dude in the dreads just don't get it. No one on that stage expressed more hurt and anger on the subject than he did.It sounded like he's the one with the shattered heart and wounded ego.poor thing.
'WOW i forgot to get married'? really are we even going there? how come WE FORGOT TO GET MARRIED? if you have babies by a chick & SHE don't even bring up marriage, then it's all good right? don't put this just on men. put it on the both of us or maybe it's not a problem at all.
Steve actually said something real - men won't marry unless given a good reason to - there are exceptions - like me - my faith causes me to look @ marriage but not all men have that faith or mentality - like Steve said - we look 4 the woman of our dreams - and SHE will put marriage in our head like it is in her head
I can't say that just because, a guy takes you home to meet his mother or his father that is a sign that he wants to be committed...and notice how I wrote "committed" because, a guy can marry a woman and have no plans to remain faithful. Marriage does not equate to being committed or faithful. Ladies (and men) take heed to that.
Harper Hill said it best: They could've closed the curtains on the show: Simply said; If you cant be a friend then you can forget about having a successful relationship. PERIOD!!! ... If you find yourself going through friends like wet tissue then guess what YOU might be the problem.
My husband and i could share so many casual ways on how to be cool with each other that most people in relationships don't do. Everyone is so busy putting on a front and act that in the end folks won't like each other because you get tired of the fake act and then it looks like your lazy or not the person you should be, etc. In ghetto terms - you have to truly become Homie,Lover,Friends - lol to be successful in a relationship. Inclusive, open mind, honesty, in the beginning not in the middle.
Propaganda this is being done because of the rise of michelle obama can't get to her get to the rest of them they step up their media assault on black women on purpose to drive black women to white men or other race's because once the black woman cut's out from the self preservation game we are done in this country anywhere white's are they always remain a ruling class over the darker mix up race's the so called pure white's control the MEDIA I REPEAT MEDIA what's there purpose?
@GlamourGirlMejor30 So true! Me and my husband we were together for a year and half and I was like "What it do?" lol Our next anniversary about 4 months later > proposal, year to plan the wedding > marriage! I love you boo, but 4+ years aint happening. Marriage is honorable before the Lord, don't shack up in sin, get married or get out!!!!!
@ilookhigh Right. These so-called strong independent black women act like they too good to approach a man. Yet they expect a man to always chase them and jump through all kinds of hoops for the "honor" to help them raise some other dude's kids. Compare their unreasonable standards with the video called "What Women Want is Worship".
Black women, stop being stubborn and date outside your race. Everyone else does it no problem why are you all having such a hard time doing it? All you're doing is holding yourself back and making yourself more bitter torwards black men, while we are out dating white girls and every other race. You look like crying children bashing us black men all the time.
@Beararms88 They do not need to date outside there group. they need to stop fucking and having babies and wasting there lives with losers no matter what ethnic group they are from.
Music videos are quite simply the main reason why the black family is dying. Any woman who puts a thug on a pedestal who objectifies her and treats her like crap is an idiot. I don't understand why this is such a problem. These men wouldn't exist if women didn't encourage them. If a woman responds to a man who approaches with 'eh girl' has already opened the door for mistreatment. Quite simply the black family is being destroyed by hoodrats and thugs who make everyone else look bad.
all this ranting , sound too Hollywood ~ We Black Guys Know the difference bet. real and bullshit - , I tell you brothers Don't Trust No one who put titles like, Why Can't A Successful Black Women Find Black Man ~
Look at nthe sista sitting next to steve harvey! She looks like shhes suffering from an identity crisis!! we need to be more careful watching shows like this!! and on ABC!! I bet they would not have a show in the reverse!! this show was designed to make us look bad and we keep falling for the okie doke!!
Sistas!! can you please stop making thyem Koreans rich by buying hair because white people said your hair gotta be str8 to have beauty! Sistas!! yall twisted!! first! you get mad at a brother cause he like white women, thenyou try to look like one! then you want the black man to have white men money, but fuck yall like a slave want one black and cute, but do what white men do to get rich!!Yall want a will smith/ John henry brother!..LOL i want an lauryn hill/assata shakur type sista! strong!!!!
@jacksondarryl You want a high school drop-out who robbed banks until she had to flee to communist cuba ? wow. Smart move. Lauryn hasnt lived with the man she is committing adultery with in almost 5 years. Is that strong ? Black women are screwed - hell, all 3 women on that stage are wearing white hair (one is even blonde). Screwed and angry. Black men find the easy ones among white women, who will do the freaky stuff & pay their phone bill. There's no easy way out & only yourselves to blame
@KeyboardPacifist You sound like a whiteman or some seriously confused brother! First of all Assata was with the BLA shr needed funding...LOL as far as being a high school dropout..please!! lauryn hill is by far one of the deepest sistas out there!! you gotta be a white man, you just gotta!!..lol If you are black, my God help you!
ok, the"HS drop out" comment was over-the-top. But I seriously think the BPA did more harm than good. As noble as it started-it was doomed. We already had a war going, white folks were never going to bend for an internal cessation. All it did was give the intelligence agencies all the excuse they needed to flood the streets with crack -- to prove that they could destroy the "disruptive" rebels. I still get inspired by Lauryn's 2.0 album. The message is divine - the messanger is deeply troubled
@KeyboardPacifist You sound like a whiteman or some seriously confused brother! First of all Assata was with the BLA she needed funding...LOL as far as being a high school dropout..please!! lauryn hill is by far one of the deepest sistas out there!! you gotta be a white man, you just gotta!!..lol If you are black, my God help you!
Im puertorican, fr the oakland area. Ive seen it-rose above it& swim in history. I know the propaganda u are wielding. U speak in half-truths. Yes, Ms.Hill is deep.Yes, Assata fought the system- Wife-material? If I were to marry a sista, it would be someone fueled w/a love for simple things in life- simple things are harder to manage in this age of corruption. Women on that stage had "white hair"&had empty rage. Id rather have the one that burns steady - rather than burn bright & then burn out
@KeyboardPacifist Im from Watts! Lived in Oakland by the lake!! Educated atr SLO Cal poly and follow the teachiings of the Most Honorable Elijah Muhammad!! I wonder who created this show!! and for what purpose!! call me a conspiracy theorist if you like, but this show was designed to make the blackman look impotent and a puerto rican is an African with indigenous blood in him!! Farrakhan showed me what type of women is best for me! I have dated PR, black, asian, and white..I luv strong sistas!
@jacksondarryl34 ... I hear you. Nah.. I dont call that a conspiracy. It's no shock that *ABC* would set up this pointless debate. And I understand the idea behind the fascination with the strong soldier-type woman. It's just not my path... peace be with you.
Sherry is stupid...isnt that how most people do it. you mature you grow you get educated..blah blah blah...........then you have a fuckin clue. these women are straight makin up bull shit
Steve Harvey Is So Right On Point, This Whole Marriage Thing It's More of a Women Fantasy Dream Date, We Men are Just Simply Satisfied With Your Companionship and Love. Our Ideas of Commitment Is Very Different.
@entertainmentvalues2, I will introduce you to a "nigga" that You can say all this shit coming out of ur mouth to his face. I bet u will lose your entire head you fake scary ass internet thug homo!!!!
ATTENTION NIGGERS, SPADES, COONS, PORCH-MONKEYS, SPOOKS: Niggers are the scum of the earth, useless to society and themselves and cursed by God (curse of Ham). The world would be a better place without this sub-human slave-race (less disease, criminals, laziness and stupidity)
P.S. YOU ALL LOOK LIKE THE SHIT THAT COMES OUT OF MY ASS AND I WANT TO USE YOU ALL AS TOILET PAPER….LOL!
sherry is a fat turd... jackie is beautiful... the other nigger is just a dumb fcuk... hill harper is a gentleman.... jackie and hill would be good together
This WHole thing was just a bunch of crap. Ok so they stated a bunch of stuff that keeps black men and women from getting together and being successful with each other. They offer no solutions and their facts are solely based around assumptions about men and women. Like men are broke and women can't find any good ones because of it. Just dumb crap.
BW stop saying I'm looking for my Barack, BO has made a place in history that few WM will achieve and don't look for a Barack if you are not a Michelle,Barack is a Colombia uni,harvard grad,lawyer,constitutional law professor,senator,now most powerful man in world president,also average BM don't look for a Michelle Obama if you are not a Barack, MO Princeton grad,havard grad,lawyer,executive making close to six figure,don't forget good mother great personality
Hill Harper is to smart to be up here with these people he's the only voice of reason harvard education went to school with the president men first of all think we can talk to women in an intellectual manner as a BM i find this almost impossible with BW my whole life it's like theres nothing upstairs accept emotional nonsensical baggage from ancient past with BW, I find with other races of women you can have intellectual abstract arguments but the real culprit is the White Man
@PROVERBS241 I agree with u. This has been my experience with Black Women. From my experiences with Black Women and talking to Black Men, They have stated the same thing.
I'll never have a family, love all that because i've tried wayy to hard at a young age, and had no success, I quit. And im the 21 yr old college age brotha, junior in college at that, im hill harper before the money lol. Although I do have a car.
@stlyeobsolescence---the one crucial point you spoke of is not valid in this forum. Know the facts, before you spout uninformed points. Firstly.... numerous single black women were married, got divorced/ widowed. There are others that yes did have a child out of wedlock.
But the women that are being talked about here are majority single. They have concentrated on their careers and are now on the search for a good man to "START" a family.
Don't use this time to spk on UR racial prejudice!
For those of you who think because your more educated than the blackman or because you have money or your in some powerful position you think that that automatically gives you the leadership role. IT DOESNT! Again its your attitude! Change it. Pur race will still go on-thru other races of women and you will be fazed out. Its just that simple. So sit back, support us, shut up, then watch the blackman grow out of boyhood. We love you, but you cannot take lead-thats our job says God.
Blackwomen must realize that Satan is continuing to play the game against you (just like he did in the beginning with Eve). You have been sweet-talked and enticed. It is still happening. You intern come to your blackman and speak in forceful terms, negative speech. Because of thew internal conflict within him, he either lashes out at you, or he simply leaves. WHAT IS ACTUALLY GOING ON TODAY? Satan is making you divert from your man. Why do you think we say you have the devil in you? Think!
I am not suggesting that blackwomen need to be lorded over by blackmen. I am saying that they must adhere to Gods standards. Blackmen are the head of the house. This means he is leader. Your role is to support and back him up and not take command over him. Your education doesnt matter, your money doesnt matter, your so-called standards doesnt matter because they are too outlandish anyway. Your spoken words have hurt him and kept him in a boyish state of mind.
If she doesn't comply with God's orders, she will be forgotten. As blackmen we carry the most dominate gene in the human family. We are the original man, and thru genetics, we can assimilate ANY race of female. They all fade to black-remember that. Yes it is because of your attitude that you are not being picked up. All you have to do is change your attitude and respect Gods order of things. Remember Eve was the one who sinned, not Adam saith scripture, so you must listen to your mans word.
The problem as I see it is the fact that blackwomen have forgotten that blackmen are the heads over them. This is the way God intended it to be. She must stop interfering with his God-given roles as head of house. She must stop believing she is more superior than he is (just like Lucifer thinking he is more superior than God). She must learn to control her speach while talking with him and must stop talking at him. She takes his glory and God has authorized her replacement.
all i c 4rm post is that blck men want blck wmen 2 obey them, look gd, cook, freaky, and all this and that....smh blck wmen nd 2 open up nd drop no gd blck men or blck men who want a mama wife and hore...
They ALL eluded one crucial point in this equation MOST black women are single mothers who made stupid decisions to become mothers of illegitimate children & men don't want this & this ALONE is what is killing our families. This conference was meaningless & simply provided a window dressing effort at getting to the real issue in our culture. The day we get up the intestinal fortitude & say BLACK WOMAN STOP MAKING ILLEGITIMATE babies is the day we've crossed into that truth & character arena.
@styleobsolescence Good point and I totally agree. But this discussion was generally targeted at "Successful" women. Women who have generally worked their way up the career ladder and are at the top of their game. To be more specific, successful, over achieving, black women (mid to late 30's) have never been married nor have children and are now searching for those things. Sure, Sherri is a successful single mom, but I think it is safe to say that she is at the top of her game.
@DeadSleepers If black men abandon black women and their own children. Who raises the sons to be responsible men? Black women should stand up and raise them to be strong responsible men, and some do. The social structure within the black male culture does not value these characteristics. Strength, machismo, conquest... things are the ideals of value. Not universally, but widely. There needs to be more black men out in the community rescuing these young men.
@blutsturmer That's why more black women need to go with the Hill Harper type instead of the Eazy-E type living up the street. Some men will date single mothers and turn out to be great role models for the young man.
@DeadSleepers I ABSOLUTELY agree. That is the type they SHOULD be seeking. The problem is, the deck is atcked against them. 25% of black men are in jail, take out gay men, take out street punks, and the ones already married. Additionally there are 1.4 million more black women than black men and what can black women do? I will tell you, there are A LOT of white men who like women and don't care about color. Black women need to open their options. I am white and engaged to a wonderful black woman.
@styleobsolescence Remember biology? Women don't get pregnant alone. It takes something called "sperm" which comes from...*wait for it* a MAN. There are two sides to this coin: illegitimate children are born because of the irresponsibility of TWO people, a MAN and a WOMAN. There are plenty of women without children who run across lots of men who have children with different mothers. Women having illegitimate children ALONE is not what is killing families. Character should apply to both sexes.
@silvermoonsliver Thank you thank you!!I dont care what any of you negroes think about Farrakhan.but black women need MGTGCC classes!!where there are no good women, there are no good men, for the woman is the mother of civilization!! women rule us through the pleasure they give us! some men say nah!! yeah right! but if a woman give me the coochie in less than a month( notice how the woman is only responsible....LOL) im cool!! you did this before! and you didnt require a condom.....wooooooo!!
@Babygirl2986 True, women don't make babies alone, but with as many different forms of BIRTH CONTROL as there are FOR WOMEN, there's no reason why a woman should ever come up PREGNANT. Yes, men have CONDOMS, but condoms do BREAK, so why is it so hard for women to exercise a little COMMON SENSE and use BIRTH CONTROL? BIRTH CONTROL = NO CHILDREN out of WEDLOCK until you're READY. No BIRTH CONTROL means...well, you figure it out.
@MAJESTY357 Birth control is not always 100% effective either. It's so easy to blame the woman, but if men don't want to have babies they need to keep their privates to themselves. It's called abstinence. That's the best birth control out their.
DId anyone notice that the women tended to talk over the men? Cut the men off while they are talking? Did anyone notice that the men really did not do that to the women?
Black women are the bottom of the barrel. I don't see why any sensible man would want to marry such a species of monkey. The black woman is a booty-shaking babboon. They are no-longer women. They are masculine mutants with nappy heads with other guy's kids. Fuck dat !!!! Why would any single intelligent man be interested in these black hoes with their outta wed-locked children. FUCK BLACK WOMEN. I HOPE THEY PERISH FOR THEIR STUPIDITY..........THEY ARE UGLY, IGNORANT, STUPID, DUMB....etc
Ladies...upgrade your character judging skills and stop wasting your time with these "short term zeros" and start aiming for these "long term heroes." There's nothing wrong with investing if the future prospects look bright.
Omg, this discussion is so old. My solution to this is that I started dating outside of my race...white,asian, and hispanic men. As a soft spoken black young woman those seem to be the guys I have more in common with.
yeah that is WRONG.... they do it everywhere in a lot of places.. The only word of advice I can give ya'll is to read the Bible and to find yourself a nice Bible preaching church that shows the love of God to everybody.
I must admit it use to hurt me to hear black women tear men down even if you never met them. I have come to realize that if you follow that God and you and plan then move nothing a black woman says can stop you. Amen Hotep
@Whitebitchnigga, BLACK MEN! That's where black women get HIV from! So you black men take your cheap ass, your HIV infected ass, and go find Becky, Koon Young Kim, or Alla Al-Sheik and leave us black women alone! If all black women stop fucking with black men, within a decade HIV/AIDS in black women who go down 100%
@purpleamythstone Point one. You are racist. You are using stereotypical racial nicknames to refer to people of other nationalities. Point two. To assume that black men are infected with HIV/AIDS is just false. Point three. Women have to take responsibility of who they choose to have sex with and to use condoms. As far as the "down low brother," the statistics show that a large majority women do not "accidentally" choose a to be with homosexual men.
@purpleamythstone If all black women would stop fucking or protect themselves then you wouldn't have those STDS and AIDS. Its your responsibility as well. When u goto church u don't suppose to read the bible just in church, u got that bible to read it whenever whereever but ppl choose to read it in the church and thats it.
I WISH BLACK WOMEN DIDNT LOVE US BLACK MEN ARE WENT ESLE WERE. this how i see it,black women coem to black men with all their bagage and anger, and bitterness and daddy issues, and when they date white men or spanish or asian men, they treat them like KINGS.i am sick and tired of Black women i pray they left us black men alone.
It's amazing...Daywalker, whitebitchni**a, and few others--you watched this amazing special on Black women, Black men, and Black love--and you ain't learned a damn thing. The whole point of this show, to me at least, was that we need to sit down & talk to be each other w/ respect, try & understand each others needs, and despite the imperfectness- learn to love & appreciate each other as men and women. Essentially, learn "grown up" love. But I guess some of y'all still want the drama and BS.
Well, well, well....Looks as though the "BITTER BLACK BITCH MAFIA" has struck again! The real reason that you heffas can't find a decent man that wants to be around has to do with the fact that you ladies often fuck thugs, you chase after "BAD BOYS", have kids out of wedlock by them, and by the time you get into your 30s or 40s you want a man who looks like DENZEL WASHINGTON, has a 6 figure job, has a big dick, and a fucking spine extraction! It's no wonder you skanks can't attract mates!
I sat here and read 2 other bitches post that BLACK MEN are: On CRACK, Killing each other, Homosexuals, and criminals that are constantly getting locked up, but I have never been arrested in my life, I am a Mechanical Engineer, I make excellent money, I have good credit, (THEY DON'T GIVE YOU AN AMEX BLACK CARD IF YOUR CREDIT ISN'T RIGHT, BITCHES!!) and I refuse to support a bitch and her little "MISTAKES"! Fuck dat! Get a trade and get a job, cause I ain't tha one! You bitches come on here with
(Cont'd) your bullshit assed assumptions and unrealistic conjecture, but the fact of the matter is that you heffas aren't getting picked for the team! I mean I'll go in a little harder: You bitches LOOOVE to say that Black men ALWAYS get fat white women when they date interracially,(Personally, any white woman I've ever been with was a size 6 or a 9 at the largest) but I've found that the same men who'll date a fat white woman are the same ones that will date a fat black one. I'll even go on to
(Cont'd) say that your argument is fucked up in itself! The reason why is that if BLACK WOMEN are so fucking great, why the hell would a brother "DOWNGRADE" and get a lesser woman when he could have the "BEST", as Black women often describe themselves? Does that defy logic? Well, here on planet Earth it does! And to be BRUTALLY honest, things are going to get a hell of a lot worse for Black women before it gets better, but this is the hole you bitches dug for yourselves, so jump in bitches!
@whitebitchnigga: Wanna know why? Cause men of other races realize BULLSHIT WHEN THEY SEE IT. BLACK MEN HAVE HAD OVER 400 years worth of being subjugated, so they're used to being used as doormats, but my black ass ain't that one! I run my shit, not my woman, and if her ass wants to be with a progressive brother like me, she either recognizes that I'm the captain of my own ship, or their asses can WALK THE FUCKING PLANK! Sorry, but my tolerance for bullshit is too low for that.
@whitebitchnigga ROFL....too bad the majority are ghetto sheboon black weave wearing tramps like your mother. However, white men get the FEW black females that are attractive....no lie about that. Last time i checked, white men and black women couples were the fastest steadily couples rising ROFL XD
(Cont'd) say that your whole argument is bullshit! A lot of BLACK women like to refer to themselves as the absolute "BEST" women on the planet, and to a certain extent, some actually are, but here's where their argument fails. If you heffas are the BEST, Why would a black man choose to "DOWNGRADE" when his options include "THE ABSOLUTE BEST" women on the damn planet? Wanna know why? Here's a theory: Maybe it has a lot to do with the fact you heffas are OVERWEIGHT, ATTITUDINAL, HAVE TOO MANY KIDS
(CONT'D) OUT OF WEDLOCK, THEY HAVE TOO MANY STDS, THEY ABSOLUTELY REFUSE TO ACCEPT CONSTRUCTIVE CRITICISM, THEY REFUSE TO MAKE THEIR PARTNERS WEAR CONDOMS TO PREVENT THE SPREAD OF DISEASES AND PREVENT UNWANTED PREGNANCIES, THEY WEAR RIDICULOUS WEAVES, AND LASTLY, THEY HAVE TOO MANY SEXUAL HANGUPS ON AVERAGE. THAT'S MY THEORY, and I'm sure that I'm not the only black man who feels that way.
@Daywalker225xxxx Wow you are a decent man. Why do you refer to women as Bitch and Heffas. How can anyone with self respect and common sense value your arguement.
@SimplyAdiva:What difference does it make as far as the terminology that I use to refer to these women?? The end result is that they won't refrain from screwing thugs and bringing illegitimate children into the world and blaming "AIN'T SHIT" brothers that they themselves chose to get spreadeagled for...And fear no doubt, If the federal government made DNA testing mandatory for ALL children born in AMERICA, I'm sure that more than just a few women would be exposed for the sluts that they are....
@Daywalker225xxxx All black woman screw thugs is your arugement and have illegitimate children. So you genaralize and categoize us bitches when you clearly have not dated all of us. Spoken by a weak man.
@SimplyAdiva: NO, That is NOT my argument. MY ARGUMENT is that a MAJORITY of BLACK women do that and complain thet there are no good BLACK MEN. My stand is that those "NO GOOD BLACK MEN" who happen to be THUg don't suffer any repercussions as a result of their being thugs!! Case in point: They get women due to their "SWAG" and BLACK women choose them over more stable and suitable men.
@SimplyAdiva: And as I stated before that if you aren't a bitch, then what I said shouldn't offend you, but in my travels, if you throw a rock into a pack of dogs, the one you hit will yelp the loudest, so with that being said, I'm sure that some of what I said must have struck a nerve. Otherwise, why do you care??? Don't tell on yourself, now...
@Daywalker225xxxx lol you are ignorant which I find amazing you still choose to debate. It is sad you want to be respected as a black man . Yet look at how you address black women in your community as bitches. God fobid if we give you attitude we are now tainted respect us and maybe you will get respect in return. I care because you are lost which is sad my brother work on the issues within yourself and then you will attract quality women REGARDLESS of race.
@SimplyAdiva I have traveled the world in military and never ran across many black women you describe. I see good and bad in every color. You did hit a nerve because you have not grown pass the negative stereotypes . Take your place as a Strong educated informed MAN and become part of the solution. Yes the African American community is in desperate need of help but tearing black woman down is not the answer .
Maybe you need to change the circle of people you surround yourself with. I have many friends that have good menand friends who desire a good man. I have never heard them say there is no good men regardless of race. So again all theses women you claim are ghetto living off system maybe you need to remove yourself from ghetto and expand your social network and then you won't keep running into the same women.
@SimplyAdiva: Ha ha ha!!! I'm "IGNORANT??" Well The 2 Degrees I have on my wall would tend to say otherwise, sweetheart...I could care less if you "RESPECT" me as a BLACK man, because it's obvoius that you and plenty of other BLACK women already disrespect not only me, but any brother that would be honest enough to admit that ALL BLACK women are not IDEAL mates.
@SimplyAdiva: I'll further add that RESPECT begets respect, and the mere fact that I often get lumped into the same category as BLACK MEN who don't work, have multiple children out of wedlock, have prison records and "RAP SHEETS" with multiple pages, or little to no education are considered just as desirable as I am!!
@SimplyAdiva:That's not only "DISRESPECTFUL", it is a travesty in my opinion!! For the record, if I feel as though a woman is a "BITCH", it is my god given right to call her as I see fit, and although ALL BLACK WOMEN don't necessarily give me attitude, more than enough do to make me feel as though I'd prefer not to be bothered with the majority of them as opposed to dealing with a woman who can respect my accomplishments and want me for me.
@SimplyAdiva: I am not "LOST", nor have I ever been, I am man enough to be able to think and decide things for myself, and what I've decided is that it is far easier to deal with friendly, open and good natured women as opposed to attitudinal, bitter and pessimistic women, but again, "MY CHOICE"!!! And the only "ISSUES" I deal with are BLACK WOMEN who take offense at my obvious choices in women and my overall decision to come home to a peaceful and happy home.
@SimplyAdiva: As opposed to one in which I'll have to argue and fight after a long hard day's work...As far as attracting women, I've never had any issue attracting women in my life, and I don't think I'll be having any anytime soon REGARDLESS of race, but I do respect your giving your "OPINION" even though it was neither required nor desired...I do hope you feel better about yourself as a result of doing so, but I can honestly say that you've neither changed my nor anyone else's opinions...
@Daywalker225xxxx I don't know man......you have a lot of opinions, but you come across as bitter more than anything else.....just let it go......life is too short!
nothing is going to change as long as the Black women comfortable being a hoe ... the 5 core states to a relationship are virgin, wife, divorced, widow and hoe. Which state are you in black women ???
I don't mean to be hard on sisters. How ignorant of me. "Ghetto" is what I hate and it comes in every race. All sisters aren't like that. Environment, situations, and conditions mold people. Overall, each race will be different because of these differences in which they were exposed.
@vford43During the 60's,70's,80'sBlack American women were given a choice: welfare/free housing/food stamps OR a husband. They chose handouts. Then went about to increase those benefits by bedding a thug that would breed and abandoned them. That became a trend that produced gangs, thugs, losers etc. Anyone disagree
I met this fine sista oneday....i went to talk to her, first I said "excuse me" trying to sound proper and respectful, instead of me saying hey shorty....what's good, but she give me this look and pretending like she's ignoring me, Now me as men I felt rejected by my black sister, that's why it's a little bit hard for me to talk to black women nowadays, but I still love them though.....but time's running out sista's, i'm still 55% in love towards black women
@1985journal i've tried .....at least they talk to you and tell you they in relationship already.........i'm not against my black sistas........I love my sistas....they just need to change their funky ass attitude...........it's a turn off nowadays
@RubisMambweni to talk to a black woman you have to say "a whats up bitch" she will be like "excuse me" thats when you say "I'm just playing let me get your number" by addressing her like that it gets her attention rather then "oh hey lady you look nice may I have your number" she's just going to lie and say she has a man but when you say the word "bitch" calling her by her real name she's going to laugh it off "oh here sweetie heres my #" is what she's going to say
to talk to a black woman you have to say "a whats up bitch" she will be like "excuse me" thats when you say "I'm just playing let me get your number" by addressing her like that it gets her attention rather then "oh hey lady you look nice may I have your number" she's just going to lie and say she has a man but when you say the word "bitch" calling her by her real name she's going to laugh it off "oh here sweetie heres my #" is what she's going to say
In the 50 states and the District of Columbia, adult and adolescent AIDS cases totaled 35,934 with 26,355 cases in males and 9,579 cases in females, and 28 cases estimated in children under age 13 years.
BW need to make adult like decisions when choosing a mate. Lauren Hill whom I once considered intelligent selected a "player". Look who she chose to marry and have children with: One of the trustfund, flunky illigitimate Marley children. And she lost her mind grieving over that fool. They all do as their dad did;have children all over the place
Maybe their heads are inflated. Can't tell em shit. Combative. Unreasonable. Thank she's "better" and above black men. Wants to wear the draws and put the panties on the man. Sisters run "Good Men" away these days. Wanna TAKE and won't atleast meet a brother half way. The fake hair eyes and nails, and Attitude. Being successful don't mean she has class. Go get you a white man. Straight out the gate you treat him much better anyway.
@DeeStinger1 what they should have done is brought that White, Asian or Latin women on the show to explain to these heffas how to keep a man. Cause they'll listen to that white or Asain women before they listen to a black man. Hell if I take her corn rolls out
@TheNewUSB Could Elin Nordengren keep a man, what about Kimmora Simmons, or Sandra Bullock, or Jennifer Lopez who has been in more messed up relationships than either one of these women. Remember that no woman can tell another woman how to treat her man, you would not want another man telling your woman how to treat you. DA!!!
@1985journal I did have my share and they were all black. Sisters ain't gave me nothing but the blues. Took my kindness for weakness and tried to PLAY a brother. "Thats what I get". Huh. I got what I deserve. A beautiful white/latino woman totally opposite from the sisters of my past. I'm done. I'm prejudiced now. Finding a good sister is like finding a diamond in the ruff.
@DeeStinger1 You can have your diamond when you stop blaming good sisters( I am a very good one) for your discrimination and bad experiences. I did not want to go here but have you tried God, ask him to change the way you look at women because when that white, asian or latino woman hurt your feelings, who are you going to blame then? The culture of the woman does not change the heart of the woman.
@DeeStinger1You need to look to a better woman not just any kind of woman. Maybe it is you not knowing what you want out of a woman. But remember what I said the color nor culture changes the heart of a woman, latino, white or black. That just fact! I am so sorry black women (as if all of us) have hurt your feelings. Obviously, if you are as kind as you say you are then they just missed out.
@DeeStinger1 Do not ever disrespect or mistake a good black woman for the women who have corrupted your past because we do not need that either. All I am saying is do not give up on us because we need you.
You're damn right about that. I only deal with hispanic women nowadays. Hell, for every "good" wholesome black woman, there's ten hispanic women who meet the same qualities. I'm tired of that stuck up, snotty nosed black woman.
@DeeStinger1 What I find so hard to grasp is a few man black women dissapointed you to generalize the whole race . You have NOT dated all of us to base your arguement on that. So sad.
@SimplyAdiva Whats sad is I've reached the conclusion that no woman is worth the trouble regardless of race. I don't want anyone so emotionally tied to me that they have the right to confront and argue. If I ever get out of my current relationship, I'd stay single and serve the Lord. Before my life changed I always said man is better off just getting an escort from time to time. Pay her and go home alone and happy. We're paying out of our butts anyway. For What? Chains?
vford43 keeps talking about black women being single b/c they settle for less hum if you settle for less that means your insecure about yourself and you know you don't deserve somebody who will treat you right the real reason bw are single is b/c of weaves attitudes lack of respect for a bm loud rude be head bobbin n lip smackin n neck rollin doing just what there massa wants them to do but bw your still a FUCKING NIGGER to wm
these ppl still dont get it.....put God first!!!!1
Starr9889 1 week ago
dude in the dreads just don't get it. No one on that stage expressed more hurt and anger on the subject than he did.It sounded like he's the one with the shattered heart and wounded ego.poor thing.
messiahmedia 4 weeks ago
PREACH HARVEY PREACH!
Aami221 1 month ago
'WOW i forgot to get married'? really are we even going there? how come WE FORGOT TO GET MARRIED? if you have babies by a chick & SHE don't even bring up marriage, then it's all good right? don't put this just on men. put it on the both of us or maybe it's not a problem at all.
orlanduce 1 month ago
>demise of the black family
> tragedy
>pick one
ryancouture 1 month ago
..4½ WOMEN TALKING ABOUT MALE-FEMALE RELATIONSHIPS?? ..NO WONDER NOTHING EVER GETS SOLVED
omahni2 1 month ago
who thumbs up the idiot calling jimi izrael a "nigger/dumb fuck"?
kobeballer 1 month ago
@kobeballer Whats wrong with you, if she not ready shes not ready!!!
nenedent 1 month ago
Steve actually said something real - men won't marry unless given a good reason to - there are exceptions - like me - my faith causes me to look @ marriage but not all men have that faith or mentality - like Steve said - we look 4 the woman of our dreams - and SHE will put marriage in our head like it is in her head
NovaKane78 1 month ago
I can't say that just because, a guy takes you home to meet his mother or his father that is a sign that he wants to be committed...and notice how I wrote "committed" because, a guy can marry a woman and have no plans to remain faithful. Marriage does not equate to being committed or faithful. Ladies (and men) take heed to that.
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Harper Hill said it best: They could've closed the curtains on the show: Simply said; If you cant be a friend then you can forget about having a successful relationship. PERIOD!!! ... If you find yourself going through friends like wet tissue then guess what YOU might be the problem.
RadReese73 2 months ago
My husband and i could share so many casual ways on how to be cool with each other that most people in relationships don't do. Everyone is so busy putting on a front and act that in the end folks won't like each other because you get tired of the fake act and then it looks like your lazy or not the person you should be, etc. In ghetto terms - you have to truly become Homie,Lover,Friends - lol to be successful in a relationship. Inclusive, open mind, honesty, in the beginning not in the middle.
DeesAfro 2 months ago in playlist DATING
why do black women only ever talk about dating white or black men like thats the only two opinions so rude....
leon2212 3 months ago
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Propaganda this is being done because of the rise of michelle obama can't get to her get to the rest of them they step up their media assault on black women on purpose to drive black women to white men or other race's because once the black woman cut's out from the self preservation game we are done in this country anywhere white's are they always remain a ruling class over the darker mix up race's the so called pure white's control the MEDIA I REPEAT MEDIA what's there purpose?
RealityIsAIllusion 3 months ago
how do you DATE for 6PLUS years....
at year2..TWO?!
We need to get married or break up. I'M NOT going to drag someone be in my life always
GlamourGirlMejor30 3 months ago
@GlamourGirlMejor30 So true! Me and my husband we were together for a year and half and I was like "What it do?" lol Our next anniversary about 4 months later > proposal, year to plan the wedding > marriage! I love you boo, but 4+ years aint happening. Marriage is honorable before the Lord, don't shack up in sin, get married or get out!!!!!
jesusishisname102 3 days ago
The bottom line is successful black women will never find a man, because WOMAN DON'T GO LOOKING FOR MEN.
ilookhigh 3 months ago
@ilookhigh Right. These so-called strong independent black women act like they too good to approach a man. Yet they expect a man to always chase them and jump through all kinds of hoops for the "honor" to help them raise some other dude's kids. Compare their unreasonable standards with the video called "What Women Want is Worship".
vincent15641 2 months ago
Black women, stop being stubborn and date outside your race. Everyone else does it no problem why are you all having such a hard time doing it? All you're doing is holding yourself back and making yourself more bitter torwards black men, while we are out dating white girls and every other race. You look like crying children bashing us black men all the time.
Beararms88 3 months ago
@Beararms88 They do not need to date outside there group. they need to stop fucking and having babies and wasting there lives with losers no matter what ethnic group they are from.
Casshan1983 2 months ago
steve is right!!!
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Music videos are quite simply the main reason why the black family is dying. Any woman who puts a thug on a pedestal who objectifies her and treats her like crap is an idiot. I don't understand why this is such a problem. These men wouldn't exist if women didn't encourage them. If a woman responds to a man who approaches with 'eh girl' has already opened the door for mistreatment. Quite simply the black family is being destroyed by hoodrats and thugs who make everyone else look bad.
angelchild829 4 months ago
What's wrong with the snow?
OblivionOnTruth77 4 months ago
all this ranting , sound too Hollywood ~ We Black Guys Know the difference bet. real and bullshit - , I tell you brothers Don't Trust No one who put titles like, Why Can't A Successful Black Women Find Black Man ~
bkknight45 5 months ago
Wtf ! Abc allowed this !!!!!
klevdav 5 months ago
Look at nthe sista sitting next to steve harvey! She looks like shhes suffering from an identity crisis!! we need to be more careful watching shows like this!! and on ABC!! I bet they would not have a show in the reverse!! this show was designed to make us look bad and we keep falling for the okie doke!!
jacksondarryl34 5 months ago
Sistas!! can you please stop making thyem Koreans rich by buying hair because white people said your hair gotta be str8 to have beauty! Sistas!! yall twisted!! first! you get mad at a brother cause he like white women, thenyou try to look like one! then you want the black man to have white men money, but fuck yall like a slave want one black and cute, but do what white men do to get rich!!Yall want a will smith/ John henry brother!..LOL i want an lauryn hill/assata shakur type sista! strong!!!!
jacksondarryl34 6 months ago
@jacksondarryl You want a high school drop-out who robbed banks until she had to flee to communist cuba ? wow. Smart move. Lauryn hasnt lived with the man she is committing adultery with in almost 5 years. Is that strong ? Black women are screwed - hell, all 3 women on that stage are wearing white hair (one is even blonde). Screwed and angry. Black men find the easy ones among white women, who will do the freaky stuff & pay their phone bill. There's no easy way out & only yourselves to blame
KeyboardPacifist 5 months ago
@KeyboardPacifist You sound like a whiteman or some seriously confused brother! First of all Assata was with the BLA shr needed funding...LOL as far as being a high school dropout..please!! lauryn hill is by far one of the deepest sistas out there!! you gotta be a white man, you just gotta!!..lol If you are black, my God help you!
jacksondarryl34 5 months ago
ok, the"HS drop out" comment was over-the-top. But I seriously think the BPA did more harm than good. As noble as it started-it was doomed. We already had a war going, white folks were never going to bend for an internal cessation. All it did was give the intelligence agencies all the excuse they needed to flood the streets with crack -- to prove that they could destroy the "disruptive" rebels. I still get inspired by Lauryn's 2.0 album. The message is divine - the messanger is deeply troubled
KeyboardPacifist 5 months ago
@KeyboardPacifist You sound like a whiteman or some seriously confused brother! First of all Assata was with the BLA she needed funding...LOL as far as being a high school dropout..please!! lauryn hill is by far one of the deepest sistas out there!! you gotta be a white man, you just gotta!!..lol If you are black, my God help you!
jacksondarryl34 5 months ago
Im puertorican, fr the oakland area. Ive seen it-rose above it& swim in history. I know the propaganda u are wielding. U speak in half-truths. Yes, Ms.Hill is deep.Yes, Assata fought the system- Wife-material? If I were to marry a sista, it would be someone fueled w/a love for simple things in life- simple things are harder to manage in this age of corruption. Women on that stage had "white hair"&had empty rage. Id rather have the one that burns steady - rather than burn bright & then burn out
KeyboardPacifist 5 months ago
@KeyboardPacifist Im from Watts! Lived in Oakland by the lake!! Educated atr SLO Cal poly and follow the teachiings of the Most Honorable Elijah Muhammad!! I wonder who created this show!! and for what purpose!! call me a conspiracy theorist if you like, but this show was designed to make the blackman look impotent and a puerto rican is an African with indigenous blood in him!! Farrakhan showed me what type of women is best for me! I have dated PR, black, asian, and white..I luv strong sistas!
jacksondarryl34 5 months ago
@jacksondarryl34 ... I hear you. Nah.. I dont call that a conspiracy. It's no shock that *ABC* would set up this pointless debate. And I understand the idea behind the fascination with the strong soldier-type woman. It's just not my path... peace be with you.
KeyboardPacifist 5 months ago
@KeyboardPacifist Thank you
jacksondarryl34 5 months ago
@KeyboardPacifist Well said.
dietoolife 3 months ago
Sherry is stupid...isnt that how most people do it. you mature you grow you get educated..blah blah blah...........then you have a fuckin clue. these women are straight makin up bull shit
Bexly 6 months ago
@Bexly if ur not a black woman...or a woman period, for that matter. SHUT UP, becuz ur making up bullshit, cus u cannot relate!!!!!
GurlCaa 6 months ago
@GurlCaa ive been around black women all my life STFU!
Bexly 6 months ago
@sallylongpants
I'm well aware of the numbers. In fact, I may have mentioned them in this video/series and certainly elsewhere.
So with all that said, you are attempting to preach - not to the choir - but rather the college of cardinals.
With that being the case, it may be worth your time to reconsider my words and the intent behind them.
KNOWING the 50/70/80% split (women get 80% of alimony claims), this should tell you how much I & others trust women.
You girls have work to do to fix that.
OniNoFro 7 months ago
Steve Harvey Is So Right On Point, This Whole Marriage Thing It's More of a Women Fantasy Dream Date, We Men are Just Simply Satisfied With Your Companionship and Love. Our Ideas of Commitment Is Very Different.
urdynamix1 7 months ago
3:45 i totally agree plus women need to stop looking into the song by beyonce *put a ring on it* .
extreme1is1me 7 months ago
We as men made the institution... the corporation and therefore the partnership of marriage. We are not commitment phobic.
Rather... women, specifically feminists, have made it so damn risky for men TO CONSIDER marriage that even then it isn't worth our time or lives.
WE marry when WE trust you. period.
OniNoFro 7 months ago 3
@OniNoFro ... Well said.
KeyboardPacifist 5 months ago
@entertainmentvalues2, I will introduce you to a "nigga" that You can say all this shit coming out of ur mouth to his face. I bet u will lose your entire head you fake scary ass internet thug homo!!!!
wheatthin2012 8 months ago
Marriage is a woman's dream
Marriage is a man's nightmare
KingMellow11 10 months ago
@KingMellow11 yeah a dream for her to rape his ass in court after the divorce.
OneMic3 9 months ago
@OneMic3 LOL!!!
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entertainmentvalues2 10 months ago
sherry is a fat turd... jackie is beautiful... the other nigger is just a dumb fcuk... hill harper is a gentleman.... jackie and hill would be good together
PunjabiSikhRajput1 10 months ago 2
This WHole thing was just a bunch of crap. Ok so they stated a bunch of stuff that keeps black men and women from getting together and being successful with each other. They offer no solutions and their facts are solely based around assumptions about men and women. Like men are broke and women can't find any good ones because of it. Just dumb crap.
noblesiner 11 months ago
BW stop saying I'm looking for my Barack, BO has made a place in history that few WM will achieve and don't look for a Barack if you are not a Michelle,Barack is a Colombia uni,harvard grad,lawyer,constitutional law professor,senator,now most powerful man in world president,also average BM don't look for a Michelle Obama if you are not a Barack, MO Princeton grad,havard grad,lawyer,executive making close to six figure,don't forget good mother great personality
PROVERBS241 11 months ago
@PROVERBS241 Stop posting that dumbass post on every video stupid
PopCulture20 9 months ago
Hill Harper is to smart to be up here with these people he's the only voice of reason harvard education went to school with the president men first of all think we can talk to women in an intellectual manner as a BM i find this almost impossible with BW my whole life it's like theres nothing upstairs accept emotional nonsensical baggage from ancient past with BW, I find with other races of women you can have intellectual abstract arguments but the real culprit is the White Man
PROVERBS241 11 months ago
@PROVERBS241 I agree with u. This has been my experience with Black Women. From my experiences with Black Women and talking to Black Men, They have stated the same thing.
YoungnRomantic 10 months ago
I'll never have a family, love all that because i've tried wayy to hard at a young age, and had no success, I quit. And im the 21 yr old college age brotha, junior in college at that, im hill harper before the money lol. Although I do have a car.
rehsa2194 11 months ago
Did Sherri really just say "I'm not ready to take a dip in the snow"?
idiot.
MsMcCharles 11 months ago 13
@MsMcCharles why was that idiotic?
nlytend1 3 months ago
@MsMcCharles Well I've heard of poeple saying: "I don't want no snowflake" as well so...
DaBlackhand1975 1 month ago
@stlyeobsolescence---the one crucial point you spoke of is not valid in this forum. Know the facts, before you spout uninformed points. Firstly.... numerous single black women were married, got divorced/ widowed. There are others that yes did have a child out of wedlock.
But the women that are being talked about here are majority single. They have concentrated on their careers and are now on the search for a good man to "START" a family.
Don't use this time to spk on UR racial prejudice!
2325JC 1 year ago
The fact is that it hard finding a reasonably compatible and qualiaty man. It is very hard.
PatsBooks 1 year ago
Is it just me or does anyone else notice Sherri Shepherd checking Hill Harper out!!
obionuorah 1 year ago
@obionuorah - I bet you they boned after the show lol
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RoseanYoksi 1 year ago
For those of you who think because your more educated than the blackman or because you have money or your in some powerful position you think that that automatically gives you the leadership role. IT DOESNT! Again its your attitude! Change it. Pur race will still go on-thru other races of women and you will be fazed out. Its just that simple. So sit back, support us, shut up, then watch the blackman grow out of boyhood. We love you, but you cannot take lead-thats our job says God.
MrStarchild2 1 year ago
Blackwomen must realize that Satan is continuing to play the game against you (just like he did in the beginning with Eve). You have been sweet-talked and enticed. It is still happening. You intern come to your blackman and speak in forceful terms, negative speech. Because of thew internal conflict within him, he either lashes out at you, or he simply leaves. WHAT IS ACTUALLY GOING ON TODAY? Satan is making you divert from your man. Why do you think we say you have the devil in you? Think!
MrStarchild2 1 year ago 2
I am not suggesting that blackwomen need to be lorded over by blackmen. I am saying that they must adhere to Gods standards. Blackmen are the head of the house. This means he is leader. Your role is to support and back him up and not take command over him. Your education doesnt matter, your money doesnt matter, your so-called standards doesnt matter because they are too outlandish anyway. Your spoken words have hurt him and kept him in a boyish state of mind.
MrStarchild2 1 year ago
If she doesn't comply with God's orders, she will be forgotten. As blackmen we carry the most dominate gene in the human family. We are the original man, and thru genetics, we can assimilate ANY race of female. They all fade to black-remember that. Yes it is because of your attitude that you are not being picked up. All you have to do is change your attitude and respect Gods order of things. Remember Eve was the one who sinned, not Adam saith scripture, so you must listen to your mans word.
MrStarchild2 1 year ago
The problem as I see it is the fact that blackwomen have forgotten that blackmen are the heads over them. This is the way God intended it to be. She must stop interfering with his God-given roles as head of house. She must stop believing she is more superior than he is (just like Lucifer thinking he is more superior than God). She must learn to control her speach while talking with him and must stop talking at him. She takes his glory and God has authorized her replacement.
MrStarchild2 1 year ago
@MrStarchild2 Black men can't be heads if they're treated like the tail.
KingMellow11 10 months ago
all i c 4rm post is that blck men want blck wmen 2 obey them, look gd, cook, freaky, and all this and that....smh blck wmen nd 2 open up nd drop no gd blck men or blck men who want a mama wife and hore...
MsJonas09 1 year ago
They ALL eluded one crucial point in this equation MOST black women are single mothers who made stupid decisions to become mothers of illegitimate children & men don't want this & this ALONE is what is killing our families. This conference was meaningless & simply provided a window dressing effort at getting to the real issue in our culture. The day we get up the intestinal fortitude & say BLACK WOMAN STOP MAKING ILLEGITIMATE babies is the day we've crossed into that truth & character arena.
styleobsolescence 1 year ago 17
@styleobsolescence Good point and I totally agree. But this discussion was generally targeted at "Successful" women. Women who have generally worked their way up the career ladder and are at the top of their game. To be more specific, successful, over achieving, black women (mid to late 30's) have never been married nor have children and are now searching for those things. Sure, Sherri is a successful single mom, but I think it is safe to say that she is at the top of her game.
pelam1234 11 months ago
@styleobsolescence Way too simplistic. You are blaming Black Women for Black Men being irresponsible and treating women and their own children badly.
blutsturmer 7 months ago
@blutsturmer Isn't it 50/50? But society is hell bent on blaming men for it as usual.
DeadSleepers 6 months ago
@DeadSleepers If black men abandon black women and their own children. Who raises the sons to be responsible men? Black women should stand up and raise them to be strong responsible men, and some do. The social structure within the black male culture does not value these characteristics. Strength, machismo, conquest... things are the ideals of value. Not universally, but widely. There needs to be more black men out in the community rescuing these young men.
blutsturmer 6 months ago
@blutsturmer That's why more black women need to go with the Hill Harper type instead of the Eazy-E type living up the street. Some men will date single mothers and turn out to be great role models for the young man.
DeadSleepers 6 months ago
@DeadSleepers I ABSOLUTELY agree. That is the type they SHOULD be seeking. The problem is, the deck is atcked against them. 25% of black men are in jail, take out gay men, take out street punks, and the ones already married. Additionally there are 1.4 million more black women than black men and what can black women do? I will tell you, there are A LOT of white men who like women and don't care about color. Black women need to open their options. I am white and engaged to a wonderful black woman.
blutsturmer 6 months ago
@styleobsolescence Remember biology? Women don't get pregnant alone. It takes something called "sperm" which comes from...*wait for it* a MAN. There are two sides to this coin: illegitimate children are born because of the irresponsibility of TWO people, a MAN and a WOMAN. There are plenty of women without children who run across lots of men who have children with different mothers. Women having illegitimate children ALONE is not what is killing families. Character should apply to both sexes.
silvermoonsliver 6 months ago
@silvermoonsliver Thank you thank you!!I dont care what any of you negroes think about Farrakhan.but black women need MGTGCC classes!!where there are no good women, there are no good men, for the woman is the mother of civilization!! women rule us through the pleasure they give us! some men say nah!! yeah right! but if a woman give me the coochie in less than a month( notice how the woman is only responsible....LOL) im cool!! you did this before! and you didnt require a condom.....wooooooo!!
jacksondarryl34 6 months ago
@styleobsolescence Women don't make babies alone. Where are the men that helped make these babies? Why are you only blaming the women?
Babygirl2986 1 month ago
@Babygirl2986 Right.
427skies 1 month ago
@Babygirl2986 True, women don't make babies alone, but with as many different forms of BIRTH CONTROL as there are FOR WOMEN, there's no reason why a woman should ever come up PREGNANT. Yes, men have CONDOMS, but condoms do BREAK, so why is it so hard for women to exercise a little COMMON SENSE and use BIRTH CONTROL? BIRTH CONTROL = NO CHILDREN out of WEDLOCK until you're READY. No BIRTH CONTROL means...well, you figure it out.
MAJESTY357 1 month ago
@MAJESTY357 Birth control is not always 100% effective either. It's so easy to blame the woman, but if men don't want to have babies they need to keep their privates to themselves. It's called abstinence. That's the best birth control out their.
Babygirl2986 1 month ago
@Babygirl2986 I don't see men keeping their privates to themselves anymore than you see women using abstaining from sex, and I know you don't either.
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zahara4r 1 year ago
DId anyone notice that the women tended to talk over the men? Cut the men off while they are talking? Did anyone notice that the men really did not do that to the women?
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AlexisSimcu 1 year ago
Black women are the bottom of the barrel. I don't see why any sensible man would want to marry such a species of monkey. The black woman is a booty-shaking babboon. They are no-longer women. They are masculine mutants with nappy heads with other guy's kids. Fuck dat !!!! Why would any single intelligent man be interested in these black hoes with their outta wed-locked children. FUCK BLACK WOMEN. I HOPE THEY PERISH FOR THEIR STUPIDITY..........THEY ARE UGLY, IGNORANT, STUPID, DUMB....etc
single4themoment 1 year ago
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fghfgjhghf 1 year ago
I love Hill Harper!!! Perfect husband material
coppersulphate002 1 year ago
@coppersulphate002 I agree!!!!
meishaj01 1 year ago
Omg, this discussion is so old. My solution to this is that I started dating outside of my race...white,asian, and hispanic men. As a soft spoken black young woman those seem to be the guys I have more in common with.
loveyankee2 1 year ago
@loveyankee2 i agree. i'm 18 and just till recently i've figured out that what i prefer is what i'll have to end up with anyway..
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yeah that is WRONG.... they do it everywhere in a lot of places.. The only word of advice I can give ya'll is to read the Bible and to find yourself a nice Bible preaching church that shows the love of God to everybody.
shieldsff 1 year ago
I must admit it use to hurt me to hear black women tear men down even if you never met them. I have come to realize that if you follow that God and you and plan then move nothing a black woman says can stop you. Amen Hotep
EandA23 1 year ago
@Whitebitchnigga, BLACK MEN! That's where black women get HIV from! So you black men take your cheap ass, your HIV infected ass, and go find Becky, Koon Young Kim, or Alla Al-Sheik and leave us black women alone! If all black women stop fucking with black men, within a decade HIV/AIDS in black women who go down 100%
purpleamythstone 1 year ago
@purpleamythstone Point one. You are racist. You are using stereotypical racial nicknames to refer to people of other nationalities. Point two. To assume that black men are infected with HIV/AIDS is just false. Point three. Women have to take responsibility of who they choose to have sex with and to use condoms. As far as the "down low brother," the statistics show that a large majority women do not "accidentally" choose a to be with homosexual men.
kingleoatgatech 1 year ago
@purpleamythstone If all black women would stop fucking or protect themselves then you wouldn't have those STDS and AIDS. Its your responsibility as well. When u goto church u don't suppose to read the bible just in church, u got that bible to read it whenever whereever but ppl choose to read it in the church and thats it.
mistanderson 1 year ago
good vid
FlowFrasier 1 year ago
Damn, Steve Harvey putting it down!! Speaking knowledge!!
goyneser1 1 year ago
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I WISH BLACK WOMEN DIDNT LOVE US BLACK MEN ARE WENT ESLE WERE. this how i see it,black women coem to black men with all their bagage and anger, and bitterness and daddy issues, and when they date white men or spanish or asian men, they treat them like KINGS.i am sick and tired of Black women i pray they left us black men alone.
MRbossman1982 1 year ago
It's amazing...Daywalker, whitebitchni**a, and few others--you watched this amazing special on Black women, Black men, and Black love--and you ain't learned a damn thing. The whole point of this show, to me at least, was that we need to sit down & talk to be each other w/ respect, try & understand each others needs, and despite the imperfectness- learn to love & appreciate each other as men and women. Essentially, learn "grown up" love. But I guess some of y'all still want the drama and BS.
nikkicoco78 1 year ago
Well, well, well....Looks as though the "BITTER BLACK BITCH MAFIA" has struck again! The real reason that you heffas can't find a decent man that wants to be around has to do with the fact that you ladies often fuck thugs, you chase after "BAD BOYS", have kids out of wedlock by them, and by the time you get into your 30s or 40s you want a man who looks like DENZEL WASHINGTON, has a 6 figure job, has a big dick, and a fucking spine extraction! It's no wonder you skanks can't attract mates!
Daywalker225xxxx 1 year ago 2
I sat here and read 2 other bitches post that BLACK MEN are: On CRACK, Killing each other, Homosexuals, and criminals that are constantly getting locked up, but I have never been arrested in my life, I am a Mechanical Engineer, I make excellent money, I have good credit, (THEY DON'T GIVE YOU AN AMEX BLACK CARD IF YOUR CREDIT ISN'T RIGHT, BITCHES!!) and I refuse to support a bitch and her little "MISTAKES"! Fuck dat! Get a trade and get a job, cause I ain't tha one! You bitches come on here with
Daywalker225xxxx 1 year ago
(Cont'd) your bullshit assed assumptions and unrealistic conjecture, but the fact of the matter is that you heffas aren't getting picked for the team! I mean I'll go in a little harder: You bitches LOOOVE to say that Black men ALWAYS get fat white women when they date interracially,(Personally, any white woman I've ever been with was a size 6 or a 9 at the largest) but I've found that the same men who'll date a fat white woman are the same ones that will date a fat black one. I'll even go on to
Daywalker225xxxx 1 year ago
(Cont'd) say that your argument is fucked up in itself! The reason why is that if BLACK WOMEN are so fucking great, why the hell would a brother "DOWNGRADE" and get a lesser woman when he could have the "BEST", as Black women often describe themselves? Does that defy logic? Well, here on planet Earth it does! And to be BRUTALLY honest, things are going to get a hell of a lot worse for Black women before it gets better, but this is the hole you bitches dug for yourselves, so jump in bitches!
Daywalker225xxxx 1 year ago
@Daywalker225xxxx yep if black women are so fucking great ,,,why are'nt other races of men stepping in to scoop them up.
whitebitchnigga 1 year ago
@whitebitchnigga: Wanna know why? Cause men of other races realize BULLSHIT WHEN THEY SEE IT. BLACK MEN HAVE HAD OVER 400 years worth of being subjugated, so they're used to being used as doormats, but my black ass ain't that one! I run my shit, not my woman, and if her ass wants to be with a progressive brother like me, she either recognizes that I'm the captain of my own ship, or their asses can WALK THE FUCKING PLANK! Sorry, but my tolerance for bullshit is too low for that.
Daywalker225xxxx 1 year ago
@whitebitchnigga ROFL....too bad the majority are ghetto sheboon black weave wearing tramps like your mother. However, white men get the FEW black females that are attractive....no lie about that. Last time i checked, white men and black women couples were the fastest steadily couples rising ROFL XD
caramelprincessxxx41 1 year ago
(Cont'd) say that your whole argument is bullshit! A lot of BLACK women like to refer to themselves as the absolute "BEST" women on the planet, and to a certain extent, some actually are, but here's where their argument fails. If you heffas are the BEST, Why would a black man choose to "DOWNGRADE" when his options include "THE ABSOLUTE BEST" women on the damn planet? Wanna know why? Here's a theory: Maybe it has a lot to do with the fact you heffas are OVERWEIGHT, ATTITUDINAL, HAVE TOO MANY KIDS
Daywalker225xxxx 1 year ago
(CONT'D) OUT OF WEDLOCK, THEY HAVE TOO MANY STDS, THEY ABSOLUTELY REFUSE TO ACCEPT CONSTRUCTIVE CRITICISM, THEY REFUSE TO MAKE THEIR PARTNERS WEAR CONDOMS TO PREVENT THE SPREAD OF DISEASES AND PREVENT UNWANTED PREGNANCIES, THEY WEAR RIDICULOUS WEAVES, AND LASTLY, THEY HAVE TOO MANY SEXUAL HANGUPS ON AVERAGE. THAT'S MY THEORY, and I'm sure that I'm not the only black man who feels that way.
Daywalker225xxxx 1 year ago
@Daywalker225xxxx Wow you are a decent man. Why do you refer to women as Bitch and Heffas. How can anyone with self respect and common sense value your arguement.
SimplyAdiva 1 year ago
@SimplyAdiva:What difference does it make as far as the terminology that I use to refer to these women?? The end result is that they won't refrain from screwing thugs and bringing illegitimate children into the world and blaming "AIN'T SHIT" brothers that they themselves chose to get spreadeagled for...And fear no doubt, If the federal government made DNA testing mandatory for ALL children born in AMERICA, I'm sure that more than just a few women would be exposed for the sluts that they are....
Daywalker225xxxx 1 year ago
@SimplyAdiva: Care to discuss that???
Daywalker225xxxx 1 year ago
@Daywalker225xxxx All black woman screw thugs is your arugement and have illegitimate children. So you genaralize and categoize us bitches when you clearly have not dated all of us. Spoken by a weak man.
SimplyAdiva 1 year ago
@SimplyAdiva: NO, That is NOT my argument. MY ARGUMENT is that a MAJORITY of BLACK women do that and complain thet there are no good BLACK MEN. My stand is that those "NO GOOD BLACK MEN" who happen to be THUg don't suffer any repercussions as a result of their being thugs!! Case in point: They get women due to their "SWAG" and BLACK women choose them over more stable and suitable men.
Daywalker225xxxx 1 year ago
@SimplyAdiva: And as I stated before that if you aren't a bitch, then what I said shouldn't offend you, but in my travels, if you throw a rock into a pack of dogs, the one you hit will yelp the loudest, so with that being said, I'm sure that some of what I said must have struck a nerve. Otherwise, why do you care??? Don't tell on yourself, now...
Daywalker225xxxx 1 year ago
@Daywalker225xxxx lol you are ignorant which I find amazing you still choose to debate. It is sad you want to be respected as a black man . Yet look at how you address black women in your community as bitches. God fobid if we give you attitude we are now tainted respect us and maybe you will get respect in return. I care because you are lost which is sad my brother work on the issues within yourself and then you will attract quality women REGARDLESS of race.
SimplyAdiva 1 year ago
@SimplyAdiva I have traveled the world in military and never ran across many black women you describe. I see good and bad in every color. You did hit a nerve because you have not grown pass the negative stereotypes . Take your place as a Strong educated informed MAN and become part of the solution. Yes the African American community is in desperate need of help but tearing black woman down is not the answer .
SimplyAdiva 1 year ago
Maybe you need to change the circle of people you surround yourself with. I have many friends that have good menand friends who desire a good man. I have never heard them say there is no good men regardless of race. So again all theses women you claim are ghetto living off system maybe you need to remove yourself from ghetto and expand your social network and then you won't keep running into the same women.
SimplyAdiva 1 year ago
@SimplyAdiva: Ha ha ha!!! I'm "IGNORANT??" Well The 2 Degrees I have on my wall would tend to say otherwise, sweetheart...I could care less if you "RESPECT" me as a BLACK man, because it's obvoius that you and plenty of other BLACK women already disrespect not only me, but any brother that would be honest enough to admit that ALL BLACK women are not IDEAL mates.
Daywalker225xxxx 1 year ago
@SimplyAdiva: I'll further add that RESPECT begets respect, and the mere fact that I often get lumped into the same category as BLACK MEN who don't work, have multiple children out of wedlock, have prison records and "RAP SHEETS" with multiple pages, or little to no education are considered just as desirable as I am!!
Daywalker225xxxx 1 year ago
@SimplyAdiva:That's not only "DISRESPECTFUL", it is a travesty in my opinion!! For the record, if I feel as though a woman is a "BITCH", it is my god given right to call her as I see fit, and although ALL BLACK WOMEN don't necessarily give me attitude, more than enough do to make me feel as though I'd prefer not to be bothered with the majority of them as opposed to dealing with a woman who can respect my accomplishments and want me for me.
Daywalker225xxxx 1 year ago
@SimplyAdiva: I am not "LOST", nor have I ever been, I am man enough to be able to think and decide things for myself, and what I've decided is that it is far easier to deal with friendly, open and good natured women as opposed to attitudinal, bitter and pessimistic women, but again, "MY CHOICE"!!! And the only "ISSUES" I deal with are BLACK WOMEN who take offense at my obvious choices in women and my overall decision to come home to a peaceful and happy home.
Daywalker225xxxx 1 year ago
@SimplyAdiva: As opposed to one in which I'll have to argue and fight after a long hard day's work...As far as attracting women, I've never had any issue attracting women in my life, and I don't think I'll be having any anytime soon REGARDLESS of race, but I do respect your giving your "OPINION" even though it was neither required nor desired...I do hope you feel better about yourself as a result of doing so, but I can honestly say that you've neither changed my nor anyone else's opinions...
Daywalker225xxxx 1 year ago
@Daywalker225xxxx I don't know man......you have a lot of opinions, but you come across as bitter more than anything else.....just let it go......life is too short!
eracism09 1 year ago
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Daywalker225xxxx 1 year ago
nothing is going to change as long as the Black women comfortable being a hoe ... the 5 core states to a relationship are virgin, wife, divorced, widow and hoe. Which state are you in black women ???
NoticeOfDefault 1 year ago
I don't mean to be hard on sisters. How ignorant of me. "Ghetto" is what I hate and it comes in every race. All sisters aren't like that. Environment, situations, and conditions mold people. Overall, each race will be different because of these differences in which they were exposed.
DeeStinger1 1 year ago
@vford43During the 60's,70's,80'sBlack American women were given a choice: welfare/free housing/food stamps OR a husband. They chose handouts. Then went about to increase those benefits by bedding a thug that would breed and abandoned them. That became a trend that produced gangs, thugs, losers etc. Anyone disagree
lemmieatit 1 year ago 2
I met this fine sista oneday....i went to talk to her, first I said "excuse me" trying to sound proper and respectful, instead of me saying hey shorty....what's good, but she give me this look and pretending like she's ignoring me, Now me as men I felt rejected by my black sister, that's why it's a little bit hard for me to talk to black women nowadays, but I still love them though.....but time's running out sista's, i'm still 55% in love towards black women
RubisMambweni 1 year ago
@RubisMambweni Go try that same method with a white woman and see yourself spend a day in jail. Lol!!!
1985journal 1 year ago
@1985journal i've tried .....at least they talk to you and tell you they in relationship already.........i'm not against my black sistas........I love my sistas....they just need to change their funky ass attitude...........it's a turn off nowadays
RubisMambweni 1 year ago
@RubisMambweni to talk to a black woman you have to say "a whats up bitch" she will be like "excuse me" thats when you say "I'm just playing let me get your number" by addressing her like that it gets her attention rather then "oh hey lady you look nice may I have your number" she's just going to lie and say she has a man but when you say the word "bitch" calling her by her real name she's going to laugh it off "oh here sweetie heres my #" is what she's going to say
1985journal 1 year ago
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1985journal 1 year ago
@RubisMambweni now try talking like that to a white women and see how many years you get then!!! Huh???
1985journal 1 year ago
to talk to a black woman you have to say "a whats up bitch" she will be like "excuse me" thats when you say "I'm just playing let me get your number" by addressing her like that it gets her attention rather then "oh hey lady you look nice may I have your number" she's just going to lie and say she has a man but when you say the word "bitch" calling her by her real name she's going to laugh it off "oh here sweetie heres my #" is what she's going to say
Washanen07 1 year ago
@Washanen07 okay let me try, "Whats up bitch, let me get at that number
1985journal 1 year ago
@RubisMambweni By the look on your picture on your channel you look like bogga bear, you scared the poor sista, with your ugly ass.
vford43 1 year ago 2
@vford43 thank you
RubisMambweni 1 year ago
In the 50 states and the District of Columbia, adult and adolescent AIDS cases totaled 35,934 with 26,355 cases in males and 9,579 cases in females, and 28 cases estimated in children under age 13 years.
1985journal 1 year ago
@1985journal
93% of statistics are made up right on the spot.
that was easy!
themack411 1 year ago
@themack411 Prove your statistics.
1985journal 1 year ago
BW need to make adult like decisions when choosing a mate. Lauren Hill whom I once considered intelligent selected a "player". Look who she chose to marry and have children with: One of the trustfund, flunky illigitimate Marley children. And she lost her mind grieving over that fool. They all do as their dad did;have children all over the place
lemmieatit 1 year ago
to many standard's
bonyos16 1 year ago
Maybe their heads are inflated. Can't tell em shit. Combative. Unreasonable. Thank she's "better" and above black men. Wants to wear the draws and put the panties on the man. Sisters run "Good Men" away these days. Wanna TAKE and won't atleast meet a brother half way. The fake hair eyes and nails, and Attitude. Being successful don't mean she has class. Go get you a white man. Straight out the gate you treat him much better anyway.
DeeStinger1 1 year ago
@DeeStinger1 what they should have done is brought that White, Asian or Latin women on the show to explain to these heffas how to keep a man. Cause they'll listen to that white or Asain women before they listen to a black man. Hell if I take her corn rolls out
TheNewUSB 1 year ago
@TheNewUSB Could Elin Nordengren keep a man, what about Kimmora Simmons, or Sandra Bullock, or Jennifer Lopez who has been in more messed up relationships than either one of these women. Remember that no woman can tell another woman how to treat her man, you would not want another man telling your woman how to treat you. DA!!!
1985journal 1 year ago
@DeeStinger1 Seems like you had your share of bad women. That is what you get. Some man somewhere is saying the same thing about your mother.
1985journal 1 year ago
@1985journal I did have my share and they were all black. Sisters ain't gave me nothing but the blues. Took my kindness for weakness and tried to PLAY a brother. "Thats what I get". Huh. I got what I deserve. A beautiful white/latino woman totally opposite from the sisters of my past. I'm done. I'm prejudiced now. Finding a good sister is like finding a diamond in the ruff.
DeeStinger1 1 year ago
@DeeStinger1 You can have your diamond when you stop blaming good sisters( I am a very good one) for your discrimination and bad experiences. I did not want to go here but have you tried God, ask him to change the way you look at women because when that white, asian or latino woman hurt your feelings, who are you going to blame then? The culture of the woman does not change the heart of the woman.
1985journal 1 year ago
@DeeStinger1You need to look to a better woman not just any kind of woman. Maybe it is you not knowing what you want out of a woman. But remember what I said the color nor culture changes the heart of a woman, latino, white or black. That just fact! I am so sorry black women (as if all of us) have hurt your feelings. Obviously, if you are as kind as you say you are then they just missed out.
1985journal 1 year ago
@DeeStinger1 Do not ever disrespect or mistake a good black woman for the women who have corrupted your past because we do not need that either. All I am saying is do not give up on us because we need you.
1985journal 1 year ago
@DeeStinger1
You're damn right about that. I only deal with hispanic women nowadays. Hell, for every "good" wholesome black woman, there's ten hispanic women who meet the same qualities. I'm tired of that stuck up, snotty nosed black woman.
absalom0412 1 year ago
@DeeStinger1 What I find so hard to grasp is a few man black women dissapointed you to generalize the whole race . You have NOT dated all of us to base your arguement on that. So sad.
SimplyAdiva 1 year ago
@SimplyAdiva Whats sad is I've reached the conclusion that no woman is worth the trouble regardless of race. I don't want anyone so emotionally tied to me that they have the right to confront and argue. If I ever get out of my current relationship, I'd stay single and serve the Lord. Before my life changed I always said man is better off just getting an escort from time to time. Pay her and go home alone and happy. We're paying out of our butts anyway. For What? Chains?
DeeStinger1 1 year ago
vford43 keeps talking about black women being single b/c they settle for less hum if you settle for less that means your insecure about yourself and you know you don't deserve somebody who will treat you right the real reason bw are single is b/c of weaves attitudes lack of respect for a bm loud rude be head bobbin n lip smackin n neck rollin doing just what there massa wants them to do but bw your still a FUCKING NIGGER to wm
Washanen07 1 year ago
I can see that being true for us guys and then we start rushing to find somebody. Hill Harper hit it right on the head.
statsmusic 1 year ago
@statsmusic thats why hill harper was single for a long time.
1985journal 1 year ago
@1985journal how do you no hill harper was single for a longtime? thats right you don't
statsmusic 1 year ago