Yeah, I remember I made that jean/feather/beater outfit at home then wore it to school...Bad move, lol. I never lived it down. I thought I was the shit though! My friends and classmates sang this song every time they saw me.
nyc jam but she had to empty da brother's crib after he askt her 2 move out.. i guess bitches will always b bitches, just want free shit n 2 give instructions!!
...Damn near the whole album this was on (Kima, Keisha, and Pam) was a banger, but this was definitely one of the best tracks on it. And I agree, it'd be cool to see them reunite on the BET Awards, despite how much BET sucks nowadays...
So the song is about a lazy bitch that takes all of the dudes money, doesn't do anything, won't pick up after herself and THEN steal his shit while he is gone????
I LOVE the group but I videos that promote some kind of fucked up shit just because it's a woman... I call bullshit.
@gary031183 I feel u.... she should be chopped in the adams apple for that one..lol lazzy ass women sittin up in the house not doin shit then get an attitude when she get checked.. want to be treated like a chick from 60 years ago without any responsiblity what part of the game is dat.. that is all
@sashofelegance i'm not sure what happened..but i know the Keshia (light skin chick) is married to Omar Epps. Pam was always my favorite, her swagger was always on point
Sooooooooooooo Many Memories There's Nothin Like Tha 90's Music Aaliyah,Total,702,Xscape,Blaque,MaryJ,Faith Evans,Tamia,Mariah And Many Many Mo....I Wish I Can Go Bakk N Tyme When Music Was Music God I Missed Dem Dayz & Dis Genre&Decade Of REAL MUSIC!
yyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy they dont play songs like thissssssssssss anyyyyyyyyyyyy moreeeeeee???????? -So young, yet sooooooooooooooooooooo old school!!!!!! Most of this new school shit is trash... they need to come back or people need to start making music like this... something that could relate that aint always talking guns and killing but tru life shit and with feeling!
@jayoncestan12 no offense, but you must be DEAF to not hear that these women can sing. Then again, with the music out nowadays, I can't blame you for not being able to tell the difference between shit music and good music.
@packleader1215 well this lady don't want to stay home I'm INDEPENDENT all the way...... never depend on a man because when he leaves he takes everything with him, then what will i have...... NOTHING why?.. because i stayed HOME. But i love this song.
gotta love the smooth beat. remember when you had to wait by the radio for your favorite song to come on and record it on a cassette as a part your "party mix"? lol
@sosinceremusic LOL yes i do.......even when i was like 5, i had my lil portable recorder, and i would sneak and record adults conversations too....lol. i wish i could find sum of those old tapes....those were the days.
THE BEGINNING AND THE END OF THIS VIDEO IS FUNNY LOL I LOVE THIS SONG IM GOING THROUGH SOMETHING LIKE THIS RIGHT NOW SO THIS SONG HAS MORE MEANING . I WASNT FEELING THE 2 PONY TAILS BUT LOVE THIS SONG IT NEVER GETS OLD .
The beginning is out of sync with the meaning of the song. At the beginning she looks like a spoiled bitch who's man pays for everything while she spends his money and sits around all day, won't, cook, won't clean, won't do shit and she's mad at him for standing up for himself and putting her in place. Then she makes a remark that makes it sound like she was gonna burn his house down or some shit. But the song is about her man never being around and missing him....
Puff Daddy, Puffy, P Diddy, Diddy is a living legend a MOGUL. ANYTHING he touched turned to gold, or should I say platinum. EVERYONE in the industry wanted to work with Diddy. Its sad that his own people hate on him.
@truthfulexposure Sorry but, DIddy is OVER Since B.I.G. Dead! !! nobody want to work him, all his band group created R bands disbanded even Dirty Money rightnow lol..so!
I LOVE the ending of this video... AWoman after my own Heart...lmao
tabugif 2 days ago in playlist BAD BOY baby
I LOVE TOTAL!!!!! such a SMOOTH female group....
tabugif 2 days ago in playlist BAD BOY baby
i love these girls
anitacoates34 1 week ago
this was my shit.
Keldaminks 1 week ago
Boi i love Pam mwah mwah..still love u gurl holla sumtym.xxlool
zaina370 3 weeks ago
yeah it is, the whitehead brothers the song was called "forget I was a g" its one of the best songs in that era
MrThemarkell123 3 weeks ago
Yeah, I remember I made that jean/feather/beater outfit at home then wore it to school...Bad move, lol. I never lived it down. I thought I was the shit though! My friends and classmates sang this song every time they saw me.
bitchingood 3 weeks ago
@bitchingood LMAO...hilarious!!!
yellomello27 5 days ago
is this not thew tune from jason's lyrics 94
killajerome82 3 weeks ago
hahah my mans was like this....I left haha suck it up
XQueenieXBX 4 weeks ago
i miss good music like this !!!!!
agentm6009 1 month ago
thats rite TRUE R&B
2009andrell 1 month ago 2
Ed Lover, FUNNY.
amaniloves1 1 month ago
still love this
sugarfreemars 1 month ago
whta happen to total
derrickWms123 1 month ago
Pam was just to dam sexy!!!!!
derrickWms123 1 month ago
she look like she ran track or something...shoulda juss clocked dude in the face with those arms #OhLAwd
Exxodus1990 1 month ago
why u sittin home waiting..thought i told your ass to get out!!!
scott3944 1 month ago 20
CLASSIC
motherofanactress 1 month ago
THERE IS NOTHING LIKE THE 90s MUSIC!
Girls has class back then with great music even for men to listen to!
(Now all they do is show ass & say nasty stuff..NO CLASS)
Chazzie15 1 month ago 2
They have on feather earrings!!! thats crazy!! now its back in style
BrittaniiForReal 1 month ago
Good thing about the 90s: Good music
Bad thing about the 90s: Them crazy ass hairstyles lmao
5starcertified 1 month ago 2
THAT SHIT AT THE END WAS FUNNY AS HELL..............HAHAHAHA
SuperLadypink69 1 month ago 2
THIS IS HOW IT SHOULD BE THIS IS REAL TRUE R&B
SuperLadypink69 1 month ago
I love this song!
StoriMusic 1 month ago
pam hair was layinggggggggg!!!!damn total was thee shit
cocoyall 2 months ago 2
i love this video!!!
mkaaya23 2 months ago
@jayoncestan.....yes they can sing
breonte1412 2 months ago 2
Love Total!!! Plz come back!!!
BossLady6010 2 months ago 6
nyc jam but she had to empty da brother's crib after he askt her 2 move out.. i guess bitches will always b bitches, just want free shit n 2 give instructions!!
kalimba2p 2 months ago
@kalimba2p it's obvious you don't get the point of the whole song
wishzkissz 2 months ago
Their hair was always on point. Esp. those short styles.
Ktheblackdiamond 2 months ago 2
I don't really phuck wit skinny chicks, but I would dig in Pam's nappy dug out and lock her down, LOL
MIZARC215 2 months ago
Me too! You are so right.
jonesclbrz 2 months ago
...Damn near the whole album this was on (Kima, Keisha, and Pam) was a banger, but this was definitely one of the best tracks on it. And I agree, it'd be cool to see them reunite on the BET Awards, despite how much BET sucks nowadays...
Entropy161 2 months ago
damn ed lover
btop9 2 months ago
These bitches need to teach justin bieber how to sing
akira2196 3 months ago
So the song is about a lazy bitch that takes all of the dudes money, doesn't do anything, won't pick up after herself and THEN steal his shit while he is gone????
I LOVE the group but I videos that promote some kind of fucked up shit just because it's a woman... I call bullshit.
That being said... I LOVE TOTAL!
gary031183 3 months ago
@gary031183 I feel u.... she should be chopped in the adams apple for that one..lol lazzy ass women sittin up in the house not doin shit then get an attitude when she get checked.. want to be treated like a chick from 60 years ago without any responsiblity what part of the game is dat.. that is all
Skeez057 1 week ago
♡! Pam reminds me of Fantasia.
KleopatrasFortunes 3 months ago
@KleopatrasFortunes Pam is so much prettier.
MrAllenc79 2 months ago
@MrAllenc79 true, they are both pretty to me though.
KleopatrasFortunes 2 months ago
Pam keep her wig tight
jaie25 3 months ago
i ST!ll Bang D!s Album OUT
3YECANDY08 3 months ago
her hair cuts were BAD.
KoolKymmi 3 months ago
The joint!
noblechild456 3 months ago
C'MON SON LOL
Pooda590 3 months ago
U want me out i'll get out. Lol
MrMarcus6489 3 months ago
I love when he comes home at the end and every thing is gone. When you tell a woman to get out, what is she suppose to think. Love this song. :)
iamblessed2005 3 months ago
Pam was so cute.
NewJackSquare 3 months ago
What happened to Total? I loved this group! Best group of the '90s
sashofelegance 3 months ago
@sashofelegance i'm not sure what happened..but i know the Keshia (light skin chick) is married to Omar Epps. Pam was always my favorite, her swagger was always on point
Letmeb29 3 months ago
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Sooooooooooooo Many Memories There's Nothin Like Tha 90's Music Aaliyah,Total,702,Xscape,Blaque,MaryJ,Faith Evans,Tamia,Mariah And Many Many Mo....I Wish I Can Go Bakk N Tyme When Music Was Music God I Missed Dem Dayz & Dis Genre&Decade Of REAL MUSIC!
1988jamaine 3 months ago
how bout that
avivababy23 3 months ago
yo was that ed lover?????
KeyTroit 3 months ago
@KeyTroit yes
NaomiStarr86 3 months ago
@KeyTroit yeah it was him
TheMostHatedPlayer17 3 months ago
i love this song this song just put a smile on my face.
pryklzz 3 months ago
Kima, Kisha and Pam...miss the 90's
jropz 3 months ago
ed lover!!!!!
queenzfineschic 4 months ago
I miss Total. This is when music was good instead of fucking and shot em up
Simplytelly 4 months ago
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She is so dam pretty, my MF girl Pam!!! I love her. I floss that hair style daily.... :)
1stLady2RnBsingerJOE 4 months ago
She is so dam pretty, my MF girl Pam!!! I love her. I floss that hair style daily.... :)
1stLady2RnBsingerJOE 4 months ago
BTW: he's cheap! =)))))) Ctfu!
PocaTooReal 4 months ago
yyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy they dont play songs like thissssssssssss anyyyyyyyyyyyy moreeeeeee???????? -So young, yet sooooooooooooooooooooo old school!!!!!! Most of this new school shit is trash... they need to come back or people need to start making music like this... something that could relate that aint always talking guns and killing but tru life shit and with feeling!
PocaTooReal 4 months ago
Damn Pam hair cut is sooo damn pretty
tlovemcgee 4 months ago
so 90s but love it
tlovemcgee 4 months ago 2
"Im getting tired of being tired of your ways" real talk
tylisa06 4 months ago in playlist tylisa06's Favorited Videos
pam look extra pretty in this vid
relly1on11 4 months ago
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damn..that's going too far. Is it that serious
tasha1985 4 months ago
need to bring them back......need more female groups out
stephaniechantal1 4 months ago
I miss these songs this is true R&B
CoDelightCo 4 months ago 35
@CoDelightCo OMG Ain't that the truth?! I've been playing nonstop 90's R&B on Pandora!!
hydrolicdrops 3 weeks ago
Pam was extra sexii and had the best voice... total was my fav girl group in the 90's.
jehanerin 4 months ago 3
what ever happened to toal I know there from jersey the chick pam went to jp stevens in edison
retroguy1976 4 months ago
i love total..amazing tracks..every single one of them..i was born on 1988 but 90's by type of music.
bwabymafia 4 months ago 2
WHERE HAS THE TIME GONE....DEF A BANGGA
shaya315 4 months ago
These songs bring back so many memories.. crazy to think they almost 15yrs ago!
spdrcr787 4 months ago
all the female groups now are just naked and nasty and cant sing and just sex pods no talent
GodsAngeI1 4 months ago 19
@GodsAngeI1 What female groups ur talking about?! They don't exist anymore as far as i know! That era has long ended
11940ful 2 months ago
@GodsAngeI1 ... They CAN'T sing.
jayoncestan12 2 months ago
@jayoncestan12 no offense, but you must be DEAF to not hear that these women can sing. Then again, with the music out nowadays, I can't blame you for not being able to tell the difference between shit music and good music.
tishak 1 month ago
@GodsAngeI1 you are right
DuvalsFinestBitch 1 month ago
Pam know damn well she could have hung that towel up! LOL
stlbjh 4 months ago 2
I try my best to be good to you, but you're never around when I'm in the mood. Love this song!
butterflii08 4 months ago 2
THIS MY ISH!!!!!
truthbetold560 4 months ago 2
@sosinceremusic & @ladybug6982 LOL! When the tape was full, I tried to figure out what song I didn't like THAT much and recorded over it.
spiffy4president 4 months ago 3
i also remember acting like i was an rnb singer n singing into the blank tapes haha! it was all good until sumone would come across n hear ahhhhh lol
meliify 4 months ago 4
ED LOVER...lol
lohis100 5 months ago
diddy made all the good artist leave
Ryan93007 5 months ago 3
OKAY SKIP TO 34 SEC.....NOW THAT'S A FINE CHOCOLATE SISTA
DEBBO8080 5 months ago
Why have ratings been disabled for this video?
ILuvMusic4real 5 months ago
check this video is history brand nubian and ed lover are in this joint . Know where been to where you are going!!!!!!
mrfixitman123 5 months ago
All Damn Day
PeeGeeBeeDee 5 months ago
i loved this group
laquanish2009 5 months ago
wow I didn't realize how many hit singles Total had back then. They ruled the 90's. We need more girl groups to be more soulful again.
alwayzvanessa05 5 months ago
pam was always the gangsta one! god, i miss my 90s music!
90sLuVA 5 months ago 3
lol ince cameo by dr dre (the mtv raps one)
ukstevey 5 months ago
Ladies, if you want to stay home, you can. I'll bring home the money.
packleader1215 5 months ago
@packleader1215 well this lady don't want to stay home I'm INDEPENDENT all the way...... never depend on a man because when he leaves he takes everything with him, then what will i have...... NOTHING why?.. because i stayed HOME. But i love this song.
21tyisha 5 months ago
lesson of this video: Don't f*ck with Pam and her Crew! Love Total
sadeladybug 5 months ago
PAM IS SEXY :)
luvableonme 5 months ago
they're not coming back so deal with it and dont compare destiny's child to this group because their two different groups
nairobioceannalewis 5 months ago
Were(are) they gay? I remember people talking about that back in the day (,before gay became the thing to be).Anyway, I use to love this girl group.,
obdiane 5 months ago
Ed Lover aint playin no games lmao "...I don't stutter"
stretchman86 5 months ago
@stretchman86 "C'mon son! Get the fuck out of here with that shit!"
mossontherandy 5 months ago
they need to perform at the BET awards
ynginblues 5 months ago 22
@ynginblues Or at Hip Hop Honors!! Bad Boy Edition!!
R8TEDME 3 months ago
gotta love the smooth beat. remember when you had to wait by the radio for your favorite song to come on and record it on a cassette as a part your "party mix"? lol
sosinceremusic 5 months ago 167
@sosinceremusic Ohhhh this comment made my morning lol
xodorianleexo 5 months ago
@sosinceremusic I def remember that wow brings back so many memories
chrm314 5 months ago
@sosinceremusic don't forget you had to hit the "pause" button so there wouldn't be a gap between songs lol
ladybug6982 5 months ago 5
@ladybug6982 if you had that technique down, much props to you. couldn't do it to save my life. lol
sosinceremusic 4 months ago
@sosinceremusic Hell yeah!!
DieselMechanic09 4 months ago
@sosinceremusic hell yeah that shit would take up ya whole damn day. then you get mad cause you kept callin the station to request songs lol.
babysmitt 4 months ago
@sosinceremusic LOL yes i do.......even when i was like 5, i had my lil portable recorder, and i would sneak and record adults conversations too....lol. i wish i could find sum of those old tapes....those were the days.
melani411 3 months ago 2
@sosinceremusic I do remember them recording sessions, waiting for the right songs to comte and press that record button, lol.
NuvolariF1 3 months ago
Pam! The girl crush is in FULL EFFECT!
womackap 5 months ago
The goo d old days ...
felixthecat228 5 months ago
total have a lot of talnet they should come back im a90;s baby i miss them please come back out and show people yall still got it
madamet100 5 months ago
The one with long hair rarely sings
TheKingarrives 5 months ago
I love total songs but do not individually know their names..can someone tell me?thanks
TheKingarrives 5 months ago
@TheKingarrives except Pam obviusly
TheKingarrives 5 months ago
@TheKingarrives kiesha pam
felixthecat228 5 months ago
@felixthecat228 thankyou!
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youneekk 5 months ago
i loved this song! MEMORIES! they came back looking amazing! love Pam, she had the most style and natural beauty
anunez2102 5 months ago
I honestly don't understand why Diddy does this to his artists.... why bury them??? Wouldn't it make you more cash if you PROMOTED them??
tclass99 5 months ago
Pam from Total Pam from Total Pam from Total Pam Pam Pam Pam Pam Pam
ganjagoodness 5 months ago
at :34 seconds she is hellla fine!
tymewarrp 6 months ago
is this song about puffy?
tymewarrp 6 months ago
yeah total was the shit
themayorofchicago 6 months ago 3
1:13 is kima sister vita who was in that murder inc . she was also the lead girl in method man break up to make up video .
vixenlouie7 6 months ago
Pam is suppose to be putting out an album. This video is like a remixed electric slide.
Sydia311 6 months ago
Pam was the best in this group. This is the 3rd Best Song! They should scouted other deals and labels while at the top of their game.
Sydia311 6 months ago
i still love this song even though we in the 2000's
LORAINETUCKER 6 months ago
lol...To bad he didn't have his "C'mon Son" sign at the end of this video!
MrCbolden 6 months ago 2
OMG!!! One of my all time classic favorites!
micnmoore 6 months ago 2
Classic!!!
makeachu 6 months ago
610,316 views???? what the hell is up with ppl these days, music aint what it used to be.
XQueenieXBX 6 months ago
Is Pam gay? Did she ever come out? I'm gettin some strong lesbionic vibes.
Buzz0Killington 6 months ago
@Buzz0Killington Pam actually got married and had a baby. It was in Sista to Sista magazine.
Empha84 6 months ago
@Empha84 Oh, aight. I was just wonderin'. She looked kinda butch.
Buzz0Killington 6 months ago
@Buzz0Killington I know. I don't if she is still married. She looks better now that she put on some weight,
Empha84 6 months ago
luv dis song
teriale 6 months ago
c'mon son!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
soapsdz 6 months ago
Kesha was banging!!!
milleroh 6 months ago 2
total where are u, music needs u.... If i can only go back to the 90s
nettaB2cool 6 months ago
ლ(ಠ益ಠლ)+
MrSeanp93 6 months ago
THE BEGINNING AND THE END OF THIS VIDEO IS FUNNY LOL I LOVE THIS SONG IM GOING THROUGH SOMETHING LIKE THIS RIGHT NOW SO THIS SONG HAS MORE MEANING . I WASNT FEELING THE 2 PONY TAILS BUT LOVE THIS SONG IT NEVER GETS OLD .
LatinaSpicy08 6 months ago
Was that Ed Lover in the beginning!? C'mon SON!
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Sitting Home Waiting FOR u Jus Staring at these walls is all i do i try my best to b good to you but ur never around when im feelin; in the mood!!!
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FrEaKySxYaZn 6 months ago
OMG!!! That is the apratment from the movie EMPIRE (john leguizamo)
DG3744 6 months ago
Damn u knw this video old cuz of the t.v.
Michellous 6 months ago 2
It would take 12 videos of jordan sparks to equal 1 video of TOTAL
vampyre4208 6 months ago
Pam is one sexxzzy azz stud!!
MrRnbMan 6 months ago 2
@0:44, Damn Pam is soo cute!!
MrRnbMan 6 months ago
wat was the name of this album???
MyBrightspark 6 months ago
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LeToyabxlOfficial 6 months ago
@MyBrightspark Kima,Keisha & Pam!
LeToyabxlOfficial 6 months ago
I miss total :(
PreciouSapphire 6 months ago 2
LOVE THIS GROUP!!!!
tez123able 6 months ago
Keisha is so mother fucking S.E.X.Y!!!!!! Omar Epps is a lucky dude -RESPECT-
TheDimplePuppet 7 months ago 4
I AM FEEEEEEEEEEEELLLLLLLLLLLLLLLIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIINNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNGGGGGGGGGGGG THIS SONG
michaelavalanche 7 months ago
I totally agree with zdillenger that p diddy is a career killa where are the l.o.x
BANTUMMOJA1 7 months ago
I need pam
MIZARC215 7 months ago
12 years later and this is still hot!
TheRicDiddy 7 months ago 2
The beginning is out of sync with the meaning of the song. At the beginning she looks like a spoiled bitch who's man pays for everything while she spends his money and sits around all day, won't, cook, won't clean, won't do shit and she's mad at him for standing up for himself and putting her in place. Then she makes a remark that makes it sound like she was gonna burn his house down or some shit. But the song is about her man never being around and missing him....
DarkChildMuzik 7 months ago
true talent...real music....where did it go???
hizmama427 7 months ago
wait till he sees his bank account!
iloveyou7161986 7 months ago
ed lover shouldve said "come on son" when he got home and seen his shit gone lol
TSsomerville23 7 months ago
This is real music:DD
MsSperanza85 7 months ago
Puff Daddy, Puffy, P Diddy, Diddy is a living legend a MOGUL. ANYTHING he touched turned to gold, or should I say platinum. EVERYONE in the industry wanted to work with Diddy. Its sad that his own people hate on him.
truthfulexposure 8 months ago
@truthfulexposure man stfu .ppl speakin truth no one is on bad boy except him and heis riding the coat tails of rick ross and niki minaj
seansosa 7 months ago
@seansosa Actually even he's not under his own label. He jumped ship a while ago.
ajae08 7 months ago
@truthfulexposure Sorry but, DIddy is OVER Since B.I.G. Dead! !! nobody want to work him, all his band group created R bands disbanded even Dirty Money rightnow lol..so!
LeToyabxlOfficial 6 months ago
luv this song
alillady 8 months ago
Best album ever!!!!
bebe6006 8 months ago
THEY NEED TO MAKE A COMEBACK
msjade258 8 months ago
Yo Ed...Whats good with the S-Curl fade?
C'Mon SON!!!
Bankallday 8 months ago