The Alzheimer's Project: Jane (HBO)

[MrWonnabee]

Thumbs up - My Grandmother have Alzheimer's. She is getting harder and harder to tell and speak with us. 2 weeks ago, she could do anything. but now, she have 2 helpers on a day. Helping her with food, clothes.Please people! Love you familly when you still got it! Even if you hate them, they are still your familly. Care them, love them.And please, say " I love you " to them. Couse maybe, it's the last chance you'll ever get.....and.. she have a car, wich she thinks, she can drive, but, she can't

[chaimdavid]

I'm not sure if my Dad has alzheimer's or not; is it better to not ask 'the question' to him to discuss the 'elephant in the living room' and to just act as if everything is fine; not sure; a part of me feels it would be emotionally cathartic for me; but that would be selfish and not help my Dad. Would love some feedback