blue october - hate me

[FTWproduction1]

They left out the message on the answering machine at the beginning....that's not cool.

[TheX6x6x6x]

the 25 that dislike r douchebags

[siderflii]

wtf 25 dislike?

[OurLifeonSaturn]

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[locomoto88]

this song is about the love he has for his mother, and the guilt she has unintentionally instilled on him. she has ALWAYS been right by his side, and in doing so, she has shared his pain immensely. he is torn inside because he realizes, that through his depression, he has deprived her of her of her own happiness.

[spiritedaway45]

one of the saddest songs i love

[skittlezz36]

oh my gosh this songs soo deep it makes me cry:\

[TheLonleyEmo]

sickest of the sick

[Kratzberscht]

The lyrics is exactly what I could have said until a few years ago ... if only I would have known them then.

[mary2040]

love it <3

[GECFox]

Blue October makes really good music, this is on of the best songs.

[TheGreenHoliday]

I HAVE A NEW FAVOURITE BAND!!

[bubbaj7396]

i miss imf:(

[StanTheRecordMan]

Cool song, nice video xD !!!

[DanniSahne123]

really nice - I think one of the greatest songs I've ever heard *thumbsup*

[caddn]

Schon lange nicht mehr so ein geniales, schönes und ausdrucksvolles Lied gehört!!!

[jtumble10]

I thought he was an accomplished writer before he started writing music. It makes sense, due to the fact that all of the lyrics are concrete and direct.

[vidro2]

This genre of music isn't 'emo'. Emo is short for Emotional. According to other websites Justin, The lead singer, Wrote this to tell his mother/girlfriend/wife to leave him be so they wouldn't have to deal with his Drug/Alcohol problem.

I believe the band has made a video stating what the song actually means so google is your friend ;)

[HeartlessPuppetQueen]

The correct deffinition of Emo is Emotional, so yes AmishRebellion, This song would be emo, Just liek EVERY song in the world. ;p

[4everedwardsgirl]

i have the breaking dawn cd of his--not too bad

[AmishRebellion]

emo

[mrssiggi78]

such an amazing song! I´m really impressed. And he has such an amazing voice - hammer

[DaGuitarlearner69]

I know whats it like to be hated!Its hardcore when everyone fucking hates you for one goddamn mistake!

[hotchick101able]

THIS IS A REALLY GOOD,SAD AND NICE SONG

[KyaChaostheorie]

every time I get goosebumps when I hear this song...

[drunkmonkey70706]

i watch this everytime i get depressed..

[KELLIandEDDIE702]

She was an enabler, but also a mother, it's hard to break that tie and he cared enough for her to leave. Leave her to live HER life not HIS psycho emotional despair. He come back only after she has passed to place the tape recorder on her grave. That was his only tie when he walked away that kept him alive. Her voice he replayed over and over again. Pretty sad but also touching. It's not easy growing up in or with a disfunction. Kudos.

[Seefeldinho]

einfach nur genial!

[fly8flyinggirl8fly]

I LOVE THIS SONG!!!!!

[LilFreakyDevil90]

I love this song.. it´s so awesome!!!

[bollocksnlilies]

honestly great artist, even better acoustic. As for them as a band, even greater!

but lose the eye liner(no prob with a bit of artistic touch, but on the frontman, I just cant see it when he s singing about personal experience, about the need to make sb hate you in order to feel better for what you ve made them go through) great vid, ty for posting

[Gurkendream]

goosebumps. such a great song.

[weasal72]

terrible

[bloodmandarin]

@weasal72: What do you mean? The song? The feelings it gives you? The music? The video? Clear up..

[Mangelio]

Omg I met Blue October today!! They are awesome!!! I loved their concert today!!! He such a great singer and you can see that's he's really into his music and I got a drumstick from the band!!! It was awesome!!!!

[PureRage86]

Sehr schönes lied , ich höre es immer wieder gerne

[MrsPlueschi]

this song is soo awesome.

[redheadrockchick]

From listening to his deep, meaningful music, it's clear the amount he's had to face...I really respect him...(and I actually fancy him) But, ahem, besides the point...there's something about him which is strong, and it encourages me strongly <3 Blue octover <3

[ottosest]

i love it!!!

[imabluegirl]

Their songs are awesome and every one touches me differently. The lyrics aren't made to entertain you. They are telling a story of his life. If you don't like them then don't listen.

[ThePlayForToday]

one of the greatest songs of all time.

[Johnyevil]

what a sappy bullshit song.

[87654321ily]

great lyrics, great song, great band.

<3 blue october

[MsSS4ever]

my ex told me to listen to this song before he passed. It makes me cry everytime i hear it :'(

[YOUrmypal68]

Hate me today

Hate me tomorrow

Hate me so you can finally see what's good for you

[DreamLoser111]

this song reminds me of a girl i love(d) and how we no longer talk and this reminds me off all the shit we went through... its the perfect song.

[haasi5]

echt geiles lied...echt geile stimme...echt geile band

[Zoey7583]

I love this song but it makes me want to cry every single time I here it because I feel like that a lot.

[TheWhiteTomatoes]

Lyrics are not this guys strong suit

[runeseacher]

@TheWhiteTomatoes

Are you fuckin kidding me?

These lyrics are freakin amazing....

They touch people, they influence people, they make people live.

That's what lyrics are suppossed to do.

If you don't like the music, don't listen to it.

But don't insult the group.

Cause when you do, you insult anyone who listens to them.

Rune (")('-')(")

[TheWhiteTomatoes]

@runeseacher

"Kicking shadows on the street for every mistake that I had made

And like a baby boy I never was a man"

Poetry right there.

[runeseacher]

@TheWhiteTomatoes

Exactly, my friend.

These lyrics are amazing.

Are lyrics not poetry?

Rune (")('-')(")

[TheWhiteTomatoes]

@runeseacher Good lyrics are, bad ones are not.

[RedBlueSucks]

saddest song on my ipod :(((

[SuperSchorr]

i gone hear this song every day from now on

[Nellybrrrr]

I hate this damn song, My love sent it to me, like im supposed to do that pfft. i hate it.

[heavenkept]

The Best Band "EVER" . Heavenkept Blue October .

[LunarToastTv]

I have not honestly done a lot of things wrong in my life,because I havent lived much of it..For all the guys I have hurt..I`m sorry..All I can be is sorry..

[tropica534]

this edwards song to bella wen hes leaving her. this song inspired stephanie meyers on new moon!

[boogyshadow1]

@tropica534

Thumbs up if you think that Twilight needs to FUCK OFF THE INTERNET!

[Nowayout555]

@tropica534

FUCK YOU

I LIKE THIS SONG

WHY WOULD YOU SAY SOMETHING LIKE THAT

[Cailonmoshiri]

the singer looks like a creeper

[higglystadtheld]

At the concerts in germany there was no emo people..i don´t really like emo´s buz I love blue october.everybody who see blue october live knows what a fucking great and true band this is.

[texasjbird]

wasup with that bloody finger @ 3:17??? thats rock n roll!!!!!!!!!

[scarface3131983]

so ill drive so fuckin far away,that id never cross ur mind, and do whatever it takes in ur heart to leave me behind....god this is a great song by a great band..

[thelillypad11]

hate me today, hate me tomorrow. hate me so you can finaly see whats good for you my fave line!!!!! best song ever you did a fantastic job love you!!!

[kittygirl13567]

love the song, love the vid, just the very end confuses me. like, i get the part where he puts it on her grave, like shes dead, but whats with the end where they're drinking lemonade or something...?

[BeautifulRepublic]

man, this was my song back in like ninth grade.

[GWIFGHO]

Damn this guy looks fucking better than me with makeup !!!!!! lol and im a girl ...

[pitilog]

ofc it's a great piece of art this song! i play an sing 'em on guitar xD <3 i just love this song !

[TheNewTiff1204]

I had not heard this song for years and I heard it the other night. I forgot how much raw emotion was in this song. I was really shocked how much I related to it. I just sat in my car and cried for an hour. But I am glad I heard it.

[txmxax25]

@TheNewTiff1204 What A Fuckin Loser LMAO!!!

[JohnFromTheSwan]

@TheNewTiff1204 same here aint heard this in years and completely forgot bout it...amazing song !!

[coldhearted1100]

@TheNewTiff1204 know how you feel!!

[MizzHelena]

was listening to this again today.. "and I fell down yelling make it go away.. just make a smile come back and shine just like it use to be"

[boner370471]

this is so me and my ex

[xxxxxxedwardxxxxx]

@boner370471 thats a lil wierd bro. O.o

[SectumSempraHP527]

Blue October is awesome <3

Love the (new) album!!

[CutHer2x]

I have felt this way for so long..when this song came out it was perfect. It is more triggering for me since my mom passed away on February 14th of this year. It feels like yesterday and I'm so numb, what do I do now? Like the video I have a video and voice mail to listen to everyday.

[mattjameshagen]

relates way to damn much to me!

[KuzuHidan]

daaaamn lead singing is fuckiiing hooot :D

[xXxsabinexXx]

Yeah the beginning with the song together does it that I start to have tears in my eyes he is knows so well how to express the right feelings

[GlitchChick1991]

i dint realise it was bout moms XD man this song really expresses how i feel. exspet not bout my mom ... altoguh i think you should have kept the begining.

[adaro11]

its so great !

[samus276]

its so sad TT  ___

[gothkitty93]

fucking awesome man

[Helenova]

hate me =]

[Dalicin]

if you listen to the beginning on this song there is a bit from his mum, where she is calling him to make sure he is ok and she apologises for always calling but she worries about him, so I think thats the link between the two songs

[NeverShoutDiana1]

i love this song ! it reminds me of the people that hate me:/

the ones i lost...

[shahjahan93]

he reminds me of a chubby adam levine in parts of this vid

[bortai117]

Jasmine and Joey Jr. I hope you forgive me. Dad

[DamnUReality1]

This is probably one of the greatest songs/music videos ever.

Blue October rocks!

[HatoriLover95]

Is he talking about his wife, or his mom? :x

[gorillazrockharrdd23]

His mother :)

[AnimalRock18]

best song ever

so muss das sein

[gsxrbuckeye]

makes my nutz hurt

[gorillazrockharrdd23]

Why does it play "calling me" by those two girls at the end? Ruins it o.o

[nirvana19791979]

i'm assuming that the 2 songs are closely related in some way

[buttercj]

Shut the fuck up you judgemental piece of shit

[gorillazrockharrdd23]

No need for tht now.

[mmallow22]

I thought it was about an ex girlfriend.hahahaha

[kjc1415]

The intro would make this video better. Kinda give's the plot to the lyrics. But hey, Blue October has some great music for what people where I live call "emo" which this is no where close to it. Just another life story

[lulabell0]

yh exactly! its not emo! my friends slag me for liking this!

[scorpionrules15]

@kjc1415 they are emo and emo music isnt bad at all

[norway1516]

@kjc1415

I agree I love hearing his moms voice talking to him and how concerned she is I love this song in its entirety.

[Serena2412]

@kjc1415

But I never understand every single word, she says.

"Hey this is your mother..." not more. Sorry, I'm german. Can you tell me what she says?

[bigsmokekp]

my nigga...i love dis shit

[MrDarkWolf2009]

Its an awesome song but at the same time it might come off as a bit suicidal.I still love it.

[sweetbabysk22]

The whole time i was locked up, everytime i thought of my family and sons this is the song that came to mind. Love it always will

[SweetBlackSpirit]

wonderfull! LOVE IT!!!!

[sierra123284]

I LOVE THIS SONG

[MusicLoverGirlie]

Such an amazing song :o)

[magicalwrath]

this is exactly how I feel at the moment

[vans37]

i think he's talking about how is drug abuse fuck his relationship with is mom cause of the things he did .,, and the things he didnt do... while the hole time she looked after him and it tore him up ever time she said she loved him

[songinmyhead1]

this song means a lot to me, cause my uncle is a retired with the fbi, and i met the lead singer and the drummers parents they live close to houston texas, and my dad sent me lyrics of this song, it was so hard, cause he is addicted to crack, and made some bad mistakes... ill never have a father son relationship

[gorillazrockharrdd23]

I am so sorry. I hope things ever work out.

[NatCzerwoneGitary]

the best

[kbernadac]

i love it, <3

[NatCzerwoneGitary]

:) awsome

[teamedward11100]

i cant relate, but i think i suffer from depression, so i get all teary and sad.

[johnstmary1716]

i hold back tears on this song...im not gay either.....i suffer from depression, and i can relate, except i never ave anybody to "make me compliment myself". this song reminds me of what i tell all of my friends. i tell then to just forget about me im not worth it. u dont need to keep killing yourself for me.

[teamedward11100]

:(((((

[teamedward11100]

so sad!!! :,((

[teamedward11100]

:,(

[usernamecensored]

damn this song makes me cry like every time i hear it, because it makes me think of things i've tried so hard to forget..like how much i hurt so many people around me...and pushed them away..and all this crap.

blue october <3

[LittleGurke]

@usernamecensored

I feel just the same.

[shroudedassassian]

@usernamecensored agreed

[betheoneish]

i love this song soooooooooooooo much .. i listen 2 it over n over n i dont feel bored !!!

[usernamecensored]

@betheoneish

me too..no other song i can do that with =D

[coldbitch93]

This song reminds me of the way I hurt myself and everyone around me. I think the part that gets me the most is "So I'll drive so fucking far away that I never cross your mind, and do whatever it takes in your heart to leave me behind." I love this song so much it almost makes me cry : ..( Rock on Blue October!!!!

[angelsrain5]

so powerful song :((

[CFHS018]

this song is all about me, its one of the reasons why I know wish I could just end my life!  and the chances are that I will within the next day or so

[mad4miley]

don't do that , please . my step dad killed himself , & you may think it solves your problems but it puts the people who love you in pain.

[angelachka]

plz dont. Have you thought about where u will end up after death? God loves you so much! He'd never want you to die!

[Karinkasan]

Why do you have to lie to people?

[mlh39]

yea man this songs about a son and a mom, ain't no coincidence that the whole intro (not heard here in this clip) is about the mom leaving a message for her son and then at the end the son leaving the recorder at the cementary

[sunsetsbythesea]

i have issues, and my mom tries to tell me everything will be fine, but i hurt myself, and she loves me so much that it hurts her too. I just hate hurting her, and that makes me hate myself. I feel so helpless. I'm sorry mom...

[Colman91]

This song just describes my Dad in so many ways, whilst he was at war with himself i was trying to fight his Alcoholism, this song is just so powerful when you understand the lyrics.

[night976]

i still <3 dis song...

[norello766]

thats the relationship with a lot of kids and there parents espeacially there mother

[SaiSai05]

Oh my god. This song isn't about his mother dying. It's about overcoming his drug addiction and plus he is BiPolar which this video displays through the help of his mom. Grrr.

[99bales99]

Actually he was interviewed, and ya, it was about his mother and his girlfriend. It was originally for his girlfriend, but it turned into many different people, as you can see at the end, it showed him and his mother happy together.

[poppyseed93]

i love this song.

it perfectly describes my relationship with my mother.

[night976]

same here....<3 the song...and my momzie...

[poppyseed93]

I don't really like my mom very much, but im bipolar, so tomorrow i might haha.

its just a good description of how our relationship works.

[Olbap1And1Pablo]

this song makes me cry it reminds me about my ex

[rodo419]

amen to that...

i had just broken up with mine and was sad and crying like crazy for days and one day my friend sent me a link to a youtube video and i heard this wonderful song for the first time, even though it reminded me of him, it helped me feel better in a way and realize breaking up was for the best

[xXjaspersgirlXx]

i love this song

[Tabroxfcc]

I don't think this song is just about his mother... It could be about anyone that you have to split from for their own good

[blazed420us]

it is about his mother he saying sorry, the person he says you made me complement myself when i was thinking about suicide or hate he was saying that his mother was doing that. this song was saying sorry for everything he did to her and he saying thank u for everything she did for him. and he says hate me to see what good for you. meaning stop pay attention to me and pay attention to herself

[RWTFantihero77]

his mom isnt dead

shes in the very last scene

they interviewed him and his parents were on set during the filming too.

if you dont believe me you should go check the interview out yourself. fastfocustv.

[12Miki120]

This Song Makes Me Cry.

[92VilleValo]

I truly relate to this song. Makes me remember when I tried to give up my best friend for her best sake :(

[9429daniel]

Wow :(

[Aagis6teen]

whoa freaken love this song!

[dannisovie]

most teens will never know the pain they put their parents thru, at 39, i see the pain i put my children thru my own addiction and am PROUD to say that I am 2 years sober.. blessed be..

[jls1znv9999]

This video is a mom and son video. It's a highlight of the damage that a son can do to the relationship of a son and mother. It's more or less acknowledging his mistakes. His mother of course passed away unrelated to anything he did. He singing about guilt, and unforseen appreciation of what his mom did for him.

[craigv8131]

this is one of the best songs ever to come out wat is this song about

[lostone131313]

its about drug addiction and the person he is singing about is his mother

[AliBoulalaSTP]

great song. my girl broke up with me today...our relationship lasted 2years...this song helps me to get over it.

[TheRenee1235]

that sux

[Aagis6teen]

i have to listen to this song everyday now.

cause its really good!

[aquamarinemermad]

I feeling like banging my head when I hear this song hahah I love its rockish feel!!!

Aqua

XOXO

[ekobo11]

vevo kinda sucks... what the hell's the point of it? And cause i hate people that leave pointless comments, Blue October is a great band and this is definitely one of my favorite songs

[ChillinWithYou]

This is one of the best bands out there right now!

[17Chucks]

Wie ich diese Band Liebe *_*

[mtganimemiikefan]

i miss imf

[Aagis6teen]

hey wasnt this video in vevo??

[runkantusrun]

@Aagis6teen yes but they senser the porno hate me and suicide theyjst senser the whole video

[sunroomz220]

<3 For not being stupid vevo i hate that shit