Legally Kidnapped-Our corrupt judicial system-Parental Alienation Syndrome

[bowenit]

PAS makes you do crazy crap, like pull a Baldwin, I know all to well about PAS.

[ashatbulaparanormal]

The court system is corrupted and not all kids see the truth.CPS took my sisters away and the adoptive parents turned my sisters against us and they still hate us even after thirty years.

[kwondoaxprincess2]

I am a 16 year old girl and my parents are both divorced. As a child, my mom tried to alienate me from my father. They had been divorced since I was 2 so I never saw much of him and only knew of what my mom told me. My older sister knew that my mom was saying crap about my dad and whenever she would try to tell my mom that she was wrong, my mom would turn to me (I was like 10 at the time) and say, "No, you're father doesn't love you. Right, Betsy?" and I only knew what my mom taught me so I

[kwondoaxprincess2]

would say "Yes." I managed to get in contact with my dad later after my older sister snuck me one of his letters. It turned out that he had always been sending letters to us but my mom would throw them away. This letter was the first I had heard from my dad in years.  My dad kept trying and now I am so glad to say that I have avoided my mom's attempts to break us apart. She and her boyfriend still try to tell me lies about my dad and separate us but I'm old enough now to know that its crap.

[kwondoaxprincess2]

would say "Yes." I got in contact with my dad when my older sister snuck me a letter he sent. Turns out that he was sending letters for years but I knew nothing about them because my mom threw them away. I'm glad to say that my mom didnt separate me and my dad and I have a great relationship with him. I have bitter feelings towards my mom for trying to take away my dad. She and her boyfriend still try to tell me lies about my dad but I'm old enough to know now that they are full of crap

[BigMikeandMikey]

I am fighting for my 2-year old son, my only child. My wife filed a bogus Domestic Violence Injunction on me in Florida in November 2010 and I was ejected from my new home and kept 500 feet from my son. She voluntarily dropped the DVI several months ago. Since mid-December my wife has been in contempt of court, tested positive for drugs, has 3 DCF cases on her, and a criminal investigation for cyber/computer crimes for hacking into my e-mail. And she STILL has primary custody of my son!!!

[survivorgurl]

My heart goes out to you, as I can truly understand. I am a mom who is enduring this. It is one of the most heartbreaking things a parent can face. It is nearly impossible to get through most days. Thank you for posting this, so that I can be reminded that I am not alone. ~Lori K.

[survivorgurl]

My heart goes out to you, as I can truly understand. I am a mom who is enduring this. It is one of the most heartbreaking things a parent can face. It is nearly impossible to get through most days. Thank you for posting this, so that I can be reminded that I am not alone. ~Lori K.

[33dolce]

Of all the parents out there who intentionally have nothing to do with their kids...I cannot fathom why a parent would neglect their own child of a loving parent.

[survivorgurl]

My heart goes out to you. I don't know how much fight I have in me. It's heartbreaking. I am a mom of 4 ... they were taken 4 years ago. I could relate to your whole video. He was my abuser, and now he is theirs. I am so scared for my children. If there are any others in IOWA ... please contact me through my youtube account. Thank you.

[confused2heck]

I can totally relate to clairebelly. A similar situation happened to me. Only the courts weren't involved because our children were already at an age when we separated that they wouldn't have stepped in. Besides most of the damage had already been done by then. But more has been done since. My ex makes a ton of money and also won a hefty lawsuit and has been buying our children's love, plus he fills their heads with lies about our separation and me. I'm waiting for the day they see the light!

[clairebelly]

It happens to moms too. Two of my children, ages 13 and 15 are living with their dad. They have been completely isolated from me, their 18 year old brother and anyone and everyone who is close to them. The only speak to me on a speaker phone and then only to yell and spew lies. Father disobeys court orders, refuses to attend reunification counseling, or get a court-ordered alcohol assessment. Nobody can make him do anything and with every day that passes, they are more distant.

[Lori2149]

@clairebelly

Yes you are correct, it does happen to Mom's too and I am so sorry for your pain! Unfortunately the court system allows this behavior to go on. They are not interested in "the best interest of the child(ren)". They are interested in lining the pockets of all the lawyers that you have to pay for to do anything. Because most people can't even afford these outrageous retainers and fees the problem just continues. Your children will see the Truth some day! Always stay the high road!

[confused2heck]

@clairebelly I can totally relate clairebelly. Only the courts weren't involved because our children were already at an age when we separated that they wouldn't have stepped in. Besides most of the damage had already been done by then. But more has been done since. My ex makes a ton of money and also won a hefty lawsuit and has been buying our children's love, plus he fills their heads with lies about our separation and me. I'm waiting for the day they see the light!

[TheKristie111]

June 21st, 2006 the same nightmare started for me. I feel your pain. People keep telling me when they grow up they come back and resent the other parent. God I hope this is true!

[Lori2149]

ALWAYS, ALWAYS, ALWAYS be the better person and take the HIGH ROAD. Kids are smart and eventually they can figure things out for themselves. If you go to the level of the alienating parent it won't be as easy for them to discern. Unfortunately that child-parent relationship is lost but you will have your pride. There is that wonderful possibility of 40+ years of adult child-adult parent relationship that may include grandkids to ease your pain.

[videowatcheer]

how do you know thats what her mother told her to say?

if she did, its is abuse on her part but there are two sides of every story

[Lori2149]

I know her mother told her what to say because the things she said were lies about my family. Many of the things she said were clearly not the words of a 8 or 9 yr old, but the words of an adult. Yes, there ARE 2 sides to every story, but we felt the pics here said 1000 words. Earlier this week we finally got back a Psych. Eval. from the Court. The Psychologist caught the mother in so many lies and also stated in her evaluation that this father's parenting time should never have been suspended.

[childsweethearts]

This is so sad. My tears flowed as I watched this video. The love and happiness between a parent and child should never be taken away. Who gives judges the right to make decisions like this? Especially based on lies. They hurt families and children by tearing them apart and they don't even care. What ever happened to innocent until proven guilty?

[Lori2149]

Thank you so much for your heartfelt comment.You are absolutely right, Judges "don't care". Unfortunately it is mostly "men" that are perceived as guilty until proven innocent, so mothers play on this and get away with mentally abusing their children with their sick hatred. No one holds the courts accountable, and unless you have a money tree in your backyard it just never ends. It is people like you with your kindness that give us strength, along with that of Our Lord! Thank you!

[gibsonbfgman]

I feel the extreme pain you are going through. We are going through the same thing with our grandson, only it is the father and his family who are abusing our grandson. We pray for the protection of all these children.

Delliott

[Lori2149]

Yes, unfortunately, though more rare, this does happen to the mother's sometimes as well. The problem is that the Court's allow this behavior. The Judge in our case stated recently "there is no such thing as Parental Alienation...it doesn't exitst". You are certainly in our prayers. The g.parents in our family that haven't seen their g.daughter in almost 2 yrs are as sad as we are. Why can't parents see what that they are really hurting their children. We will keep you in our prayers!

[jboy2727]

the judge, social workers and mom need to be lined up and shot!

[preachur99]

Yo,you stold my story!! Not really.Our storys are soooo similar.I really feel your pain.We can only hope and pray that God will come into our daughters heart and let them know truth...God bless you and yours,Gary

[jddl77]

he looks like an AWESOME dad!!

[Lori2149]

Thanks for saying so! He is and our three year old daughter absolutely ADORES him!