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  • Its you kinda people I will kill when I get the chance...

  • FUCK gay marriage and FUCK gay all people fucking sack ass faggets

    you people can say whatever the fuck you want to im not for it

    and the bible is not wrong fagget

  • @05fordgtx1 Next time, come up with a valid argument instead of cussing like a child who is denied what he wants.

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  • if you didn't like what i say don't read it fagget

    oh being denied what he wants. thats a good one

  • @05fordgtx1 The mere fact that you only further proved my point was a good one. Can you not see the hypocrisy in your own statement. "if you didn't like what i say don't read it FAGGET". And if you didn't like what I said what should YOU not be doing? Hypocritical homophobic child.

  • Thanks for the comment. Just for the record... the devil made you gay! God made you a man! That's the truth! The devil wants your ass more than anything else! Run baby run!

  • Thanks for the comment. Just for the record... the devil made you gay!  God made you a man!

  • no offence to the usa (i love it there)but its one of the only countries in the world that doesnt accept gay marriage

  • People get over it gays have every right to get married, who are you to say that one HUMAN BEING cant show their love for another HUMAN BEING!! and its called seperation of church and state, seriously there is more than one religion in this country and sorry but you cant prove that yours is right! Stay out of the lives of others, their love isn't hurting you!

  • @NatalieBarsness marriage belongs to church, / christian religion. no body can prove a religion thats why its called faith. gays have there rights to show love to one another. and they have rights to.. cilvil rights.. its a amazing country we are in and im so glad we are free.. but somethings are to free. gays are not getting married because that belongs to a religion. we know that not everyone believes but still. it belongs to christ. they are not in chains, they roam free. marriage. no.

  • @ilovepdub As long as being married bestows certain people with perks in modern society it is NOT a solely religious matter and anyone trying to use that as an argument is an idiot.

  • @Nizzemancer no the ppl that wont listen to us and admit the fact are the ones that are idits because its the simple fact that its a religious thing and its just something they and their''supporters'' have to face.. i dont care what modern society or perks say about it..

  • @ilovepdub It is not a religious thing, you can do all kinds of religious rituals all you want in a church but unless you have the right paperwork you still wont be legally married (except in the eyes of your imaginary friend that don't exist) The church decided to hand the responsibility of marriage over to the state, that made it a general issue and not a religious one.

    Stop being so god damn stupid please, it's insulting to even listen to you when you argue like a 5 year old.

  • @Nizzemancer yea yea im not even wastin my time reading crap you say! its no point. if you dont get it, then be a fool, dont get it. but simple fact is, its a religious thing because it came from religion. its a bond when two are joined in christ. so why dont you and all these gays and this guy on the video,just shut the hell up and stop being stupid because its not going to happen and you know it. just like you know marriage is two joining in christ. you all know this! u dont have to!

  • @ilovepdub Classic christian ignorance...

  • @ilovepdub Then, Everyone who isn't a christian shouldn't get married? No your definition is wrong. Marriage is the union of two people who are in love with each other. The only time your definition is right is when you actually ARE a christian.

  • @1AndrewTheWolf no actually u r wrong because if u know what ya talking about marrage evolved from this religion. its the worl who messed that all up.. and like i said marriage is a sacret bond between woman and man. face the fact. im not sayin non christian(fools) cant get married, all im saying is this is wrong and stating what marriage is.

  • @ilovepdub Marriage predates reliable history, it was already here before Christianity came along. All Christians did was carve a new definition based on their beliefs. Well guess what honey, your definition is a sub group. Christians didn't start marriage.

  • Isaiah 65! Leviticus 20!

    Genesis 18 Sodom is destroyed

    The same God that kept Jews alive, Kept Armenian alive and many others vicitims of genocide is the same God that destroyed Sodom.

    The union in God's eyes is separate from Civil Union.

    But 2 men and 2 women getting married will still teach children it's OK!

    Look at Matthew 18:6 When we approve as a whole then we teach it to children!

  • @hudna1 Your fucking fan fiction doesn't have any bearing in this discussion, please get the fuck out and take your bedtime stories with you, they aren't relevant in the slightest.

  • As a straight, generally conservative Christian, I must say, I completely agree with you (I say GENERALLY conservative because this is just about the only political issue that I have a liberal point of view on). Anyway, like you said, my church considers homosexuality a sin. Just like we consider worshiping another god, having premarital sex, and calling your little sister an annoying prick, and cussing sins. Are we gonna ban those things, too? Now, play nice, kids.

  • Come to Vermont guys!!!!!!!! <3 <3

  • I was gonna ask you to marry me till you said you were straight, dammit. Oh well. BTW, Jews have Marriage, Muslims, etc...Your heart is in the right place and I think I am in love with you except I am married (5 years now) to the Man of my dreams Geovany! It isn't legal or recognized by the Church, but we are never the less in out hearts. That is one thing the mother fuckers who hate us for something we have no control over or asked for, cannot take away from us.

  • gays - gayrriage

    straights -marriage

  • And human rights have nothing to do with it. May I remind all of you that gays and straights have the same exact rights.. We, straight people, may not marry a person of the same sex either

  • Accurately defined: it is the union of a man an a woman. It's not generally described as "two people" dumb sodomites go read some real literature

  • even though i disagree with the whole marriage thing, i agree with u that it is a union of two people....This should be made clear to people.....

  • i am a christian but i still think gays should be married. i mean think about it, why was america formed? for the freedom of ALL PEOPLE! now this has not been enforced very well. okay, we had African American as slaves, women had little rights and now gay do not have good rights in relationship terms. no offence to anyone. so it SHOULD BE ALOUD! and i am for sure straight.

  • Gays can get married in church here in Norway, so, thumbs up for my nation!

  • wow you ppl are mind blowing. the rights of one should not effect the rights of anougher. dose gay marriage affact you? and if it dose how dose it.

  • wake up dude

  • There is nothing wrong with being gay, everyone has rights, even if you are black, mexican, gay, straight, or even an animal.

  • Wow such wisdom, I see the now that the path of truth can only be obtained by bigotry and uninformed opinions without any regard of the people that are directly affected.

    What is your stance on sarcasm?

  • @xinoxs1 Gays do not have some "agenda" about making everybody gay, I am straight, I know several gay people and they have not tried to "convert" me to homosexuality, it is not a choice. They do leave straight people in peace, they simply want THEIR rights, you are not any less part of your religion if a gay couple gets married.

  • you do realize gays do not want everyone to be gay

  • @xinoxs1 I'll pray for you. I am ashamed that a fellow Christian could be so intolerant. I SUPPORT GAY MARRIAGE!

  • @SuperGrinningIdiot i will pray for you that you can support society rather than Gods will and biblical commands

  • A sinful government can indeed allow same sex marriage, but it is indeed not a marriage in God's eyes.

  • so islam will eradicate itself?

    great

  • "its cute, its funny"

  • thank you! Amen. I agree 100%

  • Yeah, it doesn't take all that crap to be gay. Gay means liking your same sex...these creeps on TV who are wearing make up and wigs at the protest are freaks.

    Gay people can act like normal people! People who are dressed in all that shit are just creeps.

  • wtf i'm a christian and i think gay marriage is ok =\ my uncle is gay and he's a christian

  • You can't be gay and a christian.

    Tell your uncle that if you are a christian you must turn away from past sins. If he keeps being gay having homosexual relationships then he is no christian.

  • gay people suck

  • well if gays are really gonna fight for this and really goin to be in a position where they are damned to hell than they can jus choose another place but not the church. if god dont allow it in his kingdom, he dont want it in his church

  • homosexuality isn't a sin in the bible homosexual sex is

  • It's not a matter off sex, honey. It's a matter off love.

  • love was created by God....didn't come from nowhere sweetheart.....

  • explain that please....

    lol

  • The only bible verse the christians is isaiah 45:6-7. I beg u to read it. What I dont get is why they think its ok to pick and choose which biblical laws to enact into present-day law.

  • i didnt say screw them i was trying to help and i got insoulted so i stoped im not a preacher, im just a person trying to give help but if they dont want help then you know im not going to stalk people on youtube.

  • lolatmarshall, ignoring your mind-numbing displays of stupidity, I honestly can't understand much of what you say. You need some remedial elementary education on proper spelling and grammar.

    And I'm not gay, but that doesn't mean I can't have empathy for people who are. It's part of being a decent human being, something that doesn't seem to concern most people.

  • Gay people no more choose to be gay than anyone chooses who they fall in love with. If people could choose who they loved there would be no heartbreak.

  • you make so much sense it's almost scary

    :D

  • ouch

    I agree there are some people who really have no idea what they're talking about when they think they're gay, but the majority of gay people are actually gay (instead of being posers or severely misunderstood)

    and by the way, it's been scientifically proven that being gay is not a choice

  • that was for WolfShadow01, by the way

  • And bigots choose to be intolerant spiteful dickweeds and therefore deserve all the criticism and attacks that they get.

    Choice doesn't enter into the matter, but let's say it did. Hypothetically. That's an excuse for belittling, condemning and abusing people? Because they're attracted to someone with the same two chromosomes as them? Fuck you.

  • intolerant? how about unnatural? there is nothing natural about being gay, being gay wouldn't be so condemnable if it was just about a man having sex with another, however you make it into a lifestyle choice and it is a condemnable lifestlye

  • who are you to tell people how to live they're lifes? your nobody homosexuality is natural it's in animals it's genetic

  • i'm not telling people how to live their lives, and imm not as irrational as some homophoebic people who call gays gay fags etc. simply because they believe they might come on to them. Homosexuality is genetic? well how can gays pass on their gay genes, they cant! and you aligning gays with animals, rather than measuring them on a human standard, great place to start. I'm not nessecarily sayin all gays should stop, but that they shouldnt claim its not their choice nd for their not to be any more

  • um it is genetic and it's not passed on it's created like my sister and her boyfriend had nothing wrong with them and they have 2 kids 1 is near deaf and slow and the other is alergic to milk

    and yea we're both in nature animals are gay so are we and we can't stop being gay because it is genetic

    why would we choose to be gay when we are hated around the world descriminated

    tell me why? and you knw what trt force yourself to be gay for 1 day... force yourself to be attracted to the same sex

  • god is not a bigot you sinneer

  • He also isn't real you idiot.

  • he is real you sinner ,no wonder why your gay and beliving the devil.

  • we don't choose to be gay

    you choose to be gay for 1 day

    you need to get off by watching gay porn

    force yourself to be attracted to the same sex etc it can't be done

    and the bible is wrong and shouldn't be in the law

  • of course you choose to be gay, i refuse to belive that you are so weak willed that you can't conciously make a choice about who you sleep with, if gays weren't so blatant and made such an issue of things than they wouldnt get the same flak

  • of course we choose who to sleep with but we don't choose to be attracted to the same sex and we don't want to make anything an issue you religious nuts come and ban gay marriage and descriminate against us... you think homosexuality is just about sex it's about love and relationships

  • @QueenOfTheShlong if the bible is wrong then the sperm your dad ejaculated in your mom's vagina is wrong too fucking dumbass

  • @NarutoXras3ngan Not possesses no correlation toward the validity of the bible.

  • the last point about the 10 commandments...

    is ridiculously true. well said. Today's society, religion creates HATE. Soooo annoying

    Nothing against Christianity or the bible. They're just hypocrites...

  • All I know is that one of the reasons it's banned is because of all the lawsuits.

  • well from what you just said then god hates you to your a sinner just like us (even though the bible is false)

  • im not a fag oboination like gays are its in the bible and no i dont belive in the devil i worshop god jesus and jehova .gay= god hate becouse its a sin .they are trying to make people fill bad for them dont fall for it the devil lies those gays are lying they know they choose this life and they want you to go to hell with them.

    fucking fagots i cant stand them

  • you are more than a sinner than me god actually loves everyone even though i don't believe in him and we don't want people to feel sorry for us we want equality we want to be left alone and we don't choose this life we are born this way you bigot

  • " god does not love sin and you should learn to hate those sins allso "bible

  • dam straight

  • you can't do it

    and in all honesty it really hurts us

    when you say it's our choice

    what have we done to you really

    what do you gain if it was a choice

    and you prove it?

  • What do people gain when they say that homeless people are poor because they're lazy? Nothing, but it makes them feel better about themselves and they don't have to put forth an effort to help others.

    Nothing would be gained by them proving that homosexuality is a choice, but they'd be able to say "We don't have to treat them as equals."

  • but you do have to treat them equal wether it be a choice or not (even though it's not) the world needs equality so thats what you get out of this pleasure at other peoples misery you sick fuck

  • You misunderstand. I'm not homophobic, I support gay rights. And for the others, it isn't pleasure so much as apathy; they don't have to try to make a difference if they convince themselves that gays are immoral.

  • but gays aren't immoral

  • I know. I'm presenting the point of view of people who think homosexuality is evil.

  • aww so let me get this right

    your straight

    you support us and don't think we are wrong in anyway

  • Yes. Sorry for the misunderstanding, the internet makes communication difficult.

  • yea im sorry i was a dick i just ahte homophobes

  • i don't like them either, it's a stupid position to take

  • yea it's mostly just 12 year old closet kids or kids that have been brainwashed

  • dont try to speak for me i believe in gods words and being gay is a sin so why should i fill bad for any one who wants to sin ,what next you want people to sleep with animals and say its ok becouse they love each other thats a sin allso but it canb be ratanilised to sound good but its not good thats why i posted my comment to help people see this is wronge so they can get help .

  • ohh but i don't want to sin

    and i don't want you to feel bad for me

    ohh yea and learn how to spell

  • i know you donot want to sin that why i wrote my last comment so some one like you could read it and get help ,if you drop your attitude and see that i was being kind and helpful maby we would not be fighting ,and i should not fill sorry for anyone i dont want any one to fill sorry for me when im wrong.and im sorry i misstyped "cant"and ratinolise"the secound word allways mess me up but i am in school for spelling .

  • ok i'll hear you out...

    you think we are wrong?

  • yes .

  • yea well i don't wanna hear you i know what your gonna say and forget it

    leave gay people alone they don't wanna convert

    if you want people to listen to you then you need to drop your attitude to

  • ok i will ,im sorry i said fag that was uncalled for but with that i wish you joy and a happy safe life .i wish they did but i cant change a persons life or mind .:/

  • call me a fag all you want cause thats what i am but don't say we are wrong

    and you can change a persons life and mind however you can't change there dna structure

    i almost do believe in god because i hear so much of him i don't but still

    if your gonna change a persons mind change the mind of a racist and if your going to change a persons life then buy somthing to eat for the homless guy on the bench don't preach hate

  • dude if you really are gay if i could i would be with you every step of the way to make marriage legal for you.Hopefully some day people will open their eyes.

  • yea im not gay i don't think anyway im just stupid but i do think gays should be able to marry... i personally don't ever wanna get married but others should be able

  • I can't understand anything you're saying. Go back to elementary school and learn how to spell.

  • that was a lame insoult for no reson at all KatarnandKanos you can figure out what im saying its not that hard to do .

  • we didnt fuck up goverment and god was once the same thing like every thing before nuts like you started crying about shit the bible stated.

    so you non believers fucked up .

    and gays are gay i pry they never get married and god hates them .(yeah this was a mad ramble)ps i hate you gays and i hate gays.bye

  • it makes too much since

  • did anyone even go to that website?

    exactly. fucking useless putting this shite up here

  • u rock <3

  • yeah but it's more than gay people get in america

  • gay people in the UK are allowed to get married. see we don't always listen to the USA i mean if we did. . . well that's another comment for another video! BTW are health and police system would be better if we had the one you had but still never mind.

  • Gays aren't allowed to marry in the UK, but they can have 'civil partnerships'. It's still a case of "you're allowed in but you have to sit over there, in that 'special' area"

  • Ugh... another person who cuts up their videos like mad.. except this was so bad, he was missing the ends of some of his sentences.

    A little less style and a little more substance, plz.

  • This. Video. Was. Two. Years. Old.

    Respond to a more recent video plz.

  • DAD???!!! WTF! why u make video daddy?

    weird

  • Funny thing is that most religious fanatic overlook the tragedy a woman goes through after she finds out she is married to a man who really likes other men and not women. This subject is seldom discussed.

  • i dont agree with this video at all, because were i live there are a lot of gay couples that have gotten married in the laws of god. just because your gay doesn´t mean you enter this so called union when you get married by the church. there are a lot of churches that support gay marriage and think that it is okay, most of them christian. so i completely disagree with the video. 1000%

  • Understand this was two years ago. Laws have changed and certain beliefs have changed since then.

    You can disagree with it all you like, it's a fact that Christian marriages are between a man and a woman. Well, were, from what you're telling me. That's changed since 2006.

  • Yes. You're right. It's nice that people want to change the views of the church to be more adaptable to our.. civil society, but they're abandoning more and more scripture. They're cherry picking a text they claim is the word of god. This is a tad confusing (well.. not really..).

    They have to pick one or the other. If they're going to do away with more and more of the Bible to live comfortably in these progressive times, then why not throw the whole thing out and save us all the fuss?

  • well put

  • NEWSFLASH marriage is not just a Christian phenomenon - it's other religions which recognize marriage. Marriage being sanctioned by the state and not just the religion was done for a reason - legally one spouse has access to the other's assets, et al. It is therefore not just about religion.

    Simply put if gays pay taxes just like the heteros they should be able to marry just like the heteros.

  • If you dont agree with gay marriage, dont marry a guy. It doesn't affect you. Shut the fuck up and live your own pathetic life and quit trying to ruin other people's.

  • O.k this guy's useless. There is a simple answer to this long drawn out debate. In America we have a separation of church and state, the problem with marriage is that its a religious term that was made into a legal one, which is unconstitutional. So here's how you fix the problem you change all marriages under the law to civil unions and grant all civil unions equal rights under the law, since all men are created equal in this country and not just hetero's this fixes the problem end of story

  • I just love confronting the huge homophobia of anus's like this. Religious idiots so far still feel free to rant about ridiculous religion and thier superstitutions. Gay marriage for all.

  • you're an idiot. =(

  • This guy makes perfect sense.

  • wow he really had fun editting this huh??

  • ohhh hell no im bout to beat yo ass

  • That was completely uncalled for and wrong. You're acting immature - sex is an expression of the love between two people. Even if two men are in love, they can still have sex you prick. Making fun of and putting down how they have sex is just immature.

  • They changed it to give the impression to blindly patriotic Americans of the 50's that God was rooting for our country instead of Communist Russia. I love America and Communism doesn't work, but the notion that God is only on our side is just stupid.

  • oh and i forgot to mention, I have had many muslim friends, some from the former Yugoslavia who now live in Germany, I have even read the Koran. Also my son, a born again conservative christian currently has a muslim friend, and also one of jewish descent. Do you see how tolarant we are?

  • Yes, very tolerant. Except to gays.

  • This idea of having civil unions for gay people and marriages for straight people is like having a separate sink for blacks and whites. It's segregation, and that's not right. Gay people are not wild, crazy monsters that need to be kept in a special corner from the public where they are isolated from the "regular people", so why are they being treated that way?

  • You know, I actually never thought about it. You've opened my eyes a bit on the argument even though I've been pro on it from the beginning ^^.

  • Oh My God! Your the first person, other then myself, who has ever come up with this argument about marriage. It's a religious institution and the government should stay separate from religion, so no marriage laws, period!

    And good point about the Ten Commandments vs. The Bible Gay Ban.  FYI, the Old Testament does not ban lesbians, just gays. It isn't until the New Testament that all homosexuals are said to be kept out of God's "Kingdom".

  • Zealotry occurs in every religion, not to rag on you or defend Christianity, but in the spirit of fairness, you can't harp on Christians alone for zealotry.

  • Also, if marriage is supposedly "taken" by Christianity, then how can people joined outside the church, say in a courtroom or other secular way, be referred to as married? There's no difference between that and having a gay marriage outside the church, so why should it be called something different? I like UTnow's idea of referring to marriage in the church as a Christian Marriage. You still get to be special, and the non-Christians and homosexuals won't be offended. Everyone wins!

  • God speaks the truth without concern about who gets offended...homosexuality is a sin, God said it. No politcian and no activist will change that.

  • People like you scare me. Do you follow everything the Bible says? If you don't you're either a hypocrite or a sinner. Also, the Bible never says anything about homosexuality. It says that two men should not lie together. In addition, it doesn't matter if your God said it, because not everyone believes in or has to believe in your God. This is America, and we generally try to promote equality (at least on the surface).

  • My God is also your God, whether you choose to embrace His gift of life or not. Let me say this, if everyone on this earth lived according to the teachings of Jesus Christ there would be no crime. You can't deny that.

    What He says very much matters, and yes, I am a sinner. But in the end, the only thing that matters is the condition of your soul, and that of mine. That should scare you, not people like me. I know where I am going.

  • If people were capable of following Jesus' word, yes, there would be no crime. I'm not denying that. Of course, if everyone followed the teachings of Buddha, there would also be no crime. Once again, this is America, and not everyone believes in a Christian God, meaning that we can't make rules according to a specific religion. If there were a law that you had to stop and pray towards Mecca at certain times during the day or suffer punishment, would you be angry?

  • I have to tell you, the only "religion" not being discussed in schools is christianity, moslem, hindu, greek mythology, buddhism and judaism are frequently mentioned in classrooms. so to say that this is equal time is not truthful. Heck my children are learning more about moslems than the love of Jesus Christ. You are right, that makes me angry.

  • You're skirting the issue and you obviously don't know much yourself about "moslems." Because we have religious freedom in America, there can be no laws that cater specifically to one religion. Therefore gay marriage bans based solely on religious beliefs are against the very foundations of this country. If you can think of a good reason to ban gay marriage besides religion, I'd like to hear it and destroy it. Your children probably could stand to learn about other cultures btw.

  • you know, the school system being what it is, the kids learn plenty about other cultures, they teach whats known as multiculturalism. As far as I am concerned, they can sleep with whomever they like, I do not peak into peoples windows in the noght, but lets not try to inflict that lifestyle on the rest of society. Equal rights to all, special rights to none. To say that this is NORMAL behavior is nothing short of ridiculous.

  • INFLICT that lifestyle on the rest of society? How on Earth does giving gays the right to marry inflict anything on anyone?? And it is not abnormal behavior at all. It is people trying to find love. Just because they are looking in a different place doesn't make it abnormal. NOTHING that homosexuals do in their personal life affects you in the least. Getting married is not special rights, gays are already down a right, equality is bringing them to the level of the rest of society.

  • I am tolerant of gays. They can do what they like, as I said. However, gay marriage is another step in the direction of advancing liberal agenda. The term normal describes what the mainstraim of society does, this is not mainstream and therefor not normal. I do not support taunting and harrassment of people, but I do support a ban of gay marriage because it is abnormal. You can think what you like, thats my opinion. I understand your intolarance of it, but hey, its a free country.

  • So the only reason that you can think of to ban gay marriage is because it is not mainstream. Interracial marriage was also abnormal at one point. You're free to have any opinion that you want, but your opinion leads to denying certain people equal treatment.

  • they have equal treatment.... lease apts together, buy cars, houses, get jobs, the only thing they can't do is get married to each other. because it's unnatural and they can not inflict this on the rest of us and devalue our families. hate to tell you this but the majority of the country agrees with me. it's only through advocate judges they can advance this absurd agenda.

  • Hate to tell you this, but not being able to marry is not equal treatment. There is nothing unnatural about homosexuality. You also still didn't answer how gay marriage inflicts anything on "the rest of us." How does it devalue your family? Your family must not be very valuable in the first place if it can be "devalued" by certain people getting married. The only absurd agenda is keeping down rights for religious reasons.

  • once again, it affects us as I stated. Health care and insurance benefits for government employees "partners". And, yes it is un natural.

  • Um, so you don't think that gays deserve benefits? I don't understand your point. I already told you, you wouldn't be paying any more in taxes than you do now, so it doesn't affect YOU personally, unless you are gay. And no, it is not unnatural. You care to elaborate on that "brilliant" argument?

  • Yes, I can. I am a taxpayer. You have man who works for the county in which I live. He gets health care and retirement and insurance for himself, as all gov. employees in unions do, and for his wife. Ok. Now if he's single, he can have a male roomate move in with him. if its a state whwere there is no gay marriage, he can claim this roomate is his "partner" and should be covered just like a wife would. this is actually happening where I live. taxpayers get screwed.

  • Well wouldn't gay marriage actually eliminate this problem? Or at least make it harder for people to fraud the system? Also, its still not raising taxes.

  • thank you hannity. maxim... the most valuable institution we have is our family. mother, father and children. I have already explained to you how it's unnatural and you have chosen to ignore my point because you don't agree with it. Anyway, when we pervert the family, we devalue it, and we therefor inflict our opinions on other people. incidentally, this is a democracy. doesn't the majority rule? this was true last I checked. Gays are not the majority, we outnumber them, we the majority.

  • First of all, you didn't say in the least how it was unnatural, you said it was abnormal. Not the same thing. Also, how does allowing gays to marry pervert the family? Straight couples can still get married and have children. Are single parent families a perversion to normal families? Protection of family values is not a logical argument.

    Gay marriage is a civil rights issue, and no civil rights issue should be left to a vote. If it were, the Jim Crow laws would still be in effect.

  • Actually, I have issues with single parent families. It is too easy to go out and have a good time and the kids pay the price. Nobody thinks of them. they are the ones who grow up without the security of a family. Believe me I know. My husband died in November suddenly and left me to raise 4 kids, it isn't easy. But I work and do what I can. this was not by choice, but you can't imagine the challenge of being mom and dad at once. i don't mean to be mean, i have my problems too.

  • Umm, yes I can imagine the challenge because my mother single handedly raised me and my brother. So if children of a single parent grow up without the security of a family, wouldn't a gay couple be at least able to provide more security than a single parent, let alone an orphan whom they adopt? And if so, wouldn't gay marriages be beneficial to society in that way?

  • it just kills me to see kids grow up with no real family... my kids lost that part of it, but their dad didn't leave us because he wanted to. it was a horrible ordeal and still is. so i can see your point there.

  • I'm sorry for your loss.

  • thank you. Hey I don't do anything to anybody, I just work and take care of my kids. People will have their opinions and we will not be able to agree on everything, but we can still manage to be civil and talk things out. I really truly want the best for everybody.

  • I just see the best for everybody being the compromise that guarantees the most happiness for all sides. If gays are able to feel the same bond that straight couples do, although in a secular way, while at the same time being given the same legal benefits as the rest of us, what harm does this do to anyone? Do you really think that it will destroy all family values? All I see it doing is allowing gays to settle down and have a more normal and happier life.

  • I'm sorry for your loss of hair.

  • Gettin married as a gay couple affects a lot of things legally. For instance, If a gay is a government employee, his/her partner gets health care and insurance paid for by taxpayers...( me ).... I dont want to pay. Its wide open for fraud, in states where they cant marry, A roommate who is not gay could claim partnership and get benefits.

  • Yes, you will have to pay taxes but not any higher than normal, so it still doesn't affect you. Also, straights are just as able to take advantage of marriage laws for benefits. Anything else?