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  • OH MY FUUCKING GOD

    this is happening with me too buddy, i'm glad i watched this video!

    TY SO MUCH

  • lol get over it. get rejected! or not..... lol

  • What if they are in a relationship and happy? If you honestly care about them you can't break them up cause then they'll hate you and never accept you! So what now Dave?

  • XD it worked she now wants to be my future wife thanks for the advice David

  • i was born with one ear and im ugly ,im been rejected more than 1 time, and im probably gonna be rejected next time....

  • Challenge accepted! ;)

  • What if you are younger than college, say high school?

  • Challenge Accepted!

  • Seriously getting rejecting is sometimes a good thing. I had a crush on this girl who I knew for a little while and was always afraid to tell her how I felt. One day I worked up the courage and told her how I felt, only to hear that she didn't feel the same way. Sucked, but the hurt went away, I focused on other girls, and just focused on being friends with my former crush and now her and I really great friends and I can focus any romantic energy on someone else.

  • @davidwygant Well I took your advise david :) ! Now I know my crush doesn't like me "like that, Friend -.- wtf..." but hey yeahh its cool, I just have to play Tennis with her everyday for 2 more yrs and ohhh the Best part,,,,, Im out 300$ I spent buying her a Heartnecklace she "THREW AWAY!!!" so, Suicides lookin really fckin good right, mmmmhhhhmmm.....

  • :D I would do it right this second, but she is in class...ugh! I'll do it as soon as I can though! And I'll report back

  • Challenge accepted.....Oh Yeah

  • I got rejected challenge complete

  • ive like this girl in school but i am in the frend zone for like 2 months and she likes me as a frend but i do not want her to feel dirrerent in a bad way about me if i tell her.So any tips or advice please let me know.(HELP)

  • I've liked a girl for a couple of weeks now, and last night we had a party where I was gonna ask her out, but I chickened out when she got tipsy and kept asking me who I like. Let's hope today's ice hockey game with her and a bunch of friends goes in my favour eh?

  • Mission accepted

  • Nice. I think I'm going to ask her out right now :)

  • Fuck yeah CHALLENGE ACCEPTED

  • Well, its been 2 months now since i accepted the challenge, and damn if it worked! Thanks man, me and her are still going good right now! :)

  • Nice pep talk thanks lol

  • @punkdude179 and everyone, in college presently girl I see twice a week for the last few months in lectures. One day saw her by herself and I said fucked it and started talkin to her. Got on great, go her number and goin out clubin this week. Boom.

  • As soon as she breaks up with her boyfriend now I guess...

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  • CHALLENGE ACCEP DENIED!

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  • 24 years ago I sent my crush a message in a bottle and threw it into the sea – I’m still waiting for a reply.

  • did this work for anyone

    

  • 27 people are stuck in the friend zone.

  • i did this. she told me "theres a lot going on right now, i only see you as a friend". fuckmylifeimightjustdienow.

  • this is why i do not like girls, i just fuck them.

  • *Puts on sunglasses*

    *Folds arms together*

    CHALANGE ACCEPTED.

  • i got a crush on a girl in college! I'm a senior... I better do something about it

  • i am going through the same exact thing he's talking about an i'm only 12.

    i will ask her out when i get the chance but she with someone should i "wait" or "let it go"

  • @richy5421 You should do something about it now. You're only 12, if she says no then just make it clear you won't be ok with just being friends.

  • @richy5421 if you're 12, please don't think about the "hot sex you could be having." At that age you shouldn't be.

    anyways, I hope it goes well for you.

  • damn skippy... will do man... CHALLENGE ACCEPTED!!!

  • Ima ask her out as soon as I see her I just wanna get it over with

  • Thanks buddy that help

  • This guy should be president

  • last year 7th grade i crushed on a girl and after a few months i asked her out but she said no and i asked her out whenever we were alone she would still say no and I would hug her, but on her birthday i tried to make a move but she is going out with my BEST FRIEND and now they've been dating since that day up till now! But, my eyes are on the two cutest girls at my school but they both got out of a relationship. (we're good friends but i wanna ask one of them out) please help

  • DAVID!!!! what if shes dating someone? i am crushing all over this girl and shes amazing and we click so well! but she is dating someone and i dont know what to do! please respond man, i really want some help.

  • @preschoolpimpan The truth is the only way is to start talking to other girls. You NEVER want to seem like a needy guy. It's not fair to cut your self from meeting other woman when shes obviously seeing other men. By talking to other woman is a Win Win in it's self because it shows that girl that you currently like that you have options and on the other side you never know who you're going to meet and they can be even better than this current girl (Youtube Character limit -___-)

  • hung out with a girl and asked her out. she said she wanted to be friends. Later that month she comes over and we end up making out in my basement. She says she still wants to be single but that she likes me and to just give it time. How long do i have to wait I really like this girl :(

  • @cojocoolio at least you kissed her :D

  • @WH1T3YHD

    agreed

  • I just fucked my crush and im in 8th grade

  • @55ihatepandas66 wow, nice job!

  • @55ihatepandas66 What a cunt, you're too young for that and obviously lying.

  • I'm waiting for an answer

  • I've talked to my crush for the first time 2day, and than she gaves me her number. Later, i text her and than, after2-3hours of texting she said: goodnight, i have to go, i'm on the phone with my bf.....

  • GOOD ADVICE DAVID :).... OH SHIT SORRY

  • I already did that but I didn't know she had a bf....she never changed her Facebook status or talked about him....but now I found out that he moved to a different country we still talk but now that she knows I don't know how wise it would be to ask her a second time...fml

  • Yeah I'm trying to get out of the friends zone, asked her if she wants to catch up 1 on 1. She said yes, but I'm not about to straight up show her that she's my crush lol I'll work my way slowly up to that, not going to start too aggressive haha

  • "Think about that HOT SEX"

    Me: .............. :O

  • Challenge accepted!

  • Sounds like a challenge.

  • this girl told me she liked me after i broke up with my old gf but she said i woould not date u cuz we r to good of friends ... and one night we talk on the phone for 1 hr but then the nect day she wont txt me back help plz

  • @hater959 dude get out of there, she's friend zoning you, try to avoid her if she wants to hangout with you make it seem your busy. 

  • So this is a great video and imma let you boys know how my experience went.

    So this sexy ass girl was at this football game ya know and my friend knew her so i went up to my friend and this girl and was like wassup my names ben whats good ya know. (im white) and i walked with her for awhile all over with my friend and his girl then i could tell we had something goin, but i was just like whatever i got this shit!

    We went to some park and we were in a tunnel and i madeout with her and got my d

  • CLAP :D

  • Lol space book hahahaha

  • He's right. I've been dating a girl I've liked for 3 years for a little less than a month now. Turns out, I wasted 3 years and she liked me the whole time. You never know until you actually do something. Trust me, there are risks I life worth taking. He is right.

  • You know whats funny i was thinking of asking her out this year sophomore in highschool and she got a bf , thats her bestfriend im her other bestfriend shits crazy man, wish i seen this video 3 months ago before they went out. Your an inspiration man.

  • What can i do if someone tell my crush i like her before i do or ask her out and she says i just want to be friends.

  • @Xenn00 duudeee same thing....

  • If you've been friends with a girl for a while and want to be more, manufacture the opportunity to hang out with her alone. Gently flirt with her and build until it seems natural to hold her hand or get closer to her. She'll see what you're doing and may decide to show that she's not interested, but as long as you don't have tons of mutual friends then it's not the end of the world. At least you've tried. (This is just my experience, offered without promises or guarantees. Take it or leave it.)

  • I think it's very hard to get out of the friend zone. Girls categorise you and that's it. My recommendation is to set out your intentions (i.e. FLIRT) as soon as possible when you are getting to know a girl. Don't let it drag on because it will probably be too late by the time you eventually have the nerve.

  • What if I have a lot of crushes lol. I know i'm shy but I know I'm getting better. But the main reason I hold back is I'm broke. I don't want to ask a girl out and go well I can't afford dinner. sorry. Its frustrating cause I would have love to ask them out.

  • @rowsdower12 To hell with dinner, why not just take them for a few drinks, or a coffee + a little walk or something? It's not the fifties anymore, you don't need to start buying girls dinner and get them to a movie and all that standard crap. Be creative if you don't have any money, and don't make excuses why you're not asking them out. Think about that later.

  • @Nemcoification Thanks! I will certainly think of that. I agree there are ways. But IF it progresses then what do I do? I can take them out but not very often. Not that I have too. But I see what you're saying. Thanks!

  • Challenge accepted.

  • IT WAS THAT SIMPLE!? WTF I LOST MY CRUSH TO SOME ASSHOLE JUST BECAUSE I DIDN'T DO ANYTHING!? HOLY SH*T!!!!

  • good advice david

  • Honestly she is full of it. She probably wouldn't have gone with you 24yrs ago. She probably just want to settle down now

  • Good advice though! This really woke me up!

  • @Xenn00 the exact same thing happened to me except she said not right now asks again later and I kept asking later and she would say the same thing. This went on 3 times before she said no. My heart was broken cause I thought she liked me but.turns out she just didn't want to hurt me, well news flash that hurt me more than I could have ever thhought.

  • Mine has a boyfriend

  • I did this. It didn't work. She's dating one of my best friends now. But, all three of us are still friends. Be mature guys. Take the good with the bad and don't let it stop you. I'm going back to college in a couple of weeks and I'm gonna ask my new crush out on a date. If it works, great! If not, we're gonna stay great friends because I WANT us to stay great friends. And I'm gonna find another girl to ask.

  • You said the girl you had a crush on said you were as sexy as you were 20 years ago. First off she was lying & desperate after 20 years of having no one/ breakup & divorce. Secondly, sounds like a slut hook up and not an actual date resulting in a relationship; at least in an ideal "love" sort of relationship. You look and talk like many I have met in the age range of 18 - 21. Most mature after that. Others get ripped into on YouTube for being assholes with guru info on a narrow mind viewpoint.

  • Thanks david . For whatever reason I decided to take up your challenge. So I asked my crush out on a date and she said yes. And on our date she admited that she to liked me. Now we are together. If it wasn't for you I would still be wandering and wasting time. Thanks

  • Asked out a crush once, she said no. Year later she acts all flirty with me. I get up the nerve again to ask her out again and she says no again. Wtf girls, stop flirting with guys if you aren't interested in them. It really pisses guys off and hurts them.

  • @Xenn000 AMEN!!!! I flirt too but I don't try to mislead them. Of course they never asked me out.

  • @Xenn000 bro this happens to me alot its annoying af

  • @Xenn000 FUCKING AMEN. Same shit happened to me and now she's flirting with me round 3...

  • @maybe106 Just call her out on it. Preferably in front of her friends to embarrass her and it'll make her stop.

  • I already asked my crush out and she rejected me. :(

  • i asked her and now we have children im 18 now and i asked her 4 years ago your advice fucked me and thats awsome but the underage kids.... not so much

  • bill nye?

  • @BrazilianJJKid LOL, the serious relationship/modern bill...yes ;D

  • I dont think its as simple as that to be honest,its more to do with your overrall personality not whether you actually make a move!I made plenty of moves on girls and still didnt get anywhere!Obviously its about being confident,etc...and having those attractive qualities that women want.Purely being interested isnt enough I dont think.

  • The majority of the time, this still doesn't work out. I've only had it work once, and at the end of the date, she friend-zoned me again.

  • @nja122890 It doesn't matter how it turns out, you'll always be glad you took the risk.

  • I told her.. But were "just friends"

  • i was liek bitch u wan go out liek tonihgt and get drank?

    an she ssaid yes

    and then we got drank

    and then she gave me a bwoljob on my penis

    and now i'm a home and typin about is and fugch im still drank but good advice

  • tired of thinking..i'm gonna do it..screw it

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  • i already asked her out... she said no

  • she said she just wants do be friends....your advice sucks

  • Well David I've tried to be with my crush many times. We flirt and we talk, but she doesn't want to be together now, she said eventually though. She is in a relationship but I feel like I'm her 2nd choice because when she breaks up with him she comes to me. Last time she asked me on a date! I'd rather live with knowing that I tried and got rejected than knowing that I never tried. Me and her aren't really great friends anymore like we used to, guess its true that lovers can't be friends bu

  • what if that crush has a boyfriend?

  • @imenglishurnot don't string yourself along. That's often what happens. Try to get out more and meet new people and not see her/him allot of the time if you can (i.e. distance yourself from them). Maybe when they're single you can give it a try, but they will always be someone else out there for you.

  • i did it, but she said im jst a friend! Damnit! now wut??

  • She said no...

  • I'm 15 and I've had a crush on this girl for 2 years. She is my best friend!! But I have had a gf for bout 2 months now. I just can't ever get this girl out of my mind. Btw.. the girl that I like has been kind of actin like more flirty round me.Wat should I do!?

  • @blackcougar69 Flirt back !

  • thanks i just got rejected but she blushed when i told her so irk... maybe she will change her mind, hopefully... btw i was thinking about writing a poem to her will that work?

  • dude im in 6th grade and it worked for me... Life is good :)

  • i would tell my crush (my bestfriend) but she has a boyfriend now which she went out with yesterday

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  • lololololol Spacemanbook

  • Ok this gives me inspiration and everything but the video still doesn't tell me HOW to get -out-of -the-friend-zone..

  • Naw before I ask a chick out I gotta do some recon first ask her girlfriends and my bros about her past and find out if she already has a boyfriend.Helps me estimate my odds of geting rejected and if she has any habits I'm not gonna wanna be blindsided by later. just have confidence in your game and play it. If she says no than the awkwardness will wear off and you can find another,hotter chick

  • Wat if ur crushes best friend likes u? Ya im probably fucked

  • @wichad3 bull-shit

  • Getting rejected is part of it grow some balls guys the more youre just friends with her the lesser your chance of ever dating her. If it doesnt work out and you get rejected shes gonna realise shes missing something

  • u gave me to much confidence that i asked my best friend out who just got out of a relationship. She said yes, but i sort of feel like a rebound

  • I got put in check

  • That is like pretty much peer pressure. Yeah I do have a crush and we are in the friend zone. But I am trying to get out of that in a different way. It will begin to get orquad if you just cone out and say it. It probley would nd your friendship if you asked and did get rejected!!!

  • my crush is my bestfriend and shes already dating someone else wat do i do?

  • @LuRK409 give up. find someone better

  • I'm watching this from Spacebook

  • After taking your advice I just almost ended my entire friendship with her and now am worried that she may feel extremly saddened by my reaction. So in other words, your situation is a very rare one and to anyone considering asking their crush out, take this message with a cup of salt.

    PS I know that the expression is a punch of salt

  • I dont have balls to ask her...not just yet

  • Well.....TY SO MUCH. I asked my crush to go out with me and then she admitted she liked me! so we went to the mall and she didnt like looking a clothes and stuff. We went to the unique hand crafted game section with a bunch of cool things. the cool things where you roll a ball and then a bunch of other stuff happens. We had a great time. TY so much

  • yay friend zoned -__-

  • i asked her got rejected.................

  • @xSteltHxGaMInGx its better to ask than to never know man I respect you for that.

  • so there was this girl i liked and i went to a party with her, well the cops got called and she was super drunk so i took care of her and carried her through the forest on my back (btw she didnt have shoes on) so we were in the forest and she started saying her feet hurt, so i gave her my shoes. well i told her i liked her the other day and this is what she says "im not sure if i like you that way...and even if i did, im not ready for a relationship" being in the friend zone sucks..

  • I honestly dont think shes into me the way im into her. Going to be really awkward going to class after i get rejected

  • worked for me. i had a friend for 12 years and deciddd to take ur advice.well it worked Im now dating her and we moved in together

  • Worked realy well, me and my crush just went on a date. Only difference is its was a double date with her boyfriend and my stalker who I got a restraining order out agenst.

  • Hope is the first step on the road to disappointment. Crushes are irrelevant.

  • But my crush is one of my best friends it makes it weird

  • @xSavageNoobx Me too. its so sad!

  • If you wanna know if she's into you simply flirt with her (physically) tell her how hot she looks and see what her reaction is. If she tries to get away from you then leave it there, go to the gym, get a makeover and start flirting with other girls...try to be a dick sometimes, being always there for her could be a bad thing. Show her signs you like her but pretend like you don't care much.

  • fuck i like your advice but i just can't do that, I'm with this girl all the time at college we even just finished studying together for about 4 hours in the common room.

  • im moving back to fl where my crush is im going to tell her and ask her out.

  • oh and thank you... your video is honest and true!!!

  • Fark yeah!!! :)

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  • hi every1!sorry to bother you all,but im desperately seeking good advices over the net for hours.can any1 pls advice me on how to talk to my 10yr old daughter regarding her crush?.i mean,i wanted her to be more vocal,but i dont know how to open up conversation coz she's so sensitive..

  • 240p we meet again....

  • Everythings sounds cool.... but... if you are in the friendzone, there few things that you may do before just fall in parachute and ask her out... If you do that theres a 85% of probability that you gonna get rejected. You should say but before that happens a lot of things have to change gradually. Not just... say that from nowhere..

  • i asked her out / hey i like your bracelet it really brings out your eyes :) (her bracelet was green her eyes were blue)

    so we both laughed,

    and i asked her out simple as that.

    she said yess.

  • Guys,

    It's really not hard to pick up girls. You just need to educate yourself and luckily, there's some sick guides out there. "The Game" by Neil Strauss started things off for me and most recently, I've been using the techniques from P.Box.

    Here's what you need to do:

    Step 1: Go to MackMethods. com

    Step 2: Get the "pandoras box" program

    Step 3: Use the tips and blend it in with your own twist

    Picking up girls is a skill. Educate yourself and you'll laugh at how easy it is.

  • if i got 20 plus likes i will tell my ex i like her again :')

  • if i got enough likes i will tell my ex i like her again :')

  • think about all the crazy stds you could be getting, jackass.

  • reality is, school and career is more important than getting laid.

  • This guy looks like The Fonz

  • But I dont know if she is interest in me or not... Like i really wanna tell her how i feel but i just cant do it, whenever i tried to do this, my heartbeats fast and i chicken out..Oh well after high school life, i'll try my best..

  • Dude, thank you so much for this video!!! I asked my crush today to be my girlfriend and she said YES!!!!!!! thank u so much for the video! :DD

  • Thanks for the vid. It made me finally work up the courage to tell my crush how I felt. We met for coffee and I told her what had been bottled up inside for a long while. Of course she was almost saddened by the news and told me that she had no romantic feelings for me whatsoever. At the moment I was devastated but all in all I’m so happy I was able to tell her. It is like this huge weight was lifted off my shoulders. She still wants to remain friends and afrer some thinking...I will.

  • I asked a girl out a while back, but she turned me down, I never took this guys advise, but watching this I realized I didn't do anything wrong. She didn't get over her previous BF, and the others that fallow I never got to ask where already taken, or not even interested and only wanted to be friends. But knowing this just gets things out of my chest.

  • awesome mate. after the sunlight is cleared from my eyes, she's aint important anymore.. :)

    i actually did more than you... 5 years... feel like a dumbass for wasting this time..

  • awesome mate. after the sunlight is cleared from my eyes, she's aint important anymore.. :)

  • i got friendzoned the shit out of SOOOO much by this girl...that she wants to have sex with me...ALOT. how did i manage to do this?! hahahahahaha ive been friendzoned for almost a year and ive talked to her almost every day. you have to have a balance of hitting on her and being friends. but then again...she did fall in love with me before..and DIDNT tell me.

  • It's on. This video really made me "Okay, wanna go out with me?" to her. And now we're going to spend the weekend together. Just do it, that's my advice to all who are still a little worried. Be confident, don't wait for too long.

  • Challenge accepted. I will do that right now in fact. I'm serious.

  • @jeverbever How did it go?

  • @Daazbee Alright. Got another girl now and she's all over me :)

  • Thank you dude! I watched this movie a while ago and asked her straight away. Now we are married and she's pregnant with twins. Thank u so much

  • my crush and i are dance partners, beginners but still. driving her home just a few nights ago, we had a good talk and before i got a chance to tell her, she drops the whole " u noe this guy (a good friend of hers) asked me out and it felt so awkward with him because i said no. i hate losing friends to this sort of thing u noe, i want it to be the way it was but i can't see them the same way after they try to ask me out. its a shame really" so i was stumped and was like "yeh tell me about it" :(

  • i just did tell my crush i liked her and had a crush on her. she didnt reject me or accpet me. i feel i could still have a chance with her. i vow to get her in the future but very slowly. i love that were still great friends but i pretty much asked her to give me chance that to not write me off.

  • i feel so motivated, your like a big brother man.

  • david, you're my role model

  • boyfriends can be replaced

  • I'll wait for our junior high prom I'll try to ask her out

  • I'm scared we might not be friends anymore when I tell her I like her