I Need Overstanding On This Type Of Gay Relationship

[DaOrigTruthSeeker]

Yo dude....you look just like Muhammad Ali when he was young. Go check it out for yourself if this is your first time hearing that. The only thing different is the dreads...other then that yall could go for twins.

[aruallauraarual]

But later on i couldnt be with any men, because every touch brought back memories. So at that point i didnt look at men anymore and paid more attention to butch girls. I thought i must be gay, but i never acted on anything. I know now that im definitly straight and all i want is a strong man beside me. I think a lot of women may have gone through similar experiences, that make them attracted to girls.

[aruallauraarual]

I have been thinking the same thing haha! I have nothing against gays, everyone should do what they want to. I actually had a time when i thought i was attracted to masculine women. I had been trhough childabuse, so i didnt trust men. In the beginning i was (onconscious) more attracted to guys that didnt look anything like my abuser, so they were blakc/darker types.

[1911beauty]

i ask these questions all the time. but Im convinced that its human crazy lol

[ramencrip]

FROM A TRANSEXUAL LOVER'S POINT OF VIEW, A TRANSEXUAL IS "SUPR WOMAN". THEY DO NOT SEE TRANSEXUALS AS MEN AT ALL. THEY ARE NOT SEXUALLY ATTRACTED TO MEN AT ALL YET ENJOY A PENIS.

BEING IN JAIL AND AROUND THUG OR STREET LIFE, MEN THAT DATE TRANSEXUALS DO NOT LIKE BEING CALLED HOMOSEXUALS. IN FACT THEY ARE VERY VIOLENT OR SOCIALLY TURNED OF BY GAY MEN.

THEY ARE SIMPLY STRAIGHT MEN THAT LIKE PENIS. NOT MEN

[ramencrip]

WELL MOST MEN THAT DATE TRANSEXUALS ARE STRAIGHT AND DO NOT CALL THEMSELVES GAY AT ALL AND INDEED STILL ARE SEXUALLY ATTRACTED TO WOMEN........

QUESTION ANSWERD!

[Maevaprod]

To me this is simple : - there's people with pussy called women - there's people with penis called men - masculinity is not necessarily about men - feminity is not necessarily about women and - i'm a girl - i like pussy - i like masculinity (didn't say "men" but masculinity) So I fuck masculine women ( butch, stud, AG). It doesn't make me less lesbian, they're not dudes. They're masculine women, period. To get this you just have to admit that "masculinity = only men" is a wrong idea...

[awesbtns]

I kind of understand this. I think we fall in love with socially constructed genders, not biological sexes (we could love a man with XX chromosomes), but why would a gay person choose another man who basically looks like a woman (basically a woman with XY chromosomes). I think androgyny is sometimes attractive personally, and I don't mind a bit girliness in my guys. I'm not sure if a guy with a mtf transgender is gay, I agree. Maybe bi? Idk!

[TominMissouri]

I don't understand it either, but I guess we are all attracted to different people and, thank God, there are all kinds of different people so what we can all form relationships.

My feeling is, if it works for them, cool, doesn;t bother me.

[chickwheat]

CUZ he's mascl n wants a man but 1 tht commplients his masculinity. Ppl like what they like, the 1 that are with transgenders have multi reasons of y they feel the way they do, but 1 of them that i know is becuz some men like the ideal of a man but know that a transgender will pass in public. So when u and yo homies are playing ball and she/he stops by u n ur crew wont treat him different or rag on him. sum mascl don't lik fem guys. Cuz if u cum 2 visit, u just thk it's his homie.

[Bettyboop5107]

i agree wit you

[MonaFalana]

...also for the transgendered they are mentally whatever sex they feel inside. Not necessarily gay rather gender displaced and they find a home in the gay community. most male to female trans i know usually go for straight men and like wise trans women usually go for straight women bc they dont see themselves as gay. i can see how confusing it may be but if we are less judgemental we open our mind to a better understanding. God bless.

[MonaFalana]

Not all lesbians want to be with butch lesbians and for some who do may not always see them as you do. Because a woman will always be a woman no matter how dominant she is. Some women are naturally dominant. It's not that they want to be a man its just they genetically more dominant that others. But there are some women who leave men to be with women for reasons you stated but no worries they'll soon find nothing changes bc you switch sides and they'll be back.

[aliceboyblue]

This is a continuation. It boils down to arousal, just because it looks like a boy or girl doesnt mean that they want a boy or girl, because they still know that its not. Some dont like the same as themselves. Say Im a hyper masc man i dont want another hyper masc male because at the end of the day Im going to want dominance over you. So thats wht I feel is why they date or having relationships that way. Its mental & arousal for some.Some might not want to get clocked also so they get with that

[aliceboyblue]

One can not help what they like. Just because a person likes the same sex doesnt mean that just because a, lets use this. a a woman liking a dyke, the dyke is more aggressive its not the fact that she looks like a boy or uses a strap they still have vags so they need stimulation. The reason they like that dyke might be because of their level of aggressive dominance & vice verse for a masc guy liking a tran or fem boy. They are gay no matter what. It comes down to an arousal point really.

[CommanderSix]

transexuallity is really weird, but don't blast gay people. Not all gay people see their partner as part of the opposite sex.

Some guys just like guys, some girls just like girls...

Some like both, like Bi's...

[ilikesexyness1000]

omg i never understood that either someone please explain

[ilikesexyness1000]

what the name of the song playing in the begining

[aliceboyblue]

@ilikesexyness1000 Its Deangelo

[morenogaucho19]

wow what a vastly pretentious video. maybe thats just what a person likes? who are you to tell them something is wrong? its people like you that make femms not feel ok with themselves... I mean why don't you just worry about yourself and let us who like fem guys like myself enjoy our femmy bois? whats it to you? we are each special in our own way

[BigDaddyMarkus]

It confuses me too. I am a masculine gayman and I too do not understand why some of us are attracted to transexuals or the femine form. Most gay men are attracted to masculine men. The drag or tranny scene is only a small portion of the gay community.

[uraine7626]

to cover up their sexual identity

[outofthisworldgurl]

It's Lenny Kravitz! lol

[ShLo16]

they may look like a woman or a man but the mind is still the same, its not just about the outside, a gay man may like the look of women but wants this guy who looks like a woman because he thinks like a gay man

[dmajorhiphopproducer]

Also I agree, it sucks to have DRAG out of someone an explanation for what the fuck is bothering them. Communication is sooo important in a relationship, gay or straight. Say it in anyway that can get the point across to communicate it. Also, when someone is trying to tell you something... please try to LISTEN without interjecting all the time and trying to argue. Most arguments are over dumb shit and misunderstandings.

[dmajorhiphopproducer]

Yeah i don't understand that either <.<

[natehicks100]

Yeah i dont get that either

[ocbmixxx]

kissssssssssss for you ;-)

[christiandior1947]

I'm SOOOOO glad somebody said this and had the honesty to talk about it. What's the point of being with a dude if he looks like a chick and visa-versa. I've got friends who are GAY and STRAIGHT who do stuff like that...Why be with a woman who looks like a dude and you're straight?

[LambdaLady07]

I agree

[sexymiyoki]

What the hell do you care? are u gay ? experience is the best way to understand it, eehmm. lol

[Chanelblactv]

Good question! I think you should educated your self on sexuality and the transgender community. Not because you see a transgender woman means she has a pussy most of them still have a penis and thats why men want them. Best of both roles. But for you to understand that you have to have a different approach a Anthropologic approach. No matter how much hormones a person go through genetics remain the same. I could go on and on Good luck...Research it

[08jakie]

oh and by the way ur not that cute thses gurls women who ever r just tripin but i will be making my hair makeup and outfit videos very sooon and oh i will answer ur question video to video so u have a nice day now ummmkay :)

[08jakie]

one iam a femine gay man now i dont chose to be girly its in my nature now also do ur reaserch and educate ur self before u just talk out of ur fuking neck also i luv my penis and i luv being girly sooo just educate ur self u sound fukin stupid

[mvk619]

are you gay

[angelluv2cum]

You are so handsome...I didnt hear anything you said in this video, couldnt stop watching you, Love u babes!!

[xoxtamisha]

Yea you make sense. First of all you look very handsome. Second of all, I too do not understand how some gay people think. I think they are just trying to make a statement.......not quite sure what statement that is but hey. I had a lesbian friend back in the day and she only liked dykes and only had her girlfriend use strap ons. I never understood that concept because you might as well be with a man. It is very confusing.

[rodog247]

It gives the person a chance to as close to that which they say they don't want, i.e., they have the advantage of both worlds. It's like going to see tigers at a zoo. Sure you don't want a tiger to get too close but you go for the thrill and the fantasy of knowing that you can be near it. Hope this helped

[italianman004]

Simple answer, It is all about self expression.  expressing how u feel as a gay man is important, some do it in a fem way..that is it. Personally I feel as you. I do respect diversity, so its all good with me. btw your one sexy blk man.

[jloot357]

its more than physical...duh

[MissCocojambo]

imma go with sexual fantasy!

[MissCocojambo]

I was actually at this thai party the other night, and two men showed up with two gorgeous ladies. Later on they started dancing and I realised most on the ladies bodies were fake, boobs, lips, hair etc. Found out they were "shemales" as u call them. And i couldnt help but wonder, why would u want a man that looks like a woman? Is it a fantasy? Were the two men gay, bi or just experimenting? hmmm

[STLsQueen]

PS wink wink do u have a lady in your life Mr. jahlocks?

[STLsQueen]

If you're gay man and you like the feminine or masculanity of a man why don't you try a dyke female.. Don't knock it til you try it

[STLsQueen]

OMG thank you.. I've been waiting for somebody to bring this to the light for hellas. I feel just the same and til this day can't understand it. If you've been hurt by many women and switched to men what makes you think A man won't do the same. You'll just understand how we feel as women goin throught it wit men. Its really no ones fault. I truely beleive that no one is really gay or homosexual. Through the teachings of the media, low self-esteem, past experiences,

[Timaya]

It's just about what you prefer. If some men are attracted to men that bring both masculinity and femininity. It just depends, but it's complicated lol and you won't find your answer by asking us on YouTube. But I respect you for not being an ass while asking.

-Qaadir

[zankou1991]

hmm well i kinda get wt ur saying im bi, and im like i like men to look like men and women to look like women otherwise it jsut doesnt work for me... but everyones different i suppose...

[TerrellMattress]

Yo I feel you 100%

[faLsefaLLaCy]

I agree with KyuubisBrother.

"Love is love."

I know it's hard for you to understand how a gay man would be attracted to a MTF trannie, but think of it in lesbian terms.

Do u have friends who are lesbians?

Have you noticed that Studs go with Femmes?

They are prominent, and is probably the norm amongst lesbians. Prolly the same way with gay men.

If u still feel puzzled by it, why not go up to a trannie & ask her? :)

We like what we like.

Some ppl may wonder why u like the things u do too.

[zjones1222]

Everyone is not like you nor are they ok when they fall into the pool of being straight. Thanks but no thanks for letting me know what I already know. How is it that you have noticed that gay men are dating transexuals and trangendered women the same sex.? Realize, transexuals have a hard time finding anyone to except them why can't they be loved too.

[Nasimang]

LOL, why do we wonder about othr ppl's sexuality tht much? As long as we understand & R @ peace wit our own sexuality, & we can find som1 to love who we can also get our freak on wit, then evrytin shuld b fine, right?

IT'S LIVE & LET LIVE.... I tink most of d tings tht go wrong in this world are down 2d fact tht we dont listen 2 the wisdom in tht old sayin. Intolerance about sexuality & other small beef between ppl grows out feuds/gang culture to wars. In the meantime there's bigger fish 2fry!

[Nasimang]

Hey dude, I understand your question but u have to understand that a lot of gay people have the same questions themself.

I think it's becos the biggest sex organ is THE BRAIN. So forget about physical attraction that is bullshit, doesn't exist! Whatever the brain decides is attractive will be attractive to that person.

And it wld be too simplistic to say that "str8" people have "str8 fwd" rules of attraction. Str8 ppl can have just as "deviant". Look at Feeders etc.

[darkenchanter4]

Such is the complexity of human sexuality. If you are a heterosexual then you will never understand the attractions and feelings of non-heterosexual identified men/women/transgenders.

There are some butch lesbians that date feminine/ transgender dudes.

[K7J7P2]

Well I understand what you're trying to say lol I just don't know how to explain it

[virgoice]

Every desire out there has a match no matter how outer space it may seem to you. The very fact that a gay man is attracted to a post-opt transgendered female is a complex way of revealing that sexuality is a social construct and ideas like yours on sexuality tends to imprison and cause a person the kind of confusion you have. You are so imprisoned (think Matrix the movie) that you are overly concerned wit hunderstanding something you have already condemned.

[oriac1212]

Ask yourself why you are obsessing over the happenings in someone else's bedroom and you might have the beginnings of answers to your queries.

[willcamick]

well some ppl like blue or red or green or pink it just what thay like

[awesbtns]

I guess my relationship has just grown beyond just the sexual, which is why I originally was interested in him, and I just love everything about him. Even things I once thought were unattractive I now can't imagine him without, and if he'd change I'd want to be with him and support him in doing whatever makes him happy. He'd better be pretty darn certain though cuz flip flopping is a waste of money and time, and is just stupid. =P. lol, I'm crazy.

[awesbtns]

I was in a relationship with a guy who wanted to be a girl, but he had tons of confidence issues and he wasn't even sure about it, and he lied to me and guilted me into doing stuff and was kindof selfish, and just really made me not like him. I wish he wouldn't have kept it a secret from me. But my boyfriend now I love tons and I've known him for longer, and I'm thinking that if he were to suddenly sincerely want to be a woman forever than I'd support him and stay, cuz I love him too much...

[KyuubisBrother]

I've never had a relationship with a man who is overtly effeminate or used to be female, but I have been with a somewhat feminine male. He still had a dick, he was just born more along the female lines. The only answer I have for your question is: Love is love. If you fall in love with a man who is transexual, then you'll most likely stay with said man as he gets a sex change done, or reversed if you're a woman.

[Flo3tiKEmOtiOnZ]

features, personality, its just overall beauty to me..i'm turned on by that. however i have been in some situations where i questioned myself like omg..why..if this is where i'm surpose to be then i wouldnt question it RITE..i can't say i'd never try it..i have been thinking about it..just to simply have the experience an know indefinatly

[Flo3tiKEmOtiOnZ]

whew...i have to say i'm a bit different.Yes i know that usually some women become lesbians because some guy treated them wrong but me myself..i never dated guys, had sex w/ guys or anything of that nature. i have had male friends, whom eventually tried to come on to me which completely turned me off and easily ended our friendships. One used to say that i'm confused because i never had that experience,however i never had a desire to and i'm completely attracted to feminine women

[Zenebatos]

I feel ya man. I do know where u comin frm. i would ask the same thing too. well, btm line, im a guy and im kinda attached to my guy and am happy abt it. so, cheers to the rest of the world!

[regemo]

well a man who is 100% gay can't be attracted to another man who has boobs and a surgically created vagina and looks like a woman. if there's any attraction then the man is obviously bisexual. maybe he's slightly bisexual, maybe he's moderately bisexual, or maybe he's completely bisexual where he's equally attracted to people of either gender. sexuality isn't cut and dry where you're either 100% straight or 100% gay, it's a lot more common to have gray area in between.

[MrSFC2000]

We do not love the vessel but the essence that is bourne therein, i.e the spirit/soul. The vessel (the body) is just a temporary container for the true essence/spirit/soul.

I don't know if you agree, write me a reply note let me see where your mind is at regarding my view. Thanks for listening man.

Keep doing what you do man!

Be Blessed

[MrSFC2000]

In the same vein just as humanity is diverse, human sexuality is as equally diverse if not more. The media only portrays certain select shades of the rainbow of homosexuality, being gay is not just one category to be boxed in. You may understand that because you are not gay, and that's ok.

Perhaps looking at it from the following perspective might help. God, Jah is LOVE, and he created us to love and be loved.

See Part 3

[MrSFC2000]

Jahlocks, I was recently introduced to your videos when I watched post about Gay Marriage, you are a very enlightened brother. I really appreciate that. I'm sending some info, my opinion on your question (hopefully you will find it helpful in overstanding your query). I am sure you would agree that Jah in His infinite wisdom and divine artistry created humanity in a most diverse manner.. i.e we are all unique.

See Part 2

[helen26686]

confuses me 2 u mek perfect sense 2 me y would sum1 want 2 b with the same sex but the 1 change there sex to be the opposite sex,carnt answer the question bout why a woman wanna get with another woman cuz im with my boyfriend an have a 9 month old son but my friend was with her man an shes now with a woman she sed she felt like she had enough of men cause the way they treat her an stuff but like i sed 2 here not all men r like that some are really really good i.e like my man n of course you xxx

[SinnamonS]

WHere have you been? I missed you !!!!!!