Transsexual / Transgender Spouses - Embracing Hope, an interview

[LoveMichiru]

i really don't understand the difference between transgender and transsexual, i'm so confused

[xXBlakkMajikXx]

@LoveMichiru Transgender people are intersex, and transexual people are changing their body because they're not content with it.

[TGTSBridgette]

Shelly thank you, I am TS, It is wonderful to hear another partner other than what my wife going though what is like to be sponge of some else like me.. exactly !!!, all those support people don't want to support, they just want judge..well, "hope" - thanks....I think we both have, all but given up on accepting there is support out there that is positive...thanks for your message you are all just wonderful people..hugs

[gianthobo123]

bieng transgender is hard ppl will tell you which bathroom to go based on your looks if its feminine or whatever. iv seen a vidoe with so many transgenders i dont even no if my girlfriend is a guy. im scared

[teheiloveyoumuch]

Wow, what an inspirational (and funny! XDD) video! You all rock! :) Thank you for sharing this!!

[MAIDINHEELS]

Thank you for sharing. I lost my wife over the very same thing. My ex was my best friend and when she left it felt like I died!!!

Enough of me I am happy to see a couple like Randi and Shellie. It proves true love and understanding can over come anything!!!

Best wishes Nancy

[LadyInWaiting714]

Still catching up on old vlogs. Shellie's little speech made me cry. It was beautiful. I also have a soft spot for trans partners, since I love my own dearly.

I'm so glad for them that they have created a new relationship that works for both of them. Thanks for this interview!

[mangokiwiorange]

shellie is hysterical xD she's always laughing =] im glad that they have managed to work through this! more power to them!

[ynotbegoodtoall]

Thank you for posting this

[alookthatisu]

OMG that was so cool Shelley you made me cry! Thank you so much for sharing you are daring me to HOPE!

[lorisrevival]

And even STILL they dare me to hope. Behind the scenes, they are as amazing as in front of the camera.

[bluewithoutyou]

How lovely they are. x

[lorisrevival]

Ain't they though? :)

[BreRue]

Randi and Shellie are so great aren't they!? I love when I get to see them on the first Thursdays of the month! Thanks for taking the time out to make this cool video.

XO Bre

[lorisrevival]

You get to see them every month? Soooo unfair !

[Jaggrays]

Where do I start. What should I say.

Randi, I have the fondest memories of you, your brothers, your parents, Rebel. I had to watch the video a time or to to really see you, I could tell it was you from the start but it needed to sink in. it has. You looked happy, content, in a relationship that has endured more than I could imagine. I hope the most difficult times are over and wish that you enjoy life to the fullest. I will allways be here if you need family, and you know my mom will to, Jack

[lorisrevival]

I sent them this message Jack. Thank you for including your thoughts here!

[smlaurieanne]

hun i so luv u

[polandcentral]

Wow, is all I can say. What a beautiful group of people :)

[lorisrevival]

Thank you so much! It was one of my favorite videos!

[PsylightFay]

I have a trandgender gf we have been together for 8 months. thank you for this video and advice :)

[lorisrevival]

Your welcome, I hope it inspires!

[ericaravenwood]

Absolutely fantastic hun. This is the first on your films I've seen. As I'm sure happens with so many of our videos, I just stummbled upon it. Please keep doing what your doing. You are making a difference.

[lorisrevival]

Thank you so much for commenting. Making a difference even in small ways feels good.

[Bens44utube]

Thanks Lori. This touched me so much. I"m FTM and in early transition and my Lesbian partner is struggling still. I'ts good to hear the message of Hope.

sincerely, Ben Willow

[lorisrevival]

Know this touches me back, Ben. Shellie and Randi hoped it would do this to others as well. Bless you as you struggle through your own relationship. Hope is key,no doubt.

[rumplefun]

liked the video just wish it hadnt been so choppy and could have heard more from both of them lots of hugs and love:)

[lorisrevival]

The production was done rather on the fly. The camera was on my car in fact! Yes, you will definitely hear from both of them again, for sure!

[Jayhawke]

awesome to see a couple staying together and well, so happy !

[lorisrevival]

I know! I'm sooo jealous I hate them! Kidding, kidding! sheez!

[CelticLady44]

I couldn't quit smiling at all of you guys cracking up like that! This is amazing. I live in the transgender surgery capital of the USA. Colorado. Trinidad is barely 200 miles from me. A big story was in the paper this last year. The couple were not happy. She was not dealing with his gender change. It is haertening to see this couple worked it out and are happy. Love simply is.

[lorisrevival]

Sadly it's a rarity. I hope and pray couples in love can remain together by watching and hearing about stories like theirs.

[musichead1969]

oh, right: this is helen boyd. i forgot to sign in on my other account!

[lorisrevival]

Well alright then..ahem...Helen ;)

[musichead1969]

fantastic. lovely seeing you all laugh together. go trans couples!

[lorisrevival]

Go ANY couple that can stay in love!

[firemonkeyrn]

Hey! That's my moms! ;) An absolutely awesome video. Lori, you are amazingly talented. I think you may just have found your calling! Thanks for sharing some time with my folks... and for sharing their powerful, inspiring messsage with others. They are amazing people with one of the most sincere, unconditional loves I have ever seen. They embody the truest vision of commitment. What a powerful thing that is! Hoping to see many more great videos! THANK YOU!

[lorisrevival]

Oh my goodness, I never would have imagined. I'm humbled by you posting this comment. What a new element you've just added to the whole picture. I'm truly glad to hear what you believe about them.

...so... wanna do a vid with me from YOUR perspective? :)

[firemonkeyrn]

Without a doubt. Count me in. :)

[lorisrevival]

Righteous! Wait, can a girl say that? :)

[riftgirlblog]

Friggin' fabulous!!! Lori, you HAVE to get a on the road show.

[lorisrevival]

Go to sleep, it's like 2 o clock in the friggin morning over there! Love you too babe! Road show? Hmm...I still like your "TransAtlantic" idea!

[riftgirlblog]

Yes, ma'am! Lights out! ;-) xoxo

[cutelesbiannj]

Amazing video! Your are hilarious! They are still together by each others side and thats just awesome! Simply Awesome.

[lorisrevival]

Simply Awesome. Yeah, it truly is.

[honeynvrhadaname]

awesome video! congrats to randi's transition at work!!! I teared up while watching shellie talk about hope. You all are beautiful :)

[lorisrevival]

Thanks! They are even more amazing than I could squeeze into ten minutes!

[Peppino1556]

Ué Lori, interview specialista, musician, , what more can one ask!

Now I am waiting for your guitarra eletrica video, make some NOISE!!!!!!!!

As serious, your friendly videos are quite enjoyable .

tudo de bom sempre

Peppino

[SMZB4]

Thank you so much for uploading this video. You are right everyone should watch this video even people who don't know a trans person.(You are crazy to go into that heat)

[lorisrevival]

Yeah, it was a bit silly to try and film the video in the heat. That'll learn me!

[JulieADriver]

What a positive video that was!

[lorisrevival]

I'm glad it was positive for you. That was the hope... ;)

[Peppino1556]

this might be fun! As I am at work, I am "deaf" on internet, NO sound!

So I will guess, 'a Loura'* (*the blonde) is transitioned?

Very nicely done, I will listen the interview when I reach my home and open that laptop I just recently buy! haha!

All in all, it looks like quite a convivial time you spend with your interview friends!

tudo de bom

Peppino

[lorisrevival]

Gracias!

[donri07]

the love you give . it will always return back 1 way or another like jin&yang we need belans harmony ..okee girl hugs and talk to you soon again peace8love alana :D

[donri07]

great vid lori and nice couple;)those 2 .. and what a trip;) lol have you everthink off water proof makeup..lol hahahahaaa it thosed run down!! heeeeyyy well yes HOPE !that is the key word ..FOR MANY THINKS IN LIFE ..and ...

[lorisrevival]

Thanks Alana! I'm never wearing makeup when I'm in that town again!

[NaomiClareNL]

Thanks for sharing this. It is not all doom and gloom, there is HOPE and not just for the person who transitions.

[lorisrevival]

I agree, and I'm still learning that!

[ericbstlouis1]

Very informative, yet fun! I wonder if you would also do a video on TS and TG spouses...but with a post-op TS who's married to a man.

[lorisrevival]

Fact of the matter is I'll interview almost anyone. Anyone in mind?

[tobyr3]

Thanks for sharing all the fun that came out of this. Thanks for all your efforts.

[lorisrevival]

Your welcome! I'm glad you enjoyed it. I hope it was fun and meaningful to people.