I cried while watchin this...I cnt believe your gay cuz you are so hot & I'm a girl...khmer girl...but I can understand dat you are gay...you are beautiful...& even though they disowned you..dnt wrry. Some day they will understand. In this world they're are many ppl dat understand you. I understand completely...life is life..it is what it is. But @ least you are hppy! I wish you happiness no matter wat. :) Stay proud & strong no matter what okay! ;)
in order for other to love us... we have to learn to love ourselves first.. people are different.... just be your self.... be anything that make you HAPPY :)
:( I feel u 100%....Same as me but my parents they let it go...I didn't tell them yet about my orientation but I guess they starting to know and that they pretend they don't know. But you know what....U r not Alone in this world and thanks for sharing this cuz even me, it makes me feel like im not the only one cambodian gay kid. Best of luck for the future babe!
ur video is very inspiring. Now I kinda understand more... I hope one day u will do something big. make ur family proud. make Cambodian people proud. prove them that they're wrong. peace and love... I'm a Cambodian too....
amazing and powerful video - very inspirational ..thank you for making this and having the strength to post it - Best of luck with yr studies and your future
I would never pity you..that never gets anybody anywhere, but i must say, you have a strong spirit, a beautiful face and a die hard conviction for your beliefs....and thats hard to find also very attractive. Peace to you
Hey man... You are very inspiring. You have been through a lot, but.... YOU FREAKEN ROCK!! UC Berkley, first in your family to go to college. You will find a lot of love from friends and groups in college. Stay strong and stick with is. Many of us have had similar experiences, but some weren't as lucky as us. God bless you!! And say hello to my peeps at UC!
1-you're gay, and you missing the best thing from girl in life
2-you're gay and you can't talk but you still find the way telling your story
3-you're gay and poor. most white people gay they're rich.
Gay is normal to western people but its big thing with Cambodian family. very understandable that ur family hated u because you're gay don't feel bad I seen many similar story like u because Cambodia when they had gay in the family they feel very embarrassed
I totally love this vid i can relate too in a way about being gay but tho im not gay im bi i think i might go straight which ive never in my life id changed so much ir think of... I still think your cute.
Please dont hurt yourself it is Not the answer. it gets better just wait and see!!! I grew up in a family that did not support me being gay and it was tuff but now that i have moved out and started to make a life for myself things have gotten so much better. i have gay khmer friends and there families are supportive. Plus cambodia has a gay pride parade so things are moving in the right direction you are an inspiration to me keep your head up awkun jrarn
Thanks for creating this video. It must have been really tough but I know that your heart and courage is more powerful than any hatred or challenges in your path. You are not alone.
I just came across your video today, and it"s really touching. I am Cambodian and I'm gay too. I can feel how you feel, it"s hard to find a word to describe it. I have a strength to live because i want to learn how to love myself too.
I'm a 2nd Gen Khmer also... our parents expect and have high hopes for us. They risk life and blood just so that we can live in a country free from the horrors they went through. Its good that you don't hold any grudge against your father. Remember they grew up in a different culture and values from another country. I know that deep inside his heart he is proud of his boy making it all the way to college. Be strong. And remember to always get back up after a fall and never give up no matter what
Hey, hello, i'm also cambodia, and I totally agree with u, the issue is more about the parents, at least we're that lucky to have no bashing and harrassing. My parents don't know either and maybe one day i'll get the courage to tell them. And thai girls are so confusing, they're always so touchy and i can't tell if they're gay or just girls who like to touch. I mean, i got no problems with girls touching and all :D but that kind of broke my gardar.
my friend happened to post this on my wall one day. it made me cry.
i'm doing a speech at my school about the bullying of gays, and would loveee if you would let me duplicate one of your note cards ; the one that says, i'm gay, so what? and the one after it. you show a power ful message, and i'm so glad that you're doing okay. stay strong. it gets better. <3 :)
This made me smile xD You are a very strong and sweet person. I admire your confidence and courage to deal with everything you have went through so well. Thanks so much for making this video, really made my day xD
Bong, It's alright. Remember, your parents grew up the way traditional Asian did, so you can't blame them. The fact is, you're an individual that found himself, and that's all that matters. To express yourself is by your only doing, so continue to be who you want. I admire your strength and in fact, I'm quite jealous! Why? Despite all the negativity, you made it this far. You go to a GREAT school, and I'm sure enough, friends who care.
So to that, bong, I say, awkunh. Awkunh for being yourself.
OMG, I loved watching your video. Extremely powerful, without speaking a single word. Dude, i admire what you have done. The flower that blooms in adversity, is the most beautiful of all. Kia Kaha!!
I am 48 and gay. I have been watching people's "Coming out videos" or stories here on youtube.. I have volunteered over the years to speak and work in counseling and supporting gay youth. That said, I have to tell you that I had to pause your video countless times because you moved me so much, I sobbed like a baby for you and for all your suffering and for all your courage to "be" you ! BIG HUG to you! You are not alone. People care for you. I wish you the best!
I had tears when u had tears!- I'm so sorry your dad disowned you just because you're gay. Be proud of who you are- and just to tell you- my parents are like that too about gays and lesbians- you're not alone.
what a tragedy and sad family story.. thank you for sharing it with us on You tube.. Good luck to you, and remember, The USA is far better than many countries, even in the West we have countries which really sucks.. The government don't kill their own people but they are not taking care of the ecology because of progress, so they killing all of us slowly... that includes your future generation and mine as well. We need leaders who don't think about their bank account but instead plant trees..
I would like to tell you that I am happy that through all of the hardships you had to endure you still have love and respect for your family. It's extremely hard and I wholeheartedly commend you for that. You're an inspiration to many gay Khmers out there. Like myself :]
so what if ur father hates u im a tomboy i have gays friends they are bieng their selved it doesnt matter if u like guys then just like them. judging ppl dont help urselves (those ppl out there who thinks gays are freaks etc) i think gays goth emo are ALLLLLLLLLLLLL THE SAME THATS WHAT I THINK!
I am not gay but i watch your video it bring me to tears. but i wish you succeed one day.don't worry about your parents. you got you high school diploma than go off to collage get your degree find a good job to prove it.well i'm khmer too but im support you one day you will be ok yoy will success in life good luck!
This is very touching and i could say is that you are BRAVE...
Just be who you are is the most important thing because its your life ... and i do really like your phrase I'M GAY! SO WHAT? thumb up for u SUNY :) btw m VEHA
stay strong and i knew you can do it . IT GET BETTER. you will not alone , follow your heart to where you belong is the best thing that everyone should do,
im happy that you shared your story with us all. i envy you. i have to keep my mouth shut becuse if my bad knew i was bi he wouldn't be my daddy anymore.
this literally made me drop some tears, like i knw you dnt want any pity, but those tears were how amazed i am at you, for being so strong, for still moving forward, & not giving up. i wish you the best of luck in the future & i hope one day you & your father & brother will all be okay & they will accept you for who you are :)
OMG. I freaking cried. But I'm fortunate that you're still here in this world. There needs to be strong and smart people like you. I wish you the best, you deserve it.
I guess if I were a drag queen, transgendered or a feminine guy, they'll prob accept it as being my karma, but as a straight acting gay cambodian man, it's embarrassing to their community to be with another man. Anyways, thanks again for the video, it was very inspirational knowing I'm not the only one
I give you props for uploading this vid. I tried explaining to my friends that Cambodian parents, especially Cambodian fathers have high expectations and can be heartless. I have yet to come out to my parents. They probably won't disown me, but they will never accept nor understand me.
this is a very sad story...i am also gay and im always trying to hide myself from others and not wanting to except myself...i didnt want to be this way..am always trying to change myself cuz i dont want to be gay..but the more i try to change the more it hurt. pls message me back i really want to get to know u more...after i watch this im very touch and fell so sorry for u...this is my email sim_mesa@yahoo.com...pls email me if u get this message.
I'm aware you said that all in your video, I didn't mean to say the opposite, just wanted to acknowledge your story and how brave you are because i certainly know its not easy. I have no doubt you are strong. <3 Can you please delete all my comments now please. Thanks Suny.
Hey you're not alone!, It must be a cambo thing, I'm from New Zealand and my father (cambodian refugee too) disowned me. It broke my heart too. I wont go into details, but stay strong and keep pushing forward. Our parents have just grown up culturally and socially different. Don't feel hate, just think about your future.You wil grow to be a stronger and better person
@lann1717 this comment is exactly the opposite of what I was saying in the video. I may have grown up alone, but it doesn't mean I am. Also, I said I can never hate. And I understand the historical context of my parents and their struggles. That's why I made this video. And I have my future planned, that's also why I made this too. And I know I'm strong. I said all of this in my video.
@sunyum Dang. Why are all of the cute and intelligent men gay? :) I'm 2nd generation Cambodian-American, too. I'm female and my parents won't allow me to date or choose my own friends. I grew up lonely. Similar story, but I'm not gay. There's nothing wrong with being gay. Stay strong. Love you, bong bros.
I'm 15 and although I don't know alot about my family and everything because it makes them cry when they talk about it. This video made me cry<3 and I guess thanks for this video<3 you also remind me of my older brother :)
Your video touched me. Understand that our parents came from a different time, which, unfortunately, causes them to be closed minded on some issues, especially, the issue of being gay. Your father has hatred because he doesn't understand. Being a second generation Cambodian American is hard enough, I can't imagine how you feel. Well, I just wanted to say I appreciate your video and keep up the good work you're doing at Berkley and continue to love yourself
I actually got really teared up while watching this video. I mean I was never against gay people anyway but it still touch my heart alot. I want all of those people that are against gay to watch this video and maybe it'll open their eyes. Stay Strong, I know you probably don't know any of these people that are commenting but alteast know that we support you %100. So what you're gay, you're still a human, you're nooooo different from anybody else. :D <3 And remember that okay? Okay. Bye :DDD
I love this video. I saw it just randomly flipping through Khmer youtube videos, and I HAD to stop and watch it. Stay strong and keep ur faith, no matter who supports you. You can only be you, and if your family can't accept it, so what. You can always get a new one :)
What a great tribute to yourself and those like you. I am gay and Khmer as well--so what you say really resonate with me. However, I was born in Cambodian and came to the states when i was 6 years. I'm the middle child of 6 kids, grew up in an abusive and broken family on gov't assistance. My parents never went to any of my graduations when I won top honors and awards. I worked hard in school not for them, but for myself so that some day I will be able to get out of the house and support
very touching video i love it... i see that even if our parent struggled to get here i get sad to see how some cambodians act.. your dad is wrong to hate you.. and i kow that words hurt when it comes from the person you love the most(family).. some things just cant change.. preh/god/jesus can see the wrong and right of eeryone. even if i am a stranger im proud of you for the things you have done.. =) ...
hey. nice vid. looked really painful at one point. Im watching on my mobile so I Cant read what you have written so clearly but ill check it later. your so cute too gay asians are the best asians
thank you for sharing your story. I understand what its like to be queer and disowned by family or have to hide from family but still not have the heart to hate your parents because of the sacrifice your parents as immigrants or refugees have made. know you're not alone. thank you for your voice since so many others don't have the capacity or the support to share theirs.
wow...this video really resonates with me, because I'm gay and khmer also, and although your story is more drastic, i had a long-term struggle with who i was and now I'm very proud of who I am. I'm proud of you too, for speaking for so many of us who feel like we don't have a voice, but for letting us know we do. uhh gun jreun!!!! :D
I admire you're strength in loving people that hate you. I can't do that with my dad. You've been through so much it seems, and still you stand strong. Very touching story. =)
Hey bro, I just wanted to let you know that your video is very touching. This is a very brave thing you are doing. I am gay and Khmer myself, so I definitely feel your pain. Just so you know, it always get better. I know that it is hard sometimes but there is always a silver lining. I have always been fortunate to have the family that I do. My sisters and parents are the most supportive people in the world. When I was growing up my dad even took me to by My Little Pony dolls. Sok Sabai.
I feel you man...been out the closet for seven years to my parents and family...I am also Cambodian and was raise in a very strict family lifestyle...always had to go to skewl and have good grades to better our future...I had to come out the closet goin thru alot of up hills...a matter of life or death situation... But at the end our parents are still our creator and they want wats best...it was hard my parents didn't understand wat the whole guy and guy or girl and girl mean...when I told my
Okay you're my new favorite person lol I get how you feel man I'm cambodian and my parents would kick me out if I came out to them I keep trying to give them hints though but they never get it even though I'm a chick that dresses in guy's clothing and a lot of other stuff
Oh, I can't fully relate, cuz though my father won't accept me, for a number of reasons, I dub care for what he thinks, but I totally know how hard it is, I wanna establish a life in Korea for instance, and I know anywhere I go, people won't fully understand, and I just wish theyd be more educated, every country has tons of ignorant people, u r so cute though, congratulations to u~
thank you so much for sharing your story! Its speaks volumes! I'm not Cambodian but I'm gay and I understand how you feel! It is always hard but keeping striving and smiling. I live in Cambodia for 9 years and totally understand the struggle.
I think you're very brave, and being different is not weird that just makes you special and a wonderful person. I think your dad secretly love you anyway, but he still has the old way of thinking. I hope everything goes well and that your father will think differently. much love
im also a 2nd generation khmer american and gay but i never told my parents because they would react like your father did and i didnt want to be confronted with all those hating words and so i packed and left ...its been 7years since i last saw them
You are so brave for opening up like this. I can definitely relate as I am gay and Indian and at UCSC where I go queer people/ any people of color are non-existent. I totally get what you mean by not wanting pity. Empathy speaks far more than pity. Stay strong and just stay. You are beautiful person with a bright future and this video gives me a lot of hope to not descend into an abyss of depression. I am proud of you for sticking it out.
we're gay so what??? don't be sad,,those who discriminated/intimidated you for so long are the ones who has a big problem deep w/in their selves...being gay/homosexual is not a sin,what's the heck of hating us???aha,i love the way they hates me,,that's reality,,,be ashamed when u commit sins,,and not for being gay :)) gay rules,,w/o gay???this world is also nothing ,,,,
It's amazing how thailand is so open to gay, yet Cambodia right next door seem so foreign to it. I'm sorry that you lack the family support that you should have had regardless of who you are. You never really talked about your mom? I figured she went along with your dad since that's how older Cambodian women usually are. Anyhow... please love yourself and know that there are others out there in far worst situation than you. Don't ever attempt to end your life. It's over for you but not others.
A very touching story indeed. I'm a gay Khmer as well, but not second generation. Kinda wish I was. I came here when I was very young though. 5 years old to be exact. It's really difficult trying to be someone you're not, I feel as though I will explode one day. I don't care too much about what happens to me, I just don't want any of my family to have to fend for me. The Cambodian culture is still very young at understanding what Gay really is. Many older people only understand cross-dressers.
Secondly: i totally understand where you are coming from. I think you are really brave to have come out to your parents. I am 30 and i still haven't said anything to my parents. I suspect they knew but never they had asked me if i was gay or not. Im happy the way things are, but i know for sure it wont be the same if i do come out. I love my parents too much to have them disown me. But hopefully im brave enough to come out to them.
Very touching story.Thanks for posting this video....i am sure is gonna help another persons that are in similar situations.Hey....don't feel alone no more...you have a lot of people that accept you and love you as the way you are.Hugs brother.Put my name on your list of friends if you don't mind to have a hispanic friend.
My best friend sent me your video link today and I have to say that I feel so inspired. I grew up the same way as you did. My parents came from Cambodia to escape from the war. We lived off of welfare and housing but like you said I was happy. When we got older problems came up but it wasn't difficult as you endured as you tried to "earn" your fathers love. I want you to know that there are already thousands of people who love you just by you sharing your story. I think I love you already <3
Wow! I am so touched by your video! U & I have so much in common. I'm a 30 yr old gay Cambodian and came out to my family just 3 yrs ago. Fortunately, they were fairly understanding. We are pioneers in this generation. I'm sorry to hear all the troubles you went through, but think of it as the fuel for the strength you have today! U are a strong and courageous man! Finish school and keep up the great work kiddo! I'm proud of ya! You're right, loving yourself is the best thing you can do 4 U
This video of yours is very touching. I have a gay cousin who is also Cambodian, and he has friends who are gay and Cambodian, so I wanted you to know that you are not alone, and I am sorry for what you have been through, but remember you are not alone. The fact that you made it to UC Berkeley just shows that you do not need to prove anything to anyone. You are an amazing and beautiful person, and I hope you succeed in all your future endeavors.
im not going to pity you like you quoted in this movie. but i am going to say, dont ever change, and dont ever try to change. i have alot of gay friends myself :D and though im not gay, i love hanging around them. why? cause we are all human beings, and because they're fun to hang out with haha! be strong stay strong you are strong :D
Very good story and don't change whom you are for anyone... its thous that don't accept others for who they are that are wrong and have the issues or problems..
Hugs you are sweet heart I can tell and still a man.. always keep this!
Thanks for sharing your story to the world. You seem like such a loving person. You're adorably cute too, SIGH! I think people need to get like you now and day, just learn how to love their selves better. I want to give you a hug in person, but it will not be easy to find you in person, so AIR HUGE!=)
I am the one gay (no no i am not Khmer but i stay between Thailand and Cambodian border). I just wanna let u know .." life is too short , love yourself , learn yourself and be yourself.." >.^
I am Khmer and I feel your words through eyes. This was so beautiful and artistic. This made me feel very inspired and I too am the only one that finished college. Keep doing your thang and I wanted to let you know that this Khmer guy right here supports you! And I'm straight. Thank you so much for the video.
don't worry it's not only khmers that get it, it's all southeast asian parents, see they don't get it. u know what words do hurt but it don't mean a thing
brilliant work mate. Well articulated and I must say, very emotional. I was able to see it in your eyes. Keep your head up and all the best in your future endeavours.
Well made video, your stories similar to mine, but im straight, no disrespect.
people dont know what our past is like, and yet they judge off what they see. im khmai too, and no one will bring me down, and i can tell theat no one will bring u down either. keep your head up man.
AWSOME video you are a beutifull human being. Very proud of you and all the things you have acomplished you stand here today super proud thanks for sharing!!! xoxoxox
disorder, and suicidal attempts on his life from the hatred and unacceptance of his family, was ultimately able to realize that all he really needed was self love and self acceptance to achieve true happiness.
and had been ridiculed by his father throughout his childhood. The hatred and disownment from his family contradicts the fixed notions that Asian Americans have solid, strong family structures and healthy dynamics within the family. Especially now with the current climate of young, homosexual college students who receive mass amounts of hate, discrimination, and bullying, I found this video to be very inspiring and admirable. Suny Um, who suffered and overcame self hate, depression, bipolar
country. Despite their sacrifices and hard work, Um’s family still grew up in extreme poverty – no money, no healthcare, no government assistance, etc. – and this somewhat debunks the “model minority” expectation that Asian American immigrants can succeed despite impossible conditions, as long as they work hard. Furthermore, Um’s situation contradicts Western notions of Asian American family structure/dynamics. For example, Um was kicked out of his parents’ house and disowned at age 16, and
just passively listening or being told the words. Also, the written words, detached from a singular voice, allowed for Um’s story to be more universalized – those with shared feelings or similar experiences could relate to and identify with his, making the video all the more powerful and impactful.
Additionally, the video complicates many of the fixed notions that society has of Asian Americans today. For example, his parents immigrated to America to escape war and genocide in their native
This video combines the significance of visuality with the complexity of fixed and essentialized notions of Asian Americans. I found it to be very powerful, and I was surprised because I didn’t expect to be so impacted by a visually scripted narrative as opposed to hearing spoken words. But in this situation, I found reading the script to be more effective than hearing the words (showing vs. telling). The visuality of the video forces the viewer to engage more actively in the story rather than
Very touching and powerful as this video will save another teen from suicidal attempts. This video proves that "IT GETS BETTER". Looks like he won in the end.
Hi Suny, I saw your video a month or so ago and after hearing all of these teen suicides. I wish you are well and strong. Thank you for sharing. It's very powerful. Please be well! hugs! chi
Way to tell a part of your story. That was a very touching video. There are so many that could learn from you and your experiences. I hope that you take whatever opportunities you get to share with and help those around you with what you have learned and continue to learn.
Way to go. Stay strong! Your life, with all its ups and downs, is an example to others of what can be.
mate, really touched by your story, i'm second generation Cambodian too, here in London UK. my coming out was horrific, but not to the extent of yours - my father had already passed away so my mum was very accepting though i can see the disappointment in her eyes. So many inner demons to deal with... be strong!!
Suny, I saw your video this evening and it touched me so deeply that I cried. You are a wonderful young man. I am so proud of you. Ignorance and Hate are very difficult to deal. If you need a friend or a brother to talk to, please feel free to talk to me. HUGs :)
Suny, I saw your video this evening and it touched me so deeply that I cried. You are a wonderful young man. I am so proud of you. Ignorance and Hate are very difficult to deal. If you need a friend or a brother to talk to, please feel free to talk to me. HUGs :)
You are a brave, thoughtful, astute young man. Your dignity and intelligence will transport you. There is a world of people out there who will accept you for what you are, not what they think you should be. Laki maka’i, good luck. =)
Dude I can't read your cue cards!
7Infamousfruit 4 days ago
I cried while watchin this...I cnt believe your gay cuz you are so hot & I'm a girl...khmer girl...but I can understand dat you are gay...you are beautiful...& even though they disowned you..dnt wrry. Some day they will understand. In this world they're are many ppl dat understand you. I understand completely...life is life..it is what it is. But @ least you are hppy! I wish you happiness no matter wat. :) Stay proud & strong no matter what okay! ;)
blackcatalways 6 days ago
in order for other to love us... we have to learn to love ourselves first.. people are different.... just be your self.... be anything that make you HAPPY :)
z3nna0928z 1 week ago
dis is probably my second time watching dis vid, n it still makin me cry so hard</3
Mizzibabegal 2 weeks ago
wow... that was a tough life you had. so glad you're doing better now. keep close to your foster parents....
ThomasJKH 2 weeks ago
Be strong. Sky is the limit
sosothy 2 weeks ago
words cant bring you down.Be strong and be yourself :)
duongtien100 3 weeks ago
I am Thai.... it's very nice to talk to you....
TheZiraff 3 weeks ago
great job bro, keep your head up high
ashsnar 3 weeks ago
YOU FUCKING FAG!!
shitnamese401 3 weeks ago
@shitnamese401 you fuck, mother fucker go to hell bitch
ashsnar 3 weeks ago
Hey man, just hang in there. the strength you gain from the rejection will propell you into success
cdubsj2 4 weeks ago
Strong, powerful message brother. Keep your head up and continue to be strong. Very admirable!
soto804 4 weeks ago
:( I feel u 100%....Same as me but my parents they let it go...I didn't tell them yet about my orientation but I guess they starting to know and that they pretend they don't know. But you know what....U r not Alone in this world and thanks for sharing this cuz even me, it makes me feel like im not the only one cambodian gay kid. Best of luck for the future babe!
<3 U!
PS: U r really cute hah! :P
DARAPKAY 1 month ago
ur video is very inspiring. Now I kinda understand more... I hope one day u will do something big. make ur family proud. make Cambodian people proud. prove them that they're wrong. peace and love... I'm a Cambodian too....
csimarron 1 month ago
Thanks for sharing your story....Hugs!!! I'm sharing your story on my FB :)
TSerey 1 month ago
amazing and powerful video - very inspirational ..thank you for making this and having the strength to post it - Best of luck with yr studies and your future
BTW you are totally HOT!
hunkhk 1 month ago
My parents would disown me too if I date a Black or Mexican person. Especially a Vietnamese person.
KnightxxArrow 1 month ago
stay strong and succeed bro!! =)
you are a very inspiring person and if no one sees that, they must be blind. take care!
lchan90a 1 month ago
I would never pity you..that never gets anybody anywhere, but i must say, you have a strong spirit, a beautiful face and a die hard conviction for your beliefs....and thats hard to find also very attractive. Peace to you
diorryan 1 month ago 2
very touching!! and inspiring... You seem like you are on a beautiful path :)
tubi2b1 1 month ago
Hey man... You are very inspiring. You have been through a lot, but.... YOU FREAKEN ROCK!! UC Berkley, first in your family to go to college. You will find a lot of love from friends and groups in college. Stay strong and stick with is. Many of us have had similar experiences, but some weren't as lucky as us. God bless you!! And say hello to my peeps at UC!
clearrichard 1 month ago
You're awesome brotha..keep on succeeding
SC79Pro 1 month ago
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myikandyland 1 month ago
3 thing I have to tell I pity you,
1-you're gay, and you missing the best thing from girl in life
2-you're gay and you can't talk but you still find the way telling your story
3-you're gay and poor. most white people gay they're rich.
Gay is normal to western people but its big thing with Cambodian family. very understandable that ur family hated u because you're gay don't feel bad I seen many similar story like u because Cambodia when they had gay in the family they feel very embarrassed
MasterFu 1 month ago
Stay strong bro.
shawday86 1 month ago
Omg my heart just melted. I absolutely love this video. Im still in the closet til this day and I am so scared to tell anyone especially my family.
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I totally love this vid i can relate too in a way about being gay but tho im not gay im bi i think i might go straight which ive never in my life id changed so much ir think of... I still think your cute.
Hows life for you going now?
Hows love life?
MyLifeINDa808 1 month ago
love your video and message:)
Sattaya1 1 month ago
Please dont hurt yourself it is Not the answer. it gets better just wait and see!!! I grew up in a family that did not support me being gay and it was tuff but now that i have moved out and started to make a life for myself things have gotten so much better. i have gay khmer friends and there families are supportive. Plus cambodia has a gay pride parade so things are moving in the right direction you are an inspiration to me keep your head up awkun jrarn
SuperTwelch 1 month ago
I just wanna hug u lol! This is so inspiring and made me sit back for a second a think. I'm glad your proud of who you are :)
1pianokid 1 month ago
YOU GO BOI !!!!
tarus360 1 month ago
BOI YOU ARE SO F%CKIN CUTE !!!
BEST OF LUCK & BE BLESSED !
tarus360 1 month ago
i like your clip man , so try yr best to be a man , i support you, to be a man ! come on !
samedysamedy 1 month ago
Awwww,,,so touching,,,,,m a khmer girl, had a few male friends who are like u in cambodia, but i don know how they are right now
KittenNewYork 1 month ago
what a story...what a courageous individual...gay people are so special
dragonboy718 1 month ago
Thanks for creating this video. It must have been really tough but I know that your heart and courage is more powerful than any hatred or challenges in your path. You are not alone.
sam74 1 month ago
I just came across your video today, and it"s really touching. I am Cambodian and I'm gay too. I can feel how you feel, it"s hard to find a word to describe it. I have a strength to live because i want to learn how to love myself too.
khmertoY 1 month ago
Damn your cute!!
itachi000797 1 month ago
Love you Suny
brettcthompson25 1 month ago
I respect this video a LOT!!
ChanaLim 1 month ago
I'm a 2nd Gen Khmer also... our parents expect and have high hopes for us. They risk life and blood just so that we can live in a country free from the horrors they went through. Its good that you don't hold any grudge against your father. Remember they grew up in a different culture and values from another country. I know that deep inside his heart he is proud of his boy making it all the way to college. Be strong. And remember to always get back up after a fall and never give up no matter what
chhayafunny 1 month ago
Hey, hello, i'm also cambodia, and I totally agree with u, the issue is more about the parents, at least we're that lucky to have no bashing and harrassing. My parents don't know either and maybe one day i'll get the courage to tell them. And thai girls are so confusing, they're always so touchy and i can't tell if they're gay or just girls who like to touch. I mean, i got no problems with girls touching and all :D but that kind of broke my gardar.
MrKHMER4053 1 month ago
my friend happened to post this on my wall one day. it made me cry.
i'm doing a speech at my school about the bullying of gays, and would loveee if you would let me duplicate one of your note cards ; the one that says, i'm gay, so what? and the one after it. you show a power ful message, and i'm so glad that you're doing okay. stay strong. it gets better. <3 :)
christenbby333 2 months ago
Awesome
justin909eang 2 months ago
This made me smile xD You are a very strong and sweet person. I admire your confidence and courage to deal with everything you have went through so well. Thanks so much for making this video, really made my day xD
Ps, you have lovely smile and eyes xD
TheMissParadox 3 months ago
i like ur quoat "i am gay so what"
ysethykuza 3 months ago
It's just great!!! My life is very similar to yours. But I soffer like a dog (this is how we say in Italy). I would like to know you more...
pecorellanera1 3 months ago
its ok to be gay...its not a choice we were born this way and have to live wit it for the rest of our life.
23khmer 3 months ago
I'm proud of you bro :)
Ollyypop 3 months ago
Gay Khmer men, contact me.
GayCambodia 3 months ago
Bong, It's alright. Remember, your parents grew up the way traditional Asian did, so you can't blame them. The fact is, you're an individual that found himself, and that's all that matters. To express yourself is by your only doing, so continue to be who you want. I admire your strength and in fact, I'm quite jealous! Why? Despite all the negativity, you made it this far. You go to a GREAT school, and I'm sure enough, friends who care.
So to that, bong, I say, awkunh. Awkunh for being yourself.
DjAznInVAZN 3 months ago
Made Me Cry!. :( No Ones Perfect. Hope You Are Doing Good In School.. Good Luck!!
SamDaBest100 4 months ago
OMG, I loved watching your video. Extremely powerful, without speaking a single word. Dude, i admire what you have done. The flower that blooms in adversity, is the most beautiful of all. Kia Kaha!!
opencloset1 4 months ago
YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL!!!! =)
CLaMADDICT 5 months ago
I am 48 and gay. I have been watching people's "Coming out videos" or stories here on youtube.. I have volunteered over the years to speak and work in counseling and supporting gay youth. That said, I have to tell you that I had to pause your video countless times because you moved me so much, I sobbed like a baby for you and for all your suffering and for all your courage to "be" you ! BIG HUG to you! You are not alone. People care for you. I wish you the best!
swt1a1 5 months ago
I love you. Never give up.,
robertangel30 5 months ago
I had tears when u had tears!- I'm so sorry your dad disowned you just because you're gay. Be proud of who you are- and just to tell you- my parents are like that too about gays and lesbians- you're not alone.
asiangeeXD 5 months ago
We're all different at some point, and that's what make us unique.
jennisjennifer 5 months ago
what a tragedy and sad family story.. thank you for sharing it with us on You tube.. Good luck to you, and remember, The USA is far better than many countries, even in the West we have countries which really sucks.. The government don't kill their own people but they are not taking care of the ecology because of progress, so they killing all of us slowly... that includes your future generation and mine as well. We need leaders who don't think about their bank account but instead plant trees..
alaindavidevrard 5 months ago
I would like to tell you that I am happy that through all of the hardships you had to endure you still have love and respect for your family. It's extremely hard and I wholeheartedly commend you for that. You're an inspiration to many gay Khmers out there. Like myself :]
-Regards, Sitya
radiokhmersitya 5 months ago
so what if ur father hates u im a tomboy i have gays friends they are bieng their selved it doesnt matter if u like guys then just like them. judging ppl dont help urselves (those ppl out there who thinks gays are freaks etc) i think gays goth emo are ALLLLLLLLLLLLL THE SAME THATS WHAT I THINK!
DeathEternalx 5 months ago
You're beautiful!
ga1999 5 months ago
I am not gay but i watch your video it bring me to tears. but i wish you succeed one day.don't worry about your parents. you got you high school diploma than go off to collage get your degree find a good job to prove it.well i'm khmer too but im support you one day you will be ok yoy will success in life good luck!
AlexPhan11 5 months ago 12
hang in there and keep on living! you are beautiful the way you are!
jasonchu82 6 months ago
All the best....you will succeed in whatever you will decide to do. No doubt!
SuperSoapopera 6 months ago
This has the be the most inspirational video I've ever seen... brought me to tears!
You'll always be a great hero :)
YepMarcia 6 months ago
You are beautiful :)
Jimplicit 6 months ago
U are So BRAVE! Keep going! <3
vattey 6 months ago
This is very touching and i could say is that you are BRAVE...
Just be who you are is the most important thing because its your life ... and i do really like your phrase I'M GAY! SO WHAT? thumb up for u SUNY :) btw m VEHA
VehaBacon 7 months ago
I love you, I look up to you, you are so strong <3 You are why I'm happy to be Khmer, we are such a strong race.
yumimufy 7 months ago
I like 2:59! <3
xXHighSpeedHeroXx 7 months ago
Wow..your video is very touching and it helps me understand better now...Keep on going with the movement..we're almost there..
soeuth903 7 months ago
suny I just rewatched this and started tearing up again. You are so beautiful. I love you.-Thida
teedamonee 7 months ago
stay strong and i knew you can do it . IT GET BETTER. you will not alone , follow your heart to where you belong is the best thing that everyone should do,
share love from australia :)
yanocool1 8 months ago
im happy that you shared your story with us all. i envy you. i have to keep my mouth shut becuse if my bad knew i was bi he wouldn't be my daddy anymore.
riotgirl367 8 months ago
this literally made me drop some tears, like i knw you dnt want any pity, but those tears were how amazed i am at you, for being so strong, for still moving forward, & not giving up. i wish you the best of luck in the future & i hope one day you & your father & brother will all be okay & they will accept you for who you are :)
Azngotricee 8 months ago
OMG. I freaking cried. But I'm fortunate that you're still here in this world. There needs to be strong and smart people like you. I wish you the best, you deserve it.
christyly26 8 months ago
OMG. I freaking cried. But I'm fortunate that you're still here in this world
christyly26 8 months ago
Seriously, I found this inspiring.
seaneyboy 8 months ago
I guess if I were a drag queen, transgendered or a feminine guy, they'll prob accept it as being my karma, but as a straight acting gay cambodian man, it's embarrassing to their community to be with another man. Anyways, thanks again for the video, it was very inspirational knowing I'm not the only one
playwitjay24 8 months ago
sun,
I give you props for uploading this vid. I tried explaining to my friends that Cambodian parents, especially Cambodian fathers have high expectations and can be heartless. I have yet to come out to my parents. They probably won't disown me, but they will never accept nor understand me.
playwitjay24 8 months ago
I'm not gay but this kinda made me tear up... stay strong! :)
JexJhenga 9 months ago
I"m proud of you, so proud. You are THE man of the family. I had tears in my eyes when watching this.
ejross402 9 months ago
I"m proud of you, so proud. You are THE man of the family.
ejross402 9 months ago
this is a very sad story...i am also gay and im always trying to hide myself from others and not wanting to except myself...i didnt want to be this way..am always trying to change myself cuz i dont want to be gay..but the more i try to change the more it hurt. pls message me back i really want to get to know u more...after i watch this im very touch and fell so sorry for u...this is my email sim_mesa@yahoo.com...pls email me if u get this message.
23khmer 9 months ago
Sending love from the UK, great vid, you aint no freak, you got a cute smile so make sure you keep using it. xx.
chizlit 9 months ago
Thanks for sharing with us and we do understand.
marcwebbcareer 9 months ago
I'm aware you said that all in your video, I didn't mean to say the opposite, just wanted to acknowledge your story and how brave you are because i certainly know its not easy. I have no doubt you are strong. <3 Can you please delete all my comments now please. Thanks Suny.
lann1717 9 months ago
Hey you're not alone!, It must be a cambo thing, I'm from New Zealand and my father (cambodian refugee too) disowned me. It broke my heart too. I wont go into details, but stay strong and keep pushing forward. Our parents have just grown up culturally and socially different. Don't feel hate, just think about your future.You wil grow to be a stronger and better person
lann1717 9 months ago
@lann1717 this comment is exactly the opposite of what I was saying in the video. I may have grown up alone, but it doesn't mean I am. Also, I said I can never hate. And I understand the historical context of my parents and their struggles. That's why I made this video. And I have my future planned, that's also why I made this too. And I know I'm strong. I said all of this in my video.
sunyum 9 months ago 5
@sunyum Dang. Why are all of the cute and intelligent men gay? :) I'm 2nd generation Cambodian-American, too. I'm female and my parents won't allow me to date or choose my own friends. I grew up lonely. Similar story, but I'm not gay. There's nothing wrong with being gay. Stay strong. Love you, bong bros.
tasteTrice 1 month ago 2
@tasteTrice this made me smile for some reason(:
sunyum 1 month ago 3
@sunyum <3
tasteTrice 1 month ago
I'm 15 and although I don't know alot about my family and everything because it makes them cry when they talk about it. This video made me cry<3 and I guess thanks for this video<3 you also remind me of my older brother :)
phreshkay 9 months ago 2
Your video touched me. Understand that our parents came from a different time, which, unfortunately, causes them to be closed minded on some issues, especially, the issue of being gay. Your father has hatred because he doesn't understand. Being a second generation Cambodian American is hard enough, I can't imagine how you feel. Well, I just wanted to say I appreciate your video and keep up the good work you're doing at Berkley and continue to love yourself
pkachantu 9 months ago
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strengthofwill 9 months ago
I actually got really teared up while watching this video. I mean I was never against gay people anyway but it still touch my heart alot. I want all of those people that are against gay to watch this video and maybe it'll open their eyes. Stay Strong, I know you probably don't know any of these people that are commenting but alteast know that we support you %100. So what you're gay, you're still a human, you're nooooo different from anybody else. :D <3 And remember that okay? Okay. Bye :DDD
ilovekhmerteehee 9 months ago
I love this video. I saw it just randomly flipping through Khmer youtube videos, and I HAD to stop and watch it. Stay strong and keep ur faith, no matter who supports you. You can only be you, and if your family can't accept it, so what. You can always get a new one :)
chandahin86 10 months ago
What a great tribute to yourself and those like you. I am gay and Khmer as well--so what you say really resonate with me. However, I was born in Cambodian and came to the states when i was 6 years. I'm the middle child of 6 kids, grew up in an abusive and broken family on gov't assistance. My parents never went to any of my graduations when I won top honors and awards. I worked hard in school not for them, but for myself so that some day I will be able to get out of the house and support
honsun0291 10 months ago
very touching video i love it... i see that even if our parent struggled to get here i get sad to see how some cambodians act.. your dad is wrong to hate you.. and i kow that words hurt when it comes from the person you love the most(family).. some things just cant change.. preh/god/jesus can see the wrong and right of eeryone. even if i am a stranger im proud of you for the things you have done.. =) ...
punnara215 10 months ago
hey. nice vid. looked really painful at one point. Im watching on my mobile so I Cant read what you have written so clearly but ill check it later. your so cute too gay asians are the best asians
ooiamsamoo 10 months ago
thank you for sharing your story. I understand what its like to be queer and disowned by family or have to hide from family but still not have the heart to hate your parents because of the sacrifice your parents as immigrants or refugees have made. know you're not alone. thank you for your voice since so many others don't have the capacity or the support to share theirs.
juelz123 10 months ago
didn't get a chance to know much of you when we were at KSCC Berkeley 2010....but i like ur vid. stay strong suny.
KhmerWarrior90 10 months ago
wow...this video really resonates with me, because I'm gay and khmer also, and although your story is more drastic, i had a long-term struggle with who i was and now I'm very proud of who I am. I'm proud of you too, for speaking for so many of us who feel like we don't have a voice, but for letting us know we do. uhh gun jreun!!!! :D
kevint6543 10 months ago
I admire you're strength in loving people that hate you. I can't do that with my dad. You've been through so much it seems, and still you stand strong. Very touching story. =)
j2fono07 11 months ago
Hey bro, I just wanted to let you know that your video is very touching. This is a very brave thing you are doing. I am gay and Khmer myself, so I definitely feel your pain. Just so you know, it always get better. I know that it is hard sometimes but there is always a silver lining. I have always been fortunate to have the family that I do. My sisters and parents are the most supportive people in the world. When I was growing up my dad even took me to by My Little Pony dolls. Sok Sabai.
trickystyle 11 months ago
I feel you man...been out the closet for seven years to my parents and family...I am also Cambodian and was raise in a very strict family lifestyle...always had to go to skewl and have good grades to better our future...I had to come out the closet goin thru alot of up hills...a matter of life or death situation... But at the end our parents are still our creator and they want wats best...it was hard my parents didn't understand wat the whole guy and guy or girl and girl mean...when I told my
sphom 11 months ago
Okay you're my new favorite person lol I get how you feel man I'm cambodian and my parents would kick me out if I came out to them I keep trying to give them hints though but they never get it even though I'm a chick that dresses in guy's clothing and a lot of other stuff
EthanStrummer 1 year ago
Oh, I can't fully relate, cuz though my father won't accept me, for a number of reasons, I dub care for what he thinks, but I totally know how hard it is, I wanna establish a life in Korea for instance, and I know anywhere I go, people won't fully understand, and I just wish theyd be more educated, every country has tons of ignorant people, u r so cute though, congratulations to u~
KitsuneMale 1 year ago
thank you so much for sharing your story! Its speaks volumes! I'm not Cambodian but I'm gay and I understand how you feel! It is always hard but keeping striving and smiling. I live in Cambodia for 9 years and totally understand the struggle.
Paddy2Noble 1 year ago
hello sunny,
I think you're very brave, and being different is not weird that just makes you special and a wonderful person. I think your dad secretly love you anyway, but he still has the old way of thinking. I hope everything goes well and that your father will think differently. much love
channy1110 1 year ago
hi sunny! you so brave men!!!!!!!!!! Good luck na~
mysweet200819 1 year ago
im also a 2nd generation khmer american and gay but i never told my parents because they would react like your father did and i didnt want to be confronted with all those hating words and so i packed and left ...its been 7years since i last saw them
kora8817 1 year ago
This is so perfect. It is simple. It is telling. It is just like you......beautiful. Thank you for posting this.
ROMELOVESTEDDY 1 year ago
wow thanks for sharing. i really appreciate this. :)
SuperMcha 1 year ago
One word you are so brave!
bongalex88 1 year ago
You are so brave for opening up like this. I can definitely relate as I am gay and Indian and at UCSC where I go queer people/ any people of color are non-existent. I totally get what you mean by not wanting pity. Empathy speaks far more than pity. Stay strong and just stay. You are beautiful person with a bright future and this video gives me a lot of hope to not descend into an abyss of depression. I am proud of you for sticking it out.
parergo90 1 year ago
we're gay so what??? don't be sad,,those who discriminated/intimidated you for so long are the ones who has a big problem deep w/in their selves...being gay/homosexual is not a sin,what's the heck of hating us???aha,i love the way they hates me,,that's reality,,,be ashamed when u commit sins,,and not for being gay :)) gay rules,,w/o gay???this world is also nothing ,,,,
pakibik 1 year ago
It's amazing how thailand is so open to gay, yet Cambodia right next door seem so foreign to it. I'm sorry that you lack the family support that you should have had regardless of who you are. You never really talked about your mom? I figured she went along with your dad since that's how older Cambodian women usually are. Anyhow... please love yourself and know that there are others out there in far worst situation than you. Don't ever attempt to end your life. It's over for you but not others.
ayngmn 1 year ago
A very touching story indeed. I'm a gay Khmer as well, but not second generation. Kinda wish I was. I came here when I was very young though. 5 years old to be exact. It's really difficult trying to be someone you're not, I feel as though I will explode one day. I don't care too much about what happens to me, I just don't want any of my family to have to fend for me. The Cambodian culture is still very young at understanding what Gay really is. Many older people only understand cross-dressers.
ayngmn 1 year ago
i cant stop watching this
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prossongha22 1 year ago
First and foremost: U are really cute haha.
Secondly: i totally understand where you are coming from. I think you are really brave to have come out to your parents. I am 30 and i still haven't said anything to my parents. I suspect they knew but never they had asked me if i was gay or not. Im happy the way things are, but i know for sure it wont be the same if i do come out. I love my parents too much to have them disown me. But hopefully im brave enough to come out to them.
prossongha22 1 year ago
Very touching story.Thanks for posting this video....i am sure is gonna help another persons that are in similar situations.Hey....don't feel alone no more...you have a lot of people that accept you and love you as the way you are.Hugs brother.Put my name on your list of friends if you don't mind to have a hispanic friend.
matrix7678 1 year ago
wow, i was touched. what a beautiful ending ..
PriscillaHeartsBB 1 year ago
My best friend sent me your video link today and I have to say that I feel so inspired. I grew up the same way as you did. My parents came from Cambodia to escape from the war. We lived off of welfare and housing but like you said I was happy. When we got older problems came up but it wasn't difficult as you endured as you tried to "earn" your fathers love. I want you to know that there are already thousands of people who love you just by you sharing your story. I think I love you already <3
Lovers167 1 year ago
Wow! I am so touched by your video! U & I have so much in common. I'm a 30 yr old gay Cambodian and came out to my family just 3 yrs ago. Fortunately, they were fairly understanding. We are pioneers in this generation. I'm sorry to hear all the troubles you went through, but think of it as the fuel for the strength you have today! U are a strong and courageous man! Finish school and keep up the great work kiddo! I'm proud of ya! You're right, loving yourself is the best thing you can do 4 U
houx0012 1 year ago
This video of yours is very touching. I have a gay cousin who is also Cambodian, and he has friends who are gay and Cambodian, so I wanted you to know that you are not alone, and I am sorry for what you have been through, but remember you are not alone. The fact that you made it to UC Berkeley just shows that you do not need to prove anything to anyone. You are an amazing and beautiful person, and I hope you succeed in all your future endeavors.
PourAlittleSOUL 1 year ago
im not going to pity you like you quoted in this movie. but i am going to say, dont ever change, and dont ever try to change. i have alot of gay friends myself :D and though im not gay, i love hanging around them. why? cause we are all human beings, and because they're fun to hang out with haha! be strong stay strong you are strong :D
cxl90 1 year ago
Very good story and don't change whom you are for anyone... its thous that don't accept others for who they are that are wrong and have the issues or problems..
Hugs you are sweet heart I can tell and still a man.. always keep this!
Hugs
canectar 1 year ago
Thanks for sharing your story to the world. You seem like such a loving person. You're adorably cute too, SIGH! I think people need to get like you now and day, just learn how to love their selves better. I want to give you a hug in person, but it will not be easy to find you in person, so AIR HUGE!=)
townguy01 1 year ago
I am the one gay (no no i am not Khmer but i stay between Thailand and Cambodian border). I just wanna let u know .." life is too short , love yourself , learn yourself and be yourself.." >.^
TheZiraff 1 year ago
@TheZiraff who are you? if you are not khmer. thai?
ashsnar 3 weeks ago
This Touched My Heart So Much.
I Am Proud To Be Cambodian!
What is The Name Of The Song In The Beginning?
cowgurl69 1 year ago 7
@cowgurl69 the song at the beginning is called "Move On" by Bruno Mars :)
sunyum 1 year ago
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ixluvxpete 1 year ago
@sunyum Aw Thank You So Much. Its Such A Cute Song. And Thank You For This Video. It Has Touched Me And Many:) God Bless You<3
ixluvxpete 1 year ago
I am Khmer and I feel your words through eyes. This was so beautiful and artistic. This made me feel very inspired and I too am the only one that finished college. Keep doing your thang and I wanted to let you know that this Khmer guy right here supports you! And I'm straight. Thank you so much for the video.
socialization1 1 year ago
don't worry it's not only khmers that get it, it's all southeast asian parents, see they don't get it. u know what words do hurt but it don't mean a thing
dededoi 1 year ago
don't worry it's not only khmers that get it, it's all southeast asian parents see they don't don't get it
dededoi 1 year ago
brilliant work mate. Well articulated and I must say, very emotional. I was able to see it in your eyes. Keep your head up and all the best in your future endeavours.
mill180sx 1 year ago
that was a great video!
angelprincess12345 1 year ago
thank you for your story
linanq3i 1 year ago
Well made video, your stories similar to mine, but im straight, no disrespect.
people dont know what our past is like, and yet they judge off what they see. im khmai too, and no one will bring me down, and i can tell theat no one will bring u down either. keep your head up man.
sh0elesss 1 year ago
much love for khmai's, i stummbled across this video, but im glad i did cuz it was good. keeo yo head up man.
sh0elesss 1 year ago
AWSOME video you are a beutifull human being. Very proud of you and all the things you have acomplished you stand here today super proud thanks for sharing!!! xoxoxox
190Fat2Slim130 1 year ago
awe
Piyyutim 1 year ago
disorder, and suicidal attempts on his life from the hatred and unacceptance of his family, was ultimately able to realize that all he really needed was self love and self acceptance to achieve true happiness.
kimberleewho 1 year ago
and had been ridiculed by his father throughout his childhood. The hatred and disownment from his family contradicts the fixed notions that Asian Americans have solid, strong family structures and healthy dynamics within the family. Especially now with the current climate of young, homosexual college students who receive mass amounts of hate, discrimination, and bullying, I found this video to be very inspiring and admirable. Suny Um, who suffered and overcame self hate, depression, bipolar
kimberleewho 1 year ago
country. Despite their sacrifices and hard work, Um’s family still grew up in extreme poverty – no money, no healthcare, no government assistance, etc. – and this somewhat debunks the “model minority” expectation that Asian American immigrants can succeed despite impossible conditions, as long as they work hard. Furthermore, Um’s situation contradicts Western notions of Asian American family structure/dynamics. For example, Um was kicked out of his parents’ house and disowned at age 16, and
kimberleewho 1 year ago
just passively listening or being told the words. Also, the written words, detached from a singular voice, allowed for Um’s story to be more universalized – those with shared feelings or similar experiences could relate to and identify with his, making the video all the more powerful and impactful.
Additionally, the video complicates many of the fixed notions that society has of Asian Americans today. For example, his parents immigrated to America to escape war and genocide in their native
kimberleewho 1 year ago
This video combines the significance of visuality with the complexity of fixed and essentialized notions of Asian Americans. I found it to be very powerful, and I was surprised because I didn’t expect to be so impacted by a visually scripted narrative as opposed to hearing spoken words. But in this situation, I found reading the script to be more effective than hearing the words (showing vs. telling). The visuality of the video forces the viewer to engage more actively in the story rather than
kimberleewho 1 year ago
Very touching and powerful as this video will save another teen from suicidal attempts. This video proves that "IT GETS BETTER". Looks like he won in the end.
asaechao8121817 1 year ago
Hi Suny, I saw your video a month or so ago and after hearing all of these teen suicides. I wish you are well and strong. Thank you for sharing. It's very powerful. Please be well! hugs! chi
monchichinom 1 year ago
aww dis is a very in touch story.
Mizzibabegal 1 year ago
How awesome are you?! I'm so glad you are still here to bless us with your story. You are beautiful just they way you are
shortiduwop410 1 year ago
You're beautiful, Suny. Thank you for sharing this. I love your smile, keep on smiling! From one of the keepers of the LoveCafe at Cal.
melmar838 1 year ago
Hi Suny, I'm touched by your video. I'm also a gay Cambodian guy too so I could see where you are coming from.
Prosping 1 year ago
Way to tell a part of your story. That was a very touching video. There are so many that could learn from you and your experiences. I hope that you take whatever opportunities you get to share with and help those around you with what you have learned and continue to learn.
Way to go. Stay strong! Your life, with all its ups and downs, is an example to others of what can be.
apioenarg 1 year ago
When you wave "hi" it's like your clearing up the youtube fuzzyness.
bboydimension 1 year ago
mate, really touched by your story, i'm second generation Cambodian too, here in London UK. my coming out was horrific, but not to the extent of yours - my father had already passed away so my mum was very accepting though i can see the disappointment in her eyes. So many inner demons to deal with... be strong!!
hkhaou 1 year ago
Whats the name of the song in the beggining?
cowgurl69 1 year ago
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Suny, I saw your video this evening and it touched me so deeply that I cried. You are a wonderful young man. I am so proud of you. Ignorance and Hate are very difficult to deal. If you need a friend or a brother to talk to, please feel free to talk to me. HUGs :)
annan2222 1 year ago
Suny, I saw your video this evening and it touched me so deeply that I cried. You are a wonderful young man. I am so proud of you. Ignorance and Hate are very difficult to deal. If you need a friend or a brother to talk to, please feel free to talk to me. HUGs :)
annan2222 1 year ago
You are a brave, thoughtful, astute young man. Your dignity and intelligence will transport you. There is a world of people out there who will accept you for what you are, not what they think you should be. Laki maka’i, good luck. =)
mnimsus 1 year ago
Suny I am VERY PROUD OF YOU <3
camillejoy20 1 year ago
@camillejoy20 don't listen to camille ! iiiiii is proud of you, hence the reason whyyyy i made a video response for you (:
MonyOhSoLoud 1 year ago
courage.
alien7blood 1 year ago
This Is Amazing.
This touched my heart.
cowgurl69 1 year ago