Settle for a slowdown

[harleyboy88b]

you know it could be looked at that she fell outta love and he wont see what the relationship has become and that hes holding on to what isnt there anymore, funny story

[MsCharlcye]

For the lst time this week, my ex husband of 3 years showed signs of what he gave up when he left and now his heart is breaking.

[MatrixGalvatron]

@MsCharlcye :( 

[AnimalHolocaust]

please who is the blonde model ?

[AliciaCarey]

Yeah...wouldn't that be considered Grand Theft Auto??? I just love it when he goes to where she's living and sings with just his guitar. In your face, bi-atch!!

[evilteen08]

OH SHIT! SHE TOOK THE TRUCK! *sorry had to point that out* i love this song its helped me out so thanks for posting it

[Khleoswife]

this song never gets old

[littledudes1]

I love this song as well

the chick has nice lips, if only they were pink!

[SMiiLExSUNSHiiNE]

love this song. :)

[DaisyCain8301]

This is my favorite Dierks Bentley song, it's awesome

[H8RiD]

only country song I like

[MatrixGalvatron]

@H8RiD I hate country but I love this song!

[TheHotSexyBlondie]

i love this SONG!!!! I LOVE THE COUNTRY!!!!! GO Dierks Bentley

[sittinheavy]

he shoulda just walked in and opened the guitar and used it to smash over those city slickers faces, then be like fuckin skank, give me ten jaager bombs down here chief

[LIlbulldog2233]

dude when he goes in the room and plays dude freaking kickass

[hillbilly2684]

where he goes in that room with them towards the end and he goes solo, thats beast

[jyrrog]

Dierks just needs to kick those city slickers asses and take his woman back!

[Bcdavis1]

I DEF agree!

[WrslrNM]

violence doesn't settle anything. our children are beating the hell out of eachother in middle school and high school bathrooms just to post it on youtube. violence is NEVER the answer.

[frictioninmyjeans]

oh shut the fuck up. you only hear about the bad stuff, you never see the letterman jacket - clad jock pickup some books that the school geek drops. you never hear about that, you need to open your eyes. good stuff happens too.

[InsaneKidz13]

u do hear bout the good stuff. but it almost never happens. the bad stuff does, i am in middle school. the good stuff has happened, but only very rarly, the bad stuff happens daily, i get shoved, punched, tripped, cussed out etc. all day long, all the time. the jocks dont help, most of the time its them causing the problems. if u drop ur books, then the jocks kick u while u bend down 2 pick them up. ive only been helped once, n then the jock who helped me got beat up 2. i doesnt happen much

[frictioninmyjeans]

thats not what i mean. WrslrNM is thinking too much about this shit, i realize people get hurt but one little comment about "kicking those city slickers" turned this comment page into a big ordeal. i dont mean for it to sound like it makes it ok to hurt someone, let alone publicize it.

[cowboysky92]

Does anyone have any tips i can use to tell my ex how i feel and if she feels the same still. Please. Cowboy up

[xxbunnytrax]

~just tell her something like "i know this may be out of the blue, but..." or "i have to tell u something that i need to get off my chest" just say it like u actually mean it.

[The812Soldier]

just be you and let her know you still care about her and want to be with her and see if theres a chance, that maybe you can fix things..

[smokes2468]

This is a really cool song.

[lylalue23]

dude your so hotttt!!!!!!!!!! luv ya

[disneyjared]

i love thi song!!!!!!!!!!

dierks is sooooooooo awsome!!!!!!!

once at the grand ole opry i saw him back stage and touched his guitar!

[ParamoreRiots2000]

I Love this Song ;)

Dierks Makes Me Smile.

SLOW DOWN

[billy8369]

my god i love this song.... dierks is the man

[lylalue23]

Ik wat u mean hes so hooooottttttttttt :O

[nelsea01]

This song is like an old scent or taste that is an artifact of a previous time and the moment you stumble upon it, it takes you back...From the first notes I am warped to an era in my life when my first serious girlfriend broke up with me.

[ParamoreRiots2000]

thats cute..

ADORABLE

good writer.

AWE

[aggiegigem09]

your right about the acoustic part..thats the best part in the video

[TubGal4life]

I love the acoustic part around the 3:00 mark...absolutely amazing.

[dollface832]

to jayjay1112

absolutely right! The problem is I have no problem turning heads and he knows it!!!

Women hate me

[beachgirl7984]

♥ Dont let him control him if you love him work it out if you dont let him go and move on with your life ♥

[Riderpride1919]

i know iam just some random guy, but my advice, is screw him. Too bad if it kills him if you date. your not with him anymore. Don't let him hold you back. That might keep you from someone who is the one for you. but thats just my advice

[dollface832]

great song, my ex of 4 years says he still loves me, doesn't ever want to get married and apparently kills him if i date someone else but at the same time does not want to settle down and be a man,(guys out there comments?)

[jayjay1112]

umm if hes your ex then of course he wouldn't want to settle down, i think its you that needs to let go and move on

[CaneZach]

dollface, you want a comment from a guy? Here it is: Tell him to leave you alone and that you're better off without him. He doesn't want to get married or "settle down", but it kills him if you date? That's not love, that's possession.

[redsoxwiley]

This was a well written song (and the music as well). Anyone who has been hurt can relate to this song.

[poppinmycollar697c]

this vid rocks

[OmgNinjaOmg]

na i dont know...o.O

[Riderpride1919]

To all those girls out there who thinks this is a typical guy, your wrong. My ex girlfriend that i was dating for a year,and loved her with everything, i told her everyday she was the only one for me, and i loved her with all that i am. DIdnt stop her from cheating on me, with my best friend, and dumping me. Guys do know what they have, they just sometimes don't know how to show it

[weld13]

well put man, very true

[erieirene]

the same thing happened to my ex boyfriend... his ex girlfriend cheated on him the whole two years of their relationship... it messed him up bad. so we broke up cause he just couldn't trust another girl. and i've been cheated on by EvErY other boyfriend i've had. just goes to show ya that not all guys are bad and not all girls are that great. I'm sorry to hear that riderpride1919. Don't worry.. the pain eventually goes away.. remember.. pain is inevitable, suffering is optional.

[sidecarsport]

If you love him dont give up on him . My wife cheated on me when we were dating but I took her back !And we had the best 11 years of my life before she passed away ... True love is a rare thing ...

[sidecarsport]

that was to erieirene

[sportsbabe13]

i love you.

[abarofsoap]

I hear you brother. Stay strong, you'll find the one for you soon enough.

[Bored454]

I Love Dierks Bently !

[abarofsoap]

This is a great song, It should have alot more views.

[PimpMyAfterLife]

TYPICAL MAN!!!

Didnt realize what he had until it(she) was gone.

;)

[pb72nova]

"if it hurts at all, you ain't shown it yet" so true, the one I am not with hasn't shown it yet at all

[LindsayMarie37]

i love this song. i still walk down the halls at school hoping to see my ex looking back at me but he never does. all i want is to think that maybe he is remmebering the goods times we had.. but he never acts like it. ehh it happens i guess.

[loveshell226]

i know how he feels ive had the same thing happne to me

[loveshell226]

i love this song!!!!!!

[KottonxMouthxKween]

if you pause it at 1:10 you can see the the whole road isnt wet its kinda funny. caus eit is supposed to be like its rianing but.....only half the raod is wet.

[noahorosw]

Noah sings country?!

[SONICBOOM1011]

typical woman, always after money

[lebby2010]

LOVE THE HECK OUTA THIS SONG!!!!!!!

[razzles23]

I know this feeling all too well. And how horrible it feels. :[

Wonderful song, though.

[poetatoskin]

If she only knew the truth as to just how wonderfull she was...and will allways be...i was not mad ...but only misunderstood....

[neenerszxoo]

i love this song, and love love love this video .

[shagans22]

The song rocks, but the man if fine!

[iwillluvnick4ever]

i know he is fine!

[TemppyBones88]

OMG I luv this song!!!

[GangstaHorse]

Amazing song :p

[samueltroywaters]

Wow I can't stop listening to this song me and my g/f just broke up and i want her back and it was a mistake and this song make me cry everytime i hear it, any tips on how to get a girl back?

[NGSRizzen]

A good rule of thumb is to give it a bit of time for things to cool down, but not long enough for it to get out of control. This way, you'll both have a bit of time to calm down.

All you can do is show her how you really feel, and its her call after that.

The same thing happened to me, and I lost the person I had ever loved the most, but it ended up she was cheating on me and that we really weren't meant for each other.

[NGSRizzen]

Its odd though, how we fall so deeply in love with such opposites...

Well, if you've got time and need to let some tears fall, I'd suggest:

Rascal Flatts: What hurts the most / Moving on

Dierks Bentley: Gonna get there someday

Three days grace: Let it die

Tim Mcgraw + Faith Hill : Like we never loved at all

and for the grand finale: Brad Paisley & Allison Krauss - Whiskey Lullaby.

[razzles23]

Totally agree with the first statement about opposites. So intruguing, yet sooo...problematic. I fall for opposites, unfortunatly. It only ruined me.

And your list of songs is great. Theyre all my personal favorites. :]

[NGSRizzen]

Thanks :).

I'm glad you like them. They're all beautiful songs :).

Doesn't it ruin us all?

[razzles23]

Unfortunatly. At least those capable of loving, or attempting to love. Hah.

[NGSRizzen]

Try do keep yourself busy and not get swallowed by sorrow. Most importantly, don't blame yourself for something you might not have done.

Good luck.

P.S. Err... my last three posted messages were in reply to this one :)

[NGSRizzen]

**My last messages were in response to samueltroywaters...

[28spikes]

OMG! this man's voice! mmm i'd slow down this song gets me everytime well done dierk! i love his curls!

[no1neko]

this song makes me cry! I love this song

[kmmboo]

god this song just make me fliping cry omg this song is so sad and hes hot

[frequentflyer1957]

I am in love with this song.

[Your22cool22]

i know he's a cutie no matter what, but he looks lotttts better with short hair :]

[HENSONRA]

TRUE THAT!!!

[skylinedrcrew]

damn thats a nice k10

[beachgirl7984]

man how could she walk out on a man like him! She must be fricken crazy

[countrygirl4eva15]

This is his best song yet!

I love it soo much.

[mrsnickjonas4evr]

omg when he sings with just his guitar, it makes me heart melt!!!

whew

its even better in person!!!!!

[orlandofan85]

I've been there...where he is in this song. Bearing your soul to someone like that is so hard and it def. hurts like hell when they just walk away. I should know...:(

[Brad1428]

I think it is awesome how he just shows up out of the blue on the patio. You see how he lays it all out there in his song. She realizes her mistake, and he just walks away. It is Classic

[Nark15]

I don't think she realizes her mistake...she just seems "embarrassed" that he shows up. She doesn't say a word, so he takes off-rather dissapointed...That's just what I see there....Awesome song!

[jabbahut6]

she definitely realizes she made a mistake, she is just embarrassed that her mistake was shown to her friends.....such an amazing song with great emaning to it, ive been to a few of dierks' shows now and they all have been amazing

[Nark15]

Good point- I can see that ;)

[garrison0777]

check out long trip alone with the new hair do...

[garrison0777]

why didnt she chase him damnit... I know how you feel bro. Great song

[swampboy32904]

I love every Song he's ever come out with; I think He's the next George Strait. As long as he don't sell out; which I don't think he will, He loves music for music, Not the money.

[kristenjudy]

i love this song!

[Natosha25]

I love this song! Heck I LOVE ALL His songs!

It really takes me back

[Foxgirl2021]

Yes 3:05 is the best part love this song

[concretewater87]

omg i know right! he is pretty much the best. and so dreamy!

[jenzach]

love this video! makes me sad :( 3:05 is the best part

[Nikraine2007]

Dierks Bently is such a hottie. And he has a great set of pipes. I love this song and video. I love everything I've heard from him so far.

[softball0681]

i usually don't like country but i love this song!!!

[apocalypticlove]

dido

[Drahkul]

Beautiful song. Beautiful video. Beautiful man. I want him.

[Lostinmoment]

yeaaa deirks is a fine good looking man , and yaaa shes is friggen amazing looking. But heyy love is not about looks its about how well you connect with that person. Deirks did a great job showing that in the video. Hes amazing. well done man

[swimboy84]

Does anyone know the girls name in the video?

[siMpl3pl4n]

awesome song!!!!

[lovetravisforever]

Who would leave such a hott guy!!??

[whiteraven101]

I know!!! Why would leav such a hot guy?! I sooo wouldn't!!!!

[LSUbaby07]

would have been a better ending if she would have went and caught up with him ... but o well

[joshwilb]

or tried but not actually caught up to him... more realistic

[LSUbaby07]

that girl is hot

[summerdance19]

i love this song and i love him!

he's soo hott!

[sweetchic12]

who would leave a fine man own the side of a road they are crazy as hell

[hillbilly2684]

da best part is da solo when he walks in a starts playin for that girl and her friends

[AndrewErtz17]

caroldA8, with an ass like that, you should be reeling them in! Anyway, if you can't, I'll tap it! Tap at' ass hard for ya, baby!

[1010bucky1010]

the only bad part about this video is that fact that someone left Dierks, who the hell would do that???

amazing song!!

[Redskin250]

i have to say, i agree. dierks is awesome, and so are his songs.

[gilmorecrazi9]

i absolutely love this video

[wannabbythesea]

this song is soo cute love it !

[chrishasic]

Don't really like country but i like this song + video

[Budvb]

damn I havent jammed to country in years but this song cought me off gaurd.....dude kicks ass

[fullmetalgirl]

I LOVE this song, I don't know why but I adore this song (It's sad but still good)

[mississippigirl2010]

His voice gives me goose bumps when he sings to her... his voice just becomes even more amazing without all the extra music.

[JillianPants]

I love this song and Dierks is the best name in the whole world

!!!! Love ya deirks!!!

[brianbunt1]

she could come sit on my lap and talk about the first thing that pops up...haha

[QueenALiBabua]

Why would soemone leave him? I mean, honestly...

[QueenALiBabua]

I ♥ when he shows up and sings it to her!

[brebri16]

just the right words

[anglecutie47]

i love this song!!! it is one of his best! in my opinion!

[xScarletxRosex]

I love this song! It's sooooo sad!

[erwizard1]

GREAT song....kinda sucks when your girl just broke up with you. God this song reminds me of her. Ok, well I'm gonna go wallow in my tears....

[SPOILSPORT55]

This video is so tight ..Man its great

[russellbrock2]

Best song he has done.

[deathboy1333]

♥

[Lilaznlb5]

i LOVE LOVE LOVE this song♥♥

[XxbrokenworldxX]

i'd slow down

[kiskatwentythree]

great song

[theycallmemaggs]

GOD HE IS SO CUTE!!!!!

[kaoko211]

He's so georgious

[lilmommie2004]

gives me goosebumps everytime hehe

[LeViePink]

id never leave him. LOL...i wish i could have a guy do that for me, thats so sweet! and it shows he has real talent, which is rare nowadays. go deirks<3

[vanessapierson1108]

he is an amazing singer.

[rawkn33]

-busts out guitar- "But your wheels just tuuuuuurn, down the road aheaaaaaaaaaaad if it hurts at all....you ain't shown it yet.....you're jsut a tiny dot...in that horizon lineeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee.." oh gosh..i want a girl to do me like that just so i can do that whole quitar thing....nice!

[betozam23]

I love his solo. It shows that he can sing

[123klo123]

i luv dis song its awsum.but sad.yea i no.

[Raycia92]

Luv this song!

[STFUali]

he's gorgeous..

[RedHeadForever14]

aww i hate it when a love gone bad song ends.. ...well...bad!!! does he get her bk or not?

[kris71780]

Okay...someone hand me a napkin for the drool. :-P Awesome song...and voice! Such talent God has shed on him! :-D

[cassie2498]

I love Dierks!

[Daisydreams1310]

gosh i love tghis song so much.

[leegoddess]

I love this song!

[jasonant1]

My mistake pocoprimadonna, but i thanks for being a dick about it.

[kingnbc]

This is such an amazing song and video. Hits close to home.

[sarahkfisher]

This song is sooo good!

[FUCKWITTABICTH]

one of mi fav songs!!!

majior props!

[NancyPaisleyKREW]

Poor Dierks ........:(

[schurketurkey]

the acoustic part rox my sox

[pocoprimadonna]

It's not a cappella - it's acoustic. But yes - it's awesome!

[blackvaquero26]

I wish the acapella part was in the album version!

[jasonant1]

who are the actors? The acapella part owns

[MissCamiSue]

this is a good song...AND I LIKE CHEESE!

[chufies]

does anyone here like pie?

[d4l4jay]

depends on what kind of pie!

[firestarter987]

I first heard this when my ex left me to move to NY city

[1888bell]

when a was in florida this was the best song on the radio brill