When your with alot of people and your face or body is bothering you , just pay attention to what your accually feeling. Is it really your face that's making you feel that way? Its really just a shitty feeling, and you automaticly think about your face when that feeling happens it's a compulsion. You can stop compulsions and work your way to becoming bdd free. it's just a shitty feeling that will pass. Read a self help book or find a cognitive behavioral therapist.
WRONG. Go to MAnhattan. No women have curves at all and those girls have the most desirable men. I'm not even kidding. You can't wear high fashion if you have any semblance of a chest. You need to move to New York.
before i go i'm gonna ask you something...is someone here commenting "OMG YOUR(i don't know) IS STRANGE"
"GEESE YOU'R ..............IS SO UGLY AND YOU'RE....BLAH BLAH BLAH"??????
na-ah....no one here think you have those "flaws". i'm not sure how i look because i see myself different every time..in different mirrors,lightning,photos(the hell) but no matter where,in every single one i look so STRANGE and ppl agree
My family sees them. I feel like I don't belong. I caom from a beautiful family including a stunning older sister. Nobody is saying really bad things because that's not the point of the diary. I can't read people's minds though. Oh, and I don't think strang is the same as ugly. I think Angelina Jolie is almost alienesque but she is stunning!
Hiya... I had very severe BDD for years, I thought there was no way out and it really was a living hell for me and my family. I am happy to say I am fully recovered and very happy. I am now very happy in my career, have a lovely home with my fiance and am getting married in July. You can recover from Bdd. I was probably one of the worst cases. You can get better just dont give up. By the way u r beautiful, i know u wont believe me but you truly are. All the best hun. x
Aargh. I wish I could believe you but as you know it doesn't work that way. Just feels like pity.
I am so glad that you are better. Mine is not so bad compared to many so it is very encouraging that you have come so far:) Are you, or were you a dancer as well? I did ballet. I wonder if that played a role in my insecurities LOL!!
Congrats on your upcoming nuptials! Stay well and happy:)
I knew u wouldnt believe me..when people said positive things about my appearence, I thought they either felt sorry for me or my make up was hiding what was underneath and they only liked the mask! I am not a dancer, my sister was. I just love dancing when I go out. hence the name! lol Your really brave with what your doing, i really couldnt of done this myself when I was ill. Its a really positive thing :-) xxx
Did you sometimes question whether or not BDD was real? Sometimes I think it is just a way to rationalize my narcissism and I feel really guilty. I struggle with that quite a bit. Is this just another example of my $250 an hour therapist labeling me with something so I need therapy anymore? While I do know,at heart, this is real I do feel guilty. Wondering if you struggled with similar issues.
I know, I hate my body. I don't have any hips and my chest is too big for my frame. Stupid gymnastics and dance screwed up my build. I have huuge muscular legs, and I feel like the lower half of my body looks too athletic and not feminine enough.
You know you're a cute girl and I forgot for a while you are 27, because you look younger. Maybe it's your skin, because it looks to be in good condition.
To be perfectly honest I think you're as fine looking as any other average girl out there. The only thing I don't like is the color of your lipstick which is a bit too agressive for my taste. Everything else is fine. If you like it that way don't listen to me. Besides the tone of the lipstick is easy to change.
I can't really see your body since you're wearing black and its dark, but you do have lovely eyes. Like your long hair too.
Hm, you think you're fat? Well you don't look fat to me. I mean if you compare yourself with the large group of obese people you're nowhere near. But perhaps I get you wrong, maybe you compare yourself to the really thin girls, and then you do have a valid reason, sort of. Most men don't like skinny girls, you can feel every single bone when you hug them.
I will be doing an interview about BDD. For more info, go to my channel. There will be professionals answering questions and everything. Watch and learn:)
I could barely see you at all, beautiful. But my face started hurting when I saw you twist your jaw at the end. It looks painful.
Silkspine 1 year ago
When your with alot of people and your face or body is bothering you , just pay attention to what your accually feeling. Is it really your face that's making you feel that way? Its really just a shitty feeling, and you automaticly think about your face when that feeling happens it's a compulsion. You can stop compulsions and work your way to becoming bdd free. it's just a shitty feeling that will pass. Read a self help book or find a cognitive behavioral therapist.
I overcame mine
kr3w512 1 year ago
@kr3w512 I have been in therapy,of some kind or another,since I was 7.
Have been doing CBT for the past 5 years.
It's tough balancing these issues,with the OCD,& hypochondria.
It seems as I gain more ground in one area,I LOSE ground in another!!
But,I like your mantra!!
It's just a sh**ty feeling,that will pass:)
THanks!!
jpeopolis 1 year ago
Less makeup, more closeups!
cutie
dtmbcorp 2 years ago
I would like to offer you 2 things:
A cheeseburger and a hug.
somethingfun 2 years ago
Hug I will take!! Really don't think I need the burger though, lol!!!
jpeopolis 2 years ago
Everyone needs a burger every now and then.
somethingfun 2 years ago
ok..gtg,nice to meet you,you made my day ^^ take care pretty
mylatestgrievance91 2 years ago
all men like BOOBS and ASSES
mylatestgrievance91 2 years ago
WRONG. Go to MAnhattan. No women have curves at all and those girls have the most desirable men. I'm not even kidding. You can't wear high fashion if you have any semblance of a chest. You need to move to New York.
jpeopolis 2 years ago
angelina jolie had a nose job...that makes her fake, like 99% of celebrities, that's not fair i want a surgery too!!!
mylatestgrievance91 2 years ago
my family sees my flaws too....school partners, everyone,even my boyfriend...of course
mylatestgrievance91 2 years ago
before i go i'm gonna ask you something...is someone here commenting "OMG YOUR(i don't know) IS STRANGE"
"GEESE YOU'R ..............IS SO UGLY AND YOU'RE....BLAH BLAH BLAH"??????
na-ah....no one here think you have those "flaws". i'm not sure how i look because i see myself different every time..in different mirrors,lightning,photos(the hell) but no matter where,in every single one i look so STRANGE and ppl agree
mylatestgrievance91 2 years ago
My family sees them. I feel like I don't belong. I caom from a beautiful family including a stunning older sister. Nobody is saying really bad things because that's not the point of the diary. I can't read people's minds though. Oh, and I don't think strang is the same as ugly. I think Angelina Jolie is almost alienesque but she is stunning!
jpeopolis 2 years ago
Hiya... I had very severe BDD for years, I thought there was no way out and it really was a living hell for me and my family. I am happy to say I am fully recovered and very happy. I am now very happy in my career, have a lovely home with my fiance and am getting married in July. You can recover from Bdd. I was probably one of the worst cases. You can get better just dont give up. By the way u r beautiful, i know u wont believe me but you truly are. All the best hun. x
dancer89100 2 years ago
Aargh. I wish I could believe you but as you know it doesn't work that way. Just feels like pity.
I am so glad that you are better. Mine is not so bad compared to many so it is very encouraging that you have come so far:) Are you, or were you a dancer as well? I did ballet. I wonder if that played a role in my insecurities LOL!!
Congrats on your upcoming nuptials! Stay well and happy:)
jpeopolis 2 years ago
I knew u wouldnt believe me..when people said positive things about my appearence, I thought they either felt sorry for me or my make up was hiding what was underneath and they only liked the mask! I am not a dancer, my sister was. I just love dancing when I go out. hence the name! lol Your really brave with what your doing, i really couldnt of done this myself when I was ill. Its a really positive thing :-) xxx
dancer89100 2 years ago
Did you sometimes question whether or not BDD was real? Sometimes I think it is just a way to rationalize my narcissism and I feel really guilty. I struggle with that quite a bit. Is this just another example of my $250 an hour therapist labeling me with something so I need therapy anymore? While I do know,at heart, this is real I do feel guilty. Wondering if you struggled with similar issues.
jpeopolis 2 years ago
I know, I hate my body. I don't have any hips and my chest is too big for my frame. Stupid gymnastics and dance screwed up my build. I have huuge muscular legs, and I feel like the lower half of my body looks too athletic and not feminine enough.
jpeopolis 2 years ago
You know you're a cute girl and I forgot for a while you are 27, because you look younger. Maybe it's your skin, because it looks to be in good condition.
To be perfectly honest I think you're as fine looking as any other average girl out there. The only thing I don't like is the color of your lipstick which is a bit too agressive for my taste. Everything else is fine. If you like it that way don't listen to me. Besides the tone of the lipstick is easy to change.
I wish you all the best.
McLarenMercedes 2 years ago
I can't really see your body since you're wearing black and its dark, but you do have lovely eyes. Like your long hair too.
Hm, you think you're fat? Well you don't look fat to me. I mean if you compare yourself with the large group of obese people you're nowhere near. But perhaps I get you wrong, maybe you compare yourself to the really thin girls, and then you do have a valid reason, sort of. Most men don't like skinny girls, you can feel every single bone when you hug them.
McLarenMercedes 2 years ago
I will be doing an interview about BDD. For more info, go to my channel. There will be professionals answering questions and everything. Watch and learn:)
jpeopolis 2 years ago
I appreciate you saying that. This one was EXTREMELY difficult for me because I was taking on my face issues and my body issues.
jpeopolis 2 years ago
From where I'm sitting, your a real stunner ;0) Even in the dark, those eyes burn like candles!!!!
Congrats on being so brave.
sincerely
Mrfriendlytroll
Mrfriendlytroll 2 years ago