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  • god bless this couple. i lost my bf in 2008, the love in your twos eyes is so strong. watching this made me cry. dont ever give up, i lost my love, best friend, companion, he was everything to me. and i still havent given up, i know hes an angel watching over me.

  • You are beautiful, faithful , & a brave women, what a real women you are indeed

    This is what you call REAL LOVE, Thank GOD you are ok, for your fiance lift him

    up in the name of JESUS, YOUR HEAVENLY FATHER WILL TAKE GOOD CARE

    OF HIM, FAMILY KEEP PRAYING, CHRIST IS THE HEALER, HE IS SAVIOR.

    I have the perfect song that you can dedicate to what has happend & it's a beautiful wedding song for your wedding also, it is "sade by your side" May GOD BLESS YOU & KEEP YOU

  • in my prays plz plz plz get better soon gosh im crying

  • i almost cried watching this!!! omg its soooooooooooooooooooooo sad!!!! u are in my prayers!! he'll get better!!!

  • Hi Karen! I have watched your videos over and over again in the past couple years. I just want you to know that I think of Sarah and James often. This story has really touched me. They seemed so happy. I was watching American Idol last night, and when Chris told his story of his fiance getting into an accident and having a brain injury, I immediately thought of James. How is he doing now? Is he still fighting? Does he know you guys at all? Sarah had to make a tough decision, but she was young.

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  • so sad :S

  • kept on praying and kept the faith james is still there and he will walk and talk just put him in gods hands and he will heal him and he will live again without health problem. trust god and his will. amen

  • this video makes me want to hold my husband a little closer. i am deeply sorry that you have to go through this at such a young age, you and James are in my prayers.

  • this is so sad!! </3 

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  • I CRY FOR JAMES AND SARAH BECAUSE I TO AM IN LOVE AND WHAT HAPPEND TO HIM IS THE WORST AND IM SO SORRY THAT BAD THINGS HAPPEN TO GOOD PEOPLE

  • horrible horrible horrible sad story i cryed alot for you guys and im so sorry for that to happen to james i ask god y things like that happen to people but still no answer im so sorry for you and him once again im still crying for you

  • I am a guy, and this made me sad also... You will always be in my prayers James... ♥

  • They broke my heart really broke it to pieces I hope you guys get through this.

  • i pray that james makes it through. my father in law had a brain tumor and had 4 strokes the last one was a brain hemmorage it put him in a coma. The doctors said he will not make it, let him go he wont wake up. well let me tell you the doctors dont know what they are talking about half the time, because they have no idea what to say when they dont know the out come they always assume. my father in law woke up he healthy walking almost back to normal. miracles happen my father in law is proof.

  • @laysea65 Uh...I think what this person is saying is that s/he wants to know the name of the song, and is afraid asking would be tasteless. Perhaps reading more carefully is in order before calling someone an "azz" (whatever that is.)

  • I extend my condolences. That's right. our lives can change on a dime, in an instant. Never take anything or anyone for granted. My husband had a TBI 3 yrs ago. You have my prayers.

  • I'm sorry they took off the song. When I heard it on here, I had to go look it up, and it's become one of my favorite songs. I think of you guys everytime I hear it. God bless you all. Are you able to include the song if you have only part of it, leave some of it instrumental, etc.?

  • @laysea65 they were saying it was tasteless that they wanted to know what the music was, not the video...

  • your daughter is so brave..kudos to her..idk what i wud have done if that was my love..he will be in our prayers..:)

  • I am so mad youtube took the song off this video not like I was making money off the song it was for James who got in a bad car accident leaving him with a traumatic brain injury, grrrrrrrrr can't anyone just have a good memory on here

  • im so sorry for her, your daughter. my heart and prayers go out to his family as weel as yours. How is your daughter now? Has she found a new love? Or has it been hard for her? She is such a beautiful girl and so are your other daughters. Thank you for sharing this with us, as i feel that in you doing so has helped us appreciate life more!! God bless you!!!

  • im so sorry for all of you!! my heart and prayers go out to the both of you, sarah and james, and the families. i couldnr=t amagine going through something like this! god bless you for staying so strong through all of this :) and i hope everything works out

  • this is so sad

    i feel so sorry for you both

    and wish you best of luck to the future

  • Brain chip - CHECK MY SITE

  • is james still in a coma ??

  • James is in what they call a vegatative state, he can't walk, talk, eat, etc.. the brain injury he sustained was just too damaging to his brain. He lives in a rehabilition place it's heartbreaking and my daughter had to make the tough decesion to move on with her life as she is so young and has so much of a life ahead of her. she will always love james but he doesn't know any of us.

  • omg that is so sad... i am so sorry . one of my best friends got beat up for being gay and he was in a coma for 4months until he died so i kinda no how it feels to lose someone very important to you. my heart goes out to you and you daughter and james family ~

  • @laysea65 He would have done the exact same thing. Men usually find companionship really quick. God will take care of both of them **individually**. Life goes on..

  • @laysea65 im so sorry for ur daughter having to make that decesion my prayers are with you all .. is he still in rehabilition?

  • @laysea65 how is james today?

  • awh . this is very sad.

  • true meaning of L O V E !

  • I believe that everything happens for a reason.

    There is no point in believing anything else...

  • This is so very sad my heart goes out to them fully , what a strong girl sarah must be and a beautiful loving one at that

  • of course! i saw something on sarahs myspace a while back.. did james pass away?

    gosh i hope not! best wishes to everyone.

    how are ya'll?

  • No he did not pass away but sad to say he is in a vegatative state :( Sarah will always love him as well as me. thanks for caring

  • Update for those who want to know, the accident happend august 15th 2007 it was horrible. James is now in a vegatative state sad to say. He lives in a rehabilatation center for people with severe tramatic brain and spinal cord injuries. At this point it does't look good for him but please keep praying for him, he was only 18 when this happend and it was not drug or alachol related. He went to church, had a scholarship to go to college and in an instant his life has pretty much stopped :(

  • Did he make it or is he still in a coma?

  • I left an update about James on the video thanks for all who prayed for him. Karen

  • God bless you my dear love can be the most beautiful gift out there but it can be the most dangerous

  • Soooo sad. Im very sorry and hope he is doing better? How is he doing? I will keep him and your daughter in my prayers. Is he doing better?

  • Hi I left an udate on how James is doing on the video.

  • sarah and james did not pass away! he suffered a brain injury

  • thanks for letting the rude person know they didn't die and they said this video is tasteless, whateverrrrrrrrrr some ppl are so heartless and stupid.

  • This was added in Dec. 08...how is he doing now?

  • Hi I left an update on how he is doing on the video

  • hey girl i feel in love when i was young too and its the most greatest gift. good luck i will carry you in my prayers. who sings this song

  • now that is what i call love

  • wow! that video was so sad...hang in there the both of you...god bless!

  • very well done...what song did you use?

  • i am so sorry for what you and your daughter must be going thru she is amazing to be by his side and care for him and show him she loves him i just viewed the video of her singing to him shes so sweet ;) i hope he gets better soon

  • thank you so much but sad to say James is in a vegatative state and more tha likely will be for the rest of his life, He was only 18 when this happend. breaks my heart :(

  • I realize I don't know this young man's exact situation, but I do want you to know that there can be hope. My husband is a severe TBI survivor (severe! - was 20 yrs old) and here we are 12 yrs. later with college degrees and a family. It's not easy - even with most physical ailments long out of the way. But don't give up hope of having a loving, fulfilling life together. Check out Angela Ward's recovery videos on myspace and Cody's here on youtube. Very inspiring! Stay +! God bless you all!!

  • I pray he comes out of it but they say he is in a vegatative state, the accident happend august 15th 2007. He was only 18 yrs old with so many dreams, had a scholarship to go to college, It breaks my heart to see him like this now. He was a good guy and this did not happen due to drugs or alachol, he was a christian and didn't drink, smoke or do drugs. so so sad. god bless u and your family

  • Lo lamento tanto...

    De todo corazon deseo que James se mejore y vuelva a ser el joven que fue y que junto a Sarah sean felices y que todo el dolor que hoy sienten solo sea un mal recuerdo.

    Quisiera ver un video de James recuperado.

    Mucha fortaleza para Sarah.

    Eres una buena madre, Sarah llevara esta tragedia mejor porque tiene tu apoyo y comprension.

  • Omg Everytime i watch this i cry, thats true love for sure!!!

  • Be strong

  • God, what a video!!! I was in a accident recently, and my brain was swollen, and I had severe brain trauma!!! I was in a coma for 3 weeks, they said I wouldn't make it!! They said I would never walk again, talk again, that my life would never be the same.............." Well, they were wrong"!!!!!!!!!! I am going for my Masters in Architecture, I am taking care of my little girl, I walk, I run, I live!!!!!!!!!!!!! Remember, If you believe, you will succeed!!!!!!!!!!

  • @phoenix20056

    My sister was in a bad car accident and she was in a coma for month. The doctors told us she wasn't going 2 live and if she dose she would be a vegetable but now she is alive and has no problems! Its a miracle!

  • i hope he gets better soon

  • i feel deepley for you all and yes i agree james does look a great youngman and i do hope he gets well for you and himself, i will be praying for you all, take great care and please let me no if there is any change xxx

  • it reminds me of my cuz she got in an accident with her boyfriend and the both died

    it just hurts so much i hope yur family overcomes this i just cant express how much it show yu life and how it can be put in danger for anyone at anytime

    god bless yu and yur family

  • We are currently 8 months pregnant. Our baby I named in Maori Tumanako mo ake tonu atu which means Endless Hope. Mark still lives with disabilities but as you see in the doc of mark anything is truly possible, its dependent on James spirit, and his supports, his family and your beautiful daughter. It is a journey, things wont return 2 normal but life is so precious, Im greatful totally and utterly greatful 4 mine with mark he has the most beautifulest spirit and hes so excited bout baby bless u

  • Kia ora laysea, Ive just left a message on your channel page but just saw some stupid comments written here... 4get them! grrr! Anyways I just want to bless you with positivity! All TBI are different and recovery is indervidual. But I wouldnt trade my partner 4 anything! I love him dearly, His situation is soo similiar to James situation. He had his accident just after he turned 19 in 93 and spent majority of his life rehab, now he is 34 we are engaged, planning 2 marry and awaiting our baby

  • from a random stranger: never give up hope! <3

  • hi,

    how is James now? I was in a coma for 6 months after my accident and I suffered a severe brain injury.James is blessed with his fiancee.I had my parents to support me but Ì long for love.

    Be brave!

    Dani

  • I know what you're going through.. My boyfriend is in a coma right now too! In fact, he had his TBI the day you posted this video! Be strong!!! Please let me know how he is doing! I have video's posted if you would like to see Nathan's progression!

  • Thank you so much he is in a Rehab center for TBI patients he still can't eat on his own, walk, talk, nothing but we love him and pray God will heal his brain it's heartbreaking he was and is such a great young man only 19 yrs old I'm sorry for you stay strong too

  • This is gay, I'mm going back to listing Styx - Renegade.

  • You are a real jerk to say that about this poor young man that may be messed up for the rest of his life, this wasn't a damn song to rock out to it's about my daughters fiance whom is only 19 yrs old that has a tramatic brain injury you dumb cold hearted prick you are blocked now bitchhhhhhhhhhhhhh I pray you never end up or your family like this your heartless to say the least so bye bye asshole

  • please ignore, don't dignify them with a response, that kind of person has no feeling, if they cant feel empathy then they can't feel love either, naow THAT is truly tragic, you can concentrate your time and effort on supporting your Sarah and James, the rest of the world really doesn't matter!

  • be strong..

  • Thank you we are trying God Bless you

  • The love in his heart is so strong for her that even that brain injury cannot stop it. Continous therapy and rehabilation will bring him through. I have seen many brain injured patients come back from that state and be normal again. Don't give up.

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