Negative Effects of Domestic Violence on Children

[mkl62]

A teacher that I know said that there was an incident at school where a boy slapped a girl so hard during an argument that it split her lip. Naturally, he was taken to the principal's office. When the principal asked him why he hit her, his response was, "Well my dad does that to my mama all the time." He thought that it was normal. And if the daughter witnesses it, she is most likely to marry an abuser.

[happydays175]

Thanks for sharing this video. I am a survivor of domestic violence.

[kstillion]

val1506, if you need to talk, let me know.

[val1506]

people are monsters.that is the reason i hate everyone.noyone can show me love.everyone shrugs and use the violence.but one day they will feel the pain they created to me,but it will be too late.congratulations,nice video

[tamnway]

this clip is just amazing. needed something for a presentation about Victims Of Crime. Thankyou so much.

[thelksis]

No oppression No abuse

[shelly2shoe]

abuse is false submission you shouldnt be force into it should out of the heart

[TruthinessDotCom]

... and violence against men? 50% of domestic abuse is women abusing their domestic partners. And children grow up. Little boys become young men, once that happens, they're on their own. Look at your little boy and know that when he becomes an adult, there is NO help for him.

[happydays175]

@TruthinessDotCom I have seen more men mistreat women who grew up with good mothers. Sadly, violence is not the answer whether a woman or man, or child does it.

[swinter2010]

so so sad no easy answers as most abusers were abused society must find a way to brake the silence and help heal the victims compasion is the key to peace even compasion for abusers but not tolerence of abuse.

[FOXBL00D]

-_- do you realize that media like this while raising awareness of domestic violence also aids in the corrupt activities of the cps who would rather destroy a perfectly fine family than save an abused child given the child in need would be harder to get into state custody.

Not that your intentions are wrong. I'm a victim of child abuse as well, but growing up without a mother I also know the pain that kind of loneliness can bring. O_O WE MUST EAT THE CPS THEN KILL THEM. (yes in that order) lol

[lovethemusic89]

@FOXBL00D Watch out on that slippery slope. I find your post very disturbing. I know many great people in CPS and they are trained to first and foremost look out for the best interest of the child. Yes, they as humans make mistakes, but for the most part they just want to help the child and family. If at all possible, the child is put back with the family.

[nanccy3]

Ive been doing research on this topic and for those of you who are concerned about the validity of the information try looking into it....Its true

[murkychick]

where did you find your information? for these facts and statistics?

[crazyaster]

very nice, moving but not sensationalized.

[ggullet]

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[wikihog]

Good work..!

[mrd00d]

My sons Mother abuse him and has abused me for 5 years and she gets away with it every single time because she lies to the cops and the courts. Blaming a person for the color of their skin is wrong, so is genitalia profiling. Abusers do not come in a certain sex, size, shape or color, they just abuse.

[Damirath]

Who gives a fuck? It's good lulz

[RDL600]

some women beat their kids.

[kstillion]

I agree, but my senior research was on the negative effects caused by men and I completed my internship at the women's shelter, so it fit what I needed it to. Thanks for viewing!

[auntanti]

@kstillion My mother and brother abused me. My mother taught my brother to hit me. My mother's boyfriend beat her. I am willing to bet many version of my mother existed at the shelter. It's a shame your senior research didn't include the reality that women who are beaten will often beat their kids and act out the same abuse dynamics, they experience. When viewed from that angle it gets too hard to decide who is doing the victimizing. My brother learned violence from a woman, not a man.

[liveonskunkcreek]

@auntanti I disagree with your comment- I was sexually and emotionally abused by my step father for 15 years. my mother knew and did nothing. I moved on to get married and be married to a verbal abuser for 17 years. My next relationship-the man ended up in prison for stalking me, and now-after 7 years of no dating, working on me-I find my "Mr Wonderful", and now I am living in a shelter because he beat me-and used weapons on me. I would never inflict the same pain that I've been through.

[lovethemusic89]

@RDL600 Yes, and the high rate of mothers beating kids is due to the fact that most males leave most of the childrearing up to the female. So with more females being the primary caregiver, of course many of the abuse cases will be from females. But more men beat their wives than vice-versa.

[koalastephanie]

Excellent job

[TheEditorialist]

Until I see a PSA that depicts kids getting the crap beat out of them by a serially abusive mother, I'll assume this is all politically driven theater designed to shame men, scare women and undermine families in general.

I feel bad for the kids. The government just abandons their needs to suck up to feminist special interests that serve no one outside of the system.

[kstillion]

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[kstillion]

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