Once A Cheater, Always A Cheater?

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Once you cheat, your integrity is lost... forever! Speak for yourself, dude. Not all men are like you! Asshole...

[xoticLezPride]

In response to this video... Men aren't the only one's who cheat. I've met plenty of women who are too needy/promiscuous and have to have many lovers. That, to me, just equals to too many STD's. I wouldn't chance that.

[Scorpiusgrl]

I have never cheated because I respect people, but when I am cheated in any way, there is no way in life that I would ever again trust that person. Another thing, why is it that this cheaters repent later on and ask for forgiveness? I've always had this happened with my ex's. They have send me e-mails, call with private #'s and stalk the hell out of me for years. Damn, some people are strange.

[xoticLezPride]

@Scorpiusgrl And why do people feel the need to constantly cheat but REFUSE to let their lover/spouse go? If I were the victim, I'd beat the living shit out of the cheater, regardless as to whether or not it will change them!

[Scorpiusgrl]

Don't you notice that people always come up with lame excuses like for example: males saying that they're are programmed to mate with has many females as possible and that they're more logical" bullshit"?Yeah, they use that scientific fact, to be excused ahaha, how intellectual of them. Then, women, when we cheat on them , we should say we naturally cheat because we are always changeable thus want a different man from time to time; illogical, emotional, and what other lame excuse?

[MrBw1982]

Always one....? That sounds brutal

[markanddana]

So basically, a woman/man has to be "perfect" for their spouse. If they fail to be perfect, their spouse will stray? So unrealistic.

[Famfriass]

@markanddana It's not about being "perfect".....I can understand cheating in certain instances, but if you have a great spouse that is faithful to you and doing everything they can to keep the peace, happiness, love and honor in the relationship and you are out cheating---I don't agree with that and that type of cheater shouldn't be married. It's just that simple...forget this whole "I'm human" crap...you can be human and stay single if that's the case.

[MegaLadylove2012]

Yeah I agree too..the guy is a tool but we gotta admit at least he kept it real..truth is all men cheat, thats the realistic part of relationship that most of us knw but dnt wanna accept. Men r like wild animals chasin after the nxt best thing..or wat they think r the nxt best..however, if ya're lucky enough to find a guy that commit to ya more "emotionallly" than "physically" than at least be thankful that ya migt ve a sincere relationship..other thst dat..all men cheat there's no exception.

[FoydlBobey]

(Once a cheater ALWAYS a cheater!) I also disagree with that woman. There may be rare cases where a cheating man changes, but more than most NEVER do stop cheating. All of the guys I have dated have cheated on wives and girlfriends. There is one who has been a cheater since he was a young teenager. He has had FOUR wives, cheated on them ALL, had children outside of his marriages, etc. I think if a woman cheats, she's not serious about her boyfriend and most of the time, she will ADMIT that!

[ACTORoWRITER]

@FoydlBobey

100% Agreed, if a girl cheats, she's NOT serious about the guy.

Very refreshing to hear that from a girl.

[Knowyourroots1]

@FoydlBobey So? why does the reason for cheating matter? Cheating is cheating, regardless of gender or cause. Women cheat just as much as men do. It's like you are using "isn't serious about the guy" as an excuse So you mean that the man would be serious about his girlfriend which he is cheating on? lol at you.

[TracingPeeps]

what a tool. I think there was a douche like this in Donnie Darko... Chris Cunningham?

[anaihinds]

thank god give me hope=)

[BruceWayneSteeze]

Wow smfh

[es187eddie]

Matt is right the other two r wrong.

[u3of52]

As mba2ceo said - They do cause they can. Most cheaters never ever admit it. 90% of the time, a partner will never know they were cheated on. Cheaters are darn good at keeping it to themselves. According to the Daily Mail UK, more women cheat then men and women are better at lying about it. I didn't mean to hurt you means - You wasn't supposed to find out. I made a mistake means - I didn't do intentionally, I don't know right from wrong and I don't have a brain. When cheated on - Leave.

[n8daboss]

prewired!? that's just like saying all white people can't dance....

[Roselelly]

@n8daboss For realz!!! 

[mba2ceo]

Cheaters cheat because they can !!!

Just because they can.

[007ladylane]

This guy is a tool too

[samuel45]

I like being a leopard 

[calebbasped]

true! I AGREE WITH THE MAN! WE ARE pre wired! but we have the ON OFF button and its up to us to control it

[CookieRaper]

I really don't believe the whole once a cheater always a cheater thing. People can change. It's called TIME.

[daboys3890]

@CookieRaper i strongly believe in the once a cheater always a cheater. people can not change their personality. a personality is who someone is as a whole. so how exactly could you change that? i dont believe someone can change, they can keep themselves out of the situations to cheat, but put in a situation where you could they would and i strongly believe that

[Tokidoki4Me]

That Guy is just looking for a justifiable reason that he cheated. I know plenty of good men that aren't prehistoric pigs.

[Annazayla]

I don't believe that men are "pre-wired" to cheat.....when a man is in love with a woman, see how fast that notion goes out the door.......lol...lol.

[Annazayla]

I don't believe that "once a cheater always a cheater" honestly...ANY AND EVERYONE can cheat....depending on the situation. The most holiest of holy can cheat, if they choose too.

[UnchangeableBird]

What's wrong with treating? Treating is good for eberyone.

[hookah601]

Matt knew exactly what he was talking about sooooo true

[xIceychillx]

lulz at doods eyes at 4:12 

[Beng6]

What, did he cheat on her with a dude? seems like a raging homo.

[myemaildw]

I cheat because I can. Simple as life

[Tokidoki4Me]

@myemaildw are you serious? your a dirty bird....and you're going to get cheated on. Simple as "what goes around comes around"

[dantelandas125]

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[woodyfly]

And FYI people, it's almost impossible to detect a cheater in all honesty. I am as honest as you can be, I keep it real and honest 24/7. I'm responsible and I do what I said I'll do, I don't remember the last time I told a straight up lie.... but that doesn't make me a faithful person.

No matter how much I want to be faithful to my gf, It's so tempting to want more from other girls. It's IMPOSSIBLE to not be tempted but it's POSSIBLE to control your actions.

[damonwarlick]

@woodyfly I know for a fact that when I personally had the temptation to cheat.. I later realized that it wasn't because I was a guy completely it turned out that I was with the wrong woman and always knew this in the back of my mind... I met someone else and of course things would catch my eye but it wouldn't last more than a second or two.. I think finding someone you really really respect and love has alot to do with it.. but wonder still if long period of time would change that?.

[woodyfly]

My theory is that we are still very much evolving. Monogamy is perhaps a rather new concept for us humans considering the fact that we have been here for millions of years.

If we were programmed to be polygamous, then why do we get jealous of our partners? If nature truly wanted us to be polygamous, we shouldn't able to feel these things. Other animals can fuck whoever they want because they don't have emotions.

Humans were given emotions for a good reason.

[daksoum2007]

i always cheat when i m in relationship.mybe i get marry i ll stop that.i like to smell a different pussy .

[OmegaDude22]

Jesus christ, the second the guy starts talking about why men aren't wired for monogamy (NEITHER ARE WOMEN) the host shuts him up :/

[Rensune]

Look at the reproductive systems. Women release One egg (Rarely more than one) a month, from puberty to menopause. Men, from puberty to DEATH, can release millions of sperm a day. Men are designed to be with more than one woman. This does not mean that infidelity must result, but unless there's polygamy, you end up with this disgusting serial monogamy.

[jpayne68177]

@Rensune

You're a nasty individual that is void of love. In other words, you are a sociopath. It's sad that you will never experience the greatest part of life.

[artzy83]

Ok? What about the woman she is forced to look at her husband for the rest of her life! It goes both ways. Every dude I been with I cheated on them because they were doing the same thing to me. They were not serious about the relationship why should I be? To be left alone and hurt? I just moved on to the next one when they got mad! lol What's good for the goose is good for the gander!!!!!!!!

[damonwarlick]

@artzy83 that is just messed up to me.. If you knew for a fact they weren't taking it serious and were in fact cheating why would you stay with them and then cheat too? why wouldn't you just leave them? Sad that every dude you've been with didn't really like you? I feel bad for ya, Hope you get to experience something better one day!

[artzy83]

@damonwarlick If I knew these dudes were not taking me seriously I wouldn't have gotten involved with them. I hope one day I find a real man too thanks!

[damonwarlick]

@artzy83 oh ok well I thought you said you knew they werent' takin ya seriously so you just cheated on them, and basically stayed with em.. I guess I was confused. I hope you do to

[kyleshaks]

man is a sexual being nuff said, just fuck lots girls.

[msalicat1]

Why is she asking a woman why a man cheats? Listen to men and their reasons for cheating on their significant other. We should stop listening to other women talk about why men might cheat. How patronizing is this?!

[Bumblybee256]

@msalicat1 and these men could be trusted to tell the truth? lol

[msalicat1]

@Bumblybee256 I know. lol!

[leoca]

@msalicat1 LOL its like asking the British how to speak Chinese. Unless she has nasty smelling moist balls in between her legs, she knows nothing about the foolishness of men.

[damonwarlick]

@msalicat1 yeah seems like the host cuts him off and even seems to act as if his explanation was not what she wanted to hear... stupid lady lol

[LozzaMayhem09]

my boyfriend as never cheated on his ex's before, probs cuz im his 1st proper relationship i guess i dno and he cheated on me and i took him back, christ knows why tbh cuz im heartbroken and hate him for what he did. im afraid he will cheat again but i dont want to belive it :(

[damonwarlick]

@LozzaMayhem09 how do you know he never cheated on his ex's.....cause he told you? LOL did he also tell you he wouldn't cheat on you?

[LozzaMayhem09]

@damonwarlick i know all his ex's and they would have told me if he had cheated on them to plus they both went to my the same skwl as us and i would have heard about it so he never cheated on his ex's and he a completely diffo person now and i know he would never cheat again cuz of how much he as changed and suffered from it himself

[damonwarlick]

@LozzaMayhem09  oh ok I understand

[1986ASura]

And this is the reason I will always remain single. If your not ready to be settled with one person, don't get involved in the first place.

[cymbeli]

really dumb people honestly.

[abadaheem]

ccheating is good.

relax the penis... lol jk

[cupcakemuffinS2]

..this is sad..

[trevanismith]

if you have deep pockets you can cheat...have an air tight prenup and the woman will stay.

that guy sounds like he has sex with men.

[aneal138]

my ex boyfriend cheated on 2 girlfriends before me, cheated on me about 3 times and cheated on his current girlfriend that took him back and he cheated again. My best friends boyfriend too, and so many other stories from friends state once a cheater, always a cheater. Once a man tastes blood & the feeling of control over the other &know that they can manipulate, they will ALWAYS do it. They may think they're sorry or they changed, but it's an addiction, it's the feeling. they get when they do it

[annielane79]

It is an addiction.. a sex addiction. It's not uncommon, just very rarely admitted. The internet and porn does NOT help. However, due to celebrities like Tiger Woods being exposed, lets pray the people who are these addicts (both men and women).. will come out and not continue to expose their partners to STD,s and emotional pain!

[lovextina]

I completely agree. I was with my ex on and off for 2 years, why? He would cheat and I tookd him back about 7 times fuck and he also had a history of cheating on all his other girlfriends before me. Now he is engaged to this chick and they are moving in together and I feel really bad for her man. She is with someone totally worthless and a pathetic excuse for a man.

[damonwarlick]

@lovextina  Well he must be something special cause you took him back after 7 times..WTF? . lol I'm kinda feelin bad for you...

[damonwarlick]

@lovextina Well glad it ended up the way it did then.. Sorry about that hope your doin great

[lovextina]

@damonwarlick I really am thanks. :) I seen my ex a couple days ago, and I seriously don't know what I saw in him lol.

[damonwarlick]

@lovextina good.. wish I could say that about mine!!

[yitzchak13]

She talks like she's smug.

She also acts like she knows the way "men think". I bet she used to be a man.

[ParniValjak25]

Fucking liberals. I have never cheated on a woman and for this dickhead liberal to imply all men are the same is bullshit.

Fuck you all, liberal pieces of shit.

[linkin233]

you sound like fox news xD

[damonwarlick]

@ParniValjak25 how do you make this about politics.. crazy ass republicans are almost all idiots... The few half smart ones I've personally met just so happen to be very religious... But aren't smart enough to realize that republican leaders adopted alot of christian views as a smart way to get votes.. Be independent and make a decision on what's best for the country AT THE TIME... I believe there has to be some balance.. Seems like repubs TODAY are just trying to use cheap gimmicks

[vwgolf1991]

The guy in the purple shirt cheated on his wife, and by wife, I believe he means "boyfriend"...he does make some great points tho. Under 30, why would u want to get married, or even have a steady gf?

[sicilianosono]

So why did god created a penis? not only to make another human. no.. to stick it in with pleasure in woman their fishhole and do it again because its cool and nice.

In my eyes cheating is a normal thing if u dont abuse ur partner or ur ok ok i shut up know pff

[vence009]

i was a cheater but i never cheated again after i cheated my "gf". What a lie.

[sheepcat1013]

If you are a cheater, you better have a big fat pocket. I don't mind to drain some momentary compensation out of the cheater. It would make my day~ Just play with the cheater's guilt. It's fun to do that. Trust me! Cheat all you want! hahahhahah

[scorpiowolfman9]

Because men have a penis this body part drives mens desires and are difficult to control, look at advertisments for men look at the billion dollar porn industry,

but why do woman screw over other woman?

[lolookphor]

lol

[scorpiowolfman9]

why do woman give up there pussy to other womans men?

[narutorandomness457]

4:42 how did they bow there head a t there same time

[WushuSundari]

this is so annoying, yes, the women have a good viewpoint of their own but they are basically disregarding what the guy is saying and telling each other what men feel about relationships!!! wth! This is exactly why I don't stay friends with very many women.

[mblasko]

my gaydar tells me the guy in the blue shirt is a homo.

[ihaterichppl]

Hahahaha I love the reaction

Man: "This is how it is."

Woman: "Well I don't like the way that makes me feel so I'm going to deny it."

;-) This is why I hate liberals

[damonwarlick]

@ihaterichppl lol it's not cause she's a liberal it's because she's an idiot ...dumbass

Do you now how many completely irrational right wingers I've talked to before? you know ones that would like to deny peoples rights just because they don't like how that makes them feel...about their own christian religion?

[falconflyer34]

1:42. The stupid woman doing the interview acts surprised when the guy tells her men don't like the idea of being with one woman their whole life. NEWS FLASH!!!!!

[ncfwhitetigress]

What are you talking about? They were arguing the same case.

[falconflyer34]

The interviewer wasn't arguing any case. She's an interviewer which means she justs asks the questions. The 2 guests are arguing their case. And as I stated in my previous post, at 1:42 she CLEARLY is acting surprised by his comment., both verbally and with her body language (reaching her hand out toward him). I do think she already knew this though, and is doing it for dramatics. Next!

[ncfwhitetigress]

Oh, I'm sorry, I thought you were talking about the other woman on the stage. Never mind.

[falconflyer34]

I thought maybe you were. No problem.

[matreyia]

I have never cheated, but sure had fantasies. It's just natural biological urges. What differentiates u from an animal is whether u act on those primal urges or not. Animals have little to no ability for secondary/tertiary thought processes such as honor, morality, ethics. Their survival depends on efficient adherence to the primal thought processes like, reproduction, hunting etc. So I think to cheat is depedent upon ur level absorption of morality & ethics. & yes we are animals technically.

[damonwarlick]

@matreyia This makes the most sense of anything I've seen here

[weirdgrl99]

i agree with that lady.. not with the man..

[ihaterichppl]

Hate to break it to you, weirdgrl99, but the guy is 100% right, but then again I've noticed most women deny truths about them

Want proof. Men and women being friends ;-) Women do it for the friendship, men do it for the potential sex.

[weirdgrl99]

cant people keep that in their pants? or wives/husbands sleep with your wives/husbands! hellooo

[BinkieMcFartnuggets]

Taking risks is part of life. The only things on Earth that don't take risks are plants.

[falconflyer34]

and refrigerators.

[ncfwhitetigress]

by "things" i think he meant "organisms"

[falconflyer34]

by typing "refrigerators", i think I was using a technique known as "sarcasm"

[fjtrkdjffg]

@BinkieMcFartnuggets haha yeah they do... risks of being walked over or cut or smashed.

[hy71194]

wat

[Flamesofame]

Its a ridged game that the fools play.

[lopezpisces25]

Not all guys are like this ....

[tmama57]

but too many are...........

[lopezpisces25]

I agree , thats why you have to find the Diamond in the rut ...the only guide that can get you their is a higher power than us mines is (jesus) another thing we should not have men complete us we should be complete so being single by choice is the way till your Lover Diamond come along = )

[lopezpisces25]

ummm not all guys are animals..

[MoreMoneyMoreHunny]

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