now hun, I don't mean to be harsh or anything but... if you really want people to stop criticizing your unusually petite figure (well, to some extent), then you shouldn't really mention your clothing sizes in your haul videos. srsly, I've watched like all of them, and in almost each one of them you mention that several clothing pieces were 'size 2,1 etc'. We don't need to know what size you are, we just want to know what the piece looks like!!! =(
@iPromisedYou she doesn't say her size because she is 'bragging'. She is stating the size she bought so the viewers that are the same size as her or even not can get an idea of how the brand sizes their clothing. Like if she is a medium in say a korean branded item people will understand that they size differently or to get that size as they are a similar build.
People used to say I was too skinny, so I ended up gaining weight, and now people call me fat, and as a consequence i've gained more weight to an unhealthy level, and it's just so hard to lose weight when people keep putting you down! :( but this video made me feel better, thanks!
I underwent the same experience like you. Too fat, too skinny, too short (I'm also asian) and especially if I dont wear makeup...people around me will criticize even more about my face like OMG!! you look so old, shabby and so on.. I have heard such comments since I was young until now (I'm older than you ;-) ). I cant change anything (same as you said), and I'm happy to be like this! :)
You are a very beautiful and lovely person! There is this quote I love and it's: "Remeber: people only rain on your parade because they are jealous of your sun and tired of their shade."
You just read my mind xD I have acne problems too and I've also been skinny all my life. I've been made fun of because of that, I'm sick of people saying "Eat more!". They don't know what some people, like myself, are going through. I can't gain weight at all =/ I also have problems with clothes because I'm super tall so I perfectly understand you :(
But you are beautiful, don't let the bad comments make you feel bad! Fighting! ^_^
You are such a beautiful, strong person. Your personality just radiates. We are all so proud of you for making this video. We can see how hard it is for you to talk about this, and yet you still do it -- that makes you so brave. And despite all the imperfections that you described, we all still think you're incredibly beautiful, talented and intelligent. The way we accept you for who you are, is how we should accept ourselves, so thank you for reminding us that it's okay to be ourselves <3
jen, i think you are so beautiful! im sorry to hear that you were bullied, but i think that the people that say all these mean and hurtful things are just ignorant. i think this video is amazing for girls and women to watch because its all true
Watching this made me tear up bc I know EXACTLY how you feel. My whole life people have made comments about my body. I've been called a hanger, a skeleton, and worse someone said I disappeared when I turn to the side. Its considered rude to make jeering comments towards overweight people so why should calling thin people mean things be considered acceptable.
You have monolids! COOL! I've been looking for someone with monolids that does makeup and now I've found it! I've been watching your videos for a while and I didn't even realize that!
you are beautiful. we are all different and nobody can be like you or look like you because that's how we are. they can never be more beautiful you. there's not a single flaw in you nor anyone. we are be-autiful
People don't realize that outward appearance isn't what makes you beautiful. You're outward appearance makes you attractive, but who you are inside is what makes you a beautiful human being. No one's perfect, get over it & flaws are what makes each one of us unique. Besides, beauty is in the eye of the beholder, so what is attractive to you may not be to someone else. You can be the most stunning person in the world, but what does that matter if you have an ugly personality? Thanks for the vid
Is there any shop in USA called Bershka? Because a friend of mine is really thin and she shops there because they have mostly only the small sizes (not much online, but in stores they do) =) I just hoped it could help you...and one more thing - I think you're BEAUTIFUL the way you are, inside out. Please don't ever change. =)
Thank you. I was sad watching your video because you're so beatiful, you've got lovely hair about which I can only dream about. I don't know why people write in their coments thinks like that. Maby they're jealous? I would really like to look like you. To help you a little bit I'm way too fat and way too tall . So as you can see I'm oposite to you xD Kisses and take care, Thank you because now I feel a little bit better, No one is perfect!!! Kisses. And sorry for my english.!!!
i should've watched this a long time ago! for me, i've had acne problems even before i was a teenager. i had to go through junior high and finish high school with acne. and i've never been teased so badly before about my acne. every time i wash my face, i look in the mirror and think, "it's okay. it'll get better." as of now, i don't have perfect skin, of course. so jen, thank you so much for this video. you're beautiful and you don't need society to define it
Jen, I watched your video and it is almost my story. I am the same height as you are, and finding shoes is like a quest for me! And I adore shoes, so shopping was nothing but disappointment for me:) But now I am 25 and I learned to appreciate the good things and turn my flaws into pluses:) Moreover, no girl was carried by a guy more than me:) You are a beautiful girl and sure you know it by now:) don't change your friendly attitude ever:) xx
Jen, I watched your video and it is almost my story. I am the same height as you are, and finding shoes is like a quest for me! And I adore shoes, so shopping was nothing but disappointment for me:) But now I am 25 and I learned to appreciate the good things and turn my flaws into pluses:) Moreover, no girl was carried by a guy more than me:) You are a beautiful girl and sure you know it by now:) don't change your friendly attitude ever:) xx
Jen, I watched your video and it is almost my story. I am the same height as you are, and finding shoes is like a quest for me! And I adore shoes, so shopping was nothing but disappointment for me:) But now I am 25 and I learned to appreciate the good things and turn my flaws into pluses:) Moreover, no girl was carried by a guy more than me:) You are a beautiful girl and sure you know it by now:) don't change your friendly attitude ever:) xx
Jen, I watched your video and it is almost my story. I am the same height as you are, and finding shoes is like a quest for me! And I adore shoes, so shopping was nothing but disappointment for me:) But now I am 25 and I learned to appreciate the good things and turn my flaws into pluses:) Moreover, no girl was carried by a guy more than me:) You are a beautiful girl and sure you know it by now:) don't change your friendly attitude ever:) xx
I'm glad you made this video. I have the same problem with being small. I still get picked on for being skinny, even if they're joking around. I could never donate blood when I was in high school, because I was under the weight limit. I love to eat, but I just can't gain weight. I was born to be slim and petite and I can't change that.
Asian women do tend to be smaller. I actually felt like the odd one out because I'm kinda curvy for an Asian. But I think both have their advantages. There are certain clothes that work better on skinnier girls and there are clothes that work better on curvier women. I really love boatneck dresses like the one that Audrey Hepburn wore. I can't wear them because my boobs just make them look strange. Everybody wants to be less this and more that. We're pretty much all jealous of each other. lol
There are tons of girls who would give anything just to look like you or have your attitudes. To me, you are so beautiful, in and out.
People who say those nasty things don't feel like they need to be responsible for "just a couple of words" slipped from their mouths. And some people are so narrow minded. They can't see that beauty are tastes, not rules.
its hard trying to please everyone. its hard trying to please society. i recently had a nose allergy that wouldn't go away and i was so gloomy and sad because i looked horrible. i know that there are people laughing about it. but i can't do anything about it.
i used to had really long hair until i chopped it off this year, and...there were so many people who just told me in my face that, you know, you look bad in that hair. i guess at the end of the day, its my life. chin up and be confident.
I know exactly how you feel. I have had people telling me all my life I am too skinny and need to eat more and like you, I can't understand why people think its acceptable to tell us thin people that. And I also get you mean when you say you can't gain any weight. I desperately want to gain somemore weight so people will stop saying stuff about me but its really hard, and I eat more or less the same as my friends around me. But I am okay, and thanks so much for this!
WE actually have the same problem, Jes. You're too beautiful to listen to what other people say about you. They have said those things because they want to be like you and they CAN'T reach you for who you are. You have 3 B's: Beauty, Body and Brain. So, keep on rockin', sweetheart. ;-) I absolutely love your vids.
I think you are absolutely beautiful! I myself am Asian, and let me say I wish i were as thin as you! I used to post videos on youtube and people thought it was okay to say things like "you'll never have a boyfriend you're too fat" or things like "you're so stupid fat and ugly" or "you need to lose some weight to look normal" and it hurt so bad... But thank you so much for making this video it helped me a lot through that. Thanks :)
You are so beautiful, you don't look anorexic at all. Most Asian women, like me are just not as curvy as others... duh. A lot of us are skinny, too. Whoever calls you those names are such mean people. You are so beautifl without makeup btw...
I hate when my relatives every time they see me make a speech about how i am so skinny. That i am anorexic when i am just petite, and how my younger cousins weigh more then me. I eat like a pig. But its just go out the outer way. I reallly enjoyeed your vid, since many youtuber dont talk about this issue
im so glad u made this video cuz i used to also get picked on for being so thin and i feel better about myself now that i know im not the only person going through this =) thank you Jen <3 you r my role model and i really look up to you <3
who says you're anorexic are assholes. You're really beautiful woman with a very very pretty face and wonderful figure. And don' listen to them. Envy shoots at others and wounds herself.
I have the same problem as you: people and friends used to ask me if I'm sick or if I eat sometimes, but I'm not anorexic, I'm just who I am. Like you, I eat more than some other girls but many people doesn't want to know that, they prefere to think that I am like this because I choose it as because it's the way I am. I hope you'll understand me (i'm french and i don't speack english very well)
acne?? where?? >.< I hate when people say they have acne when they DON'T. You said "as you can see" no we can't see the acne, I would've preferred if you just said "well I take good care of my skin so that's why it doesn't look so bad now" instead of saying your beautiful clear skin is proof that you suffer from acne :/
people should stop criticism and judging others, look at your story before checking someone else's story...you don't know how much you can hurt a human being.
"Don't be distracted by criticism. Remember-the only taste of success some people have is when they take a bite out of you." >those who criticize, usually do it to cover their imperfections
you almost made me cry....i can relate to you cause i used to be bullied also in high school. I am skinny about 110 but in high school i was like 95 pounds and i'm tall about 5'8 which made me look skinnier. I like that you don't let comments get to you...and for the record, i'm just starting to see your videos and i find you so beautiful, and i mean it.
Hey, just ignore someone stupid. They criticize about u because they are jealours of u. So u dont have to be so care about soneone simply just jealours about u, u should be proud of that!
I found this channel only yesterday while I was procrastinating. Thank you for sharing your vulnerabilities & insights. Your video felt very sincere & I think many girls will be able to relate to your struggles of external perceptions/ pressures & internal porosity. I'm so glad to find minority women like yourself who promote care for oneself, diversity, & healthy self- image. I used to struggle a lot myself growing up in a small town w/ little diversity, acne, & my gymnast like body shape.
Hey! Be happy! I am overweight from young! Get teased a lot!! Just ignore them! I think they r jealous of u being pretty! Ps: I do have a mono lid on my right n a double lid on my left! ;)
Don't let any of the bad comments get to you. People will always judge and criticize no matter what. You are beautiful just the way you are, embrace it! No one's perfect and no one will ever be, people just need to face that fact and never judge a book by its cover because everyone has feelings; it'll hurt. Jen, you are absolutely gorgeous, we love you <3
It kind of think that ur bragging about ur body image. Most people want to be skinny than fat. "I can't not choose to be not skinny?" r u fucking kidding me? N also what? People made fun of u cuz u were skinny huh? That's cuz they're jealous u idiot! R u that stupid or r u making this video to make the viewers feel bad? I bet so many viewers got very upset after watching this. THANKS.
@Yellowbunny01 I think u might of misjudged a little! Yes people try their best to lose weight but then again when someone is naturally thin, they generally have no curves whatsoever, so you are automatically pined up upon and called anorexic on a daily basis nomatter how hard itis. I used to be like this, but as I grew older I learned to appreciate it, buttrust me its very sad and depressing to be stick thin nomatter how much u eat!
My weight has effected my life so much. I would've loved to have been in musicals or sing more often in front of people but because of my weight I knew I would never be accepted. Everything I tried always ended in rejection. I was bullied in school, sat alone at lunch for a whole year, but I never told anyone. People may not have told me to get on a treadmill straight out, but they have implied it. I try to look on the bright side but somedays, there is just no point.
I've struggled with my weight since I was 10 (I'm 21 now) and every time I go out I struggle with my appearance. I'm obese but I go out of my way to make myself not look like the fat slob that everyone thinks I am. I hate eating in public because though I'm eating foods that are good for me, people just give me these looks. I make myself look nice but it doesn't matter. People see that I'm fat and to them nothing else matters. Even if I lose weight and I'm trying, I'll always see myself as fat.
omg yesterday i was JUST feeling sooo self conscious about my getting a little tubby thighs and thinking i should watch what i eat then TODAY i see this video which TOTALLY puts me in an AWESOME MOOD to LUV MY BODY THE WAY IT IS~ THANK YOU JEN!! You're amazing <3
everything you said was amazingly inspirational :) thank you for making this video! i could relate to so many things you brought up. your words helped a lot :')
:) I understand about the comments. I hate it when people say," You need to eat more you're too skinny!" I also hate it when I'm told," You're going to gain weight if you eat like this." At least I'm happy to be me now. Thank you for being happy being you now. :)
For every bad thing someone says about you, there's at least 300 people who will comment on how beautiful and sweet you are. I get the "girl you need to eat" comment a lot, and it is really frustrating. But, I think a lot of people forget that you're under 5 feet tall, and that your size is just right for your height.
it's more acceptable to call someone skinny because our society views skinny people 'attractive'. lots of models are anorexic, and lots of girls want to be like them. most girls don't want to be obese.
i've been called anorexic too but it never bothered me because it's not true. i'm glad i can eat all the food i want without worrying about my thighs.
I couldn't believe my ears when you said that you're 26!! wow!! I thought you are 22 at most (I'm 23 and I look pretty young myself). You are a good person! you are beautiful inside and out!!! and let me tell you that I personally think you are hot!! (I'm not a lesbian or anything :D lol). Lots of hugs and kisses from a new subscriber <3
People just say stupid and mean things to make them selves feel better because they're not really happy with them selves and how they look. Don't ever let what someone says bring you down and btw ur so pretty and you're deffinantly one of my favorite people on youtube. Since I watched one of your videos I subscribed and started watching a bunch of them ur amazing
I personally think you're body size is just right. Better to be thin than fat!! you will have less health issues in the long run. I think its bcuz you live in states which is why ppl would say that you are too thin. Majority of American's are obese!!! If you ever have a chance of going to Canada, most of the ppl here are you're size:)
You are truly beautiful inside and out, and I can't believe people would say such mean things about you. I used to care what people said about me, but I will no longer let them bring me down. This video really touched my heart. I look up to you for making it. ♥
This was a lovely video, and I agree with all the positive things said here in the comments. :)
My insecurity comes from something I think weird-I'm not very girly. I have wished I wore the overly feminine dresses (like Zooey Deschanel) etc and worn makeup everyday. I'm 24 and I still think I'll change myself, but the truth is I'm a jeans and t shirts type and not comfortable in that stuff. But I wish I wasn't. It's...I dunno.
TT_TT that got me crying... Even if you hate one of your qualities there will always be someone who'll love it ;). In my 18 years of living I learned that WHOEVER you are, European or Asian (etc.), celebrity or not, there will always be people who'll hate you but people who'll love you for who you are. EVERYONE has problems! We would all lived happier if we didn't focus on what others think or comparing ourselves to others. Good luck everyone ^-^
thanks for this vidro i do relate alot.. im also skinny and sgort and i also have acne and people always tellibg me that oh your short your ugly. and it hurts my feeling i have such sensitive feeling but i dnt cry about it, its also because its just a waist of tears id just make myself strong and be contnted for who i am .. jen you dnt look short :D and i cant believe that your 26th you look like 18 lol :)) anyhow thank you so much for the video :)
I just rediscovered this video and I can completely relate. I am very skinny and I do eat and theres nothing I can do about it, but I've been called names and bugged about it by family and friends and it sucks. The difference is that I have really long legs and I like to wear skinny jeans because that's just my style and it accentuates my skinniness. Thank you for this video, it really made me feel better because I went shopping for jeans today and I was so worried that I looked too skinny and
i've always been criticized for my thin-ness. one time as i was w/ my mom, a stranger asked my mom if i had a "disease"/never ate her cooking & if it was hard on her that she had to go through this. i was like WTF. i pretty much became really sensitive, insecure, & introverted :( it's just that asians have smaller bone structures etc. & being 1/2 asian & white, i've always felt pressured about my body..but now, i feel great thanks to you ♥
No Jen :( you are sooo pretty and there's nothing you shouldn't like about yourself. Well you already know that. But yeah. It makes you who you are and a tall and idk buff Jen would make me nervous -.- the people who bully you were either hit in the head or want to get in your pants. You know, to hide their feelings for you :D I'll shut up now I just wanna say that when my sister saw you and didn't know your name, she asked me who you were by describing you as "that really pretty girl on YouTub
TT TT... What if you're like me. Short, with scoliosis, without the face to back it up? It saddens me everyday. I have a nasty rib hump and I've never felt sexy. :(
Jen - How on Earth did I miss this? I've been following you for a long time, but one of my subscribers sent me the link to this video and I'm so glad that I finally got to see this! You are so beautiful inside & out. Thank you for doing this video and for your constant class, poise, kindness and beauty. You are a gem - this made my day!
hey. ive been depressed bout this bout sometime now... but i did things to combat it like working out n playing my fav sport which is tennis. And it helps me eat better and improves my mindset and tones my body altogether. Been trying to gain muscle mass to improve my body structure because i am as well very lean and its hard for me to gain weight.
just wanted to say that ur video made my day. Its comforting to know that they are other people facing the same problems as i am. So keep it up =)
I am approximately 95 lbs and 5'2...I have struggled through EVERYTHING you talked about. I've heard all the comments and teases my whole life, from strangers, family, and "friends." However I have grown to become very confident in my body...there is beauty in all shapes and sizes of women. We've been brainwashed to believe in false ideals of femininity - for those like us, what's not lovely about being slender and delicate?
wait, people hate your monolids? o.O I LOVE how asians have monolids, I find them beautiful. o.O the people who hate monolids are... well, idiots. why should you hate something like that?
I don't think you look anorexic at all. You are Asian and it's normal that your body structure is small so...just ignor it. I think those People are jealous of you..that's all.
My girlfriends and I make frequent trips to pho or mcdonalds and I usually love going to both.. consecutively. Why? Because I can :) when people at work poke fun at my skinniness (I work in a restaurant) I just look at them, pour gravy on my fries, smile and say "At least I can splurge and not bloat :)"
Thanks for this vid Jen. I thought I was the only one who felt this way -3
OMG I get that all the time! I'm 90lbs and 5"4 & a lot of ppl are always telling me to eat because I look anorexic. How would they feel if I told them to throw those fries away and go to the gym instead? I love food & I love eating. I don't eat rich carbs like pastries though cuz it doesn't appeal to me and they just make me feel gross & bloated.
I'm sorry I'm Skinny but that's how god made me. If you don't like it, why should I care? I wasn't born into this world to please you.
When I first saw your videos,I thought you are gorgeous! I'm shock to hear that there you receive so many negative comments. I'm thinking its just because of where you are, If you are in an asian country, its entirely normal. I have so many friends that are petite like you but nobody says hateful comments.
Don't give up! Your videos has been very inspiring to me. I'm clueless when it comes to make up and I'm learning a lot from you!
Make more trips to asian countries and shop till you drop! ;)
Dear Jen, you did good. :) I honestly felt your heart throughout this video and am touched by how many people it could have inspired or helped or however they reacted to it. In my case, it made me feel secure that there were people out there like you and especially because you were willing to post this video to reach out to other girls and guys that may be struggling. We're all in this together as people, living our own ordinary lives!! :)) You have a beautiful personality and appearance. <3
Hey jen:) This by far to me is the most beautiful and lovely video that I have ever watched. I am really glad that I remembered your sandara clap your hands makeup tutorial way back and stumbled across this one. I've been depressed about lots of things but the number one reason that I am is because of my self image also. I am 19 years old and I have been dealing with acne since I was 12 or 13 years old. I'm glad that my face has cleared up but now I'm left with acne scars on my entire face. My
i ran into this video and omg i feel bad for yu T__T yur really REALLLY pretty and beautiful just like everybody else expect for those who have a cold heart
why dont people like such look at themselves, find their own faults instead of picking on people? seriously Jen, i think youre really pretty. and i would prefer to see you without make up in every single video because I love ur soul and that is what makes u a very pretty princess dear sis! love u! God bless xx ^_________^
m also monolid. they wud make fun of my face.never liked me.then i started hiding my eyes behind mascara and eyeliner. i dun have pretty dark long eyelashes and my left eye is like 0.1 smaller than the right one.but they dont know i got saved from a serious eye injury. the nurse who was cleaning me at the time of my birth, almost poked my eye ball out. I couldve been blind or with no eye at all. but i survived and yet i dunno why people become so mean so nasty so critical.
its the same with me, older women, in and outside my family always tell me to eat better eat more, though i have a pretty good diet, but i jst can;t gain wait, the dr. says im alrite, but i cant jst run around with a prescription or my doctor's report to show how healthy i am the way i am. i weigh 46kgs. i lose weight when i take stress or anything but i gain back. im 5ft 3.5inches or 5ft 4 inches. but this how God made me.making fun of how my eyes are like chinese or koreans.picking up on me
I think you are really-really pretty and I believe that small is more feminine and small ages better and looks younger. I am petite too, I wouldn't want to be a tall woman wearing size 8-9!
i remember when i first watched this video i started crying because i can soooo relate to this. some people still call me anorexic or make fun of me because i barely have boobies. i can't help it, i'm not really short, just smaller framed and light weight. there are a lot people that don't take me serious because of that. my face also looks kinda really young. i really want to get some curves otherwise no guy will notice me .. i think :/
@Arian3807 I'm the same, short and young face. since when I started school, and still now, people have always been asking me what I was doing in this grade -_- and I feel very bad about it. I've been very short and very skinny until.. about 15 years old. And I wasn't anorexic, I just didn't like eating, and I had to struggle with it everyday.
What are you talking about? People make fat jokes all the time. Just as much as skinny jokes. In this society it isn't acceptable to be fat but if you starve yourself people don't not want to be around you, they just want to be you.
youre so right. people shouldnt criticize other people bc they dont know their history. my korean choir teacher couldnt gain weight because when she was young she accidentally drank cleaning solution that messed up her intestines. as a result she can only take small bites of food or make juice out of the food she ate. we should be thankful we are alive and have food... unlike children in third world countries.
i rly liked this video! it made me feel so much better about myself! you can tell this rly comes from the heart, and is rly sincere, this made my day. thanks so much jen, i love your videos! :)
Im much less than 100 pounds and I'm pretty much sixteen. I'm flat chested and I have really tiny feet. I always get teased that Im too skiny. I take it all as a joke but it does sting. I do feel like it's something I cant change. I'm really tiny basically. One day I got called to the nurses office and somebody reported me for being anorexic, and I am most definitively not. I cried and ran out. I didnt ever want to go back to school. this made me smile and feel really understood (:
This video completely made my day. I've begun to notice that I'm so wrapped up in worrying about what other people think that I'm making myself completely miserable. I was heavy in middle school, but after high school I dropped all the extra weight almost instantly. Now when people say I have an eating disorder it feels like a compliment. I didn't realize that it might hurt someone else... But I digress, thank you for bringing me back to Earth, even if it only lasts for a little while :D
You're one of the most beautiful women I have EVER seen. I'm not even exaggerating. You have such a gorgeous face shape, cheekbones, lip shape, nose shape, everything. You're so beautiful inside and out, and don't let anyone make you feel bad about yourself. Seriously, you're stunning.
I really respect your courage for telling the truth, and I love attitude about life! I agree with everything you said, especially the fact that everybody has something that they would like to change about their body. You should do more heart 2 heart videos! they're my favorite!
Thank you for this, this is great. Being short and thin myself, I have gone through the same situations as you, from shopping issues to being accused of having an eating disorder, being made fun of for having no curves, everything! So thank you for letting me know I'm not alone.
I have so much to say about this, so my comment would be waaay too long. So I'm going to say this.
We are all beautiful in our own way.
Even if you're overweight, skinny, curvy, petite, tall, white, black, brown, beige, yellow or red you should be yourself, because you are unique. And you wouldn't be you if you looked like a "perfect" person.
It's our imperfections that makes us perfect in our own way ✿
I think you are beautiful and you should be proud to be who you are. A confident and successful woman! I'm the same as you, I eat, eat and eat and I keep losing weight. I actually did an experiment were for 3 weeks I'd only eat healthy and I kept the same weight, then I started eating yummy things and in 3 days I lost 3 pounds! I really, really think you are pretty and you seem a very good person. I wish you all the best!
Hey girl, you look BEautiful! =) Im korean, 24 yrs old and married. Got mono lid as well. But one difference to you is I struggle with 'overweightness' not 'skinniness". I envy what you have lol and you'll probably envy what I have. Which is funny. This just proves we are all beautiful in our own way! =) U look really pretty without makeup and cute too. Don't worry about all those criticisms, you believe in yourself and that's all it matters! ^________^
i have the same body type, and i don't really have a problem with it. the only problem is EVERYWHERE you go, people tell you "you're so anorexic! go eat a cheeseburger!" and they just assume you starve yourself to be how you naturally are -.-
@frmheadtotoe let me start off by saying that it was very brave of you to make this video... I can totally relate to you when it comes to being "vertically challenged" lol I'm a 4'11" 24 year old that gets mistaken for my 12 year old sister! i also have the hardest time finding shoes and especially jeans that will fit both my length and curves. but thankfully i have a loving boyfriend that loves me for me. You are very inspiring =)
I've been small my whole life. I've been called anorexic alot too but for the most part, i didn't get bullied which i am so thankful for. I'm 5'1 and all, I'm just super skinny. I wear smalls and extra smalls and usually I can't find things that fit my chest. It is frustrating, but I wouldnt change who I am and I've grown to love myself. I've got amazing friends who love me for me and I just wanted to share my story and say how inspiring you are. You are beautiful and i enjoy watching you. <3
You are really inspiring <3
eeshannn 6 days ago
now hun, I don't mean to be harsh or anything but... if you really want people to stop criticizing your unusually petite figure (well, to some extent), then you shouldn't really mention your clothing sizes in your haul videos. srsly, I've watched like all of them, and in almost each one of them you mention that several clothing pieces were 'size 2,1 etc'. We don't need to know what size you are, we just want to know what the piece looks like!!! =(
food for thought :-)
iPromisedYou 1 week ago
@iPromisedYou she doesn't say her size because she is 'bragging'. She is stating the size she bought so the viewers that are the same size as her or even not can get an idea of how the brand sizes their clothing. Like if she is a medium in say a korean branded item people will understand that they size differently or to get that size as they are a similar build.
tracy4jester 5 days ago 2
People used to say I was too skinny, so I ended up gaining weight, and now people call me fat, and as a consequence i've gained more weight to an unhealthy level, and it's just so hard to lose weight when people keep putting you down! :( but this video made me feel better, thanks!
scarlettmusic88 2 weeks ago
You are really lovely person.
nelly6147 2 weeks ago
I underwent the same experience like you. Too fat, too skinny, too short (I'm also asian) and especially if I dont wear makeup...people around me will criticize even more about my face like OMG!! you look so old, shabby and so on.. I have heard such comments since I was young until now (I'm older than you ;-) ). I cant change anything (same as you said), and I'm happy to be like this! :)
initialtermin1 3 weeks ago
You are just speaking out loud what I'm thinking all the time....I also struggled because of my proportions-.-
Yuukari2910 3 weeks ago
She would be such a wonderful mother :)
surferguy345 3 weeks ago
You are a very beautiful and lovely person! There is this quote I love and it's: "Remeber: people only rain on your parade because they are jealous of your sun and tired of their shade."
nadiasfashionjournal 4 weeks ago
FIGHTING!
phobak 1 month ago
You just read my mind xD I have acne problems too and I've also been skinny all my life. I've been made fun of because of that, I'm sick of people saying "Eat more!". They don't know what some people, like myself, are going through. I can't gain weight at all =/ I also have problems with clothes because I'm super tall so I perfectly understand you :(
But you are beautiful, don't let the bad comments make you feel bad! Fighting! ^_^
m3loDy89 1 month ago
You are such a beautiful, strong person. Your personality just radiates. We are all so proud of you for making this video. We can see how hard it is for you to talk about this, and yet you still do it -- that makes you so brave. And despite all the imperfections that you described, we all still think you're incredibly beautiful, talented and intelligent. The way we accept you for who you are, is how we should accept ourselves, so thank you for reminding us that it's okay to be ourselves <3
8mrjk 1 month ago 2
i can relate i have been called that i dont have a body and it really hurts and it sticks in your head but yea we all have inperfections:)
maybellynv 1 month ago
jen, i think you are so beautiful! im sorry to hear that you were bullied, but i think that the people that say all these mean and hurtful things are just ignorant. i think this video is amazing for girls and women to watch because its all true
singndreamr49 1 month ago
i know how it is having trouble finding clothes that fit! thank you for being honest. i'm sorry to hear that you are criticized for your size.
bellebellabonita 1 month ago
i just fell in love with you. and i'm a straight girl..
herroangela 1 month ago in playlist More videos from frmheadtotoe
Watching this made me tear up bc I know EXACTLY how you feel. My whole life people have made comments about my body. I've been called a hanger, a skeleton, and worse someone said I disappeared when I turn to the side. Its considered rude to make jeering comments towards overweight people so why should calling thin people mean things be considered acceptable.
Xblubber226 1 month ago
You have monolids! COOL! I've been looking for someone with monolids that does makeup and now I've found it! I've been watching your videos for a while and I didn't even realize that!
xSullenTears 1 month ago
you are beautiful. we are all different and nobody can be like you or look like you because that's how we are. they can never be more beautiful you. there's not a single flaw in you nor anyone. we are be-autiful
1225greenangel 2 months ago
U r beautiful inside and outside!!!
msMeow1212 2 months ago
People don't realize that outward appearance isn't what makes you beautiful. You're outward appearance makes you attractive, but who you are inside is what makes you a beautiful human being. No one's perfect, get over it & flaws are what makes each one of us unique. Besides, beauty is in the eye of the beholder, so what is attractive to you may not be to someone else. You can be the most stunning person in the world, but what does that matter if you have an ugly personality? Thanks for the vid
RolipoliOliLoveMusic 2 months ago 2
U look great and wow ur aging amazingly. u r 26 and u look like a teen still...just like how avril lavigne does. :)
emilywarawa 2 months ago
wow! you and my mom wear the same shoe size :)
PinkIceCream93 2 months ago
Is there any shop in USA called Bershka? Because a friend of mine is really thin and she shops there because they have mostly only the small sizes (not much online, but in stores they do) =) I just hoped it could help you...and one more thing - I think you're BEAUTIFUL the way you are, inside out. Please don't ever change. =)
mademoiselleabbey 2 months ago
HOW DARE PEOPLE SAY THAT SHE IS TOO SKINNY, EAT A SANDWICH THINGG,, SHE IS GORGEOUS PEOPLE, mann, people face the fact that she is pretty ! =.=
choijieyha 2 months ago 2
Thank you. I was sad watching your video because you're so beatiful, you've got lovely hair about which I can only dream about. I don't know why people write in their coments thinks like that. Maby they're jealous? I would really like to look like you. To help you a little bit I'm way too fat and way too tall . So as you can see I'm oposite to you xD Kisses and take care, Thank you because now I feel a little bit better, No one is perfect!!! Kisses. And sorry for my english.!!!
Issemine 2 months ago
i should've watched this a long time ago! for me, i've had acne problems even before i was a teenager. i had to go through junior high and finish high school with acne. and i've never been teased so badly before about my acne. every time i wash my face, i look in the mirror and think, "it's okay. it'll get better." as of now, i don't have perfect skin, of course. so jen, thank you so much for this video. you're beautiful and you don't need society to define it
screamjellaaaay 2 months ago
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Jen, I watched your video and it is almost my story. I am the same height as you are, and finding shoes is like a quest for me! And I adore shoes, so shopping was nothing but disappointment for me:) But now I am 25 and I learned to appreciate the good things and turn my flaws into pluses:) Moreover, no girl was carried by a guy more than me:) You are a beautiful girl and sure you know it by now:) don't change your friendly attitude ever:) xx
MsAlexandraola 2 months ago
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Jen, I watched your video and it is almost my story. I am the same height as you are, and finding shoes is like a quest for me! And I adore shoes, so shopping was nothing but disappointment for me:) But now I am 25 and I learned to appreciate the good things and turn my flaws into pluses:) Moreover, no girl was carried by a guy more than me:) You are a beautiful girl and sure you know it by now:) don't change your friendly attitude ever:) xx
MsAlexandraola 2 months ago
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Jen, I watched your video and it is almost my story. I am the same height as you are, and finding shoes is like a quest for me! And I adore shoes, so shopping was nothing but disappointment for me:) But now I am 25 and I learned to appreciate the good things and turn my flaws into pluses:) Moreover, no girl was carried by a guy more than me:) You are a beautiful girl and sure you know it by now:) don't change your friendly attitude ever:) xx
MsAlexandraola 2 months ago
Jen, I watched your video and it is almost my story. I am the same height as you are, and finding shoes is like a quest for me! And I adore shoes, so shopping was nothing but disappointment for me:) But now I am 25 and I learned to appreciate the good things and turn my flaws into pluses:) Moreover, no girl was carried by a guy more than me:) You are a beautiful girl and sure you know it by now:) don't change your friendly attitude ever:) xx
MsAlexandraola 2 months ago 2
I'm glad you made this video. I have the same problem with being small. I still get picked on for being skinny, even if they're joking around. I could never donate blood when I was in high school, because I was under the weight limit. I love to eat, but I just can't gain weight. I was born to be slim and petite and I can't change that.
stalyspencer 2 months ago
hey jen? you're great.
xfruityfairy 2 months ago
you are beautiful inside and outside! Your videous make me happy!
LifeInPink999 2 months ago
holy crap, you are freaking beautiful..wait no absolutely out of this world stunningly breath taking :)
shataylorluv 2 months ago in playlist More videos from frmheadtotoe
Jen, do you use the Clarisonic or Olay Pro-X Advanced Cleansing System at all?
theKosmeticKid 3 months ago
come to Thailand! There are tonsss of people of your size
we have clothes and shoes of your size also
I, for one is so skinny like you but it is okay here in Thailand
it's normal :))
figthing fighting Jen!
elfiiez 3 months ago
yeah come to Thailand
I always welcome ^^
Hnew2U 2 months ago
Asian women do tend to be smaller. I actually felt like the odd one out because I'm kinda curvy for an Asian. But I think both have their advantages. There are certain clothes that work better on skinnier girls and there are clothes that work better on curvier women. I really love boatneck dresses like the one that Audrey Hepburn wore. I can't wear them because my boobs just make them look strange. Everybody wants to be less this and more that. We're pretty much all jealous of each other. lol
thehypercookie 3 months ago
You are beautiful!
michellephil413 3 months ago
There are tons of girls who would give anything just to look like you or have your attitudes. To me, you are so beautiful, in and out.
People who say those nasty things don't feel like they need to be responsible for "just a couple of words" slipped from their mouths. And some people are so narrow minded. They can't see that beauty are tastes, not rules.
ladytamone 3 months ago 3
you look beautiful! your smile is so much more visible!
TheTakealeap 3 months ago
what acne?
XoXBosnianXoX 3 months ago 19
You are soooooo beautiful!! :]
llorenamaya 3 months ago
You are so inspiring.
OnleeAmore 3 months ago 2
its hard trying to please everyone. its hard trying to please society. i recently had a nose allergy that wouldn't go away and i was so gloomy and sad because i looked horrible. i know that there are people laughing about it. but i can't do anything about it.
i used to had really long hair until i chopped it off this year, and...there were so many people who just told me in my face that, you know, you look bad in that hair. i guess at the end of the day, its my life. chin up and be confident.
superherovivien 3 months ago
its so sad how blind and brainwashed the world is.. people should see beauty in what already is. that everything is perfect the way it is.
dynamitelady 3 months ago
People always judge others ' imperfection. They is only because they are not mature.
jessbabe86 3 months ago
I love u so much, and I adore you!!! I
jessbabe86 3 months ago
Jen i love you so much. This videos explains me perfectly, rather I think i'm the opposite of you D: You're such an inspiration. Stay strong (:
iHeartSSS501 3 months ago
I know exactly how you feel. I have had people telling me all my life I am too skinny and need to eat more and like you, I can't understand why people think its acceptable to tell us thin people that. And I also get you mean when you say you can't gain any weight. I desperately want to gain somemore weight so people will stop saying stuff about me but its really hard, and I eat more or less the same as my friends around me. But I am okay, and thanks so much for this!
phebes 3 months ago
WE actually have the same problem, Jes. You're too beautiful to listen to what other people say about you. They have said those things because they want to be like you and they CAN'T reach you for who you are. You have 3 B's: Beauty, Body and Brain. So, keep on rockin', sweetheart. ;-) I absolutely love your vids.
zieyou77 4 months ago in playlist More videos from frmheadtotoe
I think you are absolutely beautiful! I myself am Asian, and let me say I wish i were as thin as you! I used to post videos on youtube and people thought it was okay to say things like "you'll never have a boyfriend you're too fat" or things like "you're so stupid fat and ugly" or "you need to lose some weight to look normal" and it hurt so bad... But thank you so much for making this video it helped me a lot through that. Thanks :)
littlemisskorean 4 months ago
You are so beautiful, you don't look anorexic at all. Most Asian women, like me are just not as curvy as others... duh. A lot of us are skinny, too. Whoever calls you those names are such mean people. You are so beautifl without makeup btw...
feltonswhore 4 months ago
I hate when my relatives every time they see me make a speech about how i am so skinny. That i am anorexic when i am just petite, and how my younger cousins weigh more then me. I eat like a pig. But its just go out the outer way. I reallly enjoyeed your vid, since many youtuber dont talk about this issue
Muggobeano 4 months ago
im so glad u made this video cuz i used to also get picked on for being so thin and i feel better about myself now that i know im not the only person going through this =) thank you Jen <3 you r my role model and i really look up to you <3
somethingboutthewind 4 months ago
who says you're anorexic are assholes. You're really beautiful woman with a very very pretty face and wonderful figure. And don' listen to them. Envy shoots at others and wounds herself.
crinpeecc 4 months ago
I have the same problem as you: people and friends used to ask me if I'm sick or if I eat sometimes, but I'm not anorexic, I'm just who I am. Like you, I eat more than some other girls but many people doesn't want to know that, they prefere to think that I am like this because I choose it as because it's the way I am. I hope you'll understand me (i'm french and i don't speack english very well)
Momillon 4 months ago
acne?? where?? >.< I hate when people say they have acne when they DON'T. You said "as you can see" no we can't see the acne, I would've preferred if you just said "well I take good care of my skin so that's why it doesn't look so bad now" instead of saying your beautiful clear skin is proof that you suffer from acne :/
MrsChubzBunny 4 months ago
people should stop criticism and judging others, look at your story before checking someone else's story...you don't know how much you can hurt a human being.
venturadiaz 4 months ago
Just wanted to leave you with this:
"Don't be distracted by criticism. Remember-the only taste of success some people have is when they take a bite out of you." >those who criticize, usually do it to cover their imperfections
venturadiaz 4 months ago
you almost made me cry....i can relate to you cause i used to be bullied also in high school. I am skinny about 110 but in high school i was like 95 pounds and i'm tall about 5'8 which made me look skinnier. I like that you don't let comments get to you...and for the record, i'm just starting to see your videos and i find you so beautiful, and i mean it.
venturadiaz 4 months ago
This video brought on tears. You truly INSPIRE me.
I've been extremely down about my appearence... my skin, my weight etc... this somehow made me feel a little more optimistic.
Thankyou so much.
CassiaKawaii 4 months ago
Your absoloutely stunning, radiant without makeup :)
You can carry it off extremely well.... x x x
CassiaKawaii 4 months ago
You have acne all over your face?
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if that's "all over your face"... then... then...
*goes to corner*
sobsobsobsob
Limebunny255 4 months ago
omg! I adore how beautiful you are!!
Soglo101 4 months ago
You're freaking gorgeous... Inside and out.
gabbyr89 4 months ago
I just subbed! your perfect :)
sgmalcolm 4 months ago
Hey, just ignore someone stupid. They criticize about u because they are jealours of u. So u dont have to be so care about soneone simply just jealours about u, u should be proud of that!
honeypauline 4 months ago
Your skin is perfect, you're such a beautiful woman inside and out:D
SJmusiclove 4 months ago 37
i dont see the acne :O youre pretty no matter what !
snow2tears 4 months ago 3
You're beautiful! Everyone is :]
But people DO think it's ok to tell fat people they should lose some weight...
melmeloks 5 months ago
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lilyjskim 5 months ago
I found this channel only yesterday while I was procrastinating. Thank you for sharing your vulnerabilities & insights. Your video felt very sincere & I think many girls will be able to relate to your struggles of external perceptions/ pressures & internal porosity. I'm so glad to find minority women like yourself who promote care for oneself, diversity, & healthy self- image. I used to struggle a lot myself growing up in a small town w/ little diversity, acne, & my gymnast like body shape.
vascularcambium 5 months ago
Hey! Be happy! I am overweight from young! Get teased a lot!! Just ignore them! I think they r jealous of u being pretty! Ps: I do have a mono lid on my right n a double lid on my left! ;)
mainemainez 5 months ago
Don't let any of the bad comments get to you. People will always judge and criticize no matter what. You are beautiful just the way you are, embrace it! No one's perfect and no one will ever be, people just need to face that fact and never judge a book by its cover because everyone has feelings; it'll hurt. Jen, you are absolutely gorgeous, we love you <3
jouvanda 5 months ago
It kind of think that ur bragging about ur body image. Most people want to be skinny than fat. "I can't not choose to be not skinny?" r u fucking kidding me? N also what? People made fun of u cuz u were skinny huh? That's cuz they're jealous u idiot! R u that stupid or r u making this video to make the viewers feel bad? I bet so many viewers got very upset after watching this. THANKS.
Yellowbunny01 5 months ago
@Yellowbunny01 I think u might of misjudged a little! Yes people try their best to lose weight but then again when someone is naturally thin, they generally have no curves whatsoever, so you are automatically pined up upon and called anorexic on a daily basis nomatter how hard itis. I used to be like this, but as I grew older I learned to appreciate it, buttrust me its very sad and depressing to be stick thin nomatter how much u eat!
fashionbeautylights 2 months ago
My weight has effected my life so much. I would've loved to have been in musicals or sing more often in front of people but because of my weight I knew I would never be accepted. Everything I tried always ended in rejection. I was bullied in school, sat alone at lunch for a whole year, but I never told anyone. People may not have told me to get on a treadmill straight out, but they have implied it. I try to look on the bright side but somedays, there is just no point.
HikoriStickz 5 months ago in playlist More videos from frmheadtotoe
I've struggled with my weight since I was 10 (I'm 21 now) and every time I go out I struggle with my appearance. I'm obese but I go out of my way to make myself not look like the fat slob that everyone thinks I am. I hate eating in public because though I'm eating foods that are good for me, people just give me these looks. I make myself look nice but it doesn't matter. People see that I'm fat and to them nothing else matters. Even if I lose weight and I'm trying, I'll always see myself as fat.
HikoriStickz 5 months ago
Take this easy!! I am a Chinese, and i understand that Asian tends to have smaller size and i wanna say YOU ARE NOT FLAT!! DEFINITELY:)
I have strange body size too! i have no boobs AND SO WHAT??
you are beautiful from head to toe:):)
jiu0524 5 months ago
Jen - We all love you!thank you so much for doing those videos!It helps so many people, you have no idea.
<3
mikiAnime13 5 months ago
Jen, nobody hates your spots, your hair, your height, your skinny-ness. They just hate themselves.
lilmissjess141 5 months ago
You are absolutely gorgeous.
LeafySuburb 5 months ago
:[ you have like the best skin..
theHellostrawberry 5 months ago
omg yesterday i was JUST feeling sooo self conscious about my getting a little tubby thighs and thinking i should watch what i eat then TODAY i see this video which TOTALLY puts me in an AWESOME MOOD to LUV MY BODY THE WAY IT IS~ THANK YOU JEN!! You're amazing <3
shiningstarrynight 5 months ago
everything you said was amazingly inspirational :) thank you for making this video! i could relate to so many things you brought up. your words helped a lot :')
thejennyaccount 5 months ago
:) I understand about the comments. I hate it when people say," You need to eat more you're too skinny!" I also hate it when I'm told," You're going to gain weight if you eat like this." At least I'm happy to be me now. Thank you for being happy being you now. :)
JubilantMints 5 months ago
You're such an inspirational person. I look up to you everyday!
omfgitshamy 5 months ago
For every bad thing someone says about you, there's at least 300 people who will comment on how beautiful and sweet you are. I get the "girl you need to eat" comment a lot, and it is really frustrating. But, I think a lot of people forget that you're under 5 feet tall, and that your size is just right for your height.
nihaosong 5 months ago
it's more acceptable to call someone skinny because our society views skinny people 'attractive'. lots of models are anorexic, and lots of girls want to be like them. most girls don't want to be obese.
i've been called anorexic too but it never bothered me because it's not true. i'm glad i can eat all the food i want without worrying about my thighs.
iskrew 5 months ago 52
I couldn't believe my ears when you said that you're 26!! wow!! I thought you are 22 at most (I'm 23 and I look pretty young myself). You are a good person! you are beautiful inside and out!!! and let me tell you that I personally think you are hot!! (I'm not a lesbian or anything :D lol). Lots of hugs and kisses from a new subscriber <3
CristinaBuzac 5 months ago in playlist More videos from frmheadtotoe
People just say stupid and mean things to make them selves feel better because they're not really happy with them selves and how they look. Don't ever let what someone says bring you down and btw ur so pretty and you're deffinantly one of my favorite people on youtube. Since I watched one of your videos I subscribed and started watching a bunch of them ur amazing
samiam93xo 5 months ago
I personally think you're body size is just right. Better to be thin than fat!! you will have less health issues in the long run. I think its bcuz you live in states which is why ppl would say that you are too thin. Majority of American's are obese!!! If you ever have a chance of going to Canada, most of the ppl here are you're size:)
cutiemegumi 5 months ago
You are truly beautiful inside and out, and I can't believe people would say such mean things about you. I used to care what people said about me, but I will no longer let them bring me down. This video really touched my heart. I look up to you for making it. ♥
xoGailAtontsa 5 months ago
YOU'RE SO EFFING BEAUTIFUL SO DON'T YOU DARE EVEN CARE ABOUT THESE NASTY COMMENTS.
Coletterfied 5 months ago
This was a lovely video, and I agree with all the positive things said here in the comments. :)
My insecurity comes from something I think weird-I'm not very girly. I have wished I wore the overly feminine dresses (like Zooey Deschanel) etc and worn makeup everyday. I'm 24 and I still think I'll change myself, but the truth is I'm a jeans and t shirts type and not comfortable in that stuff. But I wish I wasn't. It's...I dunno.
GrinderCorpse 5 months ago 4
TT_TT that got me crying... Even if you hate one of your qualities there will always be someone who'll love it ;). In my 18 years of living I learned that WHOEVER you are, European or Asian (etc.), celebrity or not, there will always be people who'll hate you but people who'll love you for who you are. EVERYONE has problems! We would all lived happier if we didn't focus on what others think or comparing ourselves to others. Good luck everyone ^-^
SpyMisa 5 months ago
thanks for this vidro i do relate alot.. im also skinny and sgort and i also have acne and people always tellibg me that oh your short your ugly. and it hurts my feeling i have such sensitive feeling but i dnt cry about it, its also because its just a waist of tears id just make myself strong and be contnted for who i am .. jen you dnt look short :D and i cant believe that your 26th you look like 18 lol :)) anyhow thank you so much for the video :)
05arieLrOck 5 months ago
I can hardly even see any acne on your face! You're beautiful. Thanks for making this video, it really opened up some windows.
cynicolloquy 5 months ago
mayyyyyyyn u look 16
Laviesestbelle 5 months ago in playlist More videos from frmheadtotoe
I just rediscovered this video and I can completely relate. I am very skinny and I do eat and theres nothing I can do about it, but I've been called names and bugged about it by family and friends and it sucks. The difference is that I have really long legs and I like to wear skinny jeans because that's just my style and it accentuates my skinniness. Thank you for this video, it really made me feel better because I went shopping for jeans today and I was so worried that I looked too skinny and
DevyNoel 5 months ago
i've always been criticized for my thin-ness. one time as i was w/ my mom, a stranger asked my mom if i had a "disease"/never ate her cooking & if it was hard on her that she had to go through this. i was like WTF. i pretty much became really sensitive, insecure, & introverted :( it's just that asians have smaller bone structures etc. & being 1/2 asian & white, i've always felt pressured about my body..but now, i feel great thanks to you ♥
DaiDaaisuki 5 months ago
No Jen :( you are sooo pretty and there's nothing you shouldn't like about yourself. Well you already know that. But yeah. It makes you who you are and a tall and idk buff Jen would make me nervous -.- the people who bully you were either hit in the head or want to get in your pants. You know, to hide their feelings for you :D I'll shut up now I just wanna say that when my sister saw you and didn't know your name, she asked me who you were by describing you as "that really pretty girl on YouTub
LonelyKaizoku777 5 months ago
TT TT... What if you're like me. Short, with scoliosis, without the face to back it up? It saddens me everyday. I have a nasty rib hump and I've never felt sexy. :(
ZehMagster 6 months ago
cô bé xinh quá, bạn em àh? giới thiệu à đi....:*
kingofmen9999 6 months ago
Jen - How on Earth did I miss this? I've been following you for a long time, but one of my subscribers sent me the link to this video and I'm so glad that I finally got to see this! You are so beautiful inside & out. Thank you for doing this video and for your constant class, poise, kindness and beauty. You are a gem - this made my day!
xoxo Angela
quixoticgirly 6 months ago 2
hey. ive been depressed bout this bout sometime now... but i did things to combat it like working out n playing my fav sport which is tennis. And it helps me eat better and improves my mindset and tones my body altogether. Been trying to gain muscle mass to improve my body structure because i am as well very lean and its hard for me to gain weight.
just wanted to say that ur video made my day. Its comforting to know that they are other people facing the same problems as i am. So keep it up =)
00side00 6 months ago
I am approximately 95 lbs and 5'2...I have struggled through EVERYTHING you talked about. I've heard all the comments and teases my whole life, from strangers, family, and "friends." However I have grown to become very confident in my body...there is beauty in all shapes and sizes of women. We've been brainwashed to believe in false ideals of femininity - for those like us, what's not lovely about being slender and delicate?
You're like a little nymph. c:
skymyth94 6 months ago
wait, people hate your monolids? o.O I LOVE how asians have monolids, I find them beautiful. o.O the people who hate monolids are... well, idiots. why should you hate something like that?
SoundInWhisper 6 months ago
I don't think you look anorexic at all. You are Asian and it's normal that your body structure is small so...just ignor it. I think those People are jealous of you..that's all.
Hotfudgesundae2003 6 months ago 60
you are amazing <3
music4ever131 6 months ago
My girlfriends and I make frequent trips to pho or mcdonalds and I usually love going to both.. consecutively. Why? Because I can :) when people at work poke fun at my skinniness (I work in a restaurant) I just look at them, pour gravy on my fries, smile and say "At least I can splurge and not bloat :)"
Thanks for this vid Jen. I thought I was the only one who felt this way -3
duj0urproductions01 6 months ago
OMG I get that all the time! I'm 90lbs and 5"4 & a lot of ppl are always telling me to eat because I look anorexic. How would they feel if I told them to throw those fries away and go to the gym instead? I love food & I love eating. I don't eat rich carbs like pastries though cuz it doesn't appeal to me and they just make me feel gross & bloated.
I'm sorry I'm Skinny but that's how god made me. If you don't like it, why should I care? I wasn't born into this world to please you.
duj0urproductions01 6 months ago
You are very inspiring. I love your videos:)
CreativeStarlet13 6 months ago
When I first saw your videos,I thought you are gorgeous! I'm shock to hear that there you receive so many negative comments. I'm thinking its just because of where you are, If you are in an asian country, its entirely normal. I have so many friends that are petite like you but nobody says hateful comments.
Don't give up! Your videos has been very inspiring to me. I'm clueless when it comes to make up and I'm learning a lot from you!
Make more trips to asian countries and shop till you drop! ;)
szetwinne 6 months ago
You are so pretty don't let the haters get to you <3
hoohoocat71 6 months ago
you are BEAUTIFUL!!! i LOVE your videos. PLEASE keep on making them...
idance2727 6 months ago
You are beautiful and seem to be a really good person .. your videos are amazing ! <3
mylcrowl 6 months ago
Dear Jen, you did good. :) I honestly felt your heart throughout this video and am touched by how many people it could have inspired or helped or however they reacted to it. In my case, it made me feel secure that there were people out there like you and especially because you were willing to post this video to reach out to other girls and guys that may be struggling. We're all in this together as people, living our own ordinary lives!! :)) You have a beautiful personality and appearance. <3
hanicherry 6 months ago
You're pretty without makeup =)
Niteangel100 6 months ago
you are so incredibly beautiful. inside and out. this video is so touching and you really don't deserve any type of hate comments. you are lovely <3
rrawrxloserr 6 months ago
Hey jen:) This by far to me is the most beautiful and lovely video that I have ever watched. I am really glad that I remembered your sandara clap your hands makeup tutorial way back and stumbled across this one. I've been depressed about lots of things but the number one reason that I am is because of my self image also. I am 19 years old and I have been dealing with acne since I was 12 or 13 years old. I'm glad that my face has cleared up but now I'm left with acne scars on my entire face. My
ekalikeswhat 6 months ago
i ran into this video and omg i feel bad for yu T__T yur really REALLLY pretty and beautiful just like everybody else expect for those who have a cold heart
IonWeird 6 months ago
why dont people like such look at themselves, find their own faults instead of picking on people? seriously Jen, i think youre really pretty. and i would prefer to see you without make up in every single video because I love ur soul and that is what makes u a very pretty princess dear sis! love u! God bless xx ^_________^
Abyswonderworld 6 months ago
m also monolid. they wud make fun of my face.never liked me.then i started hiding my eyes behind mascara and eyeliner. i dun have pretty dark long eyelashes and my left eye is like 0.1 smaller than the right one.but they dont know i got saved from a serious eye injury. the nurse who was cleaning me at the time of my birth, almost poked my eye ball out. I couldve been blind or with no eye at all. but i survived and yet i dunno why people become so mean so nasty so critical.
Abyswonderworld 6 months ago
its the same with me, older women, in and outside my family always tell me to eat better eat more, though i have a pretty good diet, but i jst can;t gain wait, the dr. says im alrite, but i cant jst run around with a prescription or my doctor's report to show how healthy i am the way i am. i weigh 46kgs. i lose weight when i take stress or anything but i gain back. im 5ft 3.5inches or 5ft 4 inches. but this how God made me.making fun of how my eyes are like chinese or koreans.picking up on me
Abyswonderworld 6 months ago
You are beautiful. Inside and out.
DreamsofSeoul 6 months ago
i love you. :D
EileenKimMm 6 months ago
I think you are really-really pretty and I believe that small is more feminine and small ages better and looks younger. I am petite too, I wouldn't want to be a tall woman wearing size 8-9!
cat22203 6 months ago
@cat22203 I meant shoe size
cat22203 6 months ago
i think being small is really cute. ^_^
CrystalGirl623 6 months ago
Who were those people? They're horrible!
flyingbeagles 6 months ago
i remember when i first watched this video i started crying because i can soooo relate to this. some people still call me anorexic or make fun of me because i barely have boobies. i can't help it, i'm not really short, just smaller framed and light weight. there are a lot people that don't take me serious because of that. my face also looks kinda really young. i really want to get some curves otherwise no guy will notice me .. i think :/
CuteMelodyx3 6 months ago
@CuteMelodyx3 well alot of women would love to be your body weight. if ur 2 fat ur unhappy. if ur 2 skinny ur not happy. WHAT IS THE PERFECT WEIGHT?
CrystalGirl623 6 months ago
@Arian3807 I'm the same, short and young face. since when I started school, and still now, people have always been asking me what I was doing in this grade -_- and I feel very bad about it. I've been very short and very skinny until.. about 15 years old. And I wasn't anorexic, I just didn't like eating, and I had to struggle with it everyday.
chiisaimomoko 6 months ago
What are you talking about? People make fat jokes all the time. Just as much as skinny jokes. In this society it isn't acceptable to be fat but if you starve yourself people don't not want to be around you, they just want to be you.
meganahh123 6 months ago
when the video ended I completely forgot what I want to type but I'll say this <3
Valeriex8 6 months ago
youre so right. people shouldnt criticize other people bc they dont know their history. my korean choir teacher couldnt gain weight because when she was young she accidentally drank cleaning solution that messed up her intestines. as a result she can only take small bites of food or make juice out of the food she ate. we should be thankful we are alive and have food... unlike children in third world countries.
curiousasha 6 months ago 3
I can related to this so much... She's an inspiration.
lesilebangsY0U 6 months ago
ur not that skinny. u look so pretty without makeup. i totally get u! im not that skinny but i feel like im not perfect. well nobody is.
CrystalGirl623 6 months ago
YOU ARE AN INSPIRATION ;D
Morgielovestosk8 6 months ago
i rly liked this video! it made me feel so much better about myself! you can tell this rly comes from the heart, and is rly sincere, this made my day. thanks so much jen, i love your videos! :)
andysixx719 6 months ago
Im much less than 100 pounds and I'm pretty much sixteen. I'm flat chested and I have really tiny feet. I always get teased that Im too skiny. I take it all as a joke but it does sting. I do feel like it's something I cant change. I'm really tiny basically. One day I got called to the nurses office and somebody reported me for being anorexic, and I am most definitively not. I cried and ran out. I didnt ever want to go back to school. this made me smile and feel really understood (:
Didreanne 6 months ago
A beautiful message from a beautiful woman. Both inside and out.
maebeeee 7 months ago
This video completely made my day. I've begun to notice that I'm so wrapped up in worrying about what other people think that I'm making myself completely miserable. I was heavy in middle school, but after high school I dropped all the extra weight almost instantly. Now when people say I have an eating disorder it feels like a compliment. I didn't realize that it might hurt someone else... But I digress, thank you for bringing me back to Earth, even if it only lasts for a little while :D
SaccharinSweet123 7 months ago
i love you! thanx for making this vid! its sincere and honest! u made me teary eyed @.@
i struggle with acne too. its so depressing n i m still struggling with acne until now. and im 23. it sucks.
DeeEzail3 7 months ago
You're one of the most beautiful women I have EVER seen. I'm not even exaggerating. You have such a gorgeous face shape, cheekbones, lip shape, nose shape, everything. You're so beautiful inside and out, and don't let anyone make you feel bad about yourself. Seriously, you're stunning.
veepom 7 months ago
Thanks for sharing. I think you are beautiful just as you are inside and out~
poperaqueen 7 months ago
I really respect your courage for telling the truth, and I love attitude about life! I agree with everything you said, especially the fact that everybody has something that they would like to change about their body. You should do more heart 2 heart videos! they're my favorite!
walnutsaregoodoo 7 months ago
thanks for your blog and for this! we love you and don't stop doing what you're doing.
dapromise 7 months ago
Thank you for this, this is great. Being short and thin myself, I have gone through the same situations as you, from shopping issues to being accused of having an eating disorder, being made fun of for having no curves, everything! So thank you for letting me know I'm not alone.
JerahTube 7 months ago
I have so much to say about this, so my comment would be waaay too long. So I'm going to say this.
We are all beautiful in our own way.
Even if you're overweight, skinny, curvy, petite, tall, white, black, brown, beige, yellow or red you should be yourself, because you are unique. And you wouldn't be you if you looked like a "perfect" person.
It's our imperfections that makes us perfect in our own way ✿
NinaWhispers 7 months ago 3
Hey you look pretty nice without make-up. either way you look pretty :D
YoungFlutest 7 months ago
i love this video ;')
we are blessed just to be living everyday
thank you so much for this video
you are really someone to look up to
and i love your mono lid so much !
nourafied 7 months ago
I think you are beautiful and you should be proud to be who you are. A confident and successful woman! I'm the same as you, I eat, eat and eat and I keep losing weight. I actually did an experiment were for 3 weeks I'd only eat healthy and I kept the same weight, then I started eating yummy things and in 3 days I lost 3 pounds! I really, really think you are pretty and you seem a very good person. I wish you all the best!
GigiDriling 7 months ago
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GigiDriling 7 months ago
You look so pretty! I don't even know why you wear make up! And I see no acne at all.
I have these dark circles under my eyes all the time. Even if I cover them with make up, they still looks puffy.
danifloresaqui 7 months ago
Hey girl, you look BEautiful! =) Im korean, 24 yrs old and married. Got mono lid as well. But one difference to you is I struggle with 'overweightness' not 'skinniness". I envy what you have lol and you'll probably envy what I have. Which is funny. This just proves we are all beautiful in our own way! =) U look really pretty without makeup and cute too. Don't worry about all those criticisms, you believe in yourself and that's all it matters! ^________^
ilovea4eva 7 months ago
i have the same body type, and i don't really have a problem with it. the only problem is EVERYWHERE you go, people tell you "you're so anorexic! go eat a cheeseburger!" and they just assume you starve yourself to be how you naturally are -.-
cynthiayl12 7 months ago
@frmheadtotoe let me start off by saying that it was very brave of you to make this video... I can totally relate to you when it comes to being "vertically challenged" lol I'm a 4'11" 24 year old that gets mistaken for my 12 year old sister! i also have the hardest time finding shoes and especially jeans that will fit both my length and curves. but thankfully i have a loving boyfriend that loves me for me. You are very inspiring =)
lizziepoo228 7 months ago
i want to lick your teeth because they're so white and straight
test330 7 months ago
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3006KeNy 7 months ago
you're soo pretty!!! even without makeup!! <3 :D
athira31311 7 months ago
your so sweet! =']
xbebejosiex 7 months ago
omg...you are beautiful inside and out. i'm jelly(:
shrjs0512 7 months ago 2
I've been small my whole life. I've been called anorexic alot too but for the most part, i didn't get bullied which i am so thankful for. I'm 5'1 and all, I'm just super skinny. I wear smalls and extra smalls and usually I can't find things that fit my chest. It is frustrating, but I wouldnt change who I am and I've grown to love myself. I've got amazing friends who love me for me and I just wanted to share my story and say how inspiring you are. You are beautiful and i enjoy watching you. <3
cherrpie244 7 months ago