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  • I LOVE the ending of this video... AWoman after my own Heart...lmao

  • I LOVE TOTAL!!!!! such a SMOOTH female group....

  • i love these girls

  • this was my shit.

  • Boi i love Pam mwah mwah..still love u gurl holla sumtym.xxlool

  • yeah it is, the whitehead brothers the song was called "forget I was a g" its one of the best songs in that era

  • Yeah, I remember I made that jean/feather/beater outfit at home then wore it to school...Bad move, lol. I never lived it down. I thought I was the shit though! My friends and classmates sang this song every time they saw me.

  • @bitchingood LMAO...hilarious!!!

  • is this not thew tune from jason's lyrics 94

  • hahah my mans was like this....I left haha suck it up

  • i miss good music like this !!!!!

  • thats rite TRUE R&B

  • Ed Lover, FUNNY. 

  • still love this

  • whta happen to total

  • Pam was just to dam sexy!!!!!

  • she look like she ran track or something...shoulda juss clocked dude in the face with those arms #OhLAwd

  • why u sittin home waiting..thought i told your ass to get out!!!

    

  • CLASSIC

    

  • THERE IS NOTHING LIKE THE 90s MUSIC!

    Girls has class back then with great music even for men to listen to!

    (Now all they do is show ass & say nasty stuff..NO CLASS)

  • They have on feather earrings!!! thats crazy!! now its back in style

  • Good thing about the 90s: Good music

    Bad thing about the 90s: Them crazy ass hairstyles lmao

  • THAT SHIT AT THE END WAS FUNNY AS HELL..............HAHAHAHA

  • THIS IS HOW IT SHOULD BE THIS IS REAL TRUE R&B

  • I love this song!

  • pam hair was layinggggggggg!!!!damn total was thee shit

  • i love this video!!!

  • @jayoncestan.....yes they can sing

  • Love Total!!!  Plz come back!!!

  • nyc jam but she had to empty da brother's crib after he askt her 2 move out.. i guess bitches will always b bitches, just want free shit n 2 give instructions!!

  • @kalimba2p it's obvious you don't get the point of the whole song

  • Their hair was always on point. Esp. those short styles.

  • I don't really phuck wit skinny chicks, but I would dig in Pam's nappy dug out and lock her down, LOL

  • Me too! You are so right.

  • ...Damn near the whole album this was on (Kima, Keisha, and Pam) was a banger, but this was definitely one of the best tracks on it. And I agree, it'd be cool to see them reunite on the BET Awards, despite how much BET sucks nowadays...

  • damn ed lover

  • These bitches need to teach justin bieber how to sing

  • So the song is about a lazy bitch that takes all of the dudes money, doesn't do anything, won't pick up after herself and THEN steal his shit while he is gone????

    I LOVE the group but I videos that promote some kind of fucked up shit just because it's a woman... I call bullshit.

    That being said... I LOVE TOTAL!

  • @gary031183 I feel u.... she should be chopped in the adams apple for that one..lol lazzy ass women sittin up in the house not doin shit then get an attitude when she get checked.. want to be treated like a chick from 60 years ago without any responsiblity what part of the game is dat.. that is all

  • ♡! Pam reminds me of Fantasia.

  • @KleopatrasFortunes Pam is so much prettier.

  • @MrAllenc79 true, they are both pretty to me though.

  • Pam keep her wig tight

  • i ST!ll Bang D!s Album OUT

  • her hair cuts were BAD.

    

  • The joint!

  • C'MON SON LOL

  • U want me out i'll get out. Lol

  • I love when he comes home at the end and every thing is gone. When you tell a woman to get out, what is she suppose to think. Love this song. :)

  • Pam was so cute.

  • What happened to Total? I loved this group! Best group of the '90s

  • @sashofelegance i'm not sure what happened..but i know the Keshia (light skin chick) is married to Omar Epps. Pam was always my favorite, her swagger was always on point

  • how bout that

  • yo was that ed lover?????

  • @KeyTroit yes

  • @KeyTroit yeah it was him

  • i love this song this song just put a smile on my face.

  • Kima, Kisha and Pam...miss the 90's

  • ed lover!!!!!

  • I miss Total. This is when music was good instead of fucking and shot em up

  • She is so dam pretty, my MF girl Pam!!! I love her. I floss that hair style daily.... :)

  • BTW: he's cheap! =)))))) Ctfu!

  • yyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy­yyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy­yyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy they dont play songs like thissssssssssss anyyyyyyyyyyyy moreeeeeee???????? -So young, yet sooooooooooooooooooooo old school!!!!!! Most of this new school shit is trash... they need to come back or people need to start making music like this... something that could relate that aint always talking guns and killing but tru life shit and with feeling!

  • Damn Pam hair cut is sooo damn pretty

  • so 90s but love it

  • "Im getting tired of being tired of your ways" real talk

  • pam look extra pretty in this vid

  • @000yhvh000

    damn..that's going too far. Is it that serious

  • need to bring them back......need more female groups out

  • I miss these songs this is true R&B

  • @CoDelightCo OMG Ain't that the truth?! I've been playing nonstop 90's R&B on Pandora!!

  • Pam was extra sexii and had the best voice... total was my fav girl group in the 90's.

  • what ever happened to toal I know there from jersey the chick pam went to jp stevens in edison

  • i love total..amazing tracks..every single one of them..i was born on 1988 but 90's by type of music.

  • WHERE HAS THE TIME GONE....DEF A BANGGA

    

  • These songs bring back so many memories.. crazy to think they almost 15yrs ago!

  • all the female groups now are just naked and nasty and cant sing and just sex pods no talent

  • @GodsAngeI1 What female groups ur talking about?! They don't exist anymore as far as i know! That era has long ended

  • @GodsAngeI1 ... They CAN'T sing. 

  • @jayoncestan12 no offense, but you must be DEAF to not hear that these women can sing. Then again, with the music out nowadays, I can't blame you for not being able to tell the difference between shit music and good music.

  • @GodsAngeI1 you are right

  • Pam know damn well she could have hung that towel up! LOL

  • I try my best to be good to you, but you're never around when I'm in the mood. Love this song!

  • THIS MY ISH!!!!!

  • @sosinceremusic & @ladybug6982 LOL! When the tape was full, I tried to figure out what song I didn't like THAT much and recorded over it.

  • i also remember acting like i was an rnb singer n singing into the blank tapes haha! it was all good until sumone would come across n hear ahhhhh lol

  • ED LOVER...lol

  • diddy made all the good artist leave 

  • OKAY SKIP TO 34 SEC.....NOW THAT'S A FINE CHOCOLATE SISTA

  • Why have ratings been disabled for this video?

  • check this video is history brand nubian and ed lover are in this joint . Know where been to where you are going!!!!!!

  • All Damn Day

  • i loved this group

  • wow I didn't realize how many hit singles Total had back then. They ruled the 90's. We need more girl groups to be more soulful again.

  • pam was always the gangsta one! god, i miss my 90s music!

  • lol ince cameo by dr dre (the mtv raps one)

  • Ladies, if you want to stay home, you can. I'll bring home the money.

  • @packleader1215 well this lady don't want to stay home I'm INDEPENDENT all the way...... never depend on a man because when he leaves he takes everything with him, then what will i have...... NOTHING why?.. because i stayed HOME. But i love this song.

  • lesson of this video: Don't f*ck with Pam and her Crew! Love Total

  • PAM IS SEXY :)

  • they're not coming back so deal with it and dont compare destiny's child to this group because their two different groups

  • Were(are) they gay? I remember people talking about that back in the day (,before gay became the thing to be).Anyway, I use to love this girl group.,

  • Ed Lover aint playin no games lmao "...I don't stutter"

  • @stretchman86 "C'mon son! Get the fuck out of here with that shit!"

  • they need to perform at the BET awards

  • @ynginblues Or at Hip Hop Honors!! Bad Boy Edition!!

  • gotta love the smooth beat. remember when you had to wait by the radio for your favorite song to come on and record it on a cassette as a part your "party mix"? lol

  • @sosinceremusic Ohhhh this comment made my morning lol

  • @sosinceremusic I def remember that wow brings back so many memories

  • @sosinceremusic don't forget you had to hit the "pause" button so there wouldn't be a gap between songs lol

  • @ladybug6982 if you had that technique down, much props to you. couldn't do it to save my life. lol

  • @sosinceremusic Hell yeah!!

  • @sosinceremusic hell yeah that shit would take up ya whole damn day. then you get mad cause you kept callin the station to request songs lol.

    

  • @sosinceremusic LOL yes i do.......even when i was like 5, i had my lil portable recorder, and i would sneak and record adults conversations too....lol. i wish i could find sum of those old tapes....those were the days.

  • @sosinceremusic I do remember them recording sessions, waiting for the right songs to comte and press that record button, lol.

  • Pam! The girl crush is in FULL EFFECT!

  • The goo d old days ...

  • total have a lot of talnet they should come back im a90;s baby i miss them please come back out and show people yall still got it

  • The one with long hair rarely sings

  • I love total songs but do not individually know their names..can someone tell me?thanks

  • @TheKingarrives except Pam obviusly

  • @TheKingarrives kiesha pam

  • @felixthecat228 thankyou!

  • i loved this song! MEMORIES! they came back looking amazing! love Pam, she had the most style and natural beauty

  • I honestly don't understand why Diddy does this to his artists.... why bury them??? Wouldn't it make you more cash if you PROMOTED them??

  • Pam from Total Pam from Total Pam from Total Pam Pam Pam Pam Pam Pam

  • at :34 seconds she is hellla fine!

  • is this song about puffy?

    

  • yeah total was the shit

  • 1:13 is kima sister vita who was in that murder inc . she was also the lead girl in method man break up to make up video .

  • Pam is suppose to be putting out an album. This video is like a remixed electric slide.

  • Pam was the best in this group. This is the 3rd Best Song! They should scouted other deals and labels while at the top of their game.

  • i still love this song even though we in the 2000's

  • lol...To bad he didn't have his "C'mon Son" sign at the end of this video!

  • OMG!!! One of my all time classic favorites!

  • Classic!!! 

  • 610,316 views???? what the hell is up with ppl these days, music aint what it used to be.

  • Is Pam gay? Did she ever come out? I'm gettin some strong lesbionic vibes.

  • @Buzz0Killington Pam actually got married and had a baby. It was in Sista to Sista magazine.

  • @Empha84 Oh, aight. I was just wonderin'. She looked kinda butch.

  • @Buzz0Killington I know. I don't if she is still married. She looks better now that she put on some weight,

  • luv dis song

  • c'mon son!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!­!!

  • Kesha was banging!!!

  • total where are u, music needs u.... If i can only go back to the 90s

  • ლ(ಠ益ಠლ)+

  • THE BEGINNING AND THE END OF THIS VIDEO IS FUNNY LOL I LOVE THIS SONG IM GOING THROUGH SOMETHING LIKE THIS RIGHT NOW SO THIS SONG HAS MORE MEANING . I WASNT FEELING THE 2 PONY TAILS BUT LOVE THIS SONG IT NEVER GETS OLD .

  • Was that Ed Lover in the beginning!? C'mon SON!

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  • OMG!!! That is the apratment from the movie EMPIRE (john leguizamo)

  • Damn u knw this video old cuz of the t.v.

  • It would take 12 videos of jordan sparks to equal 1 video of TOTAL

  • Pam is one sexxzzy azz stud!!

  • @0:44, Damn Pam is soo cute!!

  • wat was the name of this album???

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  • @MyBrightspark Kima,Keisha & Pam!

  • I miss total :(

  • LOVE THIS GROUP!!!!

  • Keisha is so mother fucking S.E.X.Y!!!!!! Omar Epps is a lucky dude -RESPECT-

  • I AM FEEEEEEEEEEEELLLLLLLLLLLLLLLII­IIIIIIIIIIIIIINNNNNNNNNNNNNNNN­GGGGGGGGGGGG THIS SONG

  • I totally agree with zdillenger that p diddy is a career killa where are the l.o.x

  • I need pam

  • 12 years later and this is still hot!

  • The beginning is out of sync with the meaning of the song. At the beginning she looks like a spoiled bitch who's man pays for everything while she spends his money and sits around all day, won't, cook, won't clean, won't do shit and she's mad at him for standing up for himself and putting her in place. Then she makes a remark that makes it sound like she was gonna burn his house down or some shit. But the song is about her man never being around and missing him....

  • true talent...real music....where did it go???

  • wait till he sees his bank account!

  • ed lover shouldve said "come on son" when he got home and seen his shit gone lol

  • This is real music:DD

  • Puff Daddy, Puffy, P Diddy, Diddy is a living legend a MOGUL. ANYTHING he touched turned to gold, or should I say platinum. EVERYONE in the industry wanted to work with Diddy. Its sad that his own people hate on him.

  • @truthfulexposure man stfu .ppl speakin truth no one is on bad boy except him and heis riding the coat tails of rick ross and niki minaj

  • @seansosa Actually even he's not under his own label. He jumped ship a while ago.

  • @truthfulexposure Sorry but, DIddy is OVER Since B.I.G. Dead! !! nobody want to work him, all his band group created R bands disbanded even Dirty Money rightnow lol..so!

  • luv this song

  • Best album ever!!!!

  • THEY NEED TO MAKE A COMEBACK

  • Yo Ed...Whats good with the S-Curl fade?

    C'Mon SON!!!