AND BTW BLACK GIRLS HAVE ALWAYS TREATED ME LIKE I AINT SHIT BECAUSE I DONT SHOW OFF IN FRONT OF MY FRIENDS AND START ACTIN STUPID OR "NIGGERISH" IM CALM LAID BACK AND VERY FRIENDLY BUT ITS PISSIN ME OFF THAT BLACK WOMEN CONFUSE ALL BLACK MEN AND PUT THEM ALL IN THE SAME CATEGORY JUS BECAUSE THEY GAVE THUG NIGGA A CHANCE TO BREAK THEIR HEART AND USE AND ABUSE THEM..THEN TAKE IT OUT ON THE NICE GUY TRYING TO BE IN THEIR LIFE...BLACK WOMEN ARENT ONLY 1S TO DO THIS BUT I JUS THINK IM TOO NICE 4 DEM
IM A NICE BLACK MAN IM CARING I WAS RAISED BY MY MOM AND MY GRANDMA BUT THAT HAS SHIT TO DO WITH THESE STUPID FAST SLUTS RUNNIN AROUND ACTING LIKE THEY KNOW EVERYTHING BCUZ THEY WANA FUCK WIT NIGGAS WITH NICE CARS AND JEWELRY AND NOT EVEN FOR HIS FUCKIN PERSONALITY..I ALWAYS GO UP TO A BLACK GIRL RESPECTFUL...BUT SHE ALWAYS RESPOND TO ME LIKE I AINT SHIT OR ACT LIEK SHE DONT HEAR ME SPEAKIN TO HER! SHE PROLLY WANT A NIGGA WHO MISTREAT HER FUCK HER LIKE A WHORE AND GIVE HER MATERIAL SHIT!
We can all play this game. Black women are the #1 growth demographic in prison, so don't pat yourselves on the back too fast, y'all are working on catching with the brothers.
Then the rest of you who are not in prison, 75% of you are fat to obese, you're #1 in new AIDs infections, and you're number 1 in having herpes
But go get some African brothas, I'm dealing with a Ghanaian chick right now: She doesnt have an attitude, doesn't roll her neck, and doest think its demeaning to cook for her man
You are so off bases. I encourage you to educate yourself and not listen to the those around you opinions. Jesus is not white he is Jewish. African men are more dominating then American men cuturally and not all black american men like white women or gay or are angry. I hate to say but you sound ignorant and it seems to me that you are angry with black men and you are trying to justify your feelings toward them by slandering them. Shame on you. Seek healing, bashing is not the answer
you have to be careful to stereotype the African men that aren't from America, they don't have the same culture as us so they are very dominant and in Africa the women have to be very submissive.
excuse me what a load of CROCK! this so twisted, you got it twisted sister! If our men are insecure and see the white man as more and better than DEFINATELY this must be true for blackwomen aswell! You are disrespecting those fighters who fought during the jimcrow years, during slavery. Who gave their BLOOD! This is so wrong!
Well black women lets load up and go to Africa OR date outside our race!!! And your right African men are WONDERFUL!!! so respectful!!!. And yes many men of other races tend to be more respectable. lets move on black women ...
I agree. African men are 1000000% better than american black men. They are so respectful towards women! I love having conversations with them. Black american women, African men are great options for us!
I think you got a twisted view of black men in America. Maybe because of negative experiences. I don't know any black men like you're describing. I'm a black man myself.
I hate to admit this. But, I'm a black woman and I went out with a Puerto Rican guy in college and it was the BEST time I had in my life. He paid for EVERYTHING and treated me like a queen. Not saying all Puerto Rican men will do that, I'm just sharing my experience.
gurl i like how u are talking about african men. but yall got be careful with this african men, cuz they coming to american they wanna be like african american men. its not all them, but most of them they just brainwashed by the black american culture such as those stupid rap videos. maybe the older man, i mean men in their 30-40, mature men, who knows wat they want those would work. but those stupid africa thugs wanna be stay away from them. gurl, i have see them. btw im african :D
yes that is very true some are heavily influenced with AA culture and get brainwashed. Yes their are international thugs as well as american thugs..thanks for pointing that out cuz i did date a man from sierra leone and he was like that. Tryna impress his AA friends with his fuckry. thanks girl
I agree with 80 percent of what you've said. And I strongly believe African American women should date outside their race- Black men are. However, you are so homophobic. You keep saying "they turn to homosexuality" as if its a choice. Its not.
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we gotta kill bitches like this if you see her kill her on site what a rece traitor ignorant ass slut, i hate this bitch she should be hunted down and hung.
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wow this is some ignorant shit, this whore and i say whore is teaching are women to go after african men, and you wonder why we say the black woman is the devil.
the Blackwoman should just admit that they are the Devil,,,,and get ready for her punishment,,,,are real men even listening any more ? LOL....Fuck this Bullshit Babylon is Fallen
False, from what I KNOW most of the black men are gay and down low brothers and those are the ones mostly with the white women because they said the white women don't ask any questions or say anything when you have someone in your house at 4:00 in the morning or gone for 3 or 4 days straight. The men I know said you can get away with more stuff with white women. Don't let these men fool you the main men with all these women claiming playa are the main one's GAY!!!!! And that's what I know.
Majority of the black females i know and have come across have either said they are into other women or i SEE that they are, damn DIKES. Thats why black women say most black men are the ones who are gay because they know that they themselves are gay so they try to push what their about onto black men.
Sir, I am not trying to push anything on black men. I am not gay in any kind of way, but my best friend is a gay black man and being with him I have seen it all. He has slept with many and I mean many of other women's husbands and boyfriends, drug delears, these so called "thugs", gang members, football players and basketball players.
He has had them all I've seen this with my own eyes and have been on three way listening to conversations and they are all gay if they fuck another man in the ass. So,tell me da truth(lol no pun intended) how am I trying to push someone up to be gay when they already are VERY GAY!!!?
Explain this to me and I think you are responding like this because you think I mean all, I didnt say that I said most and I am not saying you are. And for the record where I live I have only seen like 3 lesbians and only 1 of the 3 I actually know and I know a lot of people.
sorry about that. but i'm referring to your BM gay comment. i'm not gay. i love women. this video does not describe me. i'm just here to stand up for BM. when i was younger i wanted to marry a BW. then when i grew up & i found that most BW were not looking for a husband. i'm not so sure now. then some BW are scorn and they feel all BM are dogs. yes, their is so much down low BS out there. one reason why i choose to date WW exclusively is bcause BW are dating gay dudes. down low or not. peace.
So you know this going on and you comment like you have never heard or seen this before. I don't see the reason for your comment and how you are "standing up" for black men. And the reason bw are dating gay blk men is because they don't know they are gay. The blk men are trying to hide it and dating a woman is their cover up.
in some instances BW know of their choices. BM are hiding it, you're right. i go to university and see it all day. BW laugh and joke w/homosexual males. i do know that. they can fool all of us. what i am addressing and can only address is the homosexual male that is openly gay. that downlow BS is not right. i would not go their but i do know that this is happening to BW. i think BW need to stay far away from these openly gay men then maybe BW can make better choices. how do BW keep chosen GM?
How and why are they going with someone that is openly gay? "BW laugh and joke w/homosexual males" , um maybe because they are friends. My best friend is a gay black male and i laugh and joke with him all the time that doesn't mean we go together(are in a relationship). I'm sorry but that was a dumb ass comment. How do you know they go together? And why would a woman go with an openly gay male if he was openly gay, he would be going with another man right? I dont see the basis of your comments.
the same reason why you're a BEST friends' w/a homosexual. lets flip this around. lets say i was BEST friends' w/a GAY MALE. would you assume that i was also GAY. U think it's ok to be friends w/a openly gay dude and can't spot a bisexual male that's hiding his actions. u can't be that clueless. u are exactly who i'm taking about. ur friends w/gays and u think a stright male has to compare to a gay. their is real issues w/BW and i know this. you're living in 2 worlds i don't know what else 2 say
WHAT THE FUCK are you talking about? !!!! Something is seriously wrong with you. What's wrong with being friends with someone gay? Are you homophobic? And how am I suppose to know if someone is gay if they are hiding it? And where did i say straight males have to compare to gays? Again, why would I want to be in a relationship with someone gay? Obviously, I am talking to and uneducated child, you are clearly putting words in my mouth and making things up.
you're hopeless. you couldn't spot a GAY male unless he stood right up and said he was HOMOsexual. this video is ridiculous and this comment is going nowhere. no wonder i can't understand BW. U think it's ok to be friends w/a Gay but expect to find a BM that is not. but U want both. you can't have it both ways. either u want BM to act like strong BM that can take care of u and ur children. or u want a Gay that will go behind ur back to have sex w/men. it's that simple. peace.
How would being friends with a gay male keep me from finding a straight male? You have some dumbass ignorant views. And who said I wanted a black man? I date men of all races and I would marry whoever treated me right, was heterosexual, and have other characteristics that I believe a man should posses. No matter what color, so could you please leave me alone and keep your dumbass comments to yourself!!! Again, please refrain from commenting on anything I say again. Thank You!!!
i tell u like it is and u obviously can't take it. BW want a man to just tell them everything they do is good. YES HONEY... i can tell u that. i'm on my senior year at university, seeking a bachelors. yes i'm homophobic bcause i know a Gay dude would not stop to su@k another man off when giving the opportunity. you like to be friends w/a guy like this so he does it and u don't. ur no different than ur gay friend. BW n america are loony toon. u are delusional. sorry i had 2 tell u the TRUTH : )
What your saying doesn't make sense is what i'm trying to tell you. Can you comprehend? How are you telling me like it is? I can take things that makes sense and your comments are just dumb. And you sound gay yourself "YES HONEY". And wtf are you talking about? "Gay dude would not stop to su@k another man off when giving the opportunity. you like to be friends w/a guy like this so he does it and u don't. " Something is clearly wrong with you, are you remedial? Were you in special classes?
I can tell by the way you talk and your tone that you were definately in special ed. classes in elementary-high school. And you are getting by in college through the help of a disability program. Either that or your not from america and don't speak english well which is interfering with you putting a coherent sentence together and making sense.
simple. i have 500 character limit to respond. i'm trying 2 make myself comprehendible as possible. i was an honor student in mathematics in junior high. i study engineering/technology and management. 1 day i will be able to properly communicate w/BW. i will apologize. i do know this, i will not be getting drunk around any homosexual dude. i don't say "yes honey" to my GF, that's just a metaphor. i'm not trying 2 attack u in any way. i just don't agree w/u. in between doing my HW, i watch vids.
remember when reading, make note of comma's and periods. they are suppose to break the sentence up making them easier 2 read. slow down and try to catch the JUST of the message. I can only type what i'm trying 2 say, but when people communicate face 2 face it's a different story. usually how we say something is just as important as what we say. SEMANTICS DIALECTICS. 2 words that u may not b familiar with, but they're worth looking up. uneducated i am NOT. an argument is just a disagreement
Obviously you don't know what coherent means because I was not talking about your grammer. Basically, I was saying you don't make sense and you sound dumb. Obviously you are uneducated because you are 32 years old and just now getting a bachelor's degree. I am 21 and graduating with a bachelor's degree in may. And being an honor student in junior high means less than nothing. And i noticed you said you were only an honor student in math...hmmm.
Like I said before you are definately suffering from some disability and further commenting on anything else you say will be useless, because you obviously can't comprehend. Nor can you clearly state your opinion in a concise and articulate manner. All i'm reading on the screen is ignorant gibberish. With that being said this will be my last comment, have a nice life and leave me alone. Oh, and I do know what semantics dialectics is. Thank you and goodbye!
yes, my favorite and best subject in JH was math, not so much nowadays. i had 2 work full time 4 many of my younger years. i come from a home where higher education was of little importance. i worked hard 2 continue my education thank U. to get back to my point. U need not be friends w/Gay dudes. this may be why BW can't tell if a guy is Bi or not. my conclusion is that U find qualities in ur friend that U can't find in a str8 male of any race. u r defending ur Gay friend. no wonder ur confused.
Ok your a hypocrit you tell her to make sure she makes commas, etc. But when you start a new sentence make sure you you capitalize your beginning words. I'm sure she don't have to explain anything to someone that is getting their bachelors degree from a University right? LMFAO!!!!! Its funny that you have to come on something uneducated like Youtube and explain to someone that your in school. How old are you 12?
I don't hit the shift key is no reason 2 call out my edu. Idiot. she is dating whoever she wants and that has nothing 2 do w/me. she called me out
1st, and i responded. The only reason I stated my education is because she brought it up. I defended myself. I only addressed her decision 2 have a gay dude as a best friend. then she can't tell the difference from a gay, bi or str8 male. i said that may be the reason why. I only addressed the video not her inability 2 read. goes 4 u also. peace...
you don't have to call names to get your point across if your so educated. Use what you say you have. Only small minded people call others names. But whatever it's your education like I said before nobody in their right mind would be on youtube fighting with anybody if they are really sooooo educated!! have a nice day :)
whatever. youtube has a way of unleashing my inner most self. just because I go 2 school, I can't call someone an idiot. i only called u an idiot once. i'm sure ur not so stupid as 2 use a lower case argument, to judge the effectiveness of my education. my education is not in taking 2 people like urself nice or using UPPERCASE letters on youtube. if you want 2 address the video i will argue the topic. i write comments 4 people who agree or disagree w/me. so we'll have a debate on the authors vid
I think we all fall into matthew 17 there is a lady who comes to Christ-I and say that her son is lunatic. sometimes he's in the water and sometimes in the fire. and Christ-I calls the generation faithless and perverse. and says the cure is fast and prayer. know, brain washing is still in affect (perversion and media) and 1's n 1's standard of living still resides in microwaves, SUV and cable TV and until one can remove oneself from these you have just as much in common as the so called no good
(Tear) Black men are lazy, They don't raise there children,and most Black men are gay, and they all love White women.... Do you realize how illogical you sound.... let me ask you this question why do you think you can not find an nice,caring and loving mate.
finally someone is saying something that ive been saying for ages bw start broading your horizions african men could be a very good choice for you. They also act like REAL men and are strong and masculine so they wont put up with bs that so many bm cant handle step out of your comfort zone you might be pleasently surprised.
Ok now I gotta call bullshit here. I am nothing like these men u speak of so Im not responding in defense or what I call makin a bitch move. But you say "Most" black men are opressing Black women. But Your doing the same thing by saying deal with this group not this group. Now let me ask you this. Aren't you being a hypcrite
We need to get of the "faggot" issue though. It is a myth that people are "turned" gay. Either someone is or they ain't. Our community's homophobic sexism is what is causing the DL situation, not f-ed up relationships. All races have f-ed up relationships, but not all races have the mega DL phenomenon we Black Christians have.
In other races the men have at least SOME community that welcomes them when they come out - we kill ours.
#1 Hi. Interesting vid. You have a point about us condisering African Nationalists. There are many African Brothers that date AA BW. Some that will marry AA BW. Most don't have the internalized racism AA BM have. There can be a LOT of sexism though.
I think you make a lot of assumptions though. They are "men" just like other men, some good, some bad. Just like AA BM. Just like WM & Latino men. Yes, there is some major mental health issues going on for many of our BM right now.
#2 Those AA BM are caught in a cycle of violence started by poverty, racism. IMO, they are so overwhelmed & hopeless they choose to target BW instead of addressing the real issues.
Healthy BW & BM need to focus on the many of us that DO have it together. Start raising healthy children that are self hate, homophob & bourgeoisy-free. Are raised to be independent, loving, COMUNICATIVE, humans that choose healthy relationships. Relationships based on love & commonalities.
Do you know how stupid you sound in this video? I'm just asking. You sound angry as hell. I'm going to tell you the truth. Black women or men who have problems finding good black men or women are having these problems because they are not a good "good men or women themselves". "Find yourself before you try to find a partner."
In short, character is the issue, not color. Whatever race man you deal with make sure he has good upstanding character. if your criteria of what floats your boat happens to be a mischevious bad boy thug type or a swagger jacking, game spitting dude, then you will simply find yourself with a white man with the same character flaws that you found in those black men you are citing for being foul. And you will be back to square one. Please do not make that mistake.
Don't let BET or videos or clueless peers tell you what kind of man you should accept. What about what your bible told you? What about what your parents told you? How about what common sense told you?
If you prefer thugs bad boys, pretty boys, and men with swagger instead of men w/ character, you will tend to come across some lazy dishonest unfaithful individuals. In this way you get what you fish for. Don't blame all black men for this, blame the particular types of black men you are choosing.
Also alot of african men feel no way to beat their women in africa, when they come to america they know that won't wash...they switch up i always heard the saying 'when u are in rome, act like a roman' How will they act in america...especially when u need a green card?
I love African men by the way ppl, i just know the culture too well to know its not THAT rosy...or that this wouldnt happen in africa...
I am an american black man, my fiance is west african by birth. This goes both ways, west african women from my experience and even carribean women do not have the hostility towards GOOD black men. I had experiences with american black women who when they get tired of being abused by these thugs run towards a white man you know people can date who they want to but please don't make blanket statements about black men who have done nothing bad to you, peace sister and may god bless and protect you
no I have a husband and he is african american and we have been married for 15 years and still going strong every woman today have dated a cheater before cos most men do,but i have only had one of those thank God but then i meet mr right and its been heaven ever since
Thank you, Sister!
spainishgirl 7 months ago
AND BTW BLACK GIRLS HAVE ALWAYS TREATED ME LIKE I AINT SHIT BECAUSE I DONT SHOW OFF IN FRONT OF MY FRIENDS AND START ACTIN STUPID OR "NIGGERISH" IM CALM LAID BACK AND VERY FRIENDLY BUT ITS PISSIN ME OFF THAT BLACK WOMEN CONFUSE ALL BLACK MEN AND PUT THEM ALL IN THE SAME CATEGORY JUS BECAUSE THEY GAVE THUG NIGGA A CHANCE TO BREAK THEIR HEART AND USE AND ABUSE THEM..THEN TAKE IT OUT ON THE NICE GUY TRYING TO BE IN THEIR LIFE...BLACK WOMEN ARENT ONLY 1S TO DO THIS BUT I JUS THINK IM TOO NICE 4 DEM
royaltyrell516 9 months ago
IM A NICE BLACK MAN IM CARING I WAS RAISED BY MY MOM AND MY GRANDMA BUT THAT HAS SHIT TO DO WITH THESE STUPID FAST SLUTS RUNNIN AROUND ACTING LIKE THEY KNOW EVERYTHING BCUZ THEY WANA FUCK WIT NIGGAS WITH NICE CARS AND JEWELRY AND NOT EVEN FOR HIS FUCKIN PERSONALITY..I ALWAYS GO UP TO A BLACK GIRL RESPECTFUL...BUT SHE ALWAYS RESPOND TO ME LIKE I AINT SHIT OR ACT LIEK SHE DONT HEAR ME SPEAKIN TO HER! SHE PROLLY WANT A NIGGA WHO MISTREAT HER FUCK HER LIKE A WHORE AND GIVE HER MATERIAL SHIT!
royaltyrell516 9 months ago
Decent video, alot of truth involved ...just try not to swear so much!
God Bless!
shortexxx 1 year ago
We can all play this game. Black women are the #1 growth demographic in prison, so don't pat yourselves on the back too fast, y'all are working on catching with the brothers.
Then the rest of you who are not in prison, 75% of you are fat to obese, you're #1 in new AIDs infections, and you're number 1 in having herpes
But go get some African brothas, I'm dealing with a Ghanaian chick right now: She doesnt have an attitude, doesn't roll her neck, and doest think its demeaning to cook for her man
BlackPerspectivenet 1 year ago
You are so off bases. I encourage you to educate yourself and not listen to the those around you opinions. Jesus is not white he is Jewish. African men are more dominating then American men cuturally and not all black american men like white women or gay or are angry. I hate to say but you sound ignorant and it seems to me that you are angry with black men and you are trying to justify your feelings toward them by slandering them. Shame on you. Seek healing, bashing is not the answer
nyettap 1 year ago
I don't see the point in this vid.
tobysoter 1 year ago
you have to be careful to stereotype the African men that aren't from America, they don't have the same culture as us so they are very dominant and in Africa the women have to be very submissive.
justmeandmydogs 1 year ago
excuse me what a load of CROCK! this so twisted, you got it twisted sister! If our men are insecure and see the white man as more and better than DEFINATELY this must be true for blackwomen aswell! You are disrespecting those fighters who fought during the jimcrow years, during slavery. Who gave their BLOOD! This is so wrong!
YahSedQanu 1 year ago
Well black women lets load up and go to Africa OR date outside our race!!! And your right African men are WONDERFUL!!! so respectful!!!. And yes many men of other races tend to be more respectable. lets move on black women ...
Jade049 1 year ago
good video
cinnamonbrownskin 2 years ago
Why are so many black men marrying white women? Up to 30%. The hell with a bible, my goodness how weak must you be.
kofi7777 2 years ago
I agree. African men are 1000000% better than american black men. They are so respectful towards women! I love having conversations with them. Black american women, African men are great options for us!
yvessaintlaurent88 2 years ago
yvessaintlaurent88:
My cousin married a man from Kenya nearly a decade ago. He's a really nice guy & they've just had their 5th child! Their marriage is to be envied.
SpankRamen2 1 year ago
If a black woman was faithful to me then i will be faithful to her.
Jabbaro123 2 years ago 6
I think you got a twisted view of black men in America. Maybe because of negative experiences. I don't know any black men like you're describing. I'm a black man myself.
onesleepykid 2 years ago 2
I hate to admit this. But, I'm a black woman and I went out with a Puerto Rican guy in college and it was the BEST time I had in my life. He paid for EVERYTHING and treated me like a queen. Not saying all Puerto Rican men will do that, I'm just sharing my experience.
EricaYE6 2 years ago 3
gurl i like how u are talking about african men. but yall got be careful with this african men, cuz they coming to american they wanna be like african american men. its not all them, but most of them they just brainwashed by the black american culture such as those stupid rap videos. maybe the older man, i mean men in their 30-40, mature men, who knows wat they want those would work. but those stupid africa thugs wanna be stay away from them. gurl, i have see them. btw im african :D
mpVangurl 2 years ago
yes that is very true some are heavily influenced with AA culture and get brainwashed. Yes their are international thugs as well as american thugs..thanks for pointing that out cuz i did date a man from sierra leone and he was like that. Tryna impress his AA friends with his fuckry. thanks girl
NuwaniDeNubianLadyIE 2 years ago
I agree with 80 percent of what you've said. And I strongly believe African American women should date outside their race- Black men are. However, you are so homophobic. You keep saying "they turn to homosexuality" as if its a choice. Its not.
oanunkor 2 years ago
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we gotta kill bitches like this if you see her kill her on site what a rece traitor ignorant ass slut, i hate this bitch she should be hunted down and hung.
beantownisraelite 2 years ago
Many black men don't have it together.
Your just hearing how this woman is fed up, but alot of sisters like her feel the same. Not the first time I heard this.
I still won't give up on the brothers, though. Its just as much as the woman's fault as it is men's. All need to come correct.
A wicked man is made for a wicked woman. Find that righteous man if your think your a righteous woman.
morningsun29 2 years ago 7
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wow this is some ignorant shit, this whore and i say whore is teaching are women to go after african men, and you wonder why we say the black woman is the devil.
beantownisraelite 2 years ago
the Blackwoman should just admit that they are the Devil,,,,and get ready for her punishment,,,,are real men even listening any more ? LOL....Fuck this Bullshit Babylon is Fallen
KnightofIsreal77 2 years ago
most black men are gay? once i heard that nonsense i stopped listening.
datruth1282 2 years ago
It's true!!!
nikkicinco 2 years ago
Well, from what I see it seems that most black women are the ones who are gay.
datruth1282 2 years ago
False, from what I KNOW most of the black men are gay and down low brothers and those are the ones mostly with the white women because they said the white women don't ask any questions or say anything when you have someone in your house at 4:00 in the morning or gone for 3 or 4 days straight. The men I know said you can get away with more stuff with white women. Don't let these men fool you the main men with all these women claiming playa are the main one's GAY!!!!! And that's what I know.
nikkicinco 2 years ago
like i said, from what i see it's most black women are the ones who are gay, not black men.
datruth1282 2 years ago
Majority of the black females i know and have come across have either said they are into other women or i SEE that they are, damn DIKES. Thats why black women say most black men are the ones who are gay because they know that they themselves are gay so they try to push what their about onto black men.
datruth1282 2 years ago
Sir, I am not trying to push anything on black men. I am not gay in any kind of way, but my best friend is a gay black man and being with him I have seen it all. He has slept with many and I mean many of other women's husbands and boyfriends, drug delears, these so called "thugs", gang members, football players and basketball players.
nikkicinco 2 years ago
He has had them all I've seen this with my own eyes and have been on three way listening to conversations and they are all gay if they fuck another man in the ass. So,tell me da truth(lol no pun intended) how am I trying to push someone up to be gay when they already are VERY GAY!!!?
nikkicinco 2 years ago
Explain this to me and I think you are responding like this because you think I mean all, I didnt say that I said most and I am not saying you are. And for the record where I live I have only seen like 3 lesbians and only 1 of the 3 I actually know and I know a lot of people.
nikkicinco 2 years ago
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champcarkoolmild 2 years ago
Um, why do I need help when it is true? The men who are doing this need help, psychological help. I have seen these things with my own eyes.
nikkicinco 2 years ago
sorry about that. but i'm referring to your BM gay comment. i'm not gay. i love women. this video does not describe me. i'm just here to stand up for BM. when i was younger i wanted to marry a BW. then when i grew up & i found that most BW were not looking for a husband. i'm not so sure now. then some BW are scorn and they feel all BM are dogs. yes, their is so much down low BS out there. one reason why i choose to date WW exclusively is bcause BW are dating gay dudes. down low or not. peace.
champcarkoolmild 2 years ago
So you know this going on and you comment like you have never heard or seen this before. I don't see the reason for your comment and how you are "standing up" for black men. And the reason bw are dating gay blk men is because they don't know they are gay. The blk men are trying to hide it and dating a woman is their cover up.
nikkicinco 2 years ago
in some instances BW know of their choices. BM are hiding it, you're right. i go to university and see it all day. BW laugh and joke w/homosexual males. i do know that. they can fool all of us. what i am addressing and can only address is the homosexual male that is openly gay. that downlow BS is not right. i would not go their but i do know that this is happening to BW. i think BW need to stay far away from these openly gay men then maybe BW can make better choices. how do BW keep chosen GM?
champcarkoolmild 2 years ago
How and why are they going with someone that is openly gay? "BW laugh and joke w/homosexual males" , um maybe because they are friends. My best friend is a gay black male and i laugh and joke with him all the time that doesn't mean we go together(are in a relationship). I'm sorry but that was a dumb ass comment. How do you know they go together? And why would a woman go with an openly gay male if he was openly gay, he would be going with another man right? I dont see the basis of your comments.
nikkicinco 2 years ago
the same reason why you're a BEST friends' w/a homosexual. lets flip this around. lets say i was BEST friends' w/a GAY MALE. would you assume that i was also GAY. U think it's ok to be friends w/a openly gay dude and can't spot a bisexual male that's hiding his actions. u can't be that clueless. u are exactly who i'm taking about. ur friends w/gays and u think a stright male has to compare to a gay. their is real issues w/BW and i know this. you're living in 2 worlds i don't know what else 2 say
champcarkoolmild 2 years ago
WHAT THE FUCK are you talking about? !!!! Something is seriously wrong with you. What's wrong with being friends with someone gay? Are you homophobic? And how am I suppose to know if someone is gay if they are hiding it? And where did i say straight males have to compare to gays? Again, why would I want to be in a relationship with someone gay? Obviously, I am talking to and uneducated child, you are clearly putting words in my mouth and making things up.
nikkicinco 2 years ago
you're hopeless. you couldn't spot a GAY male unless he stood right up and said he was HOMOsexual. this video is ridiculous and this comment is going nowhere. no wonder i can't understand BW. U think it's ok to be friends w/a Gay but expect to find a BM that is not. but U want both. you can't have it both ways. either u want BM to act like strong BM that can take care of u and ur children. or u want a Gay that will go behind ur back to have sex w/men. it's that simple. peace.
champcarkoolmild 2 years ago
How would being friends with a gay male keep me from finding a straight male? You have some dumbass ignorant views. And who said I wanted a black man? I date men of all races and I would marry whoever treated me right, was heterosexual, and have other characteristics that I believe a man should posses. No matter what color, so could you please leave me alone and keep your dumbass comments to yourself!!! Again, please refrain from commenting on anything I say again. Thank You!!!
nikkicinco 2 years ago
i tell u like it is and u obviously can't take it. BW want a man to just tell them everything they do is good. YES HONEY... i can tell u that. i'm on my senior year at university, seeking a bachelors. yes i'm homophobic bcause i know a Gay dude would not stop to su@k another man off when giving the opportunity. you like to be friends w/a guy like this so he does it and u don't. ur no different than ur gay friend. BW n america are loony toon. u are delusional. sorry i had 2 tell u the TRUTH : )
champcarkoolmild 2 years ago
What your saying doesn't make sense is what i'm trying to tell you. Can you comprehend? How are you telling me like it is? I can take things that makes sense and your comments are just dumb. And you sound gay yourself "YES HONEY". And wtf are you talking about? "Gay dude would not stop to su@k another man off when giving the opportunity. you like to be friends w/a guy like this so he does it and u don't. " Something is clearly wrong with you, are you remedial? Were you in special classes?
nikkicinco 2 years ago
I can tell by the way you talk and your tone that you were definately in special ed. classes in elementary-high school. And you are getting by in college through the help of a disability program. Either that or your not from america and don't speak english well which is interfering with you putting a coherent sentence together and making sense.
nikkicinco 2 years ago
simple. i have 500 character limit to respond. i'm trying 2 make myself comprehendible as possible. i was an honor student in mathematics in junior high. i study engineering/technology and management. 1 day i will be able to properly communicate w/BW. i will apologize. i do know this, i will not be getting drunk around any homosexual dude. i don't say "yes honey" to my GF, that's just a metaphor. i'm not trying 2 attack u in any way. i just don't agree w/u. in between doing my HW, i watch vids.
champcarkoolmild 2 years ago
remember when reading, make note of comma's and periods. they are suppose to break the sentence up making them easier 2 read. slow down and try to catch the JUST of the message. I can only type what i'm trying 2 say, but when people communicate face 2 face it's a different story. usually how we say something is just as important as what we say. SEMANTICS DIALECTICS. 2 words that u may not b familiar with, but they're worth looking up. uneducated i am NOT. an argument is just a disagreement
:-)
champcarkoolmild 2 years ago
Obviously you don't know what coherent means because I was not talking about your grammer. Basically, I was saying you don't make sense and you sound dumb. Obviously you are uneducated because you are 32 years old and just now getting a bachelor's degree. I am 21 and graduating with a bachelor's degree in may. And being an honor student in junior high means less than nothing. And i noticed you said you were only an honor student in math...hmmm.
nikkicinco 2 years ago
Like I said before you are definately suffering from some disability and further commenting on anything else you say will be useless, because you obviously can't comprehend. Nor can you clearly state your opinion in a concise and articulate manner. All i'm reading on the screen is ignorant gibberish. With that being said this will be my last comment, have a nice life and leave me alone. Oh, and I do know what semantics dialectics is. Thank you and goodbye!
nikkicinco 2 years ago
yes, my favorite and best subject in JH was math, not so much nowadays. i had 2 work full time 4 many of my younger years. i come from a home where higher education was of little importance. i worked hard 2 continue my education thank U. to get back to my point. U need not be friends w/Gay dudes. this may be why BW can't tell if a guy is Bi or not. my conclusion is that U find qualities in ur friend that U can't find in a str8 male of any race. u r defending ur Gay friend. no wonder ur confused.
champcarkoolmild 2 years ago
Ok your a hypocrit you tell her to make sure she makes commas, etc. But when you start a new sentence make sure you you capitalize your beginning words. I'm sure she don't have to explain anything to someone that is getting their bachelors degree from a University right? LMFAO!!!!! Its funny that you have to come on something uneducated like Youtube and explain to someone that your in school. How old are you 12?
spareld 2 years ago
I think your comment is the reason why alot of black woman dating outside their race now. Nice job
spareld 2 years ago 2
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champcarkoolmild 2 years ago
I don't hit the shift key is no reason 2 call out my edu. Idiot. she is dating whoever she wants and that has nothing 2 do w/me. she called me out
1st, and i responded. The only reason I stated my education is because she brought it up. I defended myself. I only addressed her decision 2 have a gay dude as a best friend. then she can't tell the difference from a gay, bi or str8 male. i said that may be the reason why. I only addressed the video not her inability 2 read. goes 4 u also. peace...
champcarkoolmild 2 years ago
you don't have to call names to get your point across if your so educated. Use what you say you have. Only small minded people call others names. But whatever it's your education like I said before nobody in their right mind would be on youtube fighting with anybody if they are really sooooo educated!! have a nice day :)
spareld 2 years ago
whatever. youtube has a way of unleashing my inner most self. just because I go 2 school, I can't call someone an idiot. i only called u an idiot once. i'm sure ur not so stupid as 2 use a lower case argument, to judge the effectiveness of my education. my education is not in taking 2 people like urself nice or using UPPERCASE letters on youtube. if you want 2 address the video i will argue the topic. i write comments 4 people who agree or disagree w/me. so we'll have a debate on the authors vid
champcarkoolmild 2 years ago
You know nothing about Black men. Ignorance should remain silent.
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jerscat 3 years ago
I think we all fall into matthew 17 there is a lady who comes to Christ-I and say that her son is lunatic. sometimes he's in the water and sometimes in the fire. and Christ-I calls the generation faithless and perverse. and says the cure is fast and prayer. know, brain washing is still in affect (perversion and media) and 1's n 1's standard of living still resides in microwaves, SUV and cable TV and until one can remove oneself from these you have just as much in common as the so called no good
thegeniusnumber8 3 years ago
Most African's don't like Black American period so good luck finding one.....
theabomation 3 years ago
not just africans, but blacks ALL OVER THE WORLD
leahmale1980 2 years ago 2
(Tear) Black men are lazy, They don't raise there children,and most Black men are gay, and they all love White women.... Do you realize how illogical you sound.... let me ask you this question why do you think you can not find an nice,caring and loving mate.
theabomation 3 years ago
You've got to be kidding...ignorance at it's finest.
HSLDGUY 3 years ago
finally someone is saying something that ive been saying for ages bw start broading your horizions african men could be a very good choice for you. They also act like REAL men and are strong and masculine so they wont put up with bs that so many bm cant handle step out of your comfort zone you might be pleasently surprised.
dlfunky 3 years ago
Ok now I gotta call bullshit here. I am nothing like these men u speak of so Im not responding in defense or what I call makin a bitch move. But you say "Most" black men are opressing Black women. But Your doing the same thing by saying deal with this group not this group. Now let me ask you this. Aren't you being a hypcrite
stealth99 3 years ago 2
We need to get of the "faggot" issue though. It is a myth that people are "turned" gay. Either someone is or they ain't. Our community's homophobic sexism is what is causing the DL situation, not f-ed up relationships. All races have f-ed up relationships, but not all races have the mega DL phenomenon we Black Christians have.
In other races the men have at least SOME community that welcomes them when they come out - we kill ours.
makezmuzic 3 years ago
#1 Hi. Interesting vid. You have a point about us condisering African Nationalists. There are many African Brothers that date AA BW. Some that will marry AA BW. Most don't have the internalized racism AA BM have. There can be a LOT of sexism though.
I think you make a lot of assumptions though. They are "men" just like other men, some good, some bad. Just like AA BM. Just like WM & Latino men. Yes, there is some major mental health issues going on for many of our BM right now.
makezmuzic 3 years ago
#2 Those AA BM are caught in a cycle of violence started by poverty, racism. IMO, they are so overwhelmed & hopeless they choose to target BW instead of addressing the real issues.
Healthy BW & BM need to focus on the many of us that DO have it together. Start raising healthy children that are self hate, homophob & bourgeoisy-free. Are raised to be independent, loving, COMUNICATIVE, humans that choose healthy relationships. Relationships based on love & commonalities.
Good topic.
makezmuzic 3 years ago 2
Do you know how stupid you sound in this video? I'm just asking. You sound angry as hell. I'm going to tell you the truth. Black women or men who have problems finding good black men or women are having these problems because they are not a good "good men or women themselves". "Find yourself before you try to find a partner."
seedofgreatness 3 years ago
In short, character is the issue, not color. Whatever race man you deal with make sure he has good upstanding character. if your criteria of what floats your boat happens to be a mischevious bad boy thug type or a swagger jacking, game spitting dude, then you will simply find yourself with a white man with the same character flaws that you found in those black men you are citing for being foul. And you will be back to square one. Please do not make that mistake.
dealmaker007 3 years ago
Don't let BET or videos or clueless peers tell you what kind of man you should accept. What about what your bible told you? What about what your parents told you? How about what common sense told you?
dealmaker007 3 years ago
If you prefer thugs bad boys, pretty boys, and men with swagger instead of men w/ character, you will tend to come across some lazy dishonest unfaithful individuals. In this way you get what you fish for. Don't blame all black men for this, blame the particular types of black men you are choosing.
dealmaker007 3 years ago 3
LOL!!
You're talking about African men as is they are generally so much better than African American men.
Don't you realize that they step to African American women armed with the knowledge that you are fed up of your current options.
Tell me - what happens when someone identifies your weakness?! They play upon it!!
Gimme a break!
I'm sorry, but I have tons of African friends and I'm telling you...you are way off the mark here.
Men are men.
Awhodatt.
awhodatt 3 years ago
Awhodatt,
I have to agree with u on that point....
Also alot of african men feel no way to beat their women in africa, when they come to america they know that won't wash...they switch up i always heard the saying 'when u are in rome, act like a roman' How will they act in america...especially when u need a green card?
I love African men by the way ppl, i just know the culture too well to know its not THAT rosy...or that this wouldnt happen in africa...
loly08cuh
loly08cuh 3 years ago
Yep, yep, and another yep.
awhodatt 3 years ago
it's me mesuckit, and you know what i don't blame you for being mad at these assholes. im a black man, and im not mad at you for doing this video.
JOSEPHBOURNE55 3 years ago
calling people assholes will get you flagged.....
mrkennedy8811 3 years ago
I am an american black man, my fiance is west african by birth. This goes both ways, west african women from my experience and even carribean women do not have the hostility towards GOOD black men. I had experiences with american black women who when they get tired of being abused by these thugs run towards a white man you know people can date who they want to but please don't make blanket statements about black men who have done nothing bad to you, peace sister and may god bless and protect you
1s23d 3 years ago
no I have a husband and he is african american and we have been married for 15 years and still going strong every woman today have dated a cheater before cos most men do,but i have only had one of those thank God but then i meet mr right and its been heaven ever since
paleicka277 3 years ago
why are you picking the cheaters ????...lol...
delorianstar 3 years ago
why are you talkin about the black men that you need to avoid??...
delorianstar 3 years ago