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  • Jesus Christ get over it. If a black man dont want u.... Moooove along

  • wow if a black guy dates outside of his race its his personal preference. and for the black women in the world thats their problem and not the black mens fault

  • I actually get pretty happy when I see an interracial couple..love is love

  • I agree with her sister, I look at personality more than race. I honestly do not care if a black man is dating someone outside of his race. Focusing on that is probably part of the reason black women feel there is a "shortage" in black men. They are so worried about the interracial couple sitting 20 feet away that they can't see the the single black man sitting five feet in front of them.

  • I'm attracted to guys outside my race but idk if i'd date them b/c they could be prejudiced or want 'a good time..for the night only"

  • UGHHHHH this whole race issue is annoying me now. just date whoever you want, jeez this shit is getting tired. ignore that whole "black women are sellout" stuff and just live love. color means nothing. im a black female and im attracted to black, white, coolie, spanish, asian, arab you name it. WHY??? because there is good, bad, and beauty in ALL races. Duuuuhhhhh -_-

  • You can't really pick and choose who you fall in love with. If your heart and emotions tell you that "This is the one for me", then everything else falls into place. "Race" shouldn't be an issue.

  • I hate hearing the term "dating outside of your race" as if you are dating another species or something. Love is love regardless of someone else's colour. You are allowed to love anyone you want to

  • Seriously, who the hell cares. It's freaking 2012. You're gonna die eventually, you might as well find someone you love and love them back. I don't care about skin color because that's not going to pay any bills and raise a generation that will carry on my legacy. People and their race obsession. Get the hell over it already.

  • i never look at a black man with disgust when he dates a white woman. i think it's adorable and awesome.

    besides, I don't like black guys anyway and if you want your white women then I will date white men.

  • as a black female teenager with strict Caribbean parents, I have not yet dated, but by coincidence, I've only had crushes on Asian guys for four years. now that I'm a senior, I find myself liking a white male, my first non-Asian crush since seventh grade, and that guy from the past had been black and as mixed as I am (my parents were born and raised in the same island nation but are different skin colors). I personally believe that this world needs more interracial/mixed marriages.

  • SO is this woman like saying on national TV that she is a racist person. I'm a black woman too and I could care less who some random black guy I dont know is dating, just ridiculous.

  • Black men are NOT the most likely to date outside of their race! That honor goes to White men!

  • well we (black women) need to wake up and start dating outside our race. when i see a black man with a white woman i love it. i say 2 myself " good teach him some respect".

  • the word would be "frustrated"

  • yes I would. I'm black and my preference is white men, not for their money or skin type, its just my preference. I have no problem dating a black man but I prefer white men. Its my life and my choice. If you have something rude or racist to say to me then keep on scrolling down the comments as I will ignore you. For all those who love interracial dating, LOVE YA!!

  • The problem is black women are only interested in what the media portrays. My proof it is not uncommon in our community to see a black woman with multiple children by multiple dead beats. Why......Because he foooiiineeee. This ties into the fact that an educated black man does not want a woman filled with self hate wearing weaves and such. Women have a voice in America stop using to kiss white ass.

  • I'm a black girl, and I don't care if black guys want to date a white girl. I'm all for interacial dating :)

  • Can someone tell me why so many people are so interested in us being married? I mean, I have other things to worry about than who's married and who's not. I just don't get it. Also, why aren't they focusing on the progress we make as women. All women can't have it all, and maybe for black women, marriage is not something on their path for evolution.

  • Things in this world are and will always be complicated.

  • I honesty don't see why she is a single BW... Seems like she could find the right man with no problem

  • I wish Anderson wd do a show on wm who date outside of their race. As a bw, I'm kinda getting tired of hearing about the dating choices of bw & bm. I want to from the others - wm, am, hm.

  • I don't believe that bm r not affected by bw who date outside of their race. There is a news report of a group of bm who severely beat a wm in front of his blk girlfriend b/c he was with her. Personally, I've received negative looks from bm & wm when they c me with a wm. So, its not just bw who don't like it. However, when I c bm with non-bw it has no affect on me @ all.

    Its true that there r some bw who r severely loyal to bm & wd rather b single than date outside of their race and vice versa.

  • I don't see colors. if I find someone attractive I will date you. My ex was white, I have dated someone that was Turkish, Hispanic, Latinos, Africans, Jamaicans, Italians. My thing is black woman sit here and complain about not finding a black man. question is why does he have to be black. Why cant he just be a good man. If you confine yourself to dating one race, you going to miss out. And you wonder why you get mad when you see a black guy with a white girl.

  • where is the full version.

  • i love all races and ethnicities. i would have a very hard time settling down with any other woman than white. it's just the way i was brought up. my brother and uncles have a saying date who ever you want but only bring a white girl home

  • If I did date outside my race that person would have to be from the Caribbean, preferably from an English speaking island.

  • @tanyatmr why the caribbean? they are not different from any other place trust me

  • @tanyatmr what's the difference between a black person form the Caribbean and a black person from the US?

  • the black woman date a white man is a sell out

  • @blkmun86 as a black man, you're ignorance is insulting to me...

  • @blkmun86 nope,its not a sellout,its a human thing,i like black women alot,im white,its cos i think she is fine,enough said

  • @blkmun86 So is the Black man that dates a caucasian woman

  • @blkmun86 Maybe she just wants a man that can type in complete sentences.

  • @blkmun86 lmao a sell out? yea ok

  • @blkmun86 I'm assuming you think a black man dating a white woman is okay.

  • WOW ! So you mean to tell me that if I am a well educated balck woman with a DEGREE I am TWICE as likly NOT to get MARRIED !!!! WHAT ?!

    She looks like Jada Pinkett Smith a little,lol

    Hmm Black woman are LESS LIKELY to date outside of their race ?! I HIGHLY DOUBT that !

    For the black woman who are looking for black men and can't fin them, chances are they are going to step outside. Unless they want to be single for life !

  • I never thought about "shortage of men" but I'm from a different generation too. Some may find it peculiar that I am 25 and still havent dated a Black man yet. My first and only bf was Brazilian and Mexican but have gone on dates with men who were Indian, pakistani, palestinian/iranian, Italian, Norwegian, French, etc. A MAN IS A MAN regardless of culture and skin color.

  • @Onegurrrlrev o really, theres something wrong within society when apon looking in the mirror you see you, as beautiful as you are, yet when looking out at the society, its beauty outlines white/light skin as the number one choice....anyhow, when you get the chance to date a blk guy ...don't hold back on sharing the same enthusiasum as all those others, peace!

  • as a black women this video doesn't speak for me. I don't care what color the guy is, if you give me butterflies and have me giggling like a school girl and ask me out that is what does it for me. Race shouldn't even matter, people have come too far to let someone else throw them all the way back in time. I'm not trying to be naive or anything about race, I just ask you to respect my decisions and choices, you don't have to like them but guess what they are mine choices and decisions, not yours

  • @babechamp14 thats nices it should of been that way before millions of blks were chained and driven to the unknown, and now that we know...as a people lets love each other, and especially love ourself (and yes love thoses who ultimately unconditionally love us back)

  • I seriously dont understand the whole issue about white/black who gives a crap, if your not married its not because of white women.

  • What really annoys me is that this woman immediately targets the white woman. This is a pet peeve of mine -- to blame a man's actions on the woman. It's not the other woman's fault that a man cheats, although her self-worth is a little questionable in that circumstance, but similarly, it's not a white woman's duty to date within her race. If she doesn't want to, she doesn't have to. Our cultural influences are so intertwined that it is not reasonable to expect mixing not to happen.

  • 1. Get an IUD until you are financially stable.

    2. If you are not married, still want children and can afford them, get some donated sperm. Do not expect some dead-beat boyfriend to support his wild oats.

    3. Support your son and send him to school, teach him about respecting women, not committing crimes and loving himself and others.

    4. Fewer black men will go to jail, and you won't have to feel so bitter about there being fewer to "go around"

    This cycle starts with the single black mom.

  • I'm tired of these speeches of Black Woman being faithful to Black Man, I mean are any other race ''faithful'' to their own? If the person you love is black good for you if he's not what's the problem in it? What a woman needs is to find someone she loves! It got nothing to do with race! If it does to you that's your issue it shouldn't be generalized for everyone else!

  • @Mattakure This has nothing to do with LOYALTY, but EVERYTHING to do with PREFERENCE. Think about it: When was the last time you went out with a man of your own race and told him that the only reason you're dating him is out of LOYALTY to your RACE? Chances are, you haven't! Still, it's FUNNY that the MEDIA and pro-IR BW are telling BW to date outside of their race when NO ONE is telling other races of women to date outside of their race.

  • white men date out the most

  • black woman say they can find a good black man, yell right, tell that to a fool, its a lot of black man is good, keep a job, and work all the time, 

  • @keithboykins yea and they only date white women lol.

  • this topic never ends does it...what is medias obsession with it and why do black people continue to talk about this crap? life is too short. Date who you want!

    All these statistics and numbers hold NOTHING in real life..come on already

  • white media is obsessed with interracial dating..ONLY when it comes to black people

  • loyalty for black americans to me is so rediculous...everyone is not your brother or sister. this idea that you must sacrifice feelings to people you don't even know because you share their race is silly.

  • goood, goooood. let the hate flow throughhh youuu!

  • @MindTrek00 Right? I don't see how this is productive at all.

  • LOVE HAS NO COLOR.

  • @chesleycareystar believe me you're in the minority with that thought.

  • I can't believe that we're in the early 2010's and something as trivial as interracial dating is still such a big issue in the U.S. when there are so many more important things to worry about, like making sure we don't get another nutcase in the White House.

  • 0:13 That Asian girl in the red dress is HOT!

  • It's not about COLOR it's about LOVE

    It's 2011 for god's sake. GET OVER IT!!

  • @holdencaulfield79 Don't tell that to me tell that to the white community. SMH.

  • @apples90018 & @cecinia23 you two self hating enemy lovin' whores are funny...

  • Loyalty? How does not wanting to date outside of your race being loyal? If black women were so loyal, they wouldn't be dissing the nice black men that actually wants them.

  • Yes ppl will date who they want 2& every1 is a person regardless or race but what I think people are forgetting prejudice socialization - there is an unconscious part of every1 that is prejudice w/o meaning to be, not to say it's okay, but the sooner we realize that then the sooner we can actively change our thinking.

    it is naive to think that this is only an American problem.it's a problem for all societies that actively or passively promote prejudice sentiments&by that I mean the whole world

  • 1:40...."Black women are very loyal to black men". LOL! That had to be a joke!

  • @mybigboner

    i ain't loyal to black men. LOL

  • the lady sounds pretty stupid

  • After all these years/decades/generations.....­.this kind of negative gig - that is holding us back as a progreassive society - is STILL going on in The States!

    The CHIEF reason why I opted to expatriate from the U.S. & live in London. More tolerant & accepting here as opposed to..... <:-(

  • why is there a problem with white men dating black women...I date black women. Its all about who you are attracted to. I agree with peachie0keen

  • As a black girl I've pretty much always assumed that a black man would date a white woman because he likes her. If he likes her, wtf does it matter? Adults need to get over this and avoid passing it on to the younger generation.

  • @peachie0keen Bless you, Ma'am. Your sage observations are *spot on!*

  • @peachie0keen Do you think racial equality has been achieved? The media continuously portrays white women as desirable, meanwhile rarely portrays black women, BW are often portrayed negative/undesirable Do you think the media plays a part in how attractive an option BW are deemed to be?

    Do you think the younger generation would see a jet black skinned short afro girl as being a as attractive as a long blond hair blue eyed white girl? even if they had identical facial features?

  • @Applebaum To your last question I would! Beauty transcends the colour of your skin. I am in the UK though, so maybe the experience is different here

  • @peachie0keen Depends what reasons he likes her for . If its for selfhating reasons . because the white man told him black is ugly , being dark skin is ugly , he thinks he has "upgraded" then it does matter . if its because he loves her then there's not much i can say thats negative

  • @peachie0keen Yes,agreed !

  • @peachie0keen i agree

  • ok.. when black women point the finger at black men..three finger point back at them!

  • this is just another mentally plan against real dark skin black men/sons and race just like interracial bullshit in white/jew's porno, media and tv or BIRACIAL light skinned boy in white house!

  • a little jealous cuz a non blk woman is dating a white person? if u dont care then u shouldnt worry about what someone else is doing. end of story! lets move on!

  • im black what the hell is there to be loyal about? r u serious? black women feel theres a "shortage of black men in their eyes when they date non black women." the problem is black women are allowing themselves to think negatively that way and staying single for life all because they are waiting on something that wont happen or living a fairy tale. as long as u feel theres a shortage of men of any race u will always be single. jacque sounds like a hypocrite if shes not offended why say she gets

  • wow. that is extremely racist.

  • Where can I watch the full episode?

  • THE FIRST INTER RACIAL COUPLE WAS BETWEEN A BLACK WOMAN AND A WHITE MAN. ENOUGH SAID

  • @apples90018 YOUR POINT WHAT THAT HAVE TO DO WITH ANYTHING JSUT BECAUSE ONE DOES IT THAT MAKE IT FOR ALL BLACK WOMEN GO SOME WERE WITH THAT

  • @cecinia23

    ur just jealous that some black women choose to date white men. mind ur own business. get over it. many black women want white men, not black

  • Love should be race and gender-blind. Hopefully religion too

  • Kinda strange. This seems to be mainly an American thing somehow; here in Europe black women seem to be married as much as any other women are.

    P.S.: This got me curious and I browsed through Wikipedia a bit. According to this social study they're linking, marriages involving black women are the most stable of all marriages, including if the marriage is interracial.

    Besides the typically hot voluptuous bodies ebony women have plenty going for them, so I don't get this.

  • This situation is with latin women too......we prefer american man. We have a lot issues with latin man ........I would like if you make a show with this topic...

  • People are individuals, not groups, the sooner people stop thinking race has anything to do with the way they act or present themselves the better.

    I for instance am a white male, I find women who have a urban or inner city demeanor to them extremely unattractive no matter what color they are or what type of body they have.

  • Ive heard from at least 10 black men that they date white women because they have weaker personalities and are easier to control. I don't agree, but that's what I've been told.

  • This Jacque Reid lady does not speak for all black women people. I am a black woman and I do not care if a black guy is dating a white woman or any other woman of any race for that matter. I just hope that people date who they want to date and for the right reason. Why does it have to be a colour thing? Why can't you just date a 'man' or a 'woman'. Why does the person's race have to get added to the begging of the person's sex?

  • she's being racist...why not date out of it's own race? this shouldn't be a problem

  • the guy that begins the applauses do it SOOOO LOUDLY that always seems fake and is very distracting

  • Ive never dated a white dude, but I would.

  • Best topic.

  • :(

  • very interesting topic. Anderson always knows the issues to hit.

  • interesting topic

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