Thats Right. Most gays are selfish in coming out and dont see how that kills many dreams of their family. Really I dont think coming out will be needed in time. Its like coming out u got blue eyes. To me coming out kinda forces gay thing down others. I say Just be who u are and let things fall where they may. This is inpart we have bullying problem wit got gays telling 11yo to come out hell a child should not even be having sex let alone coming out. its just kinda unneeded to me.
@timm9 wtf, "should not even be having sex let alone coming out"? Like, what? Coming out isn't even in the same ballpark as sex. I came out when I was 13 and I was WAY out of college when I had sex for my first time. I agree that 11 year old kids don't know what they're talking about, but the idea that we're "selfish" in coming out is ridiculous. It's selfish to tell gay people that they have to lie and hide away who they are just so you don't have to be momentarily discomfited.
@ImTheSecretSquare To say and there is many if you dont push your personal life on others your living a "lie" is just not ture. Some live by good exmple others feel need to be advertising it. If u did it all on your very own thats one thing ,but I have seen Adult Gay men telling little boys as young as 10 and 11 year olds online "your gay" "be who you are" "come out" in message boards/blogs and truth is that is sexualizing a child.
This is a beautiful video. I cannot relate to 'coming out', but I have had many losses in life, as well as bumps in the road with my parents. Watching your video brought tears to my eyes. I am happy to see that your mother accepts you and glad you feel comfortable with who you are. You seem well adjusted. Thank you for sharing your healing process with youtube.
The reality with many parents is that all they think about are themselves. It never enters their mind that their son or daughter are seeking happiness and need support at a difficult time. Parents need to get over themselves and start to love their children unconditionally. To alienate a child because they are gay is totally brain dead.
When my mom came to my house and met my BF she said she was feeling ill and had to lie down. She looked like she was going to vomit. [She was extremely homophobic]. Basically she was very jealous of my friends and always had to be the total center of attention at all family meetings. She died at 84 and never accepted me as a complete human being. [She was married four times. Three of which were total failures.]
I think, perhaps, that alot depends on whether one is an only son or part of a large family. Also, cultural differences can play a very large role in coming out to one's family. When I came out to my family, they acted like I was talking about the weather. It was basically a non-issue. I've got three brothers and a sister, so I think that my parents didn't see my being gay as some sort of "lost dream" for them.
@sleekcartim ...I can relate to that, Tim. I am familiar with your life story. My stepfather beat me when he suspected I was gay. After that I plotted my revenge on him and I achieved it. My mother was jealous of my BFs. She was always trying to seduce attractive males. My mother also totally hated lesbians.
@DouglasUrantia yeah some kids shouldnt come out, we dont want to see any more kids hurt. It happens more than we know. Often shame / fear etc... prevents them from speaking up. i try to help kids figure it out, it's important to have outside help to deal with it. how much better would you feel if you had someone to talk to all those years ago?
Ive been preaching this perspective for long time. it's so true. kids & parents almost never come to know WHY others feel the way they do about this subject. understanding this is so freeing! often parents come around as yours did, but know that if they dont, you MUST be strong for yourself. talk about it with close friends, DONT bottle it up.
That's so sweet, Sam. I'm glad the meeting went well. My mom couldn't even look at my now husband in the face when they first met years ago - she's very religious, and had a really hard time dealing with it, unlike my dad (also religious), who accepted me right away. Now my mom and hubby are two peas in a pod, and are best friends. She recently spoke in a forum at her church, publically, in support of gay acceptance in their church. It does take time.
I got all tense when you said your Mom met Pier. Then when you said it was great I sighed and relaxed. It's sort of funny to me how a silly little bond is formed just via watching your videos.
I'm really happy for you. I hope my parents are okay with meeting my boyfriend... to which I'm not gonna do at the moment, I'll wait a little bit longer. Given, that I just came out to them three months ago. But, I wish you and Pier a long life together, I know it's still early in your relationship but love is love...
I have yet to have a significant other, but when I came out and refused to get 'reparative therapy' my dad told me to never bring anyone I was dating or involved with to visit my family. He also said that he'd disown me if I attempted to ever 'gay marry'...
awwww, I'm happy for you man :). Glad all was well, I would have been so apprehensive and nervous about it. I think if I have told my parents say on the phone that I'm in a relationship and want them to meet him, I can see it being alright. I want to move out the country so think it will be kinda fun to bring whoever I end up with for a visit to England. Getting to show him all the places I used to go when I was here and when I grew up, and meet all my friends and family would be awesome :).
My mom has been consistently nagging me to meet my boyfriend. Like, will never-ever shut up. She means really well, which I'm very thankful for, but...I wish she would let up.
For a person that dwells on the past a lot, I don't miss anything that has ever happened to me in the past years of my life. If anything, I hate my yesterday self because I always think "I could've done better",
My brother and my mother were among the first people that I told, along with some friends. Their reactions were very supportive and loving for the most part. It was my dad I was really worried about, and still am worried cause the stuff he says sometimes. He is against homosexual marriage and still thinks I can straighten out with a woman... sigh. I am glad he knows now though. I am still in the progress of coming to terms with it and accepting it myself.
You are SO lucky that your mother is supportive and understanding of your relationship. The best I have had from my mother is to "agree to disagree" and we don't talk about homosexuality at all. She has however allowed my boyfriend to visit while I've lived at home for a temporary basis, and she does ask me how he's doing from time to time.
When I told my Mom one of the first things she said was "DON'T TELL ANYONE AT WORK!!!" I didn't take her advice!! lol Parents just want to protect their kids from the nastiness in society..and unfortunately there is a lot of nasty out there. Great vid Sam!
@stoner829 I told people at work just to get it out of the way. It's pretty unavoidable if you have any sort of contact with coworkers. Your personal life will always spill over into your professional life at some point.
I totally agree. At first my parents didn't really seem supportive, but I understood that this was new to them and they needed to go through the process I already did when I accepted myself.
But I think the biggest problem for them was that they were worried about me because they knew how much harder this would make my life. My dad was concerned I wouldn't be able to get jobs and that I would face discrimination on a daily basis. Stuff like that. Also he was concerned I would become a "whore".
@Valcuric We're so lucky to have parents that actually worry about us instead of trying to change us or reject us. :) There is still a lot of discrimination against gays, so their fears are validated. Good to hear from you!
imho, We will be equal and free when we don't have to count these types of happenings as victories, all that aside, CONGRATS big boy. Grieving str8 guy is so real too and not having kids (at least not in the usual way) and what it means for Mothers, Aunts etc...
I am so happy that your mom is fine with your bf. It is sad for parents for a moment. I think my mother took it hard but after she got to meet my bf and I am happy about that. Gosh so exciting. You are amazing and keep sharing the joyous moments with us.
I literally just saw 3 videos in a row from my subscription box, including yours, that have a car alarm going off in the background. with the people in the video complaining about it. odd. haha.
im not worried bout my mom she'd love all hers sons no matter wat but my dad all he cares about r grandkids but even if i was straight id still hate kids so he'd still b upset
oh my God that really great progress in your relationship with Pier because now you two guys geat the acceptance of your Mom >...... i hope one day when come out get the same result ........ Salute from Iraq/Baghdad the dangerous place to be GAY :-(
@dafttool thanx a lot for your support and sure i'm trying to be careful . i can't find love or romance here but the most important thing that i can't come out to my parents because here if they know that i'm gay they will kill me and the law with them :-(
The depfox said the same as you do .... i hope you make more videos .. you serious in some of them and funny in others ^_^ .... and i wish 2 you all the luck with your trip with Pier, and find your perfect city.
@ahmedspiky If your life is in danger from your own family, try to get away from them before they do you harm. Your safety is more important than their sense of pride, or even family ties. They don't have to know why you need to get away, just that you do. To pursue a career perhaps? Or simply a better life? Certainly a safer life. One should never have to live in fear of their own flesh & blood, or your culture. --Love & romance is hard to find even in the best of circumstances. :( Have faith.
@dafttool you don't know how it feel like to find who care about my life and safety ... i'm studding dentistry so i can't leave now... but i'm planning to go by the UN to canada or USA a lot of normal people go there through UN so i hope they accept my request.
i can't believe that my parents ready to hurt me if know ... i'm there only child
it's mean the world to me to see your reply and the depfox reply that support my feelings . you guys really make different in our lives . thanx
@ahmedspiky There are MANY people around the world that are very sympathetic to your plight, gay & straight alike. While America owes all Iraqis big time for what we did to your country, regretfully not very many Iraqi refugees are given asylum here, even when it is a matter of life or death. :( Canada has a much better record of accepting refugees these days, and in addition, Canada treats gay issues with due respect (such as gay marriage). Good luck. My thoughts & prayers are with you. :)
@dafttool no not all actions of America was wrong but the Iraqi politics are wrong .actually USA trying always to push Iraq government to the right choice in everything.
and thanx for the advice that will help me when ask for refugee in the UN. i was dreaming of USA from ever but i know in Canada give the G people more rights like marriage and more respect.so that when i'll go.but right now I'm trying to hold the mask on my face and keep acting
Nice that your mom got to meet your boyfriend. I don't tell my mom much about what I do because I know she does not really care to know and seems to ignore my sexual orientation, but I know she can't ignore it forever. Hopefully she will come around soon and I know she is trying her best.
Awkward for me, since I had kept my private life private for so very long, never even bringing girls home when I was dating them...or any of the guys, but they handled it well enough. I especially liked when my dad & my boyfriend talked sports, something I knew my father appreciated and something I never did.
Excellent video, glad it went ok with Pier and your mom ^^
Also, I have no boyfriend atm, but I can read into the future : my sister will be cool =P my mom will play the part of the nice person, my dad will be polite but awkward and quiet, and my grandma will pretend to be nice and fun, and then I'll learn by someone the things she says about him.
I'm so happy for you, Sam. I also hope your mom knows about your YouTube channel and how much you're helping so many people. She has a lot to be proud of!
That great Sam, I'm glad u and mom your are happy.
Before I come out, my parents thought that my ex-bf is my best friend. During my junior year of high school, we have lot of sleep over almost every weekend.
When I come out to parents, they knew that I have boyfriend that sleep over a lot. I was forced to broke up with him because of his bad bad influences of violence and alcohol and he's 25.
Later on I can't bring more boys to my rooms, they covert being str8, but it didn't work.
@justaddtommy Me too! I was so scared it would be awkward. "So YOU'RE the man sleeping with my son." Haha, but fortunately it was never like that. Everyone had so much fun, and I can't wait to take him home for Thanksgiving.
@ScrwVwls That's ok! I'm just glad to have you as a viewer. I feel like by watching these videos, you're already taking steps to help yourself - even if you never come out to your family. If you find the slightest bit of comfort in watching my videos, then I feel like my presence here on YouTube is worth it. :)
@KindaGayBlog I'm glad to be a viewer :) You're such an inspiration, you're showing the LGBT community that it does get better. I will eventually come out to my parents, when I'm out of the house.
Awwwwww, that's amazing that they got along so well. It is too bad that there has to be a greiving process. Or even the whole coming out process itself =/. I always look forward to seeing your videos in my subscriptions. =P You are such an inspiration!
My mom met my boyfriend which was great and she has made great strides in coping with me being gay, but she's still a religious nutcase so in the end she thinks I'll be in hell. I find this extremely odd, because how can she be in heaven and be happy if I'm in hell for eternity... seems like a gaping hole in logic to me. X_x
@itirnitii Fortunately my mom isn't a hardcore religious person, so I'm lucky there. I know so many people have to put up with that with their parents. I'm glad your mom is at least respectful of you and your boyfriend. That's more than a lot of gay couples can say. But yeah, that is some mind-bending logic right there.
you're beautiful, honestly, no kidding, I WANT YOOOU!
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Thats Right. Most gays are selfish in coming out and dont see how that kills many dreams of their family. Really I dont think coming out will be needed in time. Its like coming out u got blue eyes. To me coming out kinda forces gay thing down others. I say Just be who u are and let things fall where they may. This is inpart we have bullying problem wit got gays telling 11yo to come out hell a child should not even be having sex let alone coming out. its just kinda unneeded to me.
timm9 4 months ago
@timm9 wtf, "should not even be having sex let alone coming out"? Like, what? Coming out isn't even in the same ballpark as sex. I came out when I was 13 and I was WAY out of college when I had sex for my first time. I agree that 11 year old kids don't know what they're talking about, but the idea that we're "selfish" in coming out is ridiculous. It's selfish to tell gay people that they have to lie and hide away who they are just so you don't have to be momentarily discomfited.
ImTheSecretSquare 3 months ago
@ImTheSecretSquare To say and there is many if you dont push your personal life on others your living a "lie" is just not ture. Some live by good exmple others feel need to be advertising it. If u did it all on your very own thats one thing ,but I have seen Adult Gay men telling little boys as young as 10 and 11 year olds online "your gay" "be who you are" "come out" in message boards/blogs and truth is that is sexualizing a child.
timm9 3 months ago
You grieved the dream of what you wanted to become. No loss because you were never straight.
johntakai8429 4 months ago
i think i have the same shirt as your mom.. O.o
ImaZombeh 5 months ago in playlist More videos from KindaGayBlog
I have a question. If you were to somehow have a kid/kids. (Adoption or Some other way.) Would you and your mate hope for him/ her to be straight?
killer2222ify 5 months ago
@killer2222ify I wouldn't hope one way or the other. I'd just hope they were healthy and happy.
KindaGayBlog 4 months ago 11
This is a beautiful video. I cannot relate to 'coming out', but I have had many losses in life, as well as bumps in the road with my parents. Watching your video brought tears to my eyes. I am happy to see that your mother accepts you and glad you feel comfortable with who you are. You seem well adjusted. Thank you for sharing your healing process with youtube.
veggieclaire 5 months ago
I completely understand the grieving part, I know my parents went through it and I went through it also before I came out.
ThroughMyEyes100 5 months ago
The reality with many parents is that all they think about are themselves. It never enters their mind that their son or daughter are seeking happiness and need support at a difficult time. Parents need to get over themselves and start to love their children unconditionally. To alienate a child because they are gay is totally brain dead.
DouglasUrantia 6 months ago
When my mom came to my house and met my BF she said she was feeling ill and had to lie down. She looked like she was going to vomit. [She was extremely homophobic]. Basically she was very jealous of my friends and always had to be the total center of attention at all family meetings. She died at 84 and never accepted me as a complete human being. [She was married four times. Three of which were total failures.]
DouglasUrantia 6 months ago
That's awesome! I got to do this a few months ago and it was awesome
cdnsee 6 months ago
Thats great! I'm glad that they were able to have a great time together. Do you plan on bringing Pier back to see your home town?
shadetree84 6 months ago 4
@shadetree84 Yep, for Thanksgiving!
KindaGayBlog 6 months ago
man... you look awesome.
SrBryanoCB 6 months ago
I think, perhaps, that alot depends on whether one is an only son or part of a large family. Also, cultural differences can play a very large role in coming out to one's family. When I came out to my family, they acted like I was talking about the weather. It was basically a non-issue. I've got three brothers and a sister, so I think that my parents didn't see my being gay as some sort of "lost dream" for them.
MyrddinwyIIt 6 months ago
Hey Sam glad your mom loved Pier buddy thats great news. ;)
mike2327 6 months ago
please send this to the YT coming out archive that dan (GDprophet) has
sleekcartim 6 months ago
i never came out my parents they didnt deserve it.
sleekcartim 6 months ago
@sleekcartim ...I can relate to that, Tim. I am familiar with your life story. My stepfather beat me when he suspected I was gay. After that I plotted my revenge on him and I achieved it. My mother was jealous of my BFs. She was always trying to seduce attractive males. My mother also totally hated lesbians.
DouglasUrantia 6 months ago
@DouglasUrantia yeah some kids shouldnt come out, we dont want to see any more kids hurt. It happens more than we know. Often shame / fear etc... prevents them from speaking up. i try to help kids figure it out, it's important to have outside help to deal with it. how much better would you feel if you had someone to talk to all those years ago?
sleekcartim 6 months ago
Ive been preaching this perspective for long time. it's so true. kids & parents almost never come to know WHY others feel the way they do about this subject. understanding this is so freeing! often parents come around as yours did, but know that if they dont, you MUST be strong for yourself. talk about it with close friends, DONT bottle it up.
sleekcartim 6 months ago
im so happy for you that u and your mom can be in that good place again ..theres nothing like having a strong relationship with a mother :)
DavieB220 6 months ago
That's so sweet, Sam. I'm glad the meeting went well. My mom couldn't even look at my now husband in the face when they first met years ago - she's very religious, and had a really hard time dealing with it, unlike my dad (also religious), who accepted me right away. Now my mom and hubby are two peas in a pod, and are best friends. She recently spoke in a forum at her church, publically, in support of gay acceptance in their church. It does take time.
sbaglioscherzo 6 months ago 16
@sbaglioscherzo That's amazing! I'm so happy for you and your family.
KindaGayBlog 6 months ago 3
I got all tense when you said your Mom met Pier. Then when you said it was great I sighed and relaxed. It's sort of funny to me how a silly little bond is formed just via watching your videos.
Sanctuaryofstars 6 months ago
I'm really happy for you. I hope my parents are okay with meeting my boyfriend... to which I'm not gonna do at the moment, I'll wait a little bit longer. Given, that I just came out to them three months ago. But, I wish you and Pier a long life together, I know it's still early in your relationship but love is love...
ERAUPRCWA 6 months ago
That's a dream come through!
aldie2011 6 months ago
Awesome, really glad your mom Pier hit it off so well. Stay sweet <3
HotMissa 6 months ago
I have yet to have a significant other, but when I came out and refused to get 'reparative therapy' my dad told me to never bring anyone I was dating or involved with to visit my family. He also said that he'd disown me if I attempted to ever 'gay marry'...
gustjorodedheo 6 months ago
awwww, I'm happy for you man :). Glad all was well, I would have been so apprehensive and nervous about it. I think if I have told my parents say on the phone that I'm in a relationship and want them to meet him, I can see it being alright. I want to move out the country so think it will be kinda fun to bring whoever I end up with for a visit to England. Getting to show him all the places I used to go when I was here and when I grew up, and meet all my friends and family would be awesome :).
Fr4yTheStrings 6 months ago
My mom has been consistently nagging me to meet my boyfriend. Like, will never-ever shut up. She means really well, which I'm very thankful for, but...I wish she would let up.
For a person that dwells on the past a lot, I don't miss anything that has ever happened to me in the past years of my life. If anything, I hate my yesterday self because I always think "I could've done better",
Lanedude08 6 months ago
My brother and my mother were among the first people that I told, along with some friends. Their reactions were very supportive and loving for the most part. It was my dad I was really worried about, and still am worried cause the stuff he says sometimes. He is against homosexual marriage and still thinks I can straighten out with a woman... sigh. I am glad he knows now though. I am still in the progress of coming to terms with it and accepting it myself.
acw0123 6 months ago
You are SO lucky that your mother is supportive and understanding of your relationship. The best I have had from my mother is to "agree to disagree" and we don't talk about homosexuality at all. She has however allowed my boyfriend to visit while I've lived at home for a temporary basis, and she does ask me how he's doing from time to time.
zachariahgriffin 6 months ago
When I told my Mom one of the first things she said was "DON'T TELL ANYONE AT WORK!!!" I didn't take her advice!! lol Parents just want to protect their kids from the nastiness in society..and unfortunately there is a lot of nasty out there. Great vid Sam!
stoner829 6 months ago 2
@stoner829 I told people at work just to get it out of the way. It's pretty unavoidable if you have any sort of contact with coworkers. Your personal life will always spill over into your professional life at some point.
KindaGayBlog 6 months ago
I totally agree. At first my parents didn't really seem supportive, but I understood that this was new to them and they needed to go through the process I already did when I accepted myself.
But I think the biggest problem for them was that they were worried about me because they knew how much harder this would make my life. My dad was concerned I wouldn't be able to get jobs and that I would face discrimination on a daily basis. Stuff like that. Also he was concerned I would become a "whore".
Valcuric 6 months ago
@Valcuric We're so lucky to have parents that actually worry about us instead of trying to change us or reject us. :) There is still a lot of discrimination against gays, so their fears are validated. Good to hear from you!
KindaGayBlog 6 months ago
@KindaGayBlog Ya I appreciate it now. My relationship with my dad is getting better now which is nice.
I've been watching, but I just forget to comment all the time xD
Valcuric 6 months ago
This makes me happy!
GayFitness 6 months ago
Wow Im soo happy for you that things went well. Pretty incredible feeling I can imagine
dothedeed 6 months ago
imho, We will be equal and free when we don't have to count these types of happenings as victories, all that aside, CONGRATS big boy. Grieving str8 guy is so real too and not having kids (at least not in the usual way) and what it means for Mothers, Aunts etc...
westislandkev 6 months ago
@westislandkev I agree, though I guess it's a big step in any kid's life for their parents to meet their significant other, gay or straight.
KindaGayBlog 6 months ago
so sweet :D
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That is great! I am sure she will do fine from here on.
osky1416 6 months ago
I am so happy that your mom is fine with your bf. It is sad for parents for a moment. I think my mother took it hard but after she got to meet my bf and I am happy about that. Gosh so exciting. You are amazing and keep sharing the joyous moments with us.
COOLIKEDATAZIAN 6 months ago
I literally just saw 3 videos in a row from my subscription box, including yours, that have a car alarm going off in the background. with the people in the video complaining about it. odd. haha.
KaiserFailed 6 months ago
@KaiserFailed I guess I shouldn't complain since sirens usually mean someone is being helped. :)
KindaGayBlog 6 months ago
im not worried bout my mom she'd love all hers sons no matter wat but my dad all he cares about r grandkids but even if i was straight id still hate kids so he'd still b upset
fandude15 6 months ago
I am so happy it went well :). Hopefully it will as well for me when it happens
IDH2008 6 months ago
That is awesome! I am so happy for you.This is something you should think about when you are feeling a little low...
Much Love
arklightbabybear 6 months ago
oh my God that really great progress in your relationship with Pier because now you two guys geat the acceptance of your Mom >...... i hope one day when come out get the same result ........ Salute from Iraq/Baghdad the dangerous place to be GAY :-(
ahmedspiky 6 months ago
@ahmedspiky Iraq? Be strong & brave, but most of all be careful.
dafttool 6 months ago
@dafttool thanx a lot for your support and sure i'm trying to be careful . i can't find love or romance here but the most important thing that i can't come out to my parents because here if they know that i'm gay they will kill me and the law with them :-(
The depfox said the same as you do .... i hope you make more videos .. you serious in some of them and funny in others ^_^ .... and i wish 2 you all the luck with your trip with Pier, and find your perfect city.
ahmedspiky 6 months ago
@ahmedspiky If your life is in danger from your own family, try to get away from them before they do you harm. Your safety is more important than their sense of pride, or even family ties. They don't have to know why you need to get away, just that you do. To pursue a career perhaps? Or simply a better life? Certainly a safer life. One should never have to live in fear of their own flesh & blood, or your culture. --Love & romance is hard to find even in the best of circumstances. :( Have faith.
dafttool 6 months ago
@dafttool you don't know how it feel like to find who care about my life and safety ... i'm studding dentistry so i can't leave now... but i'm planning to go by the UN to canada or USA a lot of normal people go there through UN so i hope they accept my request.
i can't believe that my parents ready to hurt me if know ... i'm there only child
it's mean the world to me to see your reply and the depfox reply that support my feelings . you guys really make different in our lives . thanx
ahmedspiky 6 months ago
@ahmedspiky There are MANY people around the world that are very sympathetic to your plight, gay & straight alike. While America owes all Iraqis big time for what we did to your country, regretfully not very many Iraqi refugees are given asylum here, even when it is a matter of life or death. :( Canada has a much better record of accepting refugees these days, and in addition, Canada treats gay issues with due respect (such as gay marriage). Good luck. My thoughts & prayers are with you. :)
dafttool 6 months ago
@dafttool no not all actions of America was wrong but the Iraqi politics are wrong .actually USA trying always to push Iraq government to the right choice in everything.
and thanx for the advice that will help me when ask for refugee in the UN. i was dreaming of USA from ever but i know in Canada give the G people more rights like marriage and more respect.so that when i'll go.but right now I'm trying to hold the mask on my face and keep acting
ahmedspiky 6 months ago
@ahmedspiky Hang in there, mate. And don't try to be too rebellious. Just be safe. Change doesn't come over night.
Artjommm 6 months ago
That's great! I'm glad it went well. :)
Tremari0 6 months ago
I'm happy for you guys! :)
ThePiku83 6 months ago
I'm so happy things went well! ^_^
JamesMitchellTV 6 months ago
Nice that your mom got to meet your boyfriend. I don't tell my mom much about what I do because I know she does not really care to know and seems to ignore my sexual orientation, but I know she can't ignore it forever. Hopefully she will come around soon and I know she is trying her best.
thatoneshyguy20 6 months ago
Awkward for me, since I had kept my private life private for so very long, never even bringing girls home when I was dating them...or any of the guys, but they handled it well enough. I especially liked when my dad & my boyfriend talked sports, something I knew my father appreciated and something I never did.
dafttool 6 months ago
I'm so glad you are posting more videos.
QueerAsFaith 6 months ago
i'm so happy for you !! :)
anderenwelt 6 months ago
Excellent video, glad it went ok with Pier and your mom ^^
Also, I have no boyfriend atm, but I can read into the future : my sister will be cool =P my mom will play the part of the nice person, my dad will be polite but awkward and quiet, and my grandma will pretend to be nice and fun, and then I'll learn by someone the things she says about him.
GayGHvain87 6 months ago
I'm so happy for you, Sam. I also hope your mom knows about your YouTube channel and how much you're helping so many people. She has a lot to be proud of!
outgiff 6 months ago
69th viewer WHOO!
wereluva 6 months ago
That great Sam, I'm glad u and mom your are happy.
Before I come out, my parents thought that my ex-bf is my best friend. During my junior year of high school, we have lot of sleep over almost every weekend.
When I come out to parents, they knew that I have boyfriend that sleep over a lot. I was forced to broke up with him because of his bad bad influences of violence and alcohol and he's 25.
Later on I can't bring more boys to my rooms, they covert being str8, but it didn't work.
aznguymetal 6 months ago
this is absolutely adorable. i'm glad everything worked out!
justaddtommy 6 months ago 17
@justaddtommy Me too! I was so scared it would be awkward. "So YOU'RE the man sleeping with my son." Haha, but fortunately it was never like that. Everyone had so much fun, and I can't wait to take him home for Thanksgiving.
KindaGayBlog 6 months ago 11
hooray for a successful accepting addition to the family! Your mom is gorgeous and they both looked so happy. Pleased as Punch :)
MakeUp4LostTime 6 months ago 2
@MakeUp4LostTime Can you believe she's 60? Don't tell her I told you that. :) Thanks for watching.
KindaGayBlog 6 months ago
Aw Sam! I am so happy for you :) but unfortunately I don't have a significant other, nor am I out to my parents :(
ScrwVwls 6 months ago
@ScrwVwls That's ok! I'm just glad to have you as a viewer. I feel like by watching these videos, you're already taking steps to help yourself - even if you never come out to your family. If you find the slightest bit of comfort in watching my videos, then I feel like my presence here on YouTube is worth it. :)
KindaGayBlog 6 months ago
@KindaGayBlog I'm glad to be a viewer :) You're such an inspiration, you're showing the LGBT community that it does get better. I will eventually come out to my parents, when I'm out of the house.
ScrwVwls 6 months ago
Awwwwww, that's amazing that they got along so well. It is too bad that there has to be a greiving process. Or even the whole coming out process itself =/. I always look forward to seeing your videos in my subscriptions. =P You are such an inspiration!
archerspwn 6 months ago
@archerspwn Wow thank you! That means so much. I'm blessed to have such amazing subscribers.
KindaGayBlog 6 months ago
i hope my mom will soon get out of the denial phase too :(
Grats on piers relationship with your mom haha
omfffffg 6 months ago
@omfffffg Thanks! Like most things that are worthwhile in life, it just takes time. :)
KindaGayBlog 6 months ago
My mom met my boyfriend which was great and she has made great strides in coping with me being gay, but she's still a religious nutcase so in the end she thinks I'll be in hell. I find this extremely odd, because how can she be in heaven and be happy if I'm in hell for eternity... seems like a gaping hole in logic to me. X_x
itirnitii 6 months ago
@itirnitii Fortunately my mom isn't a hardcore religious person, so I'm lucky there. I know so many people have to put up with that with their parents. I'm glad your mom is at least respectful of you and your boyfriend. That's more than a lot of gay couples can say. But yeah, that is some mind-bending logic right there.
KindaGayBlog 6 months ago
Congrats! Looking at that picture made me smile ear to ear.
jkiang 6 months ago
@jkiang Thank you! It was a really amazing experience. The dynamic between them is so fun. They should have their own sitcom.
KindaGayBlog 6 months ago