EISH men should stop this painful act of miss using their powers over women.........God help me when im old to love respect and admire my wife ,family and surounding people
Thank you for sharing this, I am a survivor of domestic violence and this song is so powerful and that was before even reading the translation. I happen to love Rebecca Malope but this song touches deep into my heart and my soul and I am forever grateful for you providing the translations. Blessings to you!
itz one of my fovourite songs.im still young neva been married bt tht song show me hw sum men treat their in the presence of their children..i luv tht with each song u mke it comes with a great message.
the part that makes me sad is whn she says "why do you have to be beating on me and why are you making me a laughing stock of the neighbourwood,why do you still behave like an unmarried man,you think its a good thing to marry have kids and still have girlfriends whn am still with you?,why are you playing me like this?i did not know that this marriage will be like this,i didn't know,i cry for my kids..
Thank you also, for the translation. I am a husband and not too long a father. I sincerely appologies for this mishappennings that mothers and children are passing through. Whatever may ba the case, men! Lets keep restrain and show a little bit of maturity
@alenkele May the Almighty Jehovah lead you in your new role as husband ad father...lean on His word the Holy Bible...may His holy Spirit inspire you to be a great father and husband in this deteriorating world... keep the faithin Him, the Rock of ages...
does she have happy songs? i mean where she's laughing/smiling instead of always crying and stuff? i don't know. it's great stuff, but it makes me depressed a little ;)
@usaniinaizesheni yes she sings a lot of happy songs actually - off the top of my head se sings thank you Lord, uyingcwele, angingedwa....so many actually! type rebecca malope angingedwa..its a lovely praiseand worship song!
@usaniinaizesheni i know what you mean but still like the massage sis rebs is sending which is what its happinning or was happining inS.A dont know now hope not i have been in U.K for the past 8 years never been luck with my S.A men anyway try inkosi inontando it brings smile
This goes to Africastreet if you could kindly paste this lyrics to the information box , it will be much easier for every one to follow them. I had to cut the down into paragraphs because of character limit. start from 1 of 5 promptly to 5 of 5 thanks.
Always on Fridays, you come back from work, You come back home drunk and without money. When I ask you, you hit me. You have finished all parts of my bones in my body I am crying for my kids about what they are going to say What do they think? (What do you think they say?) The father of my children, my children When they see you drunk all the time We are always crying What is going on in this house? Oh I am getting out, I am getting out of this marriage **to be continued 3 of 5***
Thank you so much for the translation .... this is a most beautiful powerful song and it hits home for me as I am sure for so many others. She is an amazing artist and before even knowing the meaning of her words, you could feel the message. Thank you again.
never did i know that love sometimes can be so ful of violence, i thought he loved me unconditionaly until the beatings started, but after 7 mnth i wnt to report him for abuse and he stoped, and at the end i left him, love does not mean beatings nor hurt or tears, i just love her songs, it make me strong, i achieved so much in life, although i do not understand what she is saying,i know what message she is conveying to us. thanks reb
I live this song, but don't like seeing the video coz after all these years it brings back bad memories of my encounter of domestic violence! even though it wasn't this bad and only happened once, but the scars are so deep; i realised just by watching this video. we kids suffer more i guess! great work sis'Ribs.....
a lot of pple are being abused and killed under the roof. its so sad that most of the crime is committed by pple we knw inside the hm nt out side by strangers
this video and song has touched me in my most sensitive inner most feelings truly she is great for such is the story of so many african mothers i know i went through exactly the same thing powerful message indeed
Thank you for the translation Mandlovu. I would also like to comment that when producing the video, it is important that the message that not even God expects us to honour our vows, when one of our partners is abusing us. Peace and love to all.
oh its u i have to thank for this beautiful music - u dont know how many pple u inspire - please post more!! And yes, God does not support domestic violence becoz He has ordered our husbands to treat us with love, patience, and in a nutshell, the same way Jesus treated his church - with love , empath and understanding!! God bless
The the next stanza "Last \friday u came back home drunk and with no more of your salary. And beat me up - u have finished all my bones - I cry for my kids - what has gone wrong ??
Then the climax of the song "Hamba Juba - meaning fly away pigeon - they will save you where u are going. .." I am not even doing justice to this rich and beautiful Zulu language - but I want you to understand what she is saying. Enjoy
@mandlovu Thank yu 4 taking yur time to translate to us who do not undestand the meaning.. I love the song and the video, though I neva realy knew understood what she was saying up until now... It is a beautiful song indeed just as i had imagined it to mean..
This song ius so sad - it says " look at it - we are two of us, married, but now there is a third person between us. We havebuilt a home together and kids together, but u continue a life of a young man, going after girls yet |I am here. U Why u making me a laughing stock of the neighbours? Why have you played with me like this?""
She talks about her pain and suffering, her perseverance, and how she is now getting out of this marriage for the sake of her kids. Look on page one for translation by stanza
Women go thru so much for the sake of their children..God bless us while we try to give those same children a peaceful home to live in and to grow up with good morals.
She is singing about domestic violence - how she has been humiliated by her husbands cheating and how... he finishes all the money and then when she confronts him he beats her to a pulp. The most touching part is that she is crying more for her kids who have to witness this, and dont understand whats going on. She is saying if she had known it was going to be like this, she would have never married him....see next message for more.
iam so touched by this song we women go through so much lapha emhlabeni kunzima!! cant stop crying ...wot a song sis Rebecca u are heaven sent abanendlebe bayezwa abanamehlo bayabona...
I think that you have touuched African men's hearts. Now it is the time ofr us as proud men to change our actions towards our wives. Thanks for the song and may God increase your talent
This song really touched my heart, just to think there are some women who are still being abused... all I can do is pray that GOD give them strength to get out while they still can. I don't ever want to see myself in that situation. just reminds me of emzansi....
Glory to Jesus that a soul was won to christ through the song.
Rebecca thanks.
Thanks strawberrybabycakes for giving your life to Jesus. The challenge is for you to continue because what counts is the end. Paul tells Timothy, "Fight a good fight of faith... to please the master.Don't stop on the way, you know there's a reward.Jesus loves you.
EISH men should stop this painful act of miss using their powers over women.........God help me when im old to love respect and admire my wife ,family and surounding people
zenzele2010000 1 week ago
Amen c'est Une servente de Dieu
zoulou501 1 month ago
Thank you for sharing this, I am a survivor of domestic violence and this song is so powerful and that was before even reading the translation. I happen to love Rebecca Malope but this song touches deep into my heart and my soul and I am forever grateful for you providing the translations. Blessings to you!
Lottahead324 4 months ago
where can i get the lyrics to this song
TheBabrakoa 5 months ago
what a painful real life situation but real men dont abuse their families
thularejm 7 months ago
What a sad song...Tjo!!!
Noxy188 7 months ago
itz one of my fovourite songs.im still young neva been married bt tht song show me hw sum men treat their in the presence of their children..i luv tht with each song u mke it comes with a great message.
denzel0407 7 months ago
the part that makes me sad is whn she says "why do you have to be beating on me and why are you making me a laughing stock of the neighbourwood,why do you still behave like an unmarried man,you think its a good thing to marry have kids and still have girlfriends whn am still with you?,why are you playing me like this?i did not know that this marriage will be like this,i didn't know,i cry for my kids..
lilyrose618 8 months ago
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What a song,abusers go on you will find your match.
Thikhatali 10 months ago
te sweeeeetest song ever,God bless you.
otienosteve88 1 year ago
Thank you also, for the translation. I am a husband and not too long a father. I sincerely appologies for this mishappennings that mothers and children are passing through. Whatever may ba the case, men! Lets keep restrain and show a little bit of maturity
alenkele 1 year ago 2
@alenkele May the Almighty Jehovah lead you in your new role as husband ad father...lean on His word the Holy Bible...may His holy Spirit inspire you to be a great father and husband in this deteriorating world... keep the faithin Him, the Rock of ages...
mandlovu 1 year ago
does she have happy songs? i mean where she's laughing/smiling instead of always crying and stuff? i don't know. it's great stuff, but it makes me depressed a little ;)
usaniinaizesheni 2 years ago
check out/search for Ikosi Inothando ... She smiles in it :D
impamiizgraa 1 year ago
@usaniinaizesheni yes she sings a lot of happy songs actually - off the top of my head se sings thank you Lord, uyingcwele, angingedwa....so many actually! type rebecca malope angingedwa..its a lovely praiseand worship song!
mandlovu 1 year ago
@usaniinaizesheni i know what you mean but still like the massage sis rebs is sending which is what its happinning or was happining inS.A dont know now hope not i have been in U.K for the past 8 years never been luck with my S.A men anyway try inkosi inontando it brings smile
busisiwe99 8 months ago
Yabuhlungu intliziyo yam yile ngoma
shirleyntloko 2 years ago
Thank you so much for sharing this amazing video ... she is so powerful in all she does ... but this video speaks volumes ... thank you so much.
Stormyldl 2 years ago
This goes to Africastreet if you could kindly paste this lyrics to the information box , it will be much easier for every one to follow them. I had to cut the down into paragraphs because of character limit. start from 1 of 5 promptly to 5 of 5 thanks.
thank you for the video. God bless you
B2tumelo 2 years ago
Look, we say we are both married
But there is the third one between us We say we have built a house and
Have bore children,
You continue to act like a boy
Do you think its nice to think, you have a family
While you run around with other women while I am around.
Why are you making me laughter of my neighbors?
You played me a lot. They are all surprised what is going on in this house
***to be continued 1 of 5***
B2tumelo 2 years ago
I didnt know that it was going to be like this.
(I didnt know), I didnt know.
Why are you using me?
(I didnt know) why are you making me laughter of my neighbors?
(I didnt know) The father of my children (I didnt know)
Why are you using me? Why are you using me?
***to be continued 2 of 5***
B2tumelo 2 years ago
B2tumelo 2 years ago
Tell me; tell me what is going on with the father of my children?
What is going on? Forgive me (I didnt know) I am only crying
For my babies (I didnt know) I am only crying for my children
Forgive me. (I didnt know) what is happening? I didnt know.
***to be continued 4 of 5***
B2tumelo 2 years ago
Go dove! They will pluck you further on!
Go dove! (Forgive me) They will pluck you further on! (Forgive me)
Go dove! (Dont kill me) They will pluck you further on! (Dont kill me)
Go dove! (Im getting out of this marriage) They will pluck you further on! (I am getting out of this marriage)
Go dove! (Forgive me. What happened? Forgive me). They will pluck you further on!
***complete translation 5 of 5**( please start from 1 of 5 to follow promptly
B2tumelo 2 years ago
Thank you so much for the translation .... this is a most beautiful powerful song and it hits home for me as I am sure for so many others. She is an amazing artist and before even knowing the meaning of her words, you could feel the message. Thank you again.
Stormyldl 2 years ago
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B2tumelo 2 years ago
never did i know that love sometimes can be so ful of violence, i thought he loved me unconditionaly until the beatings started, but after 7 mnth i wnt to report him for abuse and he stoped, and at the end i left him, love does not mean beatings nor hurt or tears, i just love her songs, it make me strong, i achieved so much in life, although i do not understand what she is saying,i know what message she is conveying to us. thanks reb
karin10305 2 years ago 11
when ever i hear this song i get emotional...my mum use to play the song..her my father had a fight
SIYA76 2 years ago
Beautiful!!
kissanola 2 years ago
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Look we say we are together and married
But on Tuesday you were not amongst us
We say we have built a home and borne children
But you continue trying to be a youth
Do you think that it is a good thing
That when you have a home
You are chasing after girls while I am here
I am the neighbourhood laughing stock
You have played me so much...
What has happened in this home?
ilahkiz 2 years ago
I didn't know, I didn't know
Oh father of my children,
What do I do, Forgive me
I cry for my children
Forgive me, What have I done
Go dove! They will pluck you further on!
Go dove! They will pluck you further on! *2
Forgive me, don't kill me,
What do you want me to do?
ilahkiz 2 years ago 2
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ilahkiz 2 years ago
I didn't know, I didn't know
That it would be like this.
I didn't know,
You make the neighbours laugh at me
Oh father of my children
On Friday when you left work
You came home drunk without your pay
When I ask you, you hit me,
You have finished the bones in my body
ilahkiz 2 years ago
wow very sad
labellecongolaise 2 years ago
wow what a powerfull voice
nessadessa 2 years ago
I live this song, but don't like seeing the video coz after all these years it brings back bad memories of my encounter of domestic violence! even though it wasn't this bad and only happened once, but the scars are so deep; i realised just by watching this video. we kids suffer more i guess! great work sis'Ribs.....
nubainchic 2 years ago
this is really touching,real and beautiful.
Vianaraga 2 years ago
ooh that is too much, he straight chris-browned her ass! ouch
bemaniac2 2 years ago
a lot of pple are being abused and killed under the roof. its so sad that most of the crime is committed by pple we knw inside the hm nt out side by strangers
thank u rebbecca may God richly bless u
grandsamanga 2 years ago
this video and song has touched me in my most sensitive inner most feelings truly she is great for such is the story of so many african mothers i know i went through exactly the same thing powerful message indeed
silungulela 3 years ago
which album is this song from and what year was it released and is hamba juba the real tittle?
nandrish 3 years ago
sorry,i found the information i was looking for...thank you for posting the video though, truly inspirational.
nandrish 3 years ago
Thank you for the translation Mandlovu. I would also like to comment that when producing the video, it is important that the message that not even God expects us to honour our vows, when one of our partners is abusing us. Peace and love to all.
AfricanStreet 3 years ago
oh its u i have to thank for this beautiful music - u dont know how many pple u inspire - please post more!! And yes, God does not support domestic violence becoz He has ordered our husbands to treat us with love, patience, and in a nutshell, the same way Jesus treated his church - with love , empath and understanding!! God bless
mandlovu 3 years ago 2
The the next stanza "Last \friday u came back home drunk and with no more of your salary. And beat me up - u have finished all my bones - I cry for my kids - what has gone wrong ??
Then the climax of the song "Hamba Juba - meaning fly away pigeon - they will save you where u are going. .." I am not even doing justice to this rich and beautiful Zulu language - but I want you to understand what she is saying. Enjoy
mandlovu 3 years ago 8
@mandlovu Thank yu 4 taking yur time to translate to us who do not undestand the meaning.. I love the song and the video, though I neva realy knew understood what she was saying up until now... It is a beautiful song indeed just as i had imagined it to mean..
Shiyave 1 year ago
@mandlovu awesome!
sanarel88 1 year ago
This song ius so sad - it says " look at it - we are two of us, married, but now there is a third person between us. We havebuilt a home together and kids together, but u continue a life of a young man, going after girls yet |I am here. U Why u making me a laughing stock of the neighbours? Why have you played with me like this?""
Then the chorus: " I didn't know (bengingazi)"
my limit is over but chek next message for more
mandlovu 3 years ago 3
Would be grateful for english translation also.
browngirl0272 3 years ago
amen to that
doyanaguy7168 3 years ago
can somebody please give the meaning of this song. it is quite moving, she is really talented.
bonnye92 3 years ago
She talks about her pain and suffering, her perseverance, and how she is now getting out of this marriage for the sake of her kids. Look on page one for translation by stanza
mandlovu 2 years ago
Women go thru so much for the sake of their children..God bless us while we try to give those same children a peaceful home to live in and to grow up with good morals.
methi245 3 years ago
heart breaking...can't help but cry! Very strong message ue addressing here sis'Ribz
nubainchic 3 years ago
Thanx sis Rebecca for addressing the domestic violence issue. I hope all those wife beaters are watching and changing their ways
Siphamandla94 3 years ago
This song is real touching my heart, I wish to know the meaning.Please somebody transilate it for me.
emmajoru1 3 years ago
She is singing about domestic violence - how she has been humiliated by her husbands cheating and how... he finishes all the money and then when she confronts him he beats her to a pulp. The most touching part is that she is crying more for her kids who have to witness this, and dont understand whats going on. She is saying if she had known it was going to be like this, she would have never married him....see next message for more.
mandlovu 2 years ago 2
It gave me goose bumps....Just leave him. My mate simply left she is awsomly happy now 2 years later.
tinkamyra 3 years ago
iam so touched by this song we women go through so much lapha emhlabeni kunzima!! cant stop crying ...wot a song sis Rebecca u are heaven sent abanendlebe bayezwa abanamehlo bayabona...
sexypeaches20 3 years ago 3
very touchyy...I cant hold my tears
Rebecca..may God bless u for ya Gods msg to the World..I dont understand a word..but I can feel something in my nerves...!!
19etl 3 years ago
I think that you have touuched African men's hearts. Now it is the time ofr us as proud men to change our actions towards our wives. Thanks for the song and may God increase your talent
henkas3 3 years ago
This song really touched my heart, just to think there are some women who are still being abused... all I can do is pray that GOD give them strength to get out while they still can. I don't ever want to see myself in that situation. just reminds me of emzansi....
B2tumelo 3 years ago
This really happens. Its a Friday 2day and most families won't sleep. Well Done Rebecca for addressing real issues
mezondi 3 years ago
Thanks for posting this song even though i cant hold my tears . Thanks a lot . Well done sis Rebecca may god bless you always .
ramadimetja25 3 years ago
This makes me cryyyyyy
zuluxhosagyal21 3 years ago
May God bless you and answer you in all your questions..
SMinalinda 3 years ago
thank you for this song i got saved thru it
strawberrybabycakes 3 years ago
Glory to Jesus that a soul was won to christ through the song.
Rebecca thanks.
Thanks strawberrybabycakes for giving your life to Jesus. The challenge is for you to continue because what counts is the end. Paul tells Timothy, "Fight a good fight of faith... to please the master.Don't stop on the way, you know there's a reward.Jesus loves you.
VBTB7 3 years ago
amen to that.
doyanaguy7168 3 years ago