Men...Get Yo SWAG ON: "How To Approach a Woman" (Part 1)

[ItsLunny]

Are you single

[xXProStyleZXx]

@ItsLunny trolol

[xXProStyleZXx]

I heard somthing you said but forgot is when i realized how hot you are damn girl no man will ever get u

[12quillemall5321]

A creep approached me and said, " Baby, can I fill you up?"

[andrew19vato]

good video! and yeh i agree you cant always be telling a girl how hot she is, gotta play it easy!!

[coreyblack30]

Good afternoon.. :-)

[zaberang]

btw your fucking gorgeous

[zaberang]

Are you from trinidad

[lilteflonvest]

u didn't tell me anything I didn't already know -__- but good video though lol

[vivathedivaTV]

@lilteflonvest lol.. thanks hun! =)

[paulbeasy]

i would hit that

[ChicDarlingXO]

Cute video btw, what software do you use to edit?

[vivathedivaTV]

@ChicDarlingXO I actually use Windows Live Movie Maker :)

[yungfrresh1]

she got a sexy ass accent lol i know i would get at her ahaha XD

[Pikekartel]

No it's more like African

[ryueclipse22]

i love you jamaican accent

[lookingatbooks]

I thought you were going natural with your hair!!!!!

[vivathedivaTV]

@lookingatbooks I am! I am!! It`s actually in protective styles for the summer right now! :)

[MrArradondo]

The lady speaker is right, always respect woman's space when trying to egknowledge her because timing is everything. Say hello and allow me to introduce myself. when talking to her focus on her face, eyes, forehead, nose and mouth this should happen when she is speaking to you that way she knows that you're focusing in on her developing a comfort zone. Always check if she has a ring showing she spoken 4 and if she doesn't ask if she is seeing someone. show her that you have respect and honor.

[stilbonirl]

Don't forget eye contact is key....btw you have great eyes..O.-

[vivathedivaTV]

@stilbonirl Thanks hunnie!:)

[ikillyounow27]

hey good vid very mature i like how you coach, coul guys that needs to watch your vids, they can can ues it

[vivathedivaTV]

@ikillyounow27 awww, thanks hun! I`m so glad you liked it!

[airparriflies]

You soung like Samaya from love and hip hop lmao

[vivathedivaTV]

@airparriflies Lol.. really?? hahahaa

[airparriflies]

Ok your bad, id put my swag on for you

[vivathedivaTV]

@SWATclangaming1 Hahahaa @she got prettier since.. what made her get "prettier"? lol.. I'm curious to know :P

[DaniBravooo]

All girls care is about money!! If your a guy and have money, you will deff "bagg" that lol

[vivathedivaTV]

@DaniBravooo lol.. for some girls, yes.. hahhaa

[SuperGlamFactor]

you speaking the truth! omg i think this everyday!

[vivathedivaTV]

@biscuitsbiggestfan This is soo true! I agree with you completely

[TentzFanPage]

lol You made some great points in this video..

[TheeKIDINFANANT]

my name isblah blah blah wanna be my gf

[XXpapercutXX1]

ha u look like janet jackson :)

[MikkoATL]

what accent is that? are you irish??

[romano9711]

I usually just say," hey, wanna phuk?"

[vivathedivaTV]

@romano9711 LMAO.. wow... hahaa

[ikilledyou69]

Hey imma good lookin preppy white boy almost 18, if you ever around South Carolina hit me up cause damn you fine as hell shawty, and that accent dats that fire!

[supertrex2]

well, scenario #1 is debatable. some are just shy aswell.

[Fat2fitNGU]

Hey I met you today....

[vivathedivaTV]

@Fat2fitNGU =D .. it was great meeting you too! ♥♥

[simonenterprisestv]

I am sharing the Video Viva. This one is Funny. Thanks

[simonenterprisestv]

lol...you tell them sis.

[zeedottv]

you got swag on wow!!!!!!!!!!

[nba2k88]

YOU ARE GORGEOUS!!!!! wow..

[KimmyJayy]

so funny but so true! good topic :)

[202skinnz]

ok we rock'n wit you babes

[SpecialScents]

Tell it like it is, girl.

[101BRK]

when i see girls that i want to holla at i say the magic words !! it works 99% of the time! if there taken i dont want them ! i hate a girl that say i got a man and still wanna flirt!

[skinnyJEANking2]

She shouted me out! <3

[MyBensimon]

I have to say ...so true! ..and you have a pretty talking! Keep up the good work girl..xo from Paris

[MrMoePhills]

lol I love your accent " dont do it, dont do it"

Good show sista

[vivathedivaTV]

@MrMoePhills Lol! Thanks for watching!! =)

[SmartAmerican1]

great vid. I hope every guy in the world sees this and takes what you are saying seriously. The main take way of this is that women like to establish you as a friend or associate before they date you (at least a self-respecting woman). And one more point.... eye contact! Ugh, don't you hate when a man is asking "how are you" or "whats your name" but they are looking you up and down like a piece of steak while saying it!? OMG this grosses me out soooo much and NO woman would date someone that!

[demariowilliams8]

Right and I’m sure there has to be at least one “MEGA MILLION” dollar ticket out there for me? that also comes with a Lamborghini, an extra MEGA MILLION dollar ticket in the glove compartment, about three fine ass white women and, a gallon of GREY GOOSE! Shit, "damn women" ya’ll need to stop watching BET. P.S. A COOL BLACK DUDE

[PlainRayna]

This was a nice video. It's not my time though. Keep doing what you're doing.

[PlainRayna]

@PlainRayna Not my type* -sorry.

[MrBrandon330]

your funny haha but your right guys should approach women correctly

[KoolKinkz79]

you are too funny....thanks

[LuLuABlessedSurvivor]

Looking forward to hearing more on this! I agree with you! Its crazy out here! Its crazy when a guy walks up and just stares or says something stupid! I have heard guys say random stuff like Hey, you should marry me, you should have my baby, you should move in with me! First time meeting you, SMH! Crazy! If someone's going to try to hold a conversation make it meaningful and filled with substance! People should start talking again! Hence fourth texting is not a substitute for talking! LOL LOL

[clayLavl]

I have a sense of humor that seems to interest certain smarter women. But, often times I have been pursued. I'm not sure how to approach a woman because I haven't done it in conventional ways. I like to beat the odds by pointing out factors other than her boobs or legs. Sure, I LOVE boobs and hair, etc but I assume women already know that so there's no use in pointing out the obvious. I feel that women are like a piano...

[braggsrt]

Cool vid, I'm going to make a response video though lol

[vivathedivaTV]

@braggsrt haha! thanks hun! I can't wait to see your response! LOL

[cardoworld22]

I love it pretty. Hook my Moms to the channel

[JermaineParisTV]

Great tips. Let's discuss algebra in my bed? If any dude use that he deserves to get punched haha!

[kingjames878]

@JermaineParisTV word dats corny as hell

[MsMary123100]

Only one thing I'd add... be tactful in how you offer help to a woman at the gym. I've had that experience before and it wasn't great... the guy was like: "You're doing that wrong... that's not the right way to do it"... I was thinking "I've seen you eyeing me the whole time... that's NOT the right way to strike up conversation!... I didn't ask for your unsolicited advice!"

[Sugarypop13]

wowwww, dis is great.... u giv great advice.:)

[Creatisha]

It is so true I am so sick and tired of the sexist comments about the body parts and what so ever. It is really a disadvantage when you meet that nice guy but the first convo is so wack.....

[Rabackup1974]

@Creatisha You are so right. Wack line get men nowhere with women. I should know this, because I use wack line. Here is my wack line I use on Christian women. I am like the Black Jesus here to save you from bad sex and all your problems including your man so let me save you and take you to sex heaven, hahaha. So wack

[adreya31]

love it, girlie your so pretty and you look good in blue, no thats not a line im not tryna pick u up lol, its true

[smiles4miles84]

This was great. I'm gonna send this to all my single guy friends. You should add "Hot girl at the grocery store". It happens to me all the time. I don't know why, it just does. Lol

[Greatersend]

Another thing I can't stand when men approach me by saying..."Are you married"?, Are you single? Will you be my friend?  I be like....It's ok...thanks anyhow. Have a blessed day. LOL

[SelfMadeGlory]

Great Video Viva, I'ma tweet and post this video onto my Twitter and Facebook page. A lot of Guys need this advise.

Keep up the Great Work!

Chris Parker

[vivathedivaTV]

@SelfMadeGlory Thanks hunnie! I really appreciate that :)

[najmaj]

"you might have to box down the dude" lmbo!!!!!!

[SkillzUnknown]

speaking as a guy....and disclaimer: this is just my opinion and experience - get to know who she is? 90% of women you meet don't want you to know who they really are, they just want to know that you want to know. Aka they like the attention. Most of them want you to spend time cracking open an empty safe, so to speak. To be honest, women are not that great at giving advice on approaching ppl because they never do it, and when they do - well most guys won't turn down a pretty girl....my $0.02

[8DarthGhost8]

@SkillzUnknown You hit the nail right on the head, my dude.

[sweetsistercopey]

@SkillzUnknown As a woman, I automatically want to disagree, however, there's truth to what you're saying. Some men talk "so-much-fawt" (translation: talk alot'a crap) women are sometimes terrified to hold a conversation; hence the impatience and attitude. A man once sat in front of me while I was having breakfast and the best he could do was, "Who's hittin' that?" I was so frighten (translation: surprised) by his comment, all I could muster up was, "Get up from in front of me."

[PneumaB]

@SkillzUnknown very well said... 

[TDG62]

@SkillzUnknown REAL...SHIT

[LoveOfMyLyfe062208]

LMAOOOO..."you look so fly in your pumps and tight ass skirts" lmaoooo

[cutiepie7190]

Very good video, A LOT of guys really need to watch this. :)

[healthysenior]

You are so right. A few years back, I had a man arrested for following me three blocks and then grabbing me, on a public street. I could hardly believe that someone, who hadn't done time in the loony bin, would behave this way.... And the gym scenario you described is exactly why I no longer attend co-ed gyms. I hope guys who behave in these ways watch this video and get a clue!

Boundary issues and inappropriate behavior is NOT cute on anyone, especially a grown man who should know better.

[MrTUFFTALK]

Viva i got to ask you...... over 75,000 views since Feb 2011 and over 3K subscribers in less than a year!!!!

OBVIOUSLY you have personality....where you the most popular girl in your high school? .......I really want to know. because we love u out here

[vivathedivaTV]

@MrTUFFTALK haha! Thanks luuuuuv! I'm glad your feelin the show! Let's put it this way... highschool was good, but uni was siiiiiiiiiick :P

♥♥♥♥ Viva

[Berenice33eunice]

You're soo cool !! love your channel and prsonnality ;-)

[DavionIsAKoolAssNerd]

I like the gym hints....but this vid had me smiling most of the time.

[JIMMYAD46]

YOU ARE DEFINATELY A DIVA THIS VID COMES AT A PERFECT TIME 4 ME THANKS.

[sophieSfrancis]

what nail polish are u wearing aswell hun? x

[vivathedivaTV]

@sophieSfrancis hey giirlie! Thx soo much hun! You are too sweet! ... the nail polish I'm wearing is actually a cheapie, but if you wear it with a good base (ie. Seche Vite) it lasts pretty long... its called Static Electricity from L.A. Colors Color Craze line =)

[sophieSfrancis]

@vivathedivaTV Oh! lol...thanks for answering, but i dont think i'll even be able to get that here in the UK...it looks sooooooooo pretty too :( I've never even heard of that brand xxx

[vivathedivaTV]

@sophieSfrancis awww! I hate when that happens! Maybe you'll be able to find something similar.. :)

[sophieSfrancis]

@vivathedivaTV yeah im sure i will be able to...thank you anyway huni :) x

[MsMary123100]

@sophieSfrancis if you have a local Sally's, I think they sell L.A. Colors there... they have a Sally's in Wembley where I live, and I think I've seen some there. :)

[sophieSfrancis]

@MsMary123100 Oh :) yeah i have a local sally's, Im gonna deffo go check that out :) Thank you xxx

[sophieSfrancis]

omg i love u! so true, so real...plus ur soooo gorgeous