Real Talk Diva's My Past Has Caught UP!!!

[lessthyme]

April, you're good at everything, including advice....:-)

[MissShayShayluv]

What type of makeup and lip gloss are you wearing its flawless..Love It!!!

[Ladybluetiful]

The real issue is why would you date the brother of someone that you slept with? It doesn't matter if it was a one night stand or a full blown romantic relationship. Cast a larger net dear because there are plenty of fish in the sea and there is no need for you to be "swimming" around in familiar (read familial) territory.

[williamskat1]

Ah the brother's grimm situation. Been there done that. I think this relationship is doomed. Let it go.

[TheKennesha]

Sometimes as a woman, I don't care how liberal she can be when its comes to sexual partners or sexual relations eventually its going caught up with her. Ppl can judge her and men probably will not take her serious. Its going be hard for her to find someone settle down with.

[rihannawillowlover]

I'm sorry that happened to you diva!!!:( On a better note your looking beautiful , Love the wig and Love the eyeshadow (:

[nicoleisthenewblack]

is the world so damn small that you have to screw two brothers...what are the chances. i mean i would not have pursued anything with the brother of a past fling

[gonzalezyanelin]

I don't judge but that what happens when you have one night stands!!!!! Things caught up!!!!! But anyways love the makeup!!!!!!!

[TheArabianPrincess1]

I totally agree with u April. I would say exactly the same, this is my openion as well

[honiblk75]

you look real pretty in this video

[tcochren]

Your make-up is flawless on this video, very natural looking : )

[Sinsatiable14u]

I seen your review on denovo site whoa!!!!! Virgin malaysian 26" I knew you were in luv I know the feeling.....I got one from this chinese vendor name rex......his virgin malaysian wigs are butter soft.....you will be surprise how cheap he is for the quality of his wigs

[Sinsatiable14u]

Did you say this was a denovo hair wig? I was looking at them 3 years ago.....this wig is hott!!!!!!!!! To be badd I didn't get one their wigs when I still could afford them.....lmfao

[rockcandy30]

You look just like my best friends mom. It's a good thing trust. Beautiful!!

[msanjanetta]

THis wig is the fierce on you. THis is the best one by far. Sorry you broke out. Where did you get this wig? Is it a body wave?

[JoelenX]

you look great!

[AtlantaAngel84]

She should not date the brother, thats too much. He is always going to be thinking my girl slept with my brother.

[nora0726]

Troy is a bitch ass man.

[xticklebunny89x]

I agree with pussycatdoll... BUT u def own that wig u look really beautiful in it.. so unrecognizable if i didnt know who u were from ur vids i wouldnt think this was u.. what is she called?

[xPussycatDolll]

wow that wig is BEAUTIFUL!

whered you get her?

whats she called?

[littlemissedmonton16]

Awe April you look like J.Lo im lovin your look Today

Love ya diva

[hymaintenance4eva]

loving the look. those earring are too cute. nice classic look.

[silverdolla88]

if lashae so loved anthony- when she found out they were brothers she should have told him! duh- thats her fault. things do happen but she should have told her dude off top

[nancycakes5]

dang appril.

if ur neck is so sensitive how the hell did u get that tattoo onur neck!

LOl

!love love all ur videos and advice ur the best!

Godbless u and ur beautiful family!

[TheRedrider09]

Girl I love the video or should I say all the vids!!  Keep up the good work & advice!!!

[lovingutube1]

I think the relationship will change, everytime Anthony see his brother he will think of the fact he was with his woman, when did she realize they were brothers, this will change things between them I am sure of it.

[STAYceeHARmal14]

I agree with some of the others. But Troy only said something becuz he's jelous. Because Troy should have said something at the beginning. And her too when she found out that was his brother. I think Ant is mad becuz they didn't say anything and that's what hurt the most.

[mychelle0706]

Agreed. Let that be known from jump, because for all she knows, Anthony wouldn't have wanted to date her for having done anything with his brother, and that's his choice to make. Not saying she needs to disclose her entire sexual past in the beginning but that's his FAMILY so that's a different situation. that's a choice that Troy and Lashay made FOR Anthony by not disclosing that information.

[STAYceeHARmal14]

Holla!!!!!!! :)

[GirleyG5]

The hair is fiya!!!

[chrissys31]

those earrings are too cute....I have been wanting some diamond hoops havent found any yet lol but in the real talk situation i think her man needs to just chalk it up to the game and as long as the girl dont dig the one night stand he need not worry bout it. Tell your man you dont want any drama shit and if this is what theywanna do they need to grow up cuz its not like she intentionally went for the 1 nite stands brother after the fact. Ok take care april hope yur doing good happy halloween!

[shehasavoice2]

Yeah, but the truth is that she just gotta be her. All La'shae can do is just let it be what it is. She didn't know. It's not like she was messing with them at the same time or anything. That's life. Now, it's on him. As long as she is being honest, things can be dealt with.

[Jazlicious89]

I Love ur eye makeup...can u do a tut on it!!!

and troy is wreckless, he couldnt let his brother be happy. if he felt some type of way he should have said it in the beginning. Ms. Diva needs to keep it moving with Anthony.

[juzadiva]

Loving the shadow!

[LydiaJoy82]

I'm a little confused, but it sounded like Troy spilled the beans to Anthony after Anthony told him that the girl was going to be making a big move to California with the brothers? Sounds like Troy just wanted it to be the 2 brothers making the move, and brought up the one-night stand to put a wedge between the couple? Maybe I'm not following this, but I would say to the girl to just make plans that include your boyfriend, and not Troy. That sounds like it could be one drama after another.

[lyricbrodie]

well lord have mercy, i slept with my husbands brother (oopsie) before i met my husband, but my husband was the one who picked him up from my house so he knew who i was, and thank god i didnt have to let that cat out tha bag, cause he picked the dog up from my house, lmao...... but all was known b4 we even dated, everyone has history.... he should realize that, and dont give up on love girl!

[steffiejoe]

I think it was best that Troy did not hide the truth from his brother. I know if it were me I would want to know . I just hope Anthony can get past it. I'm sure Troy has told other family members and friends. I can just imagine how he told him...

[MissaRosa]

Honesty is the best policy! When she found out that the one night stand was related to her current boyfriend, she should have informed the boyfriend. How could she have not have a guilty conscience about keeping it a secret? What if the two got married, had children, and years later, the truth came out? It is better for it to come out now than to pay the consequences later! If the relationship is true, this test will be passed and they will stay together.

[MissaRosa]

April, you can use NEOSPORIN ointment on your neck. It will clear up the rash and any redness.

[Pianopraiser]

Troy is foul. There was really no need for him to open his big mouth. Lashay needs to really watch him. If Lashay and Anthony are in love this will work out. She says it was a one night thing. I think you gave gread advice. At least everything is now out in the open. Lashay and Anthony can now move forward. Lashay will now see how Anthony really feels about her. If he can't get over it, then maybe it's good she find that out now. As she may have other things later and he can't deal with it.

[shell1328]

I don't like it on my neck either. That why I don't do full lace. I like lace frontals. But your wig look good girl! Girl you are taking the words right out of my mouth while I'm typing. I got use to the half wigs too. And it feels good to come in the door and toss the girl to the left. Just feel free. I think I'm going to do a sew-in this winter instead of lace.

[sultrydoll]

great advice as usual april! lashay gfive him some space but def talk to him asap. his brother should have said something soon as he knew as you should have also. it sounds like his brother did it out of spite. i do hope you guys can work it out but if not then let it be.

[DivaJacobs313]

LOL.... I almost could smell you cigarette and I don't smoke....

[Lakota505]

Me too!! Lol...it makes it cozy while she talks. Even tho' we know it's bad for her. It just makes you feel like you're at the table with her.

[DivaJacobs313]

I know..... I thought I was the only one thinking that... I almost could smell the smoke...

[mzcherry04]

omg mz april i loveeee your eye makeup. it'z so pretty..well hell your makeup skillz are great!!

The past should be left where it is...the past. My new boo had a sit-down recently becuz I told him that there are sum thingz that have happened in my past relationshipz that STILL bother me. He told me that I shouldn't let my past interfere with my present and future becuz I won't ever be happy and realize wut'z in front of me (him). She can't let her past ruin her future with Anthony.

[jnellegirl]

The lady should talk to her boyfriend by telling him that she has no feelings for his brother. She should avoid talking to her boyfriends brother because he seems like a trouble maker. If things don't get any better then she needs to move on. Oh yeah I have the same problem with the nape of my neck. Its very sensitive so I can't put any glue nor tape on it for my lace wigs.

[muchlovefromky]

i know alot of you are going to think i am wrong for this but she sould just keep it moving because even if he says he 4 gives her it will always be in the back of his head .

[LadyMackDIVA]

Hey April! Where can I e-mail you at??

[nlwilliams60]

Good advice April...the cat is out of the bag now but.. the lady should have told her boyfriend as soon as she realized the 2 guys were brothers.. otherwise she did nothing wrong.. but the brother sounds like a hater and is bragging on his penis probably (hate to sound crude) but let's keep it real!! She and her boyfriend need to talk it out. And if it continues to be a problem she may need to move on.. cause in the end family is family!!

[lilmamakay2004]

You done really learned how to do them lace wigs up. I remember when you were trying to figure out them baby hairs. LOL, looking beautiful as always and giving that REAL ASS advice for us DIVAS. *smooches

[anavywife28]

girl, them earrings is beautiful! im so excited the half wigs are coming back, girl when u said that i said YES really loud and woke up my husband

he said, what u excited about

i said April doing half wigs again

lashay and troy need to move on, anthony need to understand that troy didnt have no connection with lashay. u right april

[MYSTIQUE0711]

YAY!! HALF WIGS!!

[kittenbhm]

Ive always sewed my full lace wigs down in the back. Get some hydrocortizone.

[SEXILADICHELE]

OMG its the past leave it there, everyone has a past, so he should deal with even though u should have told him, to eliminate this drama, but still what is in the past is in the past.

[GeorgiaGirl678]

I love those earrings and the ring...did it come as a set?

[mrs1nitsua]

she was movin in wit the TWO of them? if so that was a dumb move on her part,,,,both of them knowin they had sex and her man clueless,,,,shitty bizness,,,,shoulda cleared that up as soon as she realized they were gonna be serious,,,,lesson learned ladies handle yaself like a lady cuz this what happens when u dont

[jeco5]

try putting on some hydro-cordizone it will help the itch and soreness.

[PiNkLaDyFaB]

off topic....i love the eyeshadow look...can you do a tut on it?

[gennett21]

I was thinking the same thing.

[armywifenluv]

She should have spilled the beans first cause his brother is a hater plus you know men have big egos but if dude really cares for her they can move on.

[MercedesGames]

I don't think she should have to explain herself at all...I mean tell him...sorry it happened..but shit...I didn't know u...I'm glad ur brother told u...but its over now...I had the same thing happen..only it was a vry good friend..of his..and he told my bf too...then he approached me..and i said..yeah..so what of it...U tellin me I'm never going to run into someone u slept with...?..It's a small world..Its dbl standard..if it was him..noone would have said shit to her..I can almost bet on it~

[lexyladybug81]

her boyfriends bother is a hater...if he knew all this before and he waited till they all three are moving....gimme a break...he shouldve talked to her and both of them should have sit down and talk to this girls boyfriend and explain it was in the past and it meant nothing...

[MercedesGames]

Oh hey....I like your eye makeup in this video...:)

[MercedesGames]

So funny...everytime u pick up your smoke...I'm like..oh no Diva...i need mine..u wait..[pause-till i get my smoke..lol..]...

[MrMADDOX1234]

April

have you tried to stop smoking for the FAMILY? THEY NEED YOU

[dalia1707]

Girl you are TOO wise. This is the first time, however, I've ever questioned, NOT disagreed mind you...but Questioned the intentions of all parties concerned.

Of course, that could be because I'm from a small town, where people couldn't HELP but know who had brothers or sisters, and who those brothers were.

Be that as it may, if he loves her as much as she says she loves him, then they'll need to have the talk with the OTHER brother. Still, that will ALWAYS be a problem for them.

[tori790]

Great advice April!!!!!

[lfutrell82]

hmm, thats a tough one because guys have such huge egos. if he is mature enough he will get over it eventually. lashae just needs to steer clear of his brother for the time being. even the slightest eye contact may give the wrong impression.

[mzblaqbird]

i love love that wig..where did u get it and how much did it cost

[PDWhiteGirl]

that lace wig is the bomb........LOVELY!!!!

[kimkiki6869]

Hi Diva, she should have told him first,now her man will be thinking about them being together in the back of his mind if they stay together. She needs to pray on this. Also April, you gorgeous! Sorry to hear about the wig. Put some cream on it and brush your own hair away from the bumps, as your hair glands have oil and you don't want to irritate even more. love ya..

[sfb001]

Oh! And pop some Benadryl for that rash! I mean if you can handle it! ;-)

[sfb001]

April,

Just a thought, but a friend of mine suffers from sensitive skin, she was in Japan a few months ago and ran across Sensitive Skin Wig Glue. Without a second thought she bought a ton of it and mailed it to the states. I have never seen it in an beauty stores in the USA...but keep on the look out, you might run across some. I frequent hair stores and have had no luck. My moms suffers from the same debacle with the sensitive skin on the neck and nape.

[hourglas39]

Hair looks very pretty !

Now on the Topic, Diva you gave some very good advice.

All I can add is for her to just pray on it and if their relationship is meant to be then everything will work out.

[marliestrim]

i agree but guess what. if i were tony id be mad at anthony cause anthony is the one who is with his brother's ex ( one nighter) ... dont be upset girl- u aint in the wrong

[tsaine07]

While I don't believe we have to give our life history to a new boyfriend she should have said something to him when she found out they were brothers. No man wants to be caught off guard in this situation. Give him time and if it was meant to be he'll come around.

[kkimberly2004]

she should have told him before the brother told him. If I were the current boyfriend I would be thinking what else havn't you told me.

[cynmille2000]

u hair is hot

[cutechoclatechip]

hair and makeup on point!

[kiki1L]

Advice well put....I Love ur hair ....and please do a tut on the eye look...it''s BEAUTIFUL !!!

[rmbb10]

You look fabl good video. On that note, it was in the past and she should just move on. Also, I do not know why the brother would want to try to mess up thing for her and his brother that she is dating. I agree just talk to her man be real with him.

[mskalabama]

great advice April! an sorry to hear about the wig situation, cause you were really rockin that one. but hey, you rock all of them.lol

[MrsAries77]

your makeup is gorgeous, can u please a tutorial. the colors are so pretty

[kiki174987]

APRIL VERY IMPORTANT....i dont think its just you..i had to take mines of for like two days...i had a bunch of lil red bumps only around my hair line.i thought it was just me.u have to leave your wig off for a few days.

[lady2584]

your hair looks soooo good up... and ur face is beat....

[lovelymsL1]

Good advice! I look forward to your real talk videos and because of you I am a believer in wigs. I have been rocking them ever since. Thanks Diva!

[BaltimoreSuperstar]

this is something his brother or she should've said when they started dating. this is why i hate hating ass people. yes it's out in the open deal with it. but 1 thing is for sure he needs to get over it. you love your man and he loves you and his brother is a hater. the past is the past. we all have one. no point in fighting.

[Silentbutdeadly07]

Dag, this is a small world. one thing she gonna have to watch out for though is their future arguments. cuz you know he gonna throw this up in her face again if she ever makes him really mad. and thats messed up.

[Lakishia]

April great advice just talk with "Anthony" and tell him how you feel about the situation and move on. I don't know why "Troy" is so persistent but he must be jealous or something.

[EssaSleepy]

i agree 1oo%

iLOVe ur ReAL TALKS!

[twigylegs]

Sounds like you got an allergic reaction with a dermatitis , just apply some hydrocortisone cream twice a day april :)

[muffinismylovers]

Thank you Diva I got some of that right in the cabinet I will be using it Ugh I really would like them bonded in the back but not for all this problems

[KellyJelly9976]

Girl past coming back...I had a similiar troy and anthony situation, but they were cousins and there was no one night stand. There was a somewhat relationship, but anyways me and the cousin clicked better than the original guy, but because they were related we ended it. Unfortunate, but for sure I'd advise no arguments between family. There is some hating going on, but T needs to understand that she and A are committed & together. Period, but once again that's up to A to convey.

[BabyTigga23]

April you told her truth and I agree with you 100% no one is perfect and he should understand that

[MzCarmelLion]

You right Ms Diva..

[chocolatebunni83]

i luv the hair you look great

[missmia919]

I'm loving those earrings that you are rocking. Where did you get those?

[nickyejay09]

you look so pretty in this video.. i dunno, something is different. but i like it.

[Harden5]

Hey April - you look like you are slimming down. Keep up the good work!

[muffinismylovers]

girl I had on that Body Magic I aint slimming down LOL though I wish I was LOL but thank you Diva