My name is keely and im 16 teen years of age and i have been in and out of the hospital bez i have been trying to kill myself or bez my mom is beting me because i am not a boy and i look at girls..... now i live with my loveing dad and i love him but he say that im going to hall and he wants to save me from being gay. Is there a way not to be gay?
@themoonwolves1 there really isnt a way to be not gay. you cant help how you feel towards people. it is just the way that your body feels. if she has a problem with who you are tell her to fuck off.
Good video. As for why I'm here, 17 years old, bi with a long distance boyfriend who my family REALLY doesn't approve of even though they don't know him and won't listen, on top of that is chronic bipolar depression, an old cutting addiction that was getting way out of hand and still tempts me... Also occasional suicidal thoughts and stuff...
I'm not looking for anyone's pity... Just some kind words that could help V_V
eveything i do stresses me out, my baby cousin died very recently and he was only 33 days old, sometimes i feel suicidle and its at school aswell... one day i came home with 3 broken fingers on one hand 2 on the other and a black eye, i had to say i walked into a door, although that never worked... this started when i was 4, im now 12 - i cant stand it anymore, i was so tempted to jumping off a bridge or the top of a building... What do i do? Please help xx :)
wow , I'm a 14 year old red head and I made my first cut today . It's horrible , don't make the first cut , it's so addicting . All I can think about is cutting , don't make the first cut . It's a hard path to go down .. much love to all the gingers out there <3
I'm 12 years old and people call me fat. It's because I'm 5'6 and i weigh 140 and all the kids in my school are 4 feet and weigh 60 pounds. All my friends have had boyfriends and I've been single my whole life I'm going to a new school on Tuesday and I don't want to have no friends. When i went to camp this summer all the kids ignored me. I'm afraid my new school will be just like camp. I want to have friends. and I'm sick of being taller than every single boy in my school.
@hahagirl727TV Hello :) Here's my advice, when you're at school talk to different people and just be really friendly and nice. If you get the sense the people who're talking to you don't want to be your friend move on and find someone who does. Don't worry, there's always someone who'll want to be your friend, you just gotta find them. And if they say you're overweight just ignore them because they're jerks. I have acne and I'm friends with a lot of people who don't make fun of it. Good luck :)
sorry i am terrible with names but o the girl whos bff is dating an older man you have to tell her parents because even if you are drifting apart what kind of friend would you be to let her do this. By now you probably figured this out because i think that i am commenting on an old video but still GOOD LUCK!
@misszwinkyforever7 Babe, you're literally just like I was. I was depressed and suicidal at 13, and I'm also a redhead :) Trust me, things will get better. I'm 17 now and I love my life.
Just remember next time someone says something mean to you that all that is, is their OPINION. And what can an opinion do to you? Absolutely nothing. What they think does not matter - just because they say something doesn't make it true. All that matters is what you think of yourself. And I bet you're beautiful.
Sweetheart! You want to know something? Redheaded girls are HOT!
More so, we're UNIQUE! How many brown headed girls are their in your class? how many blonds? Like ALL of them! But we! We stick out and HELL yeah we're hot!
Want to know something else? I dye my hair! :-O I'm redheaded on purpose! I WANT to be a redhead! And you wanna know why? 'Caus brown is BLAH and blonds are DUMP!
@misszwinkyforever7 if they're saying mean stuff about ur red hair the they are just jealous, the only reason anyone would hate u is because they can't be like u, u said u want to KILL urself(DON'T) they're the one's having suicidal thoughts they are insecure about themselves & hate it that's why they are trying to make u feel inescure because that's what makes them feel secure, don't let them win & don't let them take away the best of u, walk around like ur a queen, like a popular girl trust me
*@misszwinkyforever7 but like buck i would seriously recommend seeking help. even if its just your mum, speaking to somebody will help you, even f you think it will just make it worse. it really helps!!
@misszwinkyforever but like buck i would seriously recommend seeking help. even if its just your mum, speaking to somebody will help you, even f you think it will just make it worse. it really helps!!
@misszwinkyforever7 if you dont want to seek profetional help yet you could just try and surround yourself with a few people who make you feel happy about both yourself and your life. you dont even have to tell them the extent of your depression. if you try and not focus on being sad and instead focus on having a strong friendship with these people. i had the same problem as yout a couple of years ago and that was what helepd me. i don't know if this will work for you also but it may. XXX *hugs*
Hi, i'm starting out on youtube (whompingwilla934) and i'm trying really hard to work with what i've got, and i want to be a muscian but guitar is so freaking hard, and i don't know what to do. I mean, i'm pretty good singer, but what does that matter if i cant play an instrument. Everyone is saying "follow your dreams" and "never give up!" but the truth is, those things are harder said then done.
My friend goes on kik and meets random guys and trades naked pictures with them and roleplay with them when she doesnt know them and I think its discusting. Its taking over her life. Whenever I go to her house she takes my iPod to go on an app to meet guys to go on kik with and then she doesnt talk to me at all the whole time im there. When I try to talk to her about it she gets mad at me. What do I do?
@HannaEmilySYD Hey :) I'm Chloe. I think you should calmly talk your friend about what she's doing. Tell her it makes you uncomfortable, and if that's what her life is going to revolve around when your around, maybe you should spend less time hanging out. It may seem slightly drastic, but she's not respecting you as your friend and if she's not going to do that then she's being a bad friend. Don't have a go at your friend about what she does, just tell her you don't think it's inappropriate. =)
my "friend" so i think is always starting fights with me about her friend tht i dont even think likes her. Her "friend" hates me and she has always been mean to me andhas been putting bad thoughts of me in my friends head. my friend always sticks up for her and she NEVER sticks up for me and i cant help it i need all the help i can get to get over this. thank you.
you know, i really think that people are trying to complicate things with bisexuality. Really , it's simple, you like boys AND girls. -___- dammit people.
And who actually went through a "phase" ? I don't know anyone who were told by their parents that their sexual orientation was a phase and that they were actually right.
Dear Buck, my friend needs serious psychological help. I don't mean that in a rude way whatsoever. Her self esteem is rock bottom and I've been trying to coach her through how she can love herself more, but everything I say she just keeps rejecting and thinking that the only way she'll ever be happy is when boys like her, when really it's the other way around. Her parents won't get her therapy cause she's "over reacting" what do I do? I can't let my best friend suffer anymore. Thank you -Corey
Dear Buck, my best guy friend asked me out and I very politely said no and he and I are still friends but before he asked me out we were getting very close as friends and now I feel that we are drifting apart. He's like a brother to me and I don't want him to be more or less, is there anything I can do?
when i was younger i was sexually abused by my grandpa and physically abused by my dad who threw me down the stairs when i was 15. ive never got over this or been seen by a therapist i have also been cheated on twice out of my 3 boyfriends and i cant trust my boyfriend because of this even though we have been together almost two years but i dont know how he or anyone can love me
i actually hate myself :( please help love all your shows buck :)
@TheGagagirl92 attempt to talk to a therapist, and one thing, dont hate yourself, it isnt your fault. And if you are scared about having relationships because of those events, that is okay i think, not being able to trust someone because of these things is justifiable, wait if you want, maybe you can trust them, or people in general. And attempt to talk to a therapist. Hope this helps and hope you work it out, From Tyler
@TheGagagirl92 Don't hate yourself none of this is your fault! it is perfectly understandable for you to have trust issues with all the problems you have had in the past. Once you start to love yourself it will be easier you will know that anyone can love you. i also believe that you should go to a therapist to get over any lingering problems from being abused going to a therapist can help you more than random people on youtube. i hope this helped and you get to feeling better
@TheGagagirl92 If people truly love you they will understand your past.. I understand it&I lovee you because of your stregth.. Dont hate yourself you are no longer a victim(past is there) but your a surrvior of it.
How does a decent looking girl determine whether a guy REALLY likes you or just wants to get into your pants? and I have a best friend that lives in utah. I met him last year because he plays hockey where i live (Colorado). We are both really into each other and he comes back to Co for 7 months. but after that he is leaving. for good. we both want a relationship but we don't know if its a good idea? advice? Btw i love your show :)
@JayMEss16 if you are in a middle skool setting and i know, im a guy and i just finished middle school, hon, middle school boys, to be honest, most of them (not all, some want relationships) want to get in ur pants, its the way they are, but a BEST friend might want to be with you for yourself. some may really actually like you, some dont. go for it if you want a relationship, regardless you should still be best friends. :) hope this helps, From, Tyler
My nickname is Kr@zy K, I'm 18, and I suffer from depression. I have a cat, named Kiki, that's on the verg of dying. I have adopted her when I was 5. She hasn't been eating and i'm scared out of my mind (she was poisoned by eating a plant we didn't know was dangerous). If she dies, I will lose a special friend; I really don't know what to do. I love animals, but Kiki and I have a special connection like no one else can understand, but maybe you can. Plz help me
its my birthday and i just found out that one of my old friends is going out with the guy i like. i have know him scents 3rd grade and she has only just met him. we are all 8th grades. she has caused lots of problems with me before but i got over it. she dosnt know i like him and she has a better chance with him. i need help copeing wih this and not geting a worked up
@bongos528 I know how you feel. I was lovestruck by a girl that I knew for a long time, but a bastard stole my opprotunity to ask her out. It's gonna be alright, and there are other fishes in the sea. Maybe when you 2 text or see each other again, tell him how you really feel. I don't know what it will do, but I know you can do it and tell him how you feel. :)
Yea i agree with the whole 15 and 20 year old thing, i mean its none of your business if they date, YOU DO NOT WANT TO BE THE PERSON to tell her parents. Let her learn from her mistakes let her handle her problems and make her decisions. Just be there and let her know how you feel if shes asks.
I'm 13 and really really like this boy in my school. I have "hooked up" with him 2 times. (aka made out) When someone in my town asks another person to The Carnival. This boy asked my friend who i don't really like. I was texting him and he said he liked me but she still taking her. How do i get him to take me or to ask me out? XOXO, Jules
Oh and for your cutting shirts you should donate 50,75 or even 100% or the profits to suicide hotline or some sort of NOT CUTTING organization. <3
i have a really big crush on my friend sam. He's really cool and he's a year older than me. We kissed the other day, but he doesnt have a crush on me. He knows how much i like him. His girlfriend told me that im really fat, and to stay away from him. Its really akward with him now and we dont have anything to talk about and when we do the kiss keeps coming up. His girlfriend threatened to beat me up, but hes the one that kissed me! What do i do?
My older sister was tragically killed when i was 10 years old. Now 8 years on im just finding everyday getting harder and harder. The main thing that is really annoying me is that my parents keep saying whenever i dont do something good 'Ohh, she wouldnt be very happy with the way you're acting'. As youd imagine, that really makes me feel like a piece of crap. how/ what could i say/ do to show how bad it makes me feel to them.
@MinecraftATM I would say 'She's my sister, she would've been happy with anything I do, She would be dissapointed in you for making me feel bad over it.' But if your parents are harsh and you'd get in trouble for that maybe just say something like 'I know what I'm doing wrong, and it's kind of getting to me talking about my sister, can you stop mentioning her?' Good luck! ♥
thank you so very much. The last couple of days have been heaven cause I've hardly seen them so nothing has been going on but I know when I start seeing them more often they'll start again.
dear buck, I'm 14, and have known what love feels like already (yeah i know SHOCKING.) I let that guy slip away already, and I'm completely head over heels deeply in love with this guy. I've known him for about eight years, and I've been told numerous times that he loves me back, only I thought I hated him the entire time. He watched me love the other guy, and I know it hurt him. We act like a couple @ school, but I need help with the next step. We've almost kissed, I'm just in need of help!
Hi, my name is alex and i'm 14 and in 2 months i will be in 9th grade and i'm a bit nervouse. In 8th grade i wasn't really popular and i didn't have a lot of friends but the friends that i have ( 1 or 2)they are friends with popular kids. And the friends that i ahve told me that i'm the lowest in popularity. So i wanted to ask if you have any advice on how to deal with high school or how to become a bit more popular :D
@MagicTricksWithAlex we are like twins! but i a, 14 and in two months i will be in high school soon, i was pretty low on that ladder, and how to deal w/ hi skool, re invent yourself, be outgoing, find a club you like. and tru friends would never say that, break it off, and make friends w/ the new people you meet, again be outgoing, see if you are good at sports, if not then, meh, try to be well liked, it may be easier than you think.
im 14 and an aspiring singer/songwriter. i've done several gigs around town and have been told that im pretty good, and I LOVE DOING THIS STUFF. but, my parents dont really approve and won't let me do singing as a living. i dont want to disrespect or disobey them, but i want to follow my dream!! any suggestions or ways to help? i dont know what to do.
@misszwinkyforever7 I am also a red head and I have heard all those mean comments, never understood why they hate on the exact group infamous for being angry! I had someone tip water over me because they said my hair is on fire and the names, but I deal with it by either ignoring or biting back a bit it just takes one witty comment. The people who are horrible to gingers are low lives and very insecure just stay true to yourself and try to keep your head held up high! *hugs* you can survive! :)
I finished Highschool after sophomore year by taking my GED. I couldn't handle all the drama and problems. Now I'm thinking it was a bad idea, I'm not sure where I am going with my future and I'm at a point in my life where I don't know what to do next. I do not want to attend college, at least not yet. I found a program to learn to be a sound recorder for musicians but I don't know if that's my passion. I was never able to find my passion and I don't know what to do with myself. Ty!
There is this new kid in my school and he doesnt really have friends, and I think i know why. He is really annoying and touches people too much. I know this because I sit next to him in one of the classes and whenever he talks to me, he touches me like on the shoulder and stuff. Although he may seem like he doesn't mind having no friends, I can see the sadness in his eyes. How can I tell him about this in the nicest way possible, and help him with his problems?
Also, i watched a vid about girls having gay people as best friends as an accessory. NOT my case, Buck!!! I just like the personalities of gay people in general, no offense!!!
dear buck / anyone,im 12 and i have a guy friend,we used to talk alot and go outside together alot too ,but he now has a huge crush on another girl im not jealous about her i dont want to date him, but ever since then hes been making fun of me for not having a bf myself ,he calls me desperate because im not friends with alot of boys , to make things worse my mom and his mom are close friends and we live on the same street (so hes impossible to avoid) please thumbs up so buck can see <3
@happygina7 you should talk to him and ask him to stop being a jerka bout it,cuz in reality hes just trying to be cool! and by trying to be cool hes losing a friend,
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@dancemakeupcheer7810 hey im 12 too just stand tall i get called fat by one kid and it hurts yes i suggest just trying to blow off steam by shooters(scientists say that playing shooters accually help u deal with stress alot better) , do what buck says sit down or hiting shit with a baseball bat or shoot shit with a gun
Hi Buck my name is Meghan, im 13 and about a year ago i found some naked pictures of men on mr brothers ( btw my brothers 15 ) camera i told my mom but she seems to be in denial about those pictures, i think hes gay but now someone told me he has a girlfriend and they had sex. i told my mom and she said she would talk to him but she never did. i also think hes doing drugs ( weed and pot please help! my parents arnt doing anything!
@Love5987 well ur brother is probly bi u'll learn this as time goes but ALOT of high schoolers do pot and nothing bad happens 2 them for example I know 4 a fact that many of my friends do pot but i do not. So in my opinion there is no problem REALLY so what ur brother is bi
@Love5987 Maybe you should ask your brother if he's gay, and if he has a girlfriend. I think you need to get the story from him. Also, he could be bisexual. Get the truth and tell your parents. If they still won't do anything then there's really nothing you can do but be a positive influence on him.
if he is using pot tell him to stop/go to rehab or else you will call the cops on him.
btw pot(miruhanjanijabla <-- something) is not as harmfull as alkohol, it could be to make him relax, make him eat or something like that. good luck, have a open hart MrTripleCC
@Love5987 hey, i don't get why it's such a big problem that he might be gay.. it dosnt change him if he kisses boys ;) but you can talk with him, and say that you're concerned and want to know whats goig on.. and maybe it's his friends that put the picgtuees there for fun ;)
@Love5987 I know this was 3 months ago so it may be solved by now but you need to just not worry about him! If he's gonna be gay or have sex then just stay out of it because it's his life. And for the "drugs" weed and pot are the same thing.
@ifeellikebeinggood appreciate it if we as foreigners make an effort to learn about their culture and language, because for example, since Czech Rep isn't such a big country, when I my colleagues saw that I was really interested and always asked them to tell me stories about WHY the building was called this or WHY they had such interesting holidays. etc., they were so happy and more willing to help me once I showedI was interested in learning about them. Just message me directly if u need! <3
@ifeellikebeinggood Hi Liz, I can totally relate to what you are going through. I am older than you, but I also moved from the USA to Czech Republic to teach English. It's very hard to live in a foreign country especially at your age, and it's even harder to try to learn a new language (I'm not sure what langauge it is, but in general it's hard!) i think the best thing you could do, as Buck suggested in the next episode, is to try your best to learn the language. The local people really
@misszwinkyforever7 "popular" girls are just fake whores. The REAL definition of popular is having a lot of friends who love and care about you. Looks aren't everything and as cliché as it sounds, it's true. You don,t need fake barbie whores as yor friends. Middle schoolers are mean and rude and don't listen to them. Gingers rock girl! :) do what Buck said the next time someone is rude. Just don't harm yourself okay? Good luck!
My big sister self harms. I really don't know what to do. I don't want to tell my mum about it because my sister would never talk to me again! I found her diary and it said that she had tried to kill herself. Buck PLEASE help. What should I do? I dont want to lose her.
Please thumbs this up so buck can see this. I posted this on the last video but you didnt answer so please answer it next time<3 i need your help!
i dont think it should matter if he's 20 and shes 15. love is love and five years isnt that bad. if you go to the police you're a meddling betraying bitch and you might ruin your friends life. you're afraid of losing her now, but when you tell on her, you'll lose her forever. just stay out of her business
@dancerina26 TELL HIM YOU JUST WANNA HELP THEN HE WOUD PROBABLY SAY YOU DONT UNDERSTAND BUT YOU KNOW YOU REALLY DONT UNDERSTAND LET HIM KNOW YOU WANT TO BE THERE FOR HIM HE NEEDS TO KNOW YOU CARE
ImTeamEdwardCullen, talk to an adult you trust first, whether that's your ma you da an aunt or whatever, just tell an adult. then they can do what they think is best and hopefully your friend ends up ok. but if it comes down to you having to confront her remember, sometime you are going to have to play the bad guy to keep the people you love safe. it sucks and it will hurt but sometimes you have to. keep your chin up and good luck. <3
@Hailey6447 just tell him how you feel and if he deosnt care then say to him that you wanna keep this friendship with him because if you really love him you should love him enough to understand how he feels and respect that at the same time
Dear Buck, I'm about to turn 12 (going into 7th grade) and I just recently found out I'm the school weirdo. I like to watch My Little Pony (don't judge, I don't know why either) and I'm obsessed with Glee. I used to be friends with everyone and everyone was nice to me, but now everyones calling me a freak or looser, even some of my old friends. Now I only have 5 friends and 2 really close friends and I'm scared to walk in the hallways at school by myself. I know that you should be yourself ar
@hubbabubbaoouchoizzy Middle schoolers are mean. Just ignore them, they're just trying to start drama. Continue being friends with your 7. It's better to have really close friends than trying to get a fifty friends who you don't know at all.
If people keep taunting you, you should tell an adult. Best if a teacher or guidance counselor, because they know the kids who are teasing you too.
@hubbabubbaoouchoizzy Its okay to be the school weirdo i am its ok that you like things that are different the what "normal" people like it nice to be different in sixth grade i found out i was the weirdo and imbrace it and if you afraid to walk in the hall this is what i do i just have my chin high and not look and the people around me laughing or whispering how their quiet when you past hope you have a yellow day:D
@TheSweetCo Thank you so much for your advice! Sorry for the late reply--semi-ironically, it's because I've been working so hard. 6 months sure sounds like a while, but your advice totally helped push me to at least keep TRYING. I suppose that's the best I can do rather than immediately put down the situation. THANK YOU! :) *hugs*
Dear Buck, or ANYONE im 15 ,my ex boyfriend and i were in a long distance relationship for a year and a half but we broke up because i cheated and he doesnt trust me anymore. i love him so incredibly much n he wont take me back. i dont kno if i should just try to move on and forget him or keep trying my hardest to get him back, i kno he still loves me but what can i do to earn his trust
hey to the girl ms edward cullen... i was in this and my friend did it all same age as your friend asnd he was 20ish :/ within 2 and a half weeks it was over and she is back to like 2 year rule :) but it was hard to deal with but itll pass cause i done mean to be mean but he will get tired of him you know?
Dear Buck or anyone else, I'm 16 years old and the guy I used to date has turned into a complete jerk and a man whore. I don't necessarily want him back but I know I'm the only who can stop him since he treats all the girls he dates like crap and he treats our friends like we are un-important because he just wants to be "popular". He used to be such a nice person, and I just want that person to be seen not some jerk. Please, anyone? :(
I am a 14 year old aspiring singer/songwriter and i've done several gigs around town and people have told me that i am quite talented. I know that this is what i want to do for a living and i can't think of anything else i'd want to do. But, my dad doesn't seem to understand and is pushing away my dream. i respect his reasonings and don't want to disobey him, but at the same time i know i need to follow my dream of being a musician. Should i take my dad's advice and give up
@everybodypoops11 NO! The fact that you do gigs at 14 is amazing! Your dad saying this is pretty messed up on his part, but don't take it to heart. He probably jut doesn't want you to follow this dream so much that you lose focus on things like school.
Just keep singing as your dream, but make sure you keep your options available.
Next time your dad says you should give up just tell him "Why? Is it hurting me? I am still doing really well in school and I'm still leading a balanced life."
My good friend just passed away yesterday and it is the first time I have ever lost someone close to me. He went into a coma last week, but doctors don't know why and then yesterday the doctor said he wouldn't make it and he passed away. I have no idea how to deal with this. He was only 17 years old and next year would have been his senior year and I just can not get over the fact that he will never experience adulthood or anything else. I dont know what to do
i wude like some help. my mate tried it on with my best mate in frunt off me. she came runing over to me and i haad to take her home. but now my mate is starting to hate me arrrr she says that she whant me to stay out off her life and love afires but now my bff is to sceard to go near her and now my mate ( the one how tride it on) thinks its all my falt but the fact is my bff dousent whant to be a lez how do i tell her plz plz i nead some help
dear buck/anyone, i have a rlly close guy friend that i date on and off but we made a promise to stop messing with each others heads and just be friends until we know for sure wether or not we should be together in order to keep our amazing friendship in tact, but lately he has been dating a girl who is rlly nice and beautiful and great but i get so jealous! he trys to come to me for advice but it is so hard for me to be positive in trying to help him but i want to be supportive- plz thumb up
i know its hard but just try. do you realy whant to rune your fiend ship with him. if you whant go and tell him how you fell but dount go and pull some pranks on her and say it was him i did that and now he thinks im not his type so stay gd friends and just tell him that you think that you still have fellings there but whaight till after they brake up to keep your friend ship and if you cear about him you can let him go
I'm 18 and have just moved country, so my boyfriend of a year and I have decided to do long distance. There is a 17hour time difference, do you have any advice as to how to make it work and deal with the separation?
i'm 14 and going to be a sophomore. at the beginning of freshman year i fell for an older guy (i know it was a mistake) and even though he acted like he really cared about me i know it was all lies because when we had a thing he did with 3 other girls. i know that i should be getting over him but its so hard. i still find myself thinking about him and i really wish that i had help getting over it. please help.
about 9 months ago i fell for a guy and he really hurt me. i try to get over it but i still end up thinking about him everyday. i've been depressed since things ended and i hate being the girl who is sad because of a guy but i just cant take it anymore. please help.
PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE help me. My mom has gone through a lot this past 2 years, losing her mother, divorcing my father, and a few months ago, breaking up with her boyfriend. She's recently started smoking.At first it was just maybe one a day but now she has 4-5 a day. I'm scared about her health and have tried to tell her that I'm worried and want her to stop, but I'm only 14 and have pretty much no influence. (She tells me to get off her back)
@DazzleMe456 tell her that it's effecting you. Even though your young, your still aloud to have an opinion. When I was younger, like 10-11, my mom smoked, and I didn't understand it. I used to get so, so, sosososoosos mad at her. I wouldn't talk to her for days, and I would steal her ciggarettes and throw them out. She would get mad, but I didn't care. She stopped after I "pushed it to the limit" and she told me years later that I was the reason she stopped smoking. She could tell it upset me ..
@DazzleMe456 If I can stop my mother from smoking at age 10, then you can to...at age 14. If she tells you to "get off her back", don't take that. TELL HER how you feel, cause if you don't it wont make a difference. I know how you feel girl, I really do. Your not alone. She's clearly going through a hard time, but she's not handling it very well it seems. YOu should subtly find ways to encourage her to find OTHER, more HEALTHY ways to deal with the stress, because smoking is a way of bottling..
@DazzleMe456 up feelings. People do it when their stressed. She should maybe see a therapist? Haha, sorry I'm saying too much. :) It's going to be fine I promise, just make sure you push her to the point where she REALLY understands how you feel. You're not alone sweetie, xoxo s
i love my dad with all my heart and he is a really good person. but he drinks alot and starts to scream and argue with my mother and it's not pretty. i try to tell him that he has a problem and he is ruining his body and our homelife but he denies that he has a problem. i don't want him to die but i don't know wat to do anymore. please help me!
I have a best friend who is 16 and she told me a couple of days ago that she is bi. I am totally okay with it, and we are all good. But we are on Tumblr and she found this friend that has helped her come out to me and only me. Now she thinks she likes this Tumblr girl who lives in Louisiana but doesnt know what to do or if for sure she likes her back. Is there anything I can tell her to not feel embarrassed and give her advice on what to do?
My good friend just passed away yesterday and it is the first time I have ever lost someone close to me. He went into a coma last week, but doctors don't know why and then yesterday the doctor said he wouldn't make it and he passed away. I have no idea how to deal with this. He was only 17 years old and next year would have been his senior year and I just can not get over the fact that he will never experience adulthood or anything else. I dont know what to do
I have a best guy friend- we're 12. He claims he's in love with our other girl best friend- it's not mutual. My guy friend is into girls, but he acts very feminine, so boys at school call him gay. Because of this and the unmutual feelings, he's cutting. No blood as far as we know, but still scarring. He randomly told our best friend he's in love with her the other night. He's like a brother to us both, and she and I don't know what to do. PLEASE rate up so Buck can see.
@rabitshadow I know. I'm not in love, and he's not either, he just thinks he is. Thanks, though, for all your help. Except, he's still cutting, and I still don't know what to do.
@teenceleb101 ITS JUST A GIRL HE WILL MEET MORE GIRLS THAT HE WILL LIKE MORE EVENTUALLY HE WILL STOP CUTTING AND I VE COMMENTED ON A LOT OF THESE AND JUST TO LET HIM KNOW YOU CARE WILL BE COMFORTING HOPE IVE HELPED
@teenceleb101 PLEASE talk to someone. Your so young and you have no control over this situation-your being put in a serious but awkward situation. Please talk to your parents or a counceler or ANYONE. This is really serious and needs to be adressed. xoxo GOOD LUCK
@lolcomedykidz910 so youre saying you were a night owl then you werent now you are again? can you rephrase the question cause im not sure thats the right one you should be asking. i do know this question is on my turf, cause i am an insomniac due to technology.
@ifeellikebeinggood theyre douches. they shouldve given you an indication to learn theyre language. if anything they shouldve helped you. theyre being stereotypical of americans. *cyber hugs* the only thing left is to wallow and get a good cry and just move on. say whatever and move on. and start learning the language, too. prove those bastards wrong! get angry and prove them wrong!
1. redheads are damn sexy. ive been lower than you feel and the best thing to do is get a semi-social hobby. mine became cosplaying & marching band. you pull yourself out of misery by making friends and keeping your mind occupied w/something else
2. dont tell parents and DONT tell police tell HER how you FEEL. its easier to have conversations with an emotional base rather than logical
3. your first love never or rarely works out.physical scars are permanent & every time you look you feel regret
I'm a bi male teen, I was at a gay pride parade, and i made out with three older men, I was intoxicated. I have a girlfriend, we have a language barrier, yet she forgave me.
This isn't a question, I just wanted to say I'm a dirtbag that was given a second chance, and I'm going to take it, I love this girl more than everything. Everyone, you don't always get second chances, but when you do, take them, because you almost never get a third, nor deserve it. I love you all
i am 16 and i think i have an OCD, i took an online test and it told me i had one, whenever something is uneven (especially my mattress) i have no idea why but it sends me into extreme panic attcks and i start hyperventalating and freaking out really badly, my freak outs last between 30 minutes to and hour i want to tell my parents but im pretty sure my mother won't want to hear it because she won't accept my dyspraxia either
im really need help but i don't know who to talk to.
Dear Buck/ Whomever, I'm engaged to this guy whom I love dearly, but were extremely different and I'm having major second thoughts, the problem is I'm only 18 and I don't have anywhere to go b/c I live with him and I don't put it past him to kick me out. I'm going in to my second year of college and going to live in the dorms. Should I just break it off and try and find somewhere else to go when the semester ends, or try and make it work we have been together for 3 years.
I'm almost 19, and a few days ago I found out that I'm adopted. My parents didn't tell me, I found my adoption papers. I confronted them and they were honest with me and told me the entire story. They got very emotional, but I barely cried. I feel no different and I have no urge to find my real parents. My cousin's husband was adopted and when he found out he was an emotional wreck, yet I feel nothing. Is there something wrong with me? :/
@mgeorge92 there is absolutely nothing wrong with you. you have reacted well and calmly and it shows that you love your parents and that they have looked after you very well. good luck with everything, be happy :) x -cyber hugs-
@mgeorge92 i dont think so. my grandpa just died and i couldnt care less. your cousins husband and you are two totally different people with different emotions. if i found out i was adopted, i would think the same as you. i wouldnt care and i'd wonder why i wouldnt. your adoptive parents gave you the love your real parents werent able to. they treated you well and cared for like their own flesh and blood. so, in the end, you should be happy and make them happy, too.
my close frind was a foster child for 3 years, because of her parnets drug and alcohol addiction. she lives with her aunt and uncle, & latley she feels like her aunt has been verbaly abuseing her, she feels like crap when she does anything wrong, she has low self estem, she used to cut. she has been hurting over it. she has been literly been freaking out, she comes to me pouring out her feelings, and cries and cries. i dont know what to do. pleasse helpppp.
my close friend is going through a very hard time right now, as 4 year old child she was sexually abused, & now she is 16 now. she just figured out that when she was as a child she was molested and she recived a STD at the age of 5,she doesnt remember who did it. she just figured this out recintly. she is very lost, scared and she doesnt now how she feels.she is a serious realtionship witha great guy, i dont want her to get hurt.. shes been thro alot of shit. please help
@ifeellikebeinggood At many communities there are courses where you can learn the language as a foreigner. I know it's hard and time consuming to learn a language, but it's really worth it, when you can understand everyone, do things by yourself, just simply being able to ask for the way or the time.
What do your parents do to learn the lang.? Maybe they can help you.
And don't be embarrassed to speak, b/c you could say something wrong, you learn best while trying! Good Luck!
I'm going into 10th grade next year and I am gay. I recently came out to one of my closest friends but no one else knows. I feel lonely and want a boyfriend but don't know any other gay people. There is this one guy who goes to another school that has told someone that he would date me if I wanted. I don't know him but should I try to meet him? I don't know if he's really my type so I don't know if I should just wait for someone else. I love you and your channel!
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MissZwinkyForever7 2 weeks ago
My name is keely and im 16 teen years of age and i have been in and out of the hospital bez i have been trying to kill myself or bez my mom is beting me because i am not a boy and i look at girls..... now i live with my loveing dad and i love him but he say that im going to hall and he wants to save me from being gay. Is there a way not to be gay?
themoonwolves1 1 month ago 2
@themoonwolves1 there really isnt a way to be not gay. you cant help how you feel towards people. it is just the way that your body feels. if she has a problem with who you are tell her to fuck off.
pcbandgeek 3 weeks ago in playlist Liked videos
im 14 and im gay i wana tell my parents but im nervous wut should i do thanks love your show :)
shea917 1 month ago
Good video. As for why I'm here, 17 years old, bi with a long distance boyfriend who my family REALLY doesn't approve of even though they don't know him and won't listen, on top of that is chronic bipolar depression, an old cutting addiction that was getting way out of hand and still tempts me... Also occasional suicidal thoughts and stuff...
I'm not looking for anyone's pity... Just some kind words that could help V_V
rbishop3886isme 1 month ago
I love this. It is amazing. Are those Tree shirt available??
pcbandgeek 2 months ago
There is alot more but i cant say them all but im not comfortable to tell anyone, im not very close to my family in that way... :)
Emiluh377 2 months ago
eveything i do stresses me out, my baby cousin died very recently and he was only 33 days old, sometimes i feel suicidle and its at school aswell... one day i came home with 3 broken fingers on one hand 2 on the other and a black eye, i had to say i walked into a door, although that never worked... this started when i was 4, im now 12 - i cant stand it anymore, i was so tempted to jumping off a bridge or the top of a building... What do i do? Please help xx :)
Emiluh377 2 months ago
you are soo gay
skaterjoe50 3 months ago
@skaterjoe50 uhhhhh maybe because he is gay. BE NICE
drumgirljsc 3 months ago 4
@skaterjoe50 you are soo smart
eemilytaylorr 1 month ago
dont cut in 12 it not fun just stop and that popular kid at my school i cant what in till that shes fat lol
cookies1158 3 months ago
wow , I'm a 14 year old red head and I made my first cut today . It's horrible , don't make the first cut , it's so addicting . All I can think about is cutting , don't make the first cut . It's a hard path to go down .. much love to all the gingers out there <3
Gingerangel97 4 months ago
are the tree shirts available?? i really really want one =] <3and i love you Buck you give amazing advice !!!
xxKaylaxx37 4 months ago
lmao! "sit down. sit down. sit down. sit down. sit your ass down." i laughed so hard.
missytaterhead 5 months ago 3
"bitch, leave me alone"
oh buck! your advice is getting so much better and more realistic.
EPICdocumentary 5 months ago
i love you buck!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
missunderstud13 5 months ago
Dear Buck or Anyone
I'm 12 years old and people call me fat. It's because I'm 5'6 and i weigh 140 and all the kids in my school are 4 feet and weigh 60 pounds. All my friends have had boyfriends and I've been single my whole life I'm going to a new school on Tuesday and I don't want to have no friends. When i went to camp this summer all the kids ignored me. I'm afraid my new school will be just like camp. I want to have friends. and I'm sick of being taller than every single boy in my school.
hahagirl727TV 5 months ago in playlist More videos from peron75
@hahagirl727TV Hello :) Here's my advice, when you're at school talk to different people and just be really friendly and nice. If you get the sense the people who're talking to you don't want to be your friend move on and find someone who does. Don't worry, there's always someone who'll want to be your friend, you just gotta find them. And if they say you're overweight just ignore them because they're jerks. I have acne and I'm friends with a lot of people who don't make fun of it. Good luck :)
bambooisgr8 5 months ago
does this mean fat girls end up popular? that's a win for me!
mirosango14 6 months ago 20
@mirosango14 A win for me to!! :)
hahagirl727TV 5 months ago in playlist More videos from peron75
sorry i am terrible with names but o the girl whos bff is dating an older man you have to tell her parents because even if you are drifting apart what kind of friend would you be to let her do this. By now you probably figured this out because i think that i am commenting on an old video but still GOOD LUCK!
ebtvrox 6 months ago
@misszwinkyforever7 Babe, you're literally just like I was. I was depressed and suicidal at 13, and I'm also a redhead :) Trust me, things will get better. I'm 17 now and I love my life.
Just remember next time someone says something mean to you that all that is, is their OPINION. And what can an opinion do to you? Absolutely nothing. What they think does not matter - just because they say something doesn't make it true. All that matters is what you think of yourself. And I bet you're beautiful.
ExesandErin 6 months ago
To the beautiful redheaded 13 year old,
Sweetheart! You want to know something? Redheaded girls are HOT!
More so, we're UNIQUE! How many brown headed girls are their in your class? how many blonds? Like ALL of them! But we! We stick out and HELL yeah we're hot!
Want to know something else? I dye my hair! :-O I'm redheaded on purpose! I WANT to be a redhead! And you wanna know why? 'Caus brown is BLAH and blonds are DUMP!
Tell them that next time they tease u!
REDHEADS POWER FOR EVER! <3<3<3<3
CathForStew 6 months ago 21
the 8ppl tht dont like this vid. are the pritty grils
xlshields 6 months ago
@misszwinkyforever7 if they're saying mean stuff about ur red hair the they are just jealous, the only reason anyone would hate u is because they can't be like u, u said u want to KILL urself(DON'T) they're the one's having suicidal thoughts they are insecure about themselves & hate it that's why they are trying to make u feel inescure because that's what makes them feel secure, don't let them win & don't let them take away the best of u, walk around like ur a queen, like a popular girl trust me
narutoroxanne22 6 months ago
Buck you're so funnny ! "Bitch sit down ! Sit down ! I'm giving you the chance to sit the f down ! " That seriously made me laugh(: God, i love you
waittwhatt19 6 months ago
*@misszwinkyforever7 but like buck i would seriously recommend seeking help. even if its just your mum, speaking to somebody will help you, even f you think it will just make it worse. it really helps!!
so sorry to @misszwinkyforever
IonaIsEpic 6 months ago
@misszwinkyforever but like buck i would seriously recommend seeking help. even if its just your mum, speaking to somebody will help you, even f you think it will just make it worse. it really helps!!
IonaIsEpic 6 months ago
@misszwinkyforever7 if you dont want to seek profetional help yet you could just try and surround yourself with a few people who make you feel happy about both yourself and your life. you dont even have to tell them the extent of your depression. if you try and not focus on being sad and instead focus on having a strong friendship with these people. i had the same problem as yout a couple of years ago and that was what helepd me. i don't know if this will work for you also but it may. XXX *hugs*
IonaIsEpic 6 months ago
Dear Buck,
Hi, i'm starting out on youtube (whompingwilla934) and i'm trying really hard to work with what i've got, and i want to be a muscian but guitar is so freaking hard, and i don't know what to do. I mean, i'm pretty good singer, but what does that matter if i cant play an instrument. Everyone is saying "follow your dreams" and "never give up!" but the truth is, those things are harder said then done.
iamsupersoup233 6 months ago
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madiluvsu44 7 months ago
Xoxoxo love u guys!
abnormal4 7 months ago
did you ever make the t-shirts?
TheNo1pencil 7 months ago
i dont understand how cutting yourself can solve anything >.>
CuntDangIt 7 months ago in playlist Dear Buck
Not to mention popular girls are complete whores who dont eat shit so they get attention.
IllyriadKurfist 7 months ago
Dear Buck,
My friend goes on kik and meets random guys and trades naked pictures with them and roleplay with them when she doesnt know them and I think its discusting. Its taking over her life. Whenever I go to her house she takes my iPod to go on an app to meet guys to go on kik with and then she doesnt talk to me at all the whole time im there. When I try to talk to her about it she gets mad at me. What do I do?
P.S - WE ARE ONLY 13!
HannaEmilySYD 7 months ago
@HannaEmilySYD Hey :) I'm Chloe. I think you should calmly talk your friend about what she's doing. Tell her it makes you uncomfortable, and if that's what her life is going to revolve around when your around, maybe you should spend less time hanging out. It may seem slightly drastic, but she's not respecting you as your friend and if she's not going to do that then she's being a bad friend. Don't have a go at your friend about what she does, just tell her you don't think it's inappropriate. =)
Marmalade4Jesus 6 months ago
dear buck or anyone ,
my "friend" so i think is always starting fights with me about her friend tht i dont even think likes her. Her "friend" hates me and she has always been mean to me andhas been putting bad thoughts of me in my friends head. my friend always sticks up for her and she NEVER sticks up for me and i cant help it i need all the help i can get to get over this. thank you.
loveydovey00ful
loveydovey00ful 7 months ago
11:00
you know, i really think that people are trying to complicate things with bisexuality. Really , it's simple, you like boys AND girls. -___- dammit people.
And who actually went through a "phase" ? I don't know anyone who were told by their parents that their sexual orientation was a phase and that they were actually right.
linux303 7 months ago
@rockinman684 im in high schoolll....
JayMEss16 7 months ago
Dear Buck, my friend needs serious psychological help. I don't mean that in a rude way whatsoever. Her self esteem is rock bottom and I've been trying to coach her through how she can love herself more, but everything I say she just keeps rejecting and thinking that the only way she'll ever be happy is when boys like her, when really it's the other way around. Her parents won't get her therapy cause she's "over reacting" what do I do? I can't let my best friend suffer anymore. Thank you -Corey
corey75952 7 months ago
Dear Buck, my best guy friend asked me out and I very politely said no and he and I are still friends but before he asked me out we were getting very close as friends and now I feel that we are drifting apart. He's like a brother to me and I don't want him to be more or less, is there anything I can do?
s4616 7 months ago in playlist Dear Buck
dear buck or anyone please help me
when i was younger i was sexually abused by my grandpa and physically abused by my dad who threw me down the stairs when i was 15. ive never got over this or been seen by a therapist i have also been cheated on twice out of my 3 boyfriends and i cant trust my boyfriend because of this even though we have been together almost two years but i dont know how he or anyone can love me
i actually hate myself :( please help love all your shows buck :)
TheGagagirl92 7 months ago
@TheGagagirl92 attempt to talk to a therapist, and one thing, dont hate yourself, it isnt your fault. And if you are scared about having relationships because of those events, that is okay i think, not being able to trust someone because of these things is justifiable, wait if you want, maybe you can trust them, or people in general. And attempt to talk to a therapist. Hope this helps and hope you work it out, From Tyler
rockinman684 7 months ago
@TheGagagirl92 Don't hate yourself none of this is your fault! it is perfectly understandable for you to have trust issues with all the problems you have had in the past. Once you start to love yourself it will be easier you will know that anyone can love you. i also believe that you should go to a therapist to get over any lingering problems from being abused going to a therapist can help you more than random people on youtube. i hope this helped and you get to feeling better
mmm4793 7 months ago
@TheGagagirl92 If people truly love you they will understand your past.. I understand it&I lovee you because of your stregth.. Dont hate yourself you are no longer a victim(past is there) but your a surrvior of it.
wwedxfan 7 months ago
Dear Buck,
How does a decent looking girl determine whether a guy REALLY likes you or just wants to get into your pants? and I have a best friend that lives in utah. I met him last year because he plays hockey where i live (Colorado). We are both really into each other and he comes back to Co for 7 months. but after that he is leaving. for good. we both want a relationship but we don't know if its a good idea? advice? Btw i love your show :)
JayMEss16 7 months ago in playlist Dear Buck
@JayMEss16 if you are in a middle skool setting and i know, im a guy and i just finished middle school, hon, middle school boys, to be honest, most of them (not all, some want relationships) want to get in ur pants, its the way they are, but a BEST friend might want to be with you for yourself. some may really actually like you, some dont. go for it if you want a relationship, regardless you should still be best friends. :) hope this helps, From, Tyler
rockinman684 7 months ago
if you ever think about killing your self think positive:
1.RAINBOW POOP (that always helps ME.....but im an idiot so every thing takes my mind away from things)
2.UNICORNS, Justin Bieber with a wig and a dress on :)
3.THINK DEAR BUCK!! :)
puffyjun 7 months ago
Gingers DO HAVE SOULS!!!! well at least the nice ones XD
I <3 you gingers!
ZzZzAaAnNnNeEe 7 months ago
This is amazing. I love you Buck. <3 ♥
RaceForSunset 7 months ago
Dear Buck and anyone else,
My nickname is Kr@zy K, I'm 18, and I suffer from depression. I have a cat, named Kiki, that's on the verg of dying. I have adopted her when I was 5. She hasn't been eating and i'm scared out of my mind (she was poisoned by eating a plant we didn't know was dangerous). If she dies, I will lose a special friend; I really don't know what to do. I love animals, but Kiki and I have a special connection like no one else can understand, but maybe you can. Plz help me
Thank u
Chaosscouter137 7 months ago
dear buck.
its my birthday and i just found out that one of my old friends is going out with the guy i like. i have know him scents 3rd grade and she has only just met him. we are all 8th grades. she has caused lots of problems with me before but i got over it. she dosnt know i like him and she has a better chance with him. i need help copeing wih this and not geting a worked up
lov jessie
bongos528 7 months ago
@bongos528 I know how you feel. I was lovestruck by a girl that I knew for a long time, but a bastard stole my opprotunity to ask her out. It's gonna be alright, and there are other fishes in the sea. Maybe when you 2 text or see each other again, tell him how you really feel. I don't know what it will do, but I know you can do it and tell him how you feel. :)
Chaosscouter137 7 months ago
4:00 he stutters XD .
alyssamc97 7 months ago
Buckley should write a book :)
MrHarboy3 7 months ago 4
Yea i agree with the whole 15 and 20 year old thing, i mean its none of your business if they date, YOU DO NOT WANT TO BE THE PERSON to tell her parents. Let her learn from her mistakes let her handle her problems and make her decisions. Just be there and let her know how you feel if shes asks.
Bxtchitscorina 7 months ago
Redheads are interesting, did you know that there are more hermaphrodites than redheads in the world? So be happy you're different. It's a blessing.
Bxtchitscorina 7 months ago
@NeonTeddyBear100 thanks for the advice :D
puppy1051 7 months ago
Dear Buck,
I'm 13 and really really like this boy in my school. I have "hooked up" with him 2 times. (aka made out) When someone in my town asks another person to The Carnival. This boy asked my friend who i don't really like. I was texting him and he said he liked me but she still taking her. How do i get him to take me or to ask me out? XOXO, Jules
Oh and for your cutting shirts you should donate 50,75 or even 100% or the profits to suicide hotline or some sort of NOT CUTTING organization. <3
iluvAG1904 7 months ago 2
dear buck,
i have a really big crush on my friend sam. He's really cool and he's a year older than me. We kissed the other day, but he doesnt have a crush on me. He knows how much i like him. His girlfriend told me that im really fat, and to stay away from him. Its really akward with him now and we dont have anything to talk about and when we do the kiss keeps coming up. His girlfriend threatened to beat me up, but hes the one that kissed me! What do i do?
from Imogen
13 years old
Uk
immyz190 7 months ago 2
Dear Buck or anyone
My older sister was tragically killed when i was 10 years old. Now 8 years on im just finding everyday getting harder and harder. The main thing that is really annoying me is that my parents keep saying whenever i dont do something good 'Ohh, she wouldnt be very happy with the way you're acting'. As youd imagine, that really makes me feel like a piece of crap. how/ what could i say/ do to show how bad it makes me feel to them.
thank you.
MinecraftATM 7 months ago
@MinecraftATM I would say 'She's my sister, she would've been happy with anything I do, She would be dissapointed in you for making me feel bad over it.' But if your parents are harsh and you'd get in trouble for that maybe just say something like 'I know what I'm doing wrong, and it's kind of getting to me talking about my sister, can you stop mentioning her?' Good luck! ♥
bonobobo1999 7 months ago
@bonobobo1999
thank you so very much. The last couple of days have been heaven cause I've hardly seen them so nothing has been going on but I know when I start seeing them more often they'll start again.
Thank you again <3<3
MinecraftATM 7 months ago
@MinecraftATM No problem. <3
bonobobo1999 7 months ago
dear buck, I'm 14, and have known what love feels like already (yeah i know SHOCKING.) I let that guy slip away already, and I'm completely head over heels deeply in love with this guy. I've known him for about eight years, and I've been told numerous times that he loves me back, only I thought I hated him the entire time. He watched me love the other guy, and I know it hurt him. We act like a couple @ school, but I need help with the next step. We've almost kissed, I'm just in need of help!
wedoitforkicks13 7 months ago
dear buck,
Hi, my name is alex and i'm 14 and in 2 months i will be in 9th grade and i'm a bit nervouse. In 8th grade i wasn't really popular and i didn't have a lot of friends but the friends that i have ( 1 or 2)they are friends with popular kids. And the friends that i ahve told me that i'm the lowest in popularity. So i wanted to ask if you have any advice on how to deal with high school or how to become a bit more popular :D
Thank you!
MagicTricksWithAlex 7 months ago
@MagicTricksWithAlex we are like twins! but i a, 14 and in two months i will be in high school soon, i was pretty low on that ladder, and how to deal w/ hi skool, re invent yourself, be outgoing, find a club you like. and tru friends would never say that, break it off, and make friends w/ the new people you meet, again be outgoing, see if you are good at sports, if not then, meh, try to be well liked, it may be easier than you think.
Good luck in high school :) From, Tyler
rockinman684 7 months ago
I just keep re-watching "Popular girls end up FAAAAAAAT!"
Love you Buck! And I hope they do!
biscuitssssssss 7 months ago 2
I am in love with a gay man. 100% in love with him. Need to get over him. HELP.
kelseyanne08 7 months ago
@onemoment2live Thanks for the advice, I really hope she stops
DazzleMe456 8 months ago
Dear Buck,
im 14 and an aspiring singer/songwriter. i've done several gigs around town and have been told that im pretty good, and I LOVE DOING THIS STUFF. but, my parents dont really approve and won't let me do singing as a living. i dont want to disrespect or disobey them, but i want to follow my dream!! any suggestions or ways to help? i dont know what to do.
Thanks so much, love ya buck!
**Lizzi**
everybodypoops11 8 months ago
@misszwinkyforever7 I am also a red head and I have heard all those mean comments, never understood why they hate on the exact group infamous for being angry! I had someone tip water over me because they said my hair is on fire and the names, but I deal with it by either ignoring or biting back a bit it just takes one witty comment. The people who are horrible to gingers are low lives and very insecure just stay true to yourself and try to keep your head held up high! *hugs* you can survive! :)
helenarocksyoursoks 8 months ago
Dear Buck,
I finished Highschool after sophomore year by taking my GED. I couldn't handle all the drama and problems. Now I'm thinking it was a bad idea, I'm not sure where I am going with my future and I'm at a point in my life where I don't know what to do next. I do not want to attend college, at least not yet. I found a program to learn to be a sound recorder for musicians but I don't know if that's my passion. I was never able to find my passion and I don't know what to do with myself. Ty!
wolfxkid 8 months ago
i was standing up....and then i set down.....
LightNightFright 8 months ago
Dear Buck,
There is this new kid in my school and he doesnt really have friends, and I think i know why. He is really annoying and touches people too much. I know this because I sit next to him in one of the classes and whenever he talks to me, he touches me like on the shoulder and stuff. Although he may seem like he doesn't mind having no friends, I can see the sadness in his eyes. How can I tell him about this in the nicest way possible, and help him with his problems?
edbleong 8 months ago
@edbleong i think u just need 2 tell him to stop touching people because it makes u and others feel uncomfortable
esmith4646 8 months ago
Also, i watched a vid about girls having gay people as best friends as an accessory. NOT my case, Buck!!! I just like the personalities of gay people in general, no offense!!!
cikDANCE 8 months ago
@dancerina26 call social services! they will keep it totally confidential that you called (and tell your parents too!)
happygina7 8 months ago
dear buck / anyone,im 12 and i have a guy friend,we used to talk alot and go outside together alot too ,but he now has a huge crush on another girl im not jealous about her i dont want to date him, but ever since then hes been making fun of me for not having a bf myself ,he calls me desperate because im not friends with alot of boys , to make things worse my mom and his mom are close friends and we live on the same street (so hes impossible to avoid) please thumbs up so buck can see <3
happygina7 8 months ago
@happygina7 you should talk to him and ask him to stop being a jerka bout it,cuz in reality hes just trying to be cool! and by trying to be cool hes losing a friend,
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84juicyjuice 8 months ago
@dancemakeupcheer7810 hey im 12 too just stand tall i get called fat by one kid and it hurts yes i suggest just trying to blow off steam by shooters(scientists say that playing shooters accually help u deal with stress alot better) , do what buck says sit down or hiting shit with a baseball bat or shoot shit with a gun
linden868 8 months ago
Dear Buck,
Hi Buck my name is Meghan, im 13 and about a year ago i found some naked pictures of men on mr brothers ( btw my brothers 15 ) camera i told my mom but she seems to be in denial about those pictures, i think hes gay but now someone told me he has a girlfriend and they had sex. i told my mom and she said she would talk to him but she never did. i also think hes doing drugs ( weed and pot please help! my parents arnt doing anything!
XOXO Meghan
Love5987 8 months ago 36
@Love5987 well ur brother is probly bi u'll learn this as time goes but ALOT of high schoolers do pot and nothing bad happens 2 them for example I know 4 a fact that many of my friends do pot but i do not. So in my opinion there is no problem REALLY so what ur brother is bi
esmith4646 8 months ago
@Love5987 Maybe you should ask your brother if he's gay, and if he has a girlfriend. I think you need to get the story from him. Also, he could be bisexual. Get the truth and tell your parents. If they still won't do anything then there's really nothing you can do but be a positive influence on him.
Karopex 7 months ago
@Love5987
dear megan what is wrong about him being gay/bi?
he migth only be blackmailing someone :D
if he is using pot tell him to stop/go to rehab or else you will call the cops on him.
btw pot(miruhanjanijabla <-- something) is not as harmfull as alkohol, it could be to make him relax, make him eat or something like that. good luck, have a open hart MrTripleCC
MrTripleCC 7 months ago
@Love5987 hey, i don't get why it's such a big problem that he might be gay.. it dosnt change him if he kisses boys ;) but you can talk with him, and say that you're concerned and want to know whats goig on.. and maybe it's his friends that put the picgtuees there for fun ;)
somethingfishylike 7 months ago
@Love5987 I know this was 3 months ago so it may be solved by now but you need to just not worry about him! If he's gonna be gay or have sex then just stay out of it because it's his life. And for the "drugs" weed and pot are the same thing.
cordeliaxoxo 5 months ago
@ifeellikebeinggood appreciate it if we as foreigners make an effort to learn about their culture and language, because for example, since Czech Rep isn't such a big country, when I my colleagues saw that I was really interested and always asked them to tell me stories about WHY the building was called this or WHY they had such interesting holidays. etc., they were so happy and more willing to help me once I showedI was interested in learning about them. Just message me directly if u need! <3
floritka85 8 months ago
@ifeellikebeinggood Hi Liz, I can totally relate to what you are going through. I am older than you, but I also moved from the USA to Czech Republic to teach English. It's very hard to live in a foreign country especially at your age, and it's even harder to try to learn a new language (I'm not sure what langauge it is, but in general it's hard!) i think the best thing you could do, as Buck suggested in the next episode, is to try your best to learn the language. The local people really
floritka85 8 months ago
@emilydinsdale thank u so much for the advice i will def take it as best as i can considering the situation but again thanks so much
MelissaRose831 8 months ago
Popular girls end up fat! = best. t-shirt. ever.
123Strawberrykisses 8 months ago 111
@123Strawberrykisses That's his only T-shirt Lol
frenolito 7 months ago
But not kidding...
cikDANCE 8 months ago
Haha :)
cikDANCE 8 months ago
I think I need a gay best friend.
cikDANCE 8 months ago
@cikDANCE right?! ME TOO.
onemoment2live 8 months ago
@misszwinkyforever7 "popular" girls are just fake whores. The REAL definition of popular is having a lot of friends who love and care about you. Looks aren't everything and as cliché as it sounds, it's true. You don,t need fake barbie whores as yor friends. Middle schoolers are mean and rude and don't listen to them. Gingers rock girl! :) do what Buck said the next time someone is rude. Just don't harm yourself okay? Good luck!
cikDANCE 8 months ago
I gingers!!!
Lessie328 8 months ago
your 36?! damn buck you look good!!!
kaijab615 8 months ago
sit down. haha (:
lexjeex 8 months ago
@discerninglove thanks i needed to see that <3
mariajhota 8 months ago
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Dear Buck or anyone else who can help,
My big sister self harms. I really don't know what to do. I don't want to tell my mum about it because my sister would never talk to me again! I found her diary and it said that she had tried to kill herself. Buck PLEASE help. What should I do? I dont want to lose her.
Please thumbs this up so buck can see this. I posted this on the last video but you didnt answer so please answer it next time<3 i need your help!
ilovemrbuckley 8 months ago
i dont think it should matter if he's 20 and shes 15. love is love and five years isnt that bad. if you go to the police you're a meddling betraying bitch and you might ruin your friends life. you're afraid of losing her now, but when you tell on her, you'll lose her forever. just stay out of her business
OreosInRamen 8 months ago
@dancerina26 TELL HIM YOU JUST WANNA HELP THEN HE WOUD PROBABLY SAY YOU DONT UNDERSTAND BUT YOU KNOW YOU REALLY DONT UNDERSTAND LET HIM KNOW YOU WANT TO BE THERE FOR HIM HE NEEDS TO KNOW YOU CARE
50bribric 8 months ago
ImTeamEdwardCullen, talk to an adult you trust first, whether that's your ma you da an aunt or whatever, just tell an adult. then they can do what they think is best and hopefully your friend ends up ok. but if it comes down to you having to confront her remember, sometime you are going to have to play the bad guy to keep the people you love safe. it sucks and it will hurt but sometimes you have to. keep your chin up and good luck. <3
GypsyBaby396 8 months ago
@hailey8447 sorry I got ur username wrong haha so just read my comment I posted and I hope it helped :)
jillz613 8 months ago
@Hailey6447 just tell him how you feel and if he deosnt care then say to him that you wanna keep this friendship with him because if you really love him you should love him enough to understand how he feels and respect that at the same time
jillz613 8 months ago
Dear Buck or anyone,
What is your opinion of the song Make It Stop (September's Children) by Rise Against?? I found it to be quite powerful but id like youre opinion.
Love Linds
Forealways 8 months ago
#itgetsbetter :)
jonascuppycake 8 months ago
Buck, I just want to say thanks for answering peoples questions. That's so nice of everyone to be there for each other!
kelsey458 8 months ago
Dear Buck, I'm about to turn 12 (going into 7th grade) and I just recently found out I'm the school weirdo. I like to watch My Little Pony (don't judge, I don't know why either) and I'm obsessed with Glee. I used to be friends with everyone and everyone was nice to me, but now everyones calling me a freak or looser, even some of my old friends. Now I only have 5 friends and 2 really close friends and I'm scared to walk in the hallways at school by myself. I know that you should be yourself ar
hubbabubbaoouchoizzy 8 months ago
@hubbabubbaoouchoizzy Middle schoolers are mean. Just ignore them, they're just trying to start drama. Continue being friends with your 7. It's better to have really close friends than trying to get a fifty friends who you don't know at all.
If people keep taunting you, you should tell an adult. Best if a teacher or guidance counselor, because they know the kids who are teasing you too.
foggerman1234 8 months ago
@hubbabubbaoouchoizzy Its okay to be the school weirdo i am its ok that you like things that are different the what "normal" people like it nice to be different in sixth grade i found out i was the weirdo and imbrace it and if you afraid to walk in the hall this is what i do i just have my chin high and not look and the people around me laughing or whispering how their quiet when you past hope you have a yellow day:D
blackcherryparamore 7 months ago
I love how you always look panicky when you dont know how to answer:J
hehe i love you buckk!
mrsvicefron 8 months ago
Dear Buck.
I love you!
Abhraxxas 8 months ago
@TheSweetCo Thank you so much for your advice! Sorry for the late reply--semi-ironically, it's because I've been working so hard. 6 months sure sounds like a while, but your advice totally helped push me to at least keep TRYING. I suppose that's the best I can do rather than immediately put down the situation. THANK YOU! :) *hugs*
Mamoray 8 months ago
WTF i dont understand how people could hate on red hair... o love red hair. FUCK haters
renegadedom218 8 months ago
Dear Buck, or ANYONE im 15 ,my ex boyfriend and i were in a long distance relationship for a year and a half but we broke up because i cheated and he doesnt trust me anymore. i love him so incredibly much n he wont take me back. i dont kno if i should just try to move on and forget him or keep trying my hardest to get him back, i kno he still loves me but what can i do to earn his trust
Please help.
hailey8447 8 months ago
@hailey8447 If you cheated on him then it will take him a LOOONG time to forgive you.
Why would you cheat on him if you wanted to be with him anyway?
darkheart2death 8 months ago
hey to the girl ms edward cullen... i was in this and my friend did it all same age as your friend asnd he was 20ish :/ within 2 and a half weeks it was over and she is back to like 2 year rule :) but it was hard to deal with but itll pass cause i done mean to be mean but he will get tired of him you know?
sibheal 8 months ago
Dear Buck or anyone else, I'm 16 years old and the guy I used to date has turned into a complete jerk and a man whore. I don't necessarily want him back but I know I'm the only who can stop him since he treats all the girls he dates like crap and he treats our friends like we are un-important because he just wants to be "popular". He used to be such a nice person, and I just want that person to be seen not some jerk. Please, anyone? :(
Dani09094 8 months ago
Dear Buck,
I am a 14 year old aspiring singer/songwriter and i've done several gigs around town and people have told me that i am quite talented. I know that this is what i want to do for a living and i can't think of anything else i'd want to do. But, my dad doesn't seem to understand and is pushing away my dream. i respect his reasonings and don't want to disobey him, but at the same time i know i need to follow my dream of being a musician. Should i take my dad's advice and give up
everybodypoops11 8 months ago
@everybodypoops11 NO! The fact that you do gigs at 14 is amazing! Your dad saying this is pretty messed up on his part, but don't take it to heart. He probably jut doesn't want you to follow this dream so much that you lose focus on things like school.
Just keep singing as your dream, but make sure you keep your options available.
Next time your dad says you should give up just tell him "Why? Is it hurting me? I am still doing really well in school and I'm still leading a balanced life."
darkheart2death 8 months ago
@everybodypoops11 Fucking do what you love. x
onemoment2live 8 months ago
Dear Buck,
My good friend just passed away yesterday and it is the first time I have ever lost someone close to me. He went into a coma last week, but doctors don't know why and then yesterday the doctor said he wouldn't make it and he passed away. I have no idea how to deal with this. He was only 17 years old and next year would have been his senior year and I just can not get over the fact that he will never experience adulthood or anything else. I dont know what to do
RIP Shane Michael
picklesandshoelaces 8 months ago
hi
i wude like some help. my mate tried it on with my best mate in frunt off me. she came runing over to me and i haad to take her home. but now my mate is starting to hate me arrrr she says that she whant me to stay out off her life and love afires but now my bff is to sceard to go near her and now my mate ( the one how tride it on) thinks its all my falt but the fact is my bff dousent whant to be a lez how do i tell her plz plz i nead some help
chellyvamps 8 months ago
dear buck/anyone, i have a rlly close guy friend that i date on and off but we made a promise to stop messing with each others heads and just be friends until we know for sure wether or not we should be together in order to keep our amazing friendship in tact, but lately he has been dating a girl who is rlly nice and beautiful and great but i get so jealous! he trys to come to me for advice but it is so hard for me to be positive in trying to help him but i want to be supportive- plz thumb up
KUTExKATIExMxCxZxRA6 8 months ago
@KUTExKATIExMxCxZxRA6
i know its hard but just try. do you realy whant to rune your fiend ship with him. if you whant go and tell him how you fell but dount go and pull some pranks on her and say it was him i did that and now he thinks im not his type so stay gd friends and just tell him that you think that you still have fellings there but whaight till after they brake up to keep your friend ship and if you cear about him you can let him go
chellyvamps 8 months ago
Dear Buck,
I'm 18 and have just moved country, so my boyfriend of a year and I have decided to do long distance. There is a 17hour time difference, do you have any advice as to how to make it work and deal with the separation?
Love, Giz
Gizzo93 8 months ago
dear buck or anyone,
i'm 14 and going to be a sophomore. at the beginning of freshman year i fell for an older guy (i know it was a mistake) and even though he acted like he really cared about me i know it was all lies because when we had a thing he did with 3 other girls. i know that i should be getting over him but its so hard. i still find myself thinking about him and i really wish that i had help getting over it. please help.
brigidjohanna 8 months ago
dear buck or anyone that can help,
about 9 months ago i fell for a guy and he really hurt me. i try to get over it but i still end up thinking about him everyday. i've been depressed since things ended and i hate being the girl who is sad because of a guy but i just cant take it anymore. please help.
love your show,
brigid
brigidjohanna 8 months ago
Dear Buck,
PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE help me. My mom has gone through a lot this past 2 years, losing her mother, divorcing my father, and a few months ago, breaking up with her boyfriend. She's recently started smoking.At first it was just maybe one a day but now she has 4-5 a day. I'm scared about her health and have tried to tell her that I'm worried and want her to stop, but I'm only 14 and have pretty much no influence. (She tells me to get off her back)
Please Help,
Love,
Kathryn
DazzleMe456 8 months ago
@DazzleMe456 tell her that it's effecting you. Even though your young, your still aloud to have an opinion. When I was younger, like 10-11, my mom smoked, and I didn't understand it. I used to get so, so, sosososoosos mad at her. I wouldn't talk to her for days, and I would steal her ciggarettes and throw them out. She would get mad, but I didn't care. She stopped after I "pushed it to the limit" and she told me years later that I was the reason she stopped smoking. She could tell it upset me ..
onemoment2live 8 months ago
@DazzleMe456 If I can stop my mother from smoking at age 10, then you can to...at age 14. If she tells you to "get off her back", don't take that. TELL HER how you feel, cause if you don't it wont make a difference. I know how you feel girl, I really do. Your not alone. She's clearly going through a hard time, but she's not handling it very well it seems. YOu should subtly find ways to encourage her to find OTHER, more HEALTHY ways to deal with the stress, because smoking is a way of bottling..
onemoment2live 8 months ago
@DazzleMe456 up feelings. People do it when their stressed. She should maybe see a therapist? Haha, sorry I'm saying too much. :) It's going to be fine I promise, just make sure you push her to the point where she REALLY understands how you feel. You're not alone sweetie, xoxo s
onemoment2live 8 months ago
Dear Buck,
i love my dad with all my heart and he is a really good person. but he drinks alot and starts to scream and argue with my mother and it's not pretty. i try to tell him that he has a problem and he is ruining his body and our homelife but he denies that he has a problem. i don't want him to die but i don't know wat to do anymore. please help me!
FatCat110022 8 months ago
To Buck and others.
I have a best friend who is 16 and she told me a couple of days ago that she is bi. I am totally okay with it, and we are all good. But we are on Tumblr and she found this friend that has helped her come out to me and only me. Now she thinks she likes this Tumblr girl who lives in Louisiana but doesnt know what to do or if for sure she likes her back. Is there anything I can tell her to not feel embarrassed and give her advice on what to do?
TheLaurenJC 8 months ago
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Dear Buck,
My good friend just passed away yesterday and it is the first time I have ever lost someone close to me. He went into a coma last week, but doctors don't know why and then yesterday the doctor said he wouldn't make it and he passed away. I have no idea how to deal with this. He was only 17 years old and next year would have been his senior year and I just can not get over the fact that he will never experience adulthood or anything else. I dont know what to do
RIP Shane Michael
picklesandshoelaces 8 months ago
Dear Buck,
I have a best guy friend- we're 12. He claims he's in love with our other girl best friend- it's not mutual. My guy friend is into girls, but he acts very feminine, so boys at school call him gay. Because of this and the unmutual feelings, he's cutting. No blood as far as we know, but still scarring. He randomly told our best friend he's in love with her the other night. He's like a brother to us both, and she and I don't know what to do. PLEASE rate up so Buck can see.
Love, Katie
teenceleb101 8 months ago 56
@teenceleb101 you're 12... Neither of you know love.
rabitshadow 8 months ago
@rabitshadow I know. I'm not in love, and he's not either, he just thinks he is. Thanks, though, for all your help. Except, he's still cutting, and I still don't know what to do.
teenceleb101 8 months ago 2
@teenceleb101 ITS JUST A GIRL HE WILL MEET MORE GIRLS THAT HE WILL LIKE MORE EVENTUALLY HE WILL STOP CUTTING AND I VE COMMENTED ON A LOT OF THESE AND JUST TO LET HIM KNOW YOU CARE WILL BE COMFORTING HOPE IVE HELPED
50bribric 8 months ago
@50bribric Thanks for the positive attitude =D You did.
teenceleb101 8 months ago
@teenceleb101 PLEASE talk to someone. Your so young and you have no control over this situation-your being put in a serious but awkward situation. Please talk to your parents or a counceler or ANYONE. This is really serious and needs to be adressed. xoxo GOOD LUCK
onemoment2live 8 months ago
@lolcomedykidz910 so youre saying you were a night owl then you werent now you are again? can you rephrase the question cause im not sure thats the right one you should be asking. i do know this question is on my turf, cause i am an insomniac due to technology.
EmoAngie85 8 months ago
@ifeellikebeinggood theyre douches. they shouldve given you an indication to learn theyre language. if anything they shouldve helped you. theyre being stereotypical of americans. *cyber hugs* the only thing left is to wallow and get a good cry and just move on. say whatever and move on. and start learning the language, too. prove those bastards wrong! get angry and prove them wrong!
EmoAngie85 8 months ago
1. redheads are damn sexy. ive been lower than you feel and the best thing to do is get a semi-social hobby. mine became cosplaying & marching band. you pull yourself out of misery by making friends and keeping your mind occupied w/something else
2. dont tell parents and DONT tell police tell HER how you FEEL. its easier to have conversations with an emotional base rather than logical
3. your first love never or rarely works out.physical scars are permanent & every time you look you feel regret
EmoAngie85 8 months ago
Dear buck,
I'm a bi male teen, I was at a gay pride parade, and i made out with three older men, I was intoxicated. I have a girlfriend, we have a language barrier, yet she forgave me.
This isn't a question, I just wanted to say I'm a dirtbag that was given a second chance, and I'm going to take it, I love this girl more than everything. Everyone, you don't always get second chances, but when you do, take them, because you almost never get a third, nor deserve it. I love you all
Whattchamacallit 8 months ago
Dear Buck
i am 16 and i think i have an OCD, i took an online test and it told me i had one, whenever something is uneven (especially my mattress) i have no idea why but it sends me into extreme panic attcks and i start hyperventalating and freaking out really badly, my freak outs last between 30 minutes to and hour i want to tell my parents but im pretty sure my mother won't want to hear it because she won't accept my dyspraxia either
im really need help but i don't know who to talk to.
ouffable1 8 months ago
Dear Buck/ Whomever, I'm engaged to this guy whom I love dearly, but were extremely different and I'm having major second thoughts, the problem is I'm only 18 and I don't have anywhere to go b/c I live with him and I don't put it past him to kick me out. I'm going in to my second year of college and going to live in the dorms. Should I just break it off and try and find somewhere else to go when the semester ends, or try and make it work we have been together for 3 years.
Scene10101 8 months ago
@xojonathan99 yea
silliouette 8 months ago
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taytayharper 8 months ago
Dear Buck,
I'm almost 19, and a few days ago I found out that I'm adopted. My parents didn't tell me, I found my adoption papers. I confronted them and they were honest with me and told me the entire story. They got very emotional, but I barely cried. I feel no different and I have no urge to find my real parents. My cousin's husband was adopted and when he found out he was an emotional wreck, yet I feel nothing. Is there something wrong with me? :/
-Monica
mgeorge92 8 months ago
@mgeorge92 there is absolutely nothing wrong with you. you have reacted well and calmly and it shows that you love your parents and that they have looked after you very well. good luck with everything, be happy :) x -cyber hugs-
KidsFromYesterday101 8 months ago
@mgeorge92 i dont think so. my grandpa just died and i couldnt care less. your cousins husband and you are two totally different people with different emotions. if i found out i was adopted, i would think the same as you. i wouldnt care and i'd wonder why i wouldnt. your adoptive parents gave you the love your real parents werent able to. they treated you well and cared for like their own flesh and blood. so, in the end, you should be happy and make them happy, too.
EmoAngie85 8 months ago
dear buck or anyone,
my close frind was a foster child for 3 years, because of her parnets drug and alcohol addiction. she lives with her aunt and uncle, & latley she feels like her aunt has been verbaly abuseing her, she feels like crap when she does anything wrong, she has low self estem, she used to cut. she has been hurting over it. she has been literly been freaking out, she comes to me pouring out her feelings, and cries and cries. i dont know what to do. pleasse helpppp.
tanglepelt54 8 months ago
dear buck or anyone...
my close friend is going through a very hard time right now, as 4 year old child she was sexually abused, & now she is 16 now. she just figured out that when she was as a child she was molested and she recived a STD at the age of 5,she doesnt remember who did it. she just figured this out recintly. she is very lost, scared and she doesnt now how she feels.she is a serious realtionship witha great guy, i dont want her to get hurt.. shes been thro alot of shit. please help
tanglepelt54 8 months ago
@ifeellikebeinggood At many communities there are courses where you can learn the language as a foreigner. I know it's hard and time consuming to learn a language, but it's really worth it, when you can understand everyone, do things by yourself, just simply being able to ask for the way or the time.
What do your parents do to learn the lang.? Maybe they can help you.
And don't be embarrassed to speak, b/c you could say something wrong, you learn best while trying! Good Luck!
TheSweetCo 8 months ago
Dear Buck,
I'm going into 10th grade next year and I am gay. I recently came out to one of my closest friends but no one else knows. I feel lonely and want a boyfriend but don't know any other gay people. There is this one guy who goes to another school that has told someone that he would date me if I wanted. I don't know him but should I try to meet him? I don't know if he's really my type so I don't know if I should just wait for someone else. I love you and your channel!
Thanks, E
hhhhtttthhhhrtttt 8 months ago