well there's a problem in the other direction too with men...that in a way men are socialized to essentially over-sexualize everything. Whereas women are supposed to downplay it. The guy doesn't exaggerate, he's either gay, or a loser, or probably a number of other insults that are irrelevant to his character or appearance; a girl who doesn't downplay the sexual aspects of society is a slut. So like she's saying...two extremes. they need to meet somewhere in the middle.
my definition of "slut" - A person of any gender that participates in a sexual activity with another/others without caring for their feelings and harming them afterwards on purpose: by either neglecting their partners, destroying their partner's self-esteem and/or using their (partner's) emotional crisis to feel better about themselves and doing so repeatedly to others. (Sounds like a bully who tried to get to your through sexual activities.)
I would have to agree with Cenk from TYT that 'slut' is a term that only losers would call someone. Either because they are bitter because they can't get laid themselves or they are intimated by how comfortable said "slut' feels about her human sexuality.
What about people, not just girls, who have sex to get their own way? Like to make people do what she/he wants? I'm 16 and A LOT of people in my school use sex as a weapon. Guys use sex to gain girls trust and control them and a few of girls think a good way to get back at another girl who said something bad about them, is to sleep with that girls boyfriend.
Being a guy, I think one of the main reasons guys refer to certain girls as sluts is because we are jealous. No, seriously, I think that guys are jealous that sex is not available to them as it is for girls. I am going off the assumption here that it is easier for a girl to get laid than a guy (which is almost undoubtedly true if we are talking about an average girl and average guy). This is also a reason why guys are considered "studs" if the sleep around while girls are considered sluts.
Observe the world around you, how society functions, and how poorly people communicate, the negative position society in general has towards sex, The negative position society in general has towards Success. Then you look at the dominant philosophy on earth, Not the millions upon millions of sub categories. But the basic philosophy, the underlying system that provides people with their moral codes.
The dominant philosophy is altruism. And a society's philosophy is the cause of it's status.
One of my new years resultions was to stop using words like "slut" and other bad terms used to describe women, I think more of us should stop and consider what we're are saying beforehand and how it could damage someone, and how you would feel if you were being called a slut for whatever petty reason.
Clarissa-Explains-It-All definitely went to Berzerkeley. Nothing wrong with being a slut, but most so-called "sluts" are gamers milking others for attention & gain. Gals tend to shame sluts for this reason: dealers hate competition. True sluts decommodify it. Women tend to be seen as sex objects, men are seen as success objects. Male sluts get less grief because it takes far more skill & prowess for guys to "have sex for sex's sake". Even in SF Bay, evopsych & reality > idealistic prattle.
I usually will classify a slut as one who uses sex as a tool to hurt themselves/others. Example: person who pursues a significant other, &puts them under the premise that their sexual relationship is going to be safe, secure or committed, but violates those terms. Some examples: classic guy tells girl he loves her, girl has sex with guy, guy never talks to girl again. Also one, with a sexually transmitted disease, is fully aware, but doesn't practice safe sex, & their partners are unaware, ect.
What can you do to prevent STD's? The best way to prevent STDs is to have a mutually monogamous sexual relationship with an uninfected partner. If you want to have many partners have your partners tested, and then use condoms correctly Every time you have sex. The use of condoms, when used consistently and correctly, can reduce the risk of transmission of most STD's (not all,which is why you should test your partners). The risk of acquiring an STD increases with the number of partners you have.
some people like to call me a slut because i've had a lot of sexual partners, with men ive just met. idc....i love sex! especially with new people. however i will not break any of these 3 rules
1. i will not cheat on my boyfriend
2. i will not hook up with a guy or girl who is not single
@loveandmathematics99 Haven't you read anything I wrote? Well that's ok, I'll tell you again. Condoms are not going to protect you from Herpes, Crabs, HPV(the cause of genital warts and cervical cancer). I don't think you want any of those. What will protect you from these things is having your new partners tested before you have sex. Best of luck :)
I have noticed that girls and guys that role around"sluts" are unstable for a relationship and are often times unfaithful, and i would know i have been in a relationship with two sluts and herd friends experiences. I have also dated two more classy, more old school type of girls as well, and have found them very pleasant and did not go hang out with allot of other boys and cheat, but the sluts did do these thing and more. does any body have any thoughts on this?
funny thing is, im not sure if its just me and my friends but we also call each other sluts (we're all guys) and of course we use the "male" definition
`Very well said! The word slut is more often applied by people (with their own insecurities) who mistake their preconceptions for facts. "I hear she sleeps with a lot of guys"...well if you hear that it must be true right? Even if it is true about a woman, there's nothing wrong (as you stated in this video) with a woman who enjoys and explores her sexuality. A sensual woman is a gift.
seems like people just want to sleep around, and don't want others judging them for it. Well too bad, sluts. And that goes for men and women, no double standard here.
@damnredlights Ever heard of STDs?Sleeping around puts you at higher risk for STDs.Once you have one,you can easily spread it to someone I Love.Even if the person I love isn't sleeping around,all they have to do is sleep with one slut,and they got whatever STD they have.Condoms break if not used properly;it only has break once to spread an STD.Many STDs are spread even with the proper use of a condom.Want to sleep around?Then don't get all hurt when someone calls you what you are, a slut.
@damnredlights If a person chooses to put themselves at greater risk for STDs by sleeping around,then contracts an STD,then they deserve to have it.Others have the right to judge them based on their actions(not their looks,religion,gender ect).Call me closed minded I don't care.I'm STD free,because I choose not to be a slut.They didn't get the STD from liking sexual pleasure,they got it from having sexual pleasure with many people.I Love sex,with one person I love in a committed relationship.
@sweety4271984 no one ever "deserves to have it". You're making an assertion that assumes that having somewhat more sex than others should be punishable by catching a disease. Anyone can catch an STD; one can catch an STD on the very first night. Sleeping around may raise the chances, but some people marry for a 3rd or 4th time (assuming they are all true to their partners at the time). By your rational after the 2nd marriage they too deserve to catch an STD. Humans were not designed like that.
@trident3b NO actually by my definition if a person"married"2 ,3 or 4 and they all got tested they would all be protecting each other. If like you said they are all true to their partners, then there would be no way to get a disease or to spread it. There is nothing wrong with having LOTS AND LOTS of sex, it's when you jump from partner to partner without protecting yourself by having your partners tested that's the problem.
@trident3b Yes Any can catch an STD. And yes you can get one the very first time you have sex. And YES sleeping around raises the chances of getting one. And it also raises the chances that if you get one you will spread it to a number of people. A"marriage" where the people involved are faithful to each other, doesn't spread disease. Unless one of them had a STD before the relationship, and they didn't have each other tested. Then it could spread to all of them.
@trident3b And you're right,"deserve to have it"is a bit harsh. They shouldn't be surprised if they get a STD is a better choice of words.Maybe it should be punishable to not get tested before the start of each new sexual relationship,but the punishment shouldn't be a physical one ofc. Maybe offer free testing, and then require that people get tested, and a fine as punishment for not getting tested. Just think how many lives would be saved if we we required to protect ourselves and others.
@trident3b How do you think we were designed? And what do you think I think we were designed for? Because I never said people that have sex with multiple partners they are exclusive with and have tested deserve anything. Again deserve is a bit of a harsh word to use. But if they don't get each other tested they shouldn't be surprised if they catch something.
@sweety4271984 so we all walk around with a passport that shows we have been tested? Once you have been tested that passport is good for perhaps a day. So we have to be celibate, then go & get a test respectively, such as on your next date if you are single, await the test result, stay in quarantine & find a way of proving that quarantine to each other too? Surely we should be looking to cure the STDs and eradicate them that way? Are you religious? What sort of life have you led?
@trident3b Whether or not I'm religious or not has nothing to do with me knowing that having promiscuous sex puts people at higher risk for contracting an STD and then spreading it once they have it. But to answer your question, no I'm not religious. I don't read any religious books, or go to any place of worship. But yes I do believe in and Love God.
@KoRnyGirlx I guess you're not too good at comprehending what you read. I've already stated that condoms protect against STD's when used properly. Problem is many don't use them properly, and then they break, or fall off. This only has to happen 1 time to spread a STD. Also condoms don't protect against Herpes, crabs, and HPV the cause of genital warts and cervical cancer. But i guess you're alright with possibly getting parasitic insects, cancer, herpes, or warts. How ignorant are you?
@sweety4271984 Easy, education. & I know it doesn't stop herpes, crabs etc but if that person has regular check ups (which they should be told via education) then it would decline. If you actually watch Laci's videos you'll see that her main priority is EDUCATION. Once you learn, you won't forget. I'm not ignorant at all, and by the way, you're acting like I sleep with multiple partners when I only have my boyfriend :)
@KoRnyGirlx Yes, regular check ups will make the number of new people that contract diseases go down, if everyone would do that. But you know what would make that number 0? If everyone tested all their new partners. If you sleep with a person last night that has herpes, even if you used a condom, you can still get herpes. If your regular check up is in 6 months, how many people(if you are having promiscuous sex) are you going to infect before you have your regular check up?
@KoRnyGirlx I never said you were sleeping with multiple partners.In fact I said I didn't know anything about you.I said my comments were directed at people that have promiscuous sex and don't have their partners tested.I don't know why you think I was implying that You have multiple partners. I was saying those things applied to people that have multiple partners they don't test.If you thought I was referring to you I guess you think you have done that.That's great you only have your boyfriend.
@sweety4271984 it's obvious that you are an ultra conservative American with primitive ideas as to how to challenge problems. You initial views on other apparent (fictitious) diseases was to mutilate infants as a precautionary measure, until you saw the light, here you take the attitude that celibacy & discrimination should prevail rather than finding medical solutions. I led a GREAT sex life prior to marriage & am still healthy, but true, I also didn't live in AIDS ridden USA.
@trident3b It's obvious that you only think that this behavior is ok because you engaged in it yourself in the past.I am American,but I am not ultra conservative.I am for gay rights, and for also for equal rights of everyone.If what I had been told was correct about circumcision preventing health problems then I would have been right about circumcision.There is no denying that I am right that promiscuous behavior increases your chances of getting STD's and then spreading them if you do get one.
@trident3b so you engaged in risky promiscuous behavior and you were lucky and didn't catch anything,I'm happy for you.That doesn't mean that lots of other people that engage in the same behavior will be as fortunate.That's why it's risky,you are not guaranteed to get a STD,you are putting yourself at higher risk. If someone is promiscuous and then finds out they have herpes,I bet they will be more careful.I don't think that celibacy is the answer to anything.
@trident3b people are trying to find medical solutions for STD's.That's not going to make sex any safer now.I never said that it would be easy to require that people protect themselves and others.And I never said anything about a sex passport. But it doesn't really matter because if a person gets an STD then they have already punished themselves enough.I never said celibacy or "discrimination" was a solution to anything.AIDS is not the biggest problem,condoms can at least protect against that.
@sweety4271984 "Others have the right to judge them based on their actions". So where do these "others" take that "right" !?? "Others have the right"... I find such a comment almost outrageous. Do you give them that right? Who gives others 'that right'?? Do you realise that with such a remark you are assuming a function of jurisprudence? Did you make any laws in that regard? What right do you have to determine that others have that apparent 'right'?
@trident3b Because their actions hurt others. People have the right to do as they want. If people want to do things that hurt others, then the others have the right have an opinion on that.
@sweety4271984 You're acting like, girls can't look after themselves and acting like they don't know about contraception. The best way to stop STD's are condoms and femidoms and shockingly... we've been taught about it. The thing is, you're saying girls shouldn't be having the casual sex but the guy can because he can't be a slut because he's male? Also, condoms DO stop STD's (apart from herpes and craps), how ignorant are you?
@KoRnyGirlx I never directed any comments at just girls.Men And women that are promiscuous are both sluts.If people could look after themselves,there wouldn't be 65 million people in the US with a STD.There wouldn't be 15 million new STD cases each year.There wouldn't be at least 45 million Americans with genital herpes(80% of those with herpes are unaware they have it)I know and I've said already that condoms protect against many STD's, if the condom is used properly.How ignorant are you?
What should I call Captain Kirk (of the starship Enterprise) and Captain Riker (of the starship Enterprise-D) because they have tons of one-episode stands, much like James Bond, and lack emotional attachment and are eager for further relationships? I don't know what to call them and just end up using the word "slut".
You're telling people not to use the word slut to describe women that are promiscuous, but you have no problem changing your voice and physical stance mocking someone with a mental handicap to belittle someone else. Just something to think about.
I simply avoid rhetoric that deals in any way of putting negative value on human sexuality. But this means I'm completely avoid using words like 'queer' and 'slut' in a positive manner - wat do laci ? D:
The only woman I consider a slut is a woman who will do it without any benefit to herself. (Such as just satisfying someone else at her sacrifice.) Prostitutes and freely sexual women aren't included!
Is sexual pleasure really worth risking your health? No matter how many people you want to sleep with you should get them all tested Before you have sex. Many STD's have no symptoms, so your partner might not even know they have them. Sometimes symptoms don't show up until it's too late and the disease has already done irreversible damage.
Some std's are spread even with the proper use of a condom.So,if you're ok with possibly getting the Herpes Simplex Virus strains 1&2,HPV(the cause of Genital Warts),Cervical Cancer,Genital Crabs or Pubic Lice,as well as Body Lice otherwise known as Scabies,then go ahead sleep around.If a condom is used wrong they may break and could lead to transmissions of many other STDs.This is a huge problem because when you think about it, it only needs to happen one time and you could be infected.cont...
@SiggsGBR Not just slightly unfair, it's hateful, misogynistic, chauvinistic, and the statement of "that's how it is", where does that get society? Does it move anything forward or does it lower all of us to an over-simplified and prejudice way of thinking? If every one of us took the time to actually consider what the word "slut" means in an objective light and whether there should be changes made, we'd be in a completely different situation.
@SiggsGBR If it's unfair, why don't we question it? If we *know* that there's something wrong, that there's a double-standard, or that something is simply unfair, why don't we change it? Had we not stood up against these things in the past, African Americans and women would still be treated like second-class citizens, and society is better for having changed that, imo.
sluts or people sleeping around are the ones insecure. my ex bffl has slept with 79 people and shes about 18 years old is that okay laci? usually im okay with ur videos and love them but saying im insecure for calling a girl whos 18 and slept w/ 79 people a slut is okay with me. she hopes from bed to bed to feel wanted and cant date someone for more then a week and cheats on them at the same time. thats insecurity im secure with my body my bf i dont need to sleep w/ people to feel needed.
@newyorkergirl4ev Keep in mind that everybody has sex for different reasons. It would definitely be a lot healthier for this girl to speak to a school counsellor or therapist instead since you're right- this person sounds like they have insecurities, and that's a shame. But remember that this is not the only reason a person may have sex with multiple people! Not all people who have sex with different people are insecure, and not all insecure people have sex with many partners.
@newyorkergirl4ev You may not 'need to sleep with people to feel needed', but you sure seem to need to judge others to feel superior. People have sex for loads of different reasons, none of which are your business.
@newyorkergirl4ev If she is only sleeping with people to feel needed, then she should watch "FOREVER ALONE?!" (lacigreen). If that's the case, then that is sad, but calling her a slut is absolutely wrong. If she is doing it for fun, then who does that hurt? Why is that wrong? If she is spreading STD's, well that's only half her fault. And in that case, she should watch, "WRAP YOUR JUNK BEFORE YOU BUMP!" (lacigreen). And even here, it is wrong to call her a slut. Sex is not wrong. Period.
Definition of slut for me: somebody who sleeps around, whatever their gender. For me, I only want to have sex with a guy I am in a relationship with, somebody I love, and he loves me in return and when we are both ready. I want it to MEAN something. Having sex with loads of different people, jumping into bed with people you barely know, having loads of one-night stands, etc., just makes the whole thing almost worthless, personally.
@IamMoaningMyrtle But think about what Laci encourages in her videos: everybody has different ideas and feelings about sexuality. If somebody enjoys sex but hasn't found somebody they want to be in a relationship with, who are they hurting by having a consensual physical encounter with another consenting adult? Maybe you only like chocolate ice cream in the summer, but other people like strawberry ice cream even in the winter. Is it wrong? Nope- just different, and that's ok.:)
@IamMoaningMyrtle That's a good point, and we can't emphasize the importance of safe sex enough! :) But what about people who are in relationships - does this rule about protection apply there, too? Is a girl a slut for having a boyfriend but not using a condom? As Laci emphasizes, it's important to be open-minded and question the way we look at and judge others, and why. :)
@Anandatic Sleeping with loads of people and not using a condom = something I have an issue with.
People in a relationship and not using a condom = something I don't have a problem with.
People who have had several sexual relationships and never using a condom = not overly sure
I get it about being open-minded about sex but I feel that if it happen often with different people and without protection, THAT'S when people should be more careful.
@IamMoaningMyrtle Regarding your last point, I agree ENTIRELY! :) You hit the nail on the head with all your points, really, and it can be hard to draw an exact line and say "THIS is good" and "THAT is bad." Hm. What about this: instead of calling someone a slut for having sex with many people without protection, what if we called them "uninformed" or "ignorant" instead? Because you're right- the lack of protection is really what makes it bad/dangerous, and it shouldn't happen!
"People in a relationship and not using a condom = something I don't have a problem with."- I was in a consensual relationship with an ex boyfriend of whom I spent almost 2 years with, and we stopped using condoms, and 6 months after we broke up I found out I had HPV. He apparently had contracted it to me because he caught it from a girl he cheated on me with.
@Anandatic there is no such thing as safe sex. People should get their partner tested before they have sex, and then be in a monogamous relationship with that person. Ofc if you want many partners, get them all tested, and then hope that they are having all their partners tested as well. Condoms can break if not used properly, and some STD's are spread even with the proper use of a condom. (crabs, Herpes, to name a couple)
@Anandatic Nothing wrong with having sex with 1 person that you get tested for STD's first, when you are not in a relationship. But guess some people like putting themselves at risk for STD's year round.
I wish more people saw this video and would realize how harmful slut shaming is. It's like they think "How dare she enjoy sex and explore her sexuality!" It really makes no sense to me why this belief is so popular :(
@UbiquitousDuck More like How dare these people abuse their freedom. the first thing humans do when they have freedom with something is they destroy. its their nature. if you drink too much water, you will drown.(or more correctly increase your blood volume to the point that your heart and kidneys can't handle it). people are sheep, don't let them roam too far away from whats kept them safe. even if it means taking away some of their freedoms
@UbiquitousDuck because the USA always was a prude country with a disturbed attitude towards sex. Now it is a country that revels in mass pornography (being the biggest producers of porn too) to such an extent that you actually see people quoting porn on YouTube as if it were something normal to watch, like the news, not realizing that they are fully exposing themselves to the world that due to that they clearly have extreme frustrations in this regard, and not normal sex lives.
@trident3b wait so you are for having sex with whoever,but against other people wanting to watch?But I thought there is nothing wrong with sex and sexual desires?That people make their own choices and it's no one else's business?"not realizing that they are fully exposing themselves to the world that due to that they clearly have extreme frustrations in this regard,and not normal sex lives."That makes no sense,please explain.What is a normal sex life?Who are you to say what is normal?
Personally to me, a whote is a girl who has had multiple sexual partners, but has no emotional or romantic connection with them. In other words, she just f*cks people hahah. And that's her perrogative, yes, but at the same time you have to be responsible with these boys and also understand they're just using you a lot of the time.
Oops hahah *whore*. If she's flirting, eh, as long as she's not going waaaay overboard and being all touchy feely. Flirting is natural and fun, but when you're in a relationship, you should tone it down to respect your partner.
You are such a good speaker. I can't stop watching your videos. Nice way you edited the videos for flow. It is so easy to listen to. I think you would make a great host for a show with interviews with people like Dr. Ruth.
@S0Iari It's still hypocritical to it's finest. If they're being safe using condoms and enjoying life then why should people judge her life? It's not yours so why should it even matter?
@KoRnyGirlx Lots of STD's are spread even with the proper use of condoms.Condoms break.Diseases like herpes are spread even when a condom is used.It does matter to the whole population.Say I want to go have sex with 1 person, and that 1 person had sex with just 1 person before, but that person they had sex with had 50 partners and contracted an STD, guess what? Now we are all infected. This why I have EVERYONE I have sex with tested Before we have sex.Sexual pleasure is NOT worth Dying.
@sweety4271984 I understand how sexual diseases are spread, I'm part of a sexual health service :')
If a person can put a condom around their head or fill it up with a lot of coca cola, I'm sure as hell it can take a bit of a pounding. Condoms break sure, but it's not as common as you may think.
End of the day people who enjoy sleeping with others should get regularly checked out regardless of wearing condoms or not. It's fucking common sense.
@KoRnyGirlx So Ms.Sex Expert,how often exactly does a condom break?I've had it happen to me.You act like they are made from some unbreakable magic substance.Getting regularly tested isn't common sense for many.Say you have sex with someone,you use a condom and it breaks,and they had a STD.When you go get regularly tested,you can find out which STD you now have.Hopefully you won't have given it to too many other people before you find out.STD's are spread even with the proper use of a condom.
@sweety4271984 I didn't say in any sentence that I'm a sex expert nor did I say condoms are made of a magical, unbreakable substance. I'm just saying that they CAN take a lot, and it does take a lot of water for it to break.
Getting tested should be common sense because so many companies are telling people to get regularly tested on TVs, posters, magazine. It's everywhere.
Just because some men and women can't look after themselves it doesn't mean all women shouldn't be allowed casual sex.
@KoRnyGirlx It should be common sense to anyone that having casual sex with multiple partners puts you at risk for contracting STD's.Condoms can break.1 in 5 American citizens have genital herpes.Condoms do not protect against genital herpes or crabs.They can be spread from skin on skin contact.You said "I'm part of a sexual health service",making it sound like you know what you are talking about. But you don't. STDs are widespread; more than 12 million people in the US are infected each year.
@KoRnyGirlx You're one of the people who can't look after themselves.Having sex with multiple partners puts you at risk.You are promoting casual sex that in the long run can and does hurt people.All women Can look after themselves by not having sex with multiple partners and having the people they do have sex with tested Before they have sex.This is the only way to look after yourself other then abstinence.Even then it's not 100% safe because HIV doesn't show up for 6 months after you have it.
@sweety4271984 You're acting like you know what I do in my PERSONAL time, you know, the time you shouldn't be worrying about. What makes you think I don't protect myself? Because you know me? I hiiiighly doubt that darlin'. All men can look after themselves and not have sex but you don't see them stopping, and you don't see us (as women) complaining!
@KoRnyGirlx I haven't acted like I know anything about you.My comments are directed at promiscuous people that don't have their partners tested.If you fall in that group,and you do know all the possible negative consequences,I know you don't care about your health.If you cared you wouldn't be having risky sex with partners you haven't had tested.You are risking getting crabs,herpes,cancer,and genital warts.I bet if you get one of these you will be complaining,and you will stop having risky sex.
I love you! You tell the fucking truth! I hate people who call others "slut" due to their PERSONAL sex life! It's none of their problems so why make it theirs? lol
I swear I'm not gay but you are so HOT Laci! You're like a mix between Amanda Bynes and Miley Cyrus, only prettier...and with bigger assets! Love all your videos babe! Fellow atheist and lover of sex here! MWAH!
@OrangeTexta I don't see why it would be, the word wouldn't even specify what they did wrong. It makes much more sense to call her a home wrecker and him a cheater or something along those lines.
THANK YOU!!! I always hate it when one of my friends points out random girls that they don't know at all and calls them a slut purely because of the way she dresses. Then again I hate people being judgmental and close-minded in general.
guys, if you call girls sluts, then woman in general will be even more reluctant to have sex at all. so, if you enjoy sex, and want to have it... dont judge others for it. ;)
You love to have a key that fits every lock, right?
However, you'd hate to have a lock that fits every key.
Now, compare that to the slut orientation this portrays. In my view, if maybe a little biased, a guy isn't deemed a slut because he has to work for it. A girl can be deemed a slut because she "offers" it. Again, this may be a little biased because I am a man myself.
@FroggyTheHedgehog Except, that's bullshit and you're pulling that out of your ass and basing it off of stereotypes. Why does everybody always ignore the girls that CAN'T get laid, which is actually a lot of girls? And what about the guys that bed almost any girl they want easily? It DOES go both ways, and if you say otherwise, listen to this, and don't let anybody tell you anything else: You ARE sexist.
@FroggyTheHedgehog Yes it's biased due to the reason that a lock and key don't have emotions, feelings, hormones nor a sex drive. Humans do and due to chimpanzees have the closest DNA to us (99%) both the female and male population are promiscuous. It's proved on Channel 4 (Sex Researchers) that women and men have the same sex drive (both after exercise).
A male gets turned on by JUST heterosexual intercourse, whereas a woman gets turned on by any type of sex. (videos/images) :)
Laci is wayyyyyyy to cool to be a teacher. Lol
24jmoney1 1 hour ago
well there's a problem in the other direction too with men...that in a way men are socialized to essentially over-sexualize everything. Whereas women are supposed to downplay it. The guy doesn't exaggerate, he's either gay, or a loser, or probably a number of other insults that are irrelevant to his character or appearance; a girl who doesn't downplay the sexual aspects of society is a slut. So like she's saying...two extremes. they need to meet somewhere in the middle.
RocknCorruptrepublic 1 day ago
my definition of "slut" - A person of any gender that participates in a sexual activity with another/others without caring for their feelings and harming them afterwards on purpose: by either neglecting their partners, destroying their partner's self-esteem and/or using their (partner's) emotional crisis to feel better about themselves and doing so repeatedly to others. (Sounds like a bully who tried to get to your through sexual activities.)
Teencat 2 days ago
i lub!you marry me
daniel12hot 2 days ago
what about when we say a chick has some DSL'S?
KeithWasHere1 3 days ago in playlist SEX+ Episodes
lol i laughed my ass off when she was like Ladies..WHAT THE FUCK!!
KeithWasHere1 3 days ago in playlist SEX+ Episodes
also we call them sluts when they cheat on us (along with other words)
KeithWasHere1 3 days ago in playlist SEX+ Episodes
I would have to agree with Cenk from TYT that 'slut' is a term that only losers would call someone. Either because they are bitter because they can't get laid themselves or they are intimated by how comfortable said "slut' feels about her human sexuality.
br00k39 5 days ago
@br00k39 TYT FTW!
tookthenight 4 days ago
What about people, not just girls, who have sex to get their own way? Like to make people do what she/he wants? I'm 16 and A LOT of people in my school use sex as a weapon. Guys use sex to gain girls trust and control them and a few of girls think a good way to get back at another girl who said something bad about them, is to sleep with that girls boyfriend.
AyLa849 6 days ago
Being a guy, I think one of the main reasons guys refer to certain girls as sluts is because we are jealous. No, seriously, I think that guys are jealous that sex is not available to them as it is for girls. I am going off the assumption here that it is easier for a girl to get laid than a guy (which is almost undoubtedly true if we are talking about an average girl and average guy). This is also a reason why guys are considered "studs" if the sleep around while girls are considered sluts.
paranoid090 1 week ago 3
Damn, why did my school not have a teacher like you...?
DanIsWorthNothing 1 week ago
sex-negative culture? Are you fuckin kiddin me?
hijazlander 1 week ago in playlist Uploaded videos
i just wanna tell you i freaking <3 your videos are amazeing
ClanFtf 1 week ago
Observe the world around you, how society functions, and how poorly people communicate, the negative position society in general has towards sex, The negative position society in general has towards Success. Then you look at the dominant philosophy on earth, Not the millions upon millions of sub categories. But the basic philosophy, the underlying system that provides people with their moral codes.
The dominant philosophy is altruism. And a society's philosophy is the cause of it's status.
intellectthenew300 1 week ago
I want to know what she means when she says "tingly"...
0:29
TheLiifeliine 1 week ago
A key that opens many locks is a master key.
A lock that gets opened by many key is just a shitty key.
shocker154 2 weeks ago
When she makes her point at 2:20 I have to WHOLEHEARTEDLY agree.
BlueSun1971 3 weeks ago
ya there are man hores
dmccollum93 3 weeks ago in playlist SEX+ Episodes
One of my new years resultions was to stop using words like "slut" and other bad terms used to describe women, I think more of us should stop and consider what we're are saying beforehand and how it could damage someone, and how you would feel if you were being called a slut for whatever petty reason.
digitalxhearts 3 weeks ago
Clarissa-Explains-It-All definitely went to Berzerkeley. Nothing wrong with being a slut, but most so-called "sluts" are gamers milking others for attention & gain. Gals tend to shame sluts for this reason: dealers hate competition. True sluts decommodify it. Women tend to be seen as sex objects, men are seen as success objects. Male sluts get less grief because it takes far more skill & prowess for guys to "have sex for sex's sake". Even in SF Bay, evopsych & reality > idealistic prattle.
ShakaCthulu 3 weeks ago in playlist SEX+ Episodes
You'd make an amazing teacher!!!
shoefranklin 3 weeks ago
I don't think it's fair that when Women have sex with lots of men, they are considered a slut. But when I have sex with lots of Women, I'm dreaming.
EnVerLiZin 3 weeks ago 33
I didnt know she was a teacher
ultimatesupersayin 3 weeks ago
I usually will classify a slut as one who uses sex as a tool to hurt themselves/others. Example: person who pursues a significant other, &puts them under the premise that their sexual relationship is going to be safe, secure or committed, but violates those terms. Some examples: classic guy tells girl he loves her, girl has sex with guy, guy never talks to girl again. Also one, with a sexually transmitted disease, is fully aware, but doesn't practice safe sex, & their partners are unaware, ect.
SunnyStephi 3 weeks ago in playlist SEX+ Episodes
Fuck it. I'm just going to be asexual for the rest of my life.
2010Jakeypoo 3 weeks ago
slut is a person who has too much (too much and too many is subjective I know) sex with too many different partners. Period
n0n570p 1 month ago
@n0n570p ...And why would you judge them for their personal sex lives?
milkyway531 3 weeks ago
Check out SNL; Dan akroyd and Jane Curtin Point/counterpoint! Dan invariably responds to jJanes point with: "Jane,you ignorant slut,"
reyjalapeno 1 month ago
What can you do to prevent STD's? The best way to prevent STDs is to have a mutually monogamous sexual relationship with an uninfected partner. If you want to have many partners have your partners tested, and then use condoms correctly Every time you have sex. The use of condoms, when used consistently and correctly, can reduce the risk of transmission of most STD's (not all,which is why you should test your partners). The risk of acquiring an STD increases with the number of partners you have.
sweety4271984 1 month ago
some people like to call me a slut because i've had a lot of sexual partners, with men ive just met. idc....i love sex! especially with new people. however i will not break any of these 3 rules
1. i will not cheat on my boyfriend
2. i will not hook up with a guy or girl who is not single
3. i will not hook up with a friend's ex or crush
other than that...giggity giggity!!!!
loveandmathematics99 1 month ago in playlist SEX+ Episodes
@loveandmathematics99 Don't be surprised when you get genital herpes :) Bet you won't love that so much!!!!
sweety4271984 1 month ago
@sweety4271984 i use protection, sweety.
loveandmathematics99 1 month ago
@loveandmathematics99 Haven't you read anything I wrote? Well that's ok, I'll tell you again. Condoms are not going to protect you from Herpes, Crabs, HPV(the cause of genital warts and cervical cancer). I don't think you want any of those. What will protect you from these things is having your new partners tested before you have sex. Best of luck :)
sweety4271984 1 month ago
I have noticed that girls and guys that role around"sluts" are unstable for a relationship and are often times unfaithful, and i would know i have been in a relationship with two sluts and herd friends experiences. I have also dated two more classy, more old school type of girls as well, and have found them very pleasant and did not go hang out with allot of other boys and cheat, but the sluts did do these thing and more. does any body have any thoughts on this?
XBlackWolf10 1 month ago
"if you had a sex life would you even worry about mine?" - sex life by: D.R.U.G.S
SumthinSmellz 1 month ago
Who cares.
sanoe1986 1 month ago
funny thing is, im not sure if its just me and my friends but we also call each other sluts (we're all guys) and of course we use the "male" definition
KessokuOfficiaL 1 month ago
`Very well said! The word slut is more often applied by people (with their own insecurities) who mistake their preconceptions for facts. "I hear she sleeps with a lot of guys"...well if you hear that it must be true right? Even if it is true about a woman, there's nothing wrong (as you stated in this video) with a woman who enjoys and explores her sexuality. A sensual woman is a gift.
lumpheadthump 1 month ago
I call someone who sleep with like a million people once lol like you have to strap a board to your back so you dont fall in kinda thing o.o
MissJay1023 1 month ago
i just love your videos laci there so informative and really make me think. i love them:)
Samsmilify 1 month ago in playlist SEX+ Episodes
seems like people just want to sleep around, and don't want others judging them for it. Well too bad, sluts. And that goes for men and women, no double standard here.
sweety4271984 1 month ago
@sweety4271984 Why should people judge them? People who sleep around aren't hurting anyone, and their sex lives is nobody else's business.
damnredlights 1 month ago 2
@damnredlights Ever heard of STDs?Sleeping around puts you at higher risk for STDs.Once you have one,you can easily spread it to someone I Love.Even if the person I love isn't sleeping around,all they have to do is sleep with one slut,and they got whatever STD they have.Condoms break if not used properly;it only has break once to spread an STD.Many STDs are spread even with the proper use of a condom.Want to sleep around?Then don't get all hurt when someone calls you what you are, a slut.
sweety4271984 1 month ago
@sweety4271984 ...So because someone likes sexual pleasure...and unfortunetly get an STD...they should be judged? Really? You're so close minded
damnredlights 1 month ago
@damnredlights If a person chooses to put themselves at greater risk for STDs by sleeping around,then contracts an STD,then they deserve to have it.Others have the right to judge them based on their actions(not their looks,religion,gender ect).Call me closed minded I don't care.I'm STD free,because I choose not to be a slut.They didn't get the STD from liking sexual pleasure,they got it from having sexual pleasure with many people.I Love sex,with one person I love in a committed relationship.
sweety4271984 1 month ago
@sweety4271984 no one ever "deserves to have it". You're making an assertion that assumes that having somewhat more sex than others should be punishable by catching a disease. Anyone can catch an STD; one can catch an STD on the very first night. Sleeping around may raise the chances, but some people marry for a 3rd or 4th time (assuming they are all true to their partners at the time). By your rational after the 2nd marriage they too deserve to catch an STD. Humans were not designed like that.
trident3b 1 month ago
@trident3b NO actually by my definition if a person"married"2 ,3 or 4 and they all got tested they would all be protecting each other. If like you said they are all true to their partners, then there would be no way to get a disease or to spread it. There is nothing wrong with having LOTS AND LOTS of sex, it's when you jump from partner to partner without protecting yourself by having your partners tested that's the problem.
sweety4271984 1 month ago
@trident3b Yes Any can catch an STD. And yes you can get one the very first time you have sex. And YES sleeping around raises the chances of getting one. And it also raises the chances that if you get one you will spread it to a number of people. A"marriage" where the people involved are faithful to each other, doesn't spread disease. Unless one of them had a STD before the relationship, and they didn't have each other tested. Then it could spread to all of them.
sweety4271984 1 month ago
@trident3b And you're right,"deserve to have it"is a bit harsh. They shouldn't be surprised if they get a STD is a better choice of words.Maybe it should be punishable to not get tested before the start of each new sexual relationship,but the punishment shouldn't be a physical one ofc. Maybe offer free testing, and then require that people get tested, and a fine as punishment for not getting tested. Just think how many lives would be saved if we we required to protect ourselves and others.
sweety4271984 1 month ago
@trident3b How do you think we were designed? And what do you think I think we were designed for? Because I never said people that have sex with multiple partners they are exclusive with and have tested deserve anything. Again deserve is a bit of a harsh word to use. But if they don't get each other tested they shouldn't be surprised if they catch something.
sweety4271984 1 month ago
@sweety4271984 so we all walk around with a passport that shows we have been tested? Once you have been tested that passport is good for perhaps a day. So we have to be celibate, then go & get a test respectively, such as on your next date if you are single, await the test result, stay in quarantine & find a way of proving that quarantine to each other too? Surely we should be looking to cure the STDs and eradicate them that way? Are you religious? What sort of life have you led?
trident3b 1 month ago
@trident3b Whether or not I'm religious or not has nothing to do with me knowing that having promiscuous sex puts people at higher risk for contracting an STD and then spreading it once they have it. But to answer your question, no I'm not religious. I don't read any religious books, or go to any place of worship. But yes I do believe in and Love God.
sweety4271984 1 month ago
@sweety4271984 Easy, condoms.
KoRnyGirlx 1 month ago in playlist Uploaded videos
@KoRnyGirlx I guess you're not too good at comprehending what you read. I've already stated that condoms protect against STD's when used properly. Problem is many don't use them properly, and then they break, or fall off. This only has to happen 1 time to spread a STD. Also condoms don't protect against Herpes, crabs, and HPV the cause of genital warts and cervical cancer. But i guess you're alright with possibly getting parasitic insects, cancer, herpes, or warts. How ignorant are you?
sweety4271984 1 month ago
@sweety4271984 Easy, education. & I know it doesn't stop herpes, crabs etc but if that person has regular check ups (which they should be told via education) then it would decline. If you actually watch Laci's videos you'll see that her main priority is EDUCATION. Once you learn, you won't forget. I'm not ignorant at all, and by the way, you're acting like I sleep with multiple partners when I only have my boyfriend :)
KoRnyGirlx 1 month ago
@KoRnyGirlx Yes, regular check ups will make the number of new people that contract diseases go down, if everyone would do that. But you know what would make that number 0? If everyone tested all their new partners. If you sleep with a person last night that has herpes, even if you used a condom, you can still get herpes. If your regular check up is in 6 months, how many people(if you are having promiscuous sex) are you going to infect before you have your regular check up?
sweety4271984 1 month ago
@KoRnyGirlx I never said you were sleeping with multiple partners.In fact I said I didn't know anything about you.I said my comments were directed at people that have promiscuous sex and don't have their partners tested.I don't know why you think I was implying that You have multiple partners. I was saying those things applied to people that have multiple partners they don't test.If you thought I was referring to you I guess you think you have done that.That's great you only have your boyfriend.
sweety4271984 1 month ago
@sweety4271984 it's obvious that you are an ultra conservative American with primitive ideas as to how to challenge problems. You initial views on other apparent (fictitious) diseases was to mutilate infants as a precautionary measure, until you saw the light, here you take the attitude that celibacy & discrimination should prevail rather than finding medical solutions. I led a GREAT sex life prior to marriage & am still healthy, but true, I also didn't live in AIDS ridden USA.
trident3b 1 month ago
@trident3b It's obvious that you only think that this behavior is ok because you engaged in it yourself in the past.I am American,but I am not ultra conservative.I am for gay rights, and for also for equal rights of everyone.If what I had been told was correct about circumcision preventing health problems then I would have been right about circumcision.There is no denying that I am right that promiscuous behavior increases your chances of getting STD's and then spreading them if you do get one.
sweety4271984 1 month ago
@trident3b so you engaged in risky promiscuous behavior and you were lucky and didn't catch anything,I'm happy for you.That doesn't mean that lots of other people that engage in the same behavior will be as fortunate.That's why it's risky,you are not guaranteed to get a STD,you are putting yourself at higher risk. If someone is promiscuous and then finds out they have herpes,I bet they will be more careful.I don't think that celibacy is the answer to anything.
sweety4271984 1 month ago
@trident3b people are trying to find medical solutions for STD's.That's not going to make sex any safer now.I never said that it would be easy to require that people protect themselves and others.And I never said anything about a sex passport. But it doesn't really matter because if a person gets an STD then they have already punished themselves enough.I never said celibacy or "discrimination" was a solution to anything.AIDS is not the biggest problem,condoms can at least protect against that.
sweety4271984 1 month ago
@sweety4271984 "Others have the right to judge them based on their actions". So where do these "others" take that "right" !?? "Others have the right"... I find such a comment almost outrageous. Do you give them that right? Who gives others 'that right'?? Do you realise that with such a remark you are assuming a function of jurisprudence? Did you make any laws in that regard? What right do you have to determine that others have that apparent 'right'?
trident3b 1 month ago
@trident3b Because their actions hurt others. People have the right to do as they want. If people want to do things that hurt others, then the others have the right have an opinion on that.
sweety4271984 1 month ago
@sweety4271984 You're acting like, girls can't look after themselves and acting like they don't know about contraception. The best way to stop STD's are condoms and femidoms and shockingly... we've been taught about it. The thing is, you're saying girls shouldn't be having the casual sex but the guy can because he can't be a slut because he's male? Also, condoms DO stop STD's (apart from herpes and craps), how ignorant are you?
KoRnyGirlx 1 month ago
@KoRnyGirlx I never directed any comments at just girls.Men And women that are promiscuous are both sluts.If people could look after themselves,there wouldn't be 65 million people in the US with a STD.There wouldn't be 15 million new STD cases each year.There wouldn't be at least 45 million Americans with genital herpes(80% of those with herpes are unaware they have it)I know and I've said already that condoms protect against many STD's, if the condom is used properly.How ignorant are you?
sweety4271984 1 month ago
What should I call Captain Kirk (of the starship Enterprise) and Captain Riker (of the starship Enterprise-D) because they have tons of one-episode stands, much like James Bond, and lack emotional attachment and are eager for further relationships? I don't know what to call them and just end up using the word "slut".
TheLonelyImmortal 1 month ago in playlist SEX+ Episodes 4
@TheLonelyImmortal they are men, only women can be sluts
mgibbs88 3 weeks ago
@TheLonelyImmortal And that is one of the reasons why Picard (in second) and Janeway (in first), were better captains :).
Rikku2250 2 weeks ago
@Rikku2250 Oh; I'm not to Star Trek Voyager yet. But I did just today finish Deep Space Nine :)
TheLonelyImmortal 5 days ago
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@TheLonelyImmortal Oh, sorry!
Rikku2250 4 days ago
@TheLonelyImmortal William Shatner is such a slut.
Dudeguy74 1 week ago in playlist Uploaded videos
@TheLonelyImmortal space pimps..hell even data got him some tosha yar action!
KeithWasHere1 3 days ago in playlist SEX+ Episodes
@KeithWasHere1 Hahaha :D Maybe promiscuous sex is just normal in the future :D Maybe they cured all STDs?
TheLonelyImmortal 2 days ago
@TheLonelyImmortal with borg nanites they would have to of!
KeithWasHere1 2 days ago
You're telling people not to use the word slut to describe women that are promiscuous, but you have no problem changing your voice and physical stance mocking someone with a mental handicap to belittle someone else. Just something to think about.
FrederickStepanis 1 month ago in playlist SEX+ Episodes
Hm...you reclaimed the word 'slut'
I simply avoid rhetoric that deals in any way of putting negative value on human sexuality. But this means I'm completely avoid using words like 'queer' and 'slut' in a positive manner - wat do laci ? D:
piecharthosen 1 month ago in playlist Slut Shaming
sluts should die
alaskanmes 1 month ago
@alaskanmes ...Because?
damnredlights 1 month ago
I wish you were my sex ed teacher. Oh wait... you kind of are.
MagicByStarlight 1 month ago 2
The only woman I consider a slut is a woman who will do it without any benefit to herself. (Such as just satisfying someone else at her sacrifice.) Prostitutes and freely sexual women aren't included!
raichutoyou 1 month ago
I wish you had been my sex ed teacher...
maijagirl42 1 month ago
Is sexual pleasure really worth risking your health? No matter how many people you want to sleep with you should get them all tested Before you have sex. Many STD's have no symptoms, so your partner might not even know they have them. Sometimes symptoms don't show up until it's too late and the disease has already done irreversible damage.
sweety4271984 1 month ago 2
Some std's are spread even with the proper use of a condom.So,if you're ok with possibly getting the Herpes Simplex Virus strains 1&2,HPV(the cause of Genital Warts),Cervical Cancer,Genital Crabs or Pubic Lice,as well as Body Lice otherwise known as Scabies,then go ahead sleep around.If a condom is used wrong they may break and could lead to transmissions of many other STDs.This is a huge problem because when you think about it, it only needs to happen one time and you could be infected.cont...
sweety4271984 1 month ago
For a girl it's the walk of shame.
For a guy? It's the stride of pride.
Slightly unfair, but that's how it is.
SiggsGBR 1 month ago
@SiggsGBR Not just slightly unfair, it's hateful, misogynistic, chauvinistic, and the statement of "that's how it is", where does that get society? Does it move anything forward or does it lower all of us to an over-simplified and prejudice way of thinking? If every one of us took the time to actually consider what the word "slut" means in an objective light and whether there should be changes made, we'd be in a completely different situation.
rdawgie1 1 month ago 3
@SiggsGBR If it's unfair, why don't we question it? If we *know* that there's something wrong, that there's a double-standard, or that something is simply unfair, why don't we change it? Had we not stood up against these things in the past, African Americans and women would still be treated like second-class citizens, and society is better for having changed that, imo.
Anandatic 1 month ago
@SiggsGBR Haha that's a guys thought, girls probably don't think that if they enjoyed themselves :)
KoRnyGirlx 1 month ago
if everyone was as open-minded an educated as laci I can't imagine what a better place the world would be
SoRandomlyAwesome1 1 month ago in playlist SEX+ Episodes 2
sex is good . simple as that
PrincessRitchie12 1 month ago
TITS
UchihaSage78 1 month ago
yeah im a slut
xxbrokexxable 1 month ago 10
I'm a slut. xD
luxord2654 1 month ago in playlist SEX+ Episodes 2
Ladies.. WHAT THE $%#@... Thank you Laci, You have made my night. Subbed! <3
SandBoxJunkie 1 month ago
sluts or people sleeping around are the ones insecure. my ex bffl has slept with 79 people and shes about 18 years old is that okay laci? usually im okay with ur videos and love them but saying im insecure for calling a girl whos 18 and slept w/ 79 people a slut is okay with me. she hopes from bed to bed to feel wanted and cant date someone for more then a week and cheats on them at the same time. thats insecurity im secure with my body my bf i dont need to sleep w/ people to feel needed.
newyorkergirl4ev 1 month ago 3
@newyorkergirl4ev Keep in mind that everybody has sex for different reasons. It would definitely be a lot healthier for this girl to speak to a school counsellor or therapist instead since you're right- this person sounds like they have insecurities, and that's a shame. But remember that this is not the only reason a person may have sex with multiple people! Not all people who have sex with different people are insecure, and not all insecure people have sex with many partners.
Anandatic 1 month ago
@newyorkergirl4ev You may not 'need to sleep with people to feel needed', but you sure seem to need to judge others to feel superior. People have sex for loads of different reasons, none of which are your business.
WarmLittleDiamond90 1 month ago 3
@newyorkergirl4ev If she is only sleeping with people to feel needed, then she should watch "FOREVER ALONE?!" (lacigreen). If that's the case, then that is sad, but calling her a slut is absolutely wrong. If she is doing it for fun, then who does that hurt? Why is that wrong? If she is spreading STD's, well that's only half her fault. And in that case, she should watch, "WRAP YOUR JUNK BEFORE YOU BUMP!" (lacigreen). And even here, it is wrong to call her a slut. Sex is not wrong. Period.
fuggimotto 1 month ago 2
Oh, i love you laci <3
bluelightsofny 1 month ago
Definition of slut for me: somebody who sleeps around, whatever their gender. For me, I only want to have sex with a guy I am in a relationship with, somebody I love, and he loves me in return and when we are both ready. I want it to MEAN something. Having sex with loads of different people, jumping into bed with people you barely know, having loads of one-night stands, etc., just makes the whole thing almost worthless, personally.
IamMoaningMyrtle 2 months ago
@IamMoaningMyrtle But think about what Laci encourages in her videos: everybody has different ideas and feelings about sexuality. If somebody enjoys sex but hasn't found somebody they want to be in a relationship with, who are they hurting by having a consensual physical encounter with another consenting adult? Maybe you only like chocolate ice cream in the summer, but other people like strawberry ice cream even in the winter. Is it wrong? Nope- just different, and that's ok.:)
Anandatic 1 month ago in playlist SEX+ Episodes
@Anandatic Depends whether it's safe sex or not...
IamMoaningMyrtle 1 month ago
@IamMoaningMyrtle That's a good point, and we can't emphasize the importance of safe sex enough! :) But what about people who are in relationships - does this rule about protection apply there, too? Is a girl a slut for having a boyfriend but not using a condom? As Laci emphasizes, it's important to be open-minded and question the way we look at and judge others, and why. :)
Anandatic 1 month ago
@Anandatic Sleeping with loads of people and not using a condom = something I have an issue with.
People in a relationship and not using a condom = something I don't have a problem with.
People who have had several sexual relationships and never using a condom = not overly sure
I get it about being open-minded about sex but I feel that if it happen often with different people and without protection, THAT'S when people should be more careful.
IamMoaningMyrtle 1 month ago
@IamMoaningMyrtle Regarding your last point, I agree ENTIRELY! :) You hit the nail on the head with all your points, really, and it can be hard to draw an exact line and say "THIS is good" and "THAT is bad." Hm. What about this: instead of calling someone a slut for having sex with many people without protection, what if we called them "uninformed" or "ignorant" instead? Because you're right- the lack of protection is really what makes it bad/dangerous, and it shouldn't happen!
Anandatic 1 month ago
@IamMoaningMyrtle I have an issue with one of your points
"People in a relationship and not using a condom = something I don't have a problem with."- I was in a consensual relationship with an ex boyfriend of whom I spent almost 2 years with, and we stopped using condoms, and 6 months after we broke up I found out I had HPV. He apparently had contracted it to me because he caught it from a girl he cheated on me with.
lilmissmarcher 1 month ago
@Anandatic there is no such thing as safe sex. People should get their partner tested before they have sex, and then be in a monogamous relationship with that person. Ofc if you want many partners, get them all tested, and then hope that they are having all their partners tested as well. Condoms can break if not used properly, and some STD's are spread even with the proper use of a condom. (crabs, Herpes, to name a couple)
sweety4271984 1 month ago
@Anandatic Nothing wrong with having sex with 1 person that you get tested for STD's first, when you are not in a relationship. But guess some people like putting themselves at risk for STD's year round.
sweety4271984 1 month ago 2
I like your definition of a slut.
May3Faire 2 months ago 25
I wish more people saw this video and would realize how harmful slut shaming is. It's like they think "How dare she enjoy sex and explore her sexuality!" It really makes no sense to me why this belief is so popular :(
UbiquitousDuck 2 months ago 52
@UbiquitousDuck More like How dare these people abuse their freedom. the first thing humans do when they have freedom with something is they destroy. its their nature. if you drink too much water, you will drown.(or more correctly increase your blood volume to the point that your heart and kidneys can't handle it). people are sheep, don't let them roam too far away from whats kept them safe. even if it means taking away some of their freedoms
terranark 1 month ago
@UbiquitousDuck because the USA always was a prude country with a disturbed attitude towards sex. Now it is a country that revels in mass pornography (being the biggest producers of porn too) to such an extent that you actually see people quoting porn on YouTube as if it were something normal to watch, like the news, not realizing that they are fully exposing themselves to the world that due to that they clearly have extreme frustrations in this regard, and not normal sex lives.
trident3b 1 month ago
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@trident3b wait so you are for having sex with whoever,but against other people wanting to watch?But I thought there is nothing wrong with sex and sexual desires?That people make their own choices and it's no one else's business?"not realizing that they are fully exposing themselves to the world that due to that they clearly have extreme frustrations in this regard,and not normal sex lives."That makes no sense,please explain.What is a normal sex life?Who are you to say what is normal?
sweety4271984 1 month ago
i think that people that sleep with too many people, of either gender, is a slut lol
skooldazeproductions 2 months ago in playlist SEX+ Episodes
Personally to me, a whote is a girl who has had multiple sexual partners, but has no emotional or romantic connection with them. In other words, she just f*cks people hahah. And that's her perrogative, yes, but at the same time you have to be responsible with these boys and also understand they're just using you a lot of the time.
PopMami 2 months ago
Oops hahah *whore*. If she's flirting, eh, as long as she's not going waaaay overboard and being all touchy feely. Flirting is natural and fun, but when you're in a relationship, you should tone it down to respect your partner.
PopMami 2 months ago
Ah and another thing. They are a whore if they must brag and talk about how many people they do and what they did in heavy detail to everyone.
PopMami 2 months ago
@PopMami Definition of a whore is a person who has sex for money.
KoRnyGirlx 2 months ago
You are such a good speaker. I can't stop watching your videos. Nice way you edited the videos for flow. It is so easy to listen to. I think you would make a great host for a show with interviews with people like Dr. Ruth.
jykazu 2 months ago in playlist SEX+ Episodes
Thanks for responding to my comment.
I always need a laugh. I almost forgot about this lazy eyed no chin bitch spewing nonsense.
Fucking laugh riot!
jerkfck 2 months ago
I'd tap that!
slavemo 2 months ago
@S0Iari It's still hypocritical to it's finest. If they're being safe using condoms and enjoying life then why should people judge her life? It's not yours so why should it even matter?
KoRnyGirlx 2 months ago
@KoRnyGirlx Lots of STD's are spread even with the proper use of condoms.Condoms break.Diseases like herpes are spread even when a condom is used.It does matter to the whole population.Say I want to go have sex with 1 person, and that 1 person had sex with just 1 person before, but that person they had sex with had 50 partners and contracted an STD, guess what? Now we are all infected. This why I have EVERYONE I have sex with tested Before we have sex.Sexual pleasure is NOT worth Dying.
sweety4271984 2 months ago
@sweety4271984 I understand how sexual diseases are spread, I'm part of a sexual health service :')
If a person can put a condom around their head or fill it up with a lot of coca cola, I'm sure as hell it can take a bit of a pounding. Condoms break sure, but it's not as common as you may think.
End of the day people who enjoy sleeping with others should get regularly checked out regardless of wearing condoms or not. It's fucking common sense.
KoRnyGirlx 2 months ago
@KoRnyGirlx So Ms.Sex Expert,how often exactly does a condom break?I've had it happen to me.You act like they are made from some unbreakable magic substance.Getting regularly tested isn't common sense for many.Say you have sex with someone,you use a condom and it breaks,and they had a STD.When you go get regularly tested,you can find out which STD you now have.Hopefully you won't have given it to too many other people before you find out.STD's are spread even with the proper use of a condom.
sweety4271984 2 months ago
@sweety4271984 I didn't say in any sentence that I'm a sex expert nor did I say condoms are made of a magical, unbreakable substance. I'm just saying that they CAN take a lot, and it does take a lot of water for it to break.
Getting tested should be common sense because so many companies are telling people to get regularly tested on TVs, posters, magazine. It's everywhere.
Just because some men and women can't look after themselves it doesn't mean all women shouldn't be allowed casual sex.
KoRnyGirlx 2 months ago
@KoRnyGirlx It should be common sense to anyone that having casual sex with multiple partners puts you at risk for contracting STD's.Condoms can break.1 in 5 American citizens have genital herpes.Condoms do not protect against genital herpes or crabs.They can be spread from skin on skin contact.You said "I'm part of a sexual health service",making it sound like you know what you are talking about. But you don't. STDs are widespread; more than 12 million people in the US are infected each year.
sweety4271984 2 months ago
@KoRnyGirlx You're one of the people who can't look after themselves.Having sex with multiple partners puts you at risk.You are promoting casual sex that in the long run can and does hurt people.All women Can look after themselves by not having sex with multiple partners and having the people they do have sex with tested Before they have sex.This is the only way to look after yourself other then abstinence.Even then it's not 100% safe because HIV doesn't show up for 6 months after you have it.
sweety4271984 2 months ago
@sweety4271984 You're acting like you know what I do in my PERSONAL time, you know, the time you shouldn't be worrying about. What makes you think I don't protect myself? Because you know me? I hiiiighly doubt that darlin'. All men can look after themselves and not have sex but you don't see them stopping, and you don't see us (as women) complaining!
KoRnyGirlx 1 month ago
@KoRnyGirlx I haven't acted like I know anything about you.My comments are directed at promiscuous people that don't have their partners tested.If you fall in that group,and you do know all the possible negative consequences,I know you don't care about your health.If you cared you wouldn't be having risky sex with partners you haven't had tested.You are risking getting crabs,herpes,cancer,and genital warts.I bet if you get one of these you will be complaining,and you will stop having risky sex.
sweety4271984 1 month ago
I love you! You tell the fucking truth! I hate people who call others "slut" due to their PERSONAL sex life! It's none of their problems so why make it theirs? lol
KoRnyGirlx 2 months ago
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guardian13angel06 2 months ago in playlist SEX+ Episodes
I suppose all honest guys aspire to be douchebags then :)
adam160171 2 months ago
Guys who get laid 24/7 with different girls are called douchbags
edcellwarrior 2 months ago
i would like her to be mine teacher
hisupful 2 months ago
This is the first time I've ever heard that they call a girl "slut" because she has big boobs or sth Oo This is seriously retarted.
SenninDarkissa 2 months ago in playlist SEX+ Episodes
I wish Laci was my sex ed teacher when I went to highschool -_-;
Xocturne 2 months ago in playlist SEX+ Episodes
I swear I'm not gay but you are so HOT Laci! You're like a mix between Amanda Bynes and Miley Cyrus, only prettier...and with bigger assets! Love all your videos babe! Fellow atheist and lover of sex here! MWAH!
FrickinChillB 2 months ago
I absolutely love your videos.
DrLsw 2 months ago in playlist SEX+ Episodes
This is the video that made me subscribe.
Cool , keep it up
a9fc 2 months ago
I always thought it was said "Sex Plus" instead of "Sex Positive"...although "positive" makes way more sense in the context of your channel.
:/
Durntdewd 2 months ago in playlist SEX+ Sexuality
I love u!!!
kurtsbizmotch 2 months ago
i love this video
MegaLittleballs 2 months ago
my queastion is how come when a guy sleeps around he is called a legend and when a girl does it shes a whore
MegaLittleballs 2 months ago
Why have ratings been disabled? I was going to like...
CrazyBaconLover 2 months ago
You're a teacher?? You look 17.
paraplegicgiraffe 2 months ago
I call guys slut, including myself ^_^
VampireKingDanny 2 months ago in playlist More videos from lacigreen
can she do these VIDs in a bikini ?
mba2ceo 2 months ago in playlist Best of SEX+
So what if a girl slept with your boyfriend, knowing he was in a relationship? Is it then my place to call them both sluts?
OrangeTexta 2 months ago
@OrangeTexta yuppers:)
cowsarefluffy 2 months ago
@cowsarefluffy Woo!
OrangeTexta 2 months ago
@OrangeTexta I don't see why it would be, the word wouldn't even specify what they did wrong. It makes much more sense to call her a home wrecker and him a cheater or something along those lines.
2ndtoJohn 2 months ago
Who really gives a shit u slut ;)
KristenStewartlover6 2 months ago
I really like you :)
SomethingT0Burn 2 months ago
THANK YOU!!! I always hate it when one of my friends points out random girls that they don't know at all and calls them a slut purely because of the way she dresses. Then again I hate people being judgmental and close-minded in general.
insertsexyusername 2 months ago
@insertsexyusername amen i so agree
RuneRoulette 2 months ago
Fuck you whore!
SUPERBATMAN2010 2 months ago
@SUPERBATMAN2010 lol i know right
KristenStewartlover6 2 months ago
guys, if you call girls sluts, then woman in general will be even more reluctant to have sex at all. so, if you enjoy sex, and want to have it... dont judge others for it. ;)
GetGoing9988 3 months ago
yep, actually Slut stands for Attention Whore, or Prostitute xD
JosePablo24 3 months ago
I would totally call a guy a slut xD
Well, for me "slut" also stands for "attention whores" ....mainly for attention whores
JosePablo24 3 months ago
Girl Sluts V Guy Sluts
You love to have a key that fits every lock, right?
However, you'd hate to have a lock that fits every key.
Now, compare that to the slut orientation this portrays. In my view, if maybe a little biased, a guy isn't deemed a slut because he has to work for it. A girl can be deemed a slut because she "offers" it. Again, this may be a little biased because I am a man myself.
FroggyTheHedgehog 3 months ago
@FroggyTheHedgehog Except, that's bullshit and you're pulling that out of your ass and basing it off of stereotypes. Why does everybody always ignore the girls that CAN'T get laid, which is actually a lot of girls? And what about the guys that bed almost any girl they want easily? It DOES go both ways, and if you say otherwise, listen to this, and don't let anybody tell you anything else: You ARE sexist.
KyonxheartxHaruhi 2 months ago
@FroggyTheHedgehog Yes it's biased due to the reason that a lock and key don't have emotions, feelings, hormones nor a sex drive. Humans do and due to chimpanzees have the closest DNA to us (99%) both the female and male population are promiscuous. It's proved on Channel 4 (Sex Researchers) that women and men have the same sex drive (both after exercise).
A male gets turned on by JUST heterosexual intercourse, whereas a woman gets turned on by any type of sex. (videos/images) :)
KoRnyGirlx 2 months ago