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  • This was very helpful for me, I've been living full time for a year now, and I apparantly pass swimingly. I went to a new doctor, had to drop my shorts and was still thought to be a cisgendered female, but I still mastrubated and I felt empty about it but still wondered if that meant I shouldn't get my SRS, this confirmed that it would only be beneficial for me, even if I'm non orgasmic, I would just be happy knowing I'm fully female. I'm also only 17, just over a year left <3

  • I feel the exact same way when I have an orgasm and I'm not trans. I think that's really cool that you can explore that :)

  • I'm early transition and I am so jealous of you right now. The female orgasm as you describe it is everything I dream of. For me its still a long way away, probably like 4 years. I always try to balance between feeling nothing and exploding, trying to experience what I think other women are experiencing, but its really hard with a male sexual organ. I've never wanted it gone so much as after watching this video.

  • You are so correct in a way - as a born female I can testify that one of the main differences is the whole experience being "it", so to speak. It's not just a race to the big boom at the end, it's an overlapping build-up, a journey, a crescendo. Personally, I'd say you can gain control over your body and even that experience, hope you get to experience that as well. Controlling the volume of it, the intensity and length. Not to mention the oh-so-fortunate multiples...

    Wishing you the very best.

  • @Marunette82 I have not had srs but can ride out orgasms and have had multiple orgasms. Its already different to me. Hormones and the inability to have an erection just make things so much longer and intense. I feel wave after wave of heat building through my entire body and it feels like a plateau that is almost an orgasm that lasts for a long time then when I climax its slower but so much longer and it can last for several minutes.SRS with Suporn for a surgeon sounds even better.

  • @Marunette82 and I can even have multiple orgasms too. That's pre-op. I find sex is more enjoyable it can be easy if I have an hour or more. It takes a little longer but once your in the Zone, your brain stays there for at least an hour after so its easy to have more in quick succession after the first one. I still tingle for an hour after the last of them. Its way better on Hormones. I can't wait for SRS.

  • @WheedWhack3R Hee! =D "Take your time, bring lunch" takes on an interesting meaning. Taking your time is THE way to go, indeed! Glad to hear you're getting the sweet multiples, and hope that your wait for SRS will be over soon.

    Hugs for strength? =)

  • @Marunette82 Yes its really neat so far. I had no real interest in sex until about 3 months on hormones and at 6 things were very different! at one year I had multiple! Its funny how most trans girls tell me that their sex drive went down on hormones because mine went up! Its probably psychosomatic because I was disgusted by being male but even so. WAY BETTER than I though possible this early in the game. I never wanted surgery so bad before because I know it gets even better!.

  • @Marunette82 I think my brain is just more female at this point than some of those who start late in life. I blocked every bit of testosterone by going overkill on DHT and two different T blockers for 6 months. It had profound impacts in all my thinking and especially sex. I don't think of it as work. Its more fun now and every time is a little different so its not the same boring thing over & over. the first time I ride out an orgasm I trembled for over half an hour.TOO intense! <3

  • I saw this video and screamed... I've been watching your youtube videos for awhile now and you have finally been blessed to put the cherry on the sunday. So happy for you hopefully I get there one day. It's such a rough journey. Thank you for the inspiration, thank you for sharing your experience. (:

  • You are very descriptive, which is a good thing. I, being born a female, don't even appreciate the orgasm the way you do. I guess I take it for granted being as how I have always had the ability to think that is a normal way to feel during sex...but you are so right about how great it is, and can be. I am glad you have the ability to experience it. Listening to you about the male and female differences of orgasm was interesting to me. I learned something from you. Thank you.

  • "It's like a melody." That's actually quite beautiful.

  • amazing! i am so glad to hear someone else describe this! I have had this sensation only twice, once while wilking, i stoped and hardly could stand!, I lost all controll of my breathing! it was very tingly down deep. and caused my whole abdomen to gyrate! I wanted to SCREAM!

    oh yeah, I'm "pre-op"

  • Great video, in there you said only 1 in 4 chance of being able to have a orgasm post op?!? Why is that and who did you go through?

  • You're so funny LOL

  • now i know why i have a lazy left eye....lol....

  • Bravo to you on your discovery of female sexuality. It's a lifelong journey for all of us, but it is clear that you have already traveled further than many women born with vaginas will - both emotionally & physically.

  • but in terms of what women in the overall population experience, you are at the top end of sensitivity.If, in your early explorations, you are already having this degree of enjoyment- the range of pleasure you are going to be able to achieve will be extraordinary. The combo orgasm (internal + clitoral at the same time) is going to knock your socks off! You get that wave-like complexity combined with clit's male-like the intensity.

  • A lot of the time it really did feel like a chore for me (although my schedule did not need to be as rigorous as your dilation!) It has been so worthwhile though; my orgasms have gotten better and better over the years and I long ago left most of girlfriends in the dust (in terms of enjoyment). Your description of the sensations and the differences between internal and clitoral are totally accurate. I'm not sure if you feel that your overall sensation has lessened since surgery,

  • Wow. You rock. I lot of women who are born that way biologically (as I was), do not understand their sexually as deeply as you do. (no pun intended) I am not trans myself but my sexuality was something that I had to work very hard on to develop, because of physical/sexual trauma as a child. So I have never taken it for granted. I had to regularly spend time exploring/ masturbating in order to learn how to experience any sensation, let alone to have an orgasm...

  • omg. yours sound better than mine.

  • Important question; who did your surgery? Because maintaining sensation is foremost in my SRS considerations.

  • I think you are gorgeous! I would have never even known you were MTF, had I only saw a picture of you.

  • your so beautiful!

  • you look like dr mcginn

  • I really glad someone trans finally talked about orgasm. I am all about orgasm and fantasy. When you get with a man or woman and have sex, please tell me what it is like -in detail.. Love your video

  • And sorry for all the many comments, I wish they didn't limit you to only 450 characters per comment, understanding they want to keep them brief but, I have no idea how else to get in contact with you. Mind you, I do understand that your popularity has grown to the point of having far more fans than "friends" so, just another me isn't going to impress you in the least but, a girl could dream, and I had a lot to say and compliment you on. I hope it wasn't too much. Thanks again! You rock!

  • REAL thing, such as you have described here. Thank you so much for that. And thank you for not only being a continually informative and educational nuance to the community of trans and gender-questioning people, but, thank you for being so charismatic and making your videos so uniquely entertaining and making them more than bearable to watch- they are FUN! You have ALWAYS been super fun and I want to thank you for having an IQ far above that of so many vid posters. You're just plain awesome!

  • I envy you so much JaneEv. (I hope it's ok that I called you that!) I envy you're ability to have already had it and to have the opportunity to share such vlogs with all of us who want to know- even though some of us, even pre-op, already know what you're talking about it when it comes to the female orgasm being a completely different experience... because, it IS possible to meditate yourself into that frame of mind and experience even within a male body, but I'm sure NOTHING can compare to the

  • my heart, soul, mind, AND body! God I wish I could afford surgery. God. But it seems like a goal that is unattainable for me due to the circumstances I was born into and have lived in, not to mention the discrimination and prejudice I've had to endure due to being in this state and being part of the family I was born into. Where do you find the money for such a wonderful thing? Where? I just... it feels so far away I feel like there is absolutely NO hope of having it until it's too late!

  • all! I have always felt all my life, and when I've had sex, I've put myself into an extremely deep meditative state where I forced myself to become the woman that I have always been in ORDER to reach orgasm, and, oddly enough, even with male "parts" which weren't really complete male parts to begin with (gross TMI there, sorry) I have always been able to have multiple "O"s! The downside- I have never been able to experience the RIGHT WAY, the way you're referring to. And I so want that, with all

  • simple "release from overwhelming testosterone". I have literally, every time I've had one... when I was married, when I had sex before (as a male, in the male role... I guess because I was NEVER a male), having an orgasm was, I equate it to feeling as though I felt release from being raped by my own body. It hurt, emotionally, and I LOATHED it! I couldn't wait to let it go because of the overwhelming need for it because of the all the "T" but, I hated the feeling of "needing" that release at

  • I am so envious. You have not even the most remote idea! I have longed for GCS my entire life... well, in truth I've longed to wake up from this nightmare of being born in the wrong body, well, being born intersexed but, with mostly male parts, at least enough that it made my parents decide to go with the coin flip to raise me as a boy despite my kareotype being 47XXY/46XX Mosaic. But that's neither here nor there. I am totally there with you on the male orgasm feeling like nothing more than a

  • Wow what a great vlog!!! Thank you soo much for posting! I had wondered if I really wanted to get srs. Your comments give me food for thought.

  • I had my surgery 5 years ago and thats exactly what i fellt too. its awesome!!

  • I am so happy to hear it's all working out well for you. And I think it may make you happy to hear that what you described orgasm wise is exactly how I would describe mine, and I was born in a female body. Just more proof that you are a woman through and through, and finally now in anatomy as well. Seems your surgeon did a wonderful job. :-)

  • That just sounds amazing.

  • Um yes..ya get 2 thumbs up for the hat..in fact i want one now..the hat that is : ) thx for sharing this, i kinda lost ur yt chan ova time but im glad i found it again,

  • This reminds me of myself recently. So I can relate :) It is innocent but definitely empowering to know what the female body is capable of. Every woman is different & there are some cisgendered women who can't, or rarely, have vaginal orgasms. There are MANY different ways to find sexual pleasure that you almost forget the sadness, & in my case feeling of being inadequate, that you can't have "normal" orgasms. Plus it's fun to try new things so that takes the pressure off. Happy awakening! :D

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  • wow! nice video i never heard anyone talk so lyrically but precisely described about orgasms as you! great you have already this sensitivity by now

  • great sharing, thats a side u never hear, thanks.

  • have you ever had prostate orgasm

  • @Truesky44 I have now! LOL Pretty sure its the G-spot still just on the other side of things

  • @TransLifeandBody im talkin about when someone stimulates your prostate and you ejaculate its completely different than the usual male orgasm its like your lower bodys out of control. and do you have a g spot similar to a females

  • Woman with a past...you are so cute! I love your descriptions. Being a woman is a beautiful thing and it's so great that you are experiencing this. No wonder you are glowing...*smile* Sex and wine is a great analogy. YES! It's not trivial at all to me.

  • @PaintedRavensong Thanks sweety! Sex is never trivial, even when we try to make it!

  • Most succinct, I am so happy for you and hope life will be beautiful for you from now on :)

  • Everything I had hoped for and more! Lead the way, Jane! GREAT video. Thank you for being honest, Intimate and so incredibly descriptive. Enjoy!!!!!!

  • @lifeafterdawn I am happy to do so! I am just glad I have people to share it with !

  • Great video, so informative!

  • @jasonlittlewolf Is't the human body amazing?

  • @ReignbowSmite I am so thankful to be able to! Transition is such a journey, and I feel like I am just starting it - in a good way! 

  • Thanks for getting into a topic that seems to have not gotten a lot of honest public discussion. Your candor and honesty were great to experience!

  • @lopsided1 Well you know me! I am too much of a loud mouth LOL!

  • 4 months post op myself from Dr Suporn just had my first O last week. You explain things well, did you have penile inversion or a different procedure? Just curious, it hurt WAY too much down there to explore the first 2-3 months. Love to chat more:)

  • @marissagrl Penile inversion. Yes the first couple of time did hurt! Stretching to the extreme! OUCH! Glad to hear you are doing well!

  • i havent had the op yet (and cant yet anyways) but i have only ever had the kind of female orgasms that you describe so graphically...btw, what are the things on the wall behind you??? it looks like you have someone doing 'bunny ears' behind you....

  • @the0siren0of0night Those are butterfly wings I made out of a close hanger ! LOL

  • Thank you for making this video because you've officially sold me on GCS. I think I just needed to hear about this type of experience to tip me over the edge.

  • @tiresianphoenix Well remember surgery is huge! I know you know that, but just know the risks and follow your heart. Things work out when you follow your inner voice 

  • Jane, I loved your video. It was so neat to listen to you talk about exploring you sexual feelings. Thanks so much for sharing this with us.

  • I want the surgery so bat I keep getting dysphoric because I cant afford it at all and I have bean trying to get help with getting the money so I set up an online donation to help so fare I only had one person who donated If you want to help me get my goal amount for my GCS SRS GRS what ever you call it pleas do so the like and video is on my channel I need help and this is the best way I can think of getting the word out any amount donated will help me get to my goal amount for my GRS

  • 1/4? i didn't know that and it kind of makes me sad. This is a beautiful video lady v. : )

  • This video was so touching to me, thank you so much for sharing; I'm still a year away from SRS at the least but hearing such wonderful things is inspiring. While I will probably not make youtube videos just know that I am one of the many out there that will be following you on my journey through all of this before the beginning ^^

  • @swiftblackfox Good luck with everything sweety! Love and light!

  • yes that was a lot of information but i'm glad you're enjoying :)

  • Got enough hat. lol

  • Orgasms youre doing it right.

  • Thank you for openly sharing such an intimate feeling with us ... words do not adequately begin to describe thoughts and feelings experienced via such a sensation but ... you do a pretty good job of giving folks an idea! Hopefully, such sensations grow and magnify as time passes as you continue on this journey.

    Oh ... love the Hat !! it is too cool and just plain rules!

    Really terrific video all around! =)

    Hugz and Kisses !

  • @mystriousgrl No words can't describe it! <3

  • I've already begun to enjoy the shift in how orgasms feel from just being on HRT. It is wonderful. I do find sex pleasurable being pre-op, mainly because I have someone wonderful to do it with. But, I long for the experience as post-op. I'll be honest, the statistic you gave about 1 in 4 trans women not being able to feel anything after surgery is terrifying.... However, it's a risk I find worth taking. And there's more to it than just sexual too. I want to be able to feel this as a woman.

  • @Ozma3000 Yes, HRT is so powerful! Yes 1 out of 4 is a real reminder that surgery is major. Follow your heart and it will lead the way!

  • can diolation improve depth and how much depth would you say is required to take penitration succsessfully gey im asking as an 18 yr old mtf hopfully getting srs in the next 2 years not a dirty perv hehe xxx

  • @Closeyoureyesandjump I may make a video about this. Skin does stretch but I have the same depth as I did when I first got my packing out. I find that the width can change.

  • That is a extraordinary good Video you made, very op-en, sincere and without shame. I grew up in Europe and Sex is in the open and I can talk about it openly too. Now I am so happy that you can already feel Orgasmic so soon, i myself always hated the male orgasm and with the Spiro I can't even climax anymore , so I am looking forward to have a positive Experience with my new Vajiji next Year and finally can enjoy Sex. Once again great Video , all my Love to you xoxo

    jenn

  • @TransgirlCandyapple Just remember patience is a virtue. It may take time, but where there is a will there is a way! Surgery is major. Good luck sweetheart!

  • Yeahhh... ass-hat.

  • ... NICE... Is it not? One of those days you rememeber always. Next step, exploring your nature of being female from the core. The wilder woman surpressed by culture and man, the inner self at a deeper gut level. (smile) The journey continues, With a new attitude in your step forward. Enjoy, Mama Wolf

  • @Jenna08848 Oh yes! I am so glad I don't have to do it alone! Love you!

  • WOW !!!! this is the first time someone explains that well what it's liketo explore the brand new bottom area. it gives us a more understanding of what it's like, and how lucky you are Lady. I wish you plenty of those orgasm, so glad to see you shine like that

  • @francemtl Thanks sweety! I just wanted to explain what I feel and felt! Spin it in a different way to reflect my experience! 

  • thanks hun so glad to see you doing so well. so glad your out here. i will have ? as i get closer. thank you so much for sharing. love ya dear see you soon.

  • wow lady v, this was amazing! thanks for being so open and honest about everything. as an ftm, i can validate your claim how climax is different for women and men. mine changed quite a bit after starting testosterone. it's fascinating really.

  • @ShaneAlan78 Thanks! Yeah the human body is truly awesome. The body is so resilient! 

  • Thank you for this video. Open, honest and intimate, most other videos I've seen don't reflect and share like I feel this one has. So glad your road to recovery is going good, wishing you continued blessings.

  • @VarvaraBell Thank you sweety, just keeping it real! :)

  • Holly Molly Jayne, i need a cigarette lol, will you now audition for the V monologue? i think you'd be splendid. over the last year on hrt ive noticeable increase in sensation to touch, i love estrogen cant wait for my grs..thank-you for your openness xx Samantha

  • @TheRavenlament I so want to audition for the monologues! Yes estrogen will make you sensitive, and caressing will mean more to you than just sex. Good luck with everything sweetheart!

  • the decision about surgery is still years away for me, but ultimately this would be the thing that would totally validate my choice. It'll be nice once I don't have to worry about my little testosterone pumps and what they represent to society, but for what would make me feel that I've finally arrived would be the ability to finally be able to masturbate correctly for the first time in my life.

    Thank you for sharing, we need more people talking openly about their bodies! *hugs* <3 :3

  • @rvbgeek Orgasm aside, looking down and seeing what I know was always true means more to me than anything. Surgery is a HUGE decision, but I personally am glad I took the risk.

  • You traded your pogo stick for a slip'n'slide!

  • "the female orgasm is like being at the circus" That is the quote of the day.

    But seriously I'm so glad your happy with the results thus far and thank you so much for posting vids like this it really does help us who aren't as far into transition :)

  • @Transandfree For real, elephants and all! Hope everything is going well with you!

  • @TransLifeandBody Everything is going well with me thanks :) Plenty of work but not so much I can't pop onto you tube lol

  • envy..... I'm so jealous and happy for you! :D

  • @Ladypurpulhair No need to be jealous, where there is a will there is a way, you'll get there! <3

  • wow, thanks for sharing, i think most of us that have been following you for a while, are definitely happy for you --- take care -- hugz

  • @TGlife4Jessica Thank you sweetheart! <3<3<3

  • I'm so happy for you!

  • Thanks for sharing your orgasm.....experience with us. In 6 months I hope I can share the same story!!! Hugs, Jamie :)

  • @jamiejogirl Well everyone is different. Things take time when you change your body like this. It become like the little engine that could, and one day you will LOL!

  • I am glad to hear your...alright

    also FIRST VIEW WOOHOO

  • @spiritualinsight :) <3 Thank you sweetheart!!!!

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