I hope this Mum & Dad are able to ignore all the idiots & ignorant people who left stupid or unkind messages. As a Mum with child with autism I know how difficult it is when ur child has a meltdown in public. I thought this Mum was terrific! Calm, kind & firm. Next time u see a child having a meltdown perhaps u should consider that child may have autism & compliment the parent on their patience.
You're doing such a great job, mom. You have incredible patience, and you didn't raise your voice. You were evening smiling through it all! That's great! I know this video was posted back in 2010, but perhaps this comment will help other parents whose children are in the 'same boat' so to speak; you can cut tantrum time down by limiting your explanations. Three explanations and then be kind, patient, but silent. Then just get the job done.
There are a lot of unkind comments here, so I just want ed to say that you have incredible patience and no one should judge you because raising a child with special needs takes a very special gift. It looks like you have that gift.
i also find it amazing how little children have no sense of embarrassment lol they do what they want however which way they can lol even if it means throwing a tantrum.
oooohhhhh no!!! I'm sure he's a handful but i'm the type to break a switch and candy-stripe some legs. I too was ADD and still am but i got a beatdown when I acted out. I think I still need it sometimes lol. btw i'm 32, i just act out in diff ways these days lol.
Kudos to that mother for being patient, and persistent. God Bless parents of special needs children, who fight battles that we have no conception of on a 24 hours, 7 day a week, 365 days a year basis. They are the what parenting is all about.
(cont.) Imagine how hard it is being a parent in this situation & having people stare at you, thinking you're a horrible parent b/c you can't control your own child. People are too ignorant to stop & think "Oh poor baby/poor mama. I wonder if he is on the spectrum?" No, they immediately think bratty kid/poor parenting. To those bashing the pacifier: ASD children are often very orally fixated & must "stim" -- many chew holes in their clothes (they make special chew tubes for this reason) (cont.)
(cont.) You do not respond to a tantruming ASD child (which is completely different than a "bratty" child) with punishment or "busting their ass". Their brain and/or central nervous system is overloaded, and they need to be centered & calmed. It would be like punishing a diabetic for going into diabetic shock. There are a variety of techniques to use (like a firm bear hug), and it's often hard to find the right one for a particular child. (cont.)
Until YOU have a child with an autism spectrum disorder, you have NO room to judge this mother or little boy. He is throwing a tantrum not because of a behavioral issue or because his mother has not "busted his ass" -- he's throwing a tantrum because his brain cannot process external input like yours & mine can. His little world may feel like it's coming to an end, whereas to you & me it's simply leaving a restaurant. The world can be a very overwhelming place for people w/ASD. (cont.)
Who is thinking in the germs? nobody can't imagine how hard is trying to calm the children, this is so tired and frustrating. Mom, you have to be pretty congruent because many times I saw you smiling at the video and I'm sure your son knows how can he put you under his control. Do someting soon.
apparently when my friend was like two, she would throw a tantrum like this...puke from crying so hard...then fall asleep, lol. so her parents would just wait it out because they knew she'd stop in 5 mins or less haha.
When I was a kid, we didn't get to get out of spankings with diagnoses. I was OLP: Obnoxious Little Punk, that's what I was. And spankings caught my attention cause my parents were willing to use discipline and that gave me a lot of respect towards him. If parents today did this still, it would make this world a better place than it is now.
Way too old to have a pacifier. Dahmer in training. Let's diagnose a child with 10 syndromes and disorders instead of parenting. Sounds like a good plan! =D
my son has the same diagnosis'. he is now 11 years old and they are less often and less severe. Other parents who do not have a child with these problems do not know what they are saying. I watched your video and i remembered back to the stress and pain of those tantrums. Hope you are handling things well like you did in this video. You did great.
When I was born in 1969, 1 in 25,000 kids were autistic , now it's like 1 in 80 . Folks there is a link to autism and the chem-trails they spray on us. Accuse me while I schedule my vasectomy .
I agree there is an environmental component. However I think disorders like autism and ADHD are way overdiagnosed. It's easier for some parents to have an excuse for their kid's behavior versus having to accept their child is an obnoxious fucking brat. I'm 33 and there was no such thing as ADHD when I was little. You were just a bad little shithead kid.
what was he having a temper tantrum about?was he mad that he didn't win at the claw machine?if so i know how it is because when i dont win anything at the claw machine i get really upset.trust me.
mom you handled it just fine... My son was like that at 3 and use to have terrible tantrums sometimes was so bad that we stopped going places.he is also diagnosed with Autism. Now he is 5 and he understands a lot more and his tantrums are almost gone .Now we go out even to the movies. So hang in there it will get a lot better. :)
I have a son who is 7 and Autistic and I can safely assure you, you can beat an Autistic child til they bleed and it will not get you anywhere. I assume you are not familiar with Autism per your post. Good Job mom I wish I could have laughed and smiled through my son's tantrums.
Autism is a REAL condition, you Michael Savage worshipper. I find it funny that when autistic people have a meltdown, people condemn the child, but NT children behave worse than autistic children, and when they act up, they allow them to run around. =__=
i love how most of you think that "beating" a child will make them behave.. if you havent noticed... it only works for a while.. if you actually reason with them... they listen more... whooping their ass or any other type of beating isnt the answer.. and shows your just as weak... as a parent that reasons with thier children...
i am just wondering when he through's these tantrums does he ever get to the point were he makes him self vomit. my daughter does.. she gets so upset she literally hyperventilates and vomits everywhere. we are learning to cope with it. by practicing breathing when she gets upset..
@Johnstonsamantha It seems that his pacifer played a good role in his listening , that may be what u need to use to get him to cooperate a little better. as soon as u said i will give it back as soon as u get in the car , he listened and his tantrum dissipated, good job mom for holding it together , dont worry about what others think, they dont live in your shoes , also if he watches these video's with you it may help him see how he is reacting and how it makes u feel
@ImaZombeh children with autism and developmental delays have oral motor problems and the use of something to chew on helps them with overstimulation. A twelve yr old girl I work with has access to chew toys that are very similar and she always will have access. Depriving them is just wrong.
My daughter taped my 6 year old son having a temper tantrum. He was diagnosed with Autism, Oppositional Defient Disorder and ADHD. I'm use to him having melt downs and freaking out when he doesn't get his way. I'm not sure on how to handle him when he acts this way, but I'm learning!
it's funny how in america kids own their parents. the parents sit and wonder why the kid dosen't respect anything. instead of parenting, he will be fed pills the rest of his life and make belive he has some made up condition that only exists over here.
@theDudeAbides1100 It's definitely an issue. Just like how teachers are now afraid of failing students who are getting failing grades because parents are blaming and attacking the teachers for it.
suggestion to mom, use a empty 2 liter plastic soda bottle and smack him on the bottom with it. It makes a hell of a lot of noise and cannot hurt the child. The noise and stern words get their attention immediately. A tantrum is nothing more than rage on a child's part, you have to impress on the child that acting out based on rage is not acceptable or it will get much, much worse as he get's older and stronger and it capable of causing real damage.
He scratched my car ... The next day the police arrived we are tacking your son because he scratch the car then a boom just went off but the boy died only hem yay!
Lots of ignorant people posting here. I have a son with autism and have been there and done that so many times before. Mom handled it perfectly!!! It actually made me smile to watch it because it's good sometimes to feel like you're not the only one who has to deal with these issues.
that's not how you are supposed to correct him! baby talking to him in a nice angel vioce will not do anything! Spank his butt! spank him until he learns how to behave! if you dont start spanking, hes gonna turn out to be a terrible person! sorry, dont want to be mean, but that's how it's done!
my daughter had an autism meltdown like this today at the Sternberg Museum...We had to haul ass out of that place. I am so sick of people saying that these children need to be punched in their guts and shit like that. This mom did such a great job. I am still working on my patience level but it's getting better. Actually, restraining the child works very well and also does cuddling and speaking to them softly. FUCK ALL U MOTHERFUCKERS WHO THINK THEY NEED THEIR ASSES BEAT I'LL BEAT UR ASSES!
Obviously a lot of idiots on here. It's frustrating. I have an autistic child. Most of the time he is a wonderful, well behaved child, but sometimes he goes into outbursts. Autistic children frequently get fixated on stuff, it's how their brains are wired. Spanking them, hitting them, throwing the, etc. either has no effect at all, or makes matters worse. Good thing god put this child in your hands and not some of these posters. Patience is hard, but required.
you seem like a good mom, a lot of people would have been yelling smacking spanking before this video was half over, it seems like you are very patient with him and thats wonderful, i may be a little more firm myself but who am i to judge someone elses parenting? ecspecially when i know nothing about autism. keep trying and learning and good luck to you momma!
How's he now? Did you try Occupational Therapy or neuro-therapy? Helped my kid autistic sister greatly. She used to squirm around worse. Now, she can use the bathroom by herself, follow two-step directions, communicate effectively, dress herself, and knows how to go to a quiet place to calm down. Occupational therapy, even if you can't afford it and have to do it yourself, would greatly benefit this guy.
Oppositional Defiant Disorder... ? WHAT THE FUCK IS THAT !?! and a pacifier at that age...? wow..... ODD sounds like some shit that the pharmaceutical companies came up with to sell some expensive Placebo......ODD is LACK OF ASS WHOOPING ! - I deserved every spanking I ever got and i thank my parents today for doing so, served my country and make 6 figures now, and I know if I didn't get a spanking I would be in jail....
I've handled kids like this one. What I do is spank him and tell him "Get in the car, now!" if he refuses, spank him again and say "Get in the car or I will get a switch." and you know what to do afterwards. What also works is saying "bye bye" and act like you're leaving him and they usually follow
why does he still have his passy me next doors neighbors kid wich is 2 she lost hers when she was one and a half whip him and tell him no and throw him in the car he will learn
He started behaving himself because he wanted the pacifier. He listened to her and got in the car. That indicates the child understands cause and effect. Regardless of all of his supposed problems, it seems like you have a serious issue with HOW you discipline your son. I don't know about some of those diagnoses, because doctors are quick to diagnose a child to push pills.
I grew up with ass whuppins, doesn't mean I'm going around stabbing people in the face nor do I resent my parents...you people got a fat head over this hippy shit <_<
@RedneckYachtClubber It's not called hippy shit... it's called teaching your child how to cope and deal with life situations instead of dealing with things violently... If you teach your child it's okay to hit when they're frustrated then they're going to struggle more with handling emotions as they get older... It's a really simple theory. But then again.. you said "you people got a fat head" so I'm only teaching to a moron...
@rconlon821 No, it is called trying to reason with a child which is sick...sick...sick! People, including you, are afraid of your child and that is how it is and what it is. For someone getting on another for calling names, you played the same name calling. God, this country is so childish, selfish, fearful of children, and a whole load of other crap! Geesh!
@kynneable: I know you go to jail if you kill a child. Obviously I don't mean the child should be literally killed. I'm not buying this Oppositional Defiant Disorder business. If you break that down to simple terms, it means the CHILD IS BAD. HARDHEADED. DOESN'T LISTEN. None of *MY* four children have EVER had a tantrum in public. Why? Because of a little thing called HOME TRAINING.
Beating kids is not the answer because it definitely causes trauma & scars & messes up the kid. I know. He is too old for a pacifier & i don't think anyone should judge her parenting if they don't deal with kids themselves.
I have to really go on this one...This big ass kid has a pacifier!!! I just can't let that go...You are rewarding him for being bad? Really? Go to the nearest store and buy a belt...Actually two...One for him and the other for mommy for not whipping him when he first started doing this kid o stuff...He is bad...Not mentally disabled...You are making him mental by allowing him to do this...
I am watching this video and noticed that this boy has a pacifier!!!!Are u kidding!!! A pacifier...How old is this kid? About six? Seven? Pacifier.....Mom needs her ass whipped...Be a parent not their friend....
Sweet mommy, it gets better! And all of these people who are saying your son should get a beating, well, they are off their rockers! Ignore them. Their opinion is small, narrow, and short-sighted. Hang in there! You're doing great!
I would just pick him up and carry him into the car. That would be much easyer..xD
DutschieGirl90 2 hours ago
THAT kid NEEDS a bare butt spanking! and a talk.
LPSFreakazoid 5 hours ago
I'm sorry for my parents if I was this bad
senshi2754 14 hours ago
at that age no more timeout and no more sweet talking either pick him up and throw him the car and ignore hes crys
LABERDUDOLE101 16 hours ago
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dogsandwolves 21 hours ago
I used to do that when i was 2-about 4 or 5 :P please don't say rude things he can't help it he'll improve as he gets older cause I have
RegularFan101 22 hours ago
I guess he really really liked the stake.
cy012201 1 day ago
Also... Staceofcakes your comments were spot on. Thank you for taking the time to try to raise awareness about Autism.
EndlessSCR3AM 1 day ago
I hope this Mum & Dad are able to ignore all the idiots & ignorant people who left stupid or unkind messages. As a Mum with child with autism I know how difficult it is when ur child has a meltdown in public. I thought this Mum was terrific! Calm, kind & firm. Next time u see a child having a meltdown perhaps u should consider that child may have autism & compliment the parent on their patience.
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A 6 year old really shouldn't still have a pacifier.. >_>
disney2000100 1 day ago
Ah, I figured I had a top comment... i keep getting notifications that people are replying to it. That must be why.
ImaZombeh 1 day ago
just kill him by: 1. Pick him up 2. Smack his ass
3. Throw him in the car
4. Destroy the windows and throw sharp things at him
710chachacha 1 day ago
You're doing such a great job, mom. You have incredible patience, and you didn't raise your voice. You were evening smiling through it all! That's great! I know this video was posted back in 2010, but perhaps this comment will help other parents whose children are in the 'same boat' so to speak; you can cut tantrum time down by limiting your explanations. Three explanations and then be kind, patient, but silent. Then just get the job done.
shiiuza 1 day ago
I hate I wasn't born in an era when parents filmed situations like this and put them online. I missed out, I really did.
butth0Ie 1 day ago
There are a lot of unkind comments here, so I just want ed to say that you have incredible patience and no one should judge you because raising a child with special needs takes a very special gift. It looks like you have that gift.
drallus1 1 day ago
i also find it amazing how little children have no sense of embarrassment lol they do what they want however which way they can lol even if it means throwing a tantrum.
Bridgninjagirl 1 day ago
im sorry if my child ever through a trantrum i would honestly walk off and tell them whenever there done i will be in the toys getting myself one lol
Bridgninjagirl 1 day ago
oooohhhhh no!!! I'm sure he's a handful but i'm the type to break a switch and candy-stripe some legs. I too was ADD and still am but i got a beatdown when I acted out. I think I still need it sometimes lol. btw i'm 32, i just act out in diff ways these days lol.
alrags1979 1 day ago
He has autism. I feel bad for the mothers who deal with that =(.
princessgumbo 1 day ago
@dinocol31 The kid has Autism!!
TheBMSpro 1 day ago
Where's Super Nanny when you need her?!
dkayworth 2 days ago
i AGREE A 3 YEAR OLD SHOULD NOT HAVE A PACIFIER. He really needs discipline instead of babying
dinocol31 2 days ago
Kudos to that mother for being patient, and persistent. God Bless parents of special needs children, who fight battles that we have no conception of on a 24 hours, 7 day a week, 365 days a year basis. They are the what parenting is all about.
divisioneight 2 days ago 4
Wow..that kid really must like ponderus's steakhouse
whitereaper116 2 days ago
Get in your car and start it! Leave him in the parking lot!
ycats1812 2 days ago
I gotta give you props, though, Mom. You kept your cool and you didn't give in. I am sure you were exhausted after that. Hang in there.
Cho2154 3 days ago
spanking. It isn't just for perverted grownups any more.
Cho2154 3 days ago
bash the window of his seat
710chachacha 3 days ago
(cont.) So until YOU care for a child 24/7 with autism spectrum disorder, you have NO room to judge!!
StaceofCakes 3 days ago
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(cont.) Imagine how hard it is being a parent in this situation & having people stare at you, thinking you're a horrible parent b/c you can't control your own child. People are too ignorant to stop & think "Oh poor baby/poor mama. I wonder if he is on the spectrum?" No, they immediately think bratty kid/poor parenting. To those bashing the pacifier: ASD children are often very orally fixated & must "stim" -- many chew holes in their clothes (they make special chew tubes for this reason) (cont.)
StaceofCakes 3 days ago
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StaceofCakes 3 days ago
(cont.) You do not respond to a tantruming ASD child (which is completely different than a "bratty" child) with punishment or "busting their ass". Their brain and/or central nervous system is overloaded, and they need to be centered & calmed. It would be like punishing a diabetic for going into diabetic shock. There are a variety of techniques to use (like a firm bear hug), and it's often hard to find the right one for a particular child. (cont.)
StaceofCakes 3 days ago
Until YOU have a child with an autism spectrum disorder, you have NO room to judge this mother or little boy. He is throwing a tantrum not because of a behavioral issue or because his mother has not "busted his ass" -- he's throwing a tantrum because his brain cannot process external input like yours & mine can. His little world may feel like it's coming to an end, whereas to you & me it's simply leaving a restaurant. The world can be a very overwhelming place for people w/ASD. (cont.)
StaceofCakes 3 days ago
Who is thinking in the germs? nobody can't imagine how hard is trying to calm the children, this is so tired and frustrating. Mom, you have to be pretty congruent because many times I saw you smiling at the video and I'm sure your son knows how can he put you under his control. Do someting soon.
socialego 3 days ago
Yay she got him in the car. Lol
AFI313 4 days ago
Bratt
jhaden13 4 days ago
apparently when my friend was like two, she would throw a tantrum like this...puke from crying so hard...then fall asleep, lol. so her parents would just wait it out because they knew she'd stop in 5 mins or less haha.
musicfreakk1 4 days ago
really your not going to wipe the thing off, thats nasty
trippg97 4 days ago
Yank that pacifier out of his mouth and bust that ass. He is going to grow up and knock your lights out if you dont do something now.
H2OhOh2H 4 days ago
Has anyone ever realised that the afflictions such as ADD, Autism and Aspergers have only been around since capital punishment has become a crime
ihavnoideawotimdoing 5 days ago
Good job mommy
Zondarthslayer 5 days ago
Oh my... I must admit, you have got the patience of a saint. How do you do it?
Hyenajaws 5 days ago
rough day, but you did it!
cadbetts 5 days ago
that must have been a pretty darn good hamburger lolz
OrangeCatAnimations 5 days ago
back in the day we got the shit slapped outta us for actin like that.
DENAANN1000 6 days ago 2
Abuse is when the child is doing absolutely nothing wrong and you beat him... You can spank his ass hard if he's fucking around having a tantrum
TheHydrix 6 days ago 6
@TheHydrix lmao
1010Zohra 1 hour ago
Nice job cleaning the pacifier off after you got it off the ground... thats how germs spread.
cabbagepatch9 6 days ago
Just let him.in poor kid..
didy5643 6 days ago
Well done mother, don't hesitate and just do it!
pippomadrid 6 days ago
When I was a kid, we didn't get to get out of spankings with diagnoses. I was OLP: Obnoxious Little Punk, that's what I was. And spankings caught my attention cause my parents were willing to use discipline and that gave me a lot of respect towards him. If parents today did this still, it would make this world a better place than it is now.
MrAwesomeMatty 6 days ago
Way too old to have a pacifier. Dahmer in training. Let's diagnose a child with 10 syndromes and disorders instead of parenting. Sounds like a good plan! =D
giggidygoofy 6 days ago
Welcome to the future
olliebooi 6 days ago
my son has the same diagnosis'. he is now 11 years old and they are less often and less severe. Other parents who do not have a child with these problems do not know what they are saying. I watched your video and i remembered back to the stress and pain of those tantrums. Hope you are handling things well like you did in this video. You did great.
knault33 1 week ago
LOL
SurferMushMB 1 week ago
Shes a really good parent. I honestly dont think i could have that much patience.
badvariance 1 week ago 2
ahh that used to be me XD good times.....
TheAjawsome 1 week ago
Ummmmmmmmmm? It's just a steak house
horsesforever35 1 week ago
now i understand wat is TANTRUM ^_^
Ghamdimm 1 week ago
Don't cry I understand you
Astonmartin4o 1 week ago
hes so cute :)
redspottedpanda 1 week ago
When I was born in 1969, 1 in 25,000 kids were autistic , now it's like 1 in 80 . Folks there is a link to autism and the chem-trails they spray on us. Accuse me while I schedule my vasectomy .
irtjeff144 1 week ago
@irtjeff144
I agree there is an environmental component. However I think disorders like autism and ADHD are way overdiagnosed. It's easier for some parents to have an excuse for their kid's behavior versus having to accept their child is an obnoxious fucking brat. I'm 33 and there was no such thing as ADHD when I was little. You were just a bad little shithead kid.
vegas2990 1 week ago
he has speicle needs be nice to him
ilovetocheatful 1 week ago
what was he having a temper tantrum about?was he mad that he didn't win at the claw machine?if so i know how it is because when i dont win anything at the claw machine i get really upset.trust me.
dylan1002459 1 week ago
i was diagnosed with ADHD
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28sarahmccluske 1 week ago
mom you handled it just fine... My son was like that at 3 and use to have terrible tantrums sometimes was so bad that we stopped going places.he is also diagnosed with Autism. Now he is 5 and he understands a lot more and his tantrums are almost gone .Now we go out even to the movies. So hang in there it will get a lot better. :)
marly949 1 week ago
belt? No too young, get a sandle and WHOOP THAT ASS!!!!
Salvychick818 1 week ago
@Salvychick818 hahaha you're probably an ugly chick and going to be an even uglier mother if you ever do become one.
BloodszAryan 1 week ago
@Salvychick
I have a son who is 7 and Autistic and I can safely assure you, you can beat an Autistic child til they bleed and it will not get you anywhere. I assume you are not familiar with Autism per your post. Good Job mom I wish I could have laughed and smiled through my son's tantrums.
thomasbobbijo 1 week ago
You should never laugh when a child is in a tantrum, that makes the tantrum even worse.
kittengirly22 1 week ago
Are You From Massena New York
KooKoo4IMVU 1 week ago
@theDudeAbides1100,
Autism is a REAL condition, you Michael Savage worshipper. I find it funny that when autistic people have a meltdown, people condemn the child, but NT children behave worse than autistic children, and when they act up, they allow them to run around. =__=
BaltoLoneWoolf 1 week ago
i love how most of you think that "beating" a child will make them behave.. if you havent noticed... it only works for a while.. if you actually reason with them... they listen more... whooping their ass or any other type of beating isnt the answer.. and shows your just as weak... as a parent that reasons with thier children...
xXxDoubleRainbowsxXx 1 week ago
i am just wondering when he through's these tantrums does he ever get to the point were he makes him self vomit. my daughter does.. she gets so upset she literally hyperventilates and vomits everywhere. we are learning to cope with it. by practicing breathing when she gets upset..
Johnstonsamantha 1 week ago
@Johnstonsamantha It seems that his pacifer played a good role in his listening , that may be what u need to use to get him to cooperate a little better. as soon as u said i will give it back as soon as u get in the car , he listened and his tantrum dissipated, good job mom for holding it together , dont worry about what others think, they dont live in your shoes , also if he watches these video's with you it may help him see how he is reacting and how it makes u feel
Johnstonsamantha 1 week ago
A 3 year old really shouldn't still have a pacifier.. >_>
ImaZombeh 1 week ago 15
@ImaZombeh i was just thinking the same thing
thetristanfrantz 1 week ago
@ImaZombeh he also has autism and ADHD so you question when someone should have a pacifier at first glance
riotguards 1 week ago
@ImaZombeh my autistic brother has one when he was 1 1/2, and my parents and I thought that was waaayyyy too late.
This kid will likely have social problems later on.
tomalotube 4 days ago
@ImaZombeh children with autism and developmental delays have oral motor problems and the use of something to chew on helps them with overstimulation. A twelve yr old girl I work with has access to chew toys that are very similar and she always will have access. Depriving them is just wrong.
schmateee 3 days ago
@ImaZombeh read the description...derp
xTom4Tomx 2 days ago
@ImaZombeh My mom said I kept mine til i was 5 XD besides she said he had autism leave him alone
XPandaGaaraX 1 day ago
@ImaZombeh Hes probably gonna get breastfed until hes 9 -_-
dontshootmydik 1 day ago
uh lose the binky and whoop dat ass. thats a start
teejayrubble 1 week ago
jayden should be in bed at home
710chachacha 1 week ago
grab him by his forrest gump ear and throw in the car..he has a summer full of time outs....
gregfujita 1 week ago
My daughter taped my 6 year old son having a temper tantrum. He was diagnosed with Autism, Oppositional Defient Disorder and ADHD. I'm use to him having melt downs and freaking out when he doesn't get his way. I'm not sure on how to handle him when he acts this way, but I'm learning!
disney2000100 1 week ago
@disney2000100 Copypasta FROM THE VIDEO DESCRIPTION is bad.
TwistedWalruse 1 week ago
it's funny how in america kids own their parents. the parents sit and wonder why the kid dosen't respect anything. instead of parenting, he will be fed pills the rest of his life and make belive he has some made up condition that only exists over here.
theDudeAbides1100 1 week ago
@theDudeAbides1100 It's definitely an issue. Just like how teachers are now afraid of failing students who are getting failing grades because parents are blaming and attacking the teachers for it.
march2011blackwings 1 week ago
@theDudeAbides1100 what a stupid stereo type.
cheerluv4evs 1 week ago
@theDudeAbides1100 Autism and ADHD dont exist where you live at ? they are "made up" conditions?
cheerluv4evs 1 week ago
suggestion to mom, use a empty 2 liter plastic soda bottle and smack him on the bottom with it. It makes a hell of a lot of noise and cannot hurt the child. The noise and stern words get their attention immediately. A tantrum is nothing more than rage on a child's part, you have to impress on the child that acting out based on rage is not acceptable or it will get much, much worse as he get's older and stronger and it capable of causing real damage.
maconsumner 1 week ago
i like pondorosa steakhouse aswell
hart2pownnoobz 1 week ago
very sad......mama needs some help with that baby boy....you could tell at the end of the video even he new something was not right.
huntandfishtime 1 week ago
i will make sure to get gene testing before i have kids. There is NO history of Autism in my huge family thankfully.
t22films 1 week ago
@SexualTyrannosaurus1,
HA HA! What a piece of scum with no life. Go back under your troll bridge, won't ya?
BaltoLoneWoolf 1 week ago
He scratched my car ... The next day the police arrived we are tacking your son because he scratch the car then a boom just went off but the boy died only hem yay!
Appleyard37 1 week ago
Just let go of him and drive off.
HeavyMechNS 1 week ago
Leave the drama and stqy with mama
dal7s 1 week ago
good job momma he wore him self out enough to get him in the car. keep to it momma you can be the mother he needs :)
motionmay 1 week ago
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angelsgurl 1 week ago
What's with the pacifier...
xpinkkisses1 1 week ago
0:42 the owner of the car comes back, he would be like what why is the scratch in my paint job
woobiwoodpecker1 1 week ago
go thing the car he hit wasn't knockout from transformers prime or the kid would be on a telephone pole having a tantrum, wanting to go home
woobiwoodpecker1 1 week ago
You know, lavender spray can help. My mom used to spray lavender on me when i wouldn't calm down. It will work trust me. It always calmed me down! :)
iLoveBandyMyCat 1 week ago
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Umm....
WHY does he have a pacifier at that age?
-oprah listens-
iShutEmUp 1 week ago
Lots of ignorant people posting here. I have a son with autism and have been there and done that so many times before. Mom handled it perfectly!!! It actually made me smile to watch it because it's good sometimes to feel like you're not the only one who has to deal with these issues.
blfender 1 week ago 6
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squelchieblue 1 week ago
Problem 1:GET RID OF THAT FREAKING PACIFIER
Problem2:TIME OUT IS NOT AN OPTION
Solution:TEAR DET ASS UP!!
12345Breana 1 week ago
First thing I would do , throw that paci away .. Put his little butt in the car and spank him!!
eugenesgal22 1 week ago
What a tard.
SexualTyrannosaurus1 1 week ago
that 3 year old still takes is pasifier
thetristanfrantz 2 weeks ago
whip yo kids
corbinandshad 2 weeks ago
thats Stephen the freakout guy when he was younger.
Miz21ful 2 weeks ago
@Miz21ful No... Look at video's date...
MrSuperPatty5 1 week ago
Give that boy a little spanking
Chronicpelon90210 2 weeks ago
@Chronicpelon90210 or not.dumbass
ssp9919 2 weeks ago
@Chronicpelon90210 Spankings don't do any good. They only send the message that it's okay to hit! Everyone knows hitting ain't nice!
ArticaSkylarKennedy 2 weeks ago
@ArticaSkylarKennedy yeah but it scares the shit out of kids. i got spanked when i was a kid and it scared the crap out of me
x3timestheluck 1 week ago
@x3timestheluck It's still abuse though...
ArticaSkylarKennedy 1 week ago
that's not how you are supposed to correct him! baby talking to him in a nice angel vioce will not do anything! Spank his butt! spank him until he learns how to behave! if you dont start spanking, hes gonna turn out to be a terrible person! sorry, dont want to be mean, but that's how it's done!
everythinggirl1000 2 weeks ago
Man that is just sad, at the end you can just tell how defeat the mother is seeing her child like that.
CRUSHAA 2 weeks ago
my daughter had an autism meltdown like this today at the Sternberg Museum...We had to haul ass out of that place. I am so sick of people saying that these children need to be punched in their guts and shit like that. This mom did such a great job. I am still working on my patience level but it's getting better. Actually, restraining the child works very well and also does cuddling and speaking to them softly. FUCK ALL U MOTHERFUCKERS WHO THINK THEY NEED THEIR ASSES BEAT I'LL BEAT UR ASSES!
simplycmoses777 2 weeks ago
TIME OUT??? TIME OUT IS'NT WORKING- WHOOP HIS ASS
iluv2rant 2 weeks ago
at 2:04
gonna break them little arms XD.
LolOfCheesecakes 2 weeks ago
Obviously a lot of idiots on here. It's frustrating. I have an autistic child. Most of the time he is a wonderful, well behaved child, but sometimes he goes into outbursts. Autistic children frequently get fixated on stuff, it's how their brains are wired. Spanking them, hitting them, throwing the, etc. either has no effect at all, or makes matters worse. Good thing god put this child in your hands and not some of these posters. Patience is hard, but required.
sheehanje 2 weeks ago
Spank it hard to that little mother fucker
volodymyr5757 2 weeks ago
Spanked his ass
volodymyr5757 2 weeks ago
you seem like a good mom, a lot of people would have been yelling smacking spanking before this video was half over, it seems like you are very patient with him and thats wonderful, i may be a little more firm myself but who am i to judge someone elses parenting? ecspecially when i know nothing about autism. keep trying and learning and good luck to you momma!
jzunig0912 2 weeks ago
As 11 Year Old
disney2000100 2 weeks ago
condoms this is why condoms are important
prboy931 2 weeks ago
step 1: beat the fuck out of him
step 2: ask if he will do it agian
step 3: repeat step 1 and 2
JuicyFruitRule 2 weeks ago
How's he now? Did you try Occupational Therapy or neuro-therapy? Helped my kid autistic sister greatly. She used to squirm around worse. Now, she can use the bathroom by herself, follow two-step directions, communicate effectively, dress herself, and knows how to go to a quiet place to calm down. Occupational therapy, even if you can't afford it and have to do it yourself, would greatly benefit this guy.
EquitationHiatus 2 weeks ago
Oppositional Defiant Disorder... ? WHAT THE FUCK IS THAT !?! and a pacifier at that age...? wow..... ODD sounds like some shit that the pharmaceutical companies came up with to sell some expensive Placebo......ODD is LACK OF ASS WHOOPING ! - I deserved every spanking I ever got and i thank my parents today for doing so, served my country and make 6 figures now, and I know if I didn't get a spanking I would be in jail....
rushforce33 2 weeks ago
u handled that very well acually. good job good mother!
99rukia99 2 weeks ago
I would fucking punch him in the guts
primetime653 2 weeks ago
0:26 be careful there, if he looses grip, he can fall and bang his head on the ground
doctorfeelucky 2 weeks ago
@doctorfeelucky If he does, its his fault for throwing a tantrum. he deserves it.
LolOfCheesecakes 2 weeks ago
I've handled kids like this one. What I do is spank him and tell him "Get in the car, now!" if he refuses, spank him again and say "Get in the car or I will get a switch." and you know what to do afterwards. What also works is saying "bye bye" and act like you're leaving him and they usually follow
doctorfeelucky 2 weeks ago
LETS DO THE POTTY DANCE!
Fireblazeandice555 2 weeks ago
why does he still have his passy me next doors neighbors kid wich is 2 she lost hers when she was one and a half whip him and tell him no and throw him in the car he will learn
gearmover 2 weeks ago
he wanted to win a fucking car what a whore hog\faggot\mother fucker\retard\pervert\vijina sucker
impy70ify 2 weeks ago
spank his titties
impy70ify 2 weeks ago
no wonder harry potters parents got rid of him
alphadude97 2 weeks ago
Why does he have a pacifier? If he can speak he cant lose the pacifier.
krwaring6 2 weeks ago
She isn't tough enough with him. Get hold of him a lot firmer than that, stop getting into a conversation and throw him in the car!
MegaStarlightexpress 2 weeks ago
@MegaStarlightexpress this kid has autism. his brain works differently. He has a harder time controlling his emotions.
throw him into the car? are you serious?
squelchieblue 1 week ago
@amihan99 yep
maldoman23 2 weeks ago
I work with autistic kids..first off stop babying him with the pacifier..your enabling his behavior
maldoman23 2 weeks ago
WHY THE HELL DOES HE STILL HAVE A PICIFIER? JUST CURIOUS..
SJMAO55 2 weeks ago
He started behaving himself because he wanted the pacifier. He listened to her and got in the car. That indicates the child understands cause and effect. Regardless of all of his supposed problems, it seems like you have a serious issue with HOW you discipline your son. I don't know about some of those diagnoses, because doctors are quick to diagnose a child to push pills.
lnm00996 2 weeks ago
I grew up with ass whuppins, doesn't mean I'm going around stabbing people in the face nor do I resent my parents...you people got a fat head over this hippy shit <_<
RedneckYachtClubber 2 weeks ago
@RedneckYachtClubber It's not called hippy shit... it's called teaching your child how to cope and deal with life situations instead of dealing with things violently... If you teach your child it's okay to hit when they're frustrated then they're going to struggle more with handling emotions as they get older... It's a really simple theory. But then again.. you said "you people got a fat head" so I'm only teaching to a moron...
rconlon821 2 weeks ago
@rconlon821 No, it is called trying to reason with a child which is sick...sick...sick! People, including you, are afraid of your child and that is how it is and what it is. For someone getting on another for calling names, you played the same name calling. God, this country is so childish, selfish, fearful of children, and a whole load of other crap! Geesh!
jaydawg34 1 week ago
It doesn't matter whether the child the child has autism or not, "a good ol ass whippin" Shouldn't be the answer. Like if you agree.
lazycrittertheviking 2 weeks ago
@kynneable: I know you go to jail if you kill a child. Obviously I don't mean the child should be literally killed. I'm not buying this Oppositional Defiant Disorder business. If you break that down to simple terms, it means the CHILD IS BAD. HARDHEADED. DOESN'T LISTEN. None of *MY* four children have EVER had a tantrum in public. Why? Because of a little thing called HOME TRAINING.
jaamgirl 2 weeks ago
Tantrums are hard to deal with..wait till he is bigger and you have to call the cops
amihan99 2 weeks ago
Beating kids is not the answer because it definitely causes trauma & scars & messes up the kid. I know. He is too old for a pacifier & i don't think anyone should judge her parenting if they don't deal with kids themselves.
leticiavee 2 weeks ago
I have to really go on this one...This big ass kid has a pacifier!!! I just can't let that go...You are rewarding him for being bad? Really? Go to the nearest store and buy a belt...Actually two...One for him and the other for mommy for not whipping him when he first started doing this kid o stuff...He is bad...Not mentally disabled...You are making him mental by allowing him to do this...
MrLamarmickens 2 weeks ago
I am watching this video and noticed that this boy has a pacifier!!!!Are u kidding!!! A pacifier...How old is this kid? About six? Seven? Pacifier.....Mom needs her ass whipped...Be a parent not their friend....
MrLamarmickens 2 weeks ago
Its pretty mean to video this so you shouldn't of done that and you mom ur wrong to laugh
thegirlinaw26 2 weeks ago
Sweet mommy, it gets better! And all of these people who are saying your son should get a beating, well, they are off their rockers! Ignore them. Their opinion is small, narrow, and short-sighted. Hang in there! You're doing great!
writewads 2 weeks ago
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@writewads
corporal punishment is essential for some kids who fail to draw or recognize some lines, especially if there is no fatherly figure.
Sam10947 2 weeks ago
For gods sake haven't parents ever heard of whooping!
jcisbrazilanf 2 weeks ago
this is why some kids get the unholy hell whip out of them i would
turnerjudy54 2 weeks ago
a pacifer please lady he is too big for that.
turnerjudy54 2 weeks ago
you are in time out
AlaynaGirl 2 weeks ago
Kid's way to old to still have a damn paci, I don't care WHAT is wrong with him
ayparillo 2 weeks ago
what did he want so bad?
MultiJim26 2 weeks ago
Guys chill he has autism but idk If it was
The best idea to let him keep his paci that long