Great job Brendon - a shame there aren't more strong, well adjusted athletes and leaders like you. There will always be the small, mean-spirited and prejudiced minority, but leadership like yours will eventually turn the tide.
... there is NO gay gene, even after decades of a desperate search by the homosexual movement... homosexuality is rooted in the condition which starts very, very, very early in childhood know as Gender Identity Disorder, or failure of an individual to latch to the correct gender identity, due to dysfunctional upbringing/enviriomental factors... it is all explained at "What Nature Intended, Six Factors Demonstrating Homosexuality to be a Dysfunction"... at whatnatureintended.weebly.com....
Marriage, traditionally, has always been between one man and one woman; and should always remain that way. Same sex couples cannot procreate under any circumstances, and based upon that are really not suited for parenthood. I support the efforts of judges in states like Virginia who have taken children away from LGBT people once their sexual preference or identity were revealed. Sharon Bottoms is one example of a woman who lost custody of her child in a divorce case because she was a lesbian.
@cfrsucks You're blatantly wrong, actually. Many cultures have recognized same-sex relationships, and plural marriages have been commonplace all over the world. Get your head out of your ass and learn some history before you go about talking about things you know nothing about.
There would be nothing equal about legalizing it unless polygamy is legalized as well. If marriage is only about love, then break all the limits or STFU!
What do you expect for a team whose color is purple?? After all they have a quarterback named Joe Fagg-O, A linebacker called :Gay Doofus(Ray Lewis) & Ed "Dickweed" Reed.
Proud to be a Cowboys fan..No bama punk bitch queer purple colors here !!!
Brendon you are pathetic, will you be wearing a pink jump suit when you play against the steelers, I hope the Ravens fire you, go play ball with our pathetic governor. I don't even want to watch Monday night football this week. We don't want gay marriage leagelized in Maryland, and we want our Ravens to be real men, what next a gay cheerleader?
sad to see a Balt Ravens player support this trash, no gay marriages in Maryland, my father was a queer, the damage it done to his children was terrible, who wants a gay daddy, pathetic and sinful, it caused my brother to commit murder, be glad I believe in a God to account too. no queer marriages in Maryland
@24orie I already told you, a queer father, how would you like to be awaken in the middle of the night and have your daddy playing with your private parts? we didn't so we ran away. would rather grow up on the streets of Baltimore, then be a victim of queers. you people are pathetic and sinners, you need to repent of your homosexuality. God created Adam and Eve, not Adam and steve. Absolutley no gay marriages, you peope pollute this nation, repent.
@pistisallen are you wise enough to take every word of god, every step of the way? I mean, when was the last time you wore someone elses clothing?
“The woman shall not wear that which pertaineth unto a man, neither shall a man put on a woman’s garment: for all that do so are abomination unto the Lord thy God”--Deuteronomy 22:5
Did you know it's perfectly acceptable to sell your daughter into slavery? I'll raise my queer child and keep my dignity while lacking your god, thank you.
Hats off to you! We should not have a right to choose who someone else can and cannot marry...If more people would mind their own business we would probably live in a much better society. Hey you bible thumpers....if you read the "Good Book" then you should follow it....."Judge Not Lest Ye Be Judged!" Grow Up People!
And by the way.....Maybe these religious freaks should be keeping your eye on that preacher fondling the choir boy or swindling the little old lady out of her life savings and stop peeking in your neighbors window. (I'd like to know what your "God" needs all that money for?)
@sandyhigdon1 Brendon should mind his own business of playing football for the Ravens, he has ticked off a Ravens fan, and probably a whole lot more, I hope the Ravens fire his butt, the news has plastered this garabage on our tvs in Baltimore, now it is my business. We the peolpe do not want gay marriages it is vial and perverse, you people corupt our society. I suggest you read about sodom and gommorah, and tha homosexuality is an abomdination, and repent of your wicked ways No queer mariages
Anyone who has a problem with gays marrying EACH OTHER, needs to look in the mirror and ask themselves why. I think it is deep rooted shame of their OWN homosexual desires. AND, Jealousy because they don't have the balls to be open minded. (fear)
Brendon u suck. I'll never forgive u for dissing the CFL. The Lions and the CFL gave u a chance to play and show ur stuff and for u to disrespect the league is not right.
@beegbolt Haha, if by "fucking idiot" you mean "right on the money".
I know it must be hard for you to live with a backwards, crippled mind, but don't worry, maybe there's a cure for individuals like you and the tard in this video.
@evanstoler If that is the case, then people with the sick hatred as yourself should get the same treatment. One thing that I've learned is that people with such harsh judgmentalism toward others are mainly trying to avoid feeling bad about their own sinfulness.
Brendon Ayanbadejo should be ashamed of himself. He like many in this country are more obsessed to have front page dialouge on this topic. I wish young people would be this vocal about the lack of jobs, the country in 3 wars, the foreclosure of homes, young black men dying in the streets from gang activitity. More people want to discuss this silly topc & justin bieber. just shows you how this new age of media that whats important and what's not.
As a lifelong Pats fan, supporting an AFC foe will be tough. But With Ayanbadejo and Stallworth both hailing from Baltimore, I guess I'm left with no choice.
This guy must be like Obama: a foreign-born Muslim who is for the "downfall" of America's traditional way of life: the downfall of bullying, racism, misogyny, religious bigotry, and most of all: homophobia. Unpatriotic weirdos who are not normal like we are must be stopped! If accepting, supporting, caring about, and loving of those who are godless un-christians continues, then humans will be killed even more than they are right now. God does NOT allow people to be loving and caring.
In this day and age we should not even be having this discussion.Everyone should automatically have the right to marry who ever they want to,love is love and everyone should have the same rights.Well said Brendon...
I am a republican. I'm in favor of changing laws that allow congress to have special benefits that are denied to other Americans. I am also married to a wonderful man. I am thankful, for the example of Ellen Degeneres and Portia DeRossi Degeneres, and now by you, Brendon Ayanbadejo that you have set for all of us, by reminding us that true love has no boundaries. Not race, nor creed, nor religion, nor sex should legally prohibit a loving couple from cementing their bond before God.
I'm not a huge football fan, but I'm impressed beyond my ability to express it. You've got guts, Mr. Ayanbadejo. Thank you for your bravery and rationality.
BRANDON!!! THANK YOU!!!! THANK YOU!!! THANK YOU!!!!!! you are THE MAN!!! and from now on, I'll watch and support you wherever you go man! THANK YOU for your compassion and message of love and EQUALITY! Come Friday!!! I think we have a good chance of winning :)
This is great. For someone, a football player, who is supposed to be an icon of American machismo to speak out in favor of equal treatment for gays and lesbians really is a powerful statement. Thanks, Brandon.
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Whats the world coming to? The children will be fucked. Marriage = Man and woman. I guess we will be allowed to marry dogs and horses next....because hey...they love each other.
@fdsaks just think, people were saying that about interracial couples 50 years ago. Things change dude, always have always will. You just have to grasp it and move on...
If NOM is robocalling in Maryland with their antigay message, why doesn't the HRC start calling with this guy's message? Or are they too busy with their cocktail parties while NOM is busy stealing the vote?
Thanks for your message! It's important that people know that gays are not asking for approval, but fairness. They are not asking for recognition by people or religion, but THE STATE. And they are not asking for a blessing, they're asking for EQUAL rights.
Brendon, May I be the first, quite literally here, to say THANK-YOU for you message of love, support, and fairness and equality. I, a Canadian, and my partner, an American, are living on the edge of this vote coming up - if it passes it will cement the possibility that I will be able to stay here, with him, and work and do all the things I do to help make Baltimore a better place for all to live. Allies like yourself make this possible. I and he are indebted for your support. Thank-you. A.T.
Count me in. Way to go Brendon !
Jimmyboica 1 month ago
i love brendon
buzznyc 1 month ago
Great job Brendon - a shame there aren't more strong, well adjusted athletes and leaders like you. There will always be the small, mean-spirited and prejudiced minority, but leadership like yours will eventually turn the tide.
TheTimLeeShow 3 months ago
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... there is NO gay gene, even after decades of a desperate search by the homosexual movement... homosexuality is rooted in the condition which starts very, very, very early in childhood know as Gender Identity Disorder, or failure of an individual to latch to the correct gender identity, due to dysfunctional upbringing/enviriomental factors... it is all explained at "What Nature Intended, Six Factors Demonstrating Homosexuality to be a Dysfunction"... at whatnatureintended.weebly.com....
luistpuig 4 months ago
Marriage, traditionally, has always been between one man and one woman; and should always remain that way. Same sex couples cannot procreate under any circumstances, and based upon that are really not suited for parenthood. I support the efforts of judges in states like Virginia who have taken children away from LGBT people once their sexual preference or identity were revealed. Sharon Bottoms is one example of a woman who lost custody of her child in a divorce case because she was a lesbian.
cfrsucks 4 months ago
@cfrsucks You're blatantly wrong, actually. Many cultures have recognized same-sex relationships, and plural marriages have been commonplace all over the world. Get your head out of your ass and learn some history before you go about talking about things you know nothing about.
gparks4269 3 months ago
@cfrsucks
Then how come Jacob had two wives and Solomon 700?
buddy51 5 days ago
There would be nothing equal about legalizing it unless polygamy is legalized as well. If marriage is only about love, then break all the limits or STFU!
slbhanna 4 months ago
Wonderful...yall asswhipes stop hating
MsMikko77 4 months ago
What do you expect for a team whose color is purple?? After all they have a quarterback named Joe Fagg-O, A linebacker called :Gay Doofus(Ray Lewis) & Ed "Dickweed" Reed.
Proud to be a Cowboys fan..No bama punk bitch queer purple colors here !!!
cadillac4100 4 months ago
Brendon you are pathetic, will you be wearing a pink jump suit when you play against the steelers, I hope the Ravens fire you, go play ball with our pathetic governor. I don't even want to watch Monday night football this week. We don't want gay marriage leagelized in Maryland, and we want our Ravens to be real men, what next a gay cheerleader?
pistisallen 4 months ago
sad to see a Balt Ravens player support this trash, no gay marriages in Maryland, my father was a queer, the damage it done to his children was terrible, who wants a gay daddy, pathetic and sinful, it caused my brother to commit murder, be glad I believe in a God to account too. no queer marriages in Maryland
pistisallen 4 months ago 2
@pistisallen are you kidding me, who raised this fool?
24orie 4 months ago
@24orie I already told you, a queer father, how would you like to be awaken in the middle of the night and have your daddy playing with your private parts? we didn't so we ran away. would rather grow up on the streets of Baltimore, then be a victim of queers. you people are pathetic and sinners, you need to repent of your homosexuality. God created Adam and Eve, not Adam and steve. Absolutley no gay marriages, you peope pollute this nation, repent.
pistisallen 4 months ago
@pistisallen are you wise enough to take every word of god, every step of the way? I mean, when was the last time you wore someone elses clothing?
“The woman shall not wear that which pertaineth unto a man, neither shall a man put on a woman’s garment: for all that do so are abomination unto the Lord thy God”--Deuteronomy 22:5
Did you know it's perfectly acceptable to sell your daughter into slavery? I'll raise my queer child and keep my dignity while lacking your god, thank you.
24orie 4 months ago
Hats off to you! We should not have a right to choose who someone else can and cannot marry...If more people would mind their own business we would probably live in a much better society. Hey you bible thumpers....if you read the "Good Book" then you should follow it....."Judge Not Lest Ye Be Judged!" Grow Up People!
sandyhigdon1 4 months ago
And by the way.....Maybe these religious freaks should be keeping your eye on that preacher fondling the choir boy or swindling the little old lady out of her life savings and stop peeking in your neighbors window. (I'd like to know what your "God" needs all that money for?)
sandyhigdon1 4 months ago
@sandyhigdon1 Brendon should mind his own business of playing football for the Ravens, he has ticked off a Ravens fan, and probably a whole lot more, I hope the Ravens fire his butt, the news has plastered this garabage on our tvs in Baltimore, now it is my business. We the peolpe do not want gay marriages it is vial and perverse, you people corupt our society. I suggest you read about sodom and gommorah, and tha homosexuality is an abomdination, and repent of your wicked ways No queer mariages
pistisallen 4 months ago
Anyone who has a problem with gays marrying EACH OTHER, needs to look in the mirror and ask themselves why. I think it is deep rooted shame of their OWN homosexual desires. AND, Jealousy because they don't have the balls to be open minded. (fear)
beegbolt 4 months ago
Brendon u suck. I'll never forgive u for dissing the CFL. The Lions and the CFL gave u a chance to play and show ur stuff and for u to disrespect the league is not right.
enkadude 5 months ago
I am now DEFINATELY a Ravens fan!! What a great guy and not hard on the eyes either!
fiona1282 6 months ago
Fags and dykes should be given lethal injection, not marriage rights.
Pedophiles might as well be allowed to marry kids.
evanstoler 8 months ago
@evanstoler so do you search around for LGBT oriented videos just so you can comment on how much you hate them? it's an honest question
29kyne 8 months ago
@evanstoler
No offense evan, but you're a fucking idiot.
beegbolt 4 months ago
@beegbolt Haha, if by "fucking idiot" you mean "right on the money".
I know it must be hard for you to live with a backwards, crippled mind, but don't worry, maybe there's a cure for individuals like you and the tard in this video.
evanstoler 4 months ago
@evanstoler If that is the case, then people with the sick hatred as yourself should get the same treatment. One thing that I've learned is that people with such harsh judgmentalism toward others are mainly trying to avoid feeling bad about their own sinfulness.
SapphirePanorama 4 months ago
@SapphirePanorama
Right on the money!
beegbolt 4 months ago
I hope NEW YORK has morals and values and says NO to gay marriage!
thetruegladiator 8 months ago
Brendon Ayanbadejo should be ashamed of himself. He like many in this country are more obsessed to have front page dialouge on this topic. I wish young people would be this vocal about the lack of jobs, the country in 3 wars, the foreclosure of homes, young black men dying in the streets from gang activitity. More people want to discuss this silly topc & justin bieber. just shows you how this new age of media that whats important and what's not.
lekesha00 9 months ago
As a lifelong Pats fan, supporting an AFC foe will be tough. But With Ayanbadejo and Stallworth both hailing from Baltimore, I guess I'm left with no choice.
commonsense987 9 months ago
Brendon totally rocks! :-)
rgsweeney 10 months ago
Brendon totally rocks! :-)
rgsweeney 10 months ago
Hooray!!
ashleyjo77 11 months ago
YEAH!!!!!!!
iceprincessdelta121 11 months ago
This guy must be like Obama: a foreign-born Muslim who is for the "downfall" of America's traditional way of life: the downfall of bullying, racism, misogyny, religious bigotry, and most of all: homophobia. Unpatriotic weirdos who are not normal like we are must be stopped! If accepting, supporting, caring about, and loving of those who are godless un-christians continues, then humans will be killed even more than they are right now. God does NOT allow people to be loving and caring.
coxhere1 11 months ago
His face is shiny. lmao :)
Boltrulz10 11 months ago
In this day and age we should not even be having this discussion.Everyone should automatically have the right to marry who ever they want to,love is love and everyone should have the same rights.Well said Brendon...
yvonne5010 11 months ago 3
I think I just became a Baltimore Ravens fan. You're awesome, Brendon. :)
RDJudesie 11 months ago 2
TAKES A STRONG CARING PERSON TO DO THAT!!!!!!!
xxcolbyxx22 11 months ago
I am a republican. I'm in favor of changing laws that allow congress to have special benefits that are denied to other Americans. I am also married to a wonderful man. I am thankful, for the example of Ellen Degeneres and Portia DeRossi Degeneres, and now by you, Brendon Ayanbadejo that you have set for all of us, by reminding us that true love has no boundaries. Not race, nor creed, nor religion, nor sex should legally prohibit a loving couple from cementing their bond before God.
lizbethclarke 11 months ago 5
I am now a fan of Brendon. How awesome is he to be man enough to do this? Too bad more men aren't comfortable in their own skin like Brendon is.!
Bonzy1969 11 months ago 9
Beautiful. Very nicely put.
jennsantry 11 months ago 3
Thanks for using your voice to speak out on such an important issue!
TheTimLeeShow 11 months ago 5
Beautifully and simply stated. Bravo.
Druis 11 months ago 3
Thank you so much. You have no idea how much this means to so many people. :)
jww047 11 months ago 5
Brendon Ayanbadejo, you just became my 1 and only favourite Raven.
This coming from a die hard Steelers fan.
AnishaD23 11 months ago 6
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I can't wait to see you get crushed on the field for this.
BBTOQA 11 months ago
Thank you so much! You are AMAZING!
keefers84 11 months ago 2
It'd be so cool if he were to be gay.
We need more gay role models so YES, it matters if people come out of the closet.
PrinceOfBabylon 11 months ago
I'm not a huge football fan, but I'm impressed beyond my ability to express it. You've got guts, Mr. Ayanbadejo. Thank you for your bravery and rationality.
operaryguy 11 months ago 4
Chicago made a mistake letting this guy go. You're a stand up guy Brendon.
Sabiancym 11 months ago
BRANDON!!! THANK YOU!!!! THANK YOU!!! THANK YOU!!!!!! you are THE MAN!!! and from now on, I'll watch and support you wherever you go man! THANK YOU for your compassion and message of love and EQUALITY! Come Friday!!! I think we have a good chance of winning :)
Keep SPreading the love Brandon!
V3GAdigi1 11 months ago
Straight athlete's like you make gay athlete's like me proud be be a part of any sporting community. Thank you.
shortystaygeekedup 11 months ago 2
This is a wonderful video.
THANK YOU BRENDON!!!
dharmapupil 11 months ago 2
This is freakin AWESOME dude! Thank you Brendon! You are awesome man!
the1tigglet 11 months ago
Thanks for standing up despite an environment that is stereotyped as being so conservative on LGBT issues!
PosiKris 11 months ago
oh hell yea! great video :)
scottisha819 11 months ago
This is great. For someone, a football player, who is supposed to be an icon of American machismo to speak out in favor of equal treatment for gays and lesbians really is a powerful statement. Thanks, Brandon.
nederninja 11 months ago
Brendon, you're my newest hero! Thank you!!!
markobrien16 11 months ago
Wow, what a cool person. He speaks so calmly and makes perfect sense. What a great person. Those in his family are so lucky.
FreedomUSA1 11 months ago
Awesome: dismantling stereotypes about pro football players while repudiating stereotypes about gays and lesbians.
nassauhedron 11 months ago 2
Peace, love & fairness.
DaveTheOrganism 11 months ago
Smart, progressive Man.
jacobsonsm 11 months ago
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Whats the world coming to? The children will be fucked. Marriage = Man and woman. I guess we will be allowed to marry dogs and horses next....because hey...they love each other.
fdsaks 11 months ago
@fdsaks just think, people were saying that about interracial couples 50 years ago. Things change dude, always have always will. You just have to grasp it and move on...
TheFreeThinkingMan 11 months ago
This is definitely a great video, and a great message, but since when do we squash anothers opinion because too many people disagree??
dankbass1 11 months ago
bravo!
MrMusicFlood 11 months ago
well, im a ravens fan now.
nubbs 11 months ago 39
Surprising, but very cool to see this video!
kaibelf 11 months ago 2
Thank you for your very important message and support.
Trafalgar1961 11 months ago 2
Great Video Brendon ! thanks for the support for the gay community.
beachfan75 11 months ago 2
Great video. Thanks Brendon!
EmeraldView 11 months ago
If NOM is robocalling in Maryland with their antigay message, why doesn't the HRC start calling with this guy's message? Or are they too busy with their cocktail parties while NOM is busy stealing the vote?
ascanius002 11 months ago
Thanks for your message! It's important that people know that gays are not asking for approval, but fairness. They are not asking for recognition by people or religion, but THE STATE. And they are not asking for a blessing, they're asking for EQUAL rights.
HuminBeenz 11 months ago
Bravo! Well said. Thank you.
MaxFGrump 11 months ago
@MaxFGrump Ditto!
tastyneck 11 months ago
I applaud you Brendon!!!! I'm standing on the side of love for all of my gay and lesbian friends!!!!! Thank you so much for your message!!
landensgma 11 months ago
Brendon, May I be the first, quite literally here, to say THANK-YOU for you message of love, support, and fairness and equality. I, a Canadian, and my partner, an American, are living on the edge of this vote coming up - if it passes it will cement the possibility that I will be able to stay here, with him, and work and do all the things I do to help make Baltimore a better place for all to live. Allies like yourself make this possible. I and he are indebted for your support. Thank-you. A.T.
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vechorik 4 months ago
@jtimleck stay in Canada, don't pullote our city
pistisallen 4 months ago