Discipline

[Guardgirl555]

Oh my god your fucking awesome! Love every bit of that video!

[Guardgirl555]

Oh my god I fucking love you!!! I want to high five you!!!!!!

[monin417]

You should change the title to bla-bla. Because thats what it is.

[triplestartriple]

Wow, she is very uneducated

[DomBarber]

The worlds going soft !

[GrauenausderTiefe]

are you serious ? "put that fuckin bitch to da floor !" one question: how much more beating would have been necessary to stop you from cursing like that? ^^ I think you need more ^^ Most people here would love to put you over their knees ! be a good girl and let you spank through !

[dennim20001]

Thank you for this post. You are a breath of fresh air in this society of liberal robots.

[WaterCrane]

Not every consequence has to be a punishment; speaking from personal experience, time-out is designed to be boring and allow their rebellion to peter out, while for an older child or even a teenager it gives them time to reflect on why they are staring at a blank wall, since there are no distractions. No two children are the same though - some do need a heavy hand (or ping-pong paddle) and an intense outlet while others crumble at a raised voice, but will go out of their way to earn a gold star.

[WaterCrane]

I do believe in smacking, but like most things in life (from my personal philosophy), it needs to be balanced - not too lenient, not too brutal. Personally I think you might be going a bit too extreme on what you propose to do to your child, as your parents did to you. Indeed, children are tougher than many adults might think, but there are limits when it comes to exposure - public humiliation should only be reserved for extreme cases because of the soul-crushing side-effects.

[ChannelingusIV]

am i the only one who wants to spank this cute thing :D

[DomBarber]

I found your video very interesting

[Thorrin102070]

The results of Child Services can be seen all around you today. (Gangs) This might be just me... I would rather go to jail before I see my child turn into an animal on the streets and hurt someone. Lets see how quickly things would change if a parent/s had to pay the legal price of a child's actions, with hard labor. There would be many bare trees out there. Most schools would do away with chairs for the first three months, if this became the law of the land. Nice one with that ping pong paddle.

[Thorrin102070]

Child services has done more harm to society than good. They scrambled in getting a handle on all those looser (so called) parents and for the most part, cross the line in their attempts. They come into a situation with blinders on and basically say that parents need to pay for not letting a spoiled child have their way. I do agree that there needs to be protection against abuse. I just can't justify in my mind, the approach that child services takes against good parents and discipline.

[howes1960]

I saw a group of boys doing wrestling moves at recess, and one boy hurt another boy doing a move. The principal saw this and kicked the kid in the ass.

The boy didn't purposely want to hurt the boy, but maybe the principal thought he was. Nothing happened to the principal.

[TenderGenderBender]

No research have ever proven punishment able to improve behaviour in the long term. Rewarding good behaviour is on the other hand very effective.

[preciousfreakydarlin]

I have to agree with a lot of what you say. People like to make shit up tho to defend what they think is wrong about what your saying. I was spanked as a child. My mother had a hand carved oak spoon she got from an old fisherman who lived in the bay. Did it teach me to respect her? no. I have very little respect for my mother. What it did teach me is that there are consequences for my actions.

[preciousfreakydarlin]

I have to agree with a lot of what you say. People like to make shit up tho to defend what they think is wrong about what your saying. I was spanked as a child. My mother had a hand carved oak spoon she got from an old fisherman who lived in the bay. Did it teach me to respect her? no. I have very little respect for my mother. What it did teach me is that there are consequences for my actions.

[CONCORDE62]

I LIKE YOUIR RANTINGS ..... you talk a lot of common sense. I might be a few thousand miles away in london UK but you are dead right.... children do need dicipline, and under 12 that mean spanking, after that you could consider more debate, and withdrawal of time/prized possesions etc, the no spanking liberals have ruined the UK, and USA.

[residentemojacob]

An adult school principal has no business touching a child's underwear, which is why he was suspended.

He's lucky he wasn't fired.

If I had a child and they came home from school telling me that the principal grabbed them by their undergarments that principal and I would have a serious problem.

[aandrewhubbard]

and a trained principal with one witness in schools

[aandrewhubbard]

I completely agree with bloggerchickster, parents should be able to use mild spanking/cp in the family

[shavaughn1980]

And using humiliation to punish will do nothing but scar your child. It is just plain wrong for an adult to give a child a wedgie unles it was just joking around like with your uncle. What is giving a teen a wedgie gonna teach him? Do you really think that would make him stop bullying other kids? I don't. It probably just made him mad and embarrassed and he probably took it out on another kid.

i never had a wedgie btw

[shavaughn1980]

I'm from a small town i Alabama. I never been spanked growing up and I'm not a felon. My brother on the other hand was spanked and the only thing it gave him was low self esteem. The only thing spanking teaches a child is that if I do something wrong, the people that I trust the most will hit me or "beat my ass". I've seen kids hit other kids and then their parents turn around and hit their child. Every time I see that I wanna say, hello, where do you think hes learning to hit?

[SuperPrincess124]

i havent had 1

[PolarBear25]

I completely Agree.

[dirtysoles]

I think your terrific ..Its great you got the switch...keep it up the good work.

[morikahjo]

I dont agree with what the principal did...because he didnt have the parents permission....and a wedgie is dumb and too demeaning. I do agree with spankings though. I was spanked a few times...a paddle,a belt a slipper, and by the hand. But all in all, I was well behaved and I rarely got any spankings because I knew better then to do anything that would earn one. And a few times i was put in time out, i didnt move cuz i knew what would happen if i did.

[rpurdy1965]

A good arguement well put, but you could have been saying anything and I think I would have agreed else you would have me going to cut my own switch!

[ninaelana123]

so you say you were spanked and it tought you respect, yet you call your mom a psycho bitch?

[bcrocker33]

you have amazing eyes

[shizer347]

i agree

[bedlum47o7]

I have to say I agree that spankings have there place. one should not over use it and one should not go over board. I in fact got the ping pong paddle without the rubber stuff on it. OMG did that sting and trust me you remembered it well. I think its like anything else.. some people think hitting kids is wrong and well they are welcome to that but im sorry if done properly and spanking works wonders. i like the way you think.. also you d look a lot like Christina ricci. :) smiles.

[KourtneyHHH]

U know, I really like you, youre smart, sensible and have a great sense of humor, i think you'll make an awesome parent and Im going to check the rest of your vids cus this one is fucking awesome. My name is Kourtney By the way

[guidav123]

i think the childs father should have gone and gave the principal a wedgie after all a wedgie doesnt matter right?

[char777778]

very well said and good philosophy too

[hikarutakaru]

I never heard of someone falling asleep on time out. studies show that a proper time out does work. You just have to put forth the effort to do the time out right.Kids need discipline, but there are much better forms than hitting your kids. A lot of "delinqurints" were spanked and a lot of great people were not and vice versa. Spanking does not harm all children, but it does have strong negative effects on others. You can disipline you child and help them become great adults without hitting them

[aandrewhubbard]

hmm.. I think your video pretty much sums it up, although you do use some bad language my girl! lol wash your mouth out.

it works, good loving parents should spank,as a small part of their parenting tool box. look at what happens in a less ordered society. All the people of my parent s generation who were spanked more, seem to be better educated, polite, funny, sociable and community spirited. Don't fix what ain't broke, hugs to you all, Andrew x

[stoneymurphy]

you look like christina ricci

[DrDiscipline007]

I wish some one would spank you, you carry on and you dont look old enough to know what a good spanking is.

[vidamringil]

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[c21manuel]

Hitting kids is wrong.

[waddeverland]

I have watched this video alot nnow, and I thank you for posting. This video gave me a new appreciation for my daddy's spankings and the rules he had set when I was a child.

[waddeverland]

When I was a kid if I tryed to go to a party at 1 in the morning I would get alot worse than that for one because I was still up, and for two for trying to leave the damn house. Children have no respect anymore. I'm glad to see soemone who gets the point.

[PSPeboot]

P.S. You Look Evil.

[DeadFantasyy]

You know, you can teach discipline all you want, but dont swear, I'm a 12 year old, and your leaving a bad impression :)

[BritishManager08]

DeadFantasyy, you shouldn't be watching these videos kid.

[handenbinder0]

I fully agree that spanking with switch, (pingpong) paddle, bamboe cane, 2 by 4 (2" thick) are perfect ways to punish naughty or disbehaving boys (or girls) on a preferable bare bottom. Even when it means that someone cant sit without painfull remembering the reason of the punishment for some days.

Whole generations are raised with spankings from teachers, parents and others so learned (the hard way) obedience and respect. Words that lost there meaning nowadays i am sorry to say. Reinstate plz!

[waddeverland]

When I was a little kid everyone in the the neighborhood I lived in treadted me like their own kid... If I misbehaved one of them would spank me, and I had respect for those people... After a while you can imagine I became pretty obediant. I agree with what you are saying, and I hope I am able to raise my kids like I was raised because I know they wil be obediant and have respect. Congrats to you for realising this!

[gunsdontkillbulletdo]

you hit and shout at your child and when they throw a tatrum you wonder where they learnt that behaviour from also most prisoners were cororally punished

[Ei185]

yessss fiinaaaalllyy someone who gets it.ur soo right i agree and have always agreed.=] thanks ur awesome=]

[jawad2082]

nice hoover!nice appartment

[hindview]

Wow! you are so right i totally agree! mother nature gave us two ends one to think with, the other to sit with , when the sitting end is sending up painful distress signals. the thinking end get's the message to keep its ass outta trouble it may have to change it thinking.

[XdontXbeXanXassX]

I agree. Beatings are different than spankings, though. Beatings beget violence; spankings, done 'appropriately', teach consequences. Kids have to know what the consequence will be, then it's a logical consequence. It's not for everyone, though. Some people are prone to violence.

[CadillacL]

I agree. Today's kids don't know a spanking. Time out? Growin up, time out was for a whippin.

[punkpiraterocker1]

Probably true. The only bone in your ass is your tailbone, and you have to be spanking pretty high to hit that. I'm still against spanking though. It does promote violence.

[hellopixel]

you are so right.

[vinspank]

Brilliant. This young lady has her head screwed on and exudes 'right thinking'. All those who opposed her views are most likely those whose children will grow up to be delinquents or worse. Hurrah for some commonsense. vinspank

[Serranos13x14]

mmmmm delicious bitch

[pea8vey]

so ya like wedgies lol.give yerself one now!!

[LittleBrat19]

I feel 100% the same way.

[dumhello]

testing

[rkzenrage]

It only teaches that hitting is the right way to solve a problem.

Have fun getting the call from the cops.

In no way does it teach real world coping issues.

No one gets pulled over for speeding, spanked, and sent on their way.

I real parent teaches kids to think.

[handenbinder0]

I am sorry that, that isnt the case. I would improve to that and also for corpural punishment for shoplifting, vandalising, riding a bicycle without lights on and so on.

[abobakeraqida]

big beautiful eyes

[wiseguyz123]

Bloggerchickster, you yourself sound like someone either in desperate need of a spanking or in desperate need of giving one, and I wholeheartedly volunteer for either duty. :)

But seriously, you don't seem to understand that children aren't cut from molds, and what might be constructive for one might seem like a betrayal to another. When I was a kid, all it did was make me angrier and escalate bad behavior, and fortunately for me my parents eventually chose a better path.

[C1appyTh3Smurf]

I agree with what your saying about how parents should spank their kids, but I don't know If I'd use the term "beat their ass".

I also strongly disagree with discipline in school. I'll be dead honest if I were in school and I got hit by the teacher as an act of discipline I'd beat the ever living fuck out of them.

[bloggerchickster]

Yes, "beat their ass" sounds quite harsh. I don't mean it in the literal sense though.

[08pooled]

I totally agree with you bloggtserchcik. Parents should spank they're kids. I was spanked, and so were my brothers. We were taught respect and obedience to authority.

There's a reason why Sparat had the best army of its time-no other army instilled the discipline and the punsihment that the spartans did.

[InsaneSins]

Here where I live spanking is called child abuse no matter what...

[handenbinder0]

Here where i live due to overreaction of non-spankfanatics, it is called child abuse when you so much as touch a kid that is not your own!!! And when you have something stolen say from your yard, car or house, it is said it is your own fault since you gave the perpetrader a chance. Guess its just a matter of time before they actually make a law saying its not the fault of the perpetrader but of the people giving them a chance. Thats what society we live in today!!!!

[robbie190975]

did you say that you were normal? I think not...wierdo

[timthecop]

LOL...just look at Paris Hilton. Folks either you discipline your kids or the courts will.

[deadlydean]

Hypocrite. If spanking's the right way, I'd rather not be a parent. When I kid, I did stupid things at time and my parents never hit me. There's other side that spanking and other discipline forms can lead to rebellion and violent behaviour too. Sometimes parents can go too far in spanking, such as leaving rashes, drawing blood or breaking bones. The only form of violence I'd rather use in my life is self-defense.

[bitch4life120]

thats funny i have never ever been spanked by any1 but when they were just playin!! hahaha if u think my mom would dare touch mr i would omg!!! just watch out cuz if u were my mom and touched me i wuld run away11!!

[bloggerchickster]

A prime example of why you should spank your kids, ladies and gentlemen. "I'd run away." Please do, your mother would probably love you for it.

[rsiano]

...If we manage to gather people as yourself and as bapyou to run these programs with gov'nt support we would change the social demographics 60-70 years from now!

[rsiano]

your view point and suggestion to bapyou on the issue is correct. better to be conformant than deviant to the delinquent mindset under those circumstances. those lives as far as I'm concerned are irreversible however we can focus on instating efficient social engineering programs and raise their children in a rigorous disciplinary fashion...

[bapyou]

OK chickster. Ocassionally I teach at a community college in Los Angeles. And, believe it or not, I sometimes have a discipline problem with the students. These are people who are purportedly "adults". What should I do?

[bloggerchickster]

Thats because they aren't adults. I guess you could try talking to them, but in a way where there would be no possible way they could misinterpret what you are saying as criticism.  Teens, and most people in their 20s still qualify as teens to me, are so touchy. I'm really at a loss as to what should be done.

[bapyou]

I'm at a loss as well. So much so that I don't think I want to teach again. If I do, I might just scream at all of the students "Get the f*ck out of my classroom!"

[bloggerchickster]

LOL. I love the video of the professors in college yelling at students for being rude. Some students are actually paying to be there and want to learn something so being distracted or interrupted by rude little brats is frustrating.

[bapyou]

What videos are those? Can you give me a link? Or maybe a search term?

[bloggerchickster]

try searching professor throws cell phone, there was a really great video with a professor throwing a student's cell phone.

[lurkerrekrul]

I think this may just be the best video I've ever seen on this site!

[rsiano]

unlike the death penalty issue I agree with everything that was said in this video. this one deserves an oscar!!

[rsiano]

it is important to discipline a child early on in life mainly at home in order for him/her to have a sense of good and bad and what to expect in association to the "real world". we can all agree that social life can at times be cruel however through discipline we are able to get right up and fight back. its like the animal kingdom but with disciplinary measures :).

[zeb1961]

what thats got to be a joke ? a kinky tithead

[11lex11]

this isnt the victorian ages where kids are seen and not heard, children are supposed to fun around and make noise, its called being a child, so stop trying to take their childhood from them and expect them to behave like adults. you can teach respect and i do believe in discipline but you said 'there kids run round like jackasses' uhh thats what kids do..

[bloggerchickster]

I never said they needed to be seen and not heard. I was merely stating that they should not be left to run around like heathens with no supervision and direction. Yes, children should play and shout and have fun, but not alone.

[DoctorSensitive]

I think disciplining children is dumb because the more you try the more rebellious they become. They only real discipline is the kind you learn when you're grown up and out of your parents house. It's called self discipline. The ability to control your reactions to external forces, like stupid people.

[bloggerchickster]

You are wrong. Discipline is about teaching children right from wrong and also to respect people. Letting a child do whatever they want is neglect. Children need to be taught. Its as simple as that.

[wallof3]

your parents abused you

[wallof3]

i agree there is a problem with discipline in teenagers from lower classes. However, a tantrum is bubbles of anger, rage a child cannot control themselves at a young age. So i dont think smacking them is really deserved or will stop a tantrum. Tantrums take time to overcome sp they just need to be left alone or soothed till it gradually drifts away.

[bloggerchickster]

That is ridiculous.

[KERIKIL]

i totally agree with all you said.the reason us has the highest crime rate start from the family.the law does not permit child discipline also the kids can sued the parents (the first kind in the world)what kind of law is that? you're genius i totally support you.

[kermitismypal]

there's a huge difference between your playful uncle giving you a weggie and a public high school teacher malitiously grabbing a kid.

and it sure as hell doesn't appear that you're anything close to normal. you disgust me.

[bloggerchickster]

Why does everyone immediately assume that every type of physical contact other than PDA-type contact is malicious?

[11lex11]

i dont mean a reward in like something just say like 'well done' and encourage their behaviour

and if you could beat a tiny short little toddler with a something hard and wooden then your a stronger person than me

yeah they need discipline but not in the way you suggest..and its the least affective and makes you seem like somethin to be feared rather than someone to turn to in bad times

[11lex11]

you dont respect kids as people do you? you wouldnt treat an adults like shit and you cant even come up with answers to anything i say cos im right

[bloggerchickster]

I never said to ignore their good behavior. I said they shouldn't be rewarded every time they do something that they are SUPPOSED to do. Nor did I say I would beat my kids all the time, only when the child needs discipline.

[11lex11]

the only person who is being ignorant here is you ignorant to your childs feelings and whats right for them. you dont give 2 fucks how our child feels just aslong as they dont become a shoplifter. dont give your child love affection then they will become insecure and in adulthood be bad at forming relationships..ive studied it in psychology..

[11lex11]

so basically what your sayin is that you shouldnt show affection to your children. ignore their good behavior and beat their ass when their bad. which will ultimatley give them a low self esteem. i didnt say dont discipline there has to be a balance

[11lex11]

well you will show your bf all affection and u sound like all u will do is beat ur kids ass's. hae u ever seen super nanny? those parents beat there kids and there kids are out of control then when supernany teaches the parents hwo to use time-outs, give them attensions and affections, reward charts. the kids were much better behaved and it was the 'hippy' approach they still had to respect their parents it jus made them like their parents and behave better.

[handenbinder0]

I saw it too and in merely every case it was the parents that were bad role-models and inconsequent to the kids; showed no respect to eachother or disagreed in front of the kids, thus making the kids insecure. By correcting this the nanny let the kids feel appreciated and set bounderies. The time out showed little affect however and only by consequently reinforcing it, the kids responded to that.

As in cp i am sure they would have responded immediately and tried to avoid a second one.

[11lex11]

you keep talkin about beatin them and you sound like you get some sort of sick sadistic pleasure out of it. sayin things like doin it infront of everyone as 'genius' and paddles n crap..gosh what a sicko..you dont mention once the most important things ..like affections and care..if a child is shop liftin maybe they have other issues..geesh your so small minded

[bloggerchickster]

It just proves that parents are ignorant. I'll bet that girl's mother used the "affections and care" method that you so support. Congratulations.

[11lex11]

you should distract them and keep them occupied if thereabout to throw a tantrum geesh have some sympathy kids cant help havin tantrums anger builds up and they dont no how to deal with it at a young age so u shud hug them, reasure them and distract them and if thy carry on ignore them therel learn thy dont get a candy bar or attension if thy throw a tantrum. hittin them jus shows u lash out wen ur angry so y shudnt thy hit there friends wen thy get pised off?

[11lex11]

maybe you need to be of a positive person if you gives your kids alot of praise and attension for the good things they do even if its something small and maybe something that will make them want to behave like a reward chart the maybe they wouldnt misbehave.

[11lex11]

and maybe children dont want to trail round a wallmart geesh its boring for a child they deserve a treat..

and kids dont go to sleep on time out. time outs are for about 5 minuites. who cares if their not a brutal punishment. discipline is about learning its a positive thing..not just punishment..

[11lex11]

and it doesnt make them turn into criminals because they weren't spankd. me and friends werent and we are fine. its usually based on who they hang out with and their personality. and teenagers who commit crimes dont usually get beaten at that age do they.

[11lex11]

bloggerchickster is obviously uneducated or doesnt think things through

thats why her types of punishment usually occur with the uneducated losers living in council houses

soap can gives kids diarrrhea so not a good idea

[bloggerchickster]

Yes, and parenting the hippie way contributes by NOT disciplining or even being involved with their children in any way. I love paying an extra dollar for everything I buy when your children become the assholes that shoplift. Thanks so much!

[bloggerchickster]

Oh, and a little bit of soap isn't going to hurt anyone. I didn't say to make the kid drink the entire damn bottle. I said "soap is the perfect punishment for swearing." I never said how much. But, I'll clarify since you clearly need direction. One or two small drops of dishwashing soap on the tongue. Does that help?

[11lex11]

absolutely disgusting

i hope you cant have kids

[jouster3]

good for you, if only more parents throught the same way

[ECCWinnipeg]

Ha,ha. But I was serious, sort of. Who spanked you with a ping pong paddle?

[bloggerchickster]

My mother.

[ECCWinnipeg]

Who got you with a ping pong paddle? Parents?

Boyfriend :) LOL

[bloggerchickster]

Hmm.  Kinky. LOL.

[ECCWinnipeg]

Your mom hung the paddle in the doorway?

Did your friends know that it was for spanking? Did they ever mention it? Yikes.

[bloggerchickster]

I don't think anyone ever noticed except my best friend (who was actually kind of a brother that lived next door). But thats because he got paddled with it too, when he deserved it. :)

[rezlenski]

Please don't have children.

[wylers]

So would you also recommend pulling down kids pants to spank them? Also, did you ever get spanked for using foul language?

[bloggerchickster]

No on both.  Soap is the best punishment for swearing.