Spotlight on male victims of domestic abuse

[ladyEulaelie]

I've seen a video "Spotlight on Girls" Preventing patterns of domestic violence. And I was vexed by the non-mention of males as victims of domestic violence. Women are not the victim of everything, we can also be the perpetrator. I'm glad that men are speaking out. It's a mental and emotional battle for men, b/c even though they can hit back and physically over power, the consequence is a losing battle against a misandric system that favors women and demonizes men.

[theplentysense]

80% of domestic murderers are men, of the remaining 20%, three quarters are women defending themselves against documented murders. This is not a gender neutral crime. You are liars trying to cover up the truth by slandering the real victims. The average woman has a fraction of the strength the average man has. You only want to believe this is "mutual" violence because men are floating on a river called denial.

[JesusTheGardener]

@theplentysense Cool citations

[InsidiakMFWA]

@theplentysense But 70% of domestic violence are initiated by women. So The women starts it and the man finishes I guess. True, most men are stronger then women but most men are not abusers. Physical strength isn't "THE" deciding factor of what makes plausibility of domestic violence and murder, there is also the will to. And don't you think thats insulting to women that they cant be equally capable of murder just cause they aren't strong enough? You can hurt someone even if your not stronger.

[kiwipreacher]

Most domestic violence is ‘mutual brawling’, with both parties equally at fault. Yes, some women try to exercise power and control over men and a similar number of men exercise power and control over men, but in most cases the abuse is mutual.

Male survivors of domestic violence have the added disadvantages of being less likely to come forward, being less likely to be believed or taken seriously and of not having the same resources to help them.

[HagoCacaEnTuLeche]

Wow, I didn't realize this was a problem. People really need to get the word out there about this sort of thing.

[iTeapea]

Omg, that poor guy! <3

[mrmootheirrev]

And no, I don't hat women. I hate abusers of all sexes.

[mrmootheirrev]

Glad the bitch got a real punishment. 18 years to think about what a cunt she was.

You will never see this woman on man violence in the media though, unless it's played for laughs.

[paintballman1987]

Damn this is very sad :-( sutch a nice guy!

Damn that girl she should get a life time in jail not just 18 years.

[SoggyPizzaPockets1]

Crap like this is why all my female partners get 1 warning when they -threaten- violence towards me. If it goes past that, I am out the door. I'm not going to put myself in harms way and then subsequently told to "take it like a man" just because I'm with a woman that has anger issues. Fuck that noise.

[Winobie75]

My X has a behavioural disorders, she started punching me in the face and jumping on me like a demented chimp. I had to struggle hard to escape. She then bashed herself to leave marks and got me arrested for ABH. I have not returned to this lovely relationship in 2 months. All is not well though, as now she tells me she is 3 months pregnant. I suppose I have a court summons regarding child maintenance to look forward to. Ah, the joy of psycho's.

[ltt989]

how did they get the 1/3 figure? if you're going to make a huge statement like that don't expect people to automatically believe, show some evidence and methodology

you actually expect me to believe to 1/3 of the women in my school, or class, or city, or bus have been assaulted. so what? 1/3 men are abusers?? so as soon as a man touches a women, he's an abusers, ok. then, I will say 95% of women are abusers. why? because everyday I see girls at my school punching, kicking, and pushing guys

[Hankthejollyspoon]

@AngryActivist45 Having been a victim of violence does not make you an expert in criminal proceedings, I am open to the idea that female aggressors suffer heavier legal punishment, however I have seen no evidence for this statement, and my own research has led me to believe that, whilst the occasional one is 'made an example of, most are never reported, of those that are, most are never prosecuted, and of those that are, many receive aquittal or little punishment. I am also a victim of D.V.

[visionimagify]

If a chick slapped, punched or hit me in any other way that's serious, I'll do what I have to do. Never let a woman hit you, ever.

[jethrodassam]

@visionimagify It's not that easy. My wife is stronger than me.

[xinvinciblex]

@visionimagify What is she smashed a vase against your shins and MADE you weak and powerless. You would have to abide by her every command then wouldn't you.

[Hankthejollyspoon]

@AngryActivist45 I'm sorry? This statement is based on what? Most murders require rage, but many abused men never defend themselves at all. Please tell me where your evidence for this claim is.

[Hankthejollyspoon]

@AngryActivist45 In the western world, Female on Male domestic violence is the least reported and least prosecuted crime cluster, and has THE lowest conviction rate, lower even than rape, which is also itself unconscionably evil.

A study by DOR found that incidences are nearly equal in number, and that women were 'beaten up' more, men were slapped and hit and attacked with weapons or stabbed more often, also a lot of relationships are mutually abusive, but are not treated as such.

[masharcool123]

why should I respect women or men in general. Idiocy, I'm not going to respect somebody based on gender. 

[neisan92]

SO, looking at these scars does anybody here still think that women "can't realy hurt you"? or if you take it your a "pussy"?

women can easy do damage, and it takes little effort to equalizes gender differences with a weapon, or even no weapon if the victim isn't going to resits white they pummel the shit out of him, and gouge him with nails.

[ys246]

how could woemn abuse men ??  :S

because i have heard men abuse women .

was her wife a wrestler ? :P

[EstevanL]

punch her and make her get you a sandwhich, if that dont work tie ehr down and call some friends over to have some fun, viola violent wife solved

[p1gta1p]

There should be a men's movement. These savaged animals (women) get away with too much and the faggot manginas see nothing wrong with it. They're mistreating their own gender.

[maleabusedincorpus]

@p1gta1p I agree 100 percent. Let it be known that there is a growing pressure on the domestic violence industry to change their ways. Women researchers are finding that domestic violence is not gender based and women initiate violence more often than men. Things WILL CHANGE!

[p1gta1p]

@maleabusedincorpus We need a better president and real men in the justice system. Obama and VAWA Biden are puppet of feminazism. The USA is becoming a bitch made society.

[maleabusedincorpus]

@p1gta1p Did you know that the U.S. Department of Justice will not fund research for males as victims of domestic violence? True! They will fund it if it is for females as victims, or general topics for men and women, but not for men only. The fact that the office is called "Violence Against Women," says it all. The researchers who are doing things for men get their grants from the National Institute for Mental Health (NIMH). DOJ - Against gender discrimination? Not in funding research!

[p1gta1p]

@maleabusedincorpus That faggot Joe VAWA Biden fueled the problem.

[RobbytheLion]

@p1gta1p Shut up you bigot, that kind of talk is why men are villified in the first place.

[p1gta1p]

@RobbytheLion Another feminazi cunt!

[RobbytheLion]

p1gta1p = Another homophobic dick-head!

Tell me, do you hate women because you secretly love men and struggle with your sexuality? Come out of the closet! we have cookies.

[p1gta1p]

@RobbytheLion I only hate women who associate with organized crime! Other than that, I respect women.

I don't know what your gender is! Either you're a brainwashed feminazi woman or a brainwashed pink pantie motherfucker known as a mangina!

[RobbytheLion]

@p1gta1p I've barely said anything to you and you're labeling as me a feminist. Do you call everyone who criticizes you that? Where are you pulling all this from? I'm guessing ass.

One thing I can tell about you is that you hate men who believe women are people with equal rights and you hate homosexuals. Bigot.

[p1gta1p]

@RobbytheLion You replied to my comment and I responded back.

[SSJSonicguy]

only 18 years?!

[stayfitrideanimal]

lmfao

[TheAlienUnderYourBed]

Anyone in an abusive relationship deserves help. Society has made this clear. So why are we (women) the only ones receiving it? Why is it that if a man hits a woman, he was beating a poor, defenseless girl, yet if a woman hits a man, she's justifying women everywhere (and to make matters worse, she's portrayed as a role model)? The world makes no sense...

[zakfar20000]

If females have feminist movement to support them... there should be a male movement to support them as well.... as feminists only support abuse on females not males.

[HomeworkHelper1]

@zakfar20000 Not every one, but many.

[lucidatheist]

I feel for this man. Men are the biggest minority in the world, yet seem to have the fewest rights. It is totally unfair.

[highflier217]

@THOUSANDAlRE atually thats wrong there are 50.2 women and 49.8 percent men in the mowld

[THOUSANDAlRE]

@highflier217 World population according to US Census Bureau International Database; Both sexes population--6,853,019,414 Male population--3,451,948,881 Female population-- 3,401,070,533. So reverse your figures and your percentages are correct.

[THOUSANDAlRE]

@highflier217 You're figures would also be correct if you were only looking at the numbers for the US population

[chrisman737]

Incredible and sad. But I am happy that justice has been done and she was thrown behind bars.

[soco13466]

This video won't load. Guess the feminazis have blocked it.

[proudguy]

Feminists say that all such cases are women fighting back in self defence.

If she had killed him, she would claim "battered wife syndrome" to beat the rap. No murdered husband has ever contradicted such a claim.

[uratrick]

Unfortunately no man wants to admit he is powerless. I am pleased this poor Man found help.

[anikinippon]

Holy shit, thanks for the post

[crypter27]

That poor man!

[themanonthestreet]

No, the hardest step for MEN is finding help... Not women. They have help on virtually every street corner.

TMOTS

[JayR1784]

women have so much help they can make false claims willynilly and not jam up the services provided for battered women. Meanwhile a Mens DV shelter, if you can find one is just a 5 bedroom flat.

[HomeworkHelper1]

@themanonthestreet Exactly

[ORVX]

this shit is status quo, but unlike 99% of male on female DV, this shit is REAL.

[harr77]

Nice I'm glad she went to jail for a long time.