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  • Seth sometimes you have to be selfish. do things for yourself. i think your a good person and I love watching your videos. Its gonna all work out in the end. it sucks now but you gotta keep fighting....Without great struggle you cannot hope for great success. I hope you find your way. :)

  • just think about your wife and then just think fuck it if it didnt work these more girls out there you just gotta live life and have fun

  • thats my boy youll be fine man

  • Sorry to hear about it bro.Keep your head up it all turns around. I am in the same boat. Its a new year :).

  • thats was deep :O

    good luck dude :)

  • Im a big fan of yours man, and i feel for you ,

    i hope you feel better soon man ,

    your a good bloke and you obviously dont deserve this, thanks for the videos

    yours sincerely :)

  • woo smokes, i quit for 2 yrs, went back on like 4 months ago, cos i split wit my gf, even when uve quit the cravin will always be ther, but tbh i dnt give a smeg, i enjoy it lol keep on keeping on :) puffing ur way thru life lol aint all tht bad walkin round in a cloud of smoke, least u cnt see the shit wall ur walking into haha

  • good luck bro

  • Also they sell electric cigarettes that are the I heard fell exactly the same but aren't bad for you.

  • Also maybe start doing some activity like paintball or boxing, church, World of Warcraft, it'll take your mind off things.

  • Don't worry about your mistakes just be proud of your accomplishments, you are a great person. Living with your parents is not a bad thing that means if your parents let you your parents really care about you. Moving some were else might be a mistake cause you won't have a lot of the people you know here. Also even though were you are now has many negative reminders it also probably has a lot of positive reminders.

  • Actually watching your videos keep me sane and you've even helped me from killing myself. Thank you brother.

  • cmon seth!! we're all behind u!!! u can do everything u want/need 2 do!! LIKE PUT OUT THAT SMOKE!!!! we're here 4 ya man! :) <3

  • Dude, I agree with everything you're saying...I am there for you, as many of your fans are...my reasoning is that I have went through alot of the same stuff you have, and I found comfort and solace in your words and videos...I've struggled right beside you brother and I will continue to, let's do this.

  • I found out I couldn't provide for and protect loved ones unless I took care of my self, so many epiphany's have been gleamed while on the introspect and search for something better. I could share so many .. but they would be Mine not ones owned by your Own-self one comes to mind... Work harder on your self than on your job ! ? I am slowly becoming a

    better person because of this, not a better entrepreneur.

  • I hope things work out for you. Good luck in everything you do. Happy 2010

  • Put the cigerates down. You 'll just die younger. I know death seems like an attractive option right now. But it won't do anything to help. That's life like you said. Just keep strong,you'll get through it eventually. Just try and carry on with your life,for some people it takes just a few weeks...some never get over it. Just take it at the pace you want to.

    Marcus. (26/12'09)

  • Stay strong duderini. Take it easy.

  • no cigs pease

  • Try to take control of your life Seth, just going with the flow doesn't work too well most of the time. You probably won't like what I'm saying, but there are other fish in the sea as they say. Good luck!

  • Seth, I have to say that I felt compelled to listen the entire time. I have a feeling you do know what you're trying to say, but that you can't articulate it. If making these vlogs helps you that's great, but you can't count on me, or any of your other fans, or on the future. All you can really count on is the present. Do something now! It's not impossible.

  • join the army.

    in a strange way listening to u talk about ur problems benifits me too

    its kinda like learning from other peoples mistakes

    its the easiest way to learn

  • Hope everything works out Seth,

    Merry Christmas.

  • I was thinking about giving a story or some kind of advice or what not, but you seem like a pretty strong willed guy who's got his head screwed on straight, so I feel that that it'd all be in vain. Merry Christmas man, stay safe and stay strong. I know just how you feel.

  • wingin it is sumtimes the best way to handle tough situations. always here to support u seth. tackle life strong man.

  • Sometimes it sucks to watch another year go by and end up saying to yourself, "What have I done?" I'm Minutely better off then I was last year, but Not at all where I wanted to be. Maybe it's Mid-Life, but I know I'm not getting any younger, and I've started completely over, from the bottom, working my way up. That's all any of us can do, but at the same time, I have faith that In the End everything will work out, cuz If we lose that faith, than what are we fighting for?

  • We're here to support you. Don't worry,awsome people like you always make it thru. :)

  • Seth you need to take care of yourself. You won't be any good to you or anyone else if you aren't healthy. Things will get better. We are all rooting for you.

  • Seth we all enjoy your vids so keep them up. We're all here to support you.

  • Seth,

    I think you are doing the right thing by starting fresh. And after some time passes, you will feel completely different, for sure! I do have to say though, your wife is missing out. Although I don't know what happened with you, it is hard to believe that after being with someone as sweet and genuine as you, that ANYONE would want someone else instead. But divorces happen to some of the best of us~ Blaming doesn't really help and I know that. Anyway, keep on doing what you do.

  • we will always be here for you and sometimes the only way to be successful is to just do whats best for you

  • Hey Seth I'm 45 and still don't have all the answers. The best any of us can do is keep moving forward and hope we've made the right choices. There's nothing wrong with making mistakes (it's inevitable) as long as you learn from them. Your a good guy, we'll be here to remind you of that when needed.

  • o by the way, merry christmas

  • ive thought about kicking the bucket a few times.

    bit dont do it, the world would lose a gentle and great person.

  • haha pause and then drag the bar to the beginning of the movie

  • 2010...were getting old,

  • 3,836 people there for you and growing

    God bless you :)

  • After leaving my previous girlfriend some severely fucked up shit ensured. I'm going through the same kind of shit you are these days, just with different subject matter.

  • *hugs* you have our support man.

  • We will be there for you, if that makes it any less scary. The past is not to be relived but remembered, used as a guide to avoid future hazards. Don't worry about repeating mistakes, just look back at them from time to time so you will see the signs of them coming. Enjoy the holidays and go into the new year with the intent you choose. ~ Lyn

  • yeah man. take some time to get your shit together. merry christmas.

  • Seth, you are not a selfish person. I know I may only be seventeen years old...but no matter what age you are break-ups/separations or what have you suck. You have to learn to go after what YOU want and take care of YOU first. You have to be happy with yourself before you can make somebody else happy. Making yourself become a better person is not a selfish act. Good on ya buddy. Keep on truckin'. :)

  • No! Its not selfish at all Seth...You need to take care of yourself and put yourself first to be able to have anything stable and happy in your life with anyone else..it took me 26 years to realize that but its just the truth. Being good to yourself is probably the most giving thing you can do for others in your life, it makes you such a better person to be around/with.

    Merry Christmas Seth!

  • its 10 years and counting for me..... i know can in some way relate to you how you feel about moving ahead in life

  • 2010 will be a better year dont worry

  • I have also alienated many in my life simply because I had too much pride to admit I had faults as well. I also just got out of a relationship, and I still have feelings for the person. I'm dealing with it, but it hasn't been easy as we are still friends and he is dating others. However, I know I'll be alright in time. So will you. You just have to believe in yourself and those who love you. Merry Christmas.

  • Ive been there done that. Ive never been the same I think life can train wreck you but its not fair to those around you to shut down sometimes you have to keep going no matter how dizzy you are all things pass and this will also. Good luck in the new year.

  • Ya Seth we will always be here for you dude. Keep happy try to get things done that will get you happy :] Merry Christmas Seth.

  • Merry Christmas Seth :) I've been watching your videos for a while, both this channel and the original and i think they are great way for you to express yourself and get stuff off your chest.

    Just keep your chin up dude, and it's true what you say about alienating people. Re-kindling some friendships with people you've disconnected with over the years could help you pick yourself up and get back on track after your situation over the last couple of months.

  • c'est la vie, buddy.

  • merry christmas :)

  • Keep making videos man, they are awesome. These vlogs are really compelling and interesting, keep making videos and hopefully you'll get a enough of a fan base to become a partner.

  • Take your time seth, go too fast through this roller coaster and you'll lose yourself. Move out, it'll be a great way of not having to think about past memories 24/7. I really do hope things go your way because you have a kind heart, no matter what you think about that.

    Fucking take care and keep making these videos, I think I speak for everyone that we want to know how you're doing in this next year, and as someone else said:

    Take it easy dude.

  • Hang in there, man. We're here for you.

  • Seth dude its a new year with new possibilities, do something totally out of the blue to make you feel more alive like grow a shaycarl beard lol

  • You should have a coach to help you in losing weight, stop smoking, and keep you on track to get your life in order, I dunno who would do that, perhaps ask a close friend to help.

    But for now, stay strong dude, you can make it, we believe in you.

  • Sorry to hear about your wife seth, i feel your pain my girlfriend just broke up with me a few days ago :(

  • feels nice to get that off your chest, i do the same, but in a diary. all i can say is that i hope it works out somehow.

  • always here for you bro.

  • Being pissed about the past only consumes you my friend! Whoever else was involved has already moved on, if they hadn't they would still be around you! You deserve to be happy so to hell with yesteryear! You have to protect your heart, your soul and your head! If you don't let things go, you will never move on and meet anyone else! I speak from experience here and its true that time is a great healer! Be happy and healthy and quite smoking FFS! Have a peaceful Christmas. xx

  • Hey man , i can tell your very upset with things. Shit is hard sometimes, and being left by your wife. and seeing her with another man. Is a terrible feeling. Ive never felt that , but ive felt simliar. and i could only imagine , its harder.  But hang on in there , have a good christmas , have a good new year. Pce Seth. Good luck

  • youve got nice eyes. . . . not in a gay way!

  • lolwut

  • make a list of things that make you happy and keep adding to it and reading it and it will make you a happier person

  • Seth I hope you have a Wonderful Holiday. Keep doing good and the good work on your videos.

  • you are an awesome guy from what i can tell, dont dwell on the shit things in life! because life goes on, we all move on from all the shit that happens, and things do get better, unless u let urself get stuck in a rut but tbh i dnt think ur the kinda guy the wud. good luck in life man :) i wish u ALL the best :)

  • Your an awesome guy Seth! :)

  • You just gotta keep moving forward and damn the past. Stay strong Seth.

  • Seth, I'm sure you know this but if you do leave and start over, have a plan. Know what your getting yourself into. You're a great guy. Keep it up!

  • hope u have a great fresh start in '10. Have Merry Christmas Seat :)

  • seth ill wallways be there for you! your an amazing dude and ur my homie peace!

  • Seth your awesome dude. And if you lose weight how are u gunna be BIG white seth!?

  • My personal motto is "I don't have a time machine". It helps me remember that life is like driving a car. If we stay focused on the rearview mirror instead of the windshield, we're going to crash. It's okay to look back and reflect, but one must stay focused on the present and the future to make any progress.

    I don't know you other than through here, but your videos hit a nerve with me. You're wise Seth. You're a good man.

  • Good metaphor :)

  • Thanks. I volunteer as a facilitator for a cognitive self-help group, here in Calgary, Alberta. So this sort of thing is right up my alley.

  • @samstress22 that is a really good saying it got me thinking

  • hey seth i agree with your methods and personifications of life i might not be as old as you or any one else who comments about your feelings and life but i feel what your saying because i have great friends and family but im a jackass who thinks he is cool i also am very bad in grades and school i tell my parents i would try harder but i don't cause i am a piece of shit and in the future want to escape the problems of life and grades but i can't have a Merry Christmas and Happy New Year .......

  • what is it that actually happened to seth? D: like apart from the smoking and stuff.

    with his wife i think it is..

    i must know.. :|

  • Hope 2010 is better for you. Merry Christmas Seth

  • dude i respect you alot....... for owning up to what you did but not just to her but admitting it on the internet to show how man enough you are............ as for drugs just......... well.......... try to limit yourself to about lets just say like 1 a day then 4 a week the just keep lowering it to get there........... its all you man!

  • Trying to quit smoking and losing weight at the same time is often a bad idea...you might be taking too much on your plate. I'd say start with smoking then after a while try for losing weight. Good luck with what ever you do.

  • Seth..You should join ShayCarl's weight loss competition...it may help...what harm could it do

  • We are here for you! You just got do what you got to do, no questions asked, no complaints. Just do it!

  • You're right on the dot Seth. Moving out sounds like a good idea at the moment. There's no shame on having a little time for just yourself. You sure as hell earned it.

  • you need serenity to accept the things we cannot change, courage to change the things we can, and wisdom to know the difference. life will be better if you remember this. it helped me a lot. seasons greetings Seth.

  • You should find yourself some buddies and go backpacking for a year or five. Im kind of in your situation and im doing that in a couple of months. Best of luck. And man, don't take the easy way out. Life is to good for that.

  • I've been in your shoes man, I know what it's like to lose a wife, and how hard it is to stay healthy. I'm proud of you though. The fact that you are man enough to own up to your mistakes and not judge her or who she's with now shows that you really want to better yourself. As for the weight loss, just keep at it man, you'll eventually get there.

  • I'm disappointed in you man. I was really happy when you quit smoking and now....

  • @jussttom hey fag i don't want to sound all offensive and all but you mind your own fucken busniess

  • @jussttom hey fag i don't want to sound all offensive but you mind your own fucken business he is going threw a hard time in his life

  • calm down man im not hating on him. im just sad that he went back to smoking to relieve stress when it has no positive effects on him.. seth knows im there for him and if your frend started smoking would you want him to do it because it makes he feel good for the moment or would you want him to stop because you know its bad for him in the long run...

  • hey dude im sorry i got all made at you and my answer is that i would stop my friends or personal friend from smoking

  • ur wife is kind of a bitch for wat she did

  • so, fucking stop. You obviously care about yourself, so fucking stop doing shit that is bad for you.

  • Why don't you take action on the plan you set about moving out and starting over?

    I think its best.

    It was the same for me too. I was a looser without any balls hanging on me. But now, I'm in a different country, with a different life~

    And I have three balls hanging on me, earning my own livelyhood, and having a even deeper relationship with God.

    Jesus christ is the answer to all YOUR life troubles seth.

    And besides that, I wish you good luck and a successfull year ahead!

    Take care!

  • Dude, ur fuckn awesome.

  • Seth you have to stop looking back. Keep looking forward. I know it sounds easy, but it's not. Just keep working at it.

  • Learn from your mistakes..

  • i like you seth...you have balls...i LIKE balls

    (team america)

  • fuck yeah,,,, O_o

  • Where have you been O_O..?

  • i really like how you used Silver Linings.

    stay positive.

    i think a new place is exactly what you need.

  • thanks for your vlog.. its nice to know I'm not alone in wishing i could change the past, but knowing I cant... *sigh*

    Good luck in the next year!

  • WInging it FTW! And then just repeat all the positive stuff other people are saying. Seth RUles! You need a T-Shirt that says that.

  • right on dude, dont need to be afraid to take our own paths, we do give a shit,, and ill be watchin your vids for sure, good luck in whatever you do

  • Hey Seth,

    i know it's gonna be hard, but letting her do is the best thing for you, and if she is ever to be with you again, it'll happen when you're both in a better place. As far as moving somehwere, i think that's a great idea. being on your own is a good way to force yourself to grow into the man you wanna be. You'll always have us here to have your back, and the worst thing that will happen is you'll fail. You will do well Seth because people care about you, and thats what truly matters.

  • And if you ever need to talk about anything, and you notice that i'm online anywhere..i'll talk with you about whatever you want. I know we aren't friends but i've watched you for quite some time, and i feel what you're going through man,

  • Life's clear as mud half the time, people talk a good game, but nothing's ever as easy as it's made out. So I aint giving you advice man.

    All you can do is keep your head up, and your spirit strong. There I go..talking a good game.

    Take it easy dude.

  • (i am honestly speaking from the heart) your vlogs have given me a new outlook on life, i really hope things get better for you.

  • and do what you want or believe you need to do in life seth, one thing people don't like in life, is someone telling them what to do. Be your own person and we will always be here to support you. (:

  • seth, well i appreciate you alot man. and i understand what you're talking about,you could seriously be a life coach (In a way you are) people learn everyday and we make mistakes everyday, and the saying "what doesnt kill you, will only make you stonger" is soo true in every aspect of life.Starting over is always a god thing,and i guess we can all say we are "wingin it" well if you're an adult.And yes we will always "give a shit" becuz you've been a friend to us.stay positive buddy.-Tevin

  • do what ya gotta do Seth, stay focused and vent when needed, but don't lose sight of the prize!

  • Seth you need to trust yourself more. One man can change the world. You are not a fool. So get up off your ass and put that cig out!!! Your still young and you have the rest of your life to worry about. It's never time to give up. How ever it is time to lock your past away and look tword small term golas in the future. YOU CAN DO IT SETH!!!

  • That's life, that's what all the people say.

    You're riding high in April,

    Shot down in May...

    things will get better man.

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