your so STRAIGHT, why are you so concern to make me GAY... WHY ARE STRAIGHT MEN SO EXPERIENCE AT KNOWING WHOS GAY IF THEY AIN'T... SOME RAW ASSED COMMENTS YOU MAKE!!!!!
I DON'T HANG OUT WITH GAY MEN... I'm a student of knowledge& don't throw accusations @ people to the level you are with no solution!!!!! Females/males are normally sleeping with your boyfriends you need to find another group, law student from smu your qualifications/manipulations are not working... your fascination to provoke conversation is psychotic!!!!!!
The point is caring about human beings... the "truth" as spoke previously, you used against me... Men are going to do what Men are going to do(their not gonna tell U): STRAIGHT OR GAY... HE WAS HONEST WITH HER SHE TURNED ON HIM!!!!!! THE TRUTH HURTED HER BECAUSE SHE WAS CHEATED ON, IF THATS THE TRUTH DROP THE SUIT!!!!
I would still be bitter as well. He misrepresented himself to her. He put her life in danger. Life goes on, true enough, but to make someone look foolish and use them, that is a whole different animal. SMH!
Whatever he gained, be it cash or a green card should be forfeited and he should be sent back to his country. There is no other reason he would marry a heterosexual other than financial and social gain. I say "back home with ya buddy".
syndicatednews 3 months ago
@syndicatednews
Funny your pathetic judgement. She too married him for something it was interesting to her, or am I the stupid one around here? Do you have any idea how many so called marriages, not only Hollywood-made, but actually IRL are performed in daily basis, for any given reason people find interesting in other, other than TRUE-LOVE?! So, where should we send those citizens (lets assume they are not immigrants only) to? TO THE Moon?! Or maybe Mars? Stop being Hypocritical!
solemio09 1 week ago
And she didn't know he was gay? Wow, love sure does make you blind.
TheOldSchoolSims2 6 months ago
@TheOldSchoolSims2 YANNO!? Everything about this man is GAY. His features his mannerisms , his speech...I mean WTF!? *lol*....Love aint blind, she was just a desperate ass old woman in denial who was just glad to have a younger man. That HAS to be what it was, cuz nothing else makes sense...I mean woman who were married to masculine closet-gays are even in denial, but this guy!? He is so obvious! Floating ass tinketbell!
MissTruthHurtss 4 weeks ago
why does he have an american accent?
cornrowedlowe 8 months ago
@cornrowedlowe because he's a self-hating faggot
lexdiamonds1990 6 months ago
Who can't clock this queen?
superman19742007 8 months ago
Now, I do have my opinion about Terry, but no one asked,lol. And I thought this was the forum for just Johnathan's actions.
ohmaryjane 10 months ago
Part 3. That is his responsiblity to it. I cannot view Johnathan as blameless. Can't do it. He is a man, an adult, and to view his responsiblities like they do not exist, it is crazy. I cannot treat a grown man like a child.
ohmaryjane 10 months ago
Part 2.He used her for a green card and money, he tried to get over like a fat cat. And did in many respects.This is not about being anti male.I would say the same thing if the tables were turned and Johnathan was a female.When a person reach 21, he/she are not children anymore. They are responsible for their part in it.He is gay, he knew it for a while, he slept with other men, while he stayed married to her.He remained married to have rights to the money and for the green card to be valid.
ohmaryjane 10 months ago
he is sooo cute..
Sciencedude011 10 months ago
HOW CAN THIS FUCKIN FOOL SAY SHE BITTER AND HE THINK HE'S WENT BEYOND IN APOLOGIZING DUMMY SHE HAS EVERY RIGHT TO BE MAD YOU PRACTICALLY USED HER YOU IDIOT
comptonclan00 10 months ago
Part 2. And that is cool. But age does not defined manipulation, who gets hurt, who gets used, etc. That is so grade school. She needs to be more aware of who she wants in her life. And he needs to be aware on how he uses people and how the affects everything.
Peace.
ohmaryjane 11 months ago
Is Terry McMillan really so stupid and/or desperate that she couldn't tell that this dude was a queen? Honey please!!
rodentcafeteria 11 months ago
how can u not tell he was gayyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy?
StreetWhispera 1 year ago
lol this mofo wanted a way out of jamaica
StreetWhispera 1 year ago
at the end of the day she knew this guy was marryed just by the signs it was not that hard.
burby8100 1 year ago
@TammyMurphy I wondered that one myself. Where is his accent. My mother is from the south, still, she has her accent, even though she has been in New York for 20+ years.
ohmaryjane 1 year ago
bum
bigbandit 1 year ago
smh...
symone09 1 year ago
Leviticus 18:22, Romans 1.
DaughterOfYashua 1 year ago
Nasty FAGGOT!!!
DaughterOfYashua 1 year ago
@DaughterOfYashua
Nasty BIGOT. GO EAT SOME TRASH ,and FUCK OFF.
ciel222 1 year ago
@ciel222 Faggot, you need to REPENT of yoru abominable lifestyle. God did not desire grown men to lie with other men- it is nasty!!! Many homosexuals end up wearing nappies, due to the abuse of their bodies. The anus was created to expel faeces. I pray that you find Christ and accept delieverance at the cross. Good day.
DaughterOfYashua 1 year ago
@DaughterOfYashua Nasty BIGOT ,YOU SHALL REPENT, GOD DO NOT TOLERATE PEOPLE Who have hate in their Hearts. NASTY , FILTHY BIGOT REPENT DO NOT PUT GOD IN FRONT OF YOU, AND USE THE Name of GOD TO PROMOTE YOUR Hate , HYPOCRITE, Stupid , IGNOrant , low life BIGOT ass go fuck off.
ciel222 1 year ago
@ciel222 The truth hurts doesn't it? Well, I will keep speaking truth and there is NOTHING that you can do about it!!! You obviously have a gripe with God and His Word, which sad because the wages of sin is death...
DaughterOfYashua 1 year ago
@DaughterOfYashua Please give me a Break, HYPOCRITE, PRETENDER. use the name of GOD in order to promote Hates.
BIGOT you are preaching The DEvil GOD, not CHRIST. Christ doesn't associate himself with HAters and Pretenders. So go fuck off BIGOT.
ciel222 1 year ago
@ciel222 how are you going to say she has hate in her heart when you are talking shit to us and calling us name wtf is up with ur twisted mind, I never say something to someone unless they talk shit first but you are talking shit for no reason and I bet you wouldn't say this shit to my afce you only talk ur shit online. And actually in the Bible it says to stone homosexual so ur lucky I don't have too many rocks and your far enough away
fun729 1 year ago
@fun729 Please GO FUCK OFF Nasty ass Slut. LOW life BIGOT .
YOU are lucky that you are far away . I would of show you what Homosexuals feel like
by whipping your nasty , sluty BIGOT ass.
ciel222 1 year ago
@ciel222 1st of all you started this shxt, second of all you stole my line, 3rd of all you always say the same shit, and last your are a 10 year old who can't decide if they like girls or boys, and what are you truly doing for homos by cussing out some random chick online?
fun729 1 year ago
@fun729 Bigot like you this is how homosexuals must deal with. I 'll dirt your BIGOT ass.
ciel222 1 year ago
@ciel222 "dirt my ass" hmmm is that some type of weird fag slang.... and what is up with the same wack ass comebacks and what are you going to do jump me through my computer screen...im shaking...
fun729 1 year ago
@fun729 Learn to write little skank.
You are lucky you are far away. I would of whip your Little sluty Bigot ass .
ciel222 1 year ago
@ciel222 once again with the bigot slut shxt? Really? You have the worse comebacks, and fags fight like what they are fags you wouldn't do shxt ur so much talk online but you wouldn't do shxt bitch
fun729 1 year ago
he's fugly, she dodged an AIDS infested bullet
fun729 1 year ago
@fun729. LOL. You are right!!! He used her, plain and simple.
DaughterOfYashua 1 year ago
@fun729 LOL You know you'll never be able to have a hot sexy chocolate with juicy lips like that in your arms . So that's why you said he's fugly etc.
You low life slut, little skank, $1 SLUT.. GO STICK A HOT IRON IN YOUR FILTHY PUSSY.
ciel222 1 year ago
@ciel222 I'm guessing your apart of the fag natin, but obviously I think he is ugly as shit, I'm jamaican so I appreciate Jamaican men, but he is an ugly jamaican andd sexy chocolate with juicy lips is trey songz not this ugly azz nigga and whos been puttin on you lately ur vibrator?? Stop talking shit cuz ur a waste of my time....love ya hon ;)
fun729 1 year ago
@fun729 You wish you could have him low life skank, $1 SLUT.
I'v seen your Profile picture and you should be one of the last people in this earth to talk about wheter someone is ugly. If Jonhatan Plummer spit on your face it would be a favor low life.
ciel222 1 year ago
@ciel222 wow I'm gonna cry 1st of all why would I wanna fag he's ugly as shxt, Trey Songz is where it's at, and wait a sec didn't you say since I'm calling him ugly I think he's hot cuz he's out of my league? Does thiat mean you
think I'm gorgeous and are only attacking me cuz you
wish I was a dyke, ooo I understand now you want me,
well I'm sorry I like dick not clit but cheer up you might get a girl one day, and by girl ud probably have to rape them but that's ok ah I love fags, xoxo ;)
fun729 1 year ago
@fun729 Learn to write LOw life slut, $1 slut it seems like you didn't even finish the 6th grade because of the way you write, it seems like you spend your times being a filthy slut, and a Hater in stead off spending your times educating yourself and learning to write. LOw life slut take a HOT IRON and stick it in your filthy , nasty BIGOT PUSSY.
ciel222 1 year ago
@ciel222 wowwww keep comong with the SAME lame ass comebacks ur a fag, ur moms a fag, ur whole family are nasty ass faggots with HIV just because I think this guy is ugly ur going to attack me, you have serious issues coming at a 14 year old like that....dumb ass
fun729 1 year ago
If he sounded like this when Terry first met him...Terry is a dumbass
Taisvidz 1 year ago
A LOT OF UGLY STRAIGHT MEN HERE, ARE VERY JEALOUS OF THIS HOT SEXY EXOTIC LOOKING CHOCOLATE GUY. ALL THESE BIGOTS , LOW LIFE MOTHERFUCKERS WHY DON"T YOU ALL GO FUCK OFF.
ciel222 1 year ago
@ciel222. Straight men are not at all jealous of you ugly homosexual, nappy wearing, faeces-smelling behind. AIDS is a time bomb waiting to go off in the anus of all of you. Homosexuality is an abomination!!!
DaughterOfYashua 1 year ago
@DaughterOfYashua LOL LOL .Low life ,motherfucker, of course low life ugly straight motherfucker like you are jealous. You know you can never never measure up to him.
AIDS is for EVERYBODY stupid Bigot. Aids doesn't discriminate IGNORANT LOWLIFE BIGOT.
ciel222 1 year ago
@ciel222 Ok faggot, whatever...
DaughterOfYashua 1 year ago
@DaughterOfYashua ignore her I think she's one of those gays who hate all straight people she attacked me too it's whatever she's just mad she's a disgusting dyke
fun729 1 year ago
HE is SO HOT , SO GOOD LOOKING, DAMN!
ciel222 1 year ago
@ciel222 fa real
chitownkev 1 year ago
@ciel222 So can you blame Terry for marrying him based on your own reaction?
vanaphil 1 year ago
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Definetly Terry is the one to blame, Im sure she had the feelings that he likes men, but she might of thought , she could of change him and make him straight, and because he is so good looking she just didn't want to l'rt it go etc.
That's the problem a lot of straight women think they can transform those good looking sexy gay guys out there, making them "straight", and the thing is they WOULD NEVER BE ABLE TO DO THAT ONCE YOU ARE BORN GAY YOU CAN'T NEVER BE STRAIGHT.
ciel222 1 year ago
Terry was and is old enough to know better. He could NOT have fooled me and any other woman that can discern it. A gay guy tried to date me; I suspected and then saw him with someone, so my suspicions were right. I was so glad I didn't date him and he was not effeminate at all. Women should use their innate abilities to discern and use those intuitions. By the same token, all black men are not on the dl as is becoming so common to believe : (
9876543217303 1 year ago
There is NO AUDIO playing with this video!!
mmad3203 1 year ago
homophobic is an overrated word just like anti-semetic. If you do not agree with something then your anti or phobic...wow! how quick people are to call someone a name simply because they do not agree.
scrmblakulascrm 1 year ago
This guy is a disgrace to the gay community and the black community.
One way black women can avoid this for sure: stop dating black men.
vcvenus 1 year ago
@vcvenus IF you are a guy and wrote that " he's a disgrace to the black community" it's because you know you can't have his good look , you are jealous and that he looks better than you, you'll never be able to compare to him.
And if you are a woman it's because you know you'll never be able to have him, and that your man, if you have one will never be able to measure to him.
So all of you HATERS , LOW LIFE MOTHERFUCKERS, GO FUCK YOURSELF.
ciel222 1 year ago
@ciel222. He's so ugly. What are you talking about? LOL!!!!
DaughterOfYashua 1 year ago
@DaughterOfYashua he is ugly as shitt Trey Songz is where it's at straight guy that's not a fag and won't die of AIDS I'm going to add you as a friend cuz I'm pretty sure where on the same page :)
fun729 1 year ago
I'M SOOOOO MAD I MISSED TERRY & JONATHAN ON OPRAH LAST WEEK. TERRY IS JUST HILARIOUS W/ THE WAY SHE EXPRESSES HERSELF W/ ALL THOSE FACES SHE MAKES AND THAT VOICE. TOOOOO FUNNY!!!!!!
kevseb66 1 year ago
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Where were Terry's "friends?" No one told her that this guy was gay? I cant believe she doesnt have anyone in her circle that can be candid with her. Well actually I can. She comes across as abrasive and demanding. I hate to have bad to happen to anyone but I think she set herself up for this dissappointment.
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I don't know why Terry McMillan couldn't see that his nasty ass was gay it's writen all over his face. And i do believe he used her just to get over here, get her money and to become a citizen. I'm with a Jamaican right now we been together almost 2 yrs and he doesn't have his papers I love him with all my heart but it's so f**king stressful for me. DAMN!!!
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I don't like people who lie to others! He basiclly used her for a green card & money! He should just have been honest & say he's gay.
A lot of women love Gay men!
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taken287 1 year ago
wow. it's always easy to be inflammatory with remarks. i will try the opposite route. i think there were a lot of things going on in the beginning. his kindness, his cuteness, her professionalism, her money, two different countries, etc. when you are kind and charming to a woman her gaydar is diffused because she is appreciating the sincere gestures. hearing him now, he is friendly and sweet and this was an attraction to her. women be aware and men be honest.
AveolarD 1 year ago
Terry McMillan obviously doesn't have a gaydar. I could've told her he was gay before he even knew he was gay. Just look at his mouth, his smile, and above all his voice, Terry is a dumb one if she couldn't figure it out before marrying him. And he's an ass for marrying her in the first place!
wexlerchick 1 year ago
This dude is gay as fuck, how could she not have seen this? i blame her old ass
kevinoti 1 year ago
Honestly he knew he was uncertain about his sexuality from the beginning. He should of told her from the first time he met her you don't just get up and say hey I'm gay or I don't know which way to go. This is something that had to be going on inside of him for a long time. He made a fool out of that women.
twilliams2121 1 year ago
Who wouldn't be bitter? rofl He thought she would understand? Really? lol Though I agree, she should've seen that one!
lemons82 1 year ago 2
He's dumb, he should have played along with the marriage and attempt to extract more cash from her.
DJFG85 1 year ago
@DJFG85 Well said LOL
ciel222 1 year ago
This baby was not poor, his family had money. He was attracted to her wit not money, and she was attracted to his desire for life. If he was not gay, they probably would still be together.
KanyeWestluv4ever 1 year ago
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I think that he knew he was gay all along...he just saw a successful, lonely woman who was very attracted to him...he saw dollar signs, not images of p*ssy, lol! She definitely should have hidden the desperation a little deeper, so that she could have seen that her man would probably "only" want to f*ck her in the a**!
aallen71055 1 year ago
I think that he knew he was gay all along...he just saw a successful, lonely woman who was very attracted to him...he saw dollar signs, not images of p*ssy, lol! She definitely should have hidden the desperation a little deeper, so that she could have seen that her man would probably "only" want to f*ck her in the a**!
aallen71055 1 year ago 7
of course he does not regret meeting terry, he got over like a fat cat. Money, and a green card.
ohmaryjane 1 year ago 16
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@ohmaryjane "of course he does not regret meeting terry, he got over like a fat cat. Money, and a green card." - He got over like most women do when they divorce a wealthy man.
ezekielthemack 1 year ago
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@ohmaryjane He just used her to come to America. Most Jamacians are on the D-low.
Spark916916 1 year ago
@ohmaryjane He just used her to come to America. Most Jamacians are on the D-low. I think Terry knew he was gay, but I believe Terry thought she could change him.
Spark916916 1 year ago
@ohmaryjane He just used her to come to America. Most Jamacians are on the D-low. I think Terry knew he was gay, but I believe Terry thought she could change him.
Spark916916 1 year ago
@Spark916916 I agree. She knew was gay. It was a lesson learned, you cannot change anyone, only yourself.
ohmaryjane 1 year ago
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@ohmaryjane He just used her to come to America. Most Jamacians are on the D-low. I think Terry knew he was gay, but I believe Terry thought she could change him.
Spark916916 1 year ago
@ohmaryjane Remember, He was really young, 21yrs old. Barely out of high school, so I really don't think that he was the one who manipulated a then 46 yr old woman.
natrlgrl 11 months ago
@natrlgrl He was 21 years old. He was a grown man,and he was not a child. He was hanging around a hotel, a resort. What do you think he was after? He manipulated her for years. It is obvious she did not want to see the signs of his homosexuality or his manipulation. Coming out is a difficult journey, but he left her as soon as he could establish his green card. It takes two in a relationship, this is not about fault. On Oprah, it seems like they have squared off, and learned their lessons.
ohmaryjane 11 months ago
@ohmaryjane FYI, it does not take eight years to get a green card. He stayed with her long after he got that green card. and about him hanging around a hotel ... he has every right to go to a hotel or resort if he wants to. The same right that you and I have, and the same right that she had. She was at a hotel too. Are we going to conclude that she was there prowling for a young man to pounce upon... No! So they met at a hotel, so what? From her own account she was the one who persued him
natrlgrl 11 months ago
@ohmaryjane Part 2. And if this is not about fault why are we condemning him. Like you said, it takes two in a relationship. And 21 is very young... finish High School at eighteen, and just finding out who you are in this world at 21. He might have had the body parts of a grown man (obviously he did) but mentally, he was still developing. She should have encouraged him to finish college, rather than encourage him to drop out of school and come join her in America and be her boy toy.
natrlgrl 11 months ago
@natrlgrl I am not talking fault, I am talking responsiblity. He completely manipulated her, had an agenda,etc. but she did not see the signs, did not want to deal with the obvious (his homosexuality). At 21, you are a grown, and like I stated before, age does not define manipulation, who gets hurt, used, etc. What he did? Used her, manipulated her, had an agenda, etc. As an adult, he needs to be aware when u use people, it's damaging.
ohmaryjane 11 months ago
@ohmaryjane Just like HE had his supposed Agenda, SHE had hers. And HER agenda eventually backfired. She did not search for a man, she wanted a CHILD! She even said that he was a "good learner." She was desperate, looking for somebody she could mold at any cost. SHE paid for him to come to LA, SHE was footing the bills. Like many successful women, she tried to push her weight around in hopes she could have this young, vibrant, "beautiful" man, and it didnt work that way. In the end, she lost!
Damadehierro89 10 months ago
@Damadehierro89 I am not saying she did not have responsibility for her choices. I think as women and as men, responsiblities differ. In my opinion, she got him for a reason, maybe a man her age she could not control, and the fact that he was so young, in her mind she could control him. I do not know. But, he is a grown man. After 21, you are an adult, and how you use people, manipulate people, take advantage of people, not being honest with people, it is damaging.
ohmaryjane 10 months ago
Being gay myself. I know how difficult it is to come to terms with it. Especially in an homophobic society. But I do agree. Honesty is the best policy. But our community, we do not support gay rights and lifestyle.
ohmaryjane 1 year ago
you people are rediculous. nuff said
lilbodhi07 1 year ago
Yo Bulling !!!
Agent007202 1 year ago
we only got to see the movie and read the book none of us wasn't there in the mix. LOVE makes you do some crazy things. The MARRIAGE CHANGES THE DYNAMICS .Was both parties in agreement with open care free with sexuality.Respect and Honesty an UNDERSTANDING GO ALONG WAY.
geoggapeach 1 year ago
shoot dem batty boy
twisteddwicked 1 year ago
I have no problem with gays, but I have a problem with you dragging people into your problems with your sexuality. He was just using her.
MrBlackfish011 1 year ago 5
OMG he didn't just wake up when he was 20 and say wow im gay, it is so obvious he is gay, he needs to go back to Jamaica, and be ashamed of himself for using Terry to get U.S Citiizenship!
aloha42007 2 years ago
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id do him
sanchez4u 2 years ago
What a liar! He ought to have a love for animals...he acted like a dog lying about his sexuality. He should have his ill-gotten American citizenship stripped, and sent back to Jamaica. What a jerk!
mountaincoco 2 years ago 6
send dis batti bwoy back to jamaica. theyll handle him reaaaaaaaaaaaaal good :)
joycehh1994 2 years ago
LOL batti bwoy I have to use that instead of fudge packer.
yeecarmichael 2 years ago
faggggggggggggggggg
joycehh1994 2 years ago
Lol ya'll got me rolling!
gialamore08 2 years ago
Terry did Jonathan a favor by helping him escape persecution in his homeland of Jamaica. He returned the favor by making her feel young and desirable. Jonathan might have felt some safety in marrying her, and saw it as a chance to escape Jamaica. Both had that need, and for the time they had a relationship they gave each other something that was necessary and desired. The worse part of their relationship was that they didn't turn and face their need until after the wedding.
trynow11725 2 years ago
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You've written the most mature response that I've read so far. I agree with you.
kimmaytube 2 years ago
I blame Terry she use to act like he Island man was all that...........o where we surprised
MrWorldbefree 2 years ago 2
Terry is just as much at fault as he is.........You can look at this fool and tell he is gay, what the hell was her problem.
MrWorldbefree 2 years ago 25
I doubt he was as flaming then as he is now..he was in the closet, in denial back then, now that he is free and whanot, he could be as fruity as he wants.
mayebella 2 years ago
yeah, yeah, yeah
MrWorldbefree 2 years ago 2
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totally agree why didn't her "gay-dar" go off on this dude????
now this dude is a dog walker/hairstylist!!!!!!
he lied to her good, she fell for it
she's mentally and emoptionally screwed forever...
Sweetcockagu 1 year ago 3
@MrWorldbefree He just used her to come to America. Most Jamacians are on the D-low.
Spark916916 1 year ago
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@MrWorldbefree He just used her to come to America. Most Jamacians are on the D-low.
Spark916916 1 year ago
@MrWorldbefree He just used her to come to America. Most Jamacians are on the D-low.
Spark916916 1 year ago
@Spark916916 That's not true. And what did she use him for. She took away this boy's youth and got a couple years of good sex. If you ask me, she used him.
natrlgrl 11 months ago
@MrWorldbefree She was in LOVE! And he is no innocent either. He wanted her for a green card and her money.
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tjb032 2 years ago
I'd like to smash that big lipped homo right in the grill with a haymaker, he didn't have to decieve Terry like that.
NkrumahTure 2 years ago 3
Oh dear Jonathan. My heart bleeds for you that your wife did not "understand" and accept that you were gay. What the hell did you expect?!
chocolatieclaire 2 years ago 5
Just another Down Low that used a woman to get what they need. In this case, it was a "GREEN CARD". Now everyone is calling her a fool. Women gets used again and now he is all smiles. He got the green card and divorce settlement and out of the closet. Oh, life is so good!!!!
colorpurple1 2 years ago 3
Forget this dic in the bootie ass dude. C what happens when Stellas gets her groove on.
wyinuza 2 years ago
I wonder what HELEN KELLER would say about him if she were alive.
Just wondering, Terri!
ShangoJamal 2 years ago
u should of SEEN that one coming!LOL
1souleagle 2 years ago
Terry McMillan is a bitter, DESPERATE, dried up old HAG that persued a 19 year old BOY, when she was every bit of 41 years of age at the time. SHE was the one who paraded him around Hollywood and made a movie about their life together. SHE was the one who insisted they get married. SHE knew damn well that FLAMIN ass boy was gay when she met him.
It's time for some of these women to get off the pitty pot and start taking RESPONSIBILITY for their own actions! He didn't force her to marry him!
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lacracha 2 years ago
You're damn straight "dear" she was over and a grown ass woman, that should have KNOWN BETTER!!
He didn't use her for anything. She flaunted her wealth and money to a YOUNG, barely legal, poverty stricken young, gay BOY in another country.
And YES age does matter, "dear." Especially when the older more experienced person KNOWS BETTER! He didn't make her do anyting she didn't already want to do.
SEFYH 2 years ago
Amen to that.
BLACKARAZZI 2 years ago
@SEFYH Stop the madness!
DigitalDezinesCEO 1 year ago
@DigitalDezinesCEO - Huh?
SEFYH 1 year ago
You masculine feminist thinking women are rediculious. On one hand your equal with a man and want the same this and that, but on the other hand your a WOMAN and he shouldnt have done that to her........Give me a BREAK
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lacracha 2 years ago
Oh blah, blah, blah! Save that MESS for Oprah! Terry's old ass was DESPERATE, plain and simple. She was NOT in love. She went over there to buy a man and it back fired in her 40+ year old face.
Terry McMillan is a very smart woman. She did not get to where she is in life by being stupid, so please spare me the "Terry's a victim" crap. She does not get a pass. Life is about making decisions and she CHOSE that for herself.
I must be a what too? Just flat out say what you're talking about.
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lacracha 2 years ago
Yet another gold-digger (K-Fed) who was lucky enough to find himself a wealthy celebrity to help kick-start his shabby career. Look at the way he smiles and laughs throughout - a man with no shame and no remorse for what he has done. All that crap about difficulties coming out about his sexuality, HE KNEW what he was when he met Terri but conveniently hid it so he could screw her over (literally, financially and emotionally). What a vile, disgusting man!!
SalsaQueen21 2 years ago
Maybe Terry's gay radar was broken when she met him because this motherfucker is straight up gay, no doubt!!!
sugafree0107 2 years ago
It's a shame. And people wonder why it's hard for Black women to trust. She's "bitter" because he made a mockery of their marriage. He knew he was gay from day one. You don't just "wake up" one day and be gay. And he's making it hard for gay people to be honest with themselves and others. I'm not homophobic but I think if you have mixed feelings on which side of the fence you are on, don't commit to a relationship. He's an opportunist. Point blank.
neec1427 2 years ago
I see your point and almost agree, where he comes from they RAPE women who are gay and KILL AND RAPE men whom are gay, so dealing with it wasn't an issue... u don't not correctly... U try to survive! HOMOPHOBIA IS REAL~~~PEOPLE DIE! He's in american where he could act out and he did, which at the age he was... he was totally confused!
1souleagle 2 years ago
ok...but don't you think he should have consulted his WIFE before he decided to "act out"? I say this because my boyfriend was confused and he trusted me to tell me. That's my point. I'm not bashing. Not everyone is kind to anyone who is different. Hell, I'm black and look how long it took for white people to "accept" us. And many people use the Bible as a clutch to hurt homosexuals.
But if you trust the person you're with, shouldn't that be the place to start with coming out?
neec1427 2 years ago 3
in the interview he does say he told his wife first and thats when she lashed out on him. he said he loved her enough to tell her and she used it against him til this day.
BLACKARAZZI 2 years ago
right, terry mc millan is ghetto. first off even if he was not gay, she was a selfish bitch because that young man like every young deserved a woman able to produce children for him, but that selfish hoe accepted to marry him even though she knew she was menopaused and dried-up, nothing but dust in these ovaries. Yes the boy is sweet, maybe that is best thing that happen to him but to waste his years of youth with an old cargo. Terry is selfish like many old lonely women with money.
Funkycraze 2 years ago
So how do you react when a man tell you he loves men, your man tell you that he does have a thing for boys, did your man finally come to term with his homosexuality because believe me if he as much as fantasize about boys he is gay, and not matter the amount of pussy you give him to cure his evil, that boy pretty much been sold to doing his thing with boys long before he told you about his "confusion". He desires another dude , consulted you just to make you ok with it, nothing special!
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lacracha 2 years ago
This mitha fucka is the reason aids is spead throughout our community.Excuse my french, but the dude seriously needs a dick shoved up his ass..oh wait, he likes thos types of things. He has no remorse.
juicycouture233 2 years ago
IGNORANCE IS THE REASON! HAS NOTHING TO WITH A DICK UP YOUR ASS AND why so graphic... If it use to be a WHITE COLLAR DIEASE BY UPPER CLASS WHITE PEOPLE, WHY IS IT NOW THE REASON AIDS IS RUNNING AROUND THE BLCK COMMUNITY ALL OVER THE WORLD, AND WHY IS AFRICAN/S WOMEN ARE DECIMATED BY THE DIEASE... IT IS NOT THE MANY GAY MEN/PEOPLE IN THE WORLD TO DO WHAT THE DIEASE WAS DESIGN TO DO.... CHECK YOUR FACTS
1souleagle 2 years ago
First of all i know my facts, i work in a clinic.And what i meant was when you sleep around, and your partner doesn't inform u, that's how stuff happens.Trust me, i know the facts i see it everyday
juicycouture233 2 years ago
Point taken, It wasn't meant as a remark against you... personally, MOST MEN-DON'T TELL GAY OR STRAIGHT, that they are sleeping around, its just the aids stigma.
Peace, doing a good job!
1souleagle 2 years ago
I'm responding to your comment. Yes, I understand where he is from, they kill gays. but there's no excuse to decieve her. You do not commit to a relationship if yoiu know that's not where your heart is. Both may have had an agenda, but like I said before, this makes it hard for confused gays who do want to be honest about their sexuality. This is no different than a man or woman in a realtionship cheating. It's still cheating.
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lacracha 2 years ago
I'm not sure why you answered the way you did... I was speaking about the subject and not some personal comments about sinners... the truth doesn't hurt, it's you who doesn't know how to put the truth so you act like your hurting someone by making statements against people who randomly have sex,that is a CHARACTER ISSUE, and STRAIGHT MEN ARE ADVERTISE TO b HOES.....! I'm not a gay man or man.... please don't email me no more with that disturbing bull!!!!!!!
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lacracha 2 years ago
The concern is your bashing and email harassment... I don't know who is "we all believe you"... I'm a female, real female who cares about the concern of human beings and gay men are not the problem it's confused straight men, such as yourself whom seem to have the experience of the rest to call someone who's gay... if your so STRAIGHT, why are you so concern to make me GAY... WHY ARE STRAIGHT MEN SO EXPERIENCE AT KNOWING WHOS GAY IF THEY AIN'T... SOME RAW ASSED COMMENTS YOU MAKE!!!!!
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lacracha 2 years ago
I DON'T HANG OUT WITH GAY MEN... I'm a student of knowledge& don't throw accusations @ people to the level you are with no solution!!!!! Females/males are normally sleeping with your boyfriends you need to find another group, law student from smu your qualifications/manipulations are not working... your fascination to provoke conversation is psychotic!!!!!!
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lacracha 2 years ago
The point is caring about human beings... the "truth" as spoke previously, you used against me... Men are going to do what Men are going to do(their not gonna tell U): STRAIGHT OR GAY... HE WAS HONEST WITH HER SHE TURNED ON HIM!!!!!! THE TRUTH HURTED HER BECAUSE SHE WAS CHEATED ON, IF THATS THE TRUTH DROP THE SUIT!!!!
lacracha "law student"
1souleagle 2 years ago
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lacracha 2 years ago
Did they do that to you, explains the bitterness!! find a new dick and relax, he is not the only good dick on earth, chill!!
Funkycraze 2 years ago
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lacracha 2 years ago
KEEP YOUR HANG OUTS SECERT, you and the rest of the "believers you speak of/or B HIND!
1souleagle 2 years ago
what in the world was Terri thinking of....HE HAS GAY WRITTEN ALL OVER HIM!!!!!
CHICOKAIN 2 years ago 4
why would she understand? hello you were her husband sleeping around with other men!!!!!
blacklily624 2 years ago 2
hmmmmmmmmmmm
PinotNoir1975 2 years ago
dude is a straight asshole...i'd still be bitter too!!!
AlakiaQueeone 2 years ago 2
I would still be bitter as well. He misrepresented himself to her. He put her life in danger. Life goes on, true enough, but to make someone look foolish and use them, that is a whole different animal. SMH!
honeyhued08 2 years ago 13
1st comment!yay.........how you doing,you better work boy
tyshawilliams 2 years ago