Agoraphobia

[matt26nz]

mines the same mate always with disease or something then panic attacks hit karnt even watch em hospital progz on tv like ER ect but yeh ur not alone mate bin 6 years for me now and im still feelin like things gettn worst then better and feel something more is wrong with me ..

[Prettygirl77733]

I'm so sorry. I hope that you are well.

[CKSBoltaction]

@Prettygirl77733 I did get better for about 7months, I had a fiance and had even moved out of home, but she cheated on me and broke up with me christmas eve last year. I slowly went back down hill and am now back where I started. This disorder is so hard to understand. Thank you for your comment though :)

[mslostgirl25]

hey hi its joy i badly need your help im inlove with a guys with aoraphobia i dnt knw wat tro do he push me away coz hes saying dat he wants me to be happy can u help me pls 2017376681

[scout6686]

wow this guy stopped osting

I'm assuming he stopped living like this lol

[ShyGirlSingz]

You haven't left your house AT ALL in 4 years???

I think that you are an inspiration to people with agoraphobia (My older sister is 20) & has it.

I feel so helpless I can't help her. She has lost all her friends and i really hope she makes it through. (And you too!)

She isn't brave enough to make a video, I think i'll show her this, and she may take something positive from it.

Thankyou

[iliachem]

I've done so many things in my life, that at this point I don't really care if I die. One day at a time is all I got, each day is a gift, don't waste it.

[youRnotAlone06]

watch my video-it may help you

[iliachem]

You just gotta relax :), breathe in breathe out, then repeat. I'm 28 now, not agoraphobic at all, not even ever anxious about anything, I've been really busy in the last 3 years travelling the world, doing all sorts of crazy things, visiting many cultures, it changed my morality and view of things in the world, learned a lot about buddhism and meditation, talked to many folks from Thailand who practice it since birth. It's not a problem of individual but society and morality in general

[WildBillHickums]

Ya, but say you got a kid or job/house payment. What you are requesting is only possible for a single, financially secure person with no responsibilities left in his/her home country. Im currently looking from the negative side of the spectrum. Nah, the truth is, im a college student currently on a summer break. On the contrary, im trying to keep my literary writing and thinking skills sharp because I have english 2100 in 4 days so this is imperrative. I apologize for any comma splices, etc.

[fishfan67]

bro mine started out just like your at the same age now i'm 40 i still have it on and off but some days are better then others it's the worse i know i go threw it all the time are you on any medications? i'm working with this DR. using cognative behaviour and this shit is for the birds there's gotta be an easier way. i'm starting to see why people get on heavy drugs and drink there wa though life. they probably suffer like us and keep it to themselves. are you any better since this video?

[youRnotAlone06]

watch my video-it may help you

[spiritladysoul]

my partner has had agoraphobia for 9 years now. it is no fun for him, but it is also no fun as a family. we do nothing together with the girls. it is a nightmare. we just have to live with his condition

[CKSBoltaction]

No fun for him would be an understatement... I feel sorry for your position and your familys but the guilt that is baring down on the agoraphobics shoulders is much to do with what makes us feel so much worse...I think agoraphobics give up on hope when they feel they have no support left, they feel like a waste of space. I know it is hard on you but I can say with no doubt at all that it is MUCH harder on him... To see his kids grow and he can't play with them... it is a sad state for both.

[aldaric77]

Hi, I'm actually writing using my husband's username ^.^

But I also have agoraphobia and severe panic/anxiety attacks. Sometimes I can't leave the apartment for weeks at a time.

It started for me when i was around 14 as well. I don't know if you can ever completely get over agoraphobia or panic attacks but i've recently learned a lot more on how to control them better and make them a part of my life and a part of who I am.

[WildBillHickums]

WHAT?!?! And youre gonna end youre comment like that, fill us in on the pointers, (im frickin dyin here)

[fromthispoint]

Agor here yep!! 25 years of agoraphobia and I still have my sanity but it can be useful I think of it sometimes as heighten awareness in this modern world of all kinds of large noise maby agro folk is the smart ones fight or flight turn down the noise world wide...hahaha jokeing

[iliachem]

I had all the symptoms you have and maybe even worse, but now I sort of turning into the exact opposite, I have no problem flying on a plane anywhere or go sailing on a speed boat, riding a bike on a mountain with cliffs - sort of like you make a wrong move and you fall off - I have no problem doing any of it, or chasing chicks, 1 or 2 at a time, I only notice one thing - I'm the only one not worrying, you can turn the tide, it just takes some time :)

[fishfan67]

how did tou get over this bro? this is bad news to have, people don't understand it did you take medications?

 Respond back. thanks, Al

[CKSBoltaction]

I rarely respond to comments, I geuss I just read them and then go back to my "world" but your words were very inspiring so thankyou, it made me feel better and I think others who suffer should read your comments ilia.

[iliachem]

I had agoraphobia, I got panic attacks as soon as I left home, I got panic attacks even at home, but not as severe. Worry was causing it, fear of dying made my heart race at abnormally high rate so that it hurt, I didn't even have to leave the house, leaving the house was not an option, and yeah I had all the symptoms you had and absolutely nobody to turn to, people in general tend to turn away from you and blah blah. I don't have any worry about anything anymore and I don't know why. U'll be ok

[iliachem]

He lived but, hearing and having depph charges explode within several meters from him while being submerged in an underwater floating coffin made him look differently at his life and every worry he ever had before.

I'm not writing this to convince you to go bungee jumping for thrilles but even in your condition you are capable of a lot more than you want to believe :)

[iliachem]

Read a book by Dale Carnegie on "How to stop worrying and strat to live", anyway something like that. This book can't make you feel worse about what you have. Everybody has what you have, just different degree of it. It offers practical solutions on how to deal with various anxiety/worry problems. My favorite part is a description of a US sailor who had a worry problem, which was solved when he spent 24 hours in a submarine which was being shelled by a German destroyer with deph charges

[Patriotfrosh15]

I forgot, I don't have this agorathoria thing. But I can sense a sadness in you and I cant stand it even though I'm only in highschool. I hate seeing people like this. Please tell me if my idea works for you.

[Patriotfrosh15]

As I was saying, Is that everyday you need to go outside for however long you can stand it, then when you start to get freaked out go back inside. The next day, stay outside like 10seconds longer. And each day stay a bit longer outside. I heard that the famous inventor had sum kinda cancer. He took long walks and slept outside in the cold because it helped him. If you keep going outside a bit longer everyday. You might be able to overcome it. Please tell me if this works for you.

[Patriotfrosh15]

I have a thing to tell you that will help you overcome this agoraphobias thing. Let me give you an example.

After I watch a fucking scary movie that scares the shit outta me, I have to go to bed. Well since usually the lights are all off in the upstairs and no ones up there, I have to get myself ready alone. Yes I get scared to shit running up into the dark when it's pitch black. I run into a lot of stuff on the way to my room.

But I force myself to do it.

Thats what you need to do.

[socialistpoet]

I've been suffering with Agoraphobia for 10 years now. One of the problems I have is insulting and ignorant reactions based on the misconception that Agoraphobia is just the fear of open spaces. It's not liked I diagnosed myself. I don't care what they call this intense feeling of terror I feel when I'm put in a stressful social situation. I apologize to no one for my condition. I do not try to make others feel better .. or explain my decisions to withdraw socially. Solitude is sanctuary.

[Gorjezzticles]

I have this too im 22 and from australia aswell where abouts r you? im in melbourne, i havent watched all of your video but when i noticed your accent is aussie i looked at your page, i will be ur friend if u want i know what your going through where the same age and from the same country :)

[kallo1234]

i havent left my house in 15 years

[wetkunthole]

Hi you could try some invisible potion. Then no one will see you when you go outside.

[DarkElfMairead]

Yeah but have you priced those lately? I'm not made of gold!

[caprisierra24v]

possibly social phobia?

[Alyseflick]

Me too!! I just came out with it on here yesterday... I wish you luck on getting through this and you are not alone... you can talk to me anytime =)

you're cute btw

[tishryan]

Good man.

I know what you are going though I neber left my home for over 20 years. I do get out a bit now but what you said let people know how bad it is for all of us that suffer form this phobia. I do think we can and will get over it so never give up . Chat to you again very soon. Thank you for doing this video.

Pat ryan

[isabeats]

.gov/disability/professionals/­bluebook/AdultListing

For those living in the USA: this is the link to SSI's "Blue Book", which lists those conditions that qualify you for disability. It also lists the severity of symptoms that would qualify you. Severe anxiety disorders do qualify you; I'm on disability because of a social phobia. It takes a major worry (income) off your mind, so you can deal better with your anxiety.

[isabeats]

Having an anxiety disorder is considered a disability. If you live in the USA, I highly recommend checking out the "disabilitysecrets" website, which takes you, step-by-step, through the entire disability application process. It tells you what to do and what not to do. It's extremely helpful (and FREE); I got on disability without having to go to any hearing.

[BricknerGuitars]

It is great the attitude you have in dealing with agoraphobia. People do overcome it but unfortunately they don't talk much about it. Its a thing of the past for many of them I think.

[fromthispoint]

I will be back to talk about this matter!!!

[fromthispoint]

I have had it for almost 25 years,I will be your friend.

[Cuzntime]

I suffered from anxiety, panic attacks and agoraphobia of rover 24 years. I tried and bought everything. I am now living a normal life due to Claire Weekes. Look her name up

[sadluvsong]

I've had agoraphobia, panic disorder, and major depressive disorder for about 3 years. I hate feeling trapped and dependent. I can't work, attend college or drive a car, because of my panic attacks. I've seen a psychiatrist, had therapy, took meds, but nothing ever worked. My life sux ass! I just stay home and do nothing all day, going crazy. At least I'm getting ssi benefits from social security, because I'm unable to work. Some of you may want to apply for that haha. free money.. why not?

[TommyAngello85]

use a tranquilizer called 'Fuckitol' :)

Jokes aside. A good psychologist would be a big help!Professional help is the only way out of this emotional state. A web site isn't going to help you beat the fears.

[peacenlove3]

This disorder had caused so much sadness, worry, worry and more worry. Depression. The feeling there is something else wrong with me other then anxiety. It's ruined relationships. People don't understand. The healthcare system sucks. My safe person is gone now. It's a horrible disorder, that I couldn't wish on the worst person. Thanks for the video. Message me you guys. We all need friend's and especially ones who understand. Take care.

[cokebub3]

Dude, I have extreme panic disorder/ agoraphodia. I think we should make a site! Im not on medication. so it is horrible :(

[sambooka02]

I had my first bad panic attack when I was about 17. The next day when I was at school I started thinking about it and another one came. Anyway, Im 20, almost 21 now and I dont know what to do. No one understands, and my mom is bugging me to start working. I ended up dropping out of school and right now i feel like i already ruined my life.

One question. What does everyone do for jobs? I have to figure something out or ill be out on my ass...

[pchanson42]

Anyone have inner ear problems? Here's a suggestion: Get the book "Phobia Free" by Harold N. Levinson. get it used on amazon or from the library for I have no financial interest in Levinson's work, just an emotional one. The book saved my life. Panic Attack free for 16 years from a simple inner-ear medication. Get your inner-ears checked, thoroughly.

[ibex333]

Dude, I'm with ya all the way. A site is a good idea. Too bad I don't know HTML, but I am trying to learn at the moment. I hope you haven't given up on your idea and you still want to do this...

[mrmasatoman]

hey bro i'm with ya all the way

[myintuition25]

you are simply amazing! i get you & i think you are so strong & brave! thank you for this video.

[MovieInsight]

I've had a chronic case of this disorder for 4 years. Before the initial panic attack I was a Sport and Exercise Scientist. Traveled all over the world. Doctors, family, freinds don't understand!

[Tarreanka]

I really needed to see this..I know exactly what this is like and it's the worst thing that could happen to someone.I,m trapped also.I have constant panic attacks,hypochondria lol,and am terrified to leave this house.Hope we find help soon,this isn't living.

[marinello6]

When I look back, there was a problem going back to early childhood. My parents were always fighting. Maybe it affected me in the womb.

[marinello6]

Accept or reject. I have multiple anxiety disorders.

We are judging oursleves. In reality the world does not even notice us. I am gay but you wouldn't know it but after a lifetime of random rejections and acceptance...it is one of the things that did a number on my head. I was born in 55 and dated girls till I was 20. I didn't dare reveal myself. Just a thought. I feel that the world is predatory.

[Brennna]

Thanks for sharing. I have had it for 35 years. I can't find anyone who can help where I live and I can't travel to the people who might be able to help. Thanks again.

[jordanmalyon]

Bro you explained me to a tee..... The only cure I know for agoraphobia is exposure.... and that is hard as fuck to someone like us, unless we are forced to do it. hope you get better

[danieldbird]

Hey bro i had anxiety attacks too, mine was due to smoking too much Marijuana. I stopped that and now things are good. Maybe a lifestyle change is the best remedy. Dont be a fraid of anything man. We are all the same, trying to make it.

Peace and love.

[bbbjjjbbb]

yeah man. pot intensified my agoraphobia - so BAD!

[mynameisevan1717]

when i started smoking weed everyday was when i developed anxiety. i think it may have caused it. weed effects people differently so be responsible people!

[kill0025]

do acid it helps (LSD) i learnd alot from myself i descoverd it was all in my head and that i was a shaman who was close to the sprit world that could heal and i self healed myself and now i am extramly happy with life. Can You Pass The Acid Test!

[wiccamelissa]

I know the one cure for , panic disorder, anxiety, agoraphobia!

If you can go to the health food store or drug store and buy a bottle of vitamin B 100.

I cured my self for 4 months

but when i stopped taking that vitamin everyday I go t my anxiety dissorder back

vitamin B 100 is for your nervous system, You get it also from liver, but i dont eat liver yuck!

so trust me

take that every day and withing a week or 2 you will start to feel better and normal again

trust me

[wiccamelissa]

I have panic dissorder really bad! I am 22 and i have had it for 4 years now, I just want to be back to normal. people think i am crazy becuase i freak out when i go somewhere, the noise gets to me, people drive me nuts , and malls make it worse, bars make me even more panicky.

Maybe we can chat sometime

just look at my video or post a commont back to me ok?

[FahQ777]

hey... I deal with "agoraphobia" and Its stopped my life in its tracks basically...u r pretty brave in my opinion cuz I would never put a video up...I haven't left the house 4 pretty much in 3 years... it makes me feel better though when I see ppl with the same problem

[Kalisto84]

There is such a place: google Phobics awareness ;D your welcome and not alone.

[pinkcandygal]

i did the whole support groups thing...worse thing possible..your not gonna get better if you sit on ure arse feeling sorry for yourself, writing symptoms,reading other ppls symptoms etc,it worsens you, brainwashes you more to believe theres something wrong with you. if you want to wake up in the middle of the night experiencing the same symptoms of a fellow member..go ahead,join such groups.